I just heard the first three stories and Im like finally actual red flags instead of "hE pLAys vIDeOgAmEs!!"

@civilwildman

12 күн бұрын

Well, some gals play video games too, so they can likely find such an activity acceptable out of a partner. My brother and his wife play games like Titan Quest and Minecraft together, the latter they also play with their children.

@fanderesidentevil

11 күн бұрын

@@civilwildman literally my relationship goals

Behind every manchild is a woman who still considers/treats him like a child

@versatileduplicity9313

Жыл бұрын

And he fuckking allows it

@briskettacos

Жыл бұрын

As these stories show, sometimes there's a good reason to treat him like a baby.

@Anonymous_Flower

8 ай бұрын

True.

@lacucaracha111111

4 ай бұрын

and core experiences denied for many a reason

@TheBeastInBlack

11 күн бұрын

Its somehow always womens fault huh.

It's a fine balance, but I feel like the most fun people are children at heart and adults in their mind. As in, they will play Mario Kart, watch cartoons and build a pillow fort with you, but if serious stuff happens, they have the adult capacity to deal with it. People look down on you for enjoying anything stereotypically "childish" aren't that fun, and these folks are the other extreme (I'm sure womenchildren are just as insufferable)

@yeeyeehaircut

3 ай бұрын

It's all about being able to take care of yourself and hold your ground in the face of adversity.

@ezecskornfan

Ай бұрын

I knew a female engineer that was just like that. Every hobbie was time lost, and she was very vocal about it. She had a lot of energy and used it all in her work and her motherhood, but she overstrusted her abilities in an economy that crumbled very fast because she believed blindly in what she voted. She had to go to work farther for more time because that blind trust and lack of humility made her apply for a loan for a bigger house, even if she had one that was big enough. She used to be humble in things she didn't know, maybe that lesson got refreshed after that.

@anandpaunikar5009

19 күн бұрын

I’ve met people who try to behave like adults and but are childish at heart

@Martyn_Wolf

11 күн бұрын

Womenchild are very much real and yes are just as intolerable at times. It can be cute when it's all fun. When it effects the relationship itself... No it's not fun at all.

Biggest red flag for either is if they have a reddit account

@macylouwho1187

Жыл бұрын

And yet here you are listening to the same sh-t as on the forums and then act like you are “above it all” 😂. What’s worse? Reading it on Reddit like an apparent “loser” or listening to it on KZread because you’re too lazy to actually read? Cue the “I just stumbled on this and I don’t do this often” excuse/lie. If you want to insult people at least make sure your nose is clean of it yourself-before someone comes along and rubs your nose even deeper in the doodoo 😂

@svenhendrickx2783

Жыл бұрын

Depends I think, there are some subreddits that are just fun to scroll while on the toilet. Holup, foundsatan, tihi, cursedcomments and the like are just a source of laughs XD

@badwolfhunter221b

Жыл бұрын

You sound like a 4chan user.

@abox1942

10 ай бұрын

@@svenhendrickx2783get off there NOW

@rizkiramadhan9266

10 ай бұрын

Lmaooo

The "and i thought i was bad" club 👇🏻

@aaronburdon221

19 күн бұрын

I like my video games, but all my shit gets done before the PS4 gets fired up. Or I listen to music from my computer while i'm cleaning.

@TheWallowingMadman27

7 күн бұрын

I was def worried that I have some of these traits. I know how to cook and clean but it usually just slips my mind. Luckily, I’m trying to start my career since I just graduated college. I’m currently making deliveries for instacart since I’m job searching. In terms of video games, I only play them when I have free time. Also I’m 29.

@benjamin_0265

3 күн бұрын

I can't cook (unless cooking stuff in the microwave counts), but at least I can do other basic adult stuff like hold a job and wash dishes, so I've got that going for me at least.

Never say “Make me a sandwich”. The correct way to it is “Can you please make me a sandwich?”

@JackieOwl94

Жыл бұрын

Mine goes “Sammich please?” with the biggest baby-blues.

@owenwexler7214

23 күн бұрын

No man the way you say it is “sudo make me a sandwich”

@Fuzz32

23 күн бұрын

@@owenwexler7214 only if you want to die alone.

@E4439Qv5

15 күн бұрын

"sure babe."

@Fuzz32

15 күн бұрын

@@E4439Qv5 “Thank you.”

When did working a part job became a manchild thing? what the heck?

@E4439Qv5

15 күн бұрын

...Because the job market is _our_ fault, bc Patriarchy?

@OrderRed

5 күн бұрын

lazy slt who wants to stay home and you to work. simple as. and nothing is her fault, she is entitled, thats why he is a manchild.

They'll give a pass to a man who is attractive who breaks all these rules yet will reject a man who breaks only 1 rule if he is unatractive.

@fakeaccount9376

6 күн бұрын

Okay... are "they" in the same room with us right now?

@curtismaul2552

6 күн бұрын

@@fakeaccount9376 I don't understand what you are saying

@petrwarthursty2011

5 күн бұрын

@@fakeaccount9376they are raw dogging you RIGHT NOW

@_fadingcolors

4 күн бұрын

​@curtismaul2552 who are they?

@gottagofastest

2 күн бұрын

They will yeah, but we do the same if a girl is attractive. Halo effect is just a fact of life, being hot makes practically everything much easier.

My friends ex would have his mum come over to clean his house twice a week. She has a full-time job and is mildly disabled. He also has a full-time job but had plenty of time to clean for himself, he lived alone, when my friend moved in she became "mummy" and was expected to clean the house alone, she also has a full-time job. Another thing is his mum would clean his ears for him. She would lick a Q-tip and stick it in his ear. Gross. Also, my ex would have his mum handle all of his finances for him and would give him a certain amount each week as an allowance. He was 27, another red flag from that relationship was that I was only 17 when we started dating

@lennypayne4241

15 күн бұрын

DO NOT DATE LEGAL ADULTS IF YOU'RE UNDERAGE!!! … _E-ver._ They literally make fucking laws out of this.

@hemendraravi4787

9 күн бұрын

27-17 ? 💀 and why tf does she lick the Q tip before using it 🤢

I'm going to play devils advocate here, but number 3 isn't a red flag at all, its actually very normal where I live. The whole 18 and then move out thing is a very American mentality, but realistically, you're still more or less a big teenager in your 20's. You are getting used to a first job, you finish college and transition to the workforce, you suddenly need to decide what you want in life etc. I have been living alone for a year, though occasionally my mum will stop by for a cup of tea or might help me with some cleaning when I'm out and busy, and I'm grateful for it. It doesn't mean I can't clean or function at all independently, it just means I have a sweet mother. Like the post said, they sometimes give me advice on clothes to get and sometimes offer to help find me things if I give them the money. I also make it a point to have dinner at my parents at least once a week so I can stay connected. Now if the guy was in his 30's or refused to do any of this home maintenance and relied on his parents exclusively, that would be a red flag; but this seems perfectly fine The whole 'Decorated by a 15 year old' is also stupid. Mind your own business, not everything has to be beige and boring. If he wants to put up a funny poster, or paint the room purple, or collect anime figurines or something then that's perfectly fine to do. The joys of having a room of your own is the ability to express yourself artistically. The rest of the points are grand though

I'm 32 and still have no idea what I want to do with my life other than animals.

@LFanimes333

20 күн бұрын

Uh, become a veterinarian? Seems pretty obvious, so go for it.

@AylaGarton

20 күн бұрын

@@LFanimes333 I'm not mentally strong enough to be able to put the animals down so I wouldn't make it as a vet.

@LFanimes333

20 күн бұрын

@@AylaGarton Brother in Christ just say you don’t do euthanasia. Or hire someone to apply the injection for you. Don’t make excuses that lead to inaction. Find ways to make it work.

@JAB-bc9uv

20 күн бұрын

Become and ecologists, big game safari guide, vet, dog walker, farmer ,......etc

@aaronburdon221

19 күн бұрын

@@JAB-bc9uv Farmers still have to have considerable amounts of vigor and an extremely strong stomach. The rest of them are alright though.

"No thanks, crazy ass. I'm good. " is an EPIC quote. I want it on a T-shirt. :)

@9tz768

27 күн бұрын

you will rot alone

Oh my God I am a man child. What the hell do I do so I don't continue being like any of these aforementioned lunatics. I blame the world for my problems and refuse to change, need my family to take care of me, and run away from relationships the instant something fucks up. I feel terrible and this is an epiphanous moment for me. What do I do now?

@SaintSlips38

20 күн бұрын

Dude, trust me. Woman do the same exact things. Im not saying im or men are perfect either, Ive made many mistakes and will continue to. But ive been in relationships where woman have been just as gross and slobby and inconsiderate and clueless about the world. We all suck and are dumb. Dont be hard on yourself, know what you want to change and try your best everyday to change it.

@Scenario_animations

19 күн бұрын

I'm not a psychologist or anything, but I think acknowledging you have an issue is a great first step. Now you need to try to change yourself to be better. Again this advice might be too simplistic for your situation since I really don't know what you're going through but that's the best I can give

@Euclidiuss

19 күн бұрын

@@Scenario_animations Id rather not tell you. Nobody can really help me here. I'm kinda doing this alone. All anyone can do is support my growth tbh. I'm just gonna try and make my living space more acceptable and keep it clean.

@spencerwasson5877

19 күн бұрын

​@@Euclidiuss I'm proud of you for coming to terms with it. Your top priority should becoming self-sufficient. If you consistently ask people for money, help with chores, or expect them to do tasks even or run errands for you, stop. Learn to do these things yourself and work towards putting an end to your reliance on others. I think it's also important to remember to view other perspectives and understand that when someone does something for you, they're not doing it for you. I don't know your situation, but I myself am a manchild and want to help you become a better man than I.

@Euclidiuss

19 күн бұрын

@@spencerwasson5877 no I don't expect anyone to do anything for me. If anything I'm the first to say I'm doing something myself. But everyone I know always wants to do stuff for me and I kinda wanna be self sufficient. I'm not a burden on anyone so far as I know but I am a total man child because I broke up with my ex when she had a bit of an emotional outburst. I failed to stay there and try and support her when she deserved that. I also just live like a slob and feel sorry for myself all the time. I just don't wanna be that way all the time

I had a guy that I dated for 3 years in my early 20s. I was particular about how the house should look. I cleaned the kitchen before I went to court for my tickets (this is important for later) I like a clean house. All of our friends knew the routine as well they had their own chore when they come over and I cook. (7 to 10 people on fridays) I went to jail for 2 weeks for not paying tickets. His friends picked me up from jail to take me home. I get home and the place is an f-ing pig stye. There were yugioh cards everywhere, dining room table was covered with clothes trash and pizza boxes. The living room looked like a tornado came thru it… but what made me more upset that the kitchen that I cleaned before I was arrested has not been touched since. There was just dust. This meant that he just ordered out. That was the first time my temper got the best of me and I just let him have it… “if this place is not cleaned up by the time I wake up from my nap, you can forget about cookie, nookie, no nothing.” My bro was there when it happened. He saw my face…found his keys, cigarettes and phone and walked out the door tell my ex “I told you so, good luck” I find out years later that my bro put out an APB to all my friend of what happened and they came over to help. Woke up to a clean house, cooked dinner, and a running bubble bath with a pack of Smirnoff green apple bite.

I'm 21 years old and I still have many figures and stuff that I enjoy. But I don't consider myself a man-child simply because I look, dress and act like a 21 year old man. My Womanchild red flag are the women with Daddy Issues that want their boyfriend to be their new father figure (I've had some experiences on that)

@JohnDenversMissingHead

5 ай бұрын

_word_

@norml.hugh-mann

5 ай бұрын

The fact that you felt the need to take a video about man child's and try to deflect screams manchild

@eta_carithebrightlord3396

22 күн бұрын

​@@norml.hugh-mann There could be any number of things don't claim to know people just off a comment.

@curtislowe24

17 күн бұрын

That’s what your supposed to be stud

@VaporWaveGaming1990

17 күн бұрын

​@@norml.hugh-mannyou act like that the same behavior patterns of manchildren cant be applied to women. My ex girlfriend was a complete child, she would literally yell at her 87 year old grandmother to go out and buy her a pack of cigs. I tried to invite her to family events she wouldnt come, she had constant shoutting matches with her sister over clothes, and I just couldnt take it. She was good to me for the most part but her behavior to others around her and her lack of investment in the relationship was repulsive. If ur wondering her mom died earky and her parents divorced. So yeah I broke up with her. Havnt dated or interacted with a women for 6 years now

The first one already made me go "holy shit"

story 3 sounds like an abusive mother ngl

Treating other people’s homes as if it were their own. No, you can’t go into my bedroom. Don’t throw water on my counter.

I once heard a guy call a girl a godess that was a red flag because he doesn’t see the real person. He sees a version of her. Once he relises she isn’t a godess and is just a regular person. He's in for a huge surprise and disappointment.

@gokuxsephiroth4505

8 ай бұрын

Yeah... if a guy starts slathering on the compliments, it makes me suspicious that either A.) He's invented an image of me I could never possibly live up to or B.) He's trying to sell me soemthing

@AngryReptileKeeper

7 ай бұрын

@@gokuxsephiroth4505 Or he's just hoping he can flatter his way into your pants.

@mavi3348

6 күн бұрын

That's something someone would say as a compliment, do you really think he was being literal?

@D201-o4k

3 күн бұрын

​​@@mavi3348you're asking a woman to use her brain lmao not happening bro

@mavi3348

3 күн бұрын

@@D201-o4k Some women are nice, but yeah the original comment does sound bitter and jealous.

If a woman say no to a date invite, then it's no. A men child in my opinion, is the men that keep insisting. I really do not understand why women call men that respect their opinions as men child, it should be inverse

If she hates Bionicle, she aint the one.

@E4439Qv5

15 күн бұрын

_^haaaaaallelujah._

My husband will joke about me making him a sandwich and stuff like that but I know it’s a joke. If he ever actually demanded it just out of the blue, I’d be very confused and wondering wtf happened to him

Try talking about women-child next... You'll find the red flags are similar

It's crazy how women expect men to not have hobbies,what else do you expect men to do when at home with free time?

@EmmanuellaUdofia

16 күн бұрын

Which women do? Obviously people have hobbies. But if youre neglecting your responsibilities for your 'hobbies' then obviously it's a problem.

@matheussanthiago9685

16 күн бұрын

Defensiveness 🚩 Overreaction 🚩 Generalization 🚩 Deflection 🚩

@espelhogamer

9 күн бұрын

Nome of them are complaining they have hobbies. Literally none.

@POIUYTREWQ62

2 күн бұрын

@@espelhogamer Except they do. Just because you don't see evidence of it that doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Women complain about everything.

"The guy doesn't make it clear that she's on a date." Are you for real? Loads of women "flirt" in a way, doesn't make it obvious. Thinks of something and just expects you to get it" This "man-child" problem shouldn't even be brought up.

@matheussanthiago9685

16 күн бұрын

The redflag was the over reaction to a minor question Jesus, forget media literacy Just plain literacy is dead

@JohnnyYeTaecanUktena

9 күн бұрын

Let's not forget that the guy probably did not think it was a date in the first place

@user-gs5mg1wz5j

4 күн бұрын

She didn't like him that much so she wanted to know if it was a date so she could find out if he's worth her time. If she really liked him, she wouldn't care if it was a date, all she knows is that I get to spend time with the man I love.

@JohnnyYeTaecanUktena

3 күн бұрын

@@user-gs5mg1wz5j Couldn't she just spend time with him to figure that out? Why did it matter if she called it a date or not?

Ive spent my entire life associating asking a woman to cook with man children. So other then a few times I've asked my mom to make something only she knows how to make, in my adult life i just havent had it in me to ask a woman to cook for me. If she wants to then great. Ill gladly accept the offer and make sure to offer help and absolutely say thank you.

You accidentally get pregnant with his child and when you split up he barely ever pays child support and maybe sees your child once per month. He also bails at the last minute for planned visits with your so often, to the point that you don’t even tell the child when he’s going for a visit. Thankfully my husband is a great father to my son and treats him the same as the 2 kids we have together to the point that you would never know he’s not my oldest’s dad. This was really disappointing for me to experience with my son because my dad was the complete opposite, he never just randomly missed visits and the few times he did miss visits with me it was something I knew was coming, like when him and my step mom went to Australia for their honeymoon and when they went to Mexico with their friends.

@JohnDenversMissingHead

5 ай бұрын

That says more about you than it does about him.

@norml.hugh-mann

5 ай бұрын

​​@@JohnDenversMissingHeadand that dumb response says everything about you Which of these stories is about you?

@nataliaalfonso2662

21 күн бұрын

You don’t need to defend you dad who also skipped visits with you babe.

@Martyn_Wolf

11 күн бұрын

​@@nataliaalfonso2662 She stated her *dad was the opposite of her ex*. Her dad didn't miss any visits. The only times he had she was aware that he wasn't going to be there.

What kind of guy doesn't make it clear that he's on a date?

@norml.hugh-mann

5 ай бұрын

The kind of man who treats women as the equals they are

@rizkiramadhan9266

5 ай бұрын

@@norml.hugh-mann 🤡

@jensablefur155

27 күн бұрын

Happens more often than youd think. I've had several in the past where he gives the vibes that he's there out of a fluke of circumstance and is already in the friend zone. Some of these guys even shake hands and don't go in for the hug. Wouldn't have believed it if I hadn't experienced it....

@JohnnyYeTaecanUktena

9 күн бұрын

Oh i don't know probably the guy's who literally do or did not think it was a date. It takes two to tango both has to go in making sure the other person knows it's a date otherwise they are going to be disappointed

I dated a man child in 2017. Grown man who didn't know when to change his cat litter. Didn't know how to drive and spent hundreds of dollars on dvds instead of paying his rent. Never changed his bedsheets and had to be told to brush his teeth before going out to events. We were 21. He also used to whine and borderline cry whenever we fought about finances and being a good homeowner. I left when i realised i was becoming his mother. Now I'm with someone that i can trust to literally function like an adult. The bare minimum ❤

I'm sorry but some of these are so hilariously double standards, while others are a bit like wtf. Also, what's so wrong about a place decorated by a 15 year old or having conversations about video games, tv & movies? I've been in a lot of homes where everything is so "mature" where you're afraid to touch anything, or god forbid accidentally move something a cm out of place. I personally love video games, tv & movies. Talking about them is no different than talking about books, or the like.

@catholiccontriversy

5 ай бұрын

Some people can't separate "childish interests" from "immaturity." My wife and I both enjoy "childish interests" like dolls, stuffed animals, videogames, and toys. Originally she was very upset that I had so many of my interests on display and that "it should all be hid away." I've since brought her over to my side and now her interests are also on display.

@ezecskornfan

Ай бұрын

yeah, pretty much story 3. If she says it is acceptable then follows it with "not acceptable", then everything she listed is not acceptable.

@jensablefur155

27 күн бұрын

I'm into geeky things, but as a woman of 32 if I'm dating a guy and his place looks like it was decorated by a 15 year old then I'm absolutely raising an eyebrow. You can be young at heart without making your living room look like it's trying to be a gaming KZreadr's backdrop, and trust me there aren't many women in their late 20's and up who want to be lying in a bed surrounded by posters, black kallax units full of games and a load of other nerd tat. Display of your interests can be legit, but when the poster says "15 year old" they're purposefully conjuring up images of unframed posters on the wall and a permanent D&D or 40K setup in the lounge...

@ezecskornfan

27 күн бұрын

@@jensablefur155 This is why I didn't hang posters of videogame characters around if I wanted to get laid. Kinda messed up it worked. Your comment and my experience proves that being yourself isn't always right.

@jensablefur155

27 күн бұрын

@@ezecskornfan You can be yourself 100% without needing it to be the basis for your living space. I think nerds forget this sometimes. I know hardcore sports fans where to look at their house you wouldn't think they were as there's no team paraphernalia sitting around. Same with audiophiles. Yeah there'll be a nice Hi Fi usually but the wall of CD's and vinyl isn't dominating the lounge. I'm a nerdy woman for sure, but no woman, nerdy or otherwise, would want to cohabit in a space where there's stacks of miniature models, RGB lighting, strip lighting, a big sunken board gaming table as a permanent feature and massive kallax units of games in the literal living room.

Waiting for womanchild red

@gamesmoney1025

10 күн бұрын

Already commented on that. See the comment on top

@bungus.unhinged

10 күн бұрын

@@gamesmoney1025 the more of us the better

@Dark_SQRL

4 күн бұрын

No such thing, all women are queens.

@POIUYTREWQ62

2 күн бұрын

@@Dark_SQRL Don't you mean GODS? You sexist.

A bunch of this sounds like My sister's ex husband. She finally divorced him after she found out that he had been cheating on her.

I'm glad I'm opposite to most of these lol... though i could use some work on it lately Dx

Thank you so very very much for your video ❤.

Me just listening to this and thinking, 'My mom started making me clean after both myself and other people when I was five and I started cleaning by myself when I was seven. THIS DUDE IS THIRTY YEARS OLD AND HE DOESN'T EVEN KNOW HOW TO DO HIS OWN LAUNDRY?'

@JohnnyYeTaecanUktena

9 күн бұрын

You have no idea how common it is that men don't know how to do their own laundry and have to be taught. When you listen to stories from veterans that is one of the most common things you will hear that young men in their early 20's and all do not know have to do their own laundry

Me 26yr old living with parents wondering if Im actually a man child Watches video... Nah I can do stuff around the house. Hell I'd pay rent if parents asked me to but they don't so I won't

@ezecskornfan

Ай бұрын

Just keep saving money, you'll move when there is a chance. I moved at 29, after finally finding and affordable place with acceptable terms.

@pantherman8719

18 күн бұрын

What he said. Save your money.

@JohnnyYeTaecanUktena

9 күн бұрын

@@ezecskornfan Honestly these days it is a better idea to just live with your parents and split the bill money as it is cheaper to do so instead of living alone

These stories are absolutely wild 😂😂😂

These are good examples of red flags.

the first one got me. it must be nice to not have adhd. i envy people who can just pick things up without quitting.

Some of these are reasonable and then some are "waaah he likes thing i don't understand!" Like seriously? Liking legos is a bad thing now? Sounds like you're the one who need to grow up. And you KNOW some of these girls are doing the same shit but brushing it off as "okay when they do it"

Any man who says X, Y, or Z is “women’s work” is a man child.

@angelkalmez9890

11 ай бұрын

birthing a child is woman's work

@E4439Qv5

15 күн бұрын

Primary school education is 'woman's work,' as evidenced by the fact that there are 9 women for every 1 man in that field.

@dobs8946

10 күн бұрын

What about women saying something is a man's work? Is that ok?

@POIUYTREWQ62

2 күн бұрын

@@dobs8946 Of course because women love when double standards favor them.

My roommate to a T you never know who a person is until you live with them

I had these behaviors and instead of saying "I'm doing something wrong", I just defaulted to "I'm generically off from others". It took many years for me to realize the behaviors and adjust it. I live with my gf now, work for myself, however I'm always feeling like I'm somehow in the wrong even when I know I'm not. It's difficult to just be myself as I no longer know what that is anymore

Really jarring when I'm listening to this on my way to work and hear my own story 😐

A few of these mention posters on the wall as decoration, so here’s a tip: if you have posters you want to display- frame them. Think about it- Scarface poster taped to the wall = college dorm room. Vintage movie poster framed on the wall = collector. It’s just about that little bit of extra effort to change the vibe.

As a quick tip: yes, women do this crap too, and it is still in fact a red flag but that’s not what we’re talking about right now.

@EmmanuellaUdofia

16 күн бұрын

Obviously

@Martyn_Wolf

11 күн бұрын

Probably more then guys do it.

@jackdawjohnson7436

11 күн бұрын

@@Martyn_Wolf yeah sure buddy whatever you need to tell yourself

@Martyn_Wolf

11 күн бұрын

@@jackdawjohnson7436 🤣🤣

@POIUYTREWQ62

2 күн бұрын

How many times are we talking about something good men do / something bad women do and people go: "Well women are good too" / "Men do bad things too"? Stop pretending like you are being fair when you just hate the fact that people are pointing fault at women.

plot twist: the acceptable things in story 3 are red flags for the poster too. But seriously, wehre story 11 dudes come from?! how he landed a relationship?!

Women really need to be told they're not in the position to judge anyone for not wanting to make the first move.

@FordRangerClassics

7 күн бұрын

I wish girls would do it first. We'd probably be more successful as a species

@fakeaccount9376

6 күн бұрын

Brave words for someone in the range of groin kick

@FordRangerClassics

6 күн бұрын

@@fakeaccount9376 misunderstanding 101, is now in session

@petrwarthursty2011

5 күн бұрын

⁠@@fakeaccount9376brave words for someone who is responsible for eternal damnation

@fakeaccount9376

5 күн бұрын

@@petrwarthursty2011 wrong guy, didn't participate in development of Eternal Damnation. Good Postal 2 mod tho

My college ex boyfriend was a daddy’s boy. His dad told him what to do, how to look. Daddy paid for his rent and food and gas and car insurance, pretty much everything. He wanted to get into theater production as a career but only worked with a children’s choir than he left after he turned 18 and wouldn’t hand it over to another family that their kids were actually in. He was always judging me for being “different” and being “too out spoken”. Pretty much didn’t like I spoke my mind like my parents do. We broke up and I took it hard but honestly looking back, I told my grandma if we dated any longer, 5 bucks I would have dumped him

People look down on anyone that likes doing anything considered "childish", and that's so fucking annoying. So what I love Bakugan, why do you have to ruin my fun?

fel attacked by the "scarface poster as the only decoration" comment but i mean, what else decoration do you need?

the first story is just stupid, god forbid your boyfriend wants to spend time with you on CHRISTMAS that's just selfish

@Drums_of_Liberation

15 күн бұрын

Oh yes God forbid someone wants to be significant other free on a day of their choosing.

Story 12 is crazy

At least I’m not the worst on the list but I still need to get my life together.

@kameronhailey-m7076

3 күн бұрын

Amen Brother.

Might as well say all men are these problems, I don't know any guy that doesn't have at least one of these complaints +

@norml.hugh-mann

5 ай бұрын

Says more about the company you keep than "all men"

@theofficialretardschanneld1260

Ай бұрын

@@norml.hugh-mann Are you okay

@E4439Qv5

15 күн бұрын

Who here speaks for "all men," anyway?

@theofficialretardschanneld1260

14 күн бұрын

@@E4439Qv5 Danger Dolan

I feel the dude about shopping trips. I'd rather have my fingernails ripped out by the root than go on a shopping trip with you. Shopping is what your girlfriends are for. Men don't shop. Men go get their stuff and get the f out. Shopping is why 75% of debt is held by women. My fastest shopping trip over 50 dollars was about 8 minutes and 4 of that was spent in line.

@EmmanuellaUdofia

16 күн бұрын

Jesus christ. So you spoke to half the human population and concluded that men don't shop? Wow what a conclusion.

@aaronburdon221

16 күн бұрын

@EmmanuellaUdofia I never said men DONT shop, but ill put my life savings that the vast majority of men don't enjoy shopping.

Listening to this while playing lego

People will come up with hate comments especially on Reddit out of all other platforms on the internet

Personally I would love to hear my GF is on her period that means no Babies !!

Let's just hope he doesn't use 4chan.

@E4439Qv5

15 күн бұрын

^He might learn... Mongolian basket-weaving?

A lot of these can also apply to women. Source: am woman. 😂

...Damn. I'm a manchild.

@tallbeanerboi6915

4 ай бұрын

Fix your shit around while you still can.

Signs your dating a womanchild: 1) Acts like she doesn't have feelings for a guy but when the guy moves on, she gets jealous and tries to sabotage his new relationship. 2) Throws temper tantrums when she doesn't get her way to attempt to make her partner feel bad and reconsider his choices 3) Claims to be independent but only spends her mans money even if she has her own successful career. 4) Only thinks about herself and doesn't consider her partners feelings 5) Stays clean while dating but let's herself go when a ring is put on her finger 6) Has ratched childish friends. If her friends are immature, she is too 7) Posts under dressed pics on social media to get attention 8) can't offer anything in the relationship besides what's inbetween her legs 9) Relies too much on her friends/family for dating advice 10) Cant be direct and honest with you 12) Doesn't cook or clean 13) Likes to start fights with men but acts like a victim when she gets out in her place 14) Uses her time of the month as an excuse to treat her man badly. Especially when he did nothing wrong 15) Thinks she has the right to treat others disrespectfully just because she's physically attractive 16)Thinks she's entitled to anything just because she's a female 17) Is too clingy 18) Won't speak her mind 19) likes to talk negatively about others behind their back then acts friendly to them when those same people are around her. 20) Thinks she's the center of the universe 21) Dresses to provocatively in public while in a relationship 22) Asks a question to someone but pays them no mind because she's to busy on her phone 23) keeps her child away from the father just because they aren't together and still has feelings for him 24) sleeps around, gets pregnant, makes the guy she's with think he's the father and doesn't tell him she cheated and it's a possibility he may not be the father or tells him he may not be the dad until after he signed the birth certificate 25) Cant talk like an adult and instead throws a temper tantrum like a kid 26) Only sees her partner as an ATM 27) Doesn't let her man lead because she's a "strong independent woman" if that's the case be single then 28) Doesn't take accountability for anything. Instead she blames others for her wrong doings 29) Is into ghetto jailbirds 30) Doesnt respect boundaries 31) Goes out on dates with guys she really has no interest in dating just to get a free meal 32) influenced by social conditioning instead of opening up about her actual real wants and desires 33) Just depends on her looks instead of improving her personality

@fakeaccount9376

6 күн бұрын

Around 3 of those reasons are just incel whining

@khalidcabrero6204

6 күн бұрын

@@fakeaccount9376 Only 3?

@vergil5931

5 күн бұрын

​@@fakeaccount9376 Like what?

@fakeaccount9376

5 күн бұрын

@@vergil5931 12, 21 and 27 in his list

@POIUYTREWQ62

2 күн бұрын

I don't get what you people are complaining about, women are just as capable as men; so if men can be a manchild, women can also be a womanchild. Or are women perfect and do nothing wrong? Women are children because they mature faster than boys, but boys are able to mature past the age of teenagers while women stop mature past that age. Case and point, they throw temper tantrums when they are criticized / you white knights feel the need to defend them like they are children. None of the points were wrong in the slightest, you people just hate it because it goes against the "Men Bad" propaganda.

One of my exes explained to me that's there Is a difference between a man child and a man baby like she is fine and even love how much i love anime and games but i also work very hard and take care of her taking her out and spending alot of quality time together as well as her starting to get into anime and learning to love it getting really into it then going to anime cons and cosplay together our favorite characters, she told me she loved that about me but like one of her exes were like a man baby that was selfish self centered and just choose his games and his interests a head of her every time .

Any other men here taking notes on what NOT to do?

@E4439Qv5

15 күн бұрын

^It's worth doing. Learning what _not_ to do, generally towards _bettering oneself_ and in finding opportunities to *become* better.

@lennypayne4241

15 күн бұрын

Right here. 🤚🏼

@Anonym-yr4qn

12 күн бұрын

Don't focus on that. Focus on WHAT to do. Not on what NOT to do. I'm speaking from experience here.

@Wally-fg1qc

9 күн бұрын

No, live your life how you want instead of changing just to please women. 😂

@markthefan

9 күн бұрын

@Wally-fg1qc there's a difference between learning not to be a selfish immature man-child and changing your whole personality to appeal to someone.

Note: Not wanting to have children dies not make someone a bad person if they are mature about it. I - for one - am not sure if I would have the patience to be a parent. I struggle at times to help my brother and his wife raise their own children. They work full time. I live with them, am living on disability benefits, and help maintain the house so they can work. Some women also don’t want to have children and that’s okay as well.

God damn is this what dating is like for women. I'm sorry that genuinely sucks.

Went for the recent comments only. I was satisfied

So we not gonna tal about 4:35 where he fell off the taxi into the abyss? 😂

how do these guys even get partners

I’m just sad now

Some of these are just being judgemental

@ezecskornfan

Ай бұрын

story 3 comes to mind.

@POIUYTREWQ62

2 күн бұрын

Women are just judgmental people.

When I think man-child, I don’t think Ray Barone or those guys on TLC ….I think of Ed Gein…. It might be a little extreme, but If you know you know.

What they say : don't be these types of men What i, an expert in womanese, hear: i dated these kinds of men, and even almost married them, then they are my type, probably because i'm a loser too, but i ended up being sick of him (for any reason), so i started resenting him for the littlest thing he did before that didn't bother me at the time.

@E4439Qv5

15 күн бұрын

^

"liberal arts degree, such entitlement" Spot the engineering major who probably has atrocious media literacy

Can get himself up and needs you to come wake him up multiple times. Never dated anyone like that but my kid brother is a man baby. And yes my mom thinks it's fine.🤦

My almost mistake😭

Look this type of videos is a great red flag.

Tbh I put the title of man child on myself but that's Me just being extra critical and extra hurtful to myself but after hearing all of this I think I should go a little easier on me.

@ezecskornfan

Ай бұрын

you probably meant "self deprecating joke", a defense mechanism against shit tests.

@E4439Qv5

15 күн бұрын

I'm more a man than a child, and I literally _can't push back hard enough at my mom_ over that.

@OniiChanPls

15 күн бұрын

@@E4439Qv5 I totally feel you there but if I took accountability for my own shortcomings rather than blaming it on her then I know I'll get a lot more done When I'm really down on myself though I'm very much tempted to do the exact same. But my parents don't deserve that

She seriously wanted to spend christmas alone without her partner. Cool. 😂 I see a lot of the red flags in myself, but even when I'll come around to fix them, I'll just stay alone. It's peaceful and I have all the time and money to myself.

Jeez

I am laughing so hard at all of these. These are all things that would've been blatantly obvious just getting to know the person and yet they still chose to date them. Nobody feels bad for you because there's plenty of adult men out there.

Racht and Clank for the win

Fully grown man who asks his mother for money.

@JackieOwl94

Жыл бұрын

That depends on the situation and frequency. My husband and I had to ask his mother for money once to deal with a really bad urgent emergency. It’s not too bad.

@daynechastant

Жыл бұрын

I've had to ask for help in emergencies. I've ALWAYS promised to pay it back and I always did. I also give my parents free tech support on top of it because they do so much for me and I'm grateful.

@POIUYTREWQ62

2 күн бұрын

What about women who ask their dad for money?

By the sound of a lot of these entries, I appear to not be a man-child..

Story 1 is a little judgmental, and yes i say that cus im like that, but no im not a man. Im just not interested in learning a foreign language and i hate running, sue me.

I don’t consider myself a man baby definitely some negative aspects of my self things that I could work towards making myself better and eliminate those negative parts about myself eventually but definitely over exaggerated some things I might actually do sometimes but like nah can’t be that bad for someone to actually consider me to be a man baby that’s a bit of a stretch I mean people will come up with anything in the world to spew hate towards others on the internet definitely know how to take care of myself cook, clean, and just take care of my hygiene basic things like taking the garbage out mowing the lawn I’m almost 25 gotta work towards actually getting my license so I’m not under my mom or dads wing forever and ever but worked out my own property land and got my own car but like don’t got my license just yet ended up with a dui some other stuff messed up my way through life especially in the beginning but I still ended up with my diploma either way

Women like men with will. Real men.

i love soylent

@E4439Qv5

15 күн бұрын

_I too am a people person._

What is the name of the female equivalent of this???

@POIUYTREWQ62

2 күн бұрын

There is none because women are perfect and their only flaw is they are too nice. We can't call them children, bossy, mean, or anything because it is hurtful. Yet they can judge everything with their obvious god complex about how they are sent from the heavens. Unless they want to manipulate people into believing they are none of those thing and all of those things at the same thing.

I feel like this entire thread was just another green light for women to complain lol As if they’re gonna pick ANYONE without a fuckton of red flags 🤣 They just like the ones they find attractive lol I’m a mixed bag of both sides of the pole. I have some of the ones they like and some of the ones they hate. But my life in general doesn’t revolve around what women want. I have my own thing going on. You can take it or leave it (aka leave lol) I wont care.

5:39 Okay, not cool. Any tile job is best done by two people. Floor, walls, whatever it is. Fuck anyone who asks for a hand with tile than makes the helper solo that shit.

I’m trying to figure out the whole red pilled part out. I’m guessing it was a conservative jab and if it was I thought it was funny because last time I checked man child doesn’t have anything to do with politics. Also if it is about conservative men upset about not finding a woman it’s because they’re in the wrong area. Not much of a man child thing more like trying to find love in the wrong places.

@norml.hugh-mann

5 ай бұрын

Well it's more common to find man-childs ass deep in alt-right Faux conservative rhetoric along with white Nationalism and Christian theocracists.

@blastermaster5039

28 күн бұрын

Trust me. Being in the wrong places will always end up with you being pointed and blamed for everything. God forbid you'll have these "Grown ups" exchange gossip like egg-carrying hens how much of a child you are for enjoying things they don't.

Story 2 sounds like I'd like to hear it from the other guy's end. Girl wants to do a self care day on Christmas. Like that's one of the biggest big family event days of the year if not the biggest, you can schedule your self care day on another day. If I wanted my girl to spend Christmas day with my family and she basically told me screw you Ima wear a face mask that day... Yea bro is better off without her, clearly massively different value systems.

@Drums_of_Liberation

15 күн бұрын

Ever consider that maybe she was burnt out? How do you know they didn't spend all of Christmas Eve together? Or even everyday of the month prior to Christmas? People are capable of having burnt out with loved ones you know.

@francoisstrength

14 күн бұрын

@@Drums_of_Liberation It's a massive event. You show up, burnt out or not. You'd get fired from any job with that attitude and I'd like to think a relationship is a bigger commitment. Like I said, clearly different value systems. She should be with someone with similar values, but then must also be ready for if the partner decides he's gonna play video games instead of going to any event that's important to her. Self care right?

Chris Chan?

@E4439Qv5

15 күн бұрын

^ah yes. The intellectual travesty, the monster the media made.

The most worthless nonesencial whining I've ever watched than a redflag video tbh

Men, what's the biggest emcel red flag? Hard mode: no strong and independent mindset

@POIUYTREWQ62

2 күн бұрын

It would be quicker to list all the green flags of women.

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

If a women ever says hay want to go to the mall , never go .

11:02 but when a woman chases multiple guys they're mature