I wouldn’t stay at a rest stop overnight. Just this past Sunday, in the middle of the day I was walking into a rest stop building and a man approached me with some story about him needing a his vehicle towed and he just needed $36. My husband was walking up behind me, stepped in between us and told him we don’t have money to give him. He immediately backed off but I was in shock at how quickly he approached me seemingly out of nowhere. I didn’t realize panhandlers and scammers were targeting rest stops. Be alert and be safe out there everyone.

@sjordan7085

12 күн бұрын

The more desparate people are, the more brazen their behaviour. One day I was driving out of a Grocery Store parking lot when a man attempted to open one of the back doors of my car, luckily they were locked and the windows were up. A moment later a Police Officer was questioning him about a knife he had been threatening people with. You were fortunate to have your husband with you. Many older single women are not so fortunate and seen as 'sitting ducks' by predators. I rarely go out after dark anymore.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

12 күн бұрын

I.thimk rest stops are the new hunting grounds for panhandlers.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

12 күн бұрын

Thank goodness you had your vehicle doors locked ir things would have turned out very different.

You are definitely safer with us truckers around Carol. I’m a female trucker and as a general rule I avoid most rest stops. Having said that, there are many wonderful rest areas around the country. Truck stops are better. Street smarts are invaluable out here. Love your content Carol! Stay safe.🙏🏽🌺🙏🏽

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

Thank you for your insightful comment. I would love to interview you sometime. If you are interested you can reach me at Gloriouslifeonwheels@gmail.com

@janiswilliams2766

15 күн бұрын

How do truckers really feel about some small van parking sort of near them. I feel safer when I’m near truckers. But I’ve heard they get annoyed with vans.

@spiritwindvue8038

15 күн бұрын

I am not a fan of rest stops. I don’t have a problem staying at truckstops at night. And I do not even have a problem saying at Cracker Barrel when other RVs are there even though Cracker Barrel closes at 10 o’clock. Only one Cracker Barrel at Stewart ferry Pike in Nashville Tennessee looked sketchy so I went to another location.

@deedeeotero4475

14 күн бұрын

⁠@@spiritwindvue8038Nashville is sketchy all over.

@ladyketurahinwaiting

14 күн бұрын

@@RedWolf17 I absolutely agree we safer around truckers❣️ My dad was a truck driver all my growing up years and he went out of his way so many times to help people, especially loan females or ladies with children. THANK YOU SO MUCH CAROL for all you do on your channel to help us all stay safe 😘🤗💕❣️🙏

My dad was a cross country truck driver all my growing up years and until he retired in the 80s . He always warned me back then to be extremely careful about rest areas and to not ever stay overnight in my car at rest areas.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

Well your dad certainly had an insider perspective on rest stops!!

@noreenn6976

15 күн бұрын

​No truckers in my family but I have always felt wary of rest stops. I think I would feel safer at a truck stop, maybe that's a false assumption.

@stormdavies250

14 күн бұрын

Wow, I’m actually surprised by that. But then truckers see everything don’t they?

I stopped one time at a rest stop in Maryland on 95 on my way home from a dog show. It was about 2am. I took my Borzoi up to the bathroom with me and the security guard told me that I couldn't take the dog into the bathroom with me. I told him he had two choices. Either he didn't see the dog and I went about my business or he could walk us back to my car and then walk me up the bathroom and check it to make sure it was safe and then when I was done, he could walk me back to my car. He decided that he didn't see a dog. I walked into the bathroom, put my dog on a down stay outside the cubicle, did my business, came out and washed my hands, picked up the leash and told him to "heel" and we left. No problems. This was about 20 or so years ago.

@user-yu5cg8yl5w

15 күн бұрын

Wise choice on your part and the security guard also.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

14 күн бұрын

🤣🤣🤣Don't compromise with your safety.

@stormdavies250

14 күн бұрын

Omagosh I never thought of bringing a dog into the bathroom! If you’re alone why not?

@venetiakelley

10 күн бұрын

@@gloriouslifeonwheels3621 Amen

I had a scary situation happen at a rest stop. Until then, I never considered the danger. I was stopping in for a potty break in the dark (I can't remember if it was early morning or night time). Parking was full and I had to park facing away from the restroom the next row over. As I was coming back out, a man was walking towards me and even with others standing nearby, I jumped into my vehicle, locked my doors, and took off before he said anything to me. He looked so mad that I left so fast. I don't ever trust to stop at them anymore. Life not the same as it was when we were younger. Stay safe and definitely pray before, throughout, and after your trips. God Brought me through safely and I'm so deeply grateful.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

13 күн бұрын

Things definitely aren't the same as when we were younger! It sounds like you narrowly missed a very bad encounter.

Safety is nest in numbers! The more crowded it is, the safer it is. Never stay at a Rest Stop that you are the only one there!

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

I absolutely agree. I don't even stay at one without a number of truckers present.

@user-yu5cg8yl5w

15 күн бұрын

@@gloriouslifeonwheels3621 I don't feel that way. I have a dog that is good to alert me to anyone around and a pet that people don't argue with. As one who is prepared, I feel comfortable stopping at a rest stop at night, in the day or just pulling off the road where I can nap before I continue on. I live in a part of the country that seldom has more than two or three vehicles and maybe a trucker or two at rest stops. Follow your gut instinct, i.e., sixth sense and leave if you have bad feelings. Also, if you pack heat, deal with the psychological ramifications before you have to protect yourself. That way you won't be second guessing yourself when you need to be clear headed.

@janiswilliams2766

15 күн бұрын

Yo Mo, I though you slept at rest stops all the time?

@MoBangFoYoBucks

15 күн бұрын

@janiswilliams2766 I DO! It will be a bad day for the fools that mess with me.

I'm actually I would pop there but not by myself. Not a way by myself. A lot of people who live in their vans or do family life or alternatively tend to have a bad habit of parking away from everybody else, thinking I'm by myself I'm happier. No, you're not. I recommend parking amongst other vehicles I'll park amongst the other truck drivers. That's what I would do. It's called blending in. That's the best way to do, guys blending don't be alone blend in. It's much safer that way.

At the end of the day, I think doesn't matter where you go. You can be unsafe anyway. You have to use diligence. Be aware of your surroundings, look for red flags but don't live in fear. That's the worst thing you can do. And when you get to parking to sleep at night. I say unless you need food or something else. I say, stay in your band all night until next morning and then come out. I have in mind but I have everything I need. I have a toilet. I have a shower. I have everything I need so when I come to a rest up at night. I don't come out. I'm done for the night. I stay and watch TV. Play video games. Oh, go to sleep, but that's me.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

I too suggest getting gas and using the bathroom before getting to your overnight spot.

@skapunkoialternativeliving6522

15 күн бұрын

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621 So right Gloria, you're right, and even overnight. Keep your car keys close to you or your Van keys close to you. If you're having suspicious, you can quietly sneak up to your vehicle and take off before they know it.

@m.mercedesalonsosevilla2090

8 күн бұрын

Some places are more unsafe than others

@skapunkoialternativeliving6522

8 күн бұрын

@m.mercedesalonsosevilla2090 Definitely.You're definitely gonna be careful though.Display tension to your surround bixby and you may be fineDefinitely. You're definitely not gonna be careful, though. Display tension to your surroundings and you may be fine.

Recently had a scary experience at a rest stop in North Carolina. Scared me so bad I drove to the next state…. I’ve always been very cautious of my surroundings, especially as usually a solo female, but this experience heightened my awareness even more. For me, I’m going to pass on sleeping in rest stops unless it’s 24/7 monitored.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

14 күн бұрын

So sorry tonhear about your terrible experience. I can certainly understand your not wantng to stay at rest stops.anymore.

They are safe if you take protecting yourself seriously and are willing to do whatever it takes to do so

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

If it comes to "them" or me or my daughter that is definitely a no brainer!!

@maxflaskamp

15 күн бұрын

@@gloriouslifeonwheels3621 right on my friend

Being a lone woman is scary in a lot of places even if you aren't traveling or living in your vehicle. In days long gone, I was never fearful about going places alone but times have changed. Sad.

@user-yu5cg8yl5w

15 күн бұрын

I live in an area that is not highly populated and I was cautious here because there were people that disappeared on the main highways, including women traveling together. Always follow your instincts and be cautious. I traveled 25,000-30,000 miles a year with miles between homes and not uncommon to have 90 miles between towns with no problems. I was always prepared to keep myself safe from predators. I trained regularly, too. I was prepared for the consequences of my actions, also.

I’m an ex-trucker who traveled solo and stayed in rest stops as often as possible. I always felt safe, but you hit the nail on the head about the restrooms. I would never use the restrooms at night or if there weren't plenty of women around. The thing that makes rest areas uniquely dangerous is walking into a restroom with no one around. Anyone can be there waiting for you or follow you in and you are incredibly vulnerable if you do this! Other than that, they are not any more dangerous than any other public space. They are typically clean and beautiful and a great place to stretch your legs. You're also correct about parking near truckers. You're safer with the extra sets of eyes. Thanks for sharing the good advice!

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

5 күн бұрын

Thank you Amy for your comment and insight as someone who really has experienced staying at rest stops.

I traveled solo over the July 4th weekend. I felt safe and, as usual, I stay vigilant. Sometimes there are men just waiting for their wives or GF by the bathroom. I don't stop or use any rest stop that doesn't have any other people there. I also got my concealed carry permit and that's the way to go.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

14 күн бұрын

You go girl👍

Yes, I do use rest stops when traveling. I agree about the restrooms . Everything you shared, I Appreciate your information. Thank you. We should always be aware of our surroundings .

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

14 күн бұрын

Absolutely!

I will still use rest stops but I’m also cautious of my surroundings and I would not go into a bathroom at night. I purchased a small collapsible toilet for my vehicle.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

That was a wise move.

I have stayed a night at some rest stops that I wish I had not stayed at, but I was so tired I had no other choice. But since I believe there is safety in numbers, and although sketchy, there were quite a bit of drivers and in most places truckers also. But once I had to stop at night to use the restroom, and there were no cars, just some trucks and these two men got out at the same time I did and kept looking my way for a bit longer than just a casual glance. I sensed I should have turned around and left right away, but I really needed to go. So I prayed and continued on. I almost ran in once out of their sight and did my business as fast as possible. I decided never to travel at night again. And after what happened to those poor people, I also plan on having my weapon handy all the time. I need to get my permit to carry updated for the area I live in, but once out of this state my other permit kicks in. I now carry my weapon in the car always. Just follow your state's laws and carry insurance also, just to legally protect yourself. be aware of your surroundings. ALWAYS. And thank you so much for your videos.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

9 күн бұрын

I think we have all did something a fee times but for the grace of God could have turned out very badly. I definitely try to learn from this situations and adjust accordingly.

I love your content, spunk and overall kindness toward humanity. Saw your first video about the Nebraska rest stop tragedy prior to a camping trip I took to NW Indiana a couple of weeks ago. On my drive home last Sunday I stopped at the first rest stop south west of St Louis about 8:30 am. Small rest stop, lots of truckers, no cars. As I was getting out to walk to rest room another car pulled in. Thanks to your earlier video, rather than walk directly into bathroom, I strolled toward truckers so I could scope out new arrivals. Couple seemed fine, so continued with mission of using restroom but don’t think I would have been so cautious had it not been for the viewing of your first video. So thanks!!

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

10 күн бұрын

I am so happy to hear you were cautious!!! Stay safe out there.

I use the rest stops for years, but I wear my 911 necklace and my cell phone with me. Just be aware of your surroundings and I don't intermingle with people at rest stops. I also lock my doors as soon as I sit in my seat.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

I think those are two of thr most important tips that I also use. I definitely lock my doors as soon as I get back in my vehicle without hesitation

I thought about the Weavers again this morning, then I thought of the boy who murdered Mr Weaver. He was only 22. A few years out of high school. Then I thought of the killer’s mother. The pain just radiates like a stone thrown in the water. Imagine being the mother of this child. So tragic. My prayers are with these people today because they are still on my mind.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

13 күн бұрын

A lot of lives impacted forever by a senseless brutal act.

I saw a video just today where a couple had loaded up their car in their suburban driveway, with their kids, and two individuals ran into their driveway with guns to carjack them. One of them actually fired his gun and the parents took cover next to the car. The parents ripped their kids out of the car and the perps drove off with their car. In a suburban neighborhood, in their driveway. You are probably just as safe in a good rest area.

@sjordan7085

12 күн бұрын

And, speaking of toilets, a doctor was killed by someone using a hammer at a huge Medical Center in Californa, in a toilet close to the ER, while I was working there. Stalls where people can reach over the top, or that have big gaps close to the floor make occupants far more vulnerable. Toilets in rows, with little space between the doors and the wall, make it simple for a person to be restrained against their will, that is the kind usually seen at Rest Stops. Wouldn't hurt to have pepper spray or some other means of self-protection handy.

The key is trusting your gut…as a female solo traveler I do use rest stops. I do NOT use rest areas that don’t have a lot of people around, I don’t use the restrooms that are not occupied, I don’t go to areas that are not visible. You can get attacked/assaulted ANYWHERE at ANYTIME…including your own home. Pay attention, follow your instincts, trust your gut!

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

7 күн бұрын

Great.points!

My last cross country trip was the end of 20 before starting to care for my elderly parents. I had stayed at rest areas many times and even went to the bathroom at night. I guess now, I’m older and weaker and things are crazier, I will rethink that. My springer spaniel is NO pit bull LOLOL

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

Age is certainly a factor in some 9f our decisions. At 71 I know this only too well.

I prefer truck stops. It is a bit noisier but I feel safer there then I would at a rest area. About 10 years ago I helped a friend move across country from Washington state to Connecticut. We spend one night in a rest area and the rest of the nights were spent at truck stops.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

14 күн бұрын

I prefer truck stops too.

I notice that this rest stop is very well lit.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

14 күн бұрын

Yes it was. I don't stay at poorly.lit ones.

Ive stayed at that rest stop several times and have always felt safe. It's a place I have taken naps for a much needed rest.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

I think it really depends on the rest stop. Some I enjoyed and some I kept going past.

It all depends on the location. Just be sure to be prepared to defend yourself.

Thank you for your constant efforts to help us with information on safety. I do use rest stops, but not to sleep. Usually, however, I use my van potty at night, or a major gas station bathroom. Where I grew up, we were always taught to be hyper vigilant at rest stops. Stay safe out there folks! Best wishes!

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

13 күн бұрын

I agree with everything you said😊Thanks so much for the comment.

That seems like a nice, clean, safe rest stop. Never would have expected that the rest stop would be full of locals after 10 or 11 pm.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

Yes, I was told it is impossible to find a spot after 11pm. But then that is understandable with so many working poor who can't afford rent and so many cities outlawing sleeping in vehicles and prohibiting parking rvs and such on public streets from 10pm to 4am, hours during which folks usually sleep.

@gailresources3970

14 күн бұрын

it’s so sad that so many have to live in a rest stop, where they won’t be run off, because of the high cost of housing. So sad.

The key words are “be aware” no matter where you are and arrive before dark and converse with others around you and maybe partner up to go to the bathroom!😊

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

13 күн бұрын

Definitely arr8ve before dark. Don't necessarily agree with conversing with others around you at a rest stop. It depends on who they are.

I often use rest stops. I am always cautious though. I have seen some pretty sketchy ones so I just didn’t stay there. Some rest stops in California, New Mexico and Arizona are so nice that I look forward to staying there. We even have some really nice ones here in Louisiana with cameras which I personally am fine with. The poor Weavers couldn’t possibly have expected being attacked at 7 in the morning. Love to that family.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

14 күн бұрын

It is such a sad story ajd you are right. I can't imagine that that lovely couple expect3d a predator to be lurking at 7am.

Hi Carol. Safety matters. Thank you for sharing. Blessings to you. 💕🙏🏼

I think there are so many variables as to whether a place is safe or not. I stopped at one in Wyoming last week, and the vibes were way off. No on was there until I was about to leave (about 9:15pm) & the truck that pulled in seemed to be following me until they turned off, and that scared me. But obviously, it felt unsafe to me before that even happened. I drove on to Riverton and stayed in the Walmart parking lot instead, and there were lots of RVs, campers, and even some overnight semi trucks. Felt much safer and I was able to relax enough to get rest!

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

14 күн бұрын

That is exactly what people on the road need to learn to do. Listen to that gut feeling you have and leave a place immediately even if you can't put your finger on exactly why you are feeling uncomfortable!!.

@Out_GalliVANtin

14 күн бұрын

@@gloriouslifeonwheels3621 Yes ma’am! I absolutely agree!

I think it just depends on where you are a lot of the time. Anything can happen anywhere but local crime rates should be applied to rest stops like anywhere else. Rest stops are among my favorite places, particularly in the upper Midwest. I would definitely stay at the place you showed based on what I saw.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

I have stopped at some lovely rest stops. Hou make a good point. Sadly in the times we l9ve anywhere can be suddenly unsafe.

I’ve used that rest stop and there were some pretty shady characters hanging around. I “case” the area just like a cop would. If I use the bathroom I wait and follow in a group of women. That works if it is a pretty busy place. I try to NEVER drive at night if I don’t have to. Thanks you for your informative and helpful videos.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

8 күн бұрын

Great advice to follow a group of other women igoing into the bathroom rather than going in alone.

I would enjoy seeing a video on the different rest stops that you stop at. Even just to use the facilities.

I had traveled from Maine to Wichita in 95 by myself when I moved there. Stoped at rest areas many times along the way. I drove back to Maine twice a year for a couple of years by myself to see Mom and never had any trouble no matter where I stopped. Then Mom died but I still went back once a year to see my brother and his family for a few years. Still going back n forth every few years and the first time I had any trouble was last fall when I had stopped to sleep. I got woken up by the sound of air escaping a tire. I banged hard on the window and the noise stopped n I went back to sleep. When I woke up I checked the tire and sure enough it was down about 20lbs. Not sure why somebody would do something like that, maybe they hate out of staters or maybe van dwellers. Out of 38 years that was the first time I had any kind of problem but I do realize the country is stressed out and anything could happen at anytime and we should be careful out there 💗🙏💗

@clarkleakins879

14 күн бұрын

Was probably an intentional ruse to rob you in the am while changing your tire. Or, point out the flat, and ask for $ to help you change the tire.

Slept at a rest stop last night. Had a great sleep in a pretty place! Just because the occasional home invasion happens doesn't make people move out of houses. That tragic event will have no effect on my decision making!

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

13 күн бұрын

True. But I am always more mindful and alert to people in a parking lot paying undue attention to me or possibly following me home after I hear about incidents like recent ones involving families or individuals being acosted in their driveways. I think knowing what is happening out there and how someone might have let their guard down in one or more areas helps us all as a reminder to close those safety gaps. I for one aftrr this incident will be more mindful of strangers approaching me at rest stops and will be even more vigilant about locking my doors immediately after getting in my vehicle rather than dilly dallying around first like I sometimes do.

I've used rest stops when I knew I was too tired to drive. I've come home from a show or concert in increments when I couldn't keep my.eyes open. I only stay long enough to powernap then move on. I stop at rest stops during the day all the time. The only time I was scared was when I saw a funnel cloud headed toward me. Then I skedaddled.skedaddle. At a 45°angle of course.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

I don't usually have a big concern about rest stops in the middle of the day if it is a decrnt one. But the early morning hours before folks are moving about is kind of the same as nighttime to me.

No to rest stops!! Never. Truck stops or out somewhere alone.

Idiots that try stupid things and to try to hurt people can always be silenced

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

Unfortunately sometimes not until they harm someone more vulnerable

@anthonytripp2251

15 күн бұрын

When you have police and politicians disarming the citizens, how are we to stand up to the criminals?

@WisconsinWanderer

15 күн бұрын

I stay at park in rides once in a while and have not had an issue. But i’ve got security cameras outside my van so who knows 🤷‍♂️Thanks 😊

@tennesseeterri

15 күн бұрын

Cameras don't keep you safe. They just assist the cops after the crime.

@WisconsinWanderer

15 күн бұрын

@@tennesseeterri never said they did

I’ve stayed at that one a few times and believe it to be very safe.

I've been staying at rest stops since the 1970s. I've never had a problem, never seen a problem. Some areas have better stops and some are sketchy. I've gone coast to coast. I take my kids and I think only one time I left because something didn't feel right. I use to have a dog and it did make me feel safer. If someone was to try something with me they would be in for a wide awaking because I will protect us til the end. My Dad was a trucker from when he was a teen til 75 years old. I think riding with him as a child and young adult helped me with confidence. I pray everyone is safe out there because we are living in a different kind of world today

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

12 күн бұрын

Yes, a very different world today!

I stayed overnight (not more than 6 hours), in a moving truck at a rest area on I-5 South, near Buttonwillow, I think once. Trucks stopped and other cars stopped. I did not get out of the car here. I walked my dog elsewhere before stopping there.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

13 күн бұрын

Smart move. I advise people to do whatever you need to do outside your vehicle before you pull up for the night to park.

I’ve driven from Southeast Florida to western Kentucky back-and-forth a few times in the last year. I stop it every rest stop per doctors orders to stretch my legs and always use the bathroom sometimes at night every once in a while I had a bad feeling so I would move the car and wait until other women were going in the restroom. Tennessee you can only stay at a rest stop for two hours and they have people there all the time it seemed. Florida rest stops also seem to have people there working all the time. Georgia very busy.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

It is interesting how different it is from state to state. The nicest rest stop I ever stayed at was in Wyoming. It was spacious and even had plugs oeople were using for their portable generators. It also had a designated area for rvs.

I’m not a nomad van person but don’t even like stopping at rest areas when driving in my car during the day and need to use the restroom- esp since I am always alone.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

Rest stops can be frightening depending on the locations.

@user-yu5cg8yl5w

15 күн бұрын

The roads I travel regularly do not have rest stops and it is often 60 to 120 miles between towns. I hate public restrooms and avoid them when possible. I have places I stop so my dog and I can tend to personal business. I carry what I need for bathroom breaks so I can be comfortable when I'm driving. Some of these places I stop are roads off the highway 50-100 yards, some are trail heads, others are places truckers pull off to nap or take breaks. When I'm finished and my dog is back in the vehicle we make a U turn and return to the highway. This works well for me as I too travel alone.

@NYCHFAN

14 күн бұрын

I usually go to a chain grocery store to do my business when traveling.

The ones in Oregon have been safe for me, but I use the toilet in my van if I need to go after dark. If my little dog has to go after dark, we make it as quick and stay near the van. If possible I try to find a dispersed site for the evening.

@user-yu5cg8yl5w

15 күн бұрын

I like the dispersed sites. I feels more comfortable in them and safer. Easier for my dog to tend to business as she is antsy around lots of people and vehicles.

@deedeeotero4475

14 күн бұрын

What is a dispersed site?

@barefootincactus

14 күн бұрын

@@deedeeotero4475 BLM or National Forest land, free camping with no amenities

Fantastic video Carol !!! A good reality check for so many. 👍

We've stayed there overnight many times and never felt unsafe, we never leave the camper though. At sunrise we head into oceanside harbor for a waterfront spot.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

12 күн бұрын

Good plan not leaving the camper.

Carol, you have Cuddles. Don’t sell Cuddles short. 😂

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

14 күн бұрын

Cuddles is a mama's boy, not a warrior🤣🤣🤣 But he will bark at anyone coming up at night.

Thank you for making this video after the last one. I guess I'd park at one for the night depending on my gut feeling, and depending on if I had a dog or not. Still currently in sticks and bricks but hope to be a nomad "down the road."

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

13 күн бұрын

The best safety tool in our toolbox is listening to our gut and that little voice that guides us. Any time I disregard that the results are not good. I do plan to still use rest stops but selectively and according to the vibe I get when pulling in or after observing for a bit.

I’ve had some very good overnights at rest areas. In W TX there are one or two with a guard watching monitors.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

Now that would make me feel a whole lot safer!!

I stay at rest stops all the time never had a problem thank God

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

10 күн бұрын

I haven't had any problems either, but I pass up quite a fee and am very careful at the ones I do use.

When I travel alone I do not use rest stops unless I see families or maybe couples there. I'm always on alert!

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

10 күн бұрын

Good plan.

I have used rest stops. This was before covid but I was surprised that Alabama had a person at the rest stop working in the front. I felt so much more secure with that. I feel the same way about the truckers. I had a very creepy thing hap[pen near Shreveport LA and had to just get in my van and drive away even though I was tired. Couldn't sleep anyway. Always pay attention to your spidey sense and even your dreams. I've had that happen and canceled plans. Ask for guidance when you are traveling. Remember you have to ask.

Hi Carol Hope you are having a good day. It looks ok pretty good to me. I would stay here.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

I would too. I just wouldn't get out of my vehicle at night or go into the bathroom alone.even in the daytime.

Very interesting and educacional information

i way began to prefer paying a small montly fee for a space at someone's house instead of sleeping in my RV on the street in someone's neighborhood, etc. It is very pleasant to wake up and be accepted first thing in the morning instead of wondering if i will survive my parking spot.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

13 күн бұрын

Having to find a safe place to park every night can be very trying.

@Applecider-Poetry

13 күн бұрын

@@gloriouslifeonwheels3621 finding a safe place to live is just as hard. i will email you later, been very busy with appointments in all the heat. my place is very fledgling, it used to be a rather large chicken coop.

I think is more secure in the rest stops but not going alone to the bathroom being a woman. You always look so beautiful and elegant. 🎉

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

14 күн бұрын

Aw, thank you🥰 a lot of people don't eat to acknowledge it but women do have to take extra precautions.

My two brother in laws are truckers and told me to avoid truck stops. I would never stay at one but have a few chosen ones I stop at for emergency bathroom breaks only.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

13 күн бұрын

Are you talking about truck stops or rest stops? There is a difference. Rest stops are usually run by the government, such as a state. Truck stops, such as Loves or Pilot are commercial businesses.

A traveler appreciates being able to easily and quickly get off/on from the interstate at a rest area. That will appeal to criminals too. Commit a crime and they can escape to the high speeds of an interstate within a minute. I appreciate the restrooms, the easy on/off, and the chance to stretch and walk during the day. But they are pretty low on my list of places to overnight due to the security issues. The couple attacked in Nebraska certainly is not the first or the last rest area tragedy.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

Yes. The convenience appeals to both decent and indecent folk. Houbare correct, there have been many bad stories coming out if rest sto0s across the country. One of the saddest was a young woman who was killed at an Arkansas rest stop some years back by a serial killer. That rest stop was way back in the woods. It has since been shut down.

Just trust your gut. I needed to overnight near Asheville two weeks ago and parked in a Walmart parking lot about ten miles from town. The amount of noise, drag racing and general traffic in the parking lot at 11pm was crazy, I finally just left. I moved to a rest stop, parked near cars and trucks, and slept fine. I always park near cars with dogs if possible, I trust dog people lol. Stay in your car until daylight!

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

13 күн бұрын

Good move. And yes. Definitely stay in your car til daylight!!

Good video. Thanks for putting it out there. That looks like a nice rest stop. I have stayed at a rest stop in HI 5 southbound in California. These rest stops are great for taking a road break and catch a nap. I hate to be a drag, but just have to ask. When will you be putting up a cooking video?

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

13 күн бұрын

You are not being a drag. I keep planning to every week and something gets in the way. I have a really easy 3 ingredient thow it in a pot meal I plan to air sometime this week.

2 yrs ago I did 2 cross country trips, from Cal to NY & back & from Cal to Fl & back. I slept at rest areas mostly. I never felt unsafe. Most post that they have security cameras 24/7. My van is self contained so I use my own bathroom. At one rest area in I think AL there was a work camper who lived at the rest area who did maintenance at the rest area. She came over to me & said if I needed anything to let her know. Also that rest area had a free dump station & water. A couple of times I stayed at Walmart & I was a bit nervous. When I bring my dog with me to Fiesta Is. I usually stop at that rest area to walk her.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

13 күн бұрын

S9me WalMarts can he really sketchy. My favorite places.to stop.ovrrnigjt are truck stops..I do stay at.rest stops.but am pretty picky about them..I like ones that have lots of other folks also parked there.

@silverfox6590

13 күн бұрын

@@gloriouslifeonwheels3621 I do want to add that I use 2 apps that have reviews on every rest area that other people have stayed at. They are RV Parky & USA rest stops. This helped me to choose a good rest stop.

But actually I tell fellow people who live Van life only more. Alternatively, Olive in Arvie's cause people who live INR VS or car's tend to park in popular park to themselves. I think that's more dangerous. I tell people park closer to other cars. Just keep the noise down in your house on wheels. So they don't hear you inside watching TV or having nice hour in your Van. That's the best way when I park at night. I park close when I pop in strip malls. What does avocados overnight? Ipod close to other cars this way? I blend in. I don't park far away, but a lot of you. People who live alternatively tend to park away from everybody. I don't know why that is. I think you expose yourself more that way. I believe you should blend in with other cars.

@rattlecat5968

14 күн бұрын

🤭 *"AVOCADOS?"*

It really depends on where you are. I think you might be safer on the Interstates. The 2 sketchy rest areas I mentioned in NorCal are on local freeways. 🚻 Sacramento, California USA 🇺🇸

@NYCHFAN

14 күн бұрын

I live in the Sacramento area and there are so many tweakers you don't want to stop in a public place or parking lot if you're near downtown. If you go a few miles north on I-5, you can go to the airport. There is a free waiting parking lot, you could probsbly nap there, but I wouldn't stay more thsn an hour or two, and there is a big lit up gas station you could park at. It's a busy one, so I wouldn't worry about anyone noticing you being parked there for awhile. I've seen vsns & RV's there. ✌️❤️

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

14 күн бұрын

I think the interstate stops may be safer too.

I would take a 4-6 hour nap in the day but not at night

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

14 күн бұрын

I don't like driv8ng at night. Very scary should I have a blow out or breakdown.

ME & MY MOM IS GOING TO TENN AND BACK HOME & WE'RE GOING TO BE AS SAFE AS POSSIBLE

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

I drove from California to Tennesse then North Carolina last Octoberm I stayed almost exclusively at truck stops

I did stay at rest stops from WA to CA. The best rest stops were in Oregon They were clean and big and safe. The smaller ones I didn’t stay at. At night I stayed locked in. Used my own potty. There were workers in the rest stops that I stayed at.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

14 күн бұрын

The only restbstop I have been at that had workers at night so far is the one in this video.

@Lokelani50

14 күн бұрын

I totally believe you. I went from WA to CA and back. In Oregon it was beautiful. Always workers around. Always clean. Maybe it’s an Oregon thing. I did see many women alone too.

I've used rest stops when absolutely necessary but I try to find a truck stop before I do that.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

13 күн бұрын

Me too.

I've traveled a lot and stopped at a lot of rest stops but I think that the timing of the day or evening is key during the day and the late afternoon no problem but I will tell you after 11:00 p.m. at night that's when there is more chance of running into people who are drunk high or on drugs be wary of that especially on the weekends. Young crazy kids that are high love to show off in front of each other. So I opted not to get out far away from the bathroom and walk I just go right close to the building and park get out get back in my car. If I have to go to the bathroom at night I would rather stop at a 24-hour fast food place they seem to be free from the negative elements in the late night

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

13 күн бұрын

Agree!!

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I normally stay at rest stops when im traveling. And have been for about 5 years. Never had an issue. I wont stay if its deserted at night. I also stay close to truckers. But i also stay in my rig till i leave.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

14 күн бұрын

There definitely are some guidelines to follow that help increase your safety such as staying in your rig at night

Hey, Gloria what you should have did is interview them on camera. That'll be awesome for content for you. My love, if you're still there now I say interview them on TV live. I'd love to see you interview them my love, thank you.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

I tried to. None of them wanted to be in camera, especially the two who live in their car and suv..

@skapunkoialternativeliving6522

15 күн бұрын

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621 Thank you. My love you make great content. I love your videos. My love you're the best.

All good suggestions. One late night I pulled into a rest stop for a bathroom break as well as a nap. Parking right across from the trucker parking area. About the time I dozed off a truckload of squeeing pigs pulled up…..

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

14 күн бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

Depends on how it looks and where it’s at. Stay strapped and keep your head on a swivel.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

Definitely don't let your guard down!!

@anthonytripp2251

15 күн бұрын

It's getting harder to maintain your Constitutional rights.

@cyndeeh

15 күн бұрын

​@anthonytripp2251 how? Whyd you have to get political? There's always a bad apple....

@SPOKENWORDZ1970

11 күн бұрын

Exactly as a woman I have many things in my vehicle that's in arms reach God forbid in the middle of the night or anytime

@SPOKENWORDZ1970

11 күн бұрын

I always look for a place that's either a 24-hour rest stop or that they're going to be sheriff's that's going to patrol the place a lot

When I sleep in my car I do so in front of a camera.😊

Do the trucks noise keep you awake? Their generators for their ACs? I know that rest stop, very nice area. But there are areas along some highways I wouldn’t consider staying overnight alone. Ladies, IMO we should always have some sort of loud alarm or something no matter where we are. 😊

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

14 күн бұрын

Thr noise doesn't bother me. But then I am usually rather tired by the time I pull into a rest stop. I agree with you that having something that makes a lot of noise is a good idea.

I would never feel comfortable at a rest stop

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

9 күн бұрын

Can't say I blame you.

I think it just depends. Most times, I think if it's busy and has a lot of people, you most likely are OK. But this happens to people everywhere, more people are killed in their own homes or neighborhoods than anywhere else, so the risks are the same in my opinion. Situational awareness is your fastest bet, as well as not being isolated and alone

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

10 күн бұрын

Absolutely do not go into isolated areas.

@WilliamDavis-lf5bq

10 күн бұрын

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621 I do, but I'm also prepared for the worst when I do. But I mostly fear animals in that case. But i do avoid areas like that in cities. The more people, the better, in cities. There is a park near my house that everyone says I can stay at, the the few times I sent there at night, the vibe was off. Homeless guy wandering song l around without pants, or the weird lady offering bj's for drugs. During the day, it's nice, peaceful. At night, it's not. But stay safe everyone. Thanks for your videos

My Favorite Lady ! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊❤❤❤

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

Thanks you dear friend as always Kenneth🥰🥰🥰

We never go to rest stops across America

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

Many people don't. There are some scary ones.

Well I have been doing a lot of sleeping over night at rest areas And I do get concerned sometimes But I am not good at finding safer places

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

I like truck stops best. I use a website called Truck Master Fuel Finder. You can look by state ajd by Highway and it will give all the trucks stops and the corresponding exitsm

@user-yu5cg8yl5w

15 күн бұрын

I've been known to find a church (the denomination I attend, usually) and use their parking lot. It has worked well for me. They are often in residential areas and it is quiet and well lit.

I've traveled all over and stayed at rest stops to sleep, I've never felt unsafe at them. You can't live in fear. But I've always had a knife with me, if i needed it which i never had to. If you don't like the area then just leave. Stay at a gas station where they have cameras running 24/7. Or install cameras in your vehicle. Post a note saying you're being recorded now leave. People who live in sticks and bricks have break-ins too, so it happens. Life anywhere can be scary, you just can't live in fear. My friend lives alone in a house and sleeps with a machete next to her bed. Even tho she's not fearful about living alone. Seems like you're installing fear into people and they're not going to want to do vanlife, but some people have no choice, like you said. Where do you expect them to go? This world is crazy right now and we're just trying to live life without fear.

I recommend strip mall. Parking is better. I don't like truck stops that much if I have to I will but strip malls are the best not Walmart parking lots back in a day. Walmart parking lot was good. But it's kind of stopping that now. I say street more parking lot is the best or Cracker Barrel is the best.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

I have tried a few malls but each time security approached before I could even park and told me I couldn't park there!

That’s a huge test stop Carol! Wonder why I’ve never noticed that one from the freeway.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

14 күн бұрын

That one us on the northbound side. There is another one on the southbound side.

@janiswilliams2766

14 күн бұрын

@@gloriouslifeonwheels3621that’s why I never see it … I’m always looking at the ocean weather going south or north.

Just be aware of your surroundings and the people around you.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

13 күн бұрын

Absolutely!

I'll be very leery in rural areas that are not populated. Some unscrupulous young party people cause very much damage out of boredom sad but true. That's why I don't understand why a lot of these people go out far away from the mainstream and live. I believe there are so many that are running from the law that are doing the same thing and I would not feel safe. Especially in the southwest where there are a lot of the border migrants coming in. I would be afraid someone would want to steal my vehicle and kill me for my ID, bank account and whatnot. No thank you I will just stick to east coast and familiar populated places

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

13 күн бұрын

I do not feel safe camping or boondocking out in the boonies by myself as a solo female or especially with my special needs daughter! There are a lot of solo female KZreadrs who do it, not me.

Hello from Puerto Rico friends

This geezer has stayed overnight at dozens of different rest stops throughout the Western U.S. and never felt the slightest sense of danger. And even at rest stops that have a time limitation of say two or four hours, I have never been asked by security or law enforcement to leave.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

14 күн бұрын

Thanks for sharing that perspective.

That place is nice with the sea in the water.Do you have electric to pull your to pull?Plug your electric items in this way , you save use in your batteriesThat place is nice with the sea in the water. Do you have electric to pull your to pull? Plug your electric items in this way. You save use in your batteries.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

I didn't see any plug-ins.

You look at what is there - who the people are, -are they sketchy ? There are many quite fine and then there are. some which you find drug deals etc. If it's sketchy don't stay. You have to weigh the vibes the lay of the land.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

13 күн бұрын

So true. The difference between rest stops is astounding. As you noted some are quite nice and others are filled with sketchy and dangerous folks.

@Prius.Adventures

13 күн бұрын

@@gloriouslifeonwheels3621 Always pay attention to your gut feeling.

First, I want to compliment you on your earrings. They go well with your blue outfit and suit you. I would not have a problem with staying there. Seems well lit and quite a few people and truckers around. Probably wouldn't have a problem with the back area in the daytime, but I'm a guy. I've always been very aware of my surroundings and trust my instincts. Looks like it is very well kept, compared to the one Lindy was showing on her channel. The one she showed was disheveled and looked abandoned. I guess it depends on how the vibes feel. Nice video Carol!😁✌🤟

The incident in Nebraska i feel could of happened anywhere...to any one. I will say people let their guard down in the morning...

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

14 күн бұрын

I believe the perpetrator specifically targeted that couple because they looked more vulnerable. Bet he wohldn't have taken on someone who looked like the Rock!!

I didn't know you were allowed to sleep overnight at rest stops in California. Isn't there a 4 hour limit? Trucking is not what it used to be. I'm not saying all, but I'd say 1/3 of them are creepy. Many law enforcements believe a lot of serial killers are truckers because they are gone the next day, so there isn't anyone around to track. The US is not the same after the pandemic, I feel it's almost every man for themselves. I don't even like driving snymore because it seems all the trolls are driving when they're not making mean comments on social medis. 😢

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

14 күн бұрын

From what I've seen including at other rest stops.in California people stay overnight at rest stops regularly. Thing certainly have changed since thr pandemic. But I still believe there are more good folks than bad.

do you think it’s better to stay on the move at night and sleep during the day, if possible?

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

15 күн бұрын

I prefer traveling during the day. Should I have a breakdown or flat I would.much rather deal with it during the day. Also, I don't like stopping for gas or snacks, etc at night.

@user-yu5cg8yl5w

15 күн бұрын

I agree with Carol. Drive in the day time for safety sake if you have vehicle problems. I use church parking lots, sometimes. I prefer to park off a dirt road not visible from the highway, but, that is me and I have a big dog and packing heat. I've never been one to like crowds. But, then I live in sparsely populated country and feel comfortable away from people. If you are not comfortable with that then don't even consider it. And most of all, listen to your gut feeling. If your senses tell you it isn't safe, leave. There is a reason for our senses.

Hey girl.😊😊

Good pne.

Can anyone share where exactly this rest stop is? Thanks

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

10 күн бұрын

This rest stop is on the northbound side of Interstate 5 in San Diego county a few miles past Oceanside. There is also one on thr opposite side of the freeway.

I’m afraid of going to rest stops now.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

14 күн бұрын

I don't think you have to be afraid so much as aware ajd selective in choosing which ones to stay at.

Works 2 jobs and still can't afford rent pffttt. We're no better than a 3rd world country anymore. There's obviously been an enormous transfer of wealth for things to be this way.

@gloriouslifeonwheels3621

7 күн бұрын

It is a crying shame that folks have to work themselves into the ground just to pay rent!