I’m so glad a short popped up and reminded me of your channel (by the way, your content is brilliant and much needed deep dives into our collective desi culture! Bol didi, bol! Ok so that sounds weird anyhow preach! Much appreciate The detail the work you have put into creating your Content. So you might be seeing my commentary from your videos years ago, but I hope it contributes to read whatever metric KZread needs to promote you! 3:53 ok sooooo that, great profession however, as one of my dear South Asian, auntie aged patient told me upon sharing The increasing psychological violence towards me from all directions predicated on narcissistic abuse tactics, she said “ this is where we, the parents, did a disservice to our children, we always told you to stay between the lines do what’s right, follow the rules.” Basically lead your life with integrity and virtue. But that only works in societies that are like-minded/ communalism rather than individualistic. Unfortunately many of our organizations, including universities, still, have a very strong adherence to the colonial principles by which the war initially opened, but which remains in the subconscious underbelly of the organization. And this thing I was never made aware of, systemic racism. I rolled into the place with this mindset of meritocracy and egalitarianism among my team members. But that’s not how these places work you got bureaucrats who are masterminds of dark psychology, you have this leadership system that’s still the white patriarchy, and to my chagrin race outweighs rank and therefore reverses power dynamics. So your attempts rectify inappropriate divergences from the plan of care or standard of care is reported to leader ship as nothing more than and example of a character flaw of someone who is unnecessarily persnickety, even though there are actual adverse outcomes from this repeated neglect. And there’s no due process in these places the gist is “white is right.” And in fact, it is so strong that you can actually surpassed your colleagues, quantitatively and qualitatively, and that is secondary to you’re strict adherence to your ability to people please the white employees. When you get mobbed, it’s one of the worst experiences in your life, and it would drive me crazy when people admittedly a lot of white people, would immediately assume that it had to do with money, and that these organizations are only after money and you’re not, they don’t give a crap about doctors blah blah blah and then you have to stop them and say well, even though I’m less productive than before because I have a nurse that isn’t able to function in her role and the way that many other nurses, including those with lower degrees, and I’m still leading in productivity so it’s not a money issue so what is it? And it wasn’t until I was almost completely pushed out that a couple of European friends not even my therapist had pointed out the elements which then became crystal clear. I can’t believe I missed that. So maybe your doctor would be good if you can do the private practice stuff but if you lead with that virtue and integrity, and you going to one of these systems, your mincemeat! Who would’ve thought that patient safety and quality came secondary to race hierarchy
@KeliOConnor3 сағат бұрын
I was raised Christian and Righteous Gemstones is HILARIOUS.
@BeeSmith5 сағат бұрын
This gives me a lot of insight into my grandmother, who the eldest daughter of immigrants who arrived when she was 6 years old. Also...eldest of 5 daughters. And she sure was bossy! She did act as translator for her parents, who were financially so hard up they allowed their youngest to be privately adopted. My sister remembers goimg with her to the Social Security office to sort some matter out for her father. To give context. This all went down in the 1890s. My grandmother was one of the first to go through Ellis Island.
@AprilToprak5 сағат бұрын
Your mama is so sweet. I only learned how to cook thanks to KZread tutorials 😂
@pattrell525714 сағат бұрын
The ironic thing about this is--when almost pure blacks and almost pure whites mix(where several BW generations of non-mixing collide), the chjlbren of this couple look Middle Eastern by default! Meaning, this is what you can expect those chjIbren to look like. Two of my nieces(by marriage and born before my black brother and white sis-in-law were married) are ME looking. But, the chjIb my brother and her had(my blud niece] is instead white passing(my family has white ancestry not far back in the genealogical record). So, this is very likely the origin of Middle Eastern people: one black and white parent. Therefore, when you hate black people as a nation or group of people, you hate one of your ancestral parents or where you came from...
@AprilToprak20 сағат бұрын
I’m from Argentine. A Muslim revert living in Buenos Aires. Every single time people ask me: “but, where are you originally come from?” Followed by a… “oh, so you’re playing being Arab”.
@MiaMia-lb2iyКүн бұрын
Glad someone spoke on this. I'm 23 and want to make that leap with independence yet I'm holding myself back along with my mom. I'm so restless yet so used to my mom's comfort. I know, I need to get it together
@londonoxfordstreet2 күн бұрын
*SCHOOLS TEACH MUSLIM CHILDREN TO BE INFERIOR* kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZWuXtM2QpLG5mJc.htmlsi=_1UwBO3pgCUPtUza
@londonoxfordstreet2 күн бұрын
American Born Confused Muslim (ABCM) 😂
@londonoxfordstreet2 күн бұрын
Generational degradation at work
@londonoxfordstreet2 күн бұрын
*SCHOOLS TEACH MUSLIM CHILDREN TO BE INFERIOR* kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZWuXtM2QpLG5mJc.htmlsi=_1UwBO3pgCUPtUza
@dhdowlad2 күн бұрын
I have been told the same story when i was young but i would not like my child to stand there and wait for me..
@bookwormsurfer2 күн бұрын
TOTALLY. Israeli men not so much. Hottest men on Earth and most respectful of women and children. Allah not with raping terrorists, ladies. NOT AT ALL.
@mariatrimboli99633 күн бұрын
I never knew this was a thing! I am a 65 year old woman of Italian immigrant parents that came to the USA in the late1950s. I had those same EXACT experiences as you. Except I wasn’t encouraged to get a higher education. I did it anyway. Being the eldest daughter explains so many things. Why I am the way I am. And why I made certain decisions in my life… Some things never change I guess.
@delshahid89713 күн бұрын
Still makes me laugh😂😂😂😂
@delshahid89713 күн бұрын
Yep!!! Still living it🤪😆
@user-bl8uu6rq4z3 күн бұрын
Love the skits lol❤
@tearsinthesea4 күн бұрын
As a new hijabi, I am really happy I found this video
@sababa56894 күн бұрын
Oh Tazzyphe you are so on point. You are totally describing my husband and his side of the family.
@sarbnitrof46634 күн бұрын
Accepting a belief system based entirely on unverifiable claims because it makes you feel good is a sign of insecurity moreso than a lack of intelligence.
@piricarmen4 күн бұрын
How can you be religious and then discriminate against your brother for God’s given blessing of having rich melanin. You cannot believe in Allah and be cruel and hateful against your brother for his skin.
@stevet50875 күн бұрын
Stop generalizing… makes you look completely ignorant.
@BeansPredi-ch6xk4 күн бұрын
She isn’t generalizing. Stop insulting! Makes you look like a complete asshole.
@jessicalynn72294 күн бұрын
Are you brown ?
@alphacause5 күн бұрын
Wow! Its like you are speaking to my own life experiences. The overzealous pampering tendency that Desi parents have with their own kids does, in many ways, hamper their true potential. While this very protective and nurturing approach does help us in many ways - making us more safe and more educated than people of other races, it also has a dark side. It makes us less likely to take risks and be adventurous. The end result is Desi culture produces excellent students and workers, but not people who do monumental things that are profoundly impactful. Its why, I surmise, while we excel in STEM, most of the great leaps forward in technology are not invented by Desis but by White people. It may have something to do with Caucasian culture where, on average, they are more open to risk taking and their culture emphasizes more independence in their children. This rugged individualistic mindset leads to immense creativity and innovation that is rare among Desi people.
@amuthanshan5 күн бұрын
Excel in STEM, yes. But only in certain communities. There are still some communities that are suspicious of 'western' science such as evolution which is a fundamental pillar of biology.
@alphacause4 күн бұрын
@@amuthanshan That is true. There are many within Desi culture who deny evolutionary theory, but that ultimately does not effect their career prospects as most science related fields they pursue do not require a working knowledge of evolutionary theory. You can practice medicine, for example, without embracing evolutionary theory.
@MitaliNavajaCondori5 күн бұрын
We are growing with you, Tazzy❤ Thanks for having the courage to do it on camera so that we can also hold the mirror up to ourselves, Masha Allah🪷❤️🩹🙏🏾
@ln3935 күн бұрын
I would say tat if u r putting ur kid in school with a focused community, have the kid exposed to other communities in other programs lik sports etc..
@ln3935 күн бұрын
the burping😂😂😂
@abuhijjra6 күн бұрын
Iblis was the first racist and racism was half of the reason he’s condemned to hell. This is why the Prophet peace be upon him said, racism is close to Kufir.
@abuhijjra6 күн бұрын
I won’t name them, they know who they are. Let’s not leave out the racist African immigrant Muslims. Yes, that’s right they are here and some worst than the Arabs and the Pakistanis.
@abuhijjra6 күн бұрын
I don’t vote, but I hope that Trump wins and bans all immigrant Muslims from coming to America and revoke citizenship and green cards of those that already came. It’s haram to become citizens here if you are from a Muslim country. It’s worst that you import your racism.
@abuhijjra6 күн бұрын
If you want to know if an Arab or South Asian is racist, ask to marry into their family.
@Texasdontcareaboutyou6 күн бұрын
For me it's not that I think that they are stupid for believing in a God, that's harmless, I think they are stupid because they are believing the words of other people about God, Giving them money because they have faith in them and in the past marching to their drum beats over conflicts that the leaders most likely started themselves. Actually it's safe to say that if religion hadn't caused so much blood to be spilled and division amongst mankind I wouldn't have a bad thing to say about it at all.
@YaAllahswt6 күн бұрын
While I agree that that racism is a huge problem in this ummah as a black person myself I can’t help but find myself thinking about this. One of the main reasons a lot of black people say Arabs/desis are racist is because they won’t marry them. I feel like any normal and self-respecting person wouldn’t cry and beg for a group of people outside their race to choose them as a partner and would just marry their own. However you tell a black person this and they’ll cry and say it’s their right to marry outside their race as well and bring up that ayat that Allah created us in different tribes. Why is it that this topic is never an issue amongst non black Muslims? They all prefer their own, want to be around their own, and would very much rather marry their own. It’s only black Muslims that feel everyone should marry them. Is it internalized racism amongst other black Muslims themselves and now they’re projecting or what? I don’t care to be accepted or even want to be in non-black spaces. I don’t care who likes me or who doesn’t. It’s not hard to stick with your own. It’s only hard if you’re suffering from self-hatred and want to mix your blood out of existence. The self-hatred and prejudice in terms of skin tone, facial features to hair texture is so prevalent in many black communities. I’ve seen so many black Muslim men fawn over Arab/White or least black looking African women and choose them over west African or darker skinned sisters. If we can’t even respect and love ourselves how can we expect for others to respect and love us?
@rushyit6 күн бұрын
Thank you for the content really informative but I think you need to edit the audio a bit, especially on the bass, there is a "dum dum sub sound" on your vid.
@slabbb1277 күн бұрын
not gonna watch the video but, oh yea, most def. they are ignorant.
@majidsiddiqui29067 күн бұрын
Remember which muslim country is a nuclear power and it ain’t no arab country. They’ve been kicking the sand and shi88ng in tents for centuries. They have contribured nothing in the past 500 years.
@ianupfold20217 күн бұрын
Got to face it, islam allows the bad treatment of women Read the hadiths. Just ONE example. All the cover up clothing becsuse men have placed their problem of lust onto women, n they pay the price for it. Guy in bathing costume enjoys fresh swim n lie in the sun while women swest it out under all their clothing breathing stale air. Thats Islams attitude to women.
@417jumps37 күн бұрын
If those are your views why don’t you take that rag off your head..
@peaceseeker99278 күн бұрын
If what you said in the video you took down was not true, the reaction would not have been so intense. Truth often hurts.
@ElRosco1879 күн бұрын
Society will tell me as a black man I should hate Arabs. I harbor no hate towards anyone especially people I do not know. All the Arabs/Muslims I have met have been kind.
@brunolerman98710 күн бұрын
Try to be gay in a muslim country or just christian and non wearing those ridiculous clothes on...probs life is over in few seconds
@connorcameronjaggs10 күн бұрын
Yes, they are. Theres litteraly no scenario where you can argue that its no idiotic to blindly believe in something youve no evidence for and to further blind yiurself by claiming to have a relationship with a god or gods
@jeromeisaacs442810 күн бұрын
I was shocked to see how North Africans bleach their Skin to look like White Arabs
@Cheesecake_mmm11 күн бұрын
I love your candidness as others have said. You're one of the few Muslim women who focus on real talk and things that matter. You're always so relatable. How is your pilot show going? Praying you follow the path that feels authentic to you x
@biggsubz312211 күн бұрын
standard victim mentality
@abdelzahermohamed576212 күн бұрын
There is this Kenyan guy who is promoting a fetish for arab women that they should be marraing black men. would you talk about this kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZWyjp9CMqcvAgKw.html
@appleciderr11413 күн бұрын
You have amazing skin
@appleciderr11413 күн бұрын
Tazzy Phe: Asking all the important questions and making the best points (except for the brief Michael Jackson part)
@jr42a113 күн бұрын
Raghead may have been a little harsh as I was not there... You guys should have settle on camel jockey or turban top.
@purpledurple62113 күн бұрын
I'm surprised you didn't talk about laicite was just the French word for secularism. They're secularism narcicularism has fundamentally different meanings in interpretations. That's a very important part in understanding this discussion.
@FAITHFULQRX13 күн бұрын
Religious people are a little dumb
@phyliciajoykloes13 күн бұрын
Lovely video! I like the list you shared. I'm glad I got this video recommended.
@LaisulHoque13 күн бұрын
Thank you for contextualizing our lived experiences
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I’m so glad a short popped up and reminded me of your channel (by the way, your content is brilliant and much needed deep dives into our collective desi culture! Bol didi, bol! Ok so that sounds weird anyhow preach! Much appreciate The detail the work you have put into creating your Content. So you might be seeing my commentary from your videos years ago, but I hope it contributes to read whatever metric KZread needs to promote you! 3:53 ok sooooo that, great profession however, as one of my dear South Asian, auntie aged patient told me upon sharing The increasing psychological violence towards me from all directions predicated on narcissistic abuse tactics, she said “ this is where we, the parents, did a disservice to our children, we always told you to stay between the lines do what’s right, follow the rules.” Basically lead your life with integrity and virtue. But that only works in societies that are like-minded/ communalism rather than individualistic. Unfortunately many of our organizations, including universities, still, have a very strong adherence to the colonial principles by which the war initially opened, but which remains in the subconscious underbelly of the organization. And this thing I was never made aware of, systemic racism. I rolled into the place with this mindset of meritocracy and egalitarianism among my team members. But that’s not how these places work you got bureaucrats who are masterminds of dark psychology, you have this leadership system that’s still the white patriarchy, and to my chagrin race outweighs rank and therefore reverses power dynamics. So your attempts rectify inappropriate divergences from the plan of care or standard of care is reported to leader ship as nothing more than and example of a character flaw of someone who is unnecessarily persnickety, even though there are actual adverse outcomes from this repeated neglect. And there’s no due process in these places the gist is “white is right.” And in fact, it is so strong that you can actually surpassed your colleagues, quantitatively and qualitatively, and that is secondary to you’re strict adherence to your ability to people please the white employees. When you get mobbed, it’s one of the worst experiences in your life, and it would drive me crazy when people admittedly a lot of white people, would immediately assume that it had to do with money, and that these organizations are only after money and you’re not, they don’t give a crap about doctors blah blah blah and then you have to stop them and say well, even though I’m less productive than before because I have a nurse that isn’t able to function in her role and the way that many other nurses, including those with lower degrees, and I’m still leading in productivity so it’s not a money issue so what is it? And it wasn’t until I was almost completely pushed out that a couple of European friends not even my therapist had pointed out the elements which then became crystal clear. I can’t believe I missed that. So maybe your doctor would be good if you can do the private practice stuff but if you lead with that virtue and integrity, and you going to one of these systems, your mincemeat! Who would’ve thought that patient safety and quality came secondary to race hierarchy
I was raised Christian and Righteous Gemstones is HILARIOUS.
This gives me a lot of insight into my grandmother, who the eldest daughter of immigrants who arrived when she was 6 years old. Also...eldest of 5 daughters. And she sure was bossy! She did act as translator for her parents, who were financially so hard up they allowed their youngest to be privately adopted. My sister remembers goimg with her to the Social Security office to sort some matter out for her father. To give context. This all went down in the 1890s. My grandmother was one of the first to go through Ellis Island.
Your mama is so sweet. I only learned how to cook thanks to KZread tutorials 😂
The ironic thing about this is--when almost pure blacks and almost pure whites mix(where several BW generations of non-mixing collide), the chjlbren of this couple look Middle Eastern by default! Meaning, this is what you can expect those chjIbren to look like. Two of my nieces(by marriage and born before my black brother and white sis-in-law were married) are ME looking. But, the chjIb my brother and her had(my blud niece] is instead white passing(my family has white ancestry not far back in the genealogical record). So, this is very likely the origin of Middle Eastern people: one black and white parent. Therefore, when you hate black people as a nation or group of people, you hate one of your ancestral parents or where you came from...
I’m from Argentine. A Muslim revert living in Buenos Aires. Every single time people ask me: “but, where are you originally come from?” Followed by a… “oh, so you’re playing being Arab”.
Glad someone spoke on this. I'm 23 and want to make that leap with independence yet I'm holding myself back along with my mom. I'm so restless yet so used to my mom's comfort. I know, I need to get it together
*SCHOOLS TEACH MUSLIM CHILDREN TO BE INFERIOR* kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZWuXtM2QpLG5mJc.htmlsi=_1UwBO3pgCUPtUza
American Born Confused Muslim (ABCM) 😂
Generational degradation at work
*SCHOOLS TEACH MUSLIM CHILDREN TO BE INFERIOR* kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZWuXtM2QpLG5mJc.htmlsi=_1UwBO3pgCUPtUza
I have been told the same story when i was young but i would not like my child to stand there and wait for me..
TOTALLY. Israeli men not so much. Hottest men on Earth and most respectful of women and children. Allah not with raping terrorists, ladies. NOT AT ALL.
I never knew this was a thing! I am a 65 year old woman of Italian immigrant parents that came to the USA in the late1950s. I had those same EXACT experiences as you. Except I wasn’t encouraged to get a higher education. I did it anyway. Being the eldest daughter explains so many things. Why I am the way I am. And why I made certain decisions in my life… Some things never change I guess.
Still makes me laugh😂😂😂😂
Yep!!! Still living it🤪😆
Love the skits lol❤
As a new hijabi, I am really happy I found this video
Oh Tazzyphe you are so on point. You are totally describing my husband and his side of the family.
Accepting a belief system based entirely on unverifiable claims because it makes you feel good is a sign of insecurity moreso than a lack of intelligence.
How can you be religious and then discriminate against your brother for God’s given blessing of having rich melanin. You cannot believe in Allah and be cruel and hateful against your brother for his skin.
Stop generalizing… makes you look completely ignorant.
She isn’t generalizing. Stop insulting! Makes you look like a complete asshole.
Are you brown ?
Wow! Its like you are speaking to my own life experiences. The overzealous pampering tendency that Desi parents have with their own kids does, in many ways, hamper their true potential. While this very protective and nurturing approach does help us in many ways - making us more safe and more educated than people of other races, it also has a dark side. It makes us less likely to take risks and be adventurous. The end result is Desi culture produces excellent students and workers, but not people who do monumental things that are profoundly impactful. Its why, I surmise, while we excel in STEM, most of the great leaps forward in technology are not invented by Desis but by White people. It may have something to do with Caucasian culture where, on average, they are more open to risk taking and their culture emphasizes more independence in their children. This rugged individualistic mindset leads to immense creativity and innovation that is rare among Desi people.
Excel in STEM, yes. But only in certain communities. There are still some communities that are suspicious of 'western' science such as evolution which is a fundamental pillar of biology.
@@amuthanshan That is true. There are many within Desi culture who deny evolutionary theory, but that ultimately does not effect their career prospects as most science related fields they pursue do not require a working knowledge of evolutionary theory. You can practice medicine, for example, without embracing evolutionary theory.
We are growing with you, Tazzy❤ Thanks for having the courage to do it on camera so that we can also hold the mirror up to ourselves, Masha Allah🪷❤️🩹🙏🏾
I would say tat if u r putting ur kid in school with a focused community, have the kid exposed to other communities in other programs lik sports etc..
the burping😂😂😂
Iblis was the first racist and racism was half of the reason he’s condemned to hell. This is why the Prophet peace be upon him said, racism is close to Kufir.
I won’t name them, they know who they are. Let’s not leave out the racist African immigrant Muslims. Yes, that’s right they are here and some worst than the Arabs and the Pakistanis.
I don’t vote, but I hope that Trump wins and bans all immigrant Muslims from coming to America and revoke citizenship and green cards of those that already came. It’s haram to become citizens here if you are from a Muslim country. It’s worst that you import your racism.
If you want to know if an Arab or South Asian is racist, ask to marry into their family.
For me it's not that I think that they are stupid for believing in a God, that's harmless, I think they are stupid because they are believing the words of other people about God, Giving them money because they have faith in them and in the past marching to their drum beats over conflicts that the leaders most likely started themselves. Actually it's safe to say that if religion hadn't caused so much blood to be spilled and division amongst mankind I wouldn't have a bad thing to say about it at all.
While I agree that that racism is a huge problem in this ummah as a black person myself I can’t help but find myself thinking about this. One of the main reasons a lot of black people say Arabs/desis are racist is because they won’t marry them. I feel like any normal and self-respecting person wouldn’t cry and beg for a group of people outside their race to choose them as a partner and would just marry their own. However you tell a black person this and they’ll cry and say it’s their right to marry outside their race as well and bring up that ayat that Allah created us in different tribes. Why is it that this topic is never an issue amongst non black Muslims? They all prefer their own, want to be around their own, and would very much rather marry their own. It’s only black Muslims that feel everyone should marry them. Is it internalized racism amongst other black Muslims themselves and now they’re projecting or what? I don’t care to be accepted or even want to be in non-black spaces. I don’t care who likes me or who doesn’t. It’s not hard to stick with your own. It’s only hard if you’re suffering from self-hatred and want to mix your blood out of existence. The self-hatred and prejudice in terms of skin tone, facial features to hair texture is so prevalent in many black communities. I’ve seen so many black Muslim men fawn over Arab/White or least black looking African women and choose them over west African or darker skinned sisters. If we can’t even respect and love ourselves how can we expect for others to respect and love us?
Thank you for the content really informative but I think you need to edit the audio a bit, especially on the bass, there is a "dum dum sub sound" on your vid.
not gonna watch the video but, oh yea, most def. they are ignorant.
Remember which muslim country is a nuclear power and it ain’t no arab country. They’ve been kicking the sand and shi88ng in tents for centuries. They have contribured nothing in the past 500 years.
Got to face it, islam allows the bad treatment of women Read the hadiths. Just ONE example. All the cover up clothing becsuse men have placed their problem of lust onto women, n they pay the price for it. Guy in bathing costume enjoys fresh swim n lie in the sun while women swest it out under all their clothing breathing stale air. Thats Islams attitude to women.
If those are your views why don’t you take that rag off your head..
If what you said in the video you took down was not true, the reaction would not have been so intense. Truth often hurts.
Society will tell me as a black man I should hate Arabs. I harbor no hate towards anyone especially people I do not know. All the Arabs/Muslims I have met have been kind.
Try to be gay in a muslim country or just christian and non wearing those ridiculous clothes on...probs life is over in few seconds
Yes, they are. Theres litteraly no scenario where you can argue that its no idiotic to blindly believe in something youve no evidence for and to further blind yiurself by claiming to have a relationship with a god or gods
I was shocked to see how North Africans bleach their Skin to look like White Arabs
I love your candidness as others have said. You're one of the few Muslim women who focus on real talk and things that matter. You're always so relatable. How is your pilot show going? Praying you follow the path that feels authentic to you x
standard victim mentality
There is this Kenyan guy who is promoting a fetish for arab women that they should be marraing black men. would you talk about this kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZWyjp9CMqcvAgKw.html
You have amazing skin
Tazzy Phe: Asking all the important questions and making the best points (except for the brief Michael Jackson part)
Raghead may have been a little harsh as I was not there... You guys should have settle on camel jockey or turban top.
I'm surprised you didn't talk about laicite was just the French word for secularism. They're secularism narcicularism has fundamentally different meanings in interpretations. That's a very important part in understanding this discussion.
Religious people are a little dumb
Lovely video! I like the list you shared. I'm glad I got this video recommended.
Thank you for contextualizing our lived experiences