“You cannot drift through life; that is suicide.” This quote is honestly really good to remember everyday. Helped me a lot

@CJ-lr4uq

Жыл бұрын

Everyone drifts through life, some just experience the illusion of being in control.

@davee7352

Жыл бұрын

Diogenes would like to have a word with you.

@daddytachanka8076

Жыл бұрын

@@CJ-lr4uq There are so many nuances in that statement, how you wanna define “drifting”, your own perspective on life. I’d say there’s clearly a difference between the actions a man like Andrew Tate takes that allow him to live how he does and people who don’t. But it’s not even necessary to talk about someone hyper successful like that. Someone who decides to get in shape and hit the gym also drastically changes their course than if they didn’t go. The end result of course being greater health, most importantly. If that’s an “illusion of control” then so what? You are still having a better experience of life than you would otherwise.

@CJ-lr4uq

Жыл бұрын

@@daddytachanka8076 guys like Andrew Tate are successful only partially because of the actions they've taken, but mostly it's because luck and circumstances outside of their control have allowed it (or divine providence).

@daddytachanka8076

Жыл бұрын

@@CJ-lr4uq Well it's completely in your prerogative to believe that but in my experience holding that belief is extremely self limiting. What stops you from doing some push ups at any moment for example. It's a small action, yes, but in the long run it will make your life better. Same thing applies to anything and anyone else.

What's scary is that the basic needs are slowly becoming unattainable. This puts people in a position where they're easily exploited

@avacadonacho

Жыл бұрын

Modern Slavery

@MrRocksW

Жыл бұрын

I'm 30 year old single man living in Ireland, I literally cannot move out of my parents house unless I move out of the country away from everyone I know. A single person cannot afford rent. Its making me feel really demoralised and unhappy. I'm becoming an isolated incel worker droid. Beep boop.

@stefanclarkowski9694

Жыл бұрын

@@MrRocksW if you start to identify as an incel worker droid its already over

@noggim1341

Жыл бұрын

how are you posting retarded shit on yt if your ''basic needs'' arent being met, youre dissociating buddy

@47nodoubt

Жыл бұрын

I've lived in foreign countries just to get basic needs, real food from markets, been robbed many times this year by police/federales for just doing that. been blocked from getting water from streams many times..you can't get the best of this whirled without fighting against evil inside and out. obviously most people take the easy route which is always wrong, so they reap what they sow, and they don't sow shit so they reap nothing but further slavery. place is hell not symbolically.

"Throwing javelins at pregnant women" - Gerby 2022

@nicholasridgeway5820

Жыл бұрын

“I’m doubling down”

@ladybug3380

Жыл бұрын

I laughed and I’m pregnant he’s a funny kid😅

@adjustedbrass7551

Жыл бұрын

He didn't say you had to hit them

@alexg.8065

Жыл бұрын

on some og idubbbz shit

@jimmybob1666

Жыл бұрын

extra points for the bullseye

I'm a millennial and I said the very same things you are saying with all of your videos since I was 25 back in 2018, the dating scene was pointless even back then which is why I withdrawn from the dating scene. No one cares about real connections. I truly believe that social media and the whole hookup culture killed the dating scene. No one see each other as a human being anymore more like an object to use.

@owen5640

Жыл бұрын

Short term gratification has fried everyone's brains. Genuine intimacy and love doesn't develop overnight, it's something two people have to commit to.

@theonewhoknocks96

Жыл бұрын

Sad but true. I checked out of the scene over two years ago, got off dating apps kinda just stopped trying to talk to women altogether. The juice isn’t worth the squeeze these days.

@ryukobestwaifu3319

Жыл бұрын

Fr and then your homies will make it like a competition of who gets the most hoes (even if their bitch is ugly af 💀) then make fun of the guy whose been fucking the same girl for months like bro wtf is wrong with that but ya it’s brutal out here

@daves.3278

Жыл бұрын

We're the same age bro! I agree but to give up on dating completely ain't good! Plenty of good girls out there it's just hard to find em.

@iiCounted-op5jx

Жыл бұрын

fr

so true about the gym being the base level now, I'm trying to convince my subs that so they start to pursue further aspects of self improvement, but there is currently a big culture of kids who think a sick physique is literally all you need for a personality and self-actualization.

@danielb2704

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. Gym bros are a dime a dozen in this era. When I started in 2020 it was something to be super proud of and I posted my physique a lot but I have abandoned that persona completely, it holds no value. It is the baseline now

@ryukobestwaifu3319

Жыл бұрын

@@danielb2704tbf most guys I know and see aren’t really big like that but it’s true gym maxxing may not be enough

@greenflamingoentertainment8613

Жыл бұрын

I think everyone at this point should understand how hopeless it is. You’ll never be able to retire. You’ll never get social security, cus there’s no more kids dumb enough to bother paying into it. You’ll have to have successful market investments just to break even on your net worth. Your dollar means nothing. Your labor means nothing. If you are too pale you’ll never be first pick in the labor market. Women aren’t worth it because they can’t love you like they would Chad. Buying a house isn’t worth it because the taxes will delete you quicker than the mortgage. In order to be free, buy a Tesla Graphene powered tiny home with bug burgers, and a life sized Silicon Super Model. This is as good as it will ever be for a long time.

@greenflamingoentertainment8613

Жыл бұрын

@@James-ig3ri You're incorrect. I'm at peace with reality. What im saying is simply so. Its not going to get better. Thats it. Im telling you not to be an idiot and make sure that your investment is in things that matter, and that you can afford through central banking and speculation bubbles and schemes. A tiny home is easily affordable and self sustaining because of future tech graphene batteries and a silicon girlfriend which only costs 2k, compared to the real things cost of 64k annually. Besides, What are you basing your "blackpill" denialism on? Black pill is where you could start to get a grip on reality i suppose. Do you have some white pill stats? Something that indicates an increase in birthrates besides rampant demographic murder committed by western governments to pack electoral power into their states and inflate the value of labor for corporations? Do you have stats on miraculously better mental health stats for men and women? Because when i look at the obvious stats the average IQ drop is far preferable to the madness thats consuming the western world at all levels. I am now enjoying the decline. Im content with reality and giving out free advice you can take. I have hope in a self sufficient tiny home and silicon bride. Feels good to have goals and know that things will work. If you deny whats true you'll make yourself an enemy to all thats true. Better to be prepared for storms than have them take you unawares.

@fiat_ow7876

Жыл бұрын

@@danielb2704 that isn't true. its more common for sure but your still going to stand out HARD at the beach or with nice fitted clothes if you have a decent physique.

Thank you for giving a voice to the existential angst that so many of us feel today.

@ColemanGlascock

Жыл бұрын

Well articulated comment.

@connorhenderson6841

Жыл бұрын

I love you brother stay in it

@kadeerkhan9802

Жыл бұрын

This sounds like such a r/im14andthisisdeep comment but I kinda get it lol

@MikeV8652

Жыл бұрын

That's what Gerby does better than anyone.

1. Good at it 2. Enjoy it 3. Make money 4. Making a difference

These videos are basically what many of us (cause it definitely ain't just me) sound like when we talk to ourselves inside our cars after a long day at work, where no one else can hear it. If we all had someone in our lives to speak with in this manner, the world would be a better place.

@omgxab2223

Жыл бұрын

I'm in my car right now and just finished venting to my windshield. This comment couldn't have been better timed. 👏

@yunyunpilled

Жыл бұрын

On Goober I was going insane because I thought I was the only person that did this.

@irksomecodger9667

Жыл бұрын

You’re definitely not alone. My car has become my best friend/therapist/confidant. I have a long drive to and from work and in a way I look forward to my commute every morning and afternoon as that’s when I vent off or work through shit that’s been on my mind.

@thadszmaciasz8971

Жыл бұрын

Ill go on for like a hour then think I must be insane or something lmao. I believe its just our brain trying to exhaust itself of the thoughts constantly building up within our head that we would like to share with others. Unfortunately, seldom times are people willing to conversate about such topics with, insisting on vanilla, plain talk, that doesn't require much thought.

@measlesplease1266

Жыл бұрын

Yeah the people around me act like I'm crazy when I say stuff like this.

Dude, I'm 34, but there are so many young kids are being driven to redpill manosphere stuff and I'm happy that someone like you can actually tell people the scoop without selling them a bunch of self help reactionary bullshit. You're a very helpful and knowledgeable young guy and I think giving hope to our youth is an invaluable thing to do. Thank you

@DrsJacksonn

Жыл бұрын

I'm a pretty old duderino myself. And I concur, this kid's wise beyond his years.

@User61918

Жыл бұрын

@@DrsJacksonn nigga said duderino

@GigaNietzsche

Жыл бұрын

"Reactionary bullshit" Define "Bullshit".

@MsAlexthemaster

10 ай бұрын

I guess you missed his "Gen Z is doomed) Video. Hope? It's more akin to nihilism

@zoeylamant8298

8 ай бұрын

You’re conflating the redpill with scammers and schemers. The redpill is nothing but a mind set and a way of thinking. It’s not trying to sell you courses or merch. You should really learn the difference.

A great friend of mine, one of the few people who had a similar mindset to me as a teenager when it came to the direction of the western world, decided to cope during government-forced lockdowns with benzodiazepines and that's how he met his despise. Gerby brought up a stellar point when he talked about people using cope to basically off themselves. Even if you don't actually die like my friend from making poor decisions like p0rn or other 'drugs', you are essentially offing yourself since you have no goals or direction. Don't be this type of person, stay in control of your choices and become something special even if you feel alone doing it!

@DutchWestFilms

Жыл бұрын

@midasg1 excellent point. I want to add, Hollywood and the music industry started fetishized drug addiction, depression as a cool identity and the whole being damaged so damage others, leading up the the social media era. Its just grown exponentially because of this era. But trying to be the change we want to see is going to mean something.

@TheInterwebzMan

Жыл бұрын

I think you mean "met his demise"

@TheLazyVideo

Жыл бұрын

@midasg1 I’m pretty sure TikTok is China’s attempt to get back at the West (more specifically, its anglosphere) for the centuries of drug laden Chinese men during the Opium wars that the British plied drugs to. And it wouldn’t surprise me if most of the fentanyl and benzodiazepines sold in the West were also manufactured in China.

@dbigggg

Жыл бұрын

jesus this is exactly what me and my buddies did during the lockdowns we were only 17 in our junior year and boom the next year a half was online. We were taking Xanax as a 'time machine' to make the days go faster. It led to a lot of problems and even a suicide in the group. However, we jumped substances constantly benzos in general were cheaper and easier to get a hold of as opposed to real oxy or codeine. We did tons of molly too and we would mix the shit out of these drugs. Was hospitalized twice during the 2-year stunt. 6 months clean and I still think about xanax everyday because I simply forgot how to cope and my entire personality was about drugs. I couldn't talk about anything else but drugs... even with my parents I was so hooked on the culture. When I started working full time in a warehouse I was basically living in the matrix I was making all this money but I couldn't remember my days at all. benzos are so fuckd up man I feel like I'll never be able to feel 'good' experiences like that ever again without it. benzos will take everything good from you and make you suicidal

@anandhrajan99

Жыл бұрын

Despise 💀

I think once you immerse yourself in the self improvement space it’s easy to assume that so many other people are taking that path, but it’s more complicated than that. Where most people fall flat is consistency. Sure the whole Tate and Hamza deal has a lot of new people in the space trying to “level up”, but how many of them are actually going to keep up with these habits for the long term, 5-10 years? And self improvement goes far beyond just building an aesthetic physique. What a lot of these men going incredibly hard into self improvement might not be getting is how sustainable some of these habits are, and I wouldn’t be surprised if I see another phase of extreme burnout coming within the next couple of years - but outside of that, the more people who pursue self improvement, the better. A rising tide raises all ships. If suddenly every average guy is improving themselves, then the normalization of discipline and self improvement will contribute to the rebuilding of community and deep societal connection. The obstacle to this of course is the ego of those people focusing solely on looksmaxing or gaining status. Self improvement should never be about getting ahead of everybody else. It should be about building a brighter world FOR everybody else, so it makes the process of self improvement easier for everyone. Life is not a zero sum game. What these social media platforms and popular media and elites try to tell you is that you need to screw over other people to get ahead, which is exactly how they stay in power. And the sooner we all adopt the abundance mindset and realize that there is enough for everyone and embrace this cosmopolitan ideal, the sooner we overcome this crisis of isolation and potentially prevent even greater crises in the future.

@urbanumbra6170

Жыл бұрын

The elites have already been playing the self improvement game for longer than any of us tho dont you think?

@russellbambergertwo

Жыл бұрын

GOATed comment

@JeremyGee99

Жыл бұрын

@@urbanumbra6170 good answer

@urbanumbra6170

Жыл бұрын

@@JeremyGee99 i wasn’t expecting people to agree especially when i didnt provide any reasoning. But just look at andrew tate, what separates him from bill gates, elon, zuckerberg, or bezos (other than the fact they probably work with alphabet agencies)? Theyre just people who want to live luxurious lives and look at the cost of luxury. The self improvement trend is a bit hypocritical at times because theyll diss on the rich while actively trying to become like them. Im not completely wrong for thinking abt it like this am I?

@sk8ingthemystery

Жыл бұрын

*slow clap*

Competition is literally at all time high. I think social media is the main reason. Every guy and girl 24/7 is able to see like the perfect people who have great money, mind, and body. So now every girl especially says “if it’s not this it’s nothing.”

@sethjoseph8152

Жыл бұрын

It’s overrrrr

@thefox7427

Жыл бұрын

Competition is not at an “all time high”. If anything, sloth is at all time high. Most people look at social media and the people as unobtainable. Effort is in short demand these days. It’s simply too easy to be a bugman worker bee and coast in life.

@side3672

Жыл бұрын

Bro, you couldn't have gotten that anymore wrong. Competition, especially in-between men is at an all-time low historically, men who are on top of their shit right now in life have are actually in some of the most powerful positions & there is absolutely nothing stopping you from achieving that greatness except your own mindset and perspective which is malleable. Theirs's a reason why people who succeed marry 10's & are well respected by everyone, and it's definitely not because their feet's where considered common-place.

@TheeBlackSilhouette

Жыл бұрын

@@thefox7427 it’s an all time high since the 2010s

@thedarkestknight8381

Жыл бұрын

@@side3672it’s because they where born into right place right time right circumstance got lucky or sold their soul

How can one man be so based. Incredible.

If you raise the bar on anything and everyone strives to meet it then that just becomes the new average. I think that's kind of true but I would also use the analogy that getting to the top is a lot like getting on a lifeboat while the Titanic is sinking. Anyone can get on the boat but most people won't.

@blbeats7845

Жыл бұрын

Exactly, the top will never become the new average because 99% of men won’t make it there

@antonilesniewski5964

Жыл бұрын

@@blbeats7845 That's not true, if those 99% of people get there, the bar just rises.

@blbeats7845

Жыл бұрын

@@antonilesniewski5964 Yeah but that’s the whole point. 99% of people won’t make it there. So it will never be the new standard

@zoso9391

Жыл бұрын

I think that "being average" in boomer terms means you are now below average. Having a job, being independant, etc is now below average (for men). If you raise the bar for yourself and everyone else and this "new average" ever happens, which is tough because it requieres hard work and many people will not meet it, it's okey, The Alpha generation will have to re-define average then and put the work, but that's their problem.

@pingeee

Жыл бұрын

we keep raising the bar meanwhile women sit around and get worse and thats what we're fighting for

The issue with every man striving to be in the top 20% is that there has to be a bottom 80% for the top 20% to even exist. Someone has to fall into that bucket. No matter how much effort you put in you still may never get to the top 20, and the problem then becomes that being in that bottom 80% is essentially equated to being a failure for men. No woman wants to 'settle' for being with a guy that's just average even though its just not realistic for all of them to end up with top 20% men.

@JukemDrawles87

Жыл бұрын

So we both suffer then. Men and women.

@thedarkestknight8381

Жыл бұрын

@@JukemDrawles87no just men women can always get something

@JukemDrawles87

Жыл бұрын

@@thedarkestknight8381 not when they're old. What they ultimately and intrinsically want they can't get anymore

@endgamez7621

Жыл бұрын

Well there will be a plateau, a level that everyone stuck at. If there equality in a system, then any given equity and genetics will succeed.

@dasuero7489

Жыл бұрын

@@JukemDrawles87 Do you mean when women reach 'The Wall'?

gerby is the most “literally me” character ever

I've always told my friends, take advantage of your advantages you have. Use your looks, height, abilities , talents, connections, family, ect, to get ahead of others. Throw all that equality bullshit out the window because you will get pushed down further and further the more you try and equalize with others.

@pira707

Жыл бұрын

yep. Exactly why I'm gonna take advantage of living with my parents till I hit like 28 or so.

@thadszmaciasz8971

Жыл бұрын

@@pira707 As long as you have calculated that wont harm other areas of your life (ie social dating work) I would recommend it. Stack that bread and delay gratification

@mannop9647

Жыл бұрын

Needed this. Thank you

@GigaNietzsche

Жыл бұрын

"Wait hold on you're telling me equality is fake and gay" "Always has been."

@TheBanjoShowOfficial

Жыл бұрын

Let me add to this. Get your boys together and everyone fight to lift one another up. And don’t forget about them. Don’t pull the ladder up behind yourself. Help them get to where you are, and accept the help they offer.

16:05 this is why I'm gonna start a homestead. i don't want to work for corpos, I want to work for myself. straight facts this episode gerby.

@TheReneg4de

Жыл бұрын

based

@willwillisproductions159

Жыл бұрын

Same here. I want to have my own farm someday with cattle, sheep, goats, chickens, etc…

@beedonalds3462

Жыл бұрын

Become a sleep technician, you’re practically you’re own boss with solid pay.

@willwillisproductions159

Жыл бұрын

@@beedonalds3462 Does it stem from the medical field?

@owen5640

Жыл бұрын

I've considered it, and it would be a very rewarding life. But I'm going to follow the Tate brothers advice and gtfo of the west. Not every society on Earth is degrading, there are still places that are thriving and on the incline.

You're really forming some bomb thoughts. Got me changing my way of thought here at 10 pm.

@obione51499

Жыл бұрын

It is 2:09 for me currently.

@HaxxorElite

3 ай бұрын

​@@obione51499is it still?

You know Gerbert, you're literally me.. . unironically

@leo-xt8cv

Жыл бұрын

fr

@Randomdude1979

Жыл бұрын

Maybe we were Gerbert all along we just haven't ascended to that point of enlightenment

@secluded7772

Жыл бұрын

Ong

@r3alpro336

Жыл бұрын

fr its like im having a caht with myself

@anthonywe2878

Жыл бұрын

bro im literally him from looks everything i even have older sisters like he does

If everyone self improves, women (and certain jobs) will just pick men purely on non negotiable genetic factors (like height). This is happening in real time right now.

@torrancemoore6152

Жыл бұрын

Was wondering if someone would say that. Either way it trickles back to that when you think about it

@ladybug3380

Жыл бұрын

It’s because as mammals we haven’t evolved past our primal needs yet. Give it a couple thousand years I’m sure we’ll transcend our current mating qualifications.

@AblackGenie

Жыл бұрын

@@ladybug3380 dayum 😂 thousands

@adio8824

Жыл бұрын

@@ladybug3380never overcoming that. Nature requires the ideal and best people to mate in other to push the human race. In the future there will be taller men and what we consider tall now will be short. Without religion as a mediator for hypergamy females choices become one sided. As we see signs of now.

@someone_takes_me5107

Жыл бұрын

Most self improvement BS is people who just going to the gym and call it productive. ( That's me because I do nothing productive besides gym ), so I think it would not be as bad as you say

"The only thing thats promised in life is death" - Kanye West

@Weathund

Жыл бұрын

Also Buddha, oddly enough

@ethanscinematicuniverse3260

Жыл бұрын

"There's a lot of things that I love about hitler, a lot of things" -Kanye west

@SlutForCynthia

Жыл бұрын

Mf is quoting Kanye 😭😭

@brandonmedeiros1

Жыл бұрын

@@ethanscinematicuniverse3260 there was a time when he was the most popular man before he did all that. Our government loves them actually go look at all the high level hitler guys that were accepted into our government and how they were given safe haven in South America…

@iiCounted-op5jx

Жыл бұрын

and taxes

I think we underestimate how many people don't watch the sort of motivational/self improvement content that has become so commonplace on these platforms. That 15% number does not surprise me nor does the lack of self awareness in Gen Z. It seems to me that more people than you would expect just want to have fun and slide along. There will likely always be a market for it, but some will see this as unfulfilling and soul crushing, and they will stop using platforms like tiktok and youtube for anything more than just marketing. If I was a betting man, I would bet that there are so many young kids that have been poked by the manosphere that those platforms 5 years from now will be filled with almost exclusively self promotion and preexisting companies will struggle to find anyone to work. With everyone chasing big dollars, and starting their own companies, many will loose and crash. I wish only best of luck to you all ladies and gentlemen.

@Jes1919

Жыл бұрын

Like myself that is 20, I chose a career in cybersecurity that is remote, and I will make 6 figures+ very soon. I might start my own company, but the reason I chose this career is that it is very flexible and the demand for jobs is crazy. Starting your own business is great but I don't see myself yet doing one. I like that my field is pretty cushy and is flexible on hobbies that I like such as jiu jitsu, shooting guns, fishing, and lifting weights.

@bigboss-qv7pe

Жыл бұрын

@@Jes1919 how did you learn?

@Jes1919

Жыл бұрын

@@bigboss-qv7pe I go to wgu an online college

@Ruaskillz1

Жыл бұрын

@@Jes1919 Yeah literally doing the same my man. I said to myself, “Ok I don’t want to be living a wagie life but I haven’t come up with any good business ideas yet so what is the best wagie job I can get as a backup?” Cybersecurity was the answer.

@Ot-ej5gi

Жыл бұрын

Yep, what is happening is people stopped believing in God. First, you start believing in God, then you can pursue whatever dreams you want to pursue. You need to have a foundation first. I bet the people who found God the earliest in life, will probably do alright. Otherwise, you just have to have mad talent AND be a strong person (that usually means having a good upbringing first, plus genetics). But who has those two attributes? A minority of people. Get with God people, get with God... Life just has too many cheap/unfulfilling temptations that will otherwise get you, and you cannot half-a.. stuff; just too much competition out there. Get rid of bad habits, ALL bad habits

I literally remember 2019 I’m playing league of legends all day and eating fuck ton of junk food. I was built like I get shoved in lockers for a living. Yet I was still talking to girls having them call me their soul mate and everything Fast forward 3 years I’ve been working out I got the abs put on a bunch of muscle changed up my hairstyle. I get glances from basically every girl and I can get a number whenever but nothing past that. Every time (7) I’m getting vaguely ghosted after we flirted irl just days before. I swear it’s just a different game now. Like you queue up in this self improvement lifestyle shit and everything is harder. My friends who just spend all day lounging smoking have girlfriends and I’m like that’s the craziest shit ever. Maybe I became too picky and need to lower standards idk but my lord it’s like no matter how much I improve the goal posts keep moving away. Doubt I’d ever stop going to the gym, reading, etc tho. I am thankful because at least I have something to keep aiming for.

@noggim1341

Жыл бұрын

the reason for this is that you became a mega autist running around fitting every girl you see into an arbitrary numerical scale ffs

@Hectorogents

Жыл бұрын

Dude, I think about this all the time- I have tons of stories/insight. All my friends are doctors and engineers, some are ivy leaguers, all are single. All the bums I see regularly get a rotation of girls. One guy I used to live with was the son of my landlord. Likable guy, but a total screw ball. Short, hispanic, tats everywhere, worked at a moving company as a grunt in his late twenties and lived out of his parents' garage. Has a long term girlfriend who saved his life. Dude took a xan that was laced and stopped breathing. His girlfriend, a training nurse, saved his life. LOL. He would have been dead as a door nail if one single factor was different. This girl wants kids with him, even. Unreal, man.

@fwoogg7067

Жыл бұрын

because they prolly talk to women better than you, and the women that ghost you probably get the sense that you secretly feel this way through extended convo

@FakeAndTrolled

Жыл бұрын

The common denominator is looks. If the dudes sitting at home smoking were were also ugly, they’d be even worse off than the STEMcels.

@saswitchcraft7881

Жыл бұрын

@@fwoogg7067 sounds unchangeable. Not as if he has no reason to feel that way, act that way, be that way

I feel for you younger guys. I’m 41 and alone again but back in the late 90s early 2000s you could get girl’s attention decently Easy. I had no car no money and was not gym maxing and I did ok with the women. Now my house is paid for I’m in better shape than I was then and nothing going on.

@kubilaybalci5724

Жыл бұрын

Im 26, it was a pretty easy job back when i was 18 to just dm a really attractive girl and to have her fall in love w you w like the most awkward mentality, hell, girls would even message you and something could come out of it. Not anymore today though w the overflood of social media.

@Poetry4Peace

Жыл бұрын

@@kubilaybalci5724 YAH sucks man :S

@Poetry4Peace

Жыл бұрын

man :/

@Poetry4Peace

Жыл бұрын

lol why this get 3 likes xD

@Poetry4Peace

Жыл бұрын

@@HK-tn2ny fkk man what happened

Two types of people in the world; those who are humble and those who are about to be.

You make good points. They tell you you just need to put in effort, go to the gym, take care of yourself...but the truth is it's rarely enough. Yeah you will better yourself and that's great but it won't get you girls. They don't care. There's always guys who look better, have more money, jumped on gear to be more ripped...and even average girls get so much attention from simps that they think they're special and deserve a top 0.1% man. It's a fucked up situation and idk what can be done about it.

@advancedapathy1531

Жыл бұрын

Bruv, i seen average looking, dumb, short and broke dudes pick up girls. Multiple. Even be in relationships, not just one time hooks ups. It's an effort/numbers game at the end of the day. Too many guys think they can circumvent that with self-improvement. You can self-improve until the cows come home, if you don't put yourself out there on as many social grids as you can and approach women with intent, it doesn't matter. No.1 rule is women don't have agency. Even if they are interestedz they will just stand there giggling and making dumb faces at best. At worse they will pretend to ignore you as a game to see if they can make you break character and chase harder. Not saying self-improvement has no effect in dating. It definitely raises your level, but it's like getting fcking shiny armor in a RPG game. It makes your defense better, looks better, but you still have to go into the dungeon and fight the goblins to get anywhere in the game. Just having that armor does nothing for your progress. The ugly, short, broke dudes just storm the dungeon with no equipment bare ass naked and still get to the end because they tried multiple times and respawned and develop the skill to navigate without getting hit (aka approach and game in the dating market). So yeah, playing the game is what you need to do. Not just grinding your equipment and then expecting things will happen by themselves.

@DC-no3vi

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@@advancedapathy1531 first of all those guys you're talking about are exceptions to the rule. With 8 billion people on earth you're sure to find some odd matchups here and there, but it doesn't prove that most girls don't care about getting the best possible man they can and vice versa. Second, the quality of those girls is questionable. I agree with you but at this point I've had my fun and I don't wanna waste time and money on dating and stuff unless it's a real deal which is so so rare to find. I don't care about learning some game that will get a stranger in my bed, I want true love and loyalty or nothing.

@thedarkestknight8381

Жыл бұрын

@@DC-no3viit’s over

@thedarkestknight8381

Жыл бұрын

@@yourefatthatsabiologicalphactif you need money to get a woman it’s over your genes determine if you succeed in dating or not game doesn’t exist take the blackpill

@thedarkestknight8381

Жыл бұрын

@@yourefatthatsabiologicalphactif that was literally it many men wouldn’t be struggling

Yo Gerby, I just wanted to thank you man. I'm 25 years old and I feel lost a lot of the time. I'm so ready to just go all out for my passions in this life. But sometimes I feel like I'm alone with a lot of these issues you speak of. Your videos help me realize that I'm not alone and that there are others that see and feel what I'm going through in this modern world. Keep up the good content brother and thanks again for all that you speak on. 👍

Going back to college at 23 and thinking about medicine because of feeling this. “The era of the haves and have nots”. I used to think I’d be good on 60k, that the time it takes to get into an over 100k career isn’t worth it. But now that I’ve seen how “average” people live and work, maybe going back to school till I’m almost 30 is worth it. Cause at least I’d be 30 and be higher status instead of 30 doing manual labor

@homeinvasion8615

Жыл бұрын

same thought ive been having lately

@jameshill8493

Жыл бұрын

@@jorrisschnitzel5001 totally, especially as a single person or with no kids you are J chillin on 60k. That’s what I’ll start at after I get my sonography degree probably. But I want kids and to be able to provide a higher quality of life for my family, these are all luxuries of course but I think it’s worth it.

@jameshill8493

Жыл бұрын

@@homeinvasion8615 what field were you thinking of going into

@aidey8mph605

Жыл бұрын

I worry though because my older siblings are really successful career wise but they are both 26 and 24 and have no significant others. This scares me. There is no point (IMO) of busting your ass to make six figures if you don’t have a good companionship. If you put your head down to get that good job it’s likely you neglected your social life and now you are an awkward person who it’s near impossible to find love.

@TheBanjoShowOfficial

Жыл бұрын

@@aidey8mph605yep. Pick one, almost can’t have both unless you get lucky.

Gerby thanks for reigniting my existential crisis, you are a real one for that

I think an important aspect, that is overlooked here, is the power of community, of friends. You can be the biggest, baddest most ooga booga caveman of them all, you won't make it alone; you might be able to 'wield stick' the best of all, but if the others manage to form a group of 20, you're still fcked. Mankind has come this long way because of the 'power of friendship' and I think, this will also hold true here.

If u fail you had nothing to lose in the first place. It hard, most relateble man on YT hits again.

9:30 exactly how you have to be. The day you stop trying is the day you start dying.

@Chinggis42

Жыл бұрын

Well said

@ACrownofFlowers

Жыл бұрын

There are things that aren't worth trying anymore, and it's better to reorient yourself to try something new.

Bro you're actually getting really fucking good at these raps bro. Being deadass. Something I'd unironically listen to.

This guy is going places.

Its over for like 70 % of guys as far as having a family So society is cooked soon imo

@___whateverr

Жыл бұрын

80 % *

@WillDavlin

Жыл бұрын

​@@___whateverr idt its that bad but same difference

@literallypatrickbatemen

Жыл бұрын

@@WillDavlin it is that bad :/

@WillDavlin

Жыл бұрын

​@@literallypatrickbatemen ok 70 80 who cares lol

@aidey8mph605

Жыл бұрын

You believing this is part of the problem. I know the odds suck but giving up isn’t an option. Giving up on love leads you down a dark path of depression. Always have hope and try your best. If you really never find love at least be able to tell yourself you truly tried your best…

cant cry even if i want to cry, im finished

“Unhinged or mentally unwell” - Gerbizzle YOU are well beyond your years brother. Stay strong, we love you, we value you, we respect you. Thank you for being a source of hope :)

Brilliant, brilliant points brother. Tremendous wisdom for the boys. Instant sub.

this is slowly becoming my favorite channel. Every sentence rings with clarity.

Being hungover and not really in the best mood, I needed this, thank you

“Gerbiechov” had me in absolute stitches 🤣🤣🤣

IM HERE DADDY GERRRRRRR

Dude please keep making videos. Your content is great, super relatable. You're leading a sense of "community" for so many people even if we don't literally know you.

Fr, when people are like ‘attractive people are rare’ and then I go to campus and I’m perplexed, gym is always packed. You’re right there is nothing to lose

Gerbert when you started to speak about being grateful for life, that's when I realized how wise you truly are. I'm looked at as wise and I'm 24 years old. I only just started being grateful at 23 years old and life has been good to me since this mental shift. Dont stop

"Gerbachev" first word i'm already dead 💀

Gerby is truly one of the people

Damn i feel you Gerb, competition is at an all time high right now

@gusamon4993

Жыл бұрын

😊

Babe wake up, the Gerbster just dropped a new vid! (Babe is my cat)

Thank you for the insightful video.

AYYYY!!! ngl , who else noticed the improvement in his bars?? His beat selection, allat. THIS NIGGA MAKING CHORUSES NOW!!! Always fuckd with tha freestyles keep em coming

“Don’t want to die at 20 and wait til 80 for burial.” Can’t remember the song rn, but that line goes hard asf in my opinion

As a Hamza and 1stMan viewer it's really cool to see your take on these ideas mixed in with your humor

My man Johnson stay snapping!!!!

another banger from my boy gerby

yo the freestyles at the beginning be my favorite

Just what I needed to hear gerbs

What you said about the gym is so true. Excellent vídeo as always

Superbad is also one of my favourites and I relate to your experience with feeling like that fun time in high school with my friends was taken from me, 2 years basically wasted at home. I am still in high school, so I still have fun with my friends, but still, 2 whole years is a lot. I am now nearing the end of high school so next year I am gonna try and spend as much time hanging with my friends and making new friends. I am scared of life after high school and possibly losing them, being busy with work and what not. That scene where jonah hill and michael cera just decide to have a sleepover and realise it'll probably be their last before college, really resonated with me. The wholesome ending where they get the girls and go their separate ways did indeed make me tear up a bit. I now have a new motivation to go to school, not because I want to learn, but because I want to hang out with my friends for 6 hours a day, and maybe even hang out after school, when is the next time I get to do that? I doubt ever again.

you young lad have gotten ur self a new subscriber, looking forward to many more of your video's,and I will take stock of your past work. you seem like you have insight, and I've found this video literally at the right time and place. appreciate you and merry Xmas duude.

Post more man, love from Poland g

Bars going hard these last couple vids gerby

Trust me, once you reach age 27+ you'll realize Almost nobody is trying anymore. Also, the overweight rate in the US has reached 70%.

new gerb dropped lets go

im glad your videos are getting recommended to me again

Gerbs, I see you got the min-max brain curse too. Naturally comes with a side of depression being able to easily spot future trends while being born into an empire in decline. Hyper competition ramps up as the real economy needs less and less input from labor. Meanwhile the labor pool is ever expanding lacking feedback loops to slow due to the "money out of thin air" effect. Always gotta refine the copes or it's lights out

i like how adonis is one of the tags

@enima8055

Жыл бұрын

hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

@literallypatrickbatemen

Жыл бұрын

Adonissssss

@___whateverr

Жыл бұрын

copefuel for hamzacels

@literallypatrickbatemen

Жыл бұрын

@@___whateverr I'm a proud hamzacel, it's made me a man

@Vfl666

Жыл бұрын

simpza

Gerby im 28 but i still listen and try to actualize the advice you give. I find your videos to be a perfect blend of both the black pill and white pill

The beat was unironically fire 🔥

Gerbert, you have no idea how much the middle section of this video helped me gain perspective. Like no other video before. I'm no longer really on the whole train of self-improvement videos because i'm at the part where i realize "more of them" won't help, and all i can and should do is to take action, but you just have extremely interesting perspectives on these concepts such as the dating market. Your channels have so much value. Anyways, Somewhere in the middle you said: just go Gung-ho, all out for it. Either I accomplish these goals or I die trying. And there are some "basic ass" goals I have, that aren't so basic anymore nowadays. Like having a girlfriend, make her your wife and starting a family. Like...dude...the barriers in the way of that alone: porn already presents a barrier. Like the battle for that goal already starts in your own bedroom these days man it's ridiculuos

Crying honestly feels so good i miss when I used to be able to cry

@deedumeday518

Жыл бұрын

@@glutenfree8348 It's cuz ur so numb to everything brah.

Inspirational stuff gerbs, happy holidays

absolutely love this content. Please do more about topics, coming to your mind and philosophing about it. Probably slightly prepared, though unedited. Like a Podcast, maybe even better.

Bruh you talk to me like I talk to myself in my head. Thank you for this content bruv.

its either cope or rope for normies today

crying on my birthday alone rn ,my mom didnt even say happy bday or anything it hurts smh

@mikerotchburns42069

Жыл бұрын

happy birthday dude!

@Krelian4400

Жыл бұрын

brutal

@IAmTheRealXMob

Жыл бұрын

Happy birthday! I’ve got a drunk of a mother been where you are and I’m sorry.

@aminehouzane6223

Жыл бұрын

عيد ميلاد سعيد يا أخي

@abuedd7885

Жыл бұрын

@@Krelian4400ong

Your freestyles are constantly improving

You are looking in the right direction, gerbert. You are straying away from *needing* validation in the form of friends and women (which is making you a better person to be around, an individual, but still cognizant of the fact that you would like to have connection). You are finally sounding hopeful, as if everything will turn out okay, whatever the outcome may be.

@ACrownofFlowers

Жыл бұрын

You read Kierkegaard bro?

@sebastianfors4491

Жыл бұрын

@@ACrownofFlowers nah, read a lot of Nietzsche though. And even though I haven’t read Kierkegaard myself, I think he has some good thoughts from what I have read.

@ACrownofFlowers

Жыл бұрын

@@sebastianfors4491 ahhh makes sense.

You got a voice of a generation.

Gerbert, you the man!

Spot on gerby

You’re spot on with this. And here’s the thing. Even if you’re one of the few guys who manages to get attention from women and get yourself a nice looking girl, it never lasts these days. I know from experience.

that's verry true gerby. seems like lifting is the new baseline of just getting slightly out of being a average. it's a baseline 😢.

Thanks for the insight bro, one love from the islands.🇯🇲

Gerbi needs to drop an album fo real

I'd love to have an irl friend like Gerby. Sometimes I feel like legit 80% of the population are fucking npcs with no interests, no opinions, no thoughts. And real people are so far apart from each other there's no chance they'll ever meet and get to know each other

@rockstxrs

Жыл бұрын

we all npcs

@GlizzieMcGuire

Жыл бұрын

We are all closer to being npcs then the main character

@tm-pm1rp

Жыл бұрын

your not that special bro honestly

@someoneunknown7655

Жыл бұрын

Maybe the reason they seem that way to you is because you consider them npc’s, you’re gonna stay lonely if you keep that mindset

@rosylagoon3600

Жыл бұрын

I see what you mean but we all have a little world going on in our heads it’s just not always easy to see :)

Love these vids. Feels like I’m talking to a homie

That was a sick little rhyme

Lovin the new gerbload

At this point my life and death scale are completely inverse. Life just seems like misery while death is a release from it all. What is there after you become successful? Live a life of debauchery? Seek some higher enlightenment? It feels like I am subconsciously hindering my progress because I'm scared of what happens when you have nothing left to work for. Just some of my current thoughts as of my current state of mind. Who knows, I might completely change along the way. We will see I guess.

@bookingit3841

Жыл бұрын

an amazing comment, you have nailed exactly how i feel, what is the point of it all?

@bandorando6405

Жыл бұрын

I think this move to a more digital world has seriously disconnected us from friends and family. We don’t even know who lives next to us anymore, everybody just stays inside. I think spending time with community really is central to our happiness as humans. In my case at least, I don’t see the point in ending it when I still have my family to help and strong and successful kids to raise.

@Jdb63

Жыл бұрын

Family and community is the answer. Your goal should be to build yourself into a man that can create and take care of a family

I really love your thought process, Gerb. I think that Society is too focused on achievements. You can enjoy life and be content with what you have. I understand that the global situation is not so great (housing market is a total scam, dating scene is a joke etc.). Sometimes you can look at the rat race and think to yourself - is this what life is all about? You look around and see the crowd cheering/booing, you notice fellow runners and shit. Life in a moment. You can admire what is already here and make life unique and fun for yourself. Be creative and explore. Of course - with a boring ass, low pay job - less is available. But - with all of the commotion - where is the time to just - be? Family, status, dates - all is great. Those however, bring lots and lots of stress and responsibility. It's not all black and white. Just my view. I admire your special voice on KZread. Lots of love to you and all the wonderful people watching!

It’s a good day when lil gerb posts 🫡

gerby actually caught me while i was lackin. i needa get workin! no joke tysm

Say bro you're funny as hell you're a young wise man check this out I'm a old black man and I dig your style brother keep up the good work I enjoy your videos peace and hair grease

And some people who are above average are looked at like a freak by a lot of average people. A kind soul is taken advantage of

Thanks for the inspiration bud

Gerby be dropping bangers! And some commentary afterwards!? Shi**** we getting spoilt

I'm down for that tactile VR rig that drowns all senses in the most far fetched sublime hedonism beyond anyone's imagination.

@Krelian4400

Жыл бұрын

We'll get there eventually but it's still a ways off. Until then the average guy is in for the most miserable time to be alive in the past couple of hundred years.

@bushmaster7810

Жыл бұрын

ain’t that just the matrix

@lowbloodpressuregamer9225

Жыл бұрын

@@bushmaster7810 thats nothing like the matrix

@bushmaster7810

Жыл бұрын

@@lowbloodpressuregamer9225 isn’t being blue pilled = living a fantasy? i never saw any movies aside the first my B

@MrSh4des

Жыл бұрын

​@@Krelian4400 most miserable time to be alive? Surely you must be joking.

Good shit Gerby. This makes things very clear. Kind of had this realization earlier today. You're a real help.