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This is by far the best video I came across explaining shadow work, well done. Can't wait for part 2
@akrammaatouk5593 - thank you! That's so kind of you, we hope to release part 2 in the coming days! ♥
Thank you for this.
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My diagnosis is bipolar one and I am not ashamed.
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Jim Carrey and Angelina jolie don't have confirmed BPD..
Great video.
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Demi Lovato too seems to be a pwBPD
Snake oil
A timely video.
Great video! Thank you 🙏
Thank you for this!
I thought Van Gogh had Schizophrenia!
Swing and a miss!
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Jolie was a cutter. Huge flag
7:00 Jim definitely not the only borderline person in that shot
every hugely successful anything ever
Is there a connection between borderline personality disorder and its opposing naracistic personality disorder. If those living with borderline personality disorder require empathy, then there is a very strong possibility that these individuals can be deliberately 'targeted' by naracistic abusers. These individuals mimic empathy but in reality naracists have absolutely no empathy and are totally empty people. When you actually think about it, a person living with borderline personality disorder is the ideal target for a naracistic individual simply because they can 'make' these individuals 'do their bidding' while at the same time 'pretending' that they are there to help them. The 'real' reality is that the naracist is only there to 'help themselves' and by 'letting on' that they are 'helping' the person living with borderline personality disorder, they get to 'put on' a 'performance' and a 'show' for their fan club of 'flying monkeys' who apparently do not 'have the ability' to see 'through' the naracist and the 'show' that is 'put on' specifically for them. May we all be protected from covert passive aggressive naracists.
Why do you say Van Gogh that way?
Hi @luigiprovencher8888 it's a Dutch name and I'm trying to pronounce it correctly! 😊
I have heard that Amy Winehouse, Janis Joplin and Britney Spears are Borderlines,Prince Harry has been open about that he's an Borderline. JazzyT, Scapegoat of two Narc's.
Celebrity’s who have not been living are life 😅
Not everyone has to have a diagnosis of some sort. We are not these beings with psychology labels. We are children of God. Each of us has our ups and downs. Each of us have natural abilities that are uplifting, and behaviors that can cause friction inside ourselves and around others. Instead of viewing people and ourselves as a ‘walking talking diagnosis’, let’s view ourselves as a human being that has good and not so good traits, a human being that is unique with what gifts and struggles we each have, and that we are all children of God. Having much to offer the world.
Cool. 😊so remember that knowing when false cues or clues are present, using Self talk and being aware that you dont feel well, in tandem, might produce a likely feeling of apathy towards it. Sorta like when we're sick and just accept it. It's emotional at first, but after 3 days of sneezing, needing sleep, or using the toilet, we kinda just go with it n stop worrying. 😁🙏💯
I know, i dont have any heart problems at the tender young age of 47, but... When a serious stressor involving fear hits me, PTSD symptoms included, bad tapes, past trauna, i understand whats happened, but once n awhile ill get these sorta heart bumps, where one beat seems harder than the other. You ever heard of that before coach? ☹️🙏💯
Hi @JKDVIPER thanks for your question. Sorry to hear about how difficult it's been at times. What you're talking about could be anxiety-related as the fight/flight response can increase heart rate, but if you think it's something else, for example, if it happens when you're not feeling particularly anxious/afraid, it would be a good idea to get a medical opinion, just to rule anything out. Hope that helps. All the best 🙏
This was awesome, a lot of details. I subbed. ✅💯
@JKDVIPER thank you for subbing, we appreciate your feedback too! 🙂
I don’t believe Britney really had those symptoms, a lot of people that are considered as « normal » did messier things by impulsivity, the video of her with her children is just a normal mother getting mad at her kids for doing wild things, the difference is that she was filmed as a manipulative tactic that the kid’s father used against her to manipulate her, she’s a woman that has been around abusive parents, a self centered sister and 2 narcissistic exes that made her suffering… When it comes to Angelina Jolie , I think she never really had a normal life growing up with a famous father + the death of her mother and a relationship with an abusive husband, I think her reactions due to her environment were completely normal, I think she’s just a normal human being that needs to experiences fresh experiences to heel her from her past traumas.
The thing is, _all_ people with a diagnosis are normal people. What we as a society label as "mental health disorders" are usually perfectly normal, and natural, reactions to extreme experiences (such as, but not only, abuse and trauma). I find this reliance on, and unquestionable respect for, the mental health system deeply concerning. Having gone through it I know how insane and abusive it is. And this is where we are meant to go when we're in crisis... Horrendous.
Van Gogh also used natural turpentine when painting which can affect the mental health
I have an issue here with your inclusion of Robyn Williams who was diagnosed with a specific dementia and this is incorrect information and I don’t think that you should be linking people without facts and actual diagnosis.
@LornaLens - I agree with your last point. However, Robin Williams was mentioned in the context of "funny men" who often bury much deeper mental health issues. Robin was thought to be severely depressed as well as having been diagnosed with dementia. People with dementia suffer in ways that go beyond the dementia itself, they often display anger as an expression of the upset, pain, and frustration they go through with the disease, but cannot articulate. I mentioned him because he came to mind as a man who on the outside, to the world, may have seemed "fine".
There is not treatment for severe personality disorders. Only brushfire management.
According to whom and what?
Jim Carrey and Ben Stiller? Sure? Source?
@ahistoryofviolence4902 - we mention that these individuals are "thought to" experience BPD, this is based on various online sources, which is why we do not definitively claim this. Ultimately, we chose them due to their mental health difficulties which may or may not present in the form of BPD, to raise awareness of mental health challenges that we all go through, celebrity or not.
I dont trust this...im AuAdhd & Ive been musdiagnosed as borderline twice.
This was very helpful, thank you
You're welcome @mikeculver5014 - thank you for watching.
Comparing celebs lives to your regular Joe is apples and oranges. Theyre allowed to be "crazy." If we act that way we lose our jobs, families, everything.
About you as unknown person the journalists dont mention every week the problems and divorces….. just to earn somemoney, or they even write untrue stuff.
It seems according to Sam Vaknin and and books he studies from narcissism experts, only way to deal with narcissistic people is to become also a narcisist, and that narcissism is actually a response or defense mechanism to the people around you.
But after recovering you may become your true self.
@@alaalfa8839the best strategy is to go no-contact and/or set healthy boundaries
That cat virus. Toxoplasmosis?
How could you not mention Pete Davidson who admitted suffering the disorder? Also, what Van Gogh saw in the sky was a result of his medication, which made yellow incredibly stark in contrast to other colours.
@hadnoideahow thanks for your comments, Pete Davidson may feature in a future video. Your information about Van Gogh is interesting, although I would hazard that the medication may have heightened something within, that was therefore perceived through the 'lens' of his experience and emotional, mental, and psychological state.
@@phinitytherapy Thanks for the reply. Van Gogh also had serious physical afflictions which may have been caused by syphilis. There's a very good video on his life: kzread.info/dash/bejne/omth2JWLprHQh9o.html&ab_channel=ProfessorGraemeYorston
You don't know that any of these celebrities actually have BPD. What a waste of time
@CMStrawbridge I fear you have missed the point. This is about raising awareness. Some of those mentioned have suspected BPD, and some have traits that are common to BPD, and therefore, are challenging due to how these impact mental health and life. This video is about raising awareness of the difficulties of mental health, and BPD is one way in which this presents. Whether a celebrity has disclosed their diagnosis or not is not the point, we discussing the challenges, but also the overcoming despite the difficulties.
@@phinitytherapy I didn't "miss the point," OP has no idea about anything in this video, and it shows. Miss me with that tired ” you don't get it” bullshit. Some content is just bad. Most content, actually
@CMStrawbridge I did not mean to cause any offence, you didn't like the video and that's okay. Our intention is to raise awareness and we appreciate feedback.
@@phinitytherapy Feedback: Look into how the mental health system works in real life, past and present, before making yourself an advocate for it (by further marketing DSM diagnosises as some sort of truth). I turned to the mental health system in several attempts, over the decades, to resolve my dysfunction. It only made it worse. My trauma was exasperated and I had to deal with the same dysfunctions from staff that were the cause of my original issues. Not until I completely cut myself off from it was I able to start healing. Much like any unhealthy/neglectfull/abusive relationship. If you really want to raise awareness get in touch with survivors of the mental health system, and ask them about their experiences. _That_ is a field where awareness raising is needed.
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I thought borderline was a synonym of border worker. My Bad !
Get the help, recovery is possible 🙏🏽 Be transparent, be remorseful, and advocate for yourself ❤️ it's awesome on the other side, but it's getting lonely!
Most of the people on the video had childhood trauma and parents with narcissistic personality disorder but while narcissists are admired by the world, those closer to them end up being estigmatized by society. There's also bias in the therapeutic communities when bpd is more diagnosed on women and adhd on men. Those factors don't speak well about objectivity in the mental fields.
@Lyrielonwind - you make a very valid point. Unfortunately, the disparity in diagnosis also happens with autism, highlighting the need for more awareness about how traits might present in males versus females. Mental health has always come behind physical health but thankfully we're going in a progressive direction, albeit slowly.
Sam vaknin said narcissism is contagious which means if you want to solve a problems with the narcissistic husband only way is to become also narcissistic person…....until after break up you become your true self again.
It seems according to Sam Vaknin and and books he studies from narcissism experts, only way to deal with narcissistic people is to become also a narcisist, and that narcissism is actually a response or defense mechanism to the people around you.
Dr Judy Rosenberg says Borderline's are daughters and Scapegoats of a Narcissistic mother.There are more women who are Borderline than men.Jim Carrey who's showed as a celebrity Borderline,I have read that some earlier girlfriend's of him has told he was abusive.There can be an overlap in personality disorders,where they gets traits from each other, he could have had many Narcissistic traits.Dr Jay Reid has good videos about the Scapegoat child. JazzyT, Scapegoat of two Narc's.
@@alaalfa8839Some says he isn't a Professor in Psychology,but Physics.He is diagnosed Malignant Narcissist and married to a Borderline who grew up with two Malignant Narcissists as parents.He has video's about Borderline and Narcissism and an interview with his Bpd wife. JazzyT, Scapegoat of two Narc's.
What about Pete Davidson? Curt Cobain? 🤔
Or the Beat generation; was Kerouak narcissistic or bpd? Hard to tell. Same with Cassidy. Burroughs was narcissist for sure.
@BlackpilledSaihara - Kurt Cobain was diagnosed with ADHD and Bipolar, as well as depression. But yes, he would have been important to include, we will be creating videos about other conditions and the celebrities impacted, I will be sure to bring him in then. Pete Davidson may also feature when we cover PTSD again. Thank you!
@@phinitytherapy I am pretty sure Pete has been officially diagnosed BPD
Thanks for the info @BlackpilledSaihara - we will be sure to look into this when we cover future videos. Appreciate your insights!
Pete Davidson has been open about being Borderline,so has Prince Harry. JazzyT., Scapegoat of two Narc's.
THANK YOU SO MUCH, the most Videos about BPD is so devaluating "these crazy sick freaks" and for the positive focus in their beauties and strenghts
You are very welcome @the_earth_is_my_body. Thank you for your kind and encouraging comment. It's astonishing that people are still so ignorant and stigmatising, this is simply unacceptable in an age of such education and awareness. It's important to be a part of the change we want to see, right? ♥
You should watch Kanika! I dont remember her surname but she's diagnosed sociopath and she is discussing various mental issues and she is the most gentle and understanding while talking about bpd. Its quite a paradox but, yeah, here we are:)
I see. Never mind.
There's no record that Jim Carrey and Angelina Jolie have emotional dysregulation disorder. There's information. How did you gain access to those documents?
If you truly wish to know you would have to follow them. Jim Carey gives interviews.I’m not sure about Angelina Jolie.
Jim Carrey has discussed his mental health issues but I don't know but Angelina jolie. But Robin Williams had Lewy Body dementia and he always believed it was from his cocaine use from the 80s.
been diagnosed with BPD
Counseling is a great idea. If you can afford it. Most people WITH insurance cannot afford mental health care.
Then go to Jesus ! To a good pentecostal church
Only in the US. Most world is not the US. Still does not mean that we aren't lacking experts in treating Cluster B disorders.
Stop spreading negativity, I have insurance and I’m able to get therapy and meds for adhd just fine with minimal co pay
Historically therapists decline treating patients with BPD as they often become obsessed with the therapist.
Even people with private care can’t these days only the super rich etc the people that have been brought up privileged and stay privileged
Less days, less time less money for you all . But talk therapy is totally retraumatising
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