The one thing that most prevents women from having the relationships they want with the men they want to have them with is pride. In this episode, I discuss three ways in which this pride tends to manifest in the game of mating and dating: in misappraising their value, in disparaging male attraction, and in deprecating the domestic. For women, humility is the pathway to more satisfying relationships with men. Book a paid consultation: oriontarabanpsyd.com/consultations Social Media Facebook: facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090053889622 LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/orion-taraban-070b45168/ Instagram: instagram.com/psyc.hacks Twitter: twitter.com/oriontaraban Website: oriontarabanpsyd.com Orion's Theme: kzread.info/dash/bejne/iaaMpNyKYquqdbQ.html Thinking of going to grad school? Check out STELLAR, my top-rated GRE self-study program based on the world's only empirically-validated test prep system. Use the code "PSYCH" for 10% off all membership plans: stellargre.com. Become a Stellar affiliate and earn a 10% commission for every membership purchased by a new student you conduct into the program: stellargre.tapfiliate.com. GRE Bites: www.youtube.com/@grebites4993 Become a Psychonaut and join PsycHack's member community: kzread.info/dron/SduXBjCHkLoo_y9ss2xzXw.htmljoin Sound mixing/editing by: valntinomusic.com Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world. #psychology #women #relationship

@croissants1280

5 ай бұрын

Bro, you're becoming black pilled. Sure, women have problems but modern men are feminised and weak. How about some balance? You need to get urself a chick and get laid more often, Orion.

@cosmictreason2242

5 ай бұрын

I find your language at the end very interesting since 1) I'm an INTJ and it's how i talk 2) the Bible doesn't shy away from "use" language, eg in Romans 1 it calls gayness "abandoning the natural use of the woman," and whereas sex is clearly the face value meaning, i think it goes beyond that. Everybody is either used, abused, or refused. All that "use" means is someone does something to you or requires you to do something for them that is a benefit for them. That's it. That covers such things as giving surprise gifts all the way to slavery. When it's abuse is when something is done that is exploitative (harms or gives no commensurate benefit to the person being used). That's why radfems react to masculine and feminine relationships as abusive because they've equated all use with abuse, probably because of the sincere realization that the same exact action can be use and abuse, but failing to realize that it's the context that determines it and not what the action itself is.

@michaeljeffery7466

5 ай бұрын

Imo women's second greatest enemy is vanity. They're never aware of their own flaws or accepting of criticism because they can't see it & nobody ever tells them so they assume nothing's wrong. Vanity & *Ego* .

@cosmictreason2242

5 ай бұрын

@@michaeljeffery7466as defined, that's actually pride. Vanity is "meaninglessness," So when the third commandment says "thou shalt not take the Lord's name in vain," it actually means it's a sin to treat God as if he doesn't matter, and that means the scope of the command is WAY broader than people realize. When Nancy Pelosi pretends to be catholic, she's violating this command (even despite the fact that the RCC is apostate). Anyway, hope this was useful. It can never hurt for us to try to be more precise with language. Now there's a word "vainglory," which basically means glorifying yourself vainly (treating yourself as if something good is true of you when it is not), and that fits what you were saying i think. So you can call them vainglorious or puffed up or self important. Pride is thinking more highly of yourself than you ought. There's therefore always a sense in which vanity, the original definition, is attached to pride, but the emphasis is still pride. Someone could be very seemingly humble but still vain, and a great example of this might be Dave Rubin

@gregorylatta8159

5 ай бұрын

You are simply killing it, Doc!!! 😆

I have a strong suspicion that the people who NEED to hear this will not listen... due to Pride.

@B4DWrath

5 ай бұрын

@lkcheat is a perfect example here in the comments.

@tonybernard4444

5 ай бұрын

Yep, women are at least as capable as men of braving the elements to build a home and put food on the table, and after spending their prime years proving that fact, Prince Charming will treat her like the fresh young virgin she can't remember being, and give her the golden parachute she deserves. Any notion of submitting to and serving some hairy Neanderthal is dismissed as misogynistic patriarchal oppression.

@madjunir

5 ай бұрын

Prideful women match well with a handful of Cats

@enl8ghtenmenttv476

5 ай бұрын

​@@madjunirand bottles of wine...usually cheap :D

@danspencer4235

5 ай бұрын

@@enl8ghtenmenttv476 Or boxwine...

They constantly tell each other how strong & awesome they are. Every failed relationship is the man's fault.

@mbg9650

5 ай бұрын

"I'm strong & independent..." from men!

@Zxcvbueisn444

5 ай бұрын

After i broke up with my ex she asked her friends to complete a questionnaire about her strengths (note only strengths) then emailed me the results saying look how great all these people think i am. The bizarre thing was that some of them wrote really bizarre things why they admired her but it was typically how “strong “ she was or how great her career was. Looking back now its really telling as nobody said anything like how feminine or how kind or how loyal she was etc… which are the key character traits you are actually looking for. I thought to myself id be embarrassed and dismayed at these comments because it was mainly money and success they admired her for but she thought it showed what an amazing person she was.

@AdoMedium-nm1je

5 ай бұрын

You just described my mom! I keep asking myself everyday how she landed my dad! This video is timely!

@Involent

5 ай бұрын

⁠@@Zxcvbueisn444Women brag about and praise each other for having the traits and accomplishments they themselves are seeking in men. You see all the time on social media and dating profiles. It never occurs to them that men couldn’t care less about any of these (very masculine) traits - because men in general _aren’t attracted to men,_ even very cute little men with boobs.

@sammyb1651

5 ай бұрын

@@Zxcvbueisn444 🤣🤣🤣That is BEYOND tragic! (Not you...the bit about her emailing you a load of solicited "endorsements" from people who've never experienced the realities of dating her).

Was married fifteen years to a very difficult and prideful woman. Not once did I ever receive an apology for any of the problems she caused. No accountability. Thank God she's no longer my problem.

@croissants1280

5 ай бұрын

it takes 2 to tango.

@MrRockus

5 ай бұрын

​@croissants1280 Alot of men are now just waking up to the societal conditioning they are being put through. Social media is starting to level the playing field.

@croissants1280

5 ай бұрын

No. Social media + feminism is making things worse. If a man is not in the top 10% or cannot find a woman in a church he's f*cked. @@MrRockus

@redpilllense7125

5 ай бұрын

@@croissants1280 🤡

@nickelsworth7097

5 ай бұрын

It's never the women's fault.

I was red pilled in 1977, before red pill was a thing, my first wife ruined our relationship for a one night stand, (he got her pregnant and didn't want anything to do with her) . I realized that I didn't want to fall into that trap again, and changed the way I looked at women. After dating multiple women for a year, I met one that had no trouble admitting that I was the prize and I vetted her for 2 years . To make sure I understood her motives. Now married over 44 years, and it's been a smooth ride. My ex is 65 years old and alone after her 3rd husband divorced her. I like to think it's KARMA !

@sammyb1651

5 ай бұрын

That, Sir, is a win!

@mbg9650

5 ай бұрын

"Vengeance is a meal best served cold."

@syedtayyab5142

5 ай бұрын

How much did you have to pay your first wife after divorce?

@EC-yl7xk

5 ай бұрын

You are not the prize, that is so feminine.

@bolt9110

5 ай бұрын

he got her pregnant? more accurate to say she got herself pregnant. she chose to have sex, she chose to not be on HBC, she chose to not insist he wore a condom,

As someone in academia, I have seen first-hand how destructive women's pride has been. It is a rarity to find a happily-married female academic. Most of them are either divorced, single-mums, or single with the feminist chip on their shoulders or all of the above.

@MitsurugiR

5 ай бұрын

Just the consequences of industrialization. Any woman that focuses that much on her career is bound to end up in the same place all of them end up in.

@capmidnite

5 ай бұрын

​@@MitsurugiR 99.9% of human history was in a pre-industrial agricultural state and now we have the modern world. Many societies such as Japan and South Korea have entered a post-industrial phase where the birthrate is so low the population isn't sustainable. American society is headed in that direction except that mass uncontrolled immigration disguises this demographic decline.

@Doberman_6773

5 ай бұрын

@@capmidnite "mass uncontrolled immigration" - there is a ⏲💣hidden within this 'solution' - and when the timer runs out...

@keylanoslokj1806

5 ай бұрын

​@@MitsurugiRbasically they should never have gotten voting rights

@gregorylatta8159

5 ай бұрын

Shocker!!!

When dating women that demonstrate excessive pride, theres never a 2nd date. Aint nobody got time for that.

@mbg9650

5 ай бұрын

Feminine humility is view as anathema for modern women.

@agentm83

5 ай бұрын

yup, gotta watch for red flags early.

@detroitvcw

5 ай бұрын

Hell, not even a 1st date. When a women is prideful it bleeds all through her persona...more specifically, in the way she talks, adjectives she use for her social media titles, the way she dresses, etc...Generally men are repulsed by prideful behavior in women... its a automatic turn-off!

@melenico4512

5 ай бұрын

It essentially comes out quickly in their attitude.

@sole__doubt

5 ай бұрын

Im 45 and I would love to know where the ones that don't "demonstrate excessive pride" are. Is it a secret island or something? Ive spent time on 3 different continents and women are basically the same no matter where they live.

The problem of pride invades committed relationships, so men do not be confused it isn’t just the pre-marital sexual marketplace. You can be pulling down four times the median income, enable a stay at home mother lifestyle, have a successful career, and STILL expect that your wife will one, be repulsed by your sexual interest, seeing it as childish and petty, two, feel abused if you are not doing half the housework and childcare in addition to paying for everything, and three, feel like she is superior to you for her deigning to descend to being married to you. I would love to share this content with my wife but I would have to be fully prepared for the consequences if I did. Why? Pride.

@harveypolanski755

5 ай бұрын

Sorry you got married before taking the red pill. I’ve been there with a woman that tried to trap me; who I was objectively better than on every SMV/DMV metric. Men can afford to get married or have children in the west anymore. The consequences are to grave. If you want marriage or children you have to earn it. By getting a remote job and moving to a country where the government leaves consenting adults alone when it comes to their romantic and reproductive choices.

@mbg9650

5 ай бұрын

"Frame is everything." ― Rollo Tomassi Iron Rule #1

@sonofthesOUth77

5 ай бұрын

Spot on

@elduderino1635

5 ай бұрын

Get a divorce! It was a major mistake to get married, in the first place. If you still have hope, to save your "marriage", you might consider to read "Passionate Marriage: Sex, Love & Intimacy in emotionally committed relationships" from David Schnarch. If this does not help you, get a divorce. Good luck to you. Being single, I am lonely as fuck, myself. But at least I don't have to share the bedroom with a woman who does not care for me, anymore.

@EC-yl7xk

5 ай бұрын

Every man should be doing half the household chores, including cutting the grass and changing the oil in the cars.

Any time a woman says she wants men to be attracted to her because of her mind/ambition etc, she really means that she wants men to channel the same undeserved attention/validation that she gets for her body/looks towards her mind/achievements. Unfortunately, unlike beauty, where all you need to do is exist and men would flock, when it comes to recognition of one’s competence, you quite literally have to earn your accolades .

@manifest2203

5 ай бұрын

Believe it or not, a lot of women achieve a lot in work. That is one of the reasons that many m3n are crying everyday about independent women.

@Straga_Severa_

5 ай бұрын

@@manifest2203Believe it or not, a lot of men do not care about these achievements. We care about them if we are recruiting a worker, not when we are looking for wife.

@DrSkrungle

5 ай бұрын

@@manifest2203 HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

@Chop_69

5 ай бұрын

​@@manifest2203they achieve alot of shit that makes them less conducive to a successful relationship

@josealexi5141

5 ай бұрын

@dekev is correct. @manifest: tell me you're a clown living in a delusional world without using any of those words. GREAT JOB!!

Dr Orion should replace most of the female dating coaches who are afraid to tell women these cold hard truths.

@Anonymous-yh4ol

5 ай бұрын

I would love to watch an 8 hours podcast with Dr. Orion Taraban and Dr. Sadia Khan share & debate.

@jackdeniston59

5 ай бұрын

No money in telling women truth

@keylanoslokj1806

5 ай бұрын

Wow, He even literally admitted the biggest blackpill women have to face 😂. That without their vajay-jay, men wouldn't waste a millisecond even turning their heads to women's direction... .😊

@edheldude

5 ай бұрын

​@@jackdeniston59And ain't that the truth. Which also tells me there could be a market-based solution.

@keylanoslokj1806

5 ай бұрын

@@TheIgnorance yeah if you are a millionaire you got more temptations

I see women at the age of 50 think they deserve everything

@why-mope

5 ай бұрын

is that what they mean by 50 is the new 20?

@mbg9650

5 ай бұрын

She'll realise she's invisible to the kind of man she want.

@yerushalom87

5 ай бұрын

😂

@aknightofcamelot

5 ай бұрын

@@mbg9650 You'd like to think that

@Deuteronomy31.6

5 ай бұрын

Can’t imagine the countless creampies from different men throughout the years 🤮

"You're either a decoration or you're useful." Brilliant. Thank O'Ryan.

This is good stuff! I like how he points out that women have no trouble taking orders/requests from a male boss but it's oppression if the man she supposedly loves dares to ask for a favor or act of kindness. Oh no, that's slavery and oppression. The nonsense. Today's women are lost.

@allenlin7333

5 ай бұрын

and you know what's even more ironic? women would even tell you that they prefer a male boss over a female one

@glevando

5 ай бұрын

@@allenlin7333 EXCELLENT point!! I have had countless females tell me that very thing. They know women and how women are constantly trying to make each other look bad or are stabbing them in the back. Women led organizations are total clusterf*cks.

@keylanoslokj1806

5 ай бұрын

​@@allenlin7333a perverse form of hypergamy. Plus they know how bitchy other women with power can be

@jamescheaye927

5 ай бұрын

@@allenlin7333 oh the humanity😂🤦🏿‍♂️

@AUSTIN-ss2zd

5 ай бұрын

Never ask, request then you aren't a simp

I sent one of your videos to friend who happens to be a girl and she had a full on meltdown. She is a intelligent person but her pride got it the way of the truth ,

@fotografiasromero

5 ай бұрын

What she say? lol

@brownsnob

5 ай бұрын

Same happened to me. She got pissed and called Doc a misogynist.😂

@FranG1214

5 ай бұрын

Which video? lol

@elchucapablas

5 ай бұрын

What video did you send her?

@elduderino1635

5 ай бұрын

If they are relatively intelligent, they are almost always pridefull.

For all the women who are in high paying jobs or are in academia or women who are in general successful, ladies I kid you not but this man is speaking facts. I am a doctor myself. When I turned 25, I kept wondering what is wrong with me that I'm unable to back a high value man. I'm intelligent, smart, conventionally beautiful, in a well paying job, then why have I been single for most of my life. I wondered. Then I came across this channel. Thank you so much Psychack. There was another video how to get a high value man, I followed word by word. Transformed myself into this utterly feminine woman. I got the man. The masculine energy will only get us so far in your respective careers but when it comes to the dating world it's still the same as before. I'm 26 now. And it's not early for all those women who are thinking, time passes very quickly. Once you turn 30, you're no longer the prize. Edit: Yes, I am a doctor and it might feel like my English is not polished because, first it's not my mother tongue, secondly English is not even the official language of my country. I hope I'm able to convey my story, that's all. Also, I understand, how difficult it is to leave the masculine energy and come into this soft feminine energy. If I can do it, so can you. It's not a facade.

@user-zv4qx2qw1x

5 ай бұрын

I'm a 32 year old lawyer (m) and I guarantee you I'd rather be single than commit to any woman over 25. What's the point??

@luluxxx3994

5 ай бұрын

WTF

@Always-S17

5 ай бұрын

That is wonderful thanks for sharing. pls consider telling other young women this wisdom you gained so they can learn.

@allenlin7333

5 ай бұрын

It's baffling how many self-proclaimed smart women out there could not figure out the message of this video on their own. If you need someone to explain this simple logic for you, then by definition you are kind of stupid.

@75SuperMario

5 ай бұрын

"Transformed myself into this utterly feminine woman." I genuinely hope that the transformation is something you'll be able to maintain in the long term or is intrinsic and not something you're doing to just get a mate. This is a phenomena that occurs quite often when women near 30 so guys are wary about it. The façade is usually able to last for about max 18 months with the intermittent marriage question appearing every so often.

my mother brainwashed me into thinking men had bigger egos when I was a kid. that is FAR from the case. women being showered with compliments & attention from the opposite sex from birth swells most women's ego's to a much bigger size than the average man. the average man doesn't think he's better than anyone. almost every average woman nowadays thinks she's a 10 & she assumes she's better than you upon meeting you until you show her other wise with money, status, fame, etc.

@Willie_Wahzoo

5 ай бұрын

This. Imagine being coddled from birth and told your a princess and yet still being dvmb enough to consider yourself "oppressed."

@asdfdc1946

5 ай бұрын

@@Willie_Wahzoo ikr

@22448824

5 ай бұрын

And if they happen to get a well paid job they really think that they are something special. Even worse , they want everyone else to know it.

@BC-wj8fx

5 ай бұрын

Terrible when parents push their gender agenda on children. Like trying to brainwash boys that girl's feelings are infinitely more important, and everything affects them more. Meanwhile male suicide rates...

Relationships require sacrifice. If one of the parties thinks they are above sacrifice and only wants the benefits, either that party will never get into a relationship because they are delusional, or any relationship they get into will be short term as they will end up highly dissatisfied. Relationships are not for everyone.

@mumenraider

5 ай бұрын

Righty said .. The my ex was exactly like that.. She expected or should I say entitled for the favors for her . And when she had to do even basic things in the relationship suddenly it was oppression for her

@22448824

5 ай бұрын

@@mumenraider Same. My ex didn’t even want to care for the children that she wanted least of all do anything for me. The children are boys and are now old enough to see right through her. Not because I influenced them. I did my best to paint her in a good light as I wanted them to be involved with her.

@jojochara6352

Ай бұрын

Finally a comment with sense.

That is why people often get defensive over things, it's a blow to their pride. A lot of personality conflicts can be avoided if it wasn't for pride. Approaching a mindset & (not or) humility can be beneficial.

@SPACEDOUT19

5 ай бұрын

People take themselves too seriously

@cedarbay3994

5 ай бұрын

“People.” He’s not talking about people.

@Tgogators

5 ай бұрын

I know, but his theory applies to everyone overall.That's my point.@@cedarbay3994

@jamescheaye927

5 ай бұрын

@@cedarbay3994lmao, correct. In particular he’s talking about women but of course, we as people do take ourselves seriously at times and should know when to concede weak positions to gain a better position

@Originalman144

5 ай бұрын

It’s not pride, it’s a level up from that. Many women today are self-worshippers. They worship themselves. That’s why you see their profile filled with selfies and nothing about the beautiful world around them. They think they are more special than nature around them.

Dr Taraban keeps on and on 'hitting the nail on the head'. Brilliant and insightful.....

@mbg9650

5 ай бұрын

Dr. OT brings RPA in a non offensive (i.e. constructive) way to women.

@chrish2112

5 ай бұрын

​@@mbg9650No he doesn't.

@HunkumSpunkum

5 ай бұрын

102 people would disagree with you....@@chrish2112

@davidrosenfeld5525

5 ай бұрын

Yes he does!

I have never understood this idea that women think they are the prize (or any men as well). You are not the prize, the prize is being in a successful relationship.

@0000FFz

5 ай бұрын

Spoken like a low value man.

@VoiceOvaGuy

5 ай бұрын

@@brow1920 I know I can't be the only one that thinks I'd rather be alone than with a woman that will leave me at the slightest sign of waves on the waters surface. If she thinks of you as a job, and things in your life start to get tougher, a few things go wrong, she's just going to leave. You're not wrong in your psychological understanding, but it's also part of why women don't deserve their own freedom. That's NOT how a relationship works, never has been, never will be. The world was better off when women's fathers chose their husband, as women are incapable of doing it themselves on a functioning metric. Relationships don't survive, and aren't meaningful if they're based solely on "what can I get out of you". That's closer to sociopathy / psychopathy.

@Damesanglante

2 ай бұрын

Prime example of capitalism alienation.

I was dropped by a woman who was 40 and desperately wanted children. As she told me off, her stated reasons were that she believed she had 'plenty of time' to have children and that she loathed the idea of cooking for me. I never even requested in any form or fashion a cook. God save us all.

@BlueFish-kq9fh

5 ай бұрын

Just be thankful that she revealed her toxic nature to you *before* marrying you.

@shmariona

5 ай бұрын

@@BlueFish-kq9fh Praise the lord that she revealed her toxicity early enough.

@hidum5779

5 ай бұрын

@@BlueFish-kq9fh Yeah man. It may have hurt temporarily but he actually got saved.

@BjtheLawyer_

5 ай бұрын

Crazy part is that if she is alone she still has to cook for herself.

@stephendelacruzone

5 ай бұрын

Mother-nature... really does not give a fuck about our beliefs... especially women's beliefs! She's literally deleting herself from existence with batshit insane wonky beliefs.

Sadly the only women this message would resonate with are the women who don't really need this message, the women who are past their prime and therefore the message is not very useful to them because it is already too late to apply the lessons. 9 out of 10 times, the young women who could utilize this message won't heed it. It won't register. They will remain hard hearted and hard headed till it is late for them. Women are cursed with rebellion and pride even when it is to their detriment.

@luluxxx3994

5 ай бұрын

Late for what?

@0000FFz

5 ай бұрын

@@luluxxx3994a man of high value, marriage, family etc

@allenlin7333

5 ай бұрын

you have to admit though, when literally all women suffer from this curse, they collectively are cured from it. When ALL women are dillusional, some beta males will eventually submit, hence why we still see women getting married in their 30s or 40s.....LOL

@keylanoslokj1806

5 ай бұрын

​@@luluxxx3994for successful family formation

@touchtone101

5 ай бұрын

Your right. The best way to learn something is the hardway. Thats just how we as humans operate.

In my humble opinion, 'the prize' is the happy and cordial relationship that two have built.

FEMINISM is simply another word for PRIDE and you described it perfectly in this video. This is the root of what destroyed both of my marriages.

@croissants1280

5 ай бұрын

Maybe you contributed to your marriage failures. Easy to blame others.

@jordansjul

5 ай бұрын

@@croissants1280right? There’s a lot of men on here with pride issues, too!

@OUigot

5 ай бұрын

FEMINISM is more than Pride, it's down right ARROGANCE

@terraflow__bryanburdo4547

5 ай бұрын

​@@jordansjul🤣😭😆

@tomclancy8281

5 ай бұрын

Sorry, I left no stone unturned to make both marriages a success. As I learned much too late, they were both BIPOLAR NARCISSISTS. And I fulfilled my responsibility to both by raising all 6 sons from both marriages and not abandoning them to be destroyed in a single mother household.@@croissants1280

Man, you nailed it with this one. This is a "must listen" for western women.

@keylanoslokj1806

5 ай бұрын

Their solipsism and pride would never, accept and internalise this message

@22448824

5 ай бұрын

@@keylanoslokj1806 Yep. That describes my ex perfectly. I gave up subtly pointing out her failings. Just fell on deaf ears.

@steveg2277

5 ай бұрын

Sent it straight to my woman haha. She’s gonna learn.

Hes absolutely right, if it wasn’t for $3x, I honestly wouldn’t need them in my life.

@harveypolanski755

5 ай бұрын

This is why women and politicians fight so hard against legalized and lightly regulated prostitution. They’re afraid if men can pay for fast easy sex with a beautiful pleasant woman we’ll stop being their workhorses. Why bother breaking our backs to pay for the fancy car, nice house, expensive dates, and tailored suits?! None of that would make sense when you could sleep with a 10/10 woman that treats us nicely for what we get paid for one hour (or less) of labor.

@jackdeniston59

5 ай бұрын

Dont you miss the depths of their souls....... sarcasm doesn't convey in comments

@allseeingotto2912

5 ай бұрын

I’ve never met a women with any depth.

@keylanoslokj1806

5 ай бұрын

​@@allseeingotto2912they are not designed for depth. They are baby breeding and raising machines

@jaytee5820

5 ай бұрын

When I got my desire for sex under control, women lost their power. Unexpectedly, they lost nearly all of their value as well, especially when I considered all of the issues they bring with them.

"Expecting the relationship you want is just going to fall into your lap, is as arrogant as expecting your dream job is just going to materialize into your life". Truer words have never been spoken. Unless you're a Nepo kid.

I love this guy ! He hits the nail on the head. Every time I listen to him, he provides insightful explanation what happened in my past relationships. And what I need to do on any future relationship, if I get one. Don't have now and really not looking too hard. Also, loved him on Whatever! I the ones I watched, I think he was the best. Had me listening to the end. Usually cut it short. those women are little too much for a extended time, most of the time. Thanks Doc, appreciate your work.

@londonbowcat1

3 ай бұрын

Pride is very cold company; it will not keep you warm at night ...[yet] your pride tells you that you are the prize

This guy is hitting nail on the head. My ex-wife a top heavy red head, men broke their necks when she walked in the room, I did. We got married and I stupidly though she would stop get attention from other men, boy was I wrong. I would tell her these guys are not your friends, they want to hit it. She would say "they are all not like you." "they really listen to me.". We divorced and those guys got their turn and never called her again. She is 42 bitter alcoholic now, I told her after divorce she should get sober a find a guy to have kids with but nope there was always some dope around the corner to help her. Well her looks are going and she has very few if any options.

@jasontandy3357

5 ай бұрын

Karma

@allseeingotto2912

5 ай бұрын

It’s sad how they do this to themselves, but I suppose they are just children.

@VoiceOvaGuy

5 ай бұрын

@@allseeingotto2912 Internally, yes. There's not much different goes on in the mind of most western women, and an average 9-12 year old child. It's one of the biggest turn offs in my opinion.

@allseeingotto2912

5 ай бұрын

@@VoiceOvaGuy Absolutely, I dream to meet a women who is attractive, mentally stable , loyal and can hold a deep topical conversation.

@keylanoslokj1806

5 ай бұрын

​@@allseeingotto2912a unicorn basically

There are people I could send this to, but they might NOT like it..!

My girlfriend and I when we started out was amazing but we both had an ego. When conflict occurs neither of us backed down. We would stop talking for a bit. In the end, over time we discussed what we were doing, why we say or react the way we do etc. Eventually, we discovered we wanted to be with each other and we dropped the ego. We now lower our egos when there is any disagreement. She is asian and she understands what is needed for a successful relationship. Western women, they don't understand something as simple as this. They got social media and movies to keep their underachieving but over inflated ego extremely high.

This lesson is definitely for TikTok & Instagram generation girls getting older. Thanks Orion for speaking truth to reSet a culture that's slipping off into ludicrous vanity.. replace with sanity. Be respectful and useful, not just decorative

Pride? Your body? Being useful, obedient, and an employee and not decorative? My my, the good Dr is coming out swinging with his cumulative findings. And he's in San Francisco too. Happy New Year, and here's to changing dating in 2024!

Time doesn’t guarantee anything time is not guaranteed

This guy is fantastic…wish he was my therapist

@Willie_Wahzoo

5 ай бұрын

The guy that works at Pizza Hut could tell you this stuff. It's common sense. Our society is just so far down the drain that it sounds novel.

@keithqueen352

3 ай бұрын

​@Willie_Wahzoo true story. It's amazing how people are willing to pay for low hanging fruit. That said, I think these types of conversations are fruitless. Most men know the reality of their situations and have adjusted accordingly. Women, on the other hand, well, you already know...

Female pride has killed 8 of my relationships with women this year. It's taken me watching Orion's videos for me to get a clue and stop blaming myself. I don't think that the ones who need to hear this will listen (women). But men like me will listen and learn. Thanks Orion! And happy new year 🎉

@captainpalsy2092

5 ай бұрын

Amen and I at one point wanted a family of my òwn since I live in a small town that's pretty much unless you met them in HS. Good luck, and the law, don't me started.

@TheRoadrunz

5 ай бұрын

C’mon you’re blaming all 8 women !

@cosmictreason2242

5 ай бұрын

You must be hot cause wow you had 8 chances

@cliffthecoolcat

5 ай бұрын

I ask nothing of a woman accept companionship and sex. All of them have failed because the minimum ante for a relationship with me is friendship. They have treated me in ways far below a friendship. They say things that I would never say to a friend.

@TheRoadrunz

5 ай бұрын

@@cliffthecoolcat well then change the standards upon which you choose them … give trust only as much as it was earned… but also make sure you communicate your boundaries and expectations clearly

Last few uploads have been gold. This one was a long time coming. Great time to put it out too. Thanks.

This recent series has been some of the most cathartic stuff I've seen on KZread Thanks Orion I now know in detail what's been wrong with all my previous relationships with women

@croissants1280

5 ай бұрын

Maybe your value is too low. It's easy to always blame others

@nanayawberko3212

5 ай бұрын

@@croissants1280 boi relax let me have this one

@imaginativename

5 ай бұрын

@@croissants1280 Weird take. Understanding what's been wrong is not the same as blaming others. Orion encourages self improvement and provides context as to why, sounds like nanay is benefiting from that.

@peekaboots01

5 ай бұрын

I'll bet you're choosing feminists and/or women with zero to no moral values.

@davnoble8472

5 ай бұрын

@@croissants1280right. If all your relationships went wrong he’s equally at fault

Orion, please make a video on how to psychologically overcome the fact that any given woman you’re potentially seeing has access to such a bizarre amount of options. I struggle with it and I’ve seen that a lot of other men do too. Seeing her inbox full with dozens of men validating her or 30 missed calls from men on her phone is highly disconcerting.

@hdhellion4128

5 ай бұрын

I'll 2nd this. Women have WAY more options. I just had a discussion with my gf about this. She thinks I have women constantly in my dms/inbox trying to flirt with me. That's happened in my 42.5 years of my life, maybe 5 times. She calls me naive. I told her I'm flattered that she thinks that. I've never had that luck. Facts: not the greatest looking, tallest, or muscular guy. So I have some tough cards dealt. She on the other hand can post a picture of her feet and they'll be 10 guys that are ready to pay to suck her toes...

@mbg9650

5 ай бұрын

Abundance mindset is a big thing, e.g. men who are crushing hit are dating like a hot chick in her early 20's!

@AM-ko4pi

5 ай бұрын

You don’t date her exclusively. If/when she asks for exclusivity, you tell her she has to block every guy from this group of orbiters. You never bring up exclusivity. That’s her job. She needs to chase the relationship or it’ll never work. She needs to enter your frame.

@user-uc7qb1su4e

5 ай бұрын

@@mbg9650thing is I already know that I have options but every single woman these days is like that, just makes it feel less special I guess

@user-uc7qb1su4e

5 ай бұрын

⁠@@AM-ko4pithanks man

Western women are next to impossible at this point. Too much trouble.

@mbg9650

5 ай бұрын

Broken beyond repair.

@SD-mi2vc

5 ай бұрын

​@@mbg9650even the warranty cant cover it

@ShunguRocks

2 ай бұрын

It’s not just western women, African women have been infected by the same mentality.

@rejectwokeness1314

26 күн бұрын

You mean modern women worldwide

@ShunguRocks

25 күн бұрын

@@rejectwokeness1314 Thank you. People think it’s just western women but forget social media is world wide and its reach is just as far and wide. Modern Women Worldwide

The best (most succinct, clear, and specific) video he has ever done. Bravo, Taraban!

Wow thanks! You are keeping the content coming over the holidays

As a woman, I have to say thank you! Definitely not denying that pride is our greatest enemy. Most women think men podcast are to tear women down but if you just actually listen you will find many useful tips.

This 1000x - we all thought this...but never has this been put into words so eloquently. Nailed it.

Orion this was your best ever! You were in a zone. Loved it.

I remember your older videos and I like that now you are much more assertive and intense. It may not be the best way to deliver the message, because people may get defensive (women especially), but it's certainly much more fun to watch.

Ive been listening for a while, I enjoy listening to your logical reasoning. This is my first donation on youtube😁.

You are killing it with these videos Orion. Awesomely done! 👏

Sharp content, Dr. Taraban and as a former actor, brilliantly conveyed. A treat 🎉

This episode is a master piece.

Absolutely brilliant video!

Been watching you ocasionally for about 8 months. This is by far one of your best videos.

This is the Savage Orion I'd been looking for in a lot of your other videos!

Many of the people most offended by this type of observation DO NOT realize that what Orion Taraban does is describe reality. You are not inventing any new theory, simply observing the world around you and describing it in statistical terms.

@TylerAnderson-xl6hb

5 ай бұрын

They don't live in reality man. It's easier for them to live in delusion, because it makes them feel validated in their decision making. Most women don't like self evaluation or accountability.

@brandonbiehl9855

5 ай бұрын

There is nothing so dangerous to the delusional as the truth, so an undeniable description of reality becomes most people's greatest fear.

I met my husband in college at a swing dance club. We were 18 and 19 years old. We both immediately went through the marriage checklist. We pursued one another, inviting each other to lunches after class or group activities. We’re almost 13 years together with two young sons. I look at my girlfriends in their 30s and think…yikes. You’re past your sell by date by a decade. Girls, don’t waste your time, your looks, or your best reproductive years. You can get an education, have a career, AND be a wife. The only thing I’d say is once kids come along, you put your career on hold and focus on them as much as you and your husband can afford financially. I’m very fortunate that we can afford for me to be a stay at home mom. That means my job is caring for kids and household. And that means doing everything I can to put in equal effort at my job as my husband puts into his. The worst thing we can push into our marriages is resentment. Strive always to be his equal (not his superior or his responsibility) and he will treat you like an equal.

Lol, my ex's pride and ego were off the charts. It left my head spinning. Humility is truly like gold.

My man dropping bars!! This one is gonna hit hard on sum folks. Starting the year strong. Lez go 🥂🔥

Love all your videos. Right on!

One of your best!!!

Excellent! So true and no bull, straight to the point! You bring logic back into our life, thank you!

Wow. Best video yet. Brutal truth

Good job pointing out that throughout history, humans have been primarily homosocial. Our ancestors would find it extremely peculiar, if not downright deviant, how much time men are expected to spend interacting with women in general and their women in particular these days. They would regard it as a sign of male weakness and poor moral fiber. And you’re absolutely right about women historically doing the pursuing. That’s why women were actively taught how to flirt and sent to finishing schools to learn the fine art of being graceful. Even in movies from the ‘80s like _Footloose,_ which was inspired by events from early 1980, you see girls going to great lengths to lock down men, who are dragged kicking and screaming into relationships, and they’re using their sexual allure as bait. In regard to your final point, not only do decorations do nothing, but they get put in storage when the season changes - or thrown out with shifts in fashion and taste.

@goodj111

3 ай бұрын

Isn’t it intriguing how that’s nearly completely gone now and young women see the notion of it being the 'men's job' to get them whilst they they themselves shouldn’t have to do anything to make things happen as 'just how it’s always been and always should be'.

@zvcno

15 күн бұрын

@@goodj111 they still do that, but they do it not for all these men that they seem are below them they do it for the guys they actually wanna have

The Doc did it again. Thank You Dr. I hope all the ladies hear this.

Perfectly summarised, and spot on!

That was A+ data and delivery Dr. !!!

So insightful series of videos... Pls keep making such videos

Bravo. Thank you, Dr. Orion.

Dr Orion nails it. He says something along the lines of “most women price themselves out of the sexual market place”. Couldnt have been better said. Thanks for the stellar content!

Dr. Orion your the best!!!! Saludos senor👊👊

My favorite psychology channel on youtube. All the best from Russia. Thank you.

This is the most honest insightful message on KZread. 👍🏼 Thank you.

Your best yet. Congrats!!

Tell 'em Orion! 🔥

I love serving those who I love and who love me. I love actually patriarchal headship in the home. I am so overjoyed and grateful to serve the people I love. And washing their clothes so they don’t have to is a great honor! as well as keeping the home clean so it’s a safe and peaceful refuge from when they are done with dealing with the world outside the front door.

This analysis is brilliant. Thank you

this channel is blowing up. Congratulations. I was a sub when you had around 40,000.

Happy new year Orion, Have a great year

Humility is key

@FlowerlyF.

5 ай бұрын

THIS!!

Orion, you have certainly found your niche audience. Love seeing the channel grow. Thanks for all the insights and wisdom.

Once again. You’ve nailed it!

Cheers from Italy, thanks for your videos.

I'd add a forth item to the list which is "don't disrespect your man" especially in public.

@cosmictreason2242

5 ай бұрын

That's like the one command given in Ephesians 5. Repeated twice for emphasis.

Always love the way you break things down keep doing it

Daaaaaaaamn Dr Taraban, this one is more heavy-handed than usual but SO spot on

PsychHacks is on a tear right now. This is an instant classic. It’s sad that a life full of pride for these women has them miserable dying alone and bitter. So sad… my family is full of them.

Narcissism, vanity, pride, delusion, talking too much, wanting attention all the time... only a few "enemies", should i go on?

@erikreuterskiold5996

5 ай бұрын

They all sit around in a circle with Ego in the middle.

@TylerAnderson-xl6hb

5 ай бұрын

Lack of accountability, duty, morality etc.. lol

@keylanoslokj1806

5 ай бұрын

That's why the only model that works is benevolent patriarchy. Men leading the morals and frame of society

You nailed it in this episode Doc!

Thank you so much for your work Dr. Orion. I'm getting paid soon and I owe you. Finally someone sticking up for us guys is really refreshing. Russ. M.

7:56 what I find hilarious about the disdain of domestic chores is, even as a single brave strong boss girl independent woman, they still have to do it! Besides all the 9 to 6, and every other chore and job and task at hand. I mean, as a single man myself I do, being single strong and independent doesn’t suddenly magically cleans the dishes and brooms the floor.

I love these types of videos that aren’t demonizing or putting women down but rather telling them the exact truths that they need to hear. If women fail at finding love then that means that us men fail at finding love too. I would love it if all the beautiful women actually starting finding husbands so then those guys would be taken off the market and stop having casual sex with the girls in my league. People need to stay in their lanes.

@cheekymonkeygirl3378

5 ай бұрын

We are deaf to these bullshits! It is entirely patriarchy!

@k.b.3683

5 ай бұрын

That’s an interesting take from a man that is not often discussed

Loved this one! ❤ Such great writing!

@Michael-bf1dt

5 ай бұрын

Hello LeeAnn how are you. Greetings from Ireland. It’s a good video. I wish you a happy new year 🎉👍🙏 Michael

Today's message is the real deal, nicely explained and put with good strength 👍

I'm so happy I made productive decisions about my finances that changed my life forever,hoping to retire next year... Investment should always be on any creative man's heart for success in life..Thanks to Fergus waylen

@dorathystephanie7702

5 ай бұрын

YES!!! That's exactly his name (Fergus Waylen) so many people have recommended highly about him and am just starting with him from Brisbane Australia

@Ricgibs

5 ай бұрын

Wow. I'm a bit perplexed seeing him been mentioned here also Didn't know he has been good to so many people too this is wonderful, i'm in my fifth trade with him and it has been super.

@findingpath8362

5 ай бұрын

Same my friend, No doubt many people from around the world also trade with him!!!

@KamranKhalil-br6dk

5 ай бұрын

Life is easier when the cash keeps popping in, thanks to Mr Waylen. Glad he's getting the recognition he deserves.

@charles2395

5 ай бұрын

My brother and I also joined his strategy and we made massive gains at the moment while under training. I am forever grateful to Mr Fergus Waylen

I probably have 5-6 male friends who would warch this andd truly understand what is being said. Maybe 1 woman. And that's out of 450 FB friends. Funny how little cold truths are spoken in society.

@Doberman_6773

5 ай бұрын

People prefer comforting lies and virtue-signaling.

@Anonymous-yh4ol

5 ай бұрын

And even so so so much much less of those truths are understood.

@dgphi

5 ай бұрын

Mothers ought to be telling their daughters this stuff.

@Alexxx492

5 ай бұрын

I have listened to exactly what Dr.O has said in past video aimed at women and they work!!! ❤

This has got to be year best video yet! AMEN!

Thank you for spreading truth. I needed to hear this.

This clip is GOLD! .Covers Everything Every women needs to hear but no normal man can ever have time and/or patience to explain to them.

@user-eu7qp3ry5b

2 ай бұрын

now do men

@Damesanglante

2 ай бұрын

He did. You deflect because your ego can't take criticism like a toddler.

Their deep desire is to be trophies, they want to do nothing and be admired as an object but don’t want to feel like an object.

@markaurelius61

5 ай бұрын

And when in that role they expect to be accepted when they rearrange the man's life and question everything he does.

@steveg2277

5 ай бұрын

That’s why we treat them like children and lead from the front. Like real fucking men.

@simlucien

5 ай бұрын

@@markaurelius61 and when that inevitably goes wrong, wants to take 0 responsibility for anything.

This is one of your best.

loved this. so interesting & useful to know. thank you Orion