*Everytime I see these two I'm expecting them to pull out a bass guitar and a keyboard to play funk*
@hayleyavis57872 сағат бұрын
I literally just reported 12 accounts for the same girlfriend spam message yesterday on my damn SW account too 💀
@wesaidsomething2 сағат бұрын
Listening to the podcast on my phone then coming to the video afterwards is such a wild ride. I did not expect Brian to look like that lmaooo
@brookegranger91832 сағат бұрын
As someone who is queer and trans and poly as fuck it is really interesting listening to (atleast with Jarvis and Jorden) cishet monogamous ppl deconstruct their dating wants / needs. Definitely puts into perspective how unique the human experience of attraction is, and the different ways to love. :) Also wanna quickly say that being compared to a masc butch lesbian by someone in the queer community, it is indeed a compliment. it stems specifically from the feeling that butch masculinity has a lot of the positive traits of masculinity (feeling strong, being a protector, being a sturdy Individual for ppl to rely on, being comforting, being confident) without some of the upsetting traits of *toxic* masculinity. (I want to stress toxic, because there are indeed many forms of masculinity and most are fucking rad as hell) Basically, tldr; a quick way to say that you have the confidence of a cool person, and give off very comforting, safe vibes :)
@FhuoadRoaudle4 сағат бұрын
i watched the last episode please understand i’m kidding i cant believe i have to say this
@tabsterg5 сағат бұрын
more like _"im jorking"_ and _"ma peanits "_ amiright
@craeveyard8 сағат бұрын
Oh the thing about a compliment about your body making you self conscious is so very relatable. Personally for me a lot of the time, if I'm uncomfortable with my body, there isn't an easy super quick solution for that (whether it's me wanting to appear more confident, lose weight, find clothes that i feel better in, etc., that all takes some time and resources). So the solution in the moment is to not think about it. Which is easy when not looking at photos of myself or mirrors. So someone bringing attention to my body makes me remember.. oh yes, that does exist and is (potentially) constantly noticed by others when they're around me. Anyways, still working on feeling more confident, it's a process.
@win_jayden9 сағат бұрын
Hey boyz, I am later than most on commenting on this but this was a really healing pod for a guy who's had a ton of trouble over the years (and still do, actually) dating. It's entirely frustrating to exist in a world that feels so "surfacey". Being impossibly good looking is really the only way to attract people on dating apps. And truthfully, it has become exponentially difficult to meet someone outside of those apps. It's hard to be single in this economy of dating. I really want people to talk about that more (without it becoming a game of "how can I be better?"). I think, for the longest time, I thought I had to be "good enough" for a relationship. I had to change my weight, how I talked, what fucking media I consumed. I think that's a load of bullshit. There is no such thing as "good enough" for anything. Dating isn't a fucking meritocracy (even if people treat it that way). There's no level playing field. What one person loves about you, another hates you for it. It's all about finding people who want to be with you... plain and simple... Just know that once you show yourself to the world, it will happen (even if it hasn't happened to me yet oops). Y'all we'll get through this! Just don't listen to the internet too much, ok?!
@abovetherisingfalls137710 сағат бұрын
I skipped my therapy appointment this week but this episode helped so much ty, I’ll schedule my one for next week right now.
@nikkicarreon10 сағат бұрын
I love Madam Web, literally one of the funnest theater experiences I’ve had in a minute LMAO it’s so funny
@chelsuh61411 сағат бұрын
As someone who used to think she'd never date a boy if she wasn't skinny...to me now i feel, "why would I even WANT to date someone who isn't attracted to me?" I'm not broken and I dont need fixing ☯️:)
@h311dr1p12 сағат бұрын
hell yes anastasia…. i’ve had such a huge crush on damon albarn too since i was a teen and his messed up toothy smile definitely plays into that lol
@exacto013 сағат бұрын
jarvis, as a butch myself, it's a compliment! Just means you have drip, you know how to dress -- i think you look comfortable and figured out what works for you andwhat you feel like good or attractive in
@saintb-rnard13 сағат бұрын
for the masc lesbian thing, i think its definitely a compliment! usually when i think of masc lesbians i think of very intentional, purposeful masculinity that is like. uniquely expressed. idk. def a compliment tho. much love
@aj705813 сағат бұрын
Jordan is so onto something about having the answers. Cause like if you were breaking up with someone because theyre a shitty person youre probably gonna lie about that to not set them off!
@doublejoywilson13 сағат бұрын
i’m so glad i’m not the only one who makes friendship lists
@emilyantoinette306813 сағат бұрын
I get the exact same two sets of ads as Jarvis. It's so weird 😂
@aj705814 сағат бұрын
Anastasia's so class
@aj705814 сағат бұрын
Haha right before watching this i made a "Who do I know?" list in my notes
@exacto014 сағат бұрын
yall is chad chad "bisexual sitting" or is she cold and comfortable
@exacto014 сағат бұрын
i for a second thought chad chad's socks were her skin bc of the wide shot omg 😭😭😭
@kylesutton593314 сағат бұрын
As a fellow cishet man who’s been told he dresses like a lesbian (the exact word used was “cosplaying”) I empathize with Jarvis
@hanwinsolo14 сағат бұрын
being compared to a masc lesbian is the highest form of compliment babes you’re doing fine
@julba670415 сағат бұрын
im watching a months old sad boyz pod and crying even though my mum is alive and well wtf
@fishfoo16 сағат бұрын
jarvis trying to say the alphabet backwards and immediately saying zxy is the funniest thing
@gingiebread158416 сағат бұрын
Respectfully Jarvis you do give masc lesbian energy and that is a compliment from the gays <3
@skysnipe4716 сағат бұрын
Super late to this episode but loving the idea of swapping around characters of the actors the whole time. Avengers but its Tropic Thunder Robert Downey Jr., Scott Pilgrim Chris Evans, Furiosa Chris Hemsworth, etc.
@mushroomiez_17 сағат бұрын
at the cafe i used to work at the breakfast burrito was crumbled up quiche, black beans, sweet potatoes, cheese and salsa. like what the fuck. we used to get reviews all the time saying its the worst burrito they have ever had and they refused to change the recipe.
@avc79317 сағат бұрын
ZVG6GYavu Elon Musk aah name
@tickaten18 сағат бұрын
Chiitan followed me on twitter before her account got banned
@sapphaster18 сағат бұрын
solar heavy ads have not relented for WEEKS
@Hannah-en3yr18 сағат бұрын
I liked that they mentioned target, I'm in the parking lot of target! I was listening to this while shopping 😊
@extraneousnaz19 сағат бұрын
1:48:23 we all know they met in the ring, but will she be getting a ring at the the end of the match?
@alanarama19 сағат бұрын
"what is the motivation behind" of all the places I was ready for that to go I wasn't ready for "not having a beard" 😂
@donnaqueen987119 сағат бұрын
I’ve been married for five years now every time my husband compliments me I still blush and just try to avoid the conversation because it makes me anxious
@Eeppydeepy19 сағат бұрын
" man written by a woman" guy is so intense and aggressive he is not written by a woman
@Mylo832819 сағат бұрын
That’s not something I would call a stranger on the internet, and I’m sorry if it’s made you uncomfy cuz unsolicited comments about appearance are always weird but if it makes you feel better I think women saying a man looks like a masc lesbian means they find him approachable and not threatening while still having traditional masculine traits, just my take on it, I think it’s a good thing in a way lol
@SunShineMexico19 сағат бұрын
The moment the Boyz started talking about Glycine i was hoping that CitiesbyDiana was gonna be there and the fact she was shown was fantastic
@abigailjennings660220 сағат бұрын
my fiance left me recently and said that they “needed more” from a relationship. i felt like i gave them my everything and i’ve been trying to figure out what i wasn’t doing. maybe we just weren’t right for each other
@theturtlebro172120 сағат бұрын
1:11:31 what about guys that are girl hot
@delycan491220 сағат бұрын
Ayyyyy it's Demi
@hannahblumenstock401020 сағат бұрын
Jarvis saying people say he looks like a masc lesbian made me crack the fuck up in the gym that is not true but so fucking funny omg
@yalilitman84922 сағат бұрын
22:31 seals be like
@SaiHedghog22 сағат бұрын
Chiitan is great!! I've been following him for so long. He's legit just this crazy otter mascot that does the most random things. For a while he'd spin around a bat and get super dizzy and try to do some act while dizzy. He's anti advertising and is basically trying to replace the ads on Twitter !!
@SaiHedghog22 сағат бұрын
Basically he's not selling anything at all. Just pushing his own crazy antics forward instead of actual advertisements.
@toomanyopinions835322 сағат бұрын
Just videod myself 1:01:57 - I don’t think you can see my top teeth OR my bottom teeth? I believe I picked up this pattern back when I had braces as a kid, but I thought I had dropped all aspects of hiding my teeth other than smiling with my mouth closed. Apparently I didn’t and I still subconsciously hide my teeth.
@aronhiet320323 сағат бұрын
Jordan at 1:54:45 - that Jean Grey reference was spit take worthy. S2
@mondobelisk5018Күн бұрын
Ok so I once opened with “reminder that water exists.” Unsurprisingly, that didn’t work.
@oceantorrentsКүн бұрын
It does not matter what I am watching, the auto play is always "welcome to sad Boyz"
@murph64Күн бұрын
I am flabbergasted by the idea of asking a question and then getting mad that the person you asked looked it up to find out the answer 😭 like??? I’m definitely a habitual checker though, I Love looking into stuff and learning new things. I’d probably be halfway into googling dino pee myself before realizing the absurdity and roping you into my scientific inquiry
@sunny-zs4lmКүн бұрын
The logo is so cutesy it eill be good on merchandiese i am so excoted
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*Everytime I see these two I'm expecting them to pull out a bass guitar and a keyboard to play funk*
I literally just reported 12 accounts for the same girlfriend spam message yesterday on my damn SW account too 💀
Listening to the podcast on my phone then coming to the video afterwards is such a wild ride. I did not expect Brian to look like that lmaooo
As someone who is queer and trans and poly as fuck it is really interesting listening to (atleast with Jarvis and Jorden) cishet monogamous ppl deconstruct their dating wants / needs. Definitely puts into perspective how unique the human experience of attraction is, and the different ways to love. :) Also wanna quickly say that being compared to a masc butch lesbian by someone in the queer community, it is indeed a compliment. it stems specifically from the feeling that butch masculinity has a lot of the positive traits of masculinity (feeling strong, being a protector, being a sturdy Individual for ppl to rely on, being comforting, being confident) without some of the upsetting traits of *toxic* masculinity. (I want to stress toxic, because there are indeed many forms of masculinity and most are fucking rad as hell) Basically, tldr; a quick way to say that you have the confidence of a cool person, and give off very comforting, safe vibes :)
i watched the last episode please understand i’m kidding i cant believe i have to say this
more like _"im jorking"_ and _"ma peanits "_ amiright
Oh the thing about a compliment about your body making you self conscious is so very relatable. Personally for me a lot of the time, if I'm uncomfortable with my body, there isn't an easy super quick solution for that (whether it's me wanting to appear more confident, lose weight, find clothes that i feel better in, etc., that all takes some time and resources). So the solution in the moment is to not think about it. Which is easy when not looking at photos of myself or mirrors. So someone bringing attention to my body makes me remember.. oh yes, that does exist and is (potentially) constantly noticed by others when they're around me. Anyways, still working on feeling more confident, it's a process.
Hey boyz, I am later than most on commenting on this but this was a really healing pod for a guy who's had a ton of trouble over the years (and still do, actually) dating. It's entirely frustrating to exist in a world that feels so "surfacey". Being impossibly good looking is really the only way to attract people on dating apps. And truthfully, it has become exponentially difficult to meet someone outside of those apps. It's hard to be single in this economy of dating. I really want people to talk about that more (without it becoming a game of "how can I be better?"). I think, for the longest time, I thought I had to be "good enough" for a relationship. I had to change my weight, how I talked, what fucking media I consumed. I think that's a load of bullshit. There is no such thing as "good enough" for anything. Dating isn't a fucking meritocracy (even if people treat it that way). There's no level playing field. What one person loves about you, another hates you for it. It's all about finding people who want to be with you... plain and simple... Just know that once you show yourself to the world, it will happen (even if it hasn't happened to me yet oops). Y'all we'll get through this! Just don't listen to the internet too much, ok?!
I skipped my therapy appointment this week but this episode helped so much ty, I’ll schedule my one for next week right now.
I love Madam Web, literally one of the funnest theater experiences I’ve had in a minute LMAO it’s so funny
As someone who used to think she'd never date a boy if she wasn't skinny...to me now i feel, "why would I even WANT to date someone who isn't attracted to me?" I'm not broken and I dont need fixing ☯️:)
hell yes anastasia…. i’ve had such a huge crush on damon albarn too since i was a teen and his messed up toothy smile definitely plays into that lol
jarvis, as a butch myself, it's a compliment! Just means you have drip, you know how to dress -- i think you look comfortable and figured out what works for you andwhat you feel like good or attractive in
for the masc lesbian thing, i think its definitely a compliment! usually when i think of masc lesbians i think of very intentional, purposeful masculinity that is like. uniquely expressed. idk. def a compliment tho. much love
Jordan is so onto something about having the answers. Cause like if you were breaking up with someone because theyre a shitty person youre probably gonna lie about that to not set them off!
i’m so glad i’m not the only one who makes friendship lists
I get the exact same two sets of ads as Jarvis. It's so weird 😂
Anastasia's so class
Haha right before watching this i made a "Who do I know?" list in my notes
yall is chad chad "bisexual sitting" or is she cold and comfortable
i for a second thought chad chad's socks were her skin bc of the wide shot omg 😭😭😭
As a fellow cishet man who’s been told he dresses like a lesbian (the exact word used was “cosplaying”) I empathize with Jarvis
being compared to a masc lesbian is the highest form of compliment babes you’re doing fine
im watching a months old sad boyz pod and crying even though my mum is alive and well wtf
jarvis trying to say the alphabet backwards and immediately saying zxy is the funniest thing
Respectfully Jarvis you do give masc lesbian energy and that is a compliment from the gays <3
Super late to this episode but loving the idea of swapping around characters of the actors the whole time. Avengers but its Tropic Thunder Robert Downey Jr., Scott Pilgrim Chris Evans, Furiosa Chris Hemsworth, etc.
at the cafe i used to work at the breakfast burrito was crumbled up quiche, black beans, sweet potatoes, cheese and salsa. like what the fuck. we used to get reviews all the time saying its the worst burrito they have ever had and they refused to change the recipe.
ZVG6GYavu Elon Musk aah name
Chiitan followed me on twitter before her account got banned
solar heavy ads have not relented for WEEKS
I liked that they mentioned target, I'm in the parking lot of target! I was listening to this while shopping 😊
1:48:23 we all know they met in the ring, but will she be getting a ring at the the end of the match?
"what is the motivation behind" of all the places I was ready for that to go I wasn't ready for "not having a beard" 😂
I’ve been married for five years now every time my husband compliments me I still blush and just try to avoid the conversation because it makes me anxious
" man written by a woman" guy is so intense and aggressive he is not written by a woman
That’s not something I would call a stranger on the internet, and I’m sorry if it’s made you uncomfy cuz unsolicited comments about appearance are always weird but if it makes you feel better I think women saying a man looks like a masc lesbian means they find him approachable and not threatening while still having traditional masculine traits, just my take on it, I think it’s a good thing in a way lol
The moment the Boyz started talking about Glycine i was hoping that CitiesbyDiana was gonna be there and the fact she was shown was fantastic
my fiance left me recently and said that they “needed more” from a relationship. i felt like i gave them my everything and i’ve been trying to figure out what i wasn’t doing. maybe we just weren’t right for each other
1:11:31 what about guys that are girl hot
Ayyyyy it's Demi
Jarvis saying people say he looks like a masc lesbian made me crack the fuck up in the gym that is not true but so fucking funny omg
22:31 seals be like
Chiitan is great!! I've been following him for so long. He's legit just this crazy otter mascot that does the most random things. For a while he'd spin around a bat and get super dizzy and try to do some act while dizzy. He's anti advertising and is basically trying to replace the ads on Twitter !!
Basically he's not selling anything at all. Just pushing his own crazy antics forward instead of actual advertisements.
Just videod myself 1:01:57 - I don’t think you can see my top teeth OR my bottom teeth? I believe I picked up this pattern back when I had braces as a kid, but I thought I had dropped all aspects of hiding my teeth other than smiling with my mouth closed. Apparently I didn’t and I still subconsciously hide my teeth.
Jordan at 1:54:45 - that Jean Grey reference was spit take worthy. S2
Ok so I once opened with “reminder that water exists.” Unsurprisingly, that didn’t work.
It does not matter what I am watching, the auto play is always "welcome to sad Boyz"
I am flabbergasted by the idea of asking a question and then getting mad that the person you asked looked it up to find out the answer 😭 like??? I’m definitely a habitual checker though, I Love looking into stuff and learning new things. I’d probably be halfway into googling dino pee myself before realizing the absurdity and roping you into my scientific inquiry
The logo is so cutesy it eill be good on merchandiese i am so excoted