Hey Goodhumans! Thank you for watching this special episode of Seeking Secrets. And a big thanks to The CW for sponsoring this episode! Watch Kung Fu TONIGHT and every Wednesday at 8/7c only on The CW or stream free next day.

@lvb3612

3 жыл бұрын

*chill yall* is the most awesome thing for you to search on youtube!

@AreebProductions

3 жыл бұрын

I upload photo editing tutorials you can come if you want but it's totally fine if you don't

@Namikaa2003

3 жыл бұрын

I just want to drop in and say that I appreciate your content SO MUCH. It's so diverse and entertaining as well as informative! Keep doing what you're doing folks.

@jamelbruu2482

3 жыл бұрын

I was about to say what about the boys. But then they showed kung fu and I was like oh this makes sense. "Bad as$ asian women" -jubilee 2021 😂

@JacobOhlssonBudinger

3 жыл бұрын

Can you do this for men too, I think there’s a lot of stigma around opening up as a teenage male and I think it’s a very good concept to encourage openness and allowing teens to find a safer outlet then parents or friends, for both young woman and men. Really great video though

Parents don’t realize how much their comments about their own or their childrens bodies really affect their kids.

@lantern6272

3 жыл бұрын

bodies and appearance

@hopexmsp5036

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I still remember to this day each comment my parents made about my body and it still makes me feel so bad when I recall them

@yolo-vl4wz

3 жыл бұрын

yes, why does my dad always have to add " but you should lose some weight" after complimenting me (I'm not even overweight)

@citlaliargueta3306

3 жыл бұрын

@@yolo-vl4wz just tell him to stop saying that

@Lauren-cm5ip

3 жыл бұрын

This really hits hard. My grandma said I looked ugly in my favorite shirt and needed to put on some weight. Then my mom said I can’t wear tank tops to school, but I love wearing tank tops because they make me feel good about myself.

Wow it's crazy how we can trust strangers even more then we can trust our friends.

@sasha_bean

3 жыл бұрын

So true. I could never communicate my insecurities to my friends and family but I would pour my heart out to anyone in this comment section.

@criburgir

3 жыл бұрын

@@sasha_bean I don't know if that's a good idea, on the internet not only you're exposing yourself to people that share the same opinions and points of view, but rather you are opening yourself to pretty much the whole world so I'm not sure about that one (btw my English is not the best, so sorry if I misspelled something)

@samv4692

3 жыл бұрын

nah, it's just that they're anonymous

@aynork762

3 жыл бұрын

@@samv4692 ik but imagine watching the video and seeing someone say something bad about you're secret the fact that they trusted them enough to not judge them

@SU9ERCHARGED

3 жыл бұрын

Big facts

Now do Men read secrets by teen boys... They should also do one where teens read the women and mens secrets so they can see what they feel too.

@lbz6412

3 жыл бұрын

jubilee has done a men read other mens deepest secrets if you want to watch that. and a video just reading teens secrets in general

@floridaman7243

3 жыл бұрын

@@lbz6412 nah, teen boys and men. There’s a difference my guy

@lbz6412

3 жыл бұрын

@@floridaman7243 im just saying if they want to watch those too since they are similar..

@Jeremy-wp4yh

3 жыл бұрын

@@floridaman7243 I don't think it goes with the Jubilee narrative. They're always demonizing men. For example the feminist vs male activist debate. They chose an incel to represent men.

@saharaasher8959

3 жыл бұрын

@@Jeremy-wp4yh they chose a wide rage on men’s activists.

"I can tell my friends to be strong and love themselves but i can't do it myself" this hits me hard

@ataliaward

3 жыл бұрын

This hits home for me to.

@pwettyy.v4mpire621

3 жыл бұрын

@@ataliaward Hope you are okay!💛

@obee2

3 жыл бұрын

Same 😭

@pwettyy.v4mpire621

3 жыл бұрын

@@obee2 Don't worry!

@brownietiktokcompilation420

3 жыл бұрын

Same

Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child.

@floridaman7243

3 жыл бұрын

*parents, it takes two

@cora7043

3 жыл бұрын

Not always but it’s normally better ,yEa

@lleah2839

3 жыл бұрын

@@floridaman7243 single parents: 😐

@floridaman7243

3 жыл бұрын

@@lleah2839 children from single parent families make up majority of crime

@lleah2839

3 жыл бұрын

@@floridaman7243 bruh so you’re generalizing every single child out there into a criminal get over yourself

Every teenagers need to be cared and loved... Most importantly by their parents

@Tony.S420

3 жыл бұрын

Ok

@musselmanmedia5236

3 жыл бұрын

EVERY teen needs to be cared and loved........

@messyangel1169

3 жыл бұрын

Every TEENAGER needs care and love 🙄

@nvvy5687

3 жыл бұрын

@@messyangel1169 that’s true but this video is talking about teen girls which makes sense why they would say that

@nabeshabenedicta5267

3 жыл бұрын

@@musselmanmedia5236 sorry. my mistake.

Man society puts so much stress on our future generations

@samv4692

3 жыл бұрын

more like, future generations are getting mentally weaker.

@littlewammity9896

3 жыл бұрын

@@samv4692 future generations are having to deal with different things that no one has had to cope with before.

@samv4692

3 жыл бұрын

@@littlewammity9896 name a few

@yogendrajagtiani1527

3 жыл бұрын

@@samv4692 the pressure in academics is now harsher than ever, every parent wants there could to have 95% and anything below that and you are a failure and people like u never let us talk about our problems now every College or high school needs a student who is an all rounder, even tho we don't want to do those activities we have to do them not only that but nobody listens to point issues

@yogendrajagtiani1527

3 жыл бұрын

@@samv4692 our issues*

We need more from this series, they are really good.

@AreebProductions

3 жыл бұрын

@@lvb3612 I upload photo editing tutorials you can come if you want but it's totally fine if you don't

@loganmiia5425

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed

“You are so used to seeing your own features that you have no idea how beautiful you look to a stranger” and “be who you needed when you were growing up” are two quotes that have stayed in my mind since I first saw them as a tween 4/5 years ago. If I could give every single teenage girl a big cuddle and tell them to be strong and that the horrors of being a teen don’t last forever, I absolutely would. If you’re reading this and you’re struggling: I love you, please be kind to yourself and understand that it WILL get better :)

@bellapogue9259

3 жыл бұрын

thanks i really needed that:)

@222CHELSEA24

3 жыл бұрын

@@bellapogue9259 happy to help! you can overcome anything if you just have a little faith in yourself 😊

@bellapogue9259

3 жыл бұрын

@@222CHELSEA24 aww thank you so much!

@222CHELSEA24

3 жыл бұрын

@@bellapogue9259 ✨❤️

@lucifermorningstar4548

3 жыл бұрын

Also be aware that for some women, life after the Teen years is when the expert level of the game begin’s so don’t let your guard down. Women mature early so they don’t change as drastically as men do when growing up.

It's so annoying because if you're too closed off, people don't want to get close to you, but when you're too open, people take advantage of you.

@faith7171

3 жыл бұрын

yup. :(

@beesheeran134

3 жыл бұрын

Pepper spray time

@paulchro_

3 жыл бұрын

It's a fine balance. And one that is quite difficult to reach it without having that kind of personality.

@Val606

3 жыл бұрын

RELATABLE

@Marie-ox6ce

3 жыл бұрын

On point!

I’m 12 and relate to almost all of these secrets. And the shittiest thing is that if your young and a kid or teen, so many people dismiss mental health things and it sucks, its been 2 years of me being depressed and hating myself alone with no one to talk to

@K-TheLetter

3 жыл бұрын

Get out of the internet. You are a baby.

@nbamv1893

3 жыл бұрын

@@K-TheLetter Bruh

@Namikaa2003

3 жыл бұрын

Big hug for you! I hope you get through whatever you're going through right now. This interest stranger believes in you ❤

@marp9234

3 жыл бұрын

@@sohan8933 it could be her parents account

@keiron.4612

3 жыл бұрын

@@K-TheLetter do you actually know what she goes through maybe been on here gives her someone to talk to why don't you just look at her comment this she's feeling fool

I’m not even a girl and honestly this vid helped me a lot. I struggle with many of the issues talked abt and the women in there bought me comfort. It’s nice to see I’m not alone 😭☺️

@marija5345

3 жыл бұрын

you're not, you're loved trust me :)

@nothadidbutgigi2322

3 жыл бұрын

You'll never be alone

@eltiospike7672

3 жыл бұрын

Same.

@peachycranberry

3 жыл бұрын

Have a wonderful day everyone! Stay safe! Hope all is well! ✨🙏🏾🤗🤍

@eliesiegal

3 жыл бұрын

❤️

I hate it when I tell me mom about my insecurities and she says “ur not in a age to feel insecure” and I get my insecurities from her comments 😕

@albatros6679

3 жыл бұрын

I know exactly how you feel! Just remember her words are not who you are :) I know it's hard, especially coming from your own mom, but believe me people often project their own insecurities onto other people, so try to ignore her as much as you can

@onon8909

3 жыл бұрын

i wish i could give you a hug. it is absolutely okay to have insecurities at any age. i learnt that a while ago as a teenager myself. never let anybody invalidate your feelings even if they are a loved one of yours. thank you for being here! you’re so beautiful inside and out and i hope that one day, you’re able to see your insecurities as something positive about you instead of something negative. you’re so strong for even existing rn and i’m sending you and everyb reading this sm love❤️

@poocrayon4588

3 жыл бұрын

Your mother is right, stop whining

@leslienava.r2432

3 жыл бұрын

@@poocrayon4588 yeah she maybe me right but that doesn’t give her the right to tell me what I am supposed to feel

@onon8909

3 жыл бұрын

@@poocrayon4588 your lack of empathy makes me feel sad for you

“No one is born ugly, we're just born in a judgemental society.” - Kim Namjoon Edit: I saw a comment about kurapika and I must appreciate it 🤚😌

@fangirl_4_everzinin919

3 жыл бұрын

👏👏

@ado6693

3 жыл бұрын

Not really, some people are just ugly

@thotumn2896

3 жыл бұрын

@@ado6693 ugly to you but attractive to someone

@dudeman3

3 жыл бұрын

now its getting annoying

@dinelleworrell6340

3 жыл бұрын

@@messyangel1169 No, they haven't. They're literally dragged for not having conventionally attractive features by the media.

No female should ever be pressured to do anything that guy who got angry he's definitely not a man

@rileywhatts3002

3 жыл бұрын

or male

@messyangel1169

3 жыл бұрын

And no man should ever be pressured to anything.

@keiron.4612

3 жыл бұрын

@@rileywhatts3002 absolutely nobody should

@rileywhatts3002

3 жыл бұрын

@@keiron.4612 (:

@rileywhatts3002

3 жыл бұрын

@@messyangel1169 (:

I stopped caring about not having a thigh gap months ago when I realized that beauty standards are at times absurd and unachievable for a lot of people. I love myself and that's all that matters

@Umi_luv

3 жыл бұрын

you dropped this ✨👑 ✨

@irrelevance3859

3 жыл бұрын

And on top of that they’re ALWAYS changing. Yesterday it’s this today it’s that. No one can keep up, realistically. The only beauty standard we should care about is staying healthy. End of story

@mkg2124

3 жыл бұрын

Thigh gaps aren't even attractive anyways like literally...

@ldive

3 жыл бұрын

@@mkg2124 Depends on the thigh gap, like there's a v thigh gap I think is really attractive. Thighs still touch but there's this small v gap between your upper thigh area. But i dislike the thigh gap where you'd have to starve yourself to get it

@beesheeran134

3 жыл бұрын

@@ldive I’m not starving myself to look good. I’m naturally amazing

Don't let anyone make you feel like you are nothing.

@AxxLAfriku

3 жыл бұрын

I broke my feet today because I kicked my computer because someone commented that my videos are bad! I hate unjustified criticism. Please wish me a speedy recovery, dear whr

@FerretCuddles

3 жыл бұрын

Do you have any other melodramatic tea coaster slogans?

@That0neSister

3 жыл бұрын

My family is great at it

@kittykitty_kat

3 жыл бұрын

easier said than done...

@kittykitty_kat

3 жыл бұрын

@@That0neSister hope ur okay. u are loved 💜

Gosh being a woman who has been through it all, pregnancy at a young age, bullies, sexual abuse, weight issues, confidence issues... This hit me extra hard. I just want to hug all of them. And, tell them.. That as long as you remain strong you can overcome ANYTHING. I haven't dominated everything yet but at 30, I can say for me.. It got better! It got better because I didn't let it hold me back anymore!!!!

Every woman that participated in this, teens and adults, is SO STRONG for participating at all.

I just turned 18 a month ago, at the age of sixteen I was dating a guy (2 years elder to me), for almost a year. he was toxic, verbally abusive. used to abuse me for my every choice, from a simple song i loved to movie choices, even hated my friends and used to trouble me a lot if I would go out with my friends for longer time and not text him in between. for months he made me cry every night and never really cared. was always selfish and self centered. his problems, his life, his dreams. nothing was mine in it. after I broke up, he blackmailed me and used to stalk me and drunk called me very often for a year. my point being, if any teenager is reading this, do not date someone who does not value you and your choices, even if you have very strong feelings towards them.

@gs0760

3 жыл бұрын

just wanted to say that you're really strong living through that abuse and sharing your story💜

@Iforgothowtodothis

3 жыл бұрын

I don't know if it's gonna get better, probably not but remember that you should know that you deserve someone who respects you, just be lucky you got away from that prick

@booksandcoffee07

3 жыл бұрын

Your really strong girl, I hope your doing good now💕

@oyinosolo5837

3 жыл бұрын

I hope ur doing better now and thx for sharing ur story

@rosalina5755

3 жыл бұрын

Oh god! This happened to me too. Also the same details i almost thought someone was stealing “my story” 😂. I understand how u feel . Its been 2/3 years and he is still stalking me to this day. I hope it got better for u.

ayy where are my fellow teen girls at??? ladies we gotta stick together and build each other up, love u all

@ivy1796

3 жыл бұрын

Here we are we have to stick together 💗

@flaviahidalgo7376

3 жыл бұрын

Aw, love you too girl. Hope everything is going well! 🧡

@lillym.901

3 жыл бұрын

💖

@marsdamoney

3 жыл бұрын

@olivia548

3 жыл бұрын

To anyone struggling with trauma or mental health problems try to stay strong their is more good in life to come

@danielled168

3 жыл бұрын

me

@amandalaquemanda_

3 жыл бұрын

Thank u

@kyrball

3 жыл бұрын

thanks

@BiGSmoke-.-

3 жыл бұрын

thanks babe

@poocrayon4588

3 жыл бұрын

*there is more to come

I’m a male, and I feel for these women. I am scared that people will believe all men are like this, and any partner of mine will always assume the worst of the stereotypes put on men and I’ll never get the love I am looking for.

@holladiewaldfee7564

3 жыл бұрын

I think if you’re a beautiful person people will be able to see that. Some people have issues trusting people and need more Time with that and that’s ok. If you don’t wanna be seen as one of those men it should be good if you know which signs in behaviour will make your ( female ) Partner feel uncomfortable. Communication is probably the best way to trust each other. ( ok i am not really experienced but that’s what I would want in a relationship) :)

@maartenvandijk3629

3 жыл бұрын

Im a 20 year old male and one of my biggest fear is that I become like one of those males

@peachycranberry

3 жыл бұрын

@@maartenvandijk3629 I think it’s also important to communicate to someone in that case. Talk to anyone you trust. You can also try asking your partner what makes THEM comfortable; how THEY want to be treated. Always be unselfish and empathetic. Have a wonderful day and Stay safe! 🙏🏾✨

@hazalnupe

3 жыл бұрын

@@maartenvandijk3629 it’s okay to be afraid of what you may become, but I hope it doesn’t hold you back from making beautiful relationships

@ryobaaishi9968

3 жыл бұрын

Some men you can't trust them after what they did..

As a teen dude who's struggled with mental health issues, I can't imagine the immense social pressure on teen girls whether it be the not only attractive but also be a "good girl". I'm so sorry for these struggles yall. I wish I knew what I could do to help without being looked at as weird or creepy but idk. We really need to focus on teen health. Anyway all love to you all!

@user-of2hm4yz6h

3 жыл бұрын

You sound like a legend not gonna lie

It’s truly heartbreaking how many people feel Worthless. Sending love to anyone who’s feeling low right now, You are Worthy!🧡🌹

@ianhale8754

3 жыл бұрын

Some just act because they want drama

@peachycranberry

3 жыл бұрын

Have a wonderful day everyone! Stay safe! Hope all is well! ✨🙏🏾🤗🤍

@peachycranberry

3 жыл бұрын

@@ianhale8754 I just replied to you in another comment; but I’ll state it AGAIN! not true. 😒✋🏾 NO ONE wants drama. Only those who are people-pleasers want drama, or CAUSE it. stop being ignorant please. It doesn’t benefit anyone.

@ianhale8754

3 жыл бұрын

@@peachycranberry believe it or not a bunch of people crave drama especially if they are teen girls

@peachycranberry

3 жыл бұрын

@@ianhale8754 I am a teen girl. So no 😂✋🏾 Have a great day though! I hope all is well! 🙏🏾

"i wish i could look at myself in the mirror without being disgusted at what i see, i can tell my friends to be strong and to love themselves, and i cant myself, i feel worthless like i dont deseve to be loved"

women are so wise I love how they all became like big sisters after reading the cards

There is a huge pressure on girls to look, act and be a certain way and it's absolutely ridiculous. It messes everything up and causes so many problems. I've noticed that every time i meet friends and relatives after a long time of not seeing them, the first thing they'll comment on is my appearance. Oh, you've gained weight, I preferred your old hair, this outfit doesn't look good on you and so on. I can't blame them because i don't think they realise how much damage this can cause to a person but it's important for everyone to know that you should never judge others and as the good old saying goes, if you have nothing good to say, don't say anything at all. It's simple. Yet, we fail to apply it.

I wanna see a guy version of this as a teen guy I have a lot more struggles than people think

@pussyslayer2295

3 жыл бұрын

@JackBauer137 they do

@nicolenicole6325

3 жыл бұрын

This could definitely be interesting

@glongu9349

3 жыл бұрын

@JackBauer137 The world doesn't but Jubilee will make a video on it for the people that do and to get the world to care.

@michaelcranberry7398

3 жыл бұрын

Hey, So I get what you mean. However this video specifically is about teenage women. When you bring up something other than that it kinda takes away from the conversation at hand. You mean well, my suggestion is to try to sympathize and fully listen to the ladies testimonials. THEN, if you would like that to be discussed then bring it up outside of the video talking about teenage girls so it doesn't seem like you are trying to point the attention in your direction. That was a lot. Um... This video isn't about teenage guys and that ok. 😌 Just listen.

@thehamoodiandoctor5792

3 жыл бұрын

That would be nice. I despise it when people undermine other's issues because they think their own is worse or more important. Not everything has to be a competition. Everyone should be given a chance to speak and get the help they need. After all, everyone deserves happiness. At least, that's what I think.

The girl with the beige clothes has such a beautiful voice!

@AreebProductions

3 жыл бұрын

I upload photo editing tutorials you can come if you want but it's totally fine if you don't

@chonkypeachs528

3 жыл бұрын

@@AreebProductions I subbed to u btw OwO

this is so sad i wish ppl could understand our sufferings ect...As a teenage girl I'm truly hurt by this

@samv4692

3 жыл бұрын

why what happened to you?

@laurtary

3 жыл бұрын

I think as girls, there are a lot of unrealistic beauty standards that people try to conform to and if you don't, then you're considered ugly. We live in a super judgmental society that dismisses people because of the way they were born. It's really sad.

@samv4692

3 жыл бұрын

@@laurtary being thin is not an unrealistic beauty standard. girls care about their looks more than society cares for. this is why they mask their natural beauty with cosmetics, surgery, filters etc.

@ianhale8754

3 жыл бұрын

Grow up

@laurtary

3 жыл бұрын

@@samv4692 That's not even the beauty standard nowadays. Women's beauty standards are always changing. The ideal body type changes every 10 years or so. For a long time, it was "being thin". Now, to be considered desirable by a lot of people, it's either be healthily thin or thick. And that's not the only beauty standard. It takes into account body type, facial features, skin, hair, height, and so many other things. Also, being thin is unrealistic for some people, as some weight gain is genetic, some is from medical conditions and diseases that can't be changed, treated, or cured.

Girls, whatever you’re going through, there are people who care, not those rubbish people who only care about looks, appearance, things they only care for themselves, you can make a change, for yourself and be in a group of good people. Enlighten & love yourselves 💞❤️💗

@ianhale8754

3 жыл бұрын

Half the girls want drama

@skunkamunkah

3 жыл бұрын

​@@ianhale8754 Thank you for that profound insight, Mr. Longnuts! I hope you'll make similar remarks all throughout this comment section ;)

@peachycranberry

3 жыл бұрын

Have a wonderful day everyone! Stay safe! Hope all is well! ✨🙏🏾🤗🤍

@peachycranberry

3 жыл бұрын

@@ianhale8754 not true. 😒✋🏾 NO ONE wants drama. Only those who are people-pleasers want drama, or CAUSE it.

This is good, but it would be interesting to have teen boys reading teen girls secrets, and teen girls reading teen boys secrets

@sudheerhaneefa1584

3 жыл бұрын

Yessss

@merautu

3 жыл бұрын

yeah i feel like that would be awesome

@Hope-xn1sd

Жыл бұрын

true! that way they could understand each others point of view and learn to respect each other!

8:41 I want to give her a hug. She seems to be struggling a lot and hasn't exactly healed i hope she finds some peace within herself. She really needs a hug and i wish I could be there to give her a hug.

I wanna hug these girls... Don't give anyone the power to diminish you, ever. You're worth it, you're beautiful, you deserved to be loved. Sending all of them tons of good vibes... ;)

People in general need to be cared & loved.

If you are 13-14 or younger I highly recommend removing yourself from the toxicity of the internet or other social media sites. You are so young and have so much growth to do.❤❤❤ You are loved.

@kay-wj3jx

3 жыл бұрын

i’m not that young, i’m 16 and how can i remove toxicity around me when my own family is toxic asf?? the internet and social media have helped me realize all the things wrong. i feel like social media is a huge influence in how i am as a person

@elissao.6585

3 жыл бұрын

@@kay-wj3jx Dude, you are 16. This comment doesn't even apply to you. Keep doing what your doing, but social media is more detrimental than you think. What works for you, works for you. I myself have a rough family background with domestic violence and abuse. Your not alone. Good luck with your family and talk to someone about this. There are hotlines! I recommend doing something about it if you feel unsafe instead of living though it. Get out of there if you are not comfortable.

@miazlu2841

3 жыл бұрын

You are so right elissa, i am trying not to go on instagram more now because it really is so toxic

just a reminder your all loved

@what4688

3 жыл бұрын

thank you and so are you

@kowardlykow12

3 жыл бұрын

@@apocalypse_____ you’re gross.

@bellapogue9259

3 жыл бұрын

thank you:)

@peachycranberry

3 жыл бұрын

Have a wonderful day everyone! Stay safe! Hope all is well! ✨🙏🏾🤗🤍

@DragonYeng

3 жыл бұрын

God bless you

Whoever said their not happy for gaining a 4 year scholarship, your not alone. I’m also in the same situation. My parents expect me to go to college as well, especially if I don’t, I’ll seem like a burden to my family. It’s a struggle to meet your parents expectations.

This is my favourite series. Could we get men read secrets from teen boys next?

I’m a guy and I just wanna say right now that every girl and every woman out there is strong and powerful. Never let anyone especially a guy let you down like that. You are beautiful, you are amazing just the way you are. But never let anyone tell you the opposite. Be happy and take over the world just how you are. There’s nothing wrong with making a few changes to make yourself happy. Be happy in every way possible and really embrace yourself. Love yourself and stand out! All of you are powerful. Much love 🙏

I'm 16 and being teen girl is hard, struggling with body image, mental health, all the comments from people and the ridiculous expectations and standards. To all the teen girls reading this I know it's easier said but let's fight through this yea? You're strong, beautiful and I'm so proud of you sweetie, I believe in you. Love you

“I wish I could look in the mirror and not be disgusted in what I see” Wow this hit so hard

A person's perception of you does not define you. Don't know if anyone has told you this, but you are 10/10❤🦋 and don't let anyone tell you anything different. These women are so strong and so are you❤🦋👑

I'd actually love to see a follow up on this video relating to males because I think there's a lot of guys out there to who go through so much and struggle weather it be self confidence or many issues be nice to see from a male prospective to

@_empty_4945

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@Iforgothowtodothis

3 жыл бұрын

Yea, I have great grades and I'm a nice kid with hobbies but I feel weird and pressured into doing it sometimes, I'm 167cm and I'm 14 so I'm below average in height which makes me feel shitty. I hate studying and I like shooting my airgun and bow and arrow but I don't have much time for it. Life is hard for you girls

@xbsc

3 жыл бұрын

@@Iforgothowtodothis bro you're 14. You have atleast 5-6 years of growing to do. I know dudes my age who are 5' 2". Stay strong g.

@shisexee

3 жыл бұрын

@@Iforgothowtodothis young boys usually grow from 14 to 26 you might be a late bloomer.

@poocrayon4588

3 жыл бұрын

Most boys aren’t neurotic like this. Stop trying to make boys into girls

this generation has so much stress out on us in my opinion 😔

It’s kinda felt like “I was in the middle of street drowning but no one could see me dying.” Wow

9:10 I wish I could tell this woman that she made me smile for once, her words were so genuine and well said. We, teens dont hear this often, but we seriously dont need to have our entire lives figured out and thats okay..

"I think everybody at one point in their life think that they look ugly and unworthy." I used to think too. But now I don't think like that anymore. Your personality is dominating your looks.

Being my father's daughter is no easy, I love my dad very much but i will never marry a man like him. All he do is raise his voice at me but now he's so gentle with his girlfriend's daughter, I just hope he would treat me the same way he treats a child whose not even his own blood and flesh, I am forever jealous💔💔💔

as a teenage girl, all of these confessions hit SO HARD

@katy6939

3 жыл бұрын

this quote really helped me not overthink/doubt myself so much "hating yourself doesn't make the world a better place"

This series is something so simple and at the same special that I can not explain with words. Thank you ❤️ To the whole team of Jubilee

I wish that schools would teach girls to say “no” and boys to listen

@aayushpatel2788

3 жыл бұрын

That’s like schools using anti-bullying posters they don’t work sadly

“ I want someone to be there for me but I don’t want to reach out” Felt.

I think my biggest secret is that I don't have any friends. I mean I have people to talk at school but there is no one who I could tell my secrets and trust. And I hate the feeling when my family asks me when I'll do something when I don't have anyone to meet.

“I can tell my friends to be strong and love themselves but I can’t say that to myself”. This hits really hard for me. I’m always the very nice therapist friend. Many of my friends comes to me for advice and I give them some or if they are feeling down I’ll be their for them. It’s not the same with myself

5:47 is 100% exactly me. Good grades, good family. How could I be depressed?.. And like she said.. I want someone to be there.. but I’m too scared to reach out..

I don't want to take space here because this is for female empowerment but it is insane how relatable some of these confessions are as a young guy.

"Men read secrets from teen guys"

This breaks my heart for all of these women. It is crazy how much women go through that they try to take on by themselves. This is why we need to stick together and help build our fellow Sisters up into the best version of themselves! Thank you, Jubilee, for sharing this!

This is so hurtful, but so comforting at the same time to know you are not alone. Thank you for sharing ❤️

Sometimes I feel like I, as a teenager need to mature myself in order to understand what my parents want but they never mature themselves to listen what I want

I related to the card at 5:49 so much I could've written it. I feel for whoever wrote it and it's comforting to know I'm not alone. stay strong ❤️

sending sm love to all of my teen girls❤️ you’re so strong and beautiful and thankyou for being here!! this world is an amazing place because of you xx

Everybody, if no one has ever said this to you this day or yesterday then I'll claim it and it is really for you. . I love you :))

@cameronwood1197

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks🙂

@AreebProductions

3 жыл бұрын

I upload photo editing tutorials you can come if you want but it's totally fine if you don't

@sasha_bean

3 жыл бұрын

Love you too

@borntobehere4566

3 жыл бұрын

Love y'all 🥺🥺

@cripplingdepression6273

3 жыл бұрын

Love you guys :D

"pain is not a competition. just because someone has it worse than you does not mean your problems are invalid" -just a quote i wanted to share for the people who needed to hear it

@mew9948

3 жыл бұрын

thank you

@tanishkalondhe3543

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot for this, i surely needed it because I always felt that others are suffering more than me and my problems are invalid and small, and i wont get any help, this quote helped me a lot🥺❤

The fact that i can relate to those messages tears me up

i really hope they continue this series, as a teen girl watching these videos make me feel so much less alone. There are so many people out there who need to know that other people can relate, these videos matter and they make so much of a difference.

JUBILEE please do a "Men read secrets from teen boys" vid. PLEEEASSSEE!!!!!!!

Wow, it really shows the difference in how what people say can effect two different people. My mom points out when I gain weight and when I lose it. I don’t really like it, but it never gave me mental health issues because I know it comes from a good place. My family has a history of diabetes, so I understand why my mom harps on my body. This is why you need to know your kids and talk to them about how they feel when you say certain things. Some kids don’t mind that much, and for other kids, it could ruin them. I hope that girl can stand up to her parents and let them know how they’re affecting her.

This video honestly just went and put a lot of what I feel in to words that I could hear that didn't come from myself. I related so much with the self-conscious statements.

everyone needs to see these types of videos there so incredibly amazing and eye opening so thank you!

Most of the things that were said hit so much home. Thank you, Jubilee, for showing that people do feel that way and it's okay! Like... just the fact of knowing that I'm not alone is soothing

It’s sad that teenage girls think they need to change themselves to please others. As a reminder: you are loved ❤️

5:48 is literally me. i started crying because i can relate so much but i've never had my feelings put into words until i saw that so yh. 5:48 thats all i have to say

@tanishkalondhe3543

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you will come out and share with someone, I am always here if you want anyone to share

When you've gone through 7/10 things talked about in here..

i want to be friends with all of these women. they're literally so cool and spoke to things i needed to hear.

i'm super tiny, skinny, short, sensitive, mentally unstable. the only thing that i think keeps me safe is acting and dressing as a stereotyped man. i wear joggers and chains, my hair is short, i workout my arms so i don't look like an easy target

Here’s an idea that might work; Men read women’s darkest secrets, and Women read men’s darkest secrets?

All these women are so beautiful!

Teens! Please do what makes you happy, I'm 23 now and I regret not doing things I should have. At 23 you will feel really old and its like you missed so many things and you feel like your life is not going anywhere, You will really miss your youth. You know when you reach your 20's, it's like welcome to the world. If only I enjoyed my teenage life, I probably will not feel like this. It's a terrible feeling having regrets. Time is really precious so make the most of it.

My mom used to comment on my weight/what I was eating. It used to bother me a lot. As soon as I became more vocal, she stopped. It took a lot of yelling lol but it did work!

@K-TheLetter

3 жыл бұрын

You know what else would’ve worked? Sucking it up.

@emmarose6590

3 жыл бұрын

@@K-TheLetter found the incel

@recklessrioux8208

3 жыл бұрын

@@K-TheLetter I sucked it up enough to tell her to stop 😜 I was literally raised on the principal of "suck it up" 😅 my parents made me walk 3 miles with a broken ankle. I have a PHD in "sucking it up" 🤣

@K-TheLetter

3 жыл бұрын

@@emmarose6590 You clearly don’t know what “incel” means. Want a definition? Well, here you go. A member of an online community of young men who consider themselves unable to attract women sexually, typically associated with views that are hostile towards women and men who are sexually active. And that most certainly isn’t me.

@K-TheLetter

3 жыл бұрын

@@recklessrioux8208 Lol, anyways, suck it up.

the drowning in a middle of the street and no one can see me hit me so hard it’s only lately did my family realize i’m not doing so well and that i haven’t been eating much either none of my friends know bc i just want to support them and not let them into my life’s problem even tho they let me in there’s

I was sobbing all the way through this . I know what it feels like to feel like if u open up you are now in danger . To feel like you aren’t enough even though you are trying so so hard .

I’m 15 and i really needed this because lately i’ve been feeling so hopeless and sad. I’ve been dealing with mental health issues since I was about 9-10 years old due to some traumatic experiences. I was getting better but now I’m back to feeling worthless, ugly, not good enough, and I’ve just lost motivation. everyone thinks i’m happy since I have straight As and I’m a person that hates opening up because i feel selfish. I’ve never felt so ugly but hearing some of this makes me feel somewhat better. I’m just so tired but I have some hope that things will get better.

I was always the “supportive” or “smart” person in my friend group. I would always keep everyone from fighting and make sure everyone was happy. I can’t really say the same about myself though. I was taking all my focus on other people’s problems and just putting on the side. But I was so insecure about my body, or the way that I talk.

I think a big issue that society doesn’t really talk about enough is that parent’s comments truly hurt more than anyone else’s comments. You always want your parents to say “it’s okay” or something else that will give you comfort. I hope society can learn that soon.

I'm a teen and this hit close to home, now I'm crying. Great video, it’s good to know I'm not the only one struggling, I wish them all good luck.

As a teenager myself, I relate to some of these secrets a lot.

A very touching video. It made me feel less alone.

I’m in-love with this series!

You should do teen boys see what’s on their head

@yael9632

3 жыл бұрын

I was just thinking of that

@poocrayon4588

3 жыл бұрын

They’re not neurotic like these girls.

@slipperysloth4285

3 жыл бұрын

@@poocrayon4588 never know

@poocrayon4588

3 жыл бұрын

@@slipperysloth4285 Yeah I do

Imagine these women weren’t reading strangers secrets but rather their own and that’s why they related and shared a similar story

It broke my heart when mom said ' I was the most selfish child in world and I haven't achieved anything than crying ' they always consider me rude when I try to be myself

@acelya414

3 жыл бұрын

it's okay to cry, it's healthier to express your emotions rather than repressing them. I'm sorry your mum isn't more supportive of you, try not to listen to what she says, maybe communicating to her that what she says hurts your feelings could help. if it's any consolation you're not alone, and many people's relationships with their mothers improve as they get older but even if that doesn't happen you will meet many people who care about you and love you for who you are

To anyone out there who is going through a mental health issue please remember things do get better and comments, friends and crushes that mean so much right now really don't matter in the long run. Love you❤❤❤

You’re all valid and amazing, I’m going through a dark time but ladies and guys reading this you will pull through and better days are coming I promise. Be strong if anyone wants to talk I’m here x

you should more of these...i love looking at these..i can relate to some of them

my story, if anyone wants to hear it: almost exactly like 6:12. i’m the good girl, yet i suffer from anxiety because of the complications of my parents divorce. i’ve recently overcome the fact that my mother cheated on my dad with my music teacher, something i would’ve never thought my mom, nor my favorite teacher, was capable of. i always seem second best to my best friends or like i never fit in anywhere. i asked the people in my friend group why they never choose me, and turns out i’m “too pretty” or “too good” at whatever it is. i deal with all of this because my school is so small there is barely anyone else. they also don’t tell me things because i’m “too innocent” and i wouldn’t understand. and so i feel like i can’t tell them anything because no matter how much i ask them to confide in me, it’s always in someone else. i’m 14

It's crazy how being a teen girl I trust my diary more than anyone else, although people laugh at the thought of writing diaries in this generation...

@acelya414

3 жыл бұрын

nah keeping a diary is great because it can help you process your emotions and understand yourself better, and it's always, always better to let out your thoughts and feelings rather than keeping them bottled up. I think journaling is becoming more popular as well as people recommend it as a form of self care/for mental health. who cares if people laugh tbh, as long as it's helping you that's what matters most :)

@aniqatabassum6922

3 жыл бұрын

@@acelya414 Thank you so much sis💕, I seriously appreciate you for the time you took to reply. And as diary writing's concerned, I guess it's sorta turning into my eternal bff lately...no complains, no judgements! 😅😄 Btw, just wanted to ask do you often write them too?