I realized that if I were freed from my obsession with him, I'd still have my main problems. I would still be grieving deeply about my past, deep loneliness, low income due to low career success, old age body deterioration, weight issue, procrastination, etc, and possibly might get into limerance again if there was someone available to get attracted to.

I’m aware that to let go of the problem is to get out of prison.

Hello evita, i just discovered you…you are great god bless you. The clarity is anyone struggling with this is really get over it, only with hard work..not kicking if under the rug then comming back and trying to fix it, i learned in order to love, you dont own anyone, remember they can walk out of your life at anytime. Just need to work harder on myself and all this will pass, you will make it if you trust you will, God bless you evita, the impact you have on people is great, the most valuable currency there is, is the effect you have on others. 🙏

I realize that I need to like myself

U deserve 1 million subs🎉❤ waiting for that day dear 🌸

What I see is that I can move now here today in a lot of ways as if the problem doesn't exist. In other words I don't have to wait to start doing the things that I can see myself doing if I was no longer plagued by my problem. And by doing those things I can move forward. Thank you

How depressed and unhappy iam

This was nice! I’ve often wondered what it would be like to have a session with you. I just answered out loud and ended up crying. Thank you for this.

@evitapkcoaching

8 ай бұрын

Wonderful. That means, something you’ve realized has “moved” you. Now let’s see which direction this will take you. Also. Sessions with me are much more complex, this is just a small simulation that I could create in order to make it as open as possible to anyone 💜 thanks for the feedback Lesley!

This was a phantastic catalyst for inner wisdom. Thank you so much! I see that I have the solution within me. I see that I am a wonderful gift to cherish end enjoy (not a problem to handle). I see that light is here, now. I feel joy. I see how I have treated me as unacceptable and that I indeed am acceptable and can enjoy me NOW.

@evitapkcoaching

7 ай бұрын

Yes you are! Thanks for sharing 💜

Thank you, Evita, for giving us this opportunity to reflect. I think at the end, I'm getting the impression that I've been viewing myself in a negative light without reason. Perhaps I could lighten up a bit when it comes to how I judge myself in this world.

How stuck in fear/freeze I am

Thank you Evita 💜

What am I becoming aware of? That the initial problem is not the actual problem. There is something more lurking under the surface which actually bothers me more than the problem itself. In fact, if the 'problem' remains, I am still able to do all the things that I am stopping myself from doing. For me, this was about my lack of motivation and fear of pushing myself to do the things I want to do. First I need to understand what it is I actually want. I just procrastinate on these problems, to stop myself doing this work. Thank you for this video.

@evitapkcoaching

7 ай бұрын

Such an insightful reflection. Thanks for sharing!

after watching this i realised the way i see myself after the problem is solved feels really fake and unrealistic and i dont believe that the problem is going to be solved

That I am validated, full and complete within myself either way. Thank you.

@evitapkcoaching

7 ай бұрын

Wonderful. You are welcome

I'm suddenly aware that getting what I want isn't what I want after all 😊🖖 thank you

@evitapkcoaching

7 ай бұрын

Excellent. You’re welcome 💜

you have no idea how helpful your videos have been to me. I'm so grateful for this content, I always feel lighter after watching ur channel 🤍

I reqlise that to heql from my obsession i would be much happier , free, lighter ans able to create from an authentic self