Most of the people on the video had childhood trauma and parents with narcissistic personality disorder but while narcissists are admired by the world, those closer to them end up being estigmatized by society. There's also bias in the therapeutic communities when bpd is more diagnosed on women and adhd on men. Those factors don't speak well about objectivity in the mental fields.

@phinitytherapy

Ай бұрын

@Lyrielonwind - you make a very valid point. Unfortunately, the disparity in diagnosis also happens with autism, highlighting the need for more awareness about how traits might present in males versus females. Mental health has always come behind physical health but thankfully we're going in a progressive direction, albeit slowly.

@alaalfa8839

Ай бұрын

Sam vaknin said narcissism is contagious which means if you want to solve a problems with the narcissistic husband only way is to become also narcissistic person…....until after break up you become your true self again.

@alaalfa8839

Ай бұрын

It seems according to Sam Vaknin and and books he studies from narcissism experts, only way to deal with narcissistic people is to become also a narcisist, and that narcissism is actually a response or defense mechanism to the people around you.

@user-jo9bt4gu5r

Ай бұрын

Dr Judy Rosenberg says Borderline's are daughters and Scapegoats of a Narcissistic mother.There are more women who are Borderline than men.Jim Carrey who's showed as a celebrity Borderline,I have read that some earlier girlfriend's of him has told he was abusive.There can be an overlap in personality disorders,where they gets traits from each other, he could have had many Narcissistic traits.Dr Jay Reid has good videos about the Scapegoat child. JazzyT, Scapegoat of two Narc's.

@user-jo9bt4gu5r

Ай бұрын

​@@alaalfa8839Some says he isn't a Professor in Psychology,but Physics.He is diagnosed Malignant Narcissist and married to a Borderline who grew up with two Malignant Narcissists as parents.He has video's about Borderline and Narcissism and an interview with his Bpd wife. JazzyT, Scapegoat of two Narc's.

THANK YOU SO MUCH, the most Videos about BPD is so devaluating "these crazy sick freaks" and for the positive focus in their beauties and strenghts

@phinitytherapy

Ай бұрын

You are very welcome @the_earth_is_my_body. Thank you for your kind and encouraging comment. It's astonishing that people are still so ignorant and stigmatising, this is simply unacceptable in an age of such education and awareness. It's important to be a part of the change we want to see, right? ♥

@klejjxd

Ай бұрын

You should watch Kanika! I dont remember her surname but she's diagnosed sociopath and she is discussing various mental issues and she is the most gentle and understanding while talking about bpd. Its quite a paradox but, yeah, here we are:)

Counseling is a great idea. If you can afford it. Most people WITH insurance cannot afford mental health care.

@rekhak7129

2 ай бұрын

Then go to Jesus ! To a good pentecostal church

@hadnoideahow

Ай бұрын

Only in the US. Most world is not the US. Still does not mean that we aren't lacking experts in treating Cluster B disorders.

@AV5oh

Ай бұрын

Stop spreading negativity, I have insurance and I’m able to get therapy and meds for adhd just fine with minimal co pay

@ix-Xafra

Ай бұрын

Historically therapists decline treating patients with BPD as they often become obsessed with the therapist.

@Devik666

Ай бұрын

Even people with private care can’t these days only the super rich etc the people that have been brought up privileged and stay privileged

Get the help, recovery is possible 🙏🏽 Be transparent, be remorseful, and advocate for yourself ❤️ it's awesome on the other side, but it's getting lonely!

Van Gogh also used natural turpentine when painting which can affect the mental health

Really good video.

7:00 Jim definitely not the only borderline person in that shot

Great video! Thank you 🙏

This was very helpful, thank you

@phinitytherapy

Ай бұрын

You're welcome @mikeculver5014 - thank you for watching.

been diagnosed with BPD

I don’t believe Britney really had those symptoms, a lot of people that are considered as « normal » did messier things by impulsivity, the video of her with her children is just a normal mother getting mad at her kids for doing wild things, the difference is that she was filmed as a manipulative tactic that the kid’s father used against her to manipulate her, she’s a woman that has been around abusive parents, a self centered sister and 2 narcissistic exes that made her suffering… When it comes to Angelina Jolie , I think she never really had a normal life growing up with a famous father + the death of her mother and a relationship with an abusive husband, I think her reactions due to her environment were completely normal, I think she’s just a normal human being that needs to experiences fresh experiences to heel her from her past traumas.

@user-xm1et7cz2o

Ай бұрын

The thing is, _all_ people with a diagnosis are normal people. What we as a society label as "mental health disorders" are usually perfectly normal, and natural, reactions to extreme experiences (such as, but not only, abuse and trauma). I find this reliance on, and unquestionable respect for, the mental health system deeply concerning. Having gone through it I know how insane and abusive it is. And this is where we are meant to go when we're in crisis... Horrendous.

Is there a connection between borderline personality disorder and its opposing naracistic personality disorder. If those living with borderline personality disorder require empathy, then there is a very strong possibility that these individuals can be deliberately 'targeted' by naracistic abusers. These individuals mimic empathy but in reality naracists have absolutely no empathy and are totally empty people. When you actually think about it, a person living with borderline personality disorder is the ideal target for a naracistic individual simply because they can 'make' these individuals 'do their bidding' while at the same time 'pretending' that they are there to help them. The 'real' reality is that the naracist is only there to 'help themselves' and by 'letting on' that they are 'helping' the person living with borderline personality disorder, they get to 'put on' a 'performance' and a 'show' for their fan club of 'flying monkeys' who apparently do not 'have the ability' to see 'through' the naracist and the 'show' that is 'put on' specifically for them. May we all be protected from covert passive aggressive naracists.

My diagnosis is bipolar one and I am not ashamed.

Great 👍

@phinitytherapy

5 ай бұрын

Thank you! 👍

Jim Carrey and Angelina jolie don't have confirmed BPD..

What about Pete Davidson? Curt Cobain? 🤔

@Lyrielonwind

Ай бұрын

Or the Beat generation; was Kerouak narcissistic or bpd? Hard to tell. Same with Cassidy. Burroughs was narcissist for sure.

@phinitytherapy

Ай бұрын

@BlackpilledSaihara - Kurt Cobain was diagnosed with ADHD and Bipolar, as well as depression. But yes, he would have been important to include, we will be creating videos about other conditions and the celebrities impacted, I will be sure to bring him in then. Pete Davidson may also feature when we cover PTSD again. Thank you!

@BlackpilledSaihara

Ай бұрын

@@phinitytherapy I am pretty sure Pete has been officially diagnosed BPD

@phinitytherapy

Ай бұрын

Thanks for the info @BlackpilledSaihara - we will be sure to look into this when we cover future videos. Appreciate your insights!

@user-jo9bt4gu5r

Ай бұрын

Pete Davidson has been open about being Borderline,so has Prince Harry. JazzyT., Scapegoat of two Narc's.

I see. Never mind.

There's no record that Jim Carrey and Angelina Jolie have emotional dysregulation disorder. There's information. How did you gain access to those documents?

@jharris3267

Ай бұрын

If you truly wish to know you would have to follow them. Jim Carey gives interviews.I’m not sure about Angelina Jolie.

@WVgirl1959

Ай бұрын

Jim Carrey has discussed his mental health issues but I don't know but Angelina jolie. But Robin Williams had Lewy Body dementia and he always believed it was from his cocaine use from the 80s.

every hugely successful anything ever

Demi Lovato too seems to be a pwBPD

Jim Carrey and Ben Stiller? Sure? Source?

@phinitytherapy

Ай бұрын

@ahistoryofviolence4902 - we mention that these individuals are "thought to" experience BPD, this is based on various online sources, which is why we do not definitively claim this. Ultimately, we chose them due to their mental health difficulties which may or may not present in the form of BPD, to raise awareness of mental health challenges that we all go through, celebrity or not.

I thought borderline was a synonym of border worker. My Bad !

Celebrity’s who have not been living are life 😅

I dont trust this...im AuAdhd & Ive been musdiagnosed as borderline twice.

Not everyone has to have a diagnosis of some sort. We are not these beings with psychology labels. We are children of God. Each of us has our ups and downs. Each of us have natural abilities that are uplifting, and behaviors that can cause friction inside ourselves and around others. Instead of viewing people and ourselves as a ‘walking talking diagnosis’, let’s view ourselves as a human being that has good and not so good traits, a human being that is unique with what gifts and struggles we each have, and that we are all children of God. Having much to offer the world.

Why do you say Van Gogh that way?

@phinitytherapy

Ай бұрын

Hi @luigiprovencher8888 it's a Dutch name and I'm trying to pronounce it correctly! 😊

I thought Van Gogh had Schizophrenia!

That cat virus. Toxoplasmosis?

There is not treatment for severe personality disorders. Only brushfire management.

@user-xm1et7cz2o

Ай бұрын

According to whom and what?

Comparing celebs lives to your regular Joe is apples and oranges. Theyre allowed to be "crazy." If we act that way we lose our jobs, families, everything.

@alaalfa8839

Ай бұрын

About you as unknown person the journalists dont mention every week the problems and divorces….. just to earn somemoney, or they even write untrue stuff.

@alaalfa8839

Ай бұрын

It seems according to Sam Vaknin and and books he studies from narcissism experts, only way to deal with narcissistic people is to become also a narcisist, and that narcissism is actually a response or defense mechanism to the people around you.

@alaalfa8839

Ай бұрын

But after recovering you may become your true self.

@beefstew4698

Ай бұрын

@@alaalfa8839the best strategy is to go no-contact and/or set healthy boundaries

Jolie was a cutter. Huge flag

I have an issue here with your inclusion of Robyn Williams who was diagnosed with a specific dementia and this is incorrect information and I don’t think that you should be linking people without facts and actual diagnosis.

@phinitytherapy

Ай бұрын

@LornaLens - I agree with your last point. However, Robin Williams was mentioned in the context of "funny men" who often bury much deeper mental health issues. Robin was thought to be severely depressed as well as having been diagnosed with dementia. People with dementia suffer in ways that go beyond the dementia itself, they often display anger as an expression of the upset, pain, and frustration they go through with the disease, but cannot articulate. I mentioned him because he came to mind as a man who on the outside, to the world, may have seemed "fine".

You don't know that any of these celebrities actually have BPD. What a waste of time

@phinitytherapy

Ай бұрын

@CMStrawbridge I fear you have missed the point. This is about raising awareness. Some of those mentioned have suspected BPD, and some have traits that are common to BPD, and therefore, are challenging due to how these impact mental health and life. This video is about raising awareness of the difficulties of mental health, and BPD is one way in which this presents. Whether a celebrity has disclosed their diagnosis or not is not the point, we discussing the challenges, but also the overcoming despite the difficulties.

@CMStrawbridge

Ай бұрын

@@phinitytherapy I didn't "miss the point," OP has no idea about anything in this video, and it shows. Miss me with that tired ” you don't get it” bullshit. Some content is just bad. Most content, actually

@phinitytherapy

Ай бұрын

@CMStrawbridge I did not mean to cause any offence, you didn't like the video and that's okay. Our intention is to raise awareness and we appreciate feedback.

@user-xm1et7cz2o

Ай бұрын

​@@phinitytherapy Feedback: Look into how the mental health system works in real life, past and present, before making yourself an advocate for it (by further marketing DSM diagnosises as some sort of truth). I turned to the mental health system in several attempts, over the decades, to resolve my dysfunction. It only made it worse. My trauma was exasperated and I had to deal with the same dysfunctions from staff that were the cause of my original issues. Not until I completely cut myself off from it was I able to start healing. Much like any unhealthy/neglectfull/abusive relationship. If you really want to raise awareness get in touch with survivors of the mental health system, and ask them about their experiences. _That_ is a field where awareness raising is needed.

Swing and a miss!

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