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You Deserve better. Raise the bar

We need to wake up to a simple fact - we deserve better.
Respect yourself enough to know you deserve better. Don't shake your head. You do! But until you ask for it, you'll never get it.

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  • @faithnjoki1471
    @faithnjoki14713 жыл бұрын

    Which is why my colleagues don't understand why I live where I live. Ati it's expensive.. For who? God has willed to me good things and I shall afford them. No mediocrity in my life. I gotta live well coz nimeona shida na macho. I raised the bar when I realized I deserve good things

  • @DAILYVIDDEOS

    @DAILYVIDDEOS

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hehe nitafutie kazi

  • @inspiredwithjulie

    @inspiredwithjulie

    3 жыл бұрын

    You're my twin. I believe I deserve the best in the land

  • @mionrugheart2340

    @mionrugheart2340

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes oooh

  • @gathiij

    @gathiij

    3 жыл бұрын

    Eishhh.. Love the confidence

  • @doreenkawira2129

    @doreenkawira2129

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yaaassssss! Same happened to me...and since I moved in where they think it's expensive, I have never lacked. Raise the bar and the money will follow you oohhh

  • @queenieeyerinie
    @queenieeyerinie3 жыл бұрын

    Mediocrity is a disease of the mind, once ridden off you can soar and expect better in all angles of your life.

  • @velisima100
    @velisima1003 жыл бұрын

    You are so articulate Carol, I feel intelligent once I've listened to you

  • @liammuiruri8222

    @liammuiruri8222

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too...

  • @peninahmaina8813

    @peninahmaina8813

    2 жыл бұрын

    You and me both

  • @winnieakinyi9323

    @winnieakinyi9323

    2 жыл бұрын

    You can say that again. And of course I love the Kiswahili inclusions.

  • @gailmati6578

    @gailmati6578

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @kennyaga3241
    @kennyaga32413 жыл бұрын

    Caroline it cuts through everything in Kenya... We need therapy.. Literally as a nation

  • @wanguigrace2957

    @wanguigrace2957

    3 жыл бұрын

    We really do

  • @MissRichu

    @MissRichu

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree

  • @gathua
    @gathua3 жыл бұрын

    Dignity is the word. Thank you so much for this conversation!

  • @kaimurimagu5804
    @kaimurimagu58043 жыл бұрын

    Hey Caroline 👋🏾! Thank you for your content. I love the blue outfit. Is it a dress? It looks stunning on you. Keep sparking these conversations. That Rwanda story cuts deep. That's a commitment from a man who for all his faults is right on the money. Give people their dignity, show them that their humanity is precious - and their own purpose,their care for others, their guiding principle, work ethic, service to the common good...will just flow. Culture is from the top downwards - necessarily so.

  • @thomasokumu7497
    @thomasokumu74973 жыл бұрын

    Spot on, disruptive mindset, couldn’t agree more

  • @tabbykamau1443
    @tabbykamau14433 жыл бұрын

    I couldn't agree more! Platinum blonde looks great on you by the way. Love your content Ms. Caroline, keep doing this.

  • @Spinkly
    @Spinkly3 жыл бұрын

    I agree! Every Kenyan citizen deserves access to clean water, election and good roads. That should be essential, including housing, they need to make knew laws on that. We all deserve access to great health facilities!!! We pay taxes this surely!!!

  • @soniakithinji
    @soniakithinji3 жыл бұрын

    Take myself to the place where I have always thought somebody else will do it...food for thought

  • @lydiakagunya5218
    @lydiakagunya52183 жыл бұрын

    Yea raising a bar, dignity its important. Thank you Caroline this one it has sunk deep inside me.

  • @LishWanjogu
    @LishWanjogu3 жыл бұрын

    Good Lord! This reminds me of our rundown public schools and parents are quiet and still electing the same leaders*

  • @jenifferndungu6350
    @jenifferndungu63503 жыл бұрын

    I get alot of wisdom when i listen to you...and we've all noticed how this blonde hair looks great on you. Thanks carol

  • @cikanyoro
    @cikanyoro3 жыл бұрын

    I hear you Caro but I realized people are so busy struggling with the basic things like they accept certain things without much caring

  • @birch_kalawa
    @birch_kalawa3 жыл бұрын

    Was told the same about not living under thatched houses.

  • @conversationswithchelsie8057
    @conversationswithchelsie80573 жыл бұрын

    Poverty makes people feel and think they don't have options and denies them their right dignity. Caroline is right we need to raise the bar and not settle for less.

  • @gladyskangi4130
    @gladyskangi41303 жыл бұрын

    Oh my goodness Caroline! You’ve said it. We need to want better in every facet of our lives. From government services to working environments. We need more people to make noise for better. I’m so happy these conversations are happening.

  • @Herineambiyo_
    @Herineambiyo_3 жыл бұрын

    We deserve more than we demand; we need to expect more and demand more ...what a timely reminder.

  • @trishtrish2349
    @trishtrish23493 жыл бұрын

    I totally agree with you Caroline. I really hate those sub standard structures AKA death-traps - can NOT refer to them as homes that rogue developers put up in Kenya. The same really ruin the skyline of Nairobi. If new developers up their game and the building regulators actually do their work , the owners of the sub standard buildings will have no choice but to demolish the same.

  • @Phiphi31
    @Phiphi313 жыл бұрын

    I love and how simple,humble she is ,Caro stay blessed and continue looking younger forever, I admire your alot ❤💗💛💕💖

  • @Ryt_114
    @Ryt_1143 жыл бұрын

    Facts! Also most people think that just because a certain rental is priced at a certain limit, then it must be nice. Yet there's lack of water, it's dusty, etc. It's such a dangerous mindset to not challenge things surrounding us on a daily.

  • @Anyango31
    @Anyango313 жыл бұрын

    What I've loved most about watching your channel is how you challenge me. It's been years, and I am a better person. Thank you Miss Mutoko

  • @verumdkm
    @verumdkm3 жыл бұрын

    This is precisely why I love this lady, for her mentality and mindset. Thankyou Ma'am. And I'd like to be a part of your endeavor. I keep re-watching this video and when I hear you pick out this issue it re-assures me standards will rise at the pace they should everywhere in Kenya.

  • @sharronmunyi2350
    @sharronmunyi23503 жыл бұрын

    So she makes me feel like am sitting across her at The same table having this candid talk...

  • @nambaziiramaggie8966
    @nambaziiramaggie89662 жыл бұрын

    There is so much power in your words Caroline, wow! Each statement is spot-on, been noting every single nugget. I cant get enough. Thank you for putting this together. God bless you.

  • @roselynewambui4249
    @roselynewambui42492 жыл бұрын

    Why I'm i see you now Carol...... I can't afford not listen to all past episodes Thanks

  • @zuzuliciouse.v.e9154
    @zuzuliciouse.v.e91543 жыл бұрын

    This hair suits you omg so beautiful

  • @richardjoelweaver6949
    @richardjoelweaver69493 жыл бұрын

    Have watched it like 5 x,that's why I love Kenya very passionate about her beloved country..

  • @Kemmy28
    @Kemmy283 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful,intelligent and very Smart. Caro leo nipe like.😍😍

  • @dfreokemwa7864

    @dfreokemwa7864

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🏃

  • @behappyalways9835

    @behappyalways9835

    3 жыл бұрын

    She doesn't like being addressed as Caro,call her Caroline or Mutoko

  • @CKay703

    @CKay703

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@behappyalways9835 I can relate. I dislike it when people call me Caro. What the heck? It's simply Caroline. Such a beautiful name.

  • @bennjeri9328
    @bennjeri93283 жыл бұрын

    That message is paramount to us the youth.May God bless you my sister for giving us that positive spirit.

  • @lulah3783
    @lulah37833 жыл бұрын

    This is so true. Always enlightening. Is it bad though that am alittle distracted by your eyebrows. 🤔😉

  • @melaninwarrior6420
    @melaninwarrior64203 жыл бұрын

    Great vid,greetings from Berlin Germany

  • @AmramAbba
    @AmramAbba3 жыл бұрын

    Hard truth.... I sat down and listened... I approve the direction you're taking with this. Lovely!

  • @lizk2643
    @lizk26433 жыл бұрын

    Love that Hair color.💁🏾‍♀️

  • @grandcasamedia1760
    @grandcasamedia17603 жыл бұрын

    Nice, we must demand better, first from ourselves n not settle for less.

  • @flossienjama-simplelifehea7613
    @flossienjama-simplelifehea76133 жыл бұрын

    So well said Caroline. 👍👍

  • @NdichuKibe254
    @NdichuKibe2543 жыл бұрын

    Carol is smart, that's it.

  • @snowflakesigbozuruike240
    @snowflakesigbozuruike2403 жыл бұрын

    I got two key points.. dignity and raise the bar.. nice 🙂🙂🙂

  • @AscendinSoul
    @AscendinSoul3 жыл бұрын

    Facts 💯 Mutoko! How you do one thing is how you do everything.....let’s elevate how we individually feel and think of ourselves. As a result... we will raise the bar on how we treat others and how we let them treat us in such as dating and or marriage, parenting, business and eventually politics. It’s ALL an inside job.

  • @joycemash5670
    @joycemash56703 жыл бұрын

    I needed to hear I deserve better. I'm quitting my job

  • @cathywanjiku1306

    @cathywanjiku1306

    3 жыл бұрын

    Please try and not do that. Do you have a side hustle, or another job?

  • @lindawangui7886

    @lindawangui7886

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@cathywanjiku1306 good question.

  • @centykaia4450

    @centykaia4450

    3 жыл бұрын

    Please have a 3 month savings before you quit. Be smart please

  • @marrion25

    @marrion25

    3 жыл бұрын

    Go girl. Listen to your heart. Things will fall in place. I did that with no plan B. I was able to think clearer once I was broke. It is only then that I came to know what I really wanted. I have never looked back. I nolonger have 1000 dreams. I have one. All the best

  • @adongom5140

    @adongom5140

    3 жыл бұрын

    Please, being better doesn't mean quitting your job. Until you find something concrete, don't quit. Be better in your job right now, that's your current situation.

  • @genevievegk
    @genevievegk3 жыл бұрын

    Wow....what a conversation! I love this ...."raising the bar". 👌

  • @BwanaKinyanjui
    @BwanaKinyanjui3 жыл бұрын

    Miss Caroline Mutoko... You totally give me the IT factor each time I listen to you. You said it very well a while ago, never arrive. That means keep setting the bar higher each time. You just did with this one. I am not Solomon, neither Edwin, but you were talking to me directly. Thank you Miss Mutoko. I would love to do coffee with you, your intellectual stimulation is on a whole nother level.

  • @marthareithi7959
    @marthareithi79593 жыл бұрын

    Thank you...am here now thinking in what way I can raise the bar high for my business... even though it will cost me more... thought provoking 👏

  • @chicwithchrist5117
    @chicwithchrist51173 жыл бұрын

    I'd wanna meet you this year...

  • @michellewairimu8360
    @michellewairimu83603 жыл бұрын

    You are the best saleswoman on the planet

  • @beeteelife
    @beeteelife3 жыл бұрын

    I agree, we should demand better, in all housing is a beginning, leaders next, schools, our churches and pastors. Seems the only place we ask for the best is entertainment ....

  • @musamustafi970
    @musamustafi9703 жыл бұрын

    Very nice and encouraging video...l really like your personality

  • @michelleagidza267
    @michelleagidza2673 жыл бұрын

    I couldn't agree more!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @mariaadhiambo4738
    @mariaadhiambo47383 жыл бұрын

    Mutoko you become prettier every single day. Please tell me the secret mummy 😁😁😁😁

  • @realtalkwithLeila

    @realtalkwithLeila

    3 жыл бұрын

    Money and passion for her work.

  • @teresawanja7318
    @teresawanja73183 жыл бұрын

    I love this.the story of Rwanda is inspiring.waiting to see mowlem heights❤

  • @rosa629
    @rosa6293 жыл бұрын

    Amen to this, thank you for putting this up...

  • @nicholaschenje8200
    @nicholaschenje82002 жыл бұрын

    There is this word that I must hear in your conversation that is really changing my life CONSISTENTLY....

  • @nicholaschenje8200
    @nicholaschenje82002 жыл бұрын

    Knowledge,...I know soon I will seat down with you and get this...

  • @njessy1
    @njessy13 жыл бұрын

    Wow we teach people how to treat us....thanks Carol

  • @sokoonline
    @sokoonline3 жыл бұрын

    Very True Caroline...We need to change as a people.

  • @thisislynn3425
    @thisislynn34253 жыл бұрын

    Hey Carol you are always informative

  • @Wyrimo1
    @Wyrimo13 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Carol for the motivation

  • @kekiplus1andonly
    @kekiplus1andonly3 жыл бұрын

    The one lady i truly love&admire Giiirl,yo just adorbs😍😍😍😍😍😘😘

  • @mauram3881
    @mauram38813 жыл бұрын

    The struggle of house hunting in Nairobi.... You just wonder how people expect you to live that way...one landlord said you don't need drawers in the kitchen you can just carry yours from where you came from... I was SHOOOOK😳

  • @christinekawira5113
    @christinekawira51133 жыл бұрын

    Totally distracted by your hair😄😄😍

  • @maddemadetv445
    @maddemadetv4453 жыл бұрын

    youre very right u so beautyful

  • @switskim1492
    @switskim14923 жыл бұрын

    You talked about Rwanda...l thought about China.China wants to eliminate poverty there...and that goes for people living in villages there...Everything is possible under the Sun

  • @muchirulewis2100

    @muchirulewis2100

    3 жыл бұрын

    They just moved them from the rural areas to apartment complexex by force and redifined the term poverty

  • @nataniangozi1926
    @nataniangozi19263 жыл бұрын

    Yes! I been wondering too and envy developed countries when it comes to apartments and homes. KENYA we must raise the Bar.⌛▫

  • @Nyota10
    @Nyota102 жыл бұрын

    Yes, yes.....l totally agree, we need to raise the bar......kabisa.

  • @SpiderOG
    @SpiderOG3 жыл бұрын

    OMG real estate in Kenya is a heap of endless tat. The bathrooms eugh.

  • @cristiansfamily772
    @cristiansfamily7723 жыл бұрын

    You set bars urself that's why I love u.

  • @juliusmwangangi8808
    @juliusmwangangi88083 жыл бұрын

    👏👏A mind blowing conversation 🔥🔥

  • @MrsKarite
    @MrsKarite3 жыл бұрын

    You look FABULOUS😍😍😍😍

  • @wmwangi9306
    @wmwangi93063 жыл бұрын

    Thanks...awaiting to see what happened at Mowlem Heights. Yes we must raise the bar as consumers or service providers! Ha ha you remind of a boss who used to encourage/push us we (staff) to set the bar high and said only we (staff/company) could and must raise it higher...in the end you remain the best in what you do.

  • @Wanyiha-G.1
    @Wanyiha-G.13 жыл бұрын

    I'm sharing this!

  • @tabbytyrell3183
    @tabbytyrell31833 жыл бұрын

    You're so beautiful both in and out❤ You really inspire me in a great way.

  • @andersongichuhi6148
    @andersongichuhi61482 жыл бұрын

    Raising the bar consistently. I hope to always apply in all facets

  • @washingtonochieng4881
    @washingtonochieng48813 жыл бұрын

    Always on point

  • @hirutt5328
    @hirutt53283 жыл бұрын

    You are really inspiring and just wanted to tell you I just love you 😘

  • @patcy2highlyfavoured
    @patcy2highlyfavoured3 жыл бұрын

    I love this a lot a lot!!!! because, heh!!! Your tired has got to get tired at some point for less than... this is all for growth, embrace it!!!

  • @jamesmuthini7698
    @jamesmuthini76982 жыл бұрын

    Congrats!!

  • @SCB107
    @SCB1073 жыл бұрын

    Truth 💯. Lets normalize wanting finer things in life

  • @shillaekodir9805
    @shillaekodir98053 жыл бұрын

    I love Caro's brains❤❤

  • @lucasmwangi2504
    @lucasmwangi25043 жыл бұрын

    Thanks alot caro such a meticulous review waooo love you big time caro

  • @snjau7613
    @snjau76133 жыл бұрын

    This is good Caroline,very good

  • @starburst636
    @starburst6363 жыл бұрын

    The wisdom and beauty in this woman! We sure need to raise the bar, all including political ones

  • @muhuradedan

    @muhuradedan

    3 жыл бұрын

    Very true

  • @cynthiahaurelia3743
    @cynthiahaurelia37433 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this..you've helped me so much.

  • @lucasmwangi2504
    @lucasmwangi25043 жыл бұрын

    Really I do look forward we sit and talk closely I watch you your my role model

  • @zipwangui
    @zipwangui3 жыл бұрын

    Hair so lit!

  • @tommillia7816

    @tommillia7816

    3 жыл бұрын

    Weave madam...

  • @Cm-fh3yl
    @Cm-fh3yl3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Caroline for highlighting this and am in agreement 100% Unfortunately, some developers have taken advantage of customers- they show you an excellent show house just to get you committed in the project only to deliver something below minimum standards. Take for example, KINGS PRIDE developers built Telagen Gardens in Lavington Hatheru Road. The show room looked stunning but upon completion the houses had no borehole water, gym, swimming pool, generator - all which had been promised during construction. The owners had to bring in water tanks to Lavington!! Until they got together to sink a borehole with their own funds. To date, all the pending work was never done and this was in Lavington (carrying buckets of water upstairs). Could you also call out these kind of developers so this doesn’t happen to innocent Kenyans - it’s really bad for apartments that costed 20m. Who can hold them accountable? The developers (Major Karau) is very arrogant and he’s recently gone hiding.

  • @deekashanga
    @deekashanga3 жыл бұрын

    I like your advice Caroline 😉🙂

  • @alys7054
    @alys70543 жыл бұрын

    Flavia tumusiime sent me and am loving you ❤️😘😍

  • @Neneglamworld
    @Neneglamworld3 жыл бұрын

    We are well...thanks for asking

  • @marionwambui6583
    @marionwambui65833 жыл бұрын

    True! True! Although Caroline your statement should have been houses with Electricity if you are lucky water..... Nairobi hakuna maji

  • @hellenwanjiku28
    @hellenwanjiku283 жыл бұрын

    That's inspiring Caroline.👌

  • @naomitirop8387
    @naomitirop83873 жыл бұрын

    Totally distrscted in some way by her IQ and the kind of life bars she sets , then obviously she is stunningly beautiful

  • @BwanaKinyanjui

    @BwanaKinyanjui

    3 жыл бұрын

    Naomi you can say that again and again. Caroline's IQ, EQ is off the charts caaampletely. Oh she gets me and I get her.

  • @BonzikaStudios
    @BonzikaStudios3 жыл бұрын

    I love you Carol. Literally.

  • @monicakarihe4065
    @monicakarihe40653 жыл бұрын

    well put!!

  • @michellesimmons4513
    @michellesimmons45133 жыл бұрын

    ♥️ yes

  • @RosaliaShiweva
    @RosaliaShiweva3 жыл бұрын

    I love her

  • @felixnjeru6243
    @felixnjeru62433 жыл бұрын

    when listening to you i prefer pin drop silence. so, the music on the background is distractive.

  • @maryannem1398
    @maryannem13983 жыл бұрын

    Another spark......

  • @catherinemakandik.7627
    @catherinemakandik.76273 жыл бұрын

    Thanks 😊

  • @AikaGraceWangwe
    @AikaGraceWangwe3 жыл бұрын

    Amen! 100%

  • @triciaglorianabaye
    @triciaglorianabaye3 жыл бұрын

    I love this queen!!!!