Your Kid's Non-Negotiable Needs

Your kid tells you that they absolutely NEED the newest version of Fortnite, or an iPad, or a puppy but what do they really need?...to feel safe and secure and loved. This week, Dr. Becky sits down with physician and author Gabor Maté to talk about the four non-negotiable needs of every child, as well as the relationship between resilience and empathy.
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  • @Day_byday
    @Day_bydayАй бұрын

    [ 4 non-negotiable needs ] 1. having a secure attachment with parent 2. rest - doing nothing to make the relationship work (unconditional love) 3. be able to experience all emotions 4. free spontaneous play out in nature

  • @6886butterfly
    @6886butterfly20 күн бұрын

    If i see Dr. Gabor Mate’s name on a title i quickly click on it and listen to him because i know an imperfect parent like me will learn a lot from him. Thank God for people like him. For his wisdom and the courage to share it🙏🏻☝🏻

  • @gretchenfrank3647
    @gretchenfrank36478 күн бұрын

    Guilt free education. Thank you!

  • @thescowlingschnauzer
    @thescowlingschnauzer3 ай бұрын

    At about 11:15 Gabor Maté lists the 4 needs as attachment, relationship, rest (times when the relationship does not depend on them), and play.

  • @vnessa9481

    @vnessa9481

    24 күн бұрын

    The third is the need to experience all the emotions (around 9:03). At 11:15 he missed it out in his recap. What he said was the attachment relationship as one thing then rest and then he went to number 4

  • @robyndelgadohhp
    @robyndelgadohhpАй бұрын

    The conversation about resilience is eye-opening. The meaning of “rest” is huge. 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 The discussion on sleep training and empathy are warming my heart.

  • @juliaglanville8625
    @juliaglanville86253 ай бұрын

    Great dialogue and meeting of minds! I hope this connection continues.

  • @mindzeyelovellution
    @mindzeyelovellution2 ай бұрын

    This is great. I would love to hear more from the 2 of you together!

  • @zaidabuffkins6149
    @zaidabuffkins6149Ай бұрын

    Two of the very best minds of our time❤❤❤

  • @nooshnabi9248
    @nooshnabi9248 Жыл бұрын

    Very useful and helpful. Thanks so much!

  • @MarinaKor3011
    @MarinaKor3011 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you! It was an amazing talk!

  • @michamuller5656
    @michamuller5656Ай бұрын

    Brilliant!!!