I want to thank you for using this specific language, talking about gems. It has reminded me of a letter my friend gave me in rehab. She wrote "you are like a lost gem. This gem should not be lost, it should be treasured." You are so right in all that you say here. Also, when you said requiring "care, consistency, protection" YES! AND you called me out talking about looking at your life. I'm looking around my space, being like "is this the space of someone who cares, who really values themselves?" and the answer is no...! Thank you for reminding me of that letter, and for this inspiring video🧡and also for the motivation to clean UP lol

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

Yesss omg I love this!!! I think we ALL needed a reminder to look around today and be like.. how can I take better care of EVERYTHING 🤍 today I’ll be cleaning my space, giving myself time to reset & take action towards the goals I set forth for myself 🤍

@agnieszkahz

Жыл бұрын

Thank you both for sharing, that's so beautiful of you 🧡

@julesm9081

Жыл бұрын

💜💜💜💜

This morning is got up and did my skin care, turned my pc on and started studying. I get up for a breakfast break, and i see this video. I am so proud of myself for finally showing up for myself, and girlies, like Nike says, just do it. It may seem hard and scary but does depending on others not scare you more? There is so much in this world for you to experience, so just do it. I believe in you, have a nice day!

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

We all needed this 🥹🤍 love you so much!!!

@strawberrydaurto3366

Жыл бұрын

Yes mammm

*silent tears rolling down* I had a three week sick leave from work because I was NOT taking care of my HEALTH! My Self! My mental health. My physical body. And so i crashed. Badly. Chest infection turned pneumonia. One week solid of nebulization and daily injections 😢. Then two weeks actually three...of medication, doctor's visits. My body reminded me, harshly....that I was/have NOT been caring for myself like a Gem. My environment hasnt been the best, guess it reflects my mindspace. Alsooo...have been sleeping on my talents. Bigtime! Time to dust them off. Spirit sent this as the beautiful TIMELY reminder I NEEDED❤. Thank you. I am subscribing.

you’re glowing girllll i absolutely feel the strong positive energy u radiate and that’s all I need to motivate me thank you for being you 🩷🩷🩷

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

Omg you’re so sweet! I appreciate you saying this so much 🥹🤍

GIRL I WAS NOT READY FOR THIS ONE 😭😭😭😭 I been slacking lately. Not like 100% but definitely here and there and eventually those small slacks here and there have added up. Thank you for this one so effing much 💗

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

Aww I love you!!! you’re so welcome 🤍

@shawntelchinn84

Жыл бұрын

Right she hit deep down on this one! She went to the core of what was going on with me and why I’m not showing up in this world the way I want to! ❤ This spoke to my soul!!!

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

@@shawntelchinn84 my heart 🥹🤍

Be nicer to yourself ❤❤❤ I know someone needs to hear it. Girl your confidence and you’re literally glowing. I’m so damn proud of you ❤

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 🥹🤍🤍

This sort of short length videos are also just brilliant. Its a nice way to start off the day. Thank you for this reminder Elicia! But safe to say with every video you make you indirectly remind us how we are gems and need to treat ourselves like one. Loads of love

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

Love you so much 🥹🤍

Love this! This is why I decided that my stage name is Foxy Gemme because I am a Gem! 💎

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

Omg love this 😍

I needed to hear this… i take care of myself with a bare minimum approach. I am proud of myself for how much I’ve achieved, yet i regret never reaching my full potential. I am not going to blame anyone else, i know its up to me, and im a human being, and im growing… and im a gem!!! Thank you!

It is 10pm and I was going to miss my exercise goal for the day because I am working overtime due to a difficult project at work this week, but after hearing you, I will go atleast for walk now

@janessallopezz

Жыл бұрын

you’re doing great! workout doing out doesn’t need to be perfect all the time but consistent!

Gotta work on my social media scrolling it’s hard cause i wanna make money from social media I need to be harder on myself and accountable.

@kejtantlio7921

3 ай бұрын

Giiirl did you make it 🥹?

Angelyne: "I am not a woman. I'm an icon." In Peacock's limited drama series about Angelyne the Billboard Queen, she knew what was up. Cory (about Angelyne): "[S]he's, like... super disciplined. She kicks me out of her house every night at 10:00 p.m. to dye her hair and take a bubble bath." Angelyne (refering to her bathroom): "I don't let anybody in there. That's my sanctuary. It's my cocoon." (Season 1, Episode 1) I can't speak for all of her behavior in the show but she sure seemed to have self care, self love, and seeing herself as a gem down pat.

when you mentioned community I cried a little, it warms my heart so much to know I'm not alone

thank you girl!!! needed this!

Part of my needs is to have an organized place, I recently moved, and it's being a struggle to keep up, especially financially because I just need to buy so many things :/

Part of me is genuinely scared of the person I’ll be if I do. Like what if I don’t like the new me ?!

I needed to hear this sooo much...Thank you!😂

I used to say "Im a Gem" (a play on me being a Gemini) but I do like this definition too. I'll continue to say it and treat myself with care 😁

I NEEDED this wake-up call! Thank you!

Divine timing.. thank you thank you thank you ✨

eliciaa!! this video is sooo important to watch for many girls and myself included! thank you for reminding us that we are gems, that we are born to be protected, to be taken care of and to be valued and loved. love you and all your videos, im listening to your podcast non-stop!! thank you for everything 💖

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

Awww I love you so much!!! 🤍

This video popped up on my TL and spoke pure facts. Love it ❤

I need to listen this every single day! Thank you so much❤❤❤

Ever since i started watching your videos, I'm beginning to see myself for who i truly am. Thank you so much 🥰

I needed to hear this thank you

New sub👍🏽 binging! At first, I checked out another video with the intention of sharing with one of my daughters because you seem to be in their age range but….you’re info is just as valuable and needed by this 52 year old!!

I wish I had found your channel earlier, but thank you for this.

I'm going to be that GEM for myself.

Elicia!!!! Why everytime I watch one of your videos, I feel the need to say “Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!!”?

This was so important for me to hear today. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing your perspective 🩷🙏🏻🙂

I wanna thank you for the way you started this video!!! Bc you caught my attention!! I love this!!! thanks for your perception on how we should view ourself!!

New subbie here. Girl THANK YOU. Snatched my wig for sure!! This resonates on so many levels! I truly did not see myself this way.

Your work is doing so much. Thank you for being a safe space on this corner of the web! ❤

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 🥹🤍

I needed this !

This is so inspiring. Thank you 🙌🏽🙏🏽

Thank you so much sending blessings your way ❤

Thank you so much ! 💎

Wow, just wow 🥰😍. Thank you, Elicia!

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

🥰🥰🥰🥰

This video is a gem! I'm gonna definitely apply it. Thank you so much.

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!🤍

this vid totally saved me on a slow sunday morning

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

Love you 🥹🥰🤍

Thank you SO much for this!! I have really let myself slip in certain areas, and my body is telling me all about it 🙃 going to prioritize my sleep schedule and cook more nutritious meals from now on 🤗💕

I loved everything about this ❤

Thank you so much for this video 💗

I see the tan girl 😍 it's giving self care, enjoying my summer, getting some vitamin D, going out, balancing work and fun! I love that for you ❤❤❤

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

Omg I love you!!! You’re so sweet 🥹🤍

@shaniyadunchie

Жыл бұрын

@@eliciagoguen Love you girl! Have fun be safe ❤️

A strong wonderful and meaningful video ! Thank you !

This needed to be said because oh my God I’ve been lacking! I need to get it together! This just gave me a big push :) currently cleaning my room because you’re right I deserve to be at my best! I am a high value person and I deserve to be kind to myself

I am so glad I’ve found you! Thank you so much for your sharing, your videos and talks! You helping me being obsessed with myself and i love you for that !❤❤❤❤❤

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

Omg you’re so welcome my love 🥹🤍

You are a gem Elicia. You're glowing and it's beautiful to see. And this video is a gem of wisdom. Lauryn Hill says this lyric that always stuck with me, "don't be a hard rock, when you really are a gem" doo wop (that thing)

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

So beautiful.. thank you so much for such a sweet compliment 🥹🤍

I have been binge-watching your videos and your podcast videos for the past few days and I'm glad you uploaded another video yay!

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

Ahhh I’m so happy to hear this!! 🥹🤍

I really needed this 😢thank you

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

You’re welcome my love 🥰🤍

I love all of your videos! Could you make one on how to look more put together/how to improve your external appearance?

Wow, that intro totally changed my perspective!!

Thank you Elicia! This is exactly what I needed to hear today🙏🏼 Here’s to getting out of this funk! We got this Glow Up Fam ✨💜

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

So proud of you 🥰

This Analogy “ YOU ARE A GEM 🔥” Dammmmmmm Gurl Thank You for showing This 🥰🥰🥰

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

you’re sooooo welcome 🥰

Thank you queen

Glow up girlies 💕💕💕

Ive been eating so much better ever since I fell ill a couple of months ago. My skin has never looked better. My mental health has been a struggle so Ive been going to therapy as well. I just wanna heal mind, body and soul.

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

I'm SO proud of you!!! 💗

Hiii Elicia! Happy Saturday ☺️ my Saturday just got better. I’m loving this AMAZING content you’ve been putting out lately. You’re absolutely the best. Sending you love and hugs as always 💜💜💜

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

Aww thank you so so much!! 🥰🤍🤍

I was going to say taking care of ourselves, our relationships, our houses are a lot but this idea just came into my heart : Trim. Take account of everything and trim what is less valuable including relationships, clothes, items in the house…. Trim trim trim.

Let me just start by saying my government name is really similar to yours, so this is like my inner self is speaking to me through you. I don’t even know how I found your video but I just click like and I subscribe because everything you’re saying is exactly what I need to hear. I’ve been doing all sorts of things for others, and almost nothing for myself and I know it needs to stop yet. You made me question why I need to motivate myself for this. We have to always take care of ourselves no matter what we cannot take care of anyone else without that. Thank you.

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

You’re so welcome 🤍

You dropped gems. My life coach been helping me but this video dropped gems. I feel good cause I decided to take care of me and fuck everyone else and stop quitting and keep going. I started this new journey by working out consistently and it’s been 3 months and I’m still working out and it showed me that I can do stuff and being committed. Feels so good. You dropped gems. So inspiring.

I think this is one of the best videos I’ve ever watched on KZread.

@eliciagoguen

10 ай бұрын

Thank you 🥰

calling me out while i was already in the middle of one of your other videos 😭❤

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

LOL, all with love, I swear 🥹🤍

You are a literal life changer, so much knowledge but so hidden, I am so lucky I found Ur channel because there something's I really needed to hear. Thank youuuuu❤❤❤

Always coming through for us ❤

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

🥹🤍🤍

We will always support you. Always take care of yourself.

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

Love you 🤍

Thank you ❤

Thank you 😊 ❤

YOU ARE A GEM IN MY LIFE❤❤❤

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

AWW ILY 😭😭

This video is a gem 💖

God i just finished taking notes from the last video here is the new one 😊😊 My girl is teaching me to build new beliefs and my V2.0 ❤❤❤❤

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

So proud of you 🤍🤍🤍🤍

luv it!

I love how this video felt like a conversation with a big sister! I can tell you are uber passionate about other women truly grasping this concept, thank you for this!

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

Aww you’re so welcome !! Thank you my love 🥰

This was my mentality until I got married to the wrong person. Do not blame him but it’s really hard to think this way when your husband doesn’t appreciate you or make you feel loved and special.

When we're trying to be a higher version of ourselves, we'll attract the same kind of people.

Thank you, so much.

@Madi4321

Жыл бұрын

This was so helpful.

Great tips !

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

🤍🤍

I first started listening to your podcasts and I was so happy when I also found out you had a KZread channel and I can't stop watching your videos sis. This one will be one of my favourites from now on❤ I'm also on a self love and healing journey and ma'am i just want to let you know that your podcasts and videos have been so motivating in every way possible. God bless you and i love love you💓

@eliciagoguen

10 ай бұрын

Awww thank you so much beautiful!! I appreciate you so much 🥰

I rarely comment but this video is so valuable to me, I watch a lot of self improvement content and they all are useful, but this one goes deep to me. A gentle but important reminder. Thank you 🤍

Love this👏🏻👏🏻💕💕💕

I have been feeling like doing nothing lately,so much that i cried becuz i didnt wanna wash my face,then i cried again at evening cuz i didnt wanna study.This video is literally what i needed thx

@eliciagoguen

8 ай бұрын

So sorry you’re feeling down. Hoping you feel better soon 🤍

we are all gems 🥰🥰🥰

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

Yes yes yes 🥰

It's giving GEM 💎

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

Says you 😍

Love this ❤

This is amazing

Another great video!

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

I’m glad you think so 🥰

Your vids are always so inspiring🫶🏻

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🥹

Friend speaking facts

Inspiring message here

I love this! However one thing I would have to say for those of us who have Autism and ADHD it’s going to be normal for us to fall off of seeing as ourselves of gem often. We’ll have to reset a lot more but we got this 🖤

Love this video and I love you😊

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

I love you!!!! 🤍

Your hair is so cuteeeeee

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🥹

I was literally coming on here to look for weight loss tips. I was thinking why do i let myself stay like this knowing i have pre diabetes and not ovulating because of my weight. Then i see this as soon as i open the app

Pure beauty 😍

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🥹

This reminds me of something I heard someone else say, related to being a high value gem; if you were a gem in a shop with a price tag of a billion dollars, don't entertain people making offers for a million. I really like analogies like this, sometimes it can be difficult to remember what you're worth.

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

Yes!!!!!!!

I’m coming! 😩⏳💎

BEST BELIEVE IM STILL BEJEWELD

Listen everyone! One big revelation that i got this week was that we are not our thoughts and mind! Just take a pause! We've different types of organs in our body so is our brain, our brain creates mind and thoughts as this is its job! But right now you are super super identified with your thoughts! How can you be only your thoughts? 😅😮😮 . You are a beautiful being and a piece of life thus you hold this body and mind, try zooming out from your mind. My life has just changed realising this!!!!!! No more mental chatter or psychological drama trust me ❤❤

Happy Saturday 😁👋

@eliciagoguen

Жыл бұрын

Happy Saturday!!

Thank you Also to Thank written here is not valuable but if i can make anything i was maked