that is the big thing is not what you going to have it's what you going to miss when you move away.
@anniethept22213 күн бұрын
Can totally relate to this. Thanks for sharing. Glad to see you getting some "me time in". x
@aye70aye3 күн бұрын
Well that looked fun! I wonder how many parents feel pressured and end up doing 2 Xmas' That would be very expensive unless you only did like a day celebration thats affordable like your event. What the weather like in late August there?
@kimberleylucas3 күн бұрын
It's really not as big as you think (thankfully!!!) Maybe they've tried to make it a thing and people just aren't on board.... it's good for the small events, but I really can't get on board with anything else as it's still 20 degrees 😅😅😅😅😅 end of August is nice as Spring is the beginning of September so it's low to mid 20s 😊 xx
@PerthMummaBudgetsSolo4 күн бұрын
I’m in perth would love to be friends 😊 I have a 6 year old son ❤ my grandmother is from Glasgow and had moved to perth when she was young. And it became her home for the rest of her life 😊❤
@kimberleylucas3 күн бұрын
Ahhh this is so lovely!! If only you were NSW 😢😢 so many people have contacted me from Perth, seems like there is a big community there 😊❤ xx
@user-bi8wp6wy3l4 күн бұрын
Kimberely as you said xmas in July was started in the Blue Mountains by different hotels etc. as a way of attracting people supposedly to give them a taste of what a cold xmas would be like. It sometimes snows in the Blue Mountains at that time of year so if you are extremely lucky you might even get to see a white xmas. Doing Xmas in July in places other than in cold places like the mountains or maybe ski resorts is a bit pointless to me but whatever turns people on.. It would be like having a BBQ in the UK in July putting up your xmas decorations and dressing up as santa and calling it an Ausssie Xmas. It may attract a few expats but most of the locals would probably just scratch their heads .. I dont know anyone that actually takes it seriously other than buisnesses who are always looking for ways to sell people stuff that they dont need. Like Halloween its a celebration that is more popular with younger generations especially those with small kids smart retailers like Woolies will use their in store displays to make sure that kids are well aware of it. They are not traditional celebrations recognised by older generations, happy for those who want to have a bit of fun on those days its just not my thing - bah humbug to xmas in July.😊
@kimberleylucas3 күн бұрын
I can see how it could get out of hand. But, it's also not as big as people may think (which I'm glad about) as I'm also not a fan of Christmas in july. My kids were asking when they should write their list to santa 😂😂😂
@ShannonDent4 күн бұрын
You’re so creative!! 🥰 their little face paintings ❤ I’m disappointed Uewin didn’t have a Christmas jumper on (my partner would be getting forced to wear one lol) 🤣 x
@kimberleylucas4 күн бұрын
Ahhh thank you 😊❤ haha yes we did try but he wasn't for it! 😅😅😅
@krisjames42764 күн бұрын
Glad you all had a great time ,love❤☃️🌲🎄🎅🤶🦌
@kimberleylucas4 күн бұрын
Thank you 🎉😊
@teamclarke69994 күн бұрын
My brother face timed me from Perth last week...he was wearing a fleece!!! I said "why the hell are you wearing a coat??" He said "it's cold here it's 20 degrees" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 x
@kimberleylucas4 күн бұрын
Haha I completely relate with this 😅 so different to last year when I was in my 'uk summer clothes' now I'm in a jumper and long sleeved top 😅 xx
@garthwaters57564 күн бұрын
was never a big thing years ago, but it is now, even in Darwin lol , we have santa in a harley trike down the esplanade chucking lollies at kids lol its great lol, but its still hot though 🤣
@kimberleylucas4 күн бұрын
Haha only in Darwin 😅 it's all for fun and we definitely enjoyed it 😊
@peterrainbow81095 күн бұрын
Great to see the enjoyment on your childrens' faces. 😊
@kimberleylucas4 күн бұрын
That's all that matters to me 😊
@irismurray59706 күн бұрын
Kimberley, I know what that loneliness is like we moved to California and I never really settled I lost my sister at home while I was there . I moved back home to Ireland and it was the best decison we ever made. For me I wanted to be home with friends and family and wanted that for my girls who are now 21 and 19. Its ok to come home its not a failure, everyone is different everyones experience is different. I am happy here with friends and family especailly now our girls are off at university... just do what makes you happy💚
@kimberleylucas6 күн бұрын
This is so lovely to read, thank you for taking the time to write it. Home was never terrible for us, despite what people may think... we just wanted to try something new and hopefully better for our kids. So far it's beautiful and they are having a great time but it's definitely hard being away from family, especially for the support aspect. Time will tell, but we also aren't against going home ❤ so glad things worked out for you. Ireland is like Scotland.... beautiful scenery as well as people ❤
@louisaklimentos75836 күн бұрын
I think you should meet some people who follow you on social media . Go to a nice cafe in the Central Coast and then go for a coastal walk along beaches etc . You are such a wonderful lady . God bless ♥️
@Dan-rg7jj7 күн бұрын
In the UK you meet your friends at the pub, the US at the church, in Aus at sporting clubs.
@KatieHedley-jf1hs7 күн бұрын
Thinking of you, and really appreciate your honesty for those of us in the process of coming over! Another vote for WA frome me, us Scots can hang together ❤
@kimberleylucas6 күн бұрын
LOVE this 😊❤
@georgewood25647 күн бұрын
Kimberley you have got to put yourself out there. You can't expect people to come to you. Join a local club, become a committee member of your childrens kindergarten. Like minded people will enjoy each others company. Involve yourself with wives and girlfriends connected with Ewans work. And no, Australians are not hostile and unfriendly as @Wayne-fn1sw has stated, ridiculous statement. Good luck
@kimberleylucas6 күн бұрын
Thanks for the advice. We currently do playgroup, swimming lessons, dance lessons and also daycare, people do talk but it doesn't go much further. I know it takes time, it's still early days. I'm sure when isla starts school I'll meet people as I love to help out whenever I can 😊
@DogsBedsStore8 күн бұрын
I came here as an expat too 5 years ago. Remember this feeling, it does feel lonely and isolated at first. Sometimes it takes years to settle down and built strong connections. Take your time Kimberly, everything will be there❤️
@kimberleylucas6 күн бұрын
Thank you for this. People always tell me the first 2 years are the hardest and we aren't even through them yet so I definitely need to give it more time ❤
@milkmancometh4208 күн бұрын
Your kids are the easiest way to bridge that gap - Not sure of their ages, but get them involved in social activities - sports, clubs, groups - both organised like team sports and less competitive like swimming lessons - easy to connect with other parents and you instantly have multiple points of common ground for discussion
@kimberleylucas6 күн бұрын
Thank you, we currently do swimming, dancing and playgroup so hopefully I'll meet someone soon!
@Wayne-fn1sw8 күн бұрын
Australians are originally British people who left the cold UK to Australia 🦘 but I heard Australians can be hostile and unfreindly many are very outspoken in Australia and very direct unlike in the UK its fake behaviour some similarities. The grass is not always greener on the other side too many English Brits are in Australia thier second home.
@JennyG-n6k8 күн бұрын
Oh, sweetie, I'm so sorry you're feeling that way. I moved to a new area when my kids were little and I totally understand the struggle. I know you didn't like the playgroups you tried (those were in Sydney but yeah?), but try again. Ask the lovely ladies at the clinic and check for notices there too. MAybe Isla might enjoy a dance group or early gymnastics class? Exploring your childs interests with groups, classes, sports is a great way to meet other mums. When she does start school, volunteer to help out, schools appreciate it, kids love seeing you at school and you become part of the school community and make friends while you're at it. Everyone wins. The coast has lots of great groups for little ones and adults to join. Hope you find your niche❤
@kimberleylucas6 күн бұрын
Thank you for this. We actually joined a new playgroup and so far i absolutely love it. I actually look forward to it each week, the kids love it too which definitely helps! Isla is starting dancing this weekend and we go to swimming lessons too! I'm hopeful ❤
@StephanieRamsay-zl8iy8 күн бұрын
Do they have any friends apps like peanut over there? There will be so many people feeling the same as you going through this journey. Parenthood is so tough to handle on its own, I have 4 YO and nearly 2 YO so get it but you definitely need that adult connection. Like you said to just have a rant and be yourself. Really hope you meet friends soon just to top up on another positive for being over there. No matter where you are in the world hard times come in all shapes and sizes. The fact you guys are still sticking it out and not giving up shows so much about the kind of people you are. Hopefully even on socials you can make connections with people locally. 🤞 x
@kimberleylucas6 күн бұрын
This is a lovely message, thank you for taking the time to post it. ❤ we do have peanut here, I think I'll give it a shot! You never know, I may just meet one person who becomes my life long friend! ❤
@paulrowan80329 күн бұрын
Hey, you’ll be fine, i meet you at Coles @ Kincumber, a little while back, i said hi in any case, you seem nice enough, it’s just time babe!
@kimberleylucas6 күн бұрын
Ahhh thank you for this! It was lovely to meet you 😊
@lexsaunders17429 күн бұрын
There are many people who are lonely and isolated in the middle of big cities who would love to have a new friend in their lives. If you want a grandpa figure to chat with I would love to be that person.
@froggygreen28769 күн бұрын
Welcome to Australia! 😊
@kimberleylucas9 күн бұрын
Thank you 😊
@bevhowell76659 күн бұрын
Join local playgroups great place. For parents to met up and have a chat. Only way is to join groups Netball team. Sport is always good. Go to tafe learn skill your keen on Its hard to find your tribe Maybe you could offer to show and do makeups or a course. Where you met like minded people Free And Casual Playgroups Around Perth Posted 2018-06-18 by Sue ⇒ follow
@kimberleylucas9 күн бұрын
Thank you for these suggestions ❤
@sg43649 күн бұрын
Kim, loneliness is a normal feeling, especially for parents at home with young kids. Just remind yourself that it is temporary and things will get better. Hope your little one is feeling better. ps. Gorgeous outfits, especially the printed pants from CottonOn.
@kimberleylucas9 күн бұрын
I'm definitely feeling better than I was 3 months ago so there's a plus 😅 it does take time and I'm sure things will all work out the way they are supposed to ❤ thank you for your kind comments! Ps... the trousers are beautiful! Love them 😊
@jessicakacy84139 күн бұрын
Living by the beach is nice, but it’s a mother’s happiness that truly matters for her children. I hope it all works out here Kim, but there is also nothing wrong with returning to where your source of warmth and love resides if that’s what your family ends up deciding. Either way, I’m sure your family’s adventures and experiences have made you so much closer.❤
@kimberleylucas9 күн бұрын
Thank you for this lovely comment. I can't agree with it more. Thankfully both Euan and I feel the same and we're making decisions each time with all of this in mind. ❤ I hope you have a lovely evening x
@maggief11379 күн бұрын
Hope it works out Kim sadly last year I lost my daughter which has been the worse journey that my husband has ever gone through, I belong to Scotland been in Melbourne for 38 years just came back from Scotland and now thinking of relocating back home to be near family as we are both retired here now, but the loneliness without my daughter is just heartbreaking. 🥰💕💜💜
@kimberleylucas9 күн бұрын
@maggief1137 I'm so sorry to hear this, I can't imagine how you are feeling 😢 you do whatever you need to do to for you ❤ sending you so much love x
@maggief11378 күн бұрын
@@kimberleylucas thank you Kim for your kind words greatly appreciated, it should say the worse journey my husband and I have both ever went through. I hope you have a great day, pity you are not in Melbourne we could’ve met up for a coffee and a chat, even though I am older I would like to think I could help you in your time of loneliness, look after yourself 👍🙏🥰
@shanearmstrong94009 күн бұрын
35 dollars for kids shoes why didn’t you buy them from Kmart to for cheap great product placement are you looking for freebies as influencer you come to oz only want to make friends with expats from the uk please move to Perth or better still go home and stop crying if you haven’t made friends it’s your fault 😭😭😭😭
@kimberleylucas9 күн бұрын
Firstly, I do buy from Kmart however the last trainers I bought my little boy fell apart very quickly. We usually buy nike as they last him however decided to try H&M, we've bought loads of shoes from here and they last. Secondly you clearly haven't watched my video through as all I've been trying to do for the last 15 months is make friends, however as per my video I explain why this hasn't been happening and I can completely understand why. Expats are looking for others... like me, hence why I said this may be a better fit. No need to be so negative to someone who has opened up about a tough subject. Anyway, enjoy the rest of your evening 😊
@teamclarke69999 күн бұрын
My brother felt exactly the same in Sydney, he found it extremely hard to make friends, and i can only put that dien to it being the big city, you know, like London. Us northerners are a different breed Kim, if you know, you know. 🤣 My brother made the decision to moved to Perth, and he has made so many friends. I hope you make headway soon lovely lady. ❤️
@kimberleylucas9 күн бұрын
Thank you for this. I'm so happy he is settling better in Perth! If you have found friends then you have made it! They become the family you are missing and it all works out nicely ❤ I think we may have to make some decisions soon, as we are both feeling the exact same! Hope you are well 😊
@teamclarke69999 күн бұрын
@@kimberleylucas I'm good thanks Kim. And yes, he has settled so well in the mines. I really feel for you, but don't give up, it's just taking time. You're working now and friendships are made that way too. But maybe Euan can get a transfer to Perth with his work. It's the last piece in the puzzle for you, you've done so well getting this far so quickly. X
@kimberleylucas9 күн бұрын
@@teamclarke6999 keep your fingers crossed! What's for us won't go by us 😊👏❤️
@froggygreen28769 күн бұрын
@@kimberleylucas Are you a Christian, Kim? Are you in Melbourne where I am?
@krisjames42769 күн бұрын
Another very honest video of moving to Australia Kimberley. Sending you love ❤🇬🇧
@kimberleylucas9 күн бұрын
Thank you so much, always appreciated ❤
@allanahquinn72779 күн бұрын
This reminds us all to reach out and be more inclusive. Hope you make connections soon as I’m sure you would be a fabulous friend 😊
@kimberleylucas9 күн бұрын
Thank you for this ❤ I'm sure it will happen in time 😊
@aye70aye10 күн бұрын
Hiya Kim, Ive said before that you truly remind me of my younger self, like a lil sis! You are such a nice person and that shines through. Anyone would be lucky to have you as a friend. When my sons were younger, I went to tons of clubs, groups, activities like you and often felt lonely there. I would have gravitated towards you and been friendly! My advice is just keep being your lovely self, when you meet other parents in the playground it opens up a whole new set of options for friends. Hang in there mate 🧡
@kimberleylucas9 күн бұрын
Awww this made me smile! Thank you for this ❤ I would absolutely be your friend ❤ I'm sure it will come, these things just take time and it can happen most likely when I least expect it to! I'm enjoying playgroup etc but I'm just always so busy with the kids that it's hard to speak with others for longer than 3 minutes 😅 I appreciate your kindness, thank you ❤ xx
@aye70aye9 күн бұрын
@@kimberleylucas Oh god yeah I remember that so well! Your attention has to be spread so thin. I always say I don't think I had a hot cup of tea for 7yrs and never had a bath without one son coming in to show me Lego or Pokemon for 12yrs!! But you are right, its THE best job in the world. Did I see in a different video that you were working now too? If so what are you doing and how the heck do you juggle that with your 2 smalls when neither is in school yet?! Take care, Jessie x🧡
@kimberleylucas9 күн бұрын
@aye70aye yep this is exactly it! My 2 are non stop and I'm desperate for a break but when I go somewhere myself all I do is buy for them 😅 yes I'm working 1 day a week in a lovely spa, just helping out but the girls are lovely and it's good to have some adult chat! It's a juggle for sure and sometimes I do wonder if it's worth it but it's working for now 😊 x
@markaustin101310 күн бұрын
Ignore the haters, trolls and emotional cripples, its a brave and mature thing to be able to express how you feel and what you are experiencing currently. Hang in there you are a very nice person and a great mum, leave the emotional cripples in your wake.Its difficult to find your own people/tribe at times (that has been my experience also).Sometimes though these difficult times and feelings forge a stronger and better you.
@kimberleylucas10 күн бұрын
This is really lovely for you to say, thank you for sharing. I'm not doing it for sympathy but more for others who are experiencing the same. Its hard to find new friends, i find its very much friendly conversations but nothing really comes of them and maybe thats just the way it is. I have my own family here so it's not like i'm on my own - i had just expected to have made more friendships than i have. I really do appreciate your comment and support - thank you again for your lovely words.
@kellykanjai622410 күн бұрын
Aw I love how you are so honest and show the real struggles you have but like you say you don't let it keep you down. I hope you stick around after getting a PR VISA and give it a few more years on that before you make decisions. I think your current visa is tying you down. I have kept thinking you'd be better suited in Perth. Keep going! Hang in there! X
@kimberleylucas10 күн бұрын
Thank you for this. Wouldn't be right for me to share all the great parts but not also show the side that i've found to be hard - if not the hardest part. There's lots of positives to being here, and i am for sure willing to give it my best shot, fingers crossed things will improve! :) x
@wallywombat16410 күн бұрын
POOR SAD, WOE IS ME old Kimberley. Are you running for president of the Central Coast Glee Club? Bye bye Kimberley, enough is enough.
@markaustin101310 күн бұрын
You have the right name mate , Wally. What a rude and sad little man.
@aye70aye10 күн бұрын
What a vile, unnecessary comment!
@teamclarke69999 күн бұрын
I hope that means you're leaving this channel, you have absolutely no use here. But no, you'll probably sit on here lurking until there's another video you want to pick holes in! 🤔🤔 I'm sure your life is just perfect by the sound of your tone 😂😂😂 sad, sad Wally!
@wallywombat1649 күн бұрын
@@aye70aye Why, are you a fully paid up member of the Glee club? HAHAHA.
@wallywombat1649 күн бұрын
@@aye70aye iv'e been following Kimbo and family since her first post in Aust.. It gives me no pleasure in saying that she has hardly stopped bleating and farten since she arrived. I have said before and I'll say it again, I think She would be a lot happier being back in gloomy Scotland with her family and friends. Sorry if my comment offends you but everybody finds or looks for something to be offended aboot these days. I only wish happiness for her and her family. Not for her to live a life of misery because the lady is a brilliant mum.
@wallywombat16410 күн бұрын
The SUN shining through the car windows must be annoying as well Kimbo. You wouldn't have that problem back in sunny Sco land. 😮😮😮😮
@amycoates630011 күн бұрын
Oh my gosh that “welcome to country” was ADORABLE! I can also really hear Isla’s accent changing 🙈 xx
@christaylor704912 күн бұрын
Get ready to convert to islam UK is different place now, and more resembles cyria, enjoy the cold change
@garthwaters575612 күн бұрын
Rolled up news paper or a thong lol 😂
@shelleypalmer154912 күн бұрын
I would totally move there if EVERYTHING DIDNT WANT TO KILL ME!
@wallywombat16412 күн бұрын
AWWW, come on Kimbo. A bit of a over reaction. I'm scared of blokes wearing skirts. What do you recommend?
@kimberleylucas12 күн бұрын
Don't visit scotland 😅
@wallywombat16412 күн бұрын
@@kimberleylucas HAHAHA. Thanks for your helpful advice Kimbo. Hey mate, does YOU AND wear a little tartan number on the lodd occasion?
@kimberleylucas12 күн бұрын
@@wallywombat164only special occasions 😙
@Jeni1013 күн бұрын
LOL! Good luck trying to catch a Huntsman with either of those gadgets!
@kimberleylucas12 күн бұрын
Oh you will be surprised how small they can go when they are trying to squeeze in somewhere... like your house 😅
@Jeni1012 күн бұрын
@@kimberleylucas I live with one! 😃🇦🇺 But I meant their speed!
@kimberleylucas12 күн бұрын
@@Jeni10I think I'm just blocking this part out 😅😅😅 HELP!!
@Jeni1013 күн бұрын
How to deal with Huntsman spiders. kzread.info/dash/bejne/iGaeqa1unsy3daQ.htmlsi=VHVBwwjcm-1XU0Yv
@captbaz4513 күн бұрын
Love the way you have settled into life in your new home Kimberly, my late Mum was born in Scotland and came to Australia when she was 18, married an Aussie and had six children including me 😊 this rendition of Nicola Benedetti playing at the opening ceremony of the Glasgow Commonwealth Games brings me to tears … we as a family used to sing this occasionally. Have Scotland in our hearts and blood even though we were born and bred here in Sydney I guess. kzread.info/dash/bejne/pI2imJOGeLjFgbw.htmlsi=oGq1wbvBQtCsC
@matthewwannell105113 күн бұрын
Haha, tell me about it, 16°c up here in Brisbane yesterday, love the winter 🥶🌞
@kimberleylucas13 күн бұрын
It's beautiful to look at but I miss coming home to a warm heated house 😅
@GraftedTechnologyJoy13 күн бұрын
What about the snakes 🐍 and spiders 🕷
@MichaelDeakin-f8d14 күн бұрын
I just watched this and really found a great deal of similarities with our move back in 2008. We moved over from Oldham with 4 children and listening to your stories it brought it all back, especially the child care situation. Keep up the good work because one thing I’ve found here is that you get far better rewards for your efforts. Also as the kids get older they will start getting involved in the local sports and this is where you start getting a bit of your social life back. I am now a grandfather to a beautiful little girl who is one in a few weeks. We also live on the Central Coast and have been since we made the move. We live at Avoca Beach, keep up the good work and I will be keen to see your videos as they progress. Michael Deakin !
@JanMac197214 күн бұрын
Fantastic tips Kim, I’ll be using the suggestion to video the property, I always forget the details of the house after I’ve left. And often we are viewing a few other properties the same week so it’s a great idea to have the videos to look over later, when you don’t feel as rushed. Just to let you know the law recently changed in all states. It’s now illegal for landlords and property agents to accept offers to pay higher than the advertised rent.
@louisaklimentos758315 күн бұрын
Lovely
@EverlyPossibles16 күн бұрын
I completely agree in regards to attaining friendships, i live in Australia and have found it extremely difficult and do not have one friend to catch up with in my area. I am an extremely social person that is pretty much living an isolated life here, which causes me a lot of depression, stress and anxiety in return from this in particular. I do plan to eventually move to either Canada or the USA as it is my lifelong dream to and i do find these countries to be super friendly and life there, FOR ME, seems as i would be truly living. I have tried through kids activities to meet people, but have not gone beyond the same weekly basic conversations. Nippers, swimming, karate, soccer & Brazilian soccer, football, tennis, guitar, drums and hip hop dance and i would always try to converse but never made any true friends. Even going out and about, on a walk around the neighbourhood, it is EXTREMELY rare i'd get a hi, from anyone - unless i go to a mall, when purchasing something.
@petergale920016 күн бұрын
Unfortunately overall the shops in Terrigal have deteriorated in the last 10 years. The used to be banks, a newsagent, a butcher and a delicatessen. There are 4 vacant shops in Terrig al now. Thus Terrigal shops are good for tourists, but poor for residents. Don’t swim in the lagoon
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that is the big thing is not what you going to have it's what you going to miss when you move away.
Can totally relate to this. Thanks for sharing. Glad to see you getting some "me time in". x
Well that looked fun! I wonder how many parents feel pressured and end up doing 2 Xmas' That would be very expensive unless you only did like a day celebration thats affordable like your event. What the weather like in late August there?
It's really not as big as you think (thankfully!!!) Maybe they've tried to make it a thing and people just aren't on board.... it's good for the small events, but I really can't get on board with anything else as it's still 20 degrees 😅😅😅😅😅 end of August is nice as Spring is the beginning of September so it's low to mid 20s 😊 xx
I’m in perth would love to be friends 😊 I have a 6 year old son ❤ my grandmother is from Glasgow and had moved to perth when she was young. And it became her home for the rest of her life 😊❤
Ahhh this is so lovely!! If only you were NSW 😢😢 so many people have contacted me from Perth, seems like there is a big community there 😊❤ xx
Kimberely as you said xmas in July was started in the Blue Mountains by different hotels etc. as a way of attracting people supposedly to give them a taste of what a cold xmas would be like. It sometimes snows in the Blue Mountains at that time of year so if you are extremely lucky you might even get to see a white xmas. Doing Xmas in July in places other than in cold places like the mountains or maybe ski resorts is a bit pointless to me but whatever turns people on.. It would be like having a BBQ in the UK in July putting up your xmas decorations and dressing up as santa and calling it an Ausssie Xmas. It may attract a few expats but most of the locals would probably just scratch their heads .. I dont know anyone that actually takes it seriously other than buisnesses who are always looking for ways to sell people stuff that they dont need. Like Halloween its a celebration that is more popular with younger generations especially those with small kids smart retailers like Woolies will use their in store displays to make sure that kids are well aware of it. They are not traditional celebrations recognised by older generations, happy for those who want to have a bit of fun on those days its just not my thing - bah humbug to xmas in July.😊
I can see how it could get out of hand. But, it's also not as big as people may think (which I'm glad about) as I'm also not a fan of Christmas in july. My kids were asking when they should write their list to santa 😂😂😂
You’re so creative!! 🥰 their little face paintings ❤ I’m disappointed Uewin didn’t have a Christmas jumper on (my partner would be getting forced to wear one lol) 🤣 x
Ahhh thank you 😊❤ haha yes we did try but he wasn't for it! 😅😅😅
Glad you all had a great time ,love❤☃️🌲🎄🎅🤶🦌
Thank you 🎉😊
My brother face timed me from Perth last week...he was wearing a fleece!!! I said "why the hell are you wearing a coat??" He said "it's cold here it's 20 degrees" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 x
Haha I completely relate with this 😅 so different to last year when I was in my 'uk summer clothes' now I'm in a jumper and long sleeved top 😅 xx
was never a big thing years ago, but it is now, even in Darwin lol , we have santa in a harley trike down the esplanade chucking lollies at kids lol its great lol, but its still hot though 🤣
Haha only in Darwin 😅 it's all for fun and we definitely enjoyed it 😊
Great to see the enjoyment on your childrens' faces. 😊
That's all that matters to me 😊
Kimberley, I know what that loneliness is like we moved to California and I never really settled I lost my sister at home while I was there . I moved back home to Ireland and it was the best decison we ever made. For me I wanted to be home with friends and family and wanted that for my girls who are now 21 and 19. Its ok to come home its not a failure, everyone is different everyones experience is different. I am happy here with friends and family especailly now our girls are off at university... just do what makes you happy💚
This is so lovely to read, thank you for taking the time to write it. Home was never terrible for us, despite what people may think... we just wanted to try something new and hopefully better for our kids. So far it's beautiful and they are having a great time but it's definitely hard being away from family, especially for the support aspect. Time will tell, but we also aren't against going home ❤ so glad things worked out for you. Ireland is like Scotland.... beautiful scenery as well as people ❤
I think you should meet some people who follow you on social media . Go to a nice cafe in the Central Coast and then go for a coastal walk along beaches etc . You are such a wonderful lady . God bless ♥️
In the UK you meet your friends at the pub, the US at the church, in Aus at sporting clubs.
Thinking of you, and really appreciate your honesty for those of us in the process of coming over! Another vote for WA frome me, us Scots can hang together ❤
LOVE this 😊❤
Kimberley you have got to put yourself out there. You can't expect people to come to you. Join a local club, become a committee member of your childrens kindergarten. Like minded people will enjoy each others company. Involve yourself with wives and girlfriends connected with Ewans work. And no, Australians are not hostile and unfriendly as @Wayne-fn1sw has stated, ridiculous statement. Good luck
Thanks for the advice. We currently do playgroup, swimming lessons, dance lessons and also daycare, people do talk but it doesn't go much further. I know it takes time, it's still early days. I'm sure when isla starts school I'll meet people as I love to help out whenever I can 😊
I came here as an expat too 5 years ago. Remember this feeling, it does feel lonely and isolated at first. Sometimes it takes years to settle down and built strong connections. Take your time Kimberly, everything will be there❤️
Thank you for this. People always tell me the first 2 years are the hardest and we aren't even through them yet so I definitely need to give it more time ❤
Your kids are the easiest way to bridge that gap - Not sure of their ages, but get them involved in social activities - sports, clubs, groups - both organised like team sports and less competitive like swimming lessons - easy to connect with other parents and you instantly have multiple points of common ground for discussion
Thank you, we currently do swimming, dancing and playgroup so hopefully I'll meet someone soon!
Australians are originally British people who left the cold UK to Australia 🦘 but I heard Australians can be hostile and unfreindly many are very outspoken in Australia and very direct unlike in the UK its fake behaviour some similarities. The grass is not always greener on the other side too many English Brits are in Australia thier second home.
Oh, sweetie, I'm so sorry you're feeling that way. I moved to a new area when my kids were little and I totally understand the struggle. I know you didn't like the playgroups you tried (those were in Sydney but yeah?), but try again. Ask the lovely ladies at the clinic and check for notices there too. MAybe Isla might enjoy a dance group or early gymnastics class? Exploring your childs interests with groups, classes, sports is a great way to meet other mums. When she does start school, volunteer to help out, schools appreciate it, kids love seeing you at school and you become part of the school community and make friends while you're at it. Everyone wins. The coast has lots of great groups for little ones and adults to join. Hope you find your niche❤
Thank you for this. We actually joined a new playgroup and so far i absolutely love it. I actually look forward to it each week, the kids love it too which definitely helps! Isla is starting dancing this weekend and we go to swimming lessons too! I'm hopeful ❤
Do they have any friends apps like peanut over there? There will be so many people feeling the same as you going through this journey. Parenthood is so tough to handle on its own, I have 4 YO and nearly 2 YO so get it but you definitely need that adult connection. Like you said to just have a rant and be yourself. Really hope you meet friends soon just to top up on another positive for being over there. No matter where you are in the world hard times come in all shapes and sizes. The fact you guys are still sticking it out and not giving up shows so much about the kind of people you are. Hopefully even on socials you can make connections with people locally. 🤞 x
This is a lovely message, thank you for taking the time to post it. ❤ we do have peanut here, I think I'll give it a shot! You never know, I may just meet one person who becomes my life long friend! ❤
Hey, you’ll be fine, i meet you at Coles @ Kincumber, a little while back, i said hi in any case, you seem nice enough, it’s just time babe!
Ahhh thank you for this! It was lovely to meet you 😊
There are many people who are lonely and isolated in the middle of big cities who would love to have a new friend in their lives. If you want a grandpa figure to chat with I would love to be that person.
Welcome to Australia! 😊
Thank you 😊
Join local playgroups great place. For parents to met up and have a chat. Only way is to join groups Netball team. Sport is always good. Go to tafe learn skill your keen on Its hard to find your tribe Maybe you could offer to show and do makeups or a course. Where you met like minded people Free And Casual Playgroups Around Perth Posted 2018-06-18 by Sue ⇒ follow
Thank you for these suggestions ❤
Kim, loneliness is a normal feeling, especially for parents at home with young kids. Just remind yourself that it is temporary and things will get better. Hope your little one is feeling better. ps. Gorgeous outfits, especially the printed pants from CottonOn.
I'm definitely feeling better than I was 3 months ago so there's a plus 😅 it does take time and I'm sure things will all work out the way they are supposed to ❤ thank you for your kind comments! Ps... the trousers are beautiful! Love them 😊
Living by the beach is nice, but it’s a mother’s happiness that truly matters for her children. I hope it all works out here Kim, but there is also nothing wrong with returning to where your source of warmth and love resides if that’s what your family ends up deciding. Either way, I’m sure your family’s adventures and experiences have made you so much closer.❤
Thank you for this lovely comment. I can't agree with it more. Thankfully both Euan and I feel the same and we're making decisions each time with all of this in mind. ❤ I hope you have a lovely evening x
Hope it works out Kim sadly last year I lost my daughter which has been the worse journey that my husband has ever gone through, I belong to Scotland been in Melbourne for 38 years just came back from Scotland and now thinking of relocating back home to be near family as we are both retired here now, but the loneliness without my daughter is just heartbreaking. 🥰💕💜💜
@maggief1137 I'm so sorry to hear this, I can't imagine how you are feeling 😢 you do whatever you need to do to for you ❤ sending you so much love x
@@kimberleylucas thank you Kim for your kind words greatly appreciated, it should say the worse journey my husband and I have both ever went through. I hope you have a great day, pity you are not in Melbourne we could’ve met up for a coffee and a chat, even though I am older I would like to think I could help you in your time of loneliness, look after yourself 👍🙏🥰
35 dollars for kids shoes why didn’t you buy them from Kmart to for cheap great product placement are you looking for freebies as influencer you come to oz only want to make friends with expats from the uk please move to Perth or better still go home and stop crying if you haven’t made friends it’s your fault 😭😭😭😭
Firstly, I do buy from Kmart however the last trainers I bought my little boy fell apart very quickly. We usually buy nike as they last him however decided to try H&M, we've bought loads of shoes from here and they last. Secondly you clearly haven't watched my video through as all I've been trying to do for the last 15 months is make friends, however as per my video I explain why this hasn't been happening and I can completely understand why. Expats are looking for others... like me, hence why I said this may be a better fit. No need to be so negative to someone who has opened up about a tough subject. Anyway, enjoy the rest of your evening 😊
My brother felt exactly the same in Sydney, he found it extremely hard to make friends, and i can only put that dien to it being the big city, you know, like London. Us northerners are a different breed Kim, if you know, you know. 🤣 My brother made the decision to moved to Perth, and he has made so many friends. I hope you make headway soon lovely lady. ❤️
Thank you for this. I'm so happy he is settling better in Perth! If you have found friends then you have made it! They become the family you are missing and it all works out nicely ❤ I think we may have to make some decisions soon, as we are both feeling the exact same! Hope you are well 😊
@@kimberleylucas I'm good thanks Kim. And yes, he has settled so well in the mines. I really feel for you, but don't give up, it's just taking time. You're working now and friendships are made that way too. But maybe Euan can get a transfer to Perth with his work. It's the last piece in the puzzle for you, you've done so well getting this far so quickly. X
@@teamclarke6999 keep your fingers crossed! What's for us won't go by us 😊👏❤️
@@kimberleylucas Are you a Christian, Kim? Are you in Melbourne where I am?
Another very honest video of moving to Australia Kimberley. Sending you love ❤🇬🇧
Thank you so much, always appreciated ❤
This reminds us all to reach out and be more inclusive. Hope you make connections soon as I’m sure you would be a fabulous friend 😊
Thank you for this ❤ I'm sure it will happen in time 😊
Hiya Kim, Ive said before that you truly remind me of my younger self, like a lil sis! You are such a nice person and that shines through. Anyone would be lucky to have you as a friend. When my sons were younger, I went to tons of clubs, groups, activities like you and often felt lonely there. I would have gravitated towards you and been friendly! My advice is just keep being your lovely self, when you meet other parents in the playground it opens up a whole new set of options for friends. Hang in there mate 🧡
Awww this made me smile! Thank you for this ❤ I would absolutely be your friend ❤ I'm sure it will come, these things just take time and it can happen most likely when I least expect it to! I'm enjoying playgroup etc but I'm just always so busy with the kids that it's hard to speak with others for longer than 3 minutes 😅 I appreciate your kindness, thank you ❤ xx
@@kimberleylucas Oh god yeah I remember that so well! Your attention has to be spread so thin. I always say I don't think I had a hot cup of tea for 7yrs and never had a bath without one son coming in to show me Lego or Pokemon for 12yrs!! But you are right, its THE best job in the world. Did I see in a different video that you were working now too? If so what are you doing and how the heck do you juggle that with your 2 smalls when neither is in school yet?! Take care, Jessie x🧡
@aye70aye yep this is exactly it! My 2 are non stop and I'm desperate for a break but when I go somewhere myself all I do is buy for them 😅 yes I'm working 1 day a week in a lovely spa, just helping out but the girls are lovely and it's good to have some adult chat! It's a juggle for sure and sometimes I do wonder if it's worth it but it's working for now 😊 x
Ignore the haters, trolls and emotional cripples, its a brave and mature thing to be able to express how you feel and what you are experiencing currently. Hang in there you are a very nice person and a great mum, leave the emotional cripples in your wake.Its difficult to find your own people/tribe at times (that has been my experience also).Sometimes though these difficult times and feelings forge a stronger and better you.
This is really lovely for you to say, thank you for sharing. I'm not doing it for sympathy but more for others who are experiencing the same. Its hard to find new friends, i find its very much friendly conversations but nothing really comes of them and maybe thats just the way it is. I have my own family here so it's not like i'm on my own - i had just expected to have made more friendships than i have. I really do appreciate your comment and support - thank you again for your lovely words.
Aw I love how you are so honest and show the real struggles you have but like you say you don't let it keep you down. I hope you stick around after getting a PR VISA and give it a few more years on that before you make decisions. I think your current visa is tying you down. I have kept thinking you'd be better suited in Perth. Keep going! Hang in there! X
Thank you for this. Wouldn't be right for me to share all the great parts but not also show the side that i've found to be hard - if not the hardest part. There's lots of positives to being here, and i am for sure willing to give it my best shot, fingers crossed things will improve! :) x
POOR SAD, WOE IS ME old Kimberley. Are you running for president of the Central Coast Glee Club? Bye bye Kimberley, enough is enough.
You have the right name mate , Wally. What a rude and sad little man.
What a vile, unnecessary comment!
I hope that means you're leaving this channel, you have absolutely no use here. But no, you'll probably sit on here lurking until there's another video you want to pick holes in! 🤔🤔 I'm sure your life is just perfect by the sound of your tone 😂😂😂 sad, sad Wally!
@@aye70aye Why, are you a fully paid up member of the Glee club? HAHAHA.
@@aye70aye iv'e been following Kimbo and family since her first post in Aust.. It gives me no pleasure in saying that she has hardly stopped bleating and farten since she arrived. I have said before and I'll say it again, I think She would be a lot happier being back in gloomy Scotland with her family and friends. Sorry if my comment offends you but everybody finds or looks for something to be offended aboot these days. I only wish happiness for her and her family. Not for her to live a life of misery because the lady is a brilliant mum.
The SUN shining through the car windows must be annoying as well Kimbo. You wouldn't have that problem back in sunny Sco land. 😮😮😮😮
Oh my gosh that “welcome to country” was ADORABLE! I can also really hear Isla’s accent changing 🙈 xx
Get ready to convert to islam UK is different place now, and more resembles cyria, enjoy the cold change
Rolled up news paper or a thong lol 😂
I would totally move there if EVERYTHING DIDNT WANT TO KILL ME!
AWWW, come on Kimbo. A bit of a over reaction. I'm scared of blokes wearing skirts. What do you recommend?
Don't visit scotland 😅
@@kimberleylucas HAHAHA. Thanks for your helpful advice Kimbo. Hey mate, does YOU AND wear a little tartan number on the lodd occasion?
@@wallywombat164only special occasions 😙
LOL! Good luck trying to catch a Huntsman with either of those gadgets!
Oh you will be surprised how small they can go when they are trying to squeeze in somewhere... like your house 😅
@@kimberleylucas I live with one! 😃🇦🇺 But I meant their speed!
@@Jeni10I think I'm just blocking this part out 😅😅😅 HELP!!
How to deal with Huntsman spiders. kzread.info/dash/bejne/iGaeqa1unsy3daQ.htmlsi=VHVBwwjcm-1XU0Yv
Love the way you have settled into life in your new home Kimberly, my late Mum was born in Scotland and came to Australia when she was 18, married an Aussie and had six children including me 😊 this rendition of Nicola Benedetti playing at the opening ceremony of the Glasgow Commonwealth Games brings me to tears … we as a family used to sing this occasionally. Have Scotland in our hearts and blood even though we were born and bred here in Sydney I guess. kzread.info/dash/bejne/pI2imJOGeLjFgbw.htmlsi=oGq1wbvBQtCsC
Haha, tell me about it, 16°c up here in Brisbane yesterday, love the winter 🥶🌞
It's beautiful to look at but I miss coming home to a warm heated house 😅
What about the snakes 🐍 and spiders 🕷
I just watched this and really found a great deal of similarities with our move back in 2008. We moved over from Oldham with 4 children and listening to your stories it brought it all back, especially the child care situation. Keep up the good work because one thing I’ve found here is that you get far better rewards for your efforts. Also as the kids get older they will start getting involved in the local sports and this is where you start getting a bit of your social life back. I am now a grandfather to a beautiful little girl who is one in a few weeks. We also live on the Central Coast and have been since we made the move. We live at Avoca Beach, keep up the good work and I will be keen to see your videos as they progress. Michael Deakin !
Fantastic tips Kim, I’ll be using the suggestion to video the property, I always forget the details of the house after I’ve left. And often we are viewing a few other properties the same week so it’s a great idea to have the videos to look over later, when you don’t feel as rushed. Just to let you know the law recently changed in all states. It’s now illegal for landlords and property agents to accept offers to pay higher than the advertised rent.
Lovely
I completely agree in regards to attaining friendships, i live in Australia and have found it extremely difficult and do not have one friend to catch up with in my area. I am an extremely social person that is pretty much living an isolated life here, which causes me a lot of depression, stress and anxiety in return from this in particular. I do plan to eventually move to either Canada or the USA as it is my lifelong dream to and i do find these countries to be super friendly and life there, FOR ME, seems as i would be truly living. I have tried through kids activities to meet people, but have not gone beyond the same weekly basic conversations. Nippers, swimming, karate, soccer & Brazilian soccer, football, tennis, guitar, drums and hip hop dance and i would always try to converse but never made any true friends. Even going out and about, on a walk around the neighbourhood, it is EXTREMELY rare i'd get a hi, from anyone - unless i go to a mall, when purchasing something.
Unfortunately overall the shops in Terrigal have deteriorated in the last 10 years. The used to be banks, a newsagent, a butcher and a delicatessen. There are 4 vacant shops in Terrig al now. Thus Terrigal shops are good for tourists, but poor for residents. Don’t swim in the lagoon
Too freaking cute!!