Hope the jesus shoes work out in the future, overall funny ass video. That background music tho 😂
@QU141.4 күн бұрын
im in 11th grade too and have no friends, it aint that big of a deal lmao
@boohoo421894 күн бұрын
nah the beef and cheese arby’s sandwich is so good, i feel like it’s just become a thing to hate them as a trend 😭. they fr have some good sides too
@ateeras_lens4 күн бұрын
imma take your word for it being good. i don’t think i could ever be that interested to actually try it 😭
@michaelcedeno3916 күн бұрын
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@serena-lx7cm8 күн бұрын
im so jealous lol i got compared to ed sheeran
@THATGUYJXSH10 күн бұрын
I told myself in 8th grade that Freshman year would be my fresh start but little did I know that I would have no friends, have social anxiety, and basically build up a reputation that I’m a quiet loner who never talks. I went through my first year of high school with no friends and now I have the worse social anxiety ever. Even though there’s 3 more years, I can’t really see a future where I’d make a friend when pretty much everyone in my grade has seen that I’m secluded and quiet.
@kayoari36643 күн бұрын
I can relate to your story so much I told myself that 9th grade was gonna be a fresh start for me I was going to a new high school I was gonna make a lot of new friends and join clubs but instead I didn’t the opposite of all of that and now I’m wishing I could go to a different school because my plans at that school didn’t work out
@Nonxistent_J3 күн бұрын
Oh my god I relate to this so much. I’m going to the 11th grade and still haven’t made any friends since I started HS. I told myself in 8th grade that I was gonna be a totally different person when I start HS but instead my social anxiety got worse each year since it started with this year being the worst. I honestly don’t know what I’m gonna do with myself if I don’t make friends next year. Like I genuinely feel like 11th grade will be my last “attempt” to make a friend because once I get to 12th grade, that’s it.
@qwertyzxcvb485611 күн бұрын
watch this video 5-10 years from now when you apply your books to real life and remember you didn't initiate a conversarion with someone because you were afraid of being ostracized....make a video and tell us how it goes...
@kietalksalot11 күн бұрын
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@froppymellow908518 күн бұрын
(☆ □ ☆ ) Tokio Hotel
@GlitterDiva130518 күн бұрын
OMG UR NEIGHBOR TRIED KILLIN U? BIHHHH U GOTTA SUE
@aninaelp19 күн бұрын
even if you speak nonesense, id listen fr 😭😭
@kietalksalot19 күн бұрын
Plsssss 😭
@Jennye06218 күн бұрын
U look so much like Taylor Russel and I just watched bones and all last night, traumatized
@shadysquid18 күн бұрын
real
@paraskharkwal22619 күн бұрын
Oh girl. This continued for me during my whole college and o litreally made 0 proper friends. i just hope i do a bit better going forward
@aacielz26 күн бұрын
I was alone since middle school, fortunately found a friend group but in all honesty I don't even like them, I just have to hang out with them because ion have anyone else. People in my school fucking SUCK and I hate how you're forced to just make friends in HS otherwise you're looked at as an outcast and people comment about you and pity you.
@tutacatАй бұрын
Humans have evolved loneliness, because in hunter gatherer societies, you couldn't survive very well without a community. It's measured that people have an average of about 2-4 main / most important friends, also due to statistics, there are some people that are part of several friend groups so they people end up with more friends closer. Reading is very much helpful to the brain, and just a fun thing to do. The internet automatically reduces your attention span because there are too many things you can access easily. Also seeing lots of opinions, but you only see their opinion on one thing, not knowing what you have in common, your brain doesn't relate to them, and divides opinion.
@hoodedhighschoolerАй бұрын
im in ninth grade and im in a progressive diverse k-12 school that is super into inclusion and i almost never had any friends. in lower school i. would play tetherball alone,the covid hit and i got depression, didnt do any schoolwork, in 7th grade i had distant lunch friends for a year and a half, with depression in 7th grade and crying everyday during lunch instead of eating, then the friends left me in the dark, now im in ninth grade, in the fall i tried to eat with the sweat girls, in nov i started doing hw during lunch, in jan i started eating lunch in the side stairwell alone watching movies on my computer. i started fall behind on hw, in march i got my phone taken away permanently, but i still watch movies on my computer. late April i relapsed into cutting. being alone is harder than it looks, and no i cant just ‘join clubs’. 🙄 my sister has always had friends so i know the difference
@xxxgggachas2675Ай бұрын
Free Palestine 🇵🇸🍉🍉
@rubex8954Ай бұрын
I come for the unhingedness and u neva disappoint 👏
@rubex8954Ай бұрын
It’s refreshing to hear about an experience that’s so scarily similar to mines. Love this and love ya too sis
@Soongie_Doongie_DoriАй бұрын
GIRL! ur vibes are js on top. u honestly seem like such a fun person!!! <333 rlly interesting vid btw. luv ur content!
@kietalksalotАй бұрын
omgggg thankssss ♥️♥️♥️
@JamelliiАй бұрын
advice from a junior: most friend groups will always fail. I've been there in 6th grade but all you gotta do is really find that one person you vibe with and that outweighs any 7 person group chat. Dont change up who you are to impress others. And don't fall into the trap of substrances and if you find that group don't ever abandon them
@EllaPlayzxxАй бұрын
Pin?im firstttt and I subbed❤❤❤
@buttercups616dАй бұрын
Join a club. One thing i wish i did in highschool was join a club that interests you and socialize
@wrldreemАй бұрын
okayyy miss gurl
@janeanedotwriter8406Ай бұрын
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@sadcoffee1440Ай бұрын
OH ATE
@kietalksalotАй бұрын
thanks youuuu 🙏🏽
@rosewurkzАй бұрын
Sending you big hugs.. I wish everyone in this comment section could just casually meet up.. instead of being alone in our little corner of the 🌎, GOD BLESS YOU 🙏💕
@purpleviolet20582 ай бұрын
💜
@shawnclement33652 ай бұрын
I had no friends from middle school through college. It is tough, but it ensures there are no distractions from your education and by being suspicious of peoples motives will protect you from being used.
@gamegamer95232 ай бұрын
Are you confident with talking to people?
@shawnclement33652 ай бұрын
@@gamegamer9523 Its work, but with practice and knowledge about the topic being discussed it is easier. I forced myself to management and yes there are moments when things are harder, I am not saying things will be easy.
@louisesmith60942 ай бұрын
It's good to make friend in secondary/high school as you can develop social skills that way, but something I would say is that after high school, whether you go to university/college or start working, unless you decide to maintain regular contact with your high school friends, you will likely become very distanced from them over time, as you move onto other stages of life and other people (I know this from personal experience). Focus on school, but talk to people, and don't beat yourself up over anything. I hope you have a lovely day, and I wish you much success in whatever you decide to do!
@sleepx36512 ай бұрын
You are a very smart girl and even after what you’ve been through you’re still optimistic. Be proud that you’re using your time productively rather than turning to abusive substances. I promise your habits will pay off extremely well in the future.
@lamyenz61502 ай бұрын
U seem like the type of person that I would definitely vibe with though:(. Sadly i can't find anyone out of the 60+ students that i take classes with that are like want to talk or message me after school or stuff like that. I find it so funny that sometime you find posts on social media where people tell their story on their experience of having no friends and i find them to be the most lovely and funny person i have ever met?? like how could u not have any friends:((?? How could I ever meet someone like you?
@idunno54422 ай бұрын
My new fav youtuber
@egggoddess2 ай бұрын
your videos are awesome
@kietalksalot2 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@polkovnikstephen51762 ай бұрын
All my friends were class of 23, im class of 24 been eating lunch alone all year and yk a couple people you know here and there but mostly lonely asf. Going from being on wrestling and football team and having friends, to completely lonely my senior year really gave me a new perspective
@abc123lov72 ай бұрын
focus on classes and maybe join a sport or club... After HS is where REAL life starts. Also you wont really see the people you went to class with cause everyone takes different paths in life.
@peanutfrogy90872 ай бұрын
I wish I had friends but I’m too shy to talk to anyone
@gamegamer95232 ай бұрын
I have been in your situation and my advice is that blame yourself take responsibility and take action.
@gamegamer95232 ай бұрын
Put yourself out there.
@Kem1sk9 күн бұрын
@@gamegamer9523 but thats hard
@serena-lx7cm2 ай бұрын
Heyyy I’m an og fan 😍😍new acc
@GlitterDiva13052 ай бұрын
bed rotting w mozzerlla sticks
@K3ndi_3 ай бұрын
This was hella funny 😭
@K3ndi_3 ай бұрын
Love the channel ❤
@shadecat52333 ай бұрын
this was insightful :D
@Pbatemanfan3 ай бұрын
Your vids are so addicting and your so underrated 😭
@haybail76183 ай бұрын
<1000 subs young creators is such a vibe. I really enjoy your videos, please keep it up !
@sheesh1613 ай бұрын
Pookie bear, is you cute or is you gorgeous? 😻
@gorditacherry3 ай бұрын
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@serena-lx7cm3 ай бұрын
i want to reduce it but its so hard
@DefeatedMelon3 ай бұрын
I've only had 1 true friend since 5th grade and we are tight together although we were seperated for a to of years with no contact until Freshman. In Sophmore, I felt the pain of loneliness. I didn't get how people even socialize or like each other. I basically don't get why people are even friends or are even friendly to eachother. Being a weird kid or just fully silent kid in Freshman and Sophmore didn't make it no more better. Now, it sounds contradicting to my friend, and it is, but I truly did not know how they can feel that bond or even build it. I didn't feel like people were staring at me, I felt like they were ignoring me instead. I am also a Junior now and I am training myself to not care what others even think anymore. Drawing alot was therapeutic to me and writing stories as well thougbI am not very good at writing itself cus I don't read much books to expand my vocab. I did make a connection in Sophmore, however I was more of a mentor instead of a friend. I saw some kid being taken advantage of in world history. People were trying to make him embarass himself and manipulating him a lot. I told him the truth about the situation, he was in denial for a short while, we grew a kinda stronger connection through 8tb period, he started to trust me and started to ignore them following my advice. They stopped. (I was treated the same through out all my time in school, from Elementary till Freshman, I realized about what those people were doing to me in Freshman so I just wanted to stop at that point, I don't want to be your "friend" anymore if you even regarded me like that. Don't manipulate me to embarass me, don't pick on me again.)
@DefeatedMelon3 ай бұрын
Additionally, I felt so alone that I planned on creating this organization around school where people essentially sell candy and that stuff with my only friend. I wanted to do this just because I want to get noticed. I didn't do that, I was however do close to it and it took years to fully plan out the structure of it and plan when to execute. Now, I made it a little story aswell where I self-inserted myself into it (I also have flaws in the story like being egotistical and such) instead of trying to turn it into a real thing. I am not the guy for that. I am not that guy. Yeah, I am very weird weird.
@rat37963 ай бұрын
right now i'm in 3rd year in technical school, 2 more left to finish. going into first year i had some close friends from middle school, but as time went on we stopped talking. in my first year i made some friends and even became a part of a group that consisted of 4 people + me. our connection was literally based on being lgbtq etc etc, not a good thing to base friendships on. in my second year i became more miserable with them [note: before technical school i was a normal girl, my ex friends from middle school manipulated me into thinking that i was not attracted to anyone and thinking that i have no gender. so i was pretty miserable even before them.] hating myself and neglecting my family, my needs and my duties. on the summer break before third year i isolated myself a bit more from them and began spending more time with my family, notably with my cousins. we went on holidays together and my cousin even began taking me to martial art classes which i go to till today:) one day i wanted to talk with one person [i sat with him at a school desk all 2nd year] from my friend group about that my views have changed and are mostly opposing to what their whole group believes in. to my suprise he also agreed with me, but well, to this day he hangs out with them. and comes the start of third year - i notice he starts to distance himself from me, so i begin to slowly shift away from them as a whole. today i find myself in a somewhat comfortable position for me - 1. thanks to my cousin, i have found my closest family in the people who i train martial arts with, 2. i am in a better place mentally compared to my recent years when i hang out with these groups of friends, 3. i have taken better care of myself although all of this happened, i still hold respect for these people because at the end of the day, they are still human beings inside. i'm quite content with how things have played out, but having no one to talk to on the corridors in school or between lessons is really tiring mentally, especially since i sit alone. but well, a kindest thing a person can do for themselves is to let people go when they want to go:) i do miss some moments of our friendship, but not the feelings that accompany these memories. i really doubt that someone will read all of this, but to anyone who does - even if things are not looking good, have hope, appreciate every moment, before they turn into memories. ranting on a random youtube comment section at 9 pm combined with tomorrow having a math exam is really something i wouldn't have thought of
@gorditacherry3 ай бұрын
I watch KZread and go about my business😅
@okkelly62073 ай бұрын
it also hard having lots of friends cuz rumours get spread abt u and stuff
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Hope the jesus shoes work out in the future, overall funny ass video. That background music tho 😂
im in 11th grade too and have no friends, it aint that big of a deal lmao
nah the beef and cheese arby’s sandwich is so good, i feel like it’s just become a thing to hate them as a trend 😭. they fr have some good sides too
imma take your word for it being good. i don’t think i could ever be that interested to actually try it 😭
❤
im so jealous lol i got compared to ed sheeran
I told myself in 8th grade that Freshman year would be my fresh start but little did I know that I would have no friends, have social anxiety, and basically build up a reputation that I’m a quiet loner who never talks. I went through my first year of high school with no friends and now I have the worse social anxiety ever. Even though there’s 3 more years, I can’t really see a future where I’d make a friend when pretty much everyone in my grade has seen that I’m secluded and quiet.
I can relate to your story so much I told myself that 9th grade was gonna be a fresh start for me I was going to a new high school I was gonna make a lot of new friends and join clubs but instead I didn’t the opposite of all of that and now I’m wishing I could go to a different school because my plans at that school didn’t work out
Oh my god I relate to this so much. I’m going to the 11th grade and still haven’t made any friends since I started HS. I told myself in 8th grade that I was gonna be a totally different person when I start HS but instead my social anxiety got worse each year since it started with this year being the worst. I honestly don’t know what I’m gonna do with myself if I don’t make friends next year. Like I genuinely feel like 11th grade will be my last “attempt” to make a friend because once I get to 12th grade, that’s it.
watch this video 5-10 years from now when you apply your books to real life and remember you didn't initiate a conversarion with someone because you were afraid of being ostracized....make a video and tell us how it goes...
?
(☆ □ ☆ ) Tokio Hotel
OMG UR NEIGHBOR TRIED KILLIN U? BIHHHH U GOTTA SUE
even if you speak nonesense, id listen fr 😭😭
Plsssss 😭
U look so much like Taylor Russel and I just watched bones and all last night, traumatized
real
Oh girl. This continued for me during my whole college and o litreally made 0 proper friends. i just hope i do a bit better going forward
I was alone since middle school, fortunately found a friend group but in all honesty I don't even like them, I just have to hang out with them because ion have anyone else. People in my school fucking SUCK and I hate how you're forced to just make friends in HS otherwise you're looked at as an outcast and people comment about you and pity you.
Humans have evolved loneliness, because in hunter gatherer societies, you couldn't survive very well without a community. It's measured that people have an average of about 2-4 main / most important friends, also due to statistics, there are some people that are part of several friend groups so they people end up with more friends closer. Reading is very much helpful to the brain, and just a fun thing to do. The internet automatically reduces your attention span because there are too many things you can access easily. Also seeing lots of opinions, but you only see their opinion on one thing, not knowing what you have in common, your brain doesn't relate to them, and divides opinion.
im in ninth grade and im in a progressive diverse k-12 school that is super into inclusion and i almost never had any friends. in lower school i. would play tetherball alone,the covid hit and i got depression, didnt do any schoolwork, in 7th grade i had distant lunch friends for a year and a half, with depression in 7th grade and crying everyday during lunch instead of eating, then the friends left me in the dark, now im in ninth grade, in the fall i tried to eat with the sweat girls, in nov i started doing hw during lunch, in jan i started eating lunch in the side stairwell alone watching movies on my computer. i started fall behind on hw, in march i got my phone taken away permanently, but i still watch movies on my computer. late April i relapsed into cutting. being alone is harder than it looks, and no i cant just ‘join clubs’. 🙄 my sister has always had friends so i know the difference
Free Palestine 🇵🇸🍉🍉
I come for the unhingedness and u neva disappoint 👏
It’s refreshing to hear about an experience that’s so scarily similar to mines. Love this and love ya too sis
GIRL! ur vibes are js on top. u honestly seem like such a fun person!!! <333 rlly interesting vid btw. luv ur content!
omgggg thankssss ♥️♥️♥️
advice from a junior: most friend groups will always fail. I've been there in 6th grade but all you gotta do is really find that one person you vibe with and that outweighs any 7 person group chat. Dont change up who you are to impress others. And don't fall into the trap of substrances and if you find that group don't ever abandon them
Pin?im firstttt and I subbed❤❤❤
Join a club. One thing i wish i did in highschool was join a club that interests you and socialize
okayyy miss gurl
❤❤
OH ATE
thanks youuuu 🙏🏽
Sending you big hugs.. I wish everyone in this comment section could just casually meet up.. instead of being alone in our little corner of the 🌎, GOD BLESS YOU 🙏💕
💜
I had no friends from middle school through college. It is tough, but it ensures there are no distractions from your education and by being suspicious of peoples motives will protect you from being used.
Are you confident with talking to people?
@@gamegamer9523 Its work, but with practice and knowledge about the topic being discussed it is easier. I forced myself to management and yes there are moments when things are harder, I am not saying things will be easy.
It's good to make friend in secondary/high school as you can develop social skills that way, but something I would say is that after high school, whether you go to university/college or start working, unless you decide to maintain regular contact with your high school friends, you will likely become very distanced from them over time, as you move onto other stages of life and other people (I know this from personal experience). Focus on school, but talk to people, and don't beat yourself up over anything. I hope you have a lovely day, and I wish you much success in whatever you decide to do!
You are a very smart girl and even after what you’ve been through you’re still optimistic. Be proud that you’re using your time productively rather than turning to abusive substances. I promise your habits will pay off extremely well in the future.
U seem like the type of person that I would definitely vibe with though:(. Sadly i can't find anyone out of the 60+ students that i take classes with that are like want to talk or message me after school or stuff like that. I find it so funny that sometime you find posts on social media where people tell their story on their experience of having no friends and i find them to be the most lovely and funny person i have ever met?? like how could u not have any friends:((?? How could I ever meet someone like you?
My new fav youtuber
your videos are awesome
Thanks!
All my friends were class of 23, im class of 24 been eating lunch alone all year and yk a couple people you know here and there but mostly lonely asf. Going from being on wrestling and football team and having friends, to completely lonely my senior year really gave me a new perspective
focus on classes and maybe join a sport or club... After HS is where REAL life starts. Also you wont really see the people you went to class with cause everyone takes different paths in life.
I wish I had friends but I’m too shy to talk to anyone
I have been in your situation and my advice is that blame yourself take responsibility and take action.
Put yourself out there.
@@gamegamer9523 but thats hard
Heyyy I’m an og fan 😍😍new acc
bed rotting w mozzerlla sticks
This was hella funny 😭
Love the channel ❤
this was insightful :D
Your vids are so addicting and your so underrated 😭
<1000 subs young creators is such a vibe. I really enjoy your videos, please keep it up !
Pookie bear, is you cute or is you gorgeous? 😻
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i want to reduce it but its so hard
I've only had 1 true friend since 5th grade and we are tight together although we were seperated for a to of years with no contact until Freshman. In Sophmore, I felt the pain of loneliness. I didn't get how people even socialize or like each other. I basically don't get why people are even friends or are even friendly to eachother. Being a weird kid or just fully silent kid in Freshman and Sophmore didn't make it no more better. Now, it sounds contradicting to my friend, and it is, but I truly did not know how they can feel that bond or even build it. I didn't feel like people were staring at me, I felt like they were ignoring me instead. I am also a Junior now and I am training myself to not care what others even think anymore. Drawing alot was therapeutic to me and writing stories as well thougbI am not very good at writing itself cus I don't read much books to expand my vocab. I did make a connection in Sophmore, however I was more of a mentor instead of a friend. I saw some kid being taken advantage of in world history. People were trying to make him embarass himself and manipulating him a lot. I told him the truth about the situation, he was in denial for a short while, we grew a kinda stronger connection through 8tb period, he started to trust me and started to ignore them following my advice. They stopped. (I was treated the same through out all my time in school, from Elementary till Freshman, I realized about what those people were doing to me in Freshman so I just wanted to stop at that point, I don't want to be your "friend" anymore if you even regarded me like that. Don't manipulate me to embarass me, don't pick on me again.)
Additionally, I felt so alone that I planned on creating this organization around school where people essentially sell candy and that stuff with my only friend. I wanted to do this just because I want to get noticed. I didn't do that, I was however do close to it and it took years to fully plan out the structure of it and plan when to execute. Now, I made it a little story aswell where I self-inserted myself into it (I also have flaws in the story like being egotistical and such) instead of trying to turn it into a real thing. I am not the guy for that. I am not that guy. Yeah, I am very weird weird.
right now i'm in 3rd year in technical school, 2 more left to finish. going into first year i had some close friends from middle school, but as time went on we stopped talking. in my first year i made some friends and even became a part of a group that consisted of 4 people + me. our connection was literally based on being lgbtq etc etc, not a good thing to base friendships on. in my second year i became more miserable with them [note: before technical school i was a normal girl, my ex friends from middle school manipulated me into thinking that i was not attracted to anyone and thinking that i have no gender. so i was pretty miserable even before them.] hating myself and neglecting my family, my needs and my duties. on the summer break before third year i isolated myself a bit more from them and began spending more time with my family, notably with my cousins. we went on holidays together and my cousin even began taking me to martial art classes which i go to till today:) one day i wanted to talk with one person [i sat with him at a school desk all 2nd year] from my friend group about that my views have changed and are mostly opposing to what their whole group believes in. to my suprise he also agreed with me, but well, to this day he hangs out with them. and comes the start of third year - i notice he starts to distance himself from me, so i begin to slowly shift away from them as a whole. today i find myself in a somewhat comfortable position for me - 1. thanks to my cousin, i have found my closest family in the people who i train martial arts with, 2. i am in a better place mentally compared to my recent years when i hang out with these groups of friends, 3. i have taken better care of myself although all of this happened, i still hold respect for these people because at the end of the day, they are still human beings inside. i'm quite content with how things have played out, but having no one to talk to on the corridors in school or between lessons is really tiring mentally, especially since i sit alone. but well, a kindest thing a person can do for themselves is to let people go when they want to go:) i do miss some moments of our friendship, but not the feelings that accompany these memories. i really doubt that someone will read all of this, but to anyone who does - even if things are not looking good, have hope, appreciate every moment, before they turn into memories. ranting on a random youtube comment section at 9 pm combined with tomorrow having a math exam is really something i wouldn't have thought of
I watch KZread and go about my business😅
it also hard having lots of friends cuz rumours get spread abt u and stuff