Clinical Hypnotherapist - Life coach - Family Constellations facilitator.
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I am Muslim and a psychiatrist and am trying to reach out across political divides especially around the war in Israel Palestine with my colleagues as I also work in a university. I feel that connection even if it is painful and conflicted is very important now. Hang on to our common humanity and empathize with everyone's trauma. Make the space to connect with the whole of mankind by connecting with all the parts of ourselves. Thank you for your work.❤❤❤
A life not examined is a life not worth living.
Yes This. I am reminded of a quote I use to help myself end this mother-to-all-comers behavior: “Before I am your daughter, your sister, your aunt, niece, or cousin, I am my own person, and I will not set fire to myself to keep you warm.” -Elizabeth Gracely
Thank you for making this video. ❤
Searching for that soulmate connection. Is just opening yourself vulnerable for a narcissist to destroy your whole existence. Please heal and be whole and that can only be done with god. ❤️🩹
Besides many people are unfit and unworthy to even be with you or anyone else. They could barely deal with their own problems. So don’t be too negative. And see it as gods protection. 💝
You have to be LOVE. Embody love for yourself and the people you love around you. A good man will definitely see that. And a narcissist will definitely want a piece too! But you choose who to love and accept love from. Let the rest be on god. You shouldn’t be waiting for anyone to save you from your boredom or life. You have to consistently be filling yourself up. Learn something or do something. Stay passionate and have faith.
Excellent Ive been through all of this and put most of it behind me.
Hi Evita, it's been 9 months since I first saw your video on limerence , I don't believe in universe or something now but I am thankful that I watched your video sincerely and follow your advice. I can't thankyou enough you just saved my life because of you I start thinking why I lost in this loop for almost 4-5 years , what was my insecurities and fears and while doing all these things I realised it was just my projection and has nothing to do with reality. I started accepting myself now, and have made peace with myself. I am so grateful that I found you. Thankyou from bottom of my heart , a lot of love to you Evita ❤ once again thankyou 😊😊😊
I love your creative style of teaching ❤️
Thank you very much, for your insights ❤
Exactly what I was going through. I learned that my mother is a dumb martyr and just incapable of understanding what love is. I grow up telling her what she was supposed to do (with a lot of fight and maybe no fruit of course lol). But thankfully I'm 28 and can say I'm thriving now with the support of strangers' online teaching like yours. On my way out of people-pleasing and codependence behavior. Still living with her and our charming big baby boy (my father) untill married because of our family tradition. I don't ditch the belief that I need to be in this tiny team untill the end and we should support each other. The difference now is that I know and pursue my wants and dreams and they can't stop me. Thank you Evita you are awesome!
Great conversation thank you 💕
It's hard because when I am authentic at work, managers get threatened very quickly and start plotting with others to mess with me to eventually push me out. Vile people, truly. What to do? I don't know. Trying to start a business because I am tired of shrinking to please insecure managers.
You’ve answered your question. Go for it!
Thank you so much. ❤
I am thinking, i can't force love. I have been working on myself, and my codependency attachment, toxic shame. Just going to go with the flow.
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celebrating uniqueness is life 🌏 rebelling against authority is life ∞ breaking away from insanity of mediocrity is living authenticity 𑁍 mastering I vs WE is huge part of Life ✨ finding one's own self-expression is living
I'm grieving 3 things right now: 1. My lil brother's death this year 2. My limerent object of a yeat that I started to let go when my brother passed away 3. My childhood (trauma) that I've been grieving since childhood I am embracing these things. And I have devoted the next two years to reparent, reinvent, redo my life over in the way it should have been before the world has emotionally ruined me.
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Thank you It feels scary to express my emotions It's hard to do, but as you taught me The price I have to pay is less than the price for pleasing ppl
This video needs to be shared wide and far!! Thank you for your realness and speaking about facts that really matter.
I am living in a world and living a life that makes no sense to me anymore.
Just live ❤
I don't think I'll ever forgive humanity. I am NOT human. Humans are a complicit, complaicant slave race who earned whatever befalls their fake world of shallow consumerism.
Can i stay friends with my LO'?
I really want to isolate- it is unlike me and such a draw
Thank you- this is sage advice. I have lost myself to this type of relationship more than once.
My way of limerence is different; I only get it with people I like or crushes, 9/10 these people are attainable . I recently experienced limerence with a girl I considered good enough who I went out on a date with. The red flags was there I noticed them. And I still set boundaries as I noticed that this person is still getting over their previous marriage. But I think I let my guard down during our date. I realized that this girl was completely my type but it was obvious that she wasn’t ready. The thing is she didn’t want to acknowledge the fact that she wasn’t. So I think I had limerance towards the fact that I want to see her happy whenever I stalked her socials and see that she is happy it made me happy. I think I also had limerence towards the person that she “could” be. I found myself waiting for her to become this person that she “could” be. Also limerence can occur with anyone with me whether I find that person attractive or somewhat good enough. Now I’m just focusing on my internal happiness and the person that I could be.
Fuck that, my lady limerant has been the catalyst to making me elevate to the highest levels. Im a much much better man because of her. Shes my greatest inspiration. My mommy and my lil wife, and she probably knows it. These youtube therapist are trying discourage us from our paramours. Haters hate on what they gave up on! But seriously, letting go is liberating af😊
I know my LO for 1.5 year now. We meeted up in person a lot. Texted a lot, she rejected me a couple of times but remained friends. A week ago we went on vacation together for 5 days. Sleeping together but that wasnt the big issue. She started dating somebody quite serious. And she was texting with him a lot, and when we were on vacation that other guy booked a vacation to the maldives with her and she rubbed it in my eyes. I couldnt even enjoy this vacation.. im at a point that there is so much more damage and pain that i even dont care about the relationship anymore. After the vacation i said that im having some private problems and told her to dont text me and leave me alone... so im in nearly 1 week NC. Is this a wright thing to do? Or should i do it different? Ofcourse im ruminating everything and also a lot of grieve so this is a hard ride atm. But if i keep contact up it will only take longer... im in pain and nobody knows. Its a lonely ride
For me, the hardest thing to let go of is the fantasizing. It's so easy to slip back into it, especially when I'm in dream mode or feeling bored or sad. It starts automatically, and then I recognize it and decide if I want to continue. It really is debilitating.
I am limirent but people who are attracted to me are way worse.
ok, isolation is not ending, so what can we do?
my last crush, was not that big of a crush or limirence until he left the space around me, and I was his limirence figure too, but I am sue he forgotten me whilst I, in hoplessness of any future lov, keeping holding into him.
being lonely and isolated, I have nothing else but limirence
getting out of limirence is painful, it is nice to be limirent.
Thank you for this! What I needed to hear
As a child I am still responsible for my Soul. My Soul is responsible for my inner child. As a child I was too vulnerable to take responsibility for my Truth. Humans face adversity in so many ways. Ways that contribute to our development. We don't grow by drowning in bliss. We grow by drowning in pain. Life sucks. The first noble truth... Life is suffering. Suffering is growth. Growth hurts. Birth hurts. And not just us but all living/sentient beings. Wanting a pain free life is ungrateful. Your pain is your greatest asset.
thankyou madam! this is waking me up
You got to meet the person. Eye to Eye. Usually we never meet the right person
WOW ❤
arent we narcisistic to try to escape from a narcisist?
Not even a little lol. Are you a serial killer if you try to escape a serial killer?