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I wish I had seen this 30 years ago. Learning about it slowly has been very hard for me. I carry so much guilt for staying with him. I constantly think, "What if I had left when he pressured me to sleep with him, when he dumped me for another girl, or when I first realized he didn't love me, when I found the pictures, secret convos or when he started berating me and telling me I was crazy and needed to work on my self esteem?" Despite everything, I wouldn't trade my five amazing children. I suffer from chronic pain and other issues due to his abuse, which I didn't fully recognize at the time. He only hit me a few times, but he cut my finger open once and tried to strangle me. Listing everything now is overwhelming. He threatened me if I sought help, saying he would ruin me and make me look like an unfit mother. I chose to stay, be the best wife I could, and serve him as unto the Lord. Eventually, he left us, ruining our business and hurting me and the kids, all while blaming me. He has financially ruined me; I’m disabled, unable to work, and he withholds money while spending lavishly on his new girlfriend. I want to be free of his control. Please pray for peace, healing from chronic pain, and a job I can manage. Many professionals say I’ll feel better once this is over. It’s been four long years. Pray I can forgive myself for not leaving sooner and enabling his behavior, which I fear damaged my kids. If anyone identifies with this, please pray for God to open your eyes to the abuse and see them for who they really are before you waste years enduring such trauma. You deserve so much better. Sorry this is so long, and thanks for the great video.
E•very. = Not Ours, V•ictory. = But only… I•n. =. G-O-D’S L•ove. = L-O-V-E!
If you express hate for a narcissistic person you're just as weak as they are. I'll also say my mind is blown. Sometimes having just the information to the situation brings relief.
What to do then?
Thank you 🙏🏼💗 Greetings from Germany
God bless u my friend... I feel like crying, this is my mother, and I live with her!!! I can't get away as I'm her carer. Please pray for the demons to leave her. God bless u
There's a fine line sometimes between narcissistic and autistic. Which is causing many problems towards autistic people. FACT.
meanwhile you probably worship Blummpf
It stops with Me!!!!!!
True... Healthy relationships are always positive. God is blessing you, just check the views and comments number they are increasing. And also God is increasing you in wisdom to make make blessed sermons. God bless you more my dear Kris. Amen.
Thank you
Amen!🙌🏽
In this life we are given a whole gamut of personalities in our birth relationships through our communities in school, Sunday school and all the work connections. If we continue to wrestle with the world we know we are Christians as We are Israel, one who wrestles with God and His Word. Life brings us all the sins and all the temptations come from evil. We are people. Instructions in the Lords Prayer as we are taught to pray says it appears many different things than you are. It appears you have suffered much in this life and have you truly given all these things up to the Lord? Really? It is difficult to do and we all have unrepentant sins we forget to accept and deny. Being awakened to the differing sinful nature is made apparent in Pauls words. The good that I would and the evil I would not is the evil I do the whole day long woe is me a sinner. This wrestling then is apparent as we make our attempts to keep the word. Jesus said. If you love Me keep My word and you will live in Me and We will come and dwell among you. This in dwelling what does it do? It seems we have a conscience. It seems we have the law etched in our hearts and become aware of our imperfections and indeed we see the sliver in a friends eye and often deny the log in our own. What to do but pray to see. Do we hate a narcissist? No. We have compassion and kindness. We give them and ourselves up to God's word. We recognize all things lead to Christ. For It is said. I will turn all things to good for those who love me and we know to love God is to keep the word. Where do we keep it. In our hearts and minds and on our lips. We know our thoughts are flawed in the brokenness of our humanity and indeed why we need a Savior. Envy, malice, hatred and enmity and the real need for all of us in all our character flaws and perfections to know how to weed our own garden of these things. Remove the log in our own eye. It is impossible to do without faith or confession or absolution. Jesus and Godliness in all things. Forgive one and other, speak the truth in love, bear each others burdens encourage one and other. Fear not. Turn to any problem with the full armor of God. The helmet of salvation, the breasplate of righteousness, the shiled of faith the loin cloth of the truth and shodding our feet in the very word of God. I think if we know ourselves and are honest in our sinfullness and confession we can resist the devil and he must flee from us. Discerning how to resist is the real truth regarding this whole matter of fighting the character traits of ur neighbors, workmates, friends, family and all whom we meet. Trusting n the word of God that God will put words in our mouths when confronted or when we have to give a testimony n front of Judges and magistrates. Recognizing confessing and moving forward. The wrestling goes on forever as we live in the world but not of the world. So sorry you have suffered so much to make videos of this type of manipulation and the resultant focus on such things. Real freedom is letting go and letting God. Not so easy to do. Yet we are all given a measure of faith and as we speak and are spoken to this measure of faith will do the work it needs to do if we offer it up and yes maybe go through all we go through for allwe go through leads us back to the Lord in prayer. we cannot do it on our own. Christ in Us. Will you hear this. Will I. Will we live it. Each day has trouble of it's own. Yesterday is gone. Today we live. A new day which the Lord hath made let us rejoice and be glad in it. Get though behind me. All that is wrong and all that I have confessed in the past. Receive forgivenss and take up your matt and walk or go home. I am with you is real. I will not leave you or foresake you. Stand firm in the faith and trust God. He will turn all things for good. Enough. It is finished. Once for all. Psalm 51. Create in me a clean heart oh God. Back to work. Freedom in Christ is a precious thing. Believe. And do the work.
Kriss Reese God's chosen Apostle for this deviated world . May the Holy spirit continue to empower you and our believers .May the glittering light of Heaven surround you well forever Apostle .
Amen. My little sister does this crap. She doesn't realize she is a controlling, narcissistic, and self-centered person who believes herself to be a good person. It's really sad. Thank you for sharing this. I knew it didn't feel right.❤
That’s me❤
It has been a shock dealing with a non narcissistic individual she doesn’t rage out, doesn’t take an innocent comment as an attack, doesn’t lie to me, doesn’t make false accusations, doesn’t trash me to the outside world, doesn’t scoff at me, doesn’t diminish my accomplishments, doesn’t ignore me, doesn’t deny reality despite evidence to the contrary, doesn’t mock my children, doesn’t project what they have done onto me, doesn’t spoil special occasions, is pleasant to my relatives, doesn’t have me falsely arrested. It’s been a very pleasant shock!
These types of narcissists really bother me! 😡
Some of my fam members call themselves Christian but exhibit toxic behavior (due to trauma). They don't recognize and call me crazy when mentioned. Sometimes doubt myself. Thank you. Needed this❤
Thank you for the video 💜I had to laugh out loud when you said that they say "God will bless me, not you". I litterally had a narcissistic woman in my church tell me: "God showed me that something's about to happen to me and you will be disappointed. Let's just keep it between us" A few years later she accused me of being a witch and I'm not the first one she has done that to 😳 You best believe I stay faaaar away from her
Thank you 😊
I envision the Narc as a Little Child… Abandoned Emotionally! Then, I PRAY: St Matthew 5:44, and ask for GOD’s HEALING & MERCY, envisioning the Narc Repenting & Turning to their HOLY FATHER! ~ E• very ~ V • ictory ~ I • n ~ L OVE 🙏🏻Only GOD’s LOVE! 🌸☀️🕊🍃
THANK YOU for sharing this video.
Is this including parents
20:48 thanks for praying for me Sister
No one expects to discover they were deceived into a marriage by a wolf disguised in sheep's clothing. To discover that is what has in fact occurred, is incredibly traumatising on so many levels. Unfortunately, there are some denominations that totally rely on these exact twists of scripture, in order to keep women and children in bondage to manipulative abusers, because it suits those in power within those very churches to keep it that way. THANK YOU for posting this video.
Just a thought maybe we want security and we think the narcist can give us that?
It’s done
13:33 😲!!!
6:53 Yes they always say you are cutting them off, when they actually cut you off mid sentence all the time and all you want is to get one statement out and it will take forever because they won't be quite to listen for a minute...
I love women of God 🕊
6:37 I felt like that with my aunt... I've never felt better after talking to my aunt about anything...
4:05 Auto recall...
1:59 Garner sympathy or shift blame...
Spiritual narcs are the worst. Satan was the ultimate narc, thsts is spritual leader
My neighbour the pastor and his wife the narcist and he was the flying mankey Constant door slamming except if vistors came Wife unfriendly to us ??? Churches are cults of narcs
9:30 i know those "girls" too :( it made me mad... satan still often has power over me cause of this "girls" i pray everyday jesus keeps me save
I was a narcissist. I had no Idea that I was. By God's grace he saved my soul, but its taken many years for me to realize by Gods mercy that I was a narcissist. It's been a horrific revelation. Yet God in his great love and gentleness has changed me over the years and continue to lead me out of this hallow, lonely shallow place and making me finally into a person who can care for others by his Holy Spirit and not need to have all focus on myself. May The Lord in his grace deliver all narcissists from such a cruel heart and very dark place in Jesus name amen.
well done seeing your old self and now it is time to heal on.
good video but what ismissing in my opinion is that narcisism is a SPIRIT. in my opinion this is missing.. what u think about my opinion? let me know :)
@Kris_Reece Help... This is my story First, i seem to have invalidated her with my words even if i was unsure because of its pettiness. Then I'd think long and hard about what it was i did wrong and then ill realize my mistake and approach her to validate her. I apologize sincerely even though she stays silent on me. Days pass by which leads to almost a month and she continues to treat me with silence and acts passive aggressively around me. Shed take my kids out to the mall and leave me at home. They would do things together like eat outside and leave me out. I would beg for her to talk to me and fix things between us not just for us but for the kids. She continues with silence. Or she says something she knows is going to trigger a response from me like threaten to leave for her mother's house in the province. This puts me in desperation mode. I approach her again, and I get told I have not given any efforts at all. ID feel bad because its her who hasn't made any efforts to communicate at all. ID beg still. She would act and make me feel that i owe it to her that she even talked to me again. Things in the next few days will be calm and peaceful, and then all of a sudden out of thin air i have committed something wrong again to trigger her. 😢 this is my story
That was me, I'm in 7/8 months no contact, and God had protected me when I up and left a 19yr toxicity of him and his family dynamics. They were all showing the signs of lack of support and empathy.. but ignorance and evil intentions..🙏.. praise God 🙏 I trust you Lord for your words are truth 🙏
Jesus name
Clue #1 for me was what I called “pretty prayers”; empty and shallow. No authentic relationship with Jesus.
Great video God bless you and us all of good heart 🙏❤️💪
Ass beating Ass beatings How else do we tame wild, predator animals?
Vengeance is our lords he will repay all glory to our lord God Amen 🙏❤️
I wish i would have known these things in my 20's. It very literally took me a lifetime to figure this stuff out. And i still cannot put it into words. You do it so well 👍.
Amen Sister