Kevin O'Hara - Habits V2

Kevin O'Hara - Habits V2

www.habitsv2.com
If you're trying to quit drinking you've come to the right place. Habits V2 is a channel about helping you to stop drinking alcohol and love living your life without this poison. The aim of the channel, and especially the HabitsV2.com program, is to help you to wake up every morning fresh and can't wait to get into your day and what's to come. Excited about the potential you've opened up for yourself, contented about how far you've come, and confident on the road and journey ahead.
What's my story? The journey began for me on 2nd January 2013 when I stopped the flow of this poison. I stopped because I wanted to be a better father, but my life has grown into much more than that.
I'm looking forward to helping you make the most our of your journey ahead, get to that first superb year alcohol free, and enjoy every moment of your life as it unfolds.
Onwards and Upwards!

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  • @timsmith428
    @timsmith4287 сағат бұрын

    ..My girlfriend is 5 weeks, no booze. She is VERY tired all the time..I'd like to know when this stops..

  • @molandsonsmotors9690
    @molandsonsmotors969019 сағат бұрын

    Its not all because you stopped drinking alcohol over night. its because you became who you became overtime due to decision to stop drinking. See people dont understand that, they think it will all land on your lap once you stop.

  • @mooncat.787
    @mooncat.78720 сағат бұрын

    What psychology and self help books did you read. ?

  • @cambull5804
    @cambull580423 сағат бұрын

    This video is so spot on!!! Like Jocko said, "Rome wasn't built Overnight ...we all Hear that...but it ALSO DIDNT FALL APART OVERNIGHT"!!! brick by brick decisions add up! Progress or Regress? Discipline is hard but what's really Hard is regret and shame and guilt...trust me, listen to Kevin!!! Thank you bro for all y'all Do to make humans reach their full Potential!!!

  • @HabitsV2
    @HabitsV28 сағат бұрын

    Only two directions you can go in life, forwards or back. You can't stay in the same place. 🙏

  • @veryskeptical2409
    @veryskeptical240923 сағат бұрын

    We should all strive to be the person who we really are....that is good enough......forget the potential ....just let go of the toxic positivity crap...just be a good person.....this will give you a chance to appreciate the world more and be in awe of the universe.

  • @TheVail1234
    @TheVail123423 сағат бұрын

    Heavy truth . I barely drink, maybe 2 beers on birthdays, and even like that i have a wasted day after that. Not worth it. Trickiest drug on the planet.

  • @Jason-gj1pu
    @Jason-gj1puКүн бұрын

    THIS SHOULD BE SHOWN IN SCHOOLS, instead of "i own the racecourse " or whatever.

  • @steadycompsltd.
    @steadycompsltd.Күн бұрын

    Thanks Kev.

  • @jat2319
    @jat2319Күн бұрын

    I know this feeling well. Growing up, becoming comfortable with myself and happy/proud of who I am in life allowed me to shed the need of alcohol in social situations.

  • @jorgeloya6420
    @jorgeloya6420Күн бұрын

    Love your encouragement, love your energy man.. As old as you think you are you look strong my friend... There's a lot of us here supporting you my friend love and respect...

  • @nacimhamza-f2z
    @nacimhamza-f2zКүн бұрын

    100k🎉😊

  • @dcostanzino
    @dcostanzinoКүн бұрын

    Not necessarily. I mean, sure, no hangovers, more money in my hands, and I got my physical health back. But depression and anxiety is worse. The exact reasons I drank are now staring at me in the face and it's so difficult when I work so hard, but other than achieving sobriety itself, my life is still shit

  • @nybabz
    @nybabzКүн бұрын

    thank you thank you thank you~!

  • @go_rizzo_grow
    @go_rizzo_growКүн бұрын

    I didn't drink last night. And I was shockingly fine. Woke up today feeling like a new man, I really did. Got home from work and didn't even think about it and I drank a few beers. I stopped(not liking how I felt), and now I know that sobriety from alcohol is going to happen for me. 39 years old, never been arrested or anything bad like that because of booze, but I'm just fucking done with it. Thank you Kevin. I've been wanting to do this for 5+ years now. Wish me luck friends!

  • @jimconnell8994
    @jimconnell8994Күн бұрын

    Definitely wish you luck 👍

  • @go_rizzo_grow
    @go_rizzo_grow13 сағат бұрын

    @@jimconnell8994 thank you

  • @mistybluepa4670
    @mistybluepa4670Күн бұрын

    Hey Kevin, imagine this , since I stop drinking ( 4 yrs approx) re did my roof,,changed all windows,,re tiled the entire house, resprayed and overall the car, still have savings, plus I’m in good health at last…. Thanks for the videos bud. Onwards upwards

  • @user-bn3ed4db3b
    @user-bn3ed4db3bКүн бұрын

    It's so great to be free of the alcohol cycle and everything that goes with it. 16 months sober and lovin' it, I don't get cravings whatsoever and enjoy telling people who offer me alcohol that I don't drink.

  • @rik-keymusic160
    @rik-keymusic160Күн бұрын

    Yes i am because i also drive with a car no matter how drunk i am … i feel ashamed for doing so. Luckily I never had any accidents or got anyone hurt in the process…

  • @geerwashere
    @geerwashereКүн бұрын

    Congrats on the 11 years :) i am at 9,5 years sobriety and also still learning. A good motivation for me was in the first 0-4 months to make a check mark on a calendar for every day that i not have a drink, to see the progress visually is really motivating. I still have "problems" in life but i am always better off without alcohol. From day 1 i allowed myself to drink but i made every time the consciousness decision to not do it simply because i know alcohol will never be a solution to anything ever!. I love to connect to people without being intoxicated, i love to wake up without a terrible hangover, i love to not have stomach problems, i love that i reduce a lot of risk to get diseases like cancer or make stupid decisions while intoxicated.

  • @arkobiswas1202
    @arkobiswas1202Күн бұрын

    Hi Kevin sir. Quit at 42 but now heavily addicted to nicotine. Kindly start some videos regarding quitting smoking.

  • @saptarshi11ghosh
    @saptarshi11ghosh22 сағат бұрын

    Hi…. Buy Alan Carr’s easy way to quit smoking… I have quit 4 months back…. Bhalo theko

  • @rollandjoeseph
    @rollandjoesephКүн бұрын

    Thx for the mention Kev...I have you to thank for my new life w/o alcohol , 31 months A/F anniversary in 2 days ! 🙂👍

  • @HabitsV2
    @HabitsV2Күн бұрын

    Great to hear, Rolland :)

  • @staceyharvey2750
    @staceyharvey275019 сағат бұрын

    awesome! Love how you write A/F anniversary. 6 1/2 mo A/F here 🙏🏻

  • @hawk66100
    @hawk66100Күн бұрын

    Thank you Kevin for these videos. I’m 6 months sober now. For a 2-3 years before I quit I would often times hear a small part of my consciousness say: I don’t wanna do this (drink) anymore. Meaning a part of me had the clarity to know I should stop but the other parts of me didn’t want to.

  • @StephenFarrell-ue8bc
    @StephenFarrell-ue8bcКүн бұрын

    Thank you Kevin for spreading the word about the price we pay for the abuse that alcohol does to our body and minds. I started drinking when I was 16 and did not stop until I was admitted to the hospital in Dec.2020 and had a liver transplant in Jan.2021. 44 years of drinking poison and I was a week from death. I had a job with the same company for 34 years but as I got older I could not recover and I finally had to face the music. God bless everyone who struggles with this. Please stop before its too late., I was lucky

  • @76ToneCrome
    @76ToneCromeКүн бұрын

    Resolve is never greater than the morning after the night it was never weaker.

  • @glenncapitanio3706
    @glenncapitanio3706Күн бұрын

    Thank you Kevin. Watch you everyday before AA.

  • @Johnny-sn5sb
    @Johnny-sn5sbКүн бұрын

    I was very good at telling myself that it wasn’t that bad . This kept me so trapped because I believed the story I was telling myself . It took me around 10 years of bullshit , wasted time , poor decisions, blaming others , bad behaviour , and that poor old me mentality. Until I said to myself righto I’m done . It’s up to me now . I’m going to show me the real me . I’m going to dig deep and fight like hell to just be me . And , I am ! I’m doing it because I wanted something better , something to really strive for .. something to authentically live for . To just be free ! Thanks Kev , you’re a bloody legend mate .

  • @HabitsV2
    @HabitsV2Күн бұрын

    It's a great feeling, Johnny

  • @HaydenPettit-dx8dv
    @HaydenPettit-dx8dvКүн бұрын

    This is me at the moment. I’ve got sober and started antidepressants along with starting a journey in bodybuilding, but It’s just filling the time in between. I feel apathy with no desire to do anything during the day after my workout. Cravings are present telling me just go for ‘one’ at the pub, it just won’t happen.

  • @ClownFaceSurfChannel
    @ClownFaceSurfChannel18 сағат бұрын

    Anti depressants are worse than alcohol. You might kill yourself or someone you love on those things

  • @cjh0751
    @cjh07512 күн бұрын

    Stockholm syndrome. It makes sense to me. I had to be admitted to the hospital after another relapse. I'm not proud of myself. I have to keep trying or i might as well yive up for good. Theres only one outcome and that's deth.

  • @user-nu9it5hf3c
    @user-nu9it5hf3c2 күн бұрын

    Perfectly put.....speed worked better..

  • @HabitsV2
    @HabitsV22 күн бұрын

    For me, same end result...self-inflicted fucked up in the brain.

  • @sweetcandy802
    @sweetcandy8022 күн бұрын

    Where is the first video you made?

  • @HabitsV2
    @HabitsV2Күн бұрын

    kzread.info/dash/bejne/i4OpusGvepOqYdI.html

  • @michaelmansini2307
    @michaelmansini23072 күн бұрын

    Very soothing voice

  • @bethhayes1
    @bethhayes12 күн бұрын

    So true! If I felt the need to drink to be more social and outgoing then maybe that's not who I am anyway. Im accepting I dont want to be super social, talkative and outgoing all the time. I am what I am. Settle in and make peace with that. Over 18 months sober now.

  • @Rick40years
    @Rick40years2 күн бұрын

    My fears are basically of failure and more importantly not being able to cope with life's problems and discomfort. I've been using alcohol for 40 years to get a relief at the end of the day.

  • @arthuroldale-ki2ev
    @arthuroldale-ki2ev2 күн бұрын

    This is the reason I started drinking in 1964, I was very shy. I was 18years old. I took a drink WOW!!! I wasn`t shy , I had found the cure. If one is shy and self conscious just let life itself and experience of living allow yourself to grow out of it. If you use alcohol as a quick fix, it is a false cure that will eventually turn being self conscious to being self loathing. Life itself is the cure , a life of sobriety is the BIG FIX!!!!!!!!! It took a misused life of misery and despair , for me to get that into my knucklehead, I was sure a dumb bastard!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @fortythreenorth2518
    @fortythreenorth25182 күн бұрын

    Women growing up faster than men is a total myth. I agree though as someone who was and still is socially awkward that alcohol sure seemed to solve a lot of my problems when it came to talking to not just girls but people in general.

  • @HabitsV2
    @HabitsV22 күн бұрын

    I can only go on my own experience. I've 4 brothers and 4 sisters. The girls grew up much quicker than any of the lads. Most of the lads are still grown up children if I'm honest.

  • @fatherburning358
    @fatherburning3582 күн бұрын

    Growing up where I did and when I did my parents and friends socialised at the pub or at parties. 70s and 80s were something else. Stealing alcohol and smokes as kids was par for the course of growing up. No blame, just the way it was. Not very healthy at all 🤦

  • @anthonytokar3961
    @anthonytokar39612 күн бұрын

    Yup I had social anxiety problems probably brought on by my porn addiction that lead to my alcoholism

  • @hawk66100
    @hawk661002 күн бұрын

    This literally describes me when I was younger. I was shy so I drank to loosen up but would say and do stupid things while drinking.

  • @briandykeman4056
    @briandykeman40562 күн бұрын

    My wife left me 20 years ago couldn't sleep working 7 days a week after a yeat i turned to alcohol to cope. Hes right when you've done it for 16 years its hard to see your way out qhen i quit i was so tired all the time barely sleeping. Its a terrible disease that offers no satisfaction only more hurts

  • @ThisonesforGod
    @ThisonesforGod2 күн бұрын

    I fear lil less each month. 10 years

  • @ThisonesforGod
    @ThisonesforGod2 күн бұрын

    When I quit it took 10 years to finally expose and accept that my entire family were drunks

  • @KristiHolmes-pi9vx
    @KristiHolmes-pi9vx3 күн бұрын

    until 43 yrs old I would have little to no alcohol. I was always the designated driver, the responsible one. at age 43 my husband passed away and I did what he was doing and went full on in a bottle of wine.why? because I could and I should... I was an adult and I can do whatever I wanted to. I made myself an alcoholic by daily doses and eventually tolerance to a lot of alcohol for my body, not on purpose but the caring went out the window for sure. so I do have the ability to know what it was like before drinking daily. over 10 months now and I still battle can I moderate? I know the answer is no. I no longer have that privilege.i am not capable of that occasional drink. thanks for the reminder

  • @Duskycat1
    @Duskycat13 күн бұрын

    Drinking for 38 years with the last 12 years daily. A recent medical showed warning signs and a major wake up call. It's time to turn my life around. Day 1

  • @ninabroen9031
    @ninabroen90313 күн бұрын

    Your videos have helped me SO MUCH.. Thank you.. you are helping many people...😊 It's really a great thing you are doing 😊 best from Nina from Denmark

  • @joefur1625
    @joefur16253 күн бұрын

    I'm struggling to face the idea of not drinking socially and celebratorially, pubs, mates, parties events, the lot. I binge drink heavily when I get going tho, with days even weeks of sobriety in between to piece it all back together again, but due to other people close to me telling me directly and problems I have had due to my over drinking, a serious personal injury last year being one of them, plus as countless arguments and embarressments with people I care about, I feel I need to stop. It's strange why I find this so scary, I know I am not addicted to it, but obviously my personality and mental make up just isn't suited to this which has come about in my 30s, 20s did t present these issues. Now at the age of 37 I am hoping to make a year off the booze and see where I am afterwards, your videos have been the best I can find to make that seem managable and are filling me with confidence for this new goal. I did 3 months before with your help and it felt good but I saw it as mission accomplished, now I am right back where I started again just with a metal plate and 10 screws in my leg to underline that fact. I want to totally reform my relationship with the sauce and who knows, maybe that will be as you say something I don't miss. Wish me luck and thanks again Kevin great work

  • @peterkenny8753
    @peterkenny87533 күн бұрын

    Best decision I ever made. Be aware that you will lose a lot of Friends. To continue, stay alchol free, you will need to ghost friends who are enablers. Be prepared to make new friends.

  • @bruce3725
    @bruce37253 күн бұрын

    Agreed. Only regret that I didn't do it sooner.