I love that this channel is not about throwing shade but taking up responsibility and fixing your own life. I appreciate the heart and hardwork you put into making this available to the public so people know that what's shown on social media isn't always reality and there's difficult struggles that we all go through but there's always one more move to make and it's never the end. Crazy crazy inspiring. Looking forward to the series

@Jack-hy2ki

2 ай бұрын

She threw shades at the police. She said the police was trying to find things to put her behind bars. Police investigate to see the person got reported whether innocent or not. Not trying to find things to put her behind bars.

@zoneinfinite

2 ай бұрын

​@@Jack-hy2kiu clearly didn't watch the full video till the end. She was so thankful towards her IO.

@DirtyMessyFree

2 ай бұрын

THANK YOU for having the pure heart to see into the intention of our sharing 🙏🏼 We sincerely dedicate these episodes to the utterly amazing humans beings like yourself who hold space for the duality of life for personal growth ✨️

@ebonyloveivory

2 ай бұрын

​@@Jack-hy2kiWow you sound incredibly naive. The police are not there to be your friend or therapist. They are there to see if the case is legit or not and thus they definitely will be stoic and dig through it all.

@Hs5687

2 ай бұрын

@@DirtyMessyFree In cases that implicate Government Criminal Wrongdoing, Spineless & Obedient SPF cannot be Relied …Common SPF tricks include is to use “ Investigations “ to extract info Only to Cover Up , Delays, sudden I/O Changes & even providing Superficial, Defective , Deceptive Police Letters , threaten Children of Complainant etc

I had once told by my lecturer, choose your friends and now you knew who are your friends, when I listening to this and found this phrase again, my tears just couldn’t stop. You are so great Sylvia, keep unfolding the truth and moving on so bravely! ❤

If indeed the reports were falsely filed against you, those are offences under S.182 Penal Code 1871 and will be for the IO to put up recommendations for AGC to review whether to charge. It’s a very serious offence, especially since it was a whole year of investigation by the IO and an absolute waste of resources.

@diesopain260

2 ай бұрын

Unless they give false statements under oath or falsify evidence then probably will be charged. But i think they show some evidence such as the whatsapp messages which does show to some extent that look like she prostituting her talent which is why the police decided to open case to investigate.

My goodness. The betrayal. I'm gonna watch all of this progressively. This is really a bomb shell. Hope you bounce back 100x better and stronger

I don't like how the guy keep interrupting and changing the topic just when Sylvia is about to get to something important. This happened multiple times and it's frustrating to watch 😒

@yangb6585

2 ай бұрын

In the end no insights at all.. just motivational stuff without real details leh… like, could Ryan just leave the company like that as a 49% shareholder? Why could she just wind it up too?

@libraries144

2 ай бұрын

Seems fine to me?

@juleana7

2 ай бұрын

Fine to me too

@BomoBomo-go6wt

2 ай бұрын

it shows she havent learnt to make better friends...

@sylh8173

2 ай бұрын

@@yangb6585 Not quite sure what you mean in the later part of your comment but I totally agree with you that she’s TALKING A LOT BUT NOT REALLY SAYING ANYTHING AT ALL. I hope viewers can see through her BS. I’m not saying she’s guilty of all the charges made against her. I’m also not a supporter of her ex-husband/ business parter (to me me they are both very questionable characters, birds of the same kind, just one party obviously has much better EQ & understands the game of “buying” people over). I’ve only watch 19 mins of this video so far & I plan to finish watching it but 19 mins is not a short time & all she covered in that time frame is: there were 100 cases made against her, the investigation dragged on & on for 12 months, she was so scared that even if she strongly believed she didn’t commit any crime anything slightly off was enough to put her in jail & she had to spend thousands to buy old bank statements & sieve through boxes of reports that she didn’t know how to read. Come on, what went on & on is her playing the scared victim card. No valuable details shared at all. Maybe I’m being presumptuous here, maybe she shares more details later on. But I doubt so cos in 19 mins she could have said so much but she said so little despite talking so much. And the ways she smirks at certain points. And the way she speaks. It just comes across very drama, like she’s treating this as a “spill the tea” session. If I were her & I really want to let the public know what injustice was done to me through a podcast, this is not the approach that I would take. She is one smart cookie but unfortunately very narcissistic.

You never know how strong you are until being strong is your only option

I've been waiting for this! No matter what happens, I wish them all well.

thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your story, you have come through!

I am so happy to see you that you back on your feet again, Sylvia. I knew from day 1 when the Saga started, I will definitely see and hear you again…stronger and fresher!!! Truth will reveals all the liessss

@DirtyMessyFree

2 ай бұрын

Your belief and faith mean so much! Thank you for being such a light 🥹

Seeing you now and remembering back when you're in xiaxue's interview, you are glowing, your confidence grow, and you're an inspiration

This Dan needs to let SC talk and stop interrupting her with his excited exclaims like "YA LETS TALK ABOUT THE PROSTITUTION 😃😃!!!"

My heart sank while watching. Life knocks you down but u choose to rise up once more with a better version. so thankful for the sharing, makes me rethink about my life.

I am so annoyed that our policeman wasted one year thanks to those irresponsible people who fabricated lies!! They should be punished! If not next time more CLOWNS will do this kind of rubbish when they are not happy and have vengeance with someone what correct? Seriously these ppl should be ashamed of themselves. So free in life ah? They better read these comments n reflect on themselves. Such disgusting behaviour.

@Swswimmop-7688

2 ай бұрын

yes! we need @SingaporePoliceForce to explain why if indeed like what she said, they were all lies that’s fabricated, then why did SPF not charge the complainants for wasting public resources?

@BeachBoi1000

2 ай бұрын

If they know, they don’t have to investigate. If a false report is lodged, they can be prosecuted.

No matter how not perfect sylvia is, as a husband or ex-husband, is very unethical of a hubby to gang up with so many people against his wife.

@aly5130

2 ай бұрын

Ask the question why no one gang up with her against Ryan? Why majority of the people doesnt like her? We have all seen the leaked video of her and her way of talking and treating her staffs. Is there a need to say more? Yes not guilty in the eye of law doesnt mean one is someone who treats people fairly and respectfully. They are 2 totally different things.

@gc23336

2 ай бұрын

​@aly5130 To create a gang against someone, the leader of a such gang needs to be a master manipulator. Sylvia is not a manipulator but an achiever with open unguarded direct emotions thus her downfall.

@gc23336

2 ай бұрын

​@aly5130 dear. If I were to go through the trouble of recording a video to backstab someone, would I record a video featuring Sylvia warm helpful side??? Of course must showcase only the most ugliest side of her la. Anyway I will not do such unethical thing to backstab and bring down pple.

@gc23336

2 ай бұрын

​@@aly5130 hello. If I were to go through the trouble of recording a video of someone I hate, why should I feature her warm helpful side??? Of course her most ugliest side la. Anyway I will not do such unethical low act to backstab pple

@sylh8173

2 ай бұрын

@gc23336 & @aly5130 I agree with both of you. To me, this is a case of two very flawed characters with very questionable morals who came together in union (marriage & business) then trying to drag each other down when they decided to separate. One party clearly knows she’s smart & thinks she’s superior & thinks she can treat others without respect. The other party is a massive manipulator, very good at EQ & “buying people over”. I watched their content because they were entertaining but from very early on I already felt that there’s a snobbish air to them & I was very disgusted with an old video that they did with Jianhao & Dee in which they basically just put down, in bitchy, nasty ways, other local youtubers whom were not in their little childish clique. To my surprise, there wasn’t really a big backlash to that video, it was taken down, I believe, but I expected all of them to be cancelled or at least more discourse around that video but I think most viewers just thought it was entertaining. To me, that video cemented my very bad impression of the couple (& their friends). I also thought it says quite a bit about viewers who thought nothing of that video. So it didn’t come as a surprise that both characters turned out to be such big narcissists/ manipulators. I saw that revelation coming just not in that exact way that it happened.

Even if Sylvia did many wrong things in the past, its doesn't matters as long as she is becoming a better person now. I just love how she stand still till now. must be a hard process

I appreciate this content. Thank you for sharing your story, Sylvia. I’m happy you’ve gotten your life back in order. Recovery isn’t linear but every day you will get stronger. Dan, you were amazing as a host. I can tell you were really connecting with Sylvia as she shared her stories. Keep going you guys! ❤

It takes a lot of courage to share. Thanks for sharing!

Such a great initiative to set up this channel to educate the public on personal development, trauma and mental health! ❤️ Keep up this inspiring work, Sylvia and Daniel!

@user-lx1cp8ig7y

2 ай бұрын

Can teach us to be more wary in life

You should get the policeman who helped you as the first one on your "new friends" list

I teared at " Find better friends" and "You're innocent of all charges". Hope life will get better for you.

It is funny how some people in the comments are still saying "omg she still playing the victim card". Like duh, she got hundreds of police reports lodged against her while, her ex-"friends" are moving on with their lives like nothing happened.

@Huevue-zq3hq

2 ай бұрын

Amen. When Sylvia shares her side of the story, she’s playing the victim card but her ex-“friends” aka Talent A has been using her mental health to get attention and sympathy since the start of the saga. 😅 and nobody is commenting on that.

I really love this podcast. Thank you for being vulnerable on such a public platform. Looking forward to all the episodes of your podcast.

Hey Sylvia, thanks a bunch for opening up about your perspective. I've always had my doubts, and I sensed something was off during that whole "cancel" ordeal. By the way, what even is cancel culture? Please, please consider taking legal action against Ryan and the others for defamation now that the investigation's cleared your name after a grueling 12 months. It's time to reclaim what's rightfully yours. Stay true to yourself and live boldly. Don’t let anyone take it away from you.

Congratz for getting thru this journey Sylvia. The rest of the journey is just upwards

@DirtyMessyFree

2 ай бұрын

So true! The only way from rock bottom is UP! 🎈

@aly5130

2 ай бұрын

@@DirtyMessyFree until you treat people truly with respect first. Behaviour modification is easy especially after the entire SG and MY how you treat people via your leaked video.

Love this channel! Happy to see sylvia is back, stronger

@DirtyMessyFree

2 ай бұрын

Us too!

Hi Sylvia, welcome back!!! Happy to see you ❤ Keep going girl 💪 Love from Msia 😘

I think Sylvia looks prettier now. The vibe and energy she exudes has changed.

Is it just me? Dan is irritating. Sorry Dan but maybe stop interrupting

@PAINTITBLACKGAMING

2 ай бұрын

Gu niang like that

@vsc7216

2 ай бұрын

i think he was just genuinely showing concern and being compassionate to what SC had gone through.

@davidlim8109

2 ай бұрын

It is interesting that we are what we write. Similarly, we are what we eat too. So when one says, “is it just me?” and with a question mark, it means “is it just my problem or do all of you feel the same”. Clearly, there is self doubt, and unsurety. Yet u in the same breath feel that u have the full licence to condemn Dan for interruptions How does one take you seriously? Aiyo. U clearly dunno what u are saying. Clearly a loser troll this one. No doubt about it.

@cryogenicheart2019

27 күн бұрын

No way! Hes great!

@disciplinedtrader8543

25 күн бұрын

Yup, agreed. Sylvia is articulate on her own. His summaries are quite unnecessary, and his questions and statements appear leading sometimes. As a viewer, I'd much prefer an unbiased/unguided account than one that is framed and paraphrased so often by the host !

My utmost respect to Sylvia. The betrayal from everyone and how they manipulated facts just to bring her down. From the beginning, I believe in Sylvia more than that ex partner. It is esp so when he cried in that divorce video and then intro his syt partner 2 weeks later. Wah pui... anyway Sylvia, u truly live up to your name of a courage coach. Utterly admirable.

Thanks for this video. Very happy to see that Silvia is gradually healing. May God bless you and wish you all the best in your future endeavours. Fighting. 💪🏼🦾💪🏼

CHOOSE👏BETTER👏FRIENDS👏 Appreciate the important lessons we'll get to learn from this series!

@DirtyMessyFree

2 ай бұрын

YAS!!! 😍 Thank you for being here with your big and beautiful energy on this journey of distilling painful experiences into lessons 🙏🏼

@fzuma

2 ай бұрын

One would have to be a better friend to have a better friend. @@DirtyMessyFree

@yurirawks

2 ай бұрын

@@fzumawell said

@lawrencewong100

Ай бұрын

no, only trust yourself and nobody else

Hello Sylvia, I’ve watched you growing up (started when I was 12 and now I’m 22… omg) and I feel I’ve learned a lot of little life lessons from you over the years- always found you super intelligent- both in life, business, career, work ethics etc. So happy to see you doing well again and excited to learn more from you! Thank you for sharing this journey with us again, think you’re so brave to do this. All the best in this new journey.

@DirtyMessyFree

2 ай бұрын

You are so welcome! I appreciate you so much & we are 💯 going to give soooooo much love and value to you! 😍

While I am still pretty much on the fence, I do kinda agree that if everyone does the same thing to her it could mean she is the problem to begin with. Though, that's given that the other party wasn't manipulating the thoughts of those mutual friends they had. However with that being said, no matter how bad a person she was, was such treatment by people around her necessary? Going to the extent of trying to get her criminalised, giving her the major share of a sinking ship such that she can handle whatever that comes with it while the other person happily goes ahead and starts another company and youtube channel? At this point I am not sure who's worse here and I feel the narrative painted out previously wasn't the entire picture. Well, none of us outsiders will ever have the full picture anyway. Nonetheless, I hope everyone moves on from this point and have a fulfilling life ahead, all the best Sylvia and I hope you do indeed learn your lesson regardless how much of the root cause originated from you and your action.

@emmays7802

2 ай бұрын

We need to hear the other side of the story to be fair.

@benng8730

2 ай бұрын

@@emmays7802 tbh even after you hear the other side of the story. You get nth but life lessons. That's it. That is how i look at it.

@dojc6526

2 ай бұрын

why cant people move on. i thought this saga is over. and here come drama again...

@francisgjh98

2 ай бұрын

@@dojc6526 SC moved on so much, she is focusing on reflecting and improving herself rather than focusing on the saga, defending herself, throwing shades at others who falsely attacked her. And the saga is indeed over, and its not drama now, there's no throwing shades, there's no stirring bad blood and wanting to take revenge or spread bad things about others. the whole point in this is reflecting on the past for the purpose of personal growth. I believe your intention to click on this video was to watch drama, and it has clouded you so much.

The moment Sylvia said "You really attract the energy you send out and you are." time stopped and it was a introspective moment for me. Thank you Dan and Sylvia for creating this. Thank you for shedding light into what you've been through and allowing us to be a witness of your journey. And thank you for sharing with us lessons that cost you so much pain so that we too can learn to be human without going through what you've been through. Grateful that you guys chose to do this!

@DirtyMessyFree

2 ай бұрын

Thank you for your kind and introspective words! Yes - finally realising that I attracted negativity because I was a negative person myself - this was such a harsh truth to admit 🥺 And yet, so liberating for the next steps of growth moving forward! 🧐

Sylvia the Queen is back👏. I have been following you since NOC. Been waiting for your comeback video and can't wait to watch all the episodes ❤

@DirtyMessyFree

2 ай бұрын

Thank you, Queen!!! It's been a joy to create this series for someone just like you! 😍

Needed to watch this in 4 separate times. Respect to Sylvia for coming out to do this podcast, loads of strength and resilience. I was on Ryan's side when the saga broke up 2 years ago. However after listening to this, there is indeed 2 sides to a coin. Glad to see that she is now in a better place, learnt from her past mistakes and move on to be a happier & better person moving forward.

wow this is so deep. I'm still amazed at how strong Sylvia is. nobody is perfect, let's all rise up and work on overcoming our shortcomings and pain. sending love ❤️❤️❤️

@DirtyMessyFree

2 ай бұрын

Well received 😌❤️ Thank you for having the loving heart to unpack this episode with us.

No better partnership ❤ You guys will bring out the best of each other in this podcast. So much to courage and love and yes “dirty messy free” is the perfect title. Thank you for sharing vulnerability and strength

Am very inspired by your sharing and u have made a comeback! Am rooting for you 🎉

One thing is. I hope it's the truth and nothing but the truth. At this point, we appreciate the real story. And not trying to bring anyone down. Because Ive seen KZread drama, and sometimes, even those that vouch to speak the truth still end up fabricating stories.. so end up, not sure who to believe.

Sylvia you are really made different. Very inspiring. Not many could endure what you had gone through. Now my own "problems" seem so insignificant 😅. Hearing your story made me tear up multiple times because i am touched by your strength, and I can somewhat relate to your pain. But knowing you made it through it all, really gave me strength and hope. Soar high Sylvia, all the best.

@DirtyMessyFree

2 ай бұрын

Wow. I had to take a moment because I teared reading this. Thank you for seeing my pain. Thank you for your compassion and empathy. Thank you for inspiring me to do even better. We will soar together ❤️

Choose BETTER FRIENDS

Whatever ppl may say, this lady did not hide from her flaws and after all these she did not blame anyone but herself. This is another level of courage really … most ppl would either hide themselves or die .

The host barely let her speak, he interrupts and says nothing substantial. He simply repeats whatever she says while yapping on. Yappanese

good to see that you've bounce back from such a terrible ordeal. It's not easy and I'm so happy for you. love from Msia

@DirtyMessyFree

2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! Sending love back from Sunnypore! 😎

actually, both of them are just humans and they have their own flaws. ***reminder that nobody is perfect! the relationship was toxic because they were so young back then! (+ unresolved trauma from childhood etc) it ended up creating two monsters (in the relationship) that both of them can’t handle anymore. that’s when everything went downhill. no one should be hated or blamed. (it’s none of our business too) i’m just happy to see both of them healing, growing and doing well now. i love to see them win, not against each other, but individually in their lives!

I really hate how both parties were in the wrong, yet 1 person you vowed to takecare in sickness or health gets stabbed to the point that it's shattered completely. Sylvia you have my complete support and respect. I don't agree with some of your attitude exposed previously, but what I can say is your ex partner will get his karma. He is fking disgusting. Shame on him.

Girl, Sylvia hear me out GIRL, no matter in NOC or what I will always salute you for who you are

This is very educational for business owners. Thank you very much.

@DirtyMessyFree

2 ай бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

She changed a lot , she used to talk and never listen , now look at her , she listen , and she digest and she is totally a new leaf . We all can see what she had been go through

@DirtyMessyFree

2 ай бұрын

And I (Sylvia) credit so much of my growth to the people around me who taught me so much in a loving manner through all my mistakes. 🙏🏼

Brilliant! In Life the first step to success starts inward! I always believed in you! U go girl!

The video is raw, authentic, real and it’s fully human. Jia you Sylvia!

Her ex husband is an asshole. I knew it from the beginning! She's being too kind to by closing one eye while he fool around during their marriage.

Tips after watching : *DO NOT MARRY THE WRONG MAN*

@zx5584

2 ай бұрын

Don't marry women like her too

I can really understand when Sylvia said she started begging the police to save her nearing the end of the investigation, you know that feeling when there’s literally nobody can help you, at this point if it’s me, I can’t even trust the person even if they’re professionally hired. Just because that scary feeling of betrayal is so deeply scarred and POLICE are the only people you trust now because they represent justice, they ARE the justice. Tbh I was kinda scared by Sylvia’s personality back in the days watching the old vids, but she becomes so calm, comfortable, soft but strong from the inside now, not the one that shouts and swears easily in every few seconds of the video. Call me lame but i have always rooted for you deep down because of the female’s 6th sense, and of course when the police said something like “choose better friends“, we all can do the guessing here. Nevertheless so happy that you’re back, your content has always been so high in quality, can’t wait for your updates!

I laugh when the police said "Slyvia find better friends" 😂😂😂 jiayou slyvia we love u ❤

Sylvia! Glad to have you back with us! I was told I need better friends too and it was a really sad thing to sit through, especially in your case being told by a police officer. Hang in there! Ps: where can we sign up to apply to be your better friend?

welcome back!

So my biggest question is… if all those police report made against her were false accusations, will they be charged? Isn’t it a crime to make a false police report? It’s not just one case, but hundred over of cases and one year of investigation work. If people are just let off without consequences, does it mean next time I not happy I can anyhow call police?

Thank you Sylvia! I ❤ your stories and I can totally relate how u feel. You are strong and my inspiration!

@DirtyMessyFree

2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! Love you 😍

if anything, she's really fucking resilient

Jiayou sylvia, cant say im on anyones side because theres 2 side of the stories but definitely supporting you, it is also unfair how others who betrayed or maybe even accused you are out there enjoying life, while u tried to clear your name. It is never easy, Proud of u sylvia

Some parts.. a bit over dramatized for sure. Lol. Police officers aren’t motivated to put anyone in jail…they are there to find the truth and then objectively decide if to recommend charging someone in court. But what an inordinate amount of time and public resources wasted on one person’s non-case… a dispute between two persons. The man hours of so many investigators… so were those false police reports? Should they be investigated?

@Deloowix

2 ай бұрын

You think if it is not suspicious, the police will investigate? If too complicated they will just say it's a civil case.

@eatdriveplay

2 ай бұрын

@@Deloowix it does not work like that. LOL. Criminal and civil cases are completely different categories… and it has nothing to do with how suspicious etc. u’re talking total bull.

I noticed this Stockholm Syndrome where Sylvia was immensely grateful to the io for investigating into crimes she didn’t commit , where she had to sacrifice holidays and provide proofs of innocence amounting to $5-6k at her own costs . And those complainants who reported her were minimally inconvenience and got away with a false accusation. Regardless of the outcome, it would be a victory for those complainants for causing distress and pain for more than 12 months of investigation due to those allegations. I wished there is more accountability for people who make false police reports

@benng8730

2 ай бұрын

i am still so shock that people can get away with false accusation. In Malaysia, you will get fucked with false accusation according to my ex teacher.

@socialdetective9462

2 ай бұрын

@@benng8730 at the minimum, it would be fair for those complainants who lodge a false report to foot the costs incurred by defendants in order to clear their name

@Swswimmop-7688

2 ай бұрын

I’m appalled by what you are referring to as “minimal inconvenience”. Those complainants were verbally abused by her and one was even betrayed by sylvia for sex to get free logistic services mind you

@Bellicose

2 ай бұрын

@@benng8730 You get fucked by false accusations everywhere, it's not a Singapore nor Malaysia exclusive thing. Lots of people got their life changed 180 to false accusations, some even took their own lives. But with that said, if the false accusation was true in Singapore context, AGC would have pushed to charge her "friends". Problem is it's a he say/she say situation where she doesn't have any prove that they did it, that's pretty suspicious for someone who prides herself for keeping all the receipts and conversations, the chances of it happening is closed to 0% when her "friends" brought out the plain black and white evidences but she can't.

@benng8730

2 ай бұрын

@@Bellicose that is so weird already tbh. They already cause a lot of inconvenience to the SG police. Imagine yourself as a police officer, you have to go through 100 unnecessary charges. It's a lot of work for the police by itself. Those people need to be accountable for those big charges. How the fish they can get away with these ?

Thank you for the come back Sylvia 🍀 I miss you most

@DirtyMessyFree

2 ай бұрын

Me too! We are all so happy to be here with you!!! 😎

I'm not familiar with NOC or Sylvia before the whole saga but listening to this podcast and hearing what she had to endured during the 2 years after getting falsely accused made me feel really sorry for her. However, just like a few people here who had commented, I have my doubts about Sylvia's character before this. To have 100+ police reports by so many people that u see as friends falsely lodged against u just to see ur downfall, I'm pretty sure it wasn't a matter as simply as "self-betrayal" and the failure in making right friends. Maybe she had done something bad to them, something unkind, or she was being an awful person, which was why she was getting these as revenge, NOT that I justify any of this false criminal accusation though. I think they are horrible. If she really was a bad person and had wronged people in the past, I just want to say, it will be a very respectable thing if she could be honest and share the mistakes she had done in the past, and how she had learnt from them and changed. Everyone makes mistakes and it's not a shameful thing to admit these, it's worse to run away from them and keep lying to urself and other people that it was never ur fault. But this is just an IF she really had a character issue. I don't know her and I'm not saying she is bad. Otherwise, I really feel sorry and painful for her that she had to go through all of this. Being this strong and enduring is never easy. I hope Sylvia all the best from now and meet only good and inspiring people. Just like what she said, you get what with the kind of energy u emit. Be kind to people and shall u be returned with kindness and love. I'm looking forward to the rest of the episodes.

“There is always one more move you can make.” 😭😭😭

There should be repercussions for folks or her ex-friends who lied and accuse her of prostitution /embezzlement etc

I knew you will bounce back Sylvia! 👏👏👏

thank you dan and sylvia for all this, it really is a great insight, sylvia, you look like youre in a better place, and even you mentioned it so i happy for you that you took the time to yourself to undergo self-improvement and coaching

Just finished both videos. Wow… the in and out of police station was brutal. Anyway, my first impression of you was not a good one. (I didn’t know you are secretly an introvert, same here). I met you during one of the KZread Creator Week event in Sg, the one that they invited us to party at top of Marina Bay Sands. It was in the morning when we were taking the escalator up to our event hall. I came with my wife. When I saw you, I mustered up the courage to come and say hi to you (introvert issue) but you were cold and resting B face. Now I understand why. I don’t know you as a friend but I wish you all the best moving forward!

Can people stop shaming Dan in the comments? Everyone's just trying here. Internet folks please be kind. Give suggestions, not hate.

@angelinacrizal

2 ай бұрын

Yessss!! Thank you so much for your love!! 💕💕

Mr Policeman is the real friend (that's because he is doing his job) that everyone needs to sober up. Real proud of you Sylvia for going through such difficult moments in your life. I can't emphasize enough just how strong you are ❤. For the people who lodged false accusations against Sylvia, they may not get any legal punishments for now but one day they will face the consequences for the bad things they've done.

Sylvia, glad to see you well. Honestly all these while I want to “throw” when I see your ex face on KZread. I gave a thumb down without watching. I am old enough to see through this kind of face and person. This lesson is also good learn for you. Be genuine and speaks kindly. This will brings you real happiness.

Every business owner needs to go through finance and accounting courses. My ex business partner also tried to libel me for "embezzlement" luckily I'm a trained accountant and I have every evidence and proof how the funds were used. Also very useful to hv lawyer friends around. They sent me 2 lawyers letter, I responded by myself and got it vetted by my lawyer friends. They didn't proceed further as they merely try to bs me.

@DirtyMessyFree

2 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing! Happy to know that you protected yourself like a true boss! ☺️💪🏼

Sis you're back, I'm so happy that everything is on track for you right now.

@DirtyMessyFree

2 ай бұрын

Yes! Thank you for being so kind! 💓

Im so happy that sylvia is back! You go queen !!!

You still have your health n that’s a huge blessing! When your health is taken from you, that’s the REAL rock bottom.

Sylvia, stay strong! I'm also in a long lawyer case process of my ex husband dealing with him, his mistress and police cases. I've also lost contact with my friends due to restriction of my ex spouse, Jiayou!

Your authenticity and vulnerability shine through in this video, creating a powerful and relatable experience for me as I previously experienced the cancel culture. Thanks Sylvia and Daniel! It’s a breath of fresh air in today’s world!

@DirtyMessyFree

2 ай бұрын

Wow, thanks for sharing. Sending you love and strength - it's not an easy ordeal, but we are all stronger than our adversities! 💪🏼

First time watching this channel because I was here hoping to get juicy stories into the "saga", but left with nuggets of wisdom from your shared experiences. Daniel is so emotional about your experience despite him hearing about it more than once (i assume u all would have rehearsed) and that showed how he could be your better friend if he still isnt. From faking an online/offline persona for likes and profits, to having the imposter syndrome and then overcoming the odds and becoming the "hero", you guys really address the issues that people encounter throughout their lives. Even though it is eventually about selling your courses/"masterclasses", you are doing a better job at creating value compared to the 124567431231 life coaches and the "my ex landed me in deep shit" interviews out there. Congrats for coming out of the bottomless pit of self-victimisation and hopefully you don't lose yourself again chasing that dopamine that your future success gives you.

sat through 1 hour and 21 minutes of this podcast, slyvia you are so strong. These accusations are crazy and what a wild journey you’ve been through. Sending all my love from our home country Malaysia ❤️. Wtf honestly though 100+ cases? That’s crazy.

We will never get the full narrative. The only one who has the full narrative from both sides is Mr. Policeman and for him to tell SC, “You need to make better friends” is saying A LOT.

@Shinkevo

2 ай бұрын

This is only her words. How do you know she’s telling the truth?

@rhysrhys_says

2 ай бұрын

@@Shinkevo And in all fairness, how do you know it’s not? 😌 If she did indeed lie about it, the I.O can charge her for putting words in his mouth. And that’s considered a serious offence as well, especially when the other party is a civil public servant. Plus, this video will serve as evidence. I could also say the same things about her ex-partner who also shared his side of the saga on various platforms, “This is only his words. How do you know he’s telling the truth?”

@Shinkevo

2 ай бұрын

⁠@@rhysrhys_saysyou are correct. All I am saying is that it’s actually not “telling” for the policeman to say that because this is her telling a story. If the policeman was interviewed and said this then I agree it’s very telling. Take what people say with a pinch of salt. What would they charge her with if she is indeed lying? She’s not impersonating a government servant, she’s not committing fraud, she’s merely telling a lie. There could be no consequences at all. Besides, it’s he said/she said anyway.

@rhysrhys_says

2 ай бұрын

@@Shinkevo I agree. Which is why I mentioned we will never get the full narrative. I’m not part of the judiciary system and neither do I hold much knowledge of it, admittedly, but if someone deliberately claims that I said something which I did not, and that misinformation leads to dire consequences… of course, depending on the context and severity of the consequences, the judiciary system will step in.

There will be Trust issues when one has been betrayed by people around you.

Sylvia, I'm so happy for you and to see you back on the screen ❤ It takes so much courage to do this. keeping the monster inside you is hard, fighting the monster outside of you is hard, you chose your hard.

@DirtyMessyFree

2 ай бұрын

We all can do hard things! 💪🏼

I admire that Sylvia is really vulnerable and yet, she's still not seeing certain things. She pointed that her issue is that her friends are screwed up... and also when pressed by Daniel to take on responsibility...she said "The energy you send you is what you attract" and the problem is self-betrayal. I think she failed to see that there must be a good reason why EVERYONE around her hate her enough to want to put her in jail. That perhaps, she has not been a kind and considerate person or boss... or she has put others through enough hardship for the resentment to be that thick for that revenge to be that reckless. Maybe it's just me but I feel she's still not getting something.

@MellowWell0w

2 ай бұрын

I think they will unpack these in the following 7 episodes. They alluded to that in either this or the 2nd episode.

@colorsangell7789

2 ай бұрын

Yeah what about friends like Aiken and Nina…

@Missy_Ai

2 ай бұрын

You are not very kind in your words and thought. Not everyone around her hated her. She still have friends and family stood by her through it all. Nobody is perfect and nobody is totally loved by everybody. In fact, she married to a wrong man who failed to make her a better woman.

@dacrethefrog

2 ай бұрын

@@Missy_Ai she cheated full stop. smlj wrong man

@Missy_Ai

2 ай бұрын

@@dacrethefrog He also cheated. He is the smlj man.

It’s been so many years and it’s tiring to watch both sides argue their points. At the end it’s just he-say-she-say. Going back and forth just seems like everyone has moved on except the parties involved. Hopefully someone can be the bigger person and everyone move on from the saga and find their own happiness ❤

Waiting this side of the story for so long. Heartbreaking and yet touching. Glad that you choose to rise up after such a difficult and painful period of time. Thanks to the Mr Policeman 👮‍♂️. Putting his best effort in your case. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🎉🎉🎉

@DirtyMessyFree

2 ай бұрын

Us too! So much gratitude for our hardworking law enforcers 🙏🏼🥹

加油 加油 加油！U are doing great Sylvia! ❤

I always trusted Sylvia from the start because audiences are very smart to detect fake persona on media. From Xiaxue's interview to this video, Sylvia is so real throughout. If she tells any lies on media, she will be bombarded again. I am so happy to see Sylvia becoming such a wise person after all the drama. I sincerely wish you all the best and i want to see you being very successful again.

Been a fan of NOC since S1 of FoodKing, to Thirsty Sisters..up till when the Saga had happened, I've always told myself to hang on for your return. Am really glad for your bounceback Sylvia, welcome back!

I cried!!!!!!! Thank y’all for being such effective medicine ❤

@DirtyMessyFree

2 ай бұрын

Any time! 😍

I feel Sylvia being more connected and authentic to her true self. What a comeback! Too lovely to see

@DirtyMessyFree

Ай бұрын

You are so kind 😇

Why does Dan get so much criticism? I think he does a great job in facilitating Sylvia's dialogue and bouncing off her energy. They have great chemistry in my opinion.

so good to see Sylvia back, and with Dan!

Sylvia, trust u are well ... at the end of the day with this valuable experience, there's positive learnings that you can definitely take and move forward to apply in your life now. Know it wasn't easy but stay strong and positive!

@DirtyMessyFree

Ай бұрын

Yes! Thank you! 💓

what happens to those that makes a fake report?

wow salvia finally u have new video.... very beautiful and confident... so much different now ... beautiful inspired woman.... fighting 🎉

“My only friend was the police”😭 i love you Sylvia.Wish you all the very best!

Cried watching through this episode. I’m so happy that Sylvia s back😭😭🫶

@DirtyMessyFree

2 ай бұрын

We can FEEL YOUR LOVE ❤️😍