Join us, Sylvia Chan and Daniel Lim, as we embark on a no-holds barred journey! Dirty Messy Free is NOT your average tell-all podcast. It's an elevation to explore the muddy waters of an Asian career woman's messiest moments together with her life coach.
From confronting lies, divorce, fake friendships to the shocking surprises along the way, we dive into life’s toughest lessons from facing cancel culture head-on.
Strap in for episodes filled with raw emotion, startling honesty, and the kind of life advice you wish you had sooner. It's about getting dirty, embracing the mess, and emerging free - together.
Sylvia Chan's story is a testament to the fact that sometimes, the dirtiest paths lead to the most breathtaking views.
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I really love this episode. The council of emotions. I've learned alot from this episode. Thank you for sharing <3
Wow, Carmen is such a lovely person. So precious.
I don't like ryan. He gives off a negative vibe. I can sense it.
Sylvia is the best! always supporting u ! looking forward to more videos!
So now when i recall their divorce clip, where they both tell the world of their decision, her partner was SUCH A FAKE.
Wow, I really cannot imagine how you were held hostage with your finance and what is rightly yours! That's crazy! I'm just so happy you're in a better place now. That's really an eye opening conversation on addiction too.
Move on la, Silvia. Why keep harping on the past and still using your public divorce for content after so long
I don't know about the Saga. No sides taken. But! I do have a ex husband that sounds exactly the same. Dump him and I got better life now~
Pls la bloody nonsense this 2 person they are not life coach they are just a woman and a gay best friend talking. They are just validating each other’s wrong doing. Sylvia should really just STOP IT JUST GO LOW AND STAY AT THE BACK GROUND. Why she still need to come out and dig out all these nonsense again it’s getting boring and ridiculous. Confirm is this hideous gay blond that convinced her to do it just to boost his own following. WOW Sylvia wake up your idea this guys is 100% making use of u.
is it just me or the wayy they talk is damn dramatic and damn cringe pls
The presenter has terrible English, I feel my English standard dropping just listening to him
Jia you~
We will all grow through life together ❤️
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Sylvia you have to feel lucky and relieved that he is no longer there to kinda haunt you whereas haunt someone else that probably their frequency matches. So jiayou ❤ you have stand strong.
Thank you kind human ❤️
We all heard from Sylvia her side of the story, 2ish years on and she’s still stirring up her stories with Ryan, in my opinion, at phase value, what Sylvia describes Ryan makes HIM the bad guy, the villain of the story but do bear in mind the extend of respect Ryan has given her, by not commenting or ever spoke about anything(his toxic relationship and unhappy marriage with Sylvia) after the divorce, Ryan could also have his side of the story that painted Sylvia a bad picture but he rather not, he didn’t start a podcast and he def didn’t use this past marriage negativity as a source of income online, i would say the same thing about him if it was Ryan sitting on that couch today, just a thought ❤️🩹 Marriage is a two way street, both parties are wrong, both should learn from it instead of blaming and shaming the other party, we could only believe Half 50/50 of the story Slyvia said, reality sucks but that’s the way it is .
Love the chemistry between the two hosts!
We love you 😍
I still think the way she treated her employees was not right (Calling one of your employees fuck face, behaving in such an arrogant way during the zoom meeting). But for someone who has gone through what Sylvia has - cancelled, investigated by police, managing a company that tanked - she is very resilient. She has really bounced back stronger. Respect to her for that
So Ryan made a police report that Sylvia embezzled company funds? But he always said he still cares for her. I thought the NOC saga was a bunch of NOC talents saying on social media that Sylvia didn’t pay them and instead used company funds for herself (pay rent for her house and pay her brother even though he did no work at that time). I didn't know that Ryan filed a police report that she embezzled company funds. Didn’t Sylvia send Ryan a lawyer’s letter for starting Reno King too? Wow, I didn't know Grace made a police report for prostitution against Sylvia. I thought the story online at that time was that Grace's friends were sharing anonymously on Grace's behalf that she felt used by Sylvia. She slept with someone at a party, but then later on allegedly realised that Sylvia brought female talents with her to that party, with a prior arrangement with the guy that if he managed to get lucky with one of the girls, he would do distribution of Sylvia's start-up-in-the-works chilli brand for free in return. If that was true, I would categorise that as making use of a girlfriend (which is despicable), but I would not categorise that as prostituting one of your employees.
Wasn’t the allegations at the time was that she did not pay her staff? Use company funds to pay the rent of her house? Pay her brother a salary even though he didn’t work? Backdate her brother’s pay so he can get PR? So all these were not true?
i guess not? since police said so?
😮 wow, if so, shocked that people can fake these allegations and spread them all over the internet, and get everyone to hate on her. Hope Sylvia can address the above allegations in a future episode
Can’t tahan this ahgua
why the view get lesser n lesser.... i think need better content or bigger drama. why not get both side of the story, what they gain/learn from it and how to better manage toxic situation. invite the casts, the staffs, the 3rd parties(xmm) and the partner in crime to share. i think this channel need more subs n views.
please dont get all upset like previously. i looking at it from a CC pov. production of such content need to pay for crews & equipments so the account need to be balance . cannot be naive about where the money is going right. unless you guys got sponser lah.
Because the public only wants the tea. The tea was never really spilled and these 2 are really just not entertaining podcaster.
@@kelvinkwok5305 is not easy to run a channel . i hope all parties n viewers learn lesson from this. And hopefully this will be the end and both move on . stop milking from this drama. there bigger fish to catch.
I think internet can do a good job of listing the people who has accused her of embezzlement and "Prost." They had no issues saying they were lying, i see no problems in them being called out. Grace tan was the one who said she was pimped, if I am not wrong, please correct me if I am wrong
The ex husband made it like he lost so much through the divorce and had to start a new company. More like he passed on the shit
Wth every episode makes me cry.
Together ❤️
it's all our first time being human. let's keep doing better 🖤
Thank you for your loving message 💕
Who is this guy?
This is my fav episode yet. Love the energy both of you exude, and the insights from every episode is so nourishing for my soul. Can I also say I love how Sylvia seems to love life almost like she's addicted to living? 🥰
Glad you enjoy it! 😍
I don’t know you Sylvia, but i’ve been through something similar to you, a turning point of sorts. But definitely not of the same caliber as you, with the two serious cases. So my point is to say, i only know half of what you’ve been through, and i’m so, so, so fucking proud of you for making the choice to live on every day in the last 2 years and you’re inspiring me to go find my other moves, to dispel my monkey brain😌
Big hugs!!!
we are only seeing one side of the story of many angles with this... she continues to bring up the past when ryan has really moved on n dont discuss much of anything that im aware of(could be wrong)... either way theres many angles to make a bedroom... not just one angle makes a room just like one angle links the whole story together... cuz they are many sides to a story cant really believe anything cuz its all subjective... basically whom what how where... have no clue this is why ppl shouldnt side with either/or... u see this all the time in election years with politicians... they gather up ppl to gang up on the other to get what they want... its a political tactic thats pretty much the norm... not attacking sylvia or ryan but what u accuse of ryan of doing ur doing the same by voicing all these podcast to gain ppl on ur side with the masses against ryan... the way im viewing it its just politics anymore... i think the podcast be more well received if they wasnt no ryan involved at all... u guys could get the point across more without bringing someone into it.. or atleast not naming the individual thats basically gaslighting... hope my comment dont get deleted for being unbiased n honest
do you see Taylor Swift with her new album? not saying who is in the right or wrong in all these circumstances, because we can't ever know the truth. But the reason people can't move on from things is because they were hurt to the point of no return. Ryan walked away from the saga being the clear winner in the public's eyes. Whether you believe Sylvia or not, you can't expect someone who received mass public hatred to the extent she did to just go away, be silent and move on. You certainly wouldn't either if it happened to you.
The biggest power you have is walking away 🥳🥳🥳 this hit me so hard because I just managed to walk away from my toxic manager! Relating so much to so many points in this podcast!
💯 rooting for you!
Hahaha first few parts of the video i alrdy have the “ what kind of friends u have bae ! Jesus “ hahaha until u said the policeman says “ please find better friend “ really 😂need to open your eye bigger liao 😂 even tho u alrdy have big eye 👁️ bae stay strong ❤️
Does this come across as self-righteous (in some parts)? Possible to share your true failures in this past relationship and your lesson points? How about the infamous video about your interactions with your ex-employees?
msian fan here! keep up the great work
Thank you I miss Malaysia! 😊
Sylvia you are really glowing 😍 加油 爱自己
🥰💕
What is this retreat thing? Can anyone join
Sad that it’s the last episode but excited that it’s gonna be the next part of the journey to impact more people! And also honoured to already have benefited from your coaching before DMF!!
We love you SO MUCH ❤️
I need more episodes!! Idky but it’s so soothing listening to your content 😄😄
Awwww, so glad that we resonate 🥰💕
Dear Dan and Sylvia, I want to extend my heartfelt gratitude for your collaborative effort in bringing forth this beautiful project and partnership! This episode exudes such light-heartedness and wholesomeness, serving as a delightful transition to the journey ahead. xoxo!
Our pleasure to be here with a fellow kindred soul ✨️
I truly empathised with the pain when you have absolutely no one on ur side & the world against you. Honestly, (I am not even exaggerating) can't wait to see what you can do with this podcast channel. You can still reclaim the title of sg's top youtuber :)
Thank you for your kind support and encouragement!
My friend and I call this the "Guan Ni Ma" syndrome. 自我感动... But so happy your are back in social media!
Halfway through the video after the 4 stories. Yes this is typical of someone who is insecure. But as someone who is insecure myself, I can somewhat relate to why Ryan acted in this manner. He was not trying to manipulate, but he was overthinking every single thing you did because he needs the validation that you love him. As soon as you show someone else attention, he is afraid that he would lose you. Im not saying that what he did was right. He was not ready to love someone else, because he did not love himself first.
Jiayou you both! Continue to inspire and be inspired :)
Thank you for being uplifting!
Thank you for this amazing podcast !!
Our pleasure! ❤️ If you've found this helpful, you can consider our upcoming community adventures on www.dirtymessyfree.com ✨️
Honestly when I watched SC's interview by XX years ago, the first thing that came to my mind was "This woman so poor thing, gotten herself in such a traumatizing situation. Hope she will stay strong and move on".
Thank you for being here through my ups and downs!
This episode is so relatable. I love listening to what others have to say and their stories. I enjoy doing it for my family and friends even tho I am not paid for it. I can totally relate to what Sylvia and Dan is saying. I thought it is a weird ME thing but this episode gave me relief that this is just that I haven't found my community. 😊
You are already loved by the right people ❤️
This is a message so many need to hear! Thank you for being courageous to do the deep healing work and to talk with each other compassionately, about these things that society hides from.
Thank you for being a kindred soul ❤️
Hi Sylvia, it's wonderful that you have undergone this transformation into a more enlightened person. However, I was hoping that you would have talked about workplace abuse and toxicity since you have a very rare perspective when it comes to this issue. It is reasonable to believe that many people cancelled you because you represented experiences that they have had in toxic workplaces. I do feel that it is unfair for one person to take on the "sins" of other toxic bosses and that is unfortunate. What advice do you have for people stuck in toxic workplaces and what can bosses do to create a good working environment?
If there's ample requests, I would be happy to not just share stories but actual tangible and concrete solutions via a masterclass in our upcoming community! It's been an eye opening process for me learning through it for 12 months with a professional HR coach!
Awesome sharing once again. When the student is ready, the coach will appear. Thanks for pointing out that we cant just have one single role model but we need multiple people who excel in different part of theirs so we can have the best of all worlds. Its such a simple yet powerful way to look at this and looks like I really need to go back to hitting the books.
Absolutely! So many teachers to learn from 🥰
Lai Liao. Your instastory put wrong timing 😂
last episode 🥲
@@merrychase9744 and new beginnings. ;)
imo sylvia is an alpha female. she wouldnt do well with a typical strong dude.
We all sin and fall short of the glory of God. There is nothing good in ourselves. That’s why Jesus urge us to seek the Truth of who He is (unconditional love, holy and righteous), seek Him and His word, *deny* ourselves (our evil ways, our evil heart desires, our evil thoughts) and follow Him. It’s only through His word, we find peace (not of this world). The world says “listen to your heart”. But no, God says your heart is desperately and perpetually sinful. Jesus is the only way, truth and life. Only by seeking Him through His word, we will understand God’s love and will for us (We will be a new being, our values and essence will change: curb the tongue, love others as ourselves, edify one another, putting interest of others above self, forgiveness, self-control, correcting someone in truth in love, pursuing things above and not this world, bless and pray for our enemies and not curse them, being mindful of the words we use, etc). Jesus loves us so much and wants the best for us, we need to seek Him first with all our heart, soul and mind, and the real blessings will pour out. ❤