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It’s a gradual progression hence why we should stay away from
Thank you, man of God! Blessings to you and your ministry 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾✝️📖🕊️
Great Point I'm dealing with this at work now may the Lord deliver me
Amen. This is the environment I'm dealing with at work. Although, I don't consider my co-workers my friends I definitely struggle spiritually (spiritual warefare/wrestling) being amongst them everyday. There's one on my team who's certainly involved in new age and witchcraft. I discerned her the first day I started as well as the entire office environment felt dark and heavy of demonic forces.
Same here, being a Godly man I lose my way because I'm around a lot of carnal people
Thank you so much brother and sister🙏
Curious if he and his wife waited until marriage to have sex. I am here because I came across their book in Barnes and Nobles and decided to research the authors before purchasing. I've watched about 5 of their videos and have heard no mention of it. Hmmm. Were you two Godly dating? @GodlyDating101 @Godly Dating 101
That was helpful 😀😀😀
Yes.
I recently fell for a trap, i ignored red flags from the first conversation I had with my ex she insinuated how sex wins her over quickly. And couple weeks later brought up sex topic again saying she isn’t opposed to it. I was so desperate to find someone and it felt good to be wanted that i slept with her on our third time hanging out. Then after we started dating se told me that she just barely cut things off with a guy who she rebounded after her ex-husband 3 weeks after we started talking. And that he was her kids soccer coach. In the moment I was so clouded in judgement. After a couple months drama started with that guy. I began to feel uncomfortable with situation, I expressed my feelings to her over and over but nothing changed. At the end she just told me to get over it or leave. I also had to sneak around from her ex husband and kids to see her. In 8 months dating she never introduced me to her dad or siblings or mentioned me. Also not too her catholic friends. She said they would leave her if she got pregnant outside of marriage, but yet we always had sex. She wouldn’t tell me if her and coach had sex because she said it was irrelevant. After we broke up she gave me std and denied it. it’s been a rough 4 months after break up. But I’m glad it’s pushing me towards God again. I can’t believe I dropped everything I was doing and gave sway 3 years of abstinence. Thank you for your videos. I don’t want to relive tus again.
The cheating ones & the hot headed one
The second I noticed the masonic hand gesture in the thumbnail I knew this man was to NOT be trusted. Nextttttt
Amen❤️✨ and if you guys did not know the real name for God it is YHWH(YAHWEH) and his only begotten son real name is YESHUA😊💕 When It’s too late it’s too late, therefore please REPENT!!!! Allow God(YHWH) and YESHUA into your hearts! Believe me you won’t regret it🥰✨
Does anybody know what episode this is?
Im dating a non believer but I feel I love him hope with time ILL lt it go Thanks
I’ve been unevenly yoked in marriage and didn’t know I was when I got married. He was doing all the right things that attracted me to him looking for a Christian. It has caused me 3 decades of struggle and stress that affected my health nearly costing my life and my walk with God. It still is. It has hurt all my relationships and caused me to become someone I never wanted to be. I still don’t understand how this could have happened other than I was not walking with God when I met my husband and he was it seemed. I don’t know if I will ever fully heal. I wish that I knew this back when I was a young Christian attempting to turn away from sin and that I had a family support system.
Great video, thank you for this really needed this,God bless you 🙏
That book 😍
44 virgin and it's tough. I waited because I was afraid of going to hell. at the time lol . I would suggest marrying early in life to lose virginity
Muslims have not only signed up to christian dating but they have fallen for me and desire me and have strong feelings for me so am in difficult situation.
If you find one, marry fast. Many follow the dress code, they know the Christian-lingo, Proverbs 31 in bio, they can cite scripture, church every Sunday......but the moment you look away they are a different person......
Hello, brother i just found this channel, so I'm a little late to this meme/trend, as a single male,I was taught many years ago as a saved man of God and single to avoid Dating apps, and the internet altogether, and just ask the lord and pray about it, what are your thoughts on this particular course of action, concerning waiting on the lord to send send you someone,
thank you ♥️♥️
Amen
He’s 100 percent correct. P.S. I am a woman.
Saw this when I needed it most. Yup I’m good off it. God been too good
Choppy audio 🥲
10:48 relationship
"Your testimony should uplift me" THAT PART!!!
Great video brother. Thank you for using your spiritual gift of teaching. God bless.
This is so good.
Hmmm. Never considered modesty outside of clothes. It’s definitely a heart issue
This is good
What about anal Is that still on the table?
It’s good to see people writing about Christian dating.. need to help be fruitful and multiply in the church.. not trying to be rude. The topic of commitment shouldn’t even be talked about in the beginning of a relationship or the beginning of a conversation about going out.. it’s not a man’s job to bring up commitment.. after going out for a month or so a woman will bring that up..
Let's talk for a bit, number one thing is when you are dealing with the Bible you are dealing with HEBREW CULTURE. it's not religious culture or Christian culture it is HEBREW CULTURE and it was given to the ISRAELITES. ( the 12 tribes or sons of Jacob ) Stop thinking the Bible is Christian, IT IS NOT nor is it Christianity IT IS NOT point blank period. Now please understand this, there is NO SUCH THING as Sex outside of Marriage. That statement Cannot be found in Scripture anywhere. Why is that you ask ?? Because SEX IS MARRIAGE ! Yep that's right every person that you had sex with You are ONE FLESH with that person notice that Paul Said if You join yourself to a harlot you are ONE FLESH with her ( join yourself means Have Sex With ) when you have sex with that person you are JOINED ( Married) to that person ( one flesh Covenant) why ?? Because that's what sex does ( that's how it works) and Yes that guy was Correct, Fornication IS a blanket term for ALL SEXUAL IMMORALITY. Now let's fix this ( if you look at a woman thing ) Messiah Christ is saying..if you look at a MARRIED woman with lust ( the desire to take her from her husband) you have committed Adultery with her in your MIND..that is what He is saying. You can look at Any SINGLE woman you want to, but you Cannot desire another man's wife point blank period.
not my will but Yours God
Insightful perspective! Many prayers points were given 🔥 ✍🏿 thanks brother for these wise words!! Very much needed in my season !! Shalom, blessings to you and yours 🫶🏾🪔🕊️
My heart is breaking right now in million pieces. I told my partner I wanted to have sex after marriage he agreed he'd wait but now his going off on me talking about I can find someone else like me who will wait if I want to wait and that he won't wait two years to sleep with me that he would rather be alone. And he talks about I don't excite him. And complained that I don't show him my body etc..... He said I don't do anything to excite him in terms of showing him body parts. He says if we don't have sex before marriage he might change his mind after and not want to have sex when married to me. He said waiting to have sex is dumb if we love one another that we should just do it. Then he tells me right after that he loves me and won't change on me
Leave that man.
wow very nice everything you said
I NEVER DATE A MAN CHILD FROM A RELIGION THEYRE THE WORST And I’m not saying all are the same but not everyone who says they’re of God are of God. You do know them by thier fruits. Yes, no one is perfect but if u have no discipline. No thanks 🙂↔️
That’s right!!!! Because he will always like others and cheat. Lust is a spirit regardless if they in the church or not. You can see when a man has it and female too.
YEP YOURE SO RIGHT!!!!
Needed this 🙏🏼
Amen and thank you my brother !
Amen!
I’ve left many churches people that at out there
Or the man has no idea what they want. They say “ I don’t know what I’m doing? Can’t lead. Believe them when they say it.
Joseph was testing his brothers to see if they had changed, or if they would sell out his little brother in the same way they had sold him.
Hey Tovares, thanks for another episode! I’ve been listening to you and Safa off and on for the past 4 years now, I appreciate the godly advice you both have given! I wanted to respectfully and biblically dispute something you said. You said Cain’s sacrifice wasn’t accepted because it was mediocre, and Abel’s sacrifice was accepted because it was his best. From what the Bible says, Cain gave of the fruit he grew(Genesis 4:3 “And in process of time it came to pass, that Cain brought of the fruit of the ground an offering unto the LORD.”) and Abel brought a sacrifice(Genesis 4:4 “And Abel, he also brought of the firstlings of his flock and of the fat thereof.”) This shows that Abel brought what God REQUIRED in the Old Testament- blood to be shed for sins (although shedding animals blood was a picture of Christ’s blood and what was to come through that). (Genesis 3:21 “Unto Adam also and to his wife did the LORD God make coats of skins, and clothed them.” God killed some animals to get the skins, as far as I see.) Ultimately, of course, study it for yourself. But I wanted to point that out to what I see the Bible says! It wasn’t that Cain’s offering was mediocre, it was that it was incorrect and therefore unacceptable to a Holy God. Thank you both again for the years of Bible y’all share and teach! Blessings to you both
I abstain from sex because I’ve seen it cloud my judgement firsthand. I want what God wants for me and sex can lead me away from that when done in the improper context