The way every single woman can relate to someone is truly scary.

@sparksfly6149

4 жыл бұрын

It is. Goes to show what they go through, doesn’t it?

@zain6008

4 жыл бұрын

They hand pick each one and give it to someone who will relate with that.

@janinejay3423

4 жыл бұрын

@Zain Al-Shallah Really???

@tristanlj3409

4 жыл бұрын

It's really not

@dayleo

4 жыл бұрын

@@tristanlj3409 yes, it's terrifying

2:44 "when i was raped for the first time" it's shocking to hear it might've been more than once and that just breaks my heart.

@LiliTierney

5 жыл бұрын

magna solanki I cried because it felt like i was speaking to myself.

@nunu-uu2kc

5 жыл бұрын

@@notarea5193 why do u care?

@nunu-uu2kc

5 жыл бұрын

@@notarea5193 thats rude

@notarea5193

5 жыл бұрын

nura smy I was just trying to give internet support, because she basically said she was speaking to herself

@Sam-gw3xz

5 жыл бұрын

@@notarea5193 the way you said that was just rude

"when I was raped for the first time" should never be a sentence said so casually

@nicholaskraft880

4 жыл бұрын

Leroy Harris should never be a sentence said at all. Horrible

@lovebug6388

4 жыл бұрын

It's my sentence unfortunately😭 and they do blame you for it......

@tokismth319

4 жыл бұрын

@@lovebug6388 same

@CiphersWon

4 жыл бұрын

wasn't said casually but yeah

@Ragdoll161

4 жыл бұрын

It should never be a sentence even thought

4:08 “...Choked me.. yelled at me, raped me...” “...” “..He hurt me. A lot.” *smiles* :(

@evanmatthew484

4 жыл бұрын

When she was giving advice, I got the sense she was also talking to herself. Everything she said stuck w me, wish I could have a conversation w her

@TheYearOfLauran

4 жыл бұрын

I think she was trying to make the people listening more comfortable with what she just said. As if by smiling she could convey that she was okay now and they shouldn't worry about her. I really related to her because I do the same thing.

@sarah12232

4 жыл бұрын

That looked like a smile of a warrior/survivor...

@nanettakartika8038

4 жыл бұрын

her smile literally hits me

@desireehindman5845

4 жыл бұрын

It’s sad how the people we thought we loved the most that we describe as our “rock” inflict the most pain on us.

He followed her because she said "bless you?" And then people wonder why women go out in packs.

@sheisbrit17

4 жыл бұрын

@Rusty Shackleford They can do what they want. Dude shouldn't have been a fuckin creep.

@sheisbrit17

4 жыл бұрын

@@zain6008 I didnt make it anything. It is what it is.

@bimyself274

4 жыл бұрын

Zain Al-Shallah I’m concerned on how you don’t see this as a issue

@jacksertal3039

4 жыл бұрын

@@bimyself274 Every one should have the right to go out with no fear, even if it's 4 PM.......love from italy :)

@bimyself274

4 жыл бұрын

jack sertal 😊

My heart just broke, dropped, and fell into pieces. "When I was raped for the first time." You are so strong, so strong.

@SabatSch95

5 жыл бұрын

How is that being strong? I'm not saying she isn't, I don't know her, but how does THAT make her strong?

@deargifty

5 жыл бұрын

@@SabatSch95 the fact that she is still here, alive, day by day living with what happened to her and sharing her story with us, the world. She has the strength to do that and she's so strong to be able to put herself out there because I know many of us wouldn't.

@SabatSch95

5 жыл бұрын

@@deargifty Rape isn't life-threatening in and of itself. That doesn't mean what she had to go through didn't suck... doesn't mean it wouldn't have been incredibly hard to deal with psychologically (especially as a woman). But that also doesn't mean what she went through was comparable to someone who experienced attempted murder. And why is it strong to "put yourself out there"? Again, I just don't see it. She isn't being judged, she isn't facing contempt for coming out. Everyone supports her. It's commendable and healthy, sure. Brave and strong? Absolutely not. Putting your own life on the line to save others, THAT's brave. Enduring and accepting suffering in service of others, THAT's strong. True bravery would be to retaliate and attack the rapist, to make your stand. Obviously, as a woman, that may not be particularly smart, so I don't blame her AT ALL. I'm just saying, this isn't an example of bravery. What you're doing is like saying someone who fell off a building and had to have their leg amputated or something is "strong" and "brave" for going through such an experience. This woman didn't choose to be raped. I really think you need to be more precise with these types of compliments. It almost seems like you're glorifying it to some degree.

@sunny_x4764

5 жыл бұрын

@@SabatSch95 he meant as in mentally strong. It doesn't have to be physically strong by doing an action or etc. She's strong to speak out knowing that there's many women out there went through the same thing but never voiced out because of how society will judge them. It is not easy, because people will say you're asking for it if you're just wearing pants and shirt. Yes, I agree to that person, she is mentally strong

@blor3664

5 жыл бұрын

That's your opinion, you don't get to decide what's brave and what's not. You are comparing a traumatic moment of violation to falling off a building, it may not be surviving death but a part of you does die. I get it, you think services such as police and military are brave and strong. And they are. No one is glorifying her experience of surviving rape. Fighting back, not everyone reacts the same way. Is a person less if they don't fight hard enough. People freeze up during tense moments. Your thoughts are superficial, perhaps try harder to understand what the mental trauma a person has to go through.

You should do men reading women's secrets or vice versa.

@weezer7757

4 жыл бұрын

Yes

@ruthmuange459

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@maronchen5982

4 жыл бұрын

Omg please.

@johnnyandseb

3 жыл бұрын

@@weezer7757 what's your profile based on bud?

@yourownpersonaljesus2108

3 жыл бұрын

10 months later where is this episode already?

"The silent mornings when the mirror does not want your name Speak it anyway." This whole video was beautiful, as was the poem. I'll be following this poet's work going forward.

@metamaeta

4 жыл бұрын

What was the poet's name? Or link? Pls and thx

@michellejiang2017

4 жыл бұрын

@@metamaeta Her name's Alyesha Wise and the poem she just recited was "A Love Spell to Those I Call Sis"

I'm 23 and I've never dated anybody... I'm honestly scared to become vulnerable like that.

@Theworldisbeautiful9

5 жыл бұрын

WaffleAssassin 21 and same

@JhozetteAnn

5 жыл бұрын

I personally think vulnerability is a beautiful thing for personal growth.

@MzImperfectCrys

5 жыл бұрын

@@JhozetteAnn Someone said that to me before.

@JhozetteAnn

5 жыл бұрын

@@MzImperfectCrys it's true from personal experience. But its important to know the difference between personal vulnerability and feeling vulnerable because of someone else

@pulchrasum6172

5 жыл бұрын

@@JhozetteAnn how can it be beautiful for growth?

*"my parents wanted a son"* unfortunately, i've had to live with that fact drilled into my head too...

@reybeach189

5 жыл бұрын

bionicflora I hope u don’t let that effect u too much ur a special kind of a girl that God blessed ur fam with. They just don’t see that yet 🖤

@jasmin4399

5 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry. Just remember that it doesn’t matter if you are a boy or a girl. Your parents should be happy with what they have, an amazing and unique person.

@joycewawa3591

5 жыл бұрын

I love you❤️

@elytrumi

5 жыл бұрын

gypsy lab bruh does it matter?

@ellavansloten7306

5 жыл бұрын

bionicflora, I was I twin. My brother died right after being born and I(a girl) survived. Later on my parents got divorced when I was 7 and they told me that it was my fault and that they wished that I would have been the twin to die.

as a guy myself, i'm absolutely disgusted by how men can be, and i respect every woman for what they've been through. stay strong, everyone.

@haketyu7891

4 жыл бұрын

Gosh guys be nice. The comment was harmless and good

@spacekees102

4 жыл бұрын

Same I always ask if they really wanna do it because if they dont REALLY want it my lust is gone right away. Guess they are that desperate for sex they have to abuse someone..

@nano3735

4 жыл бұрын

박 재진 simp on a whole other level

@christianrqq

4 жыл бұрын

Generic Name completely agree with you

@chappie3642

4 жыл бұрын

@@liveridge2696 what should he do lmao

My father killed himself when I was 9. I have never recovered. It has been so hard being a boy growing up without a father. You get way ahead of your years. You start to worry about stuff you shouldn't worry about. I have to try so hard just to keep myself from freaking out in the middle of class. I sometimes just cant pulled myself out of bed in the morning and end up just crying till my next alarm. This is nothing a middle schooler should experience.

@honya9901

4 жыл бұрын

DarkBoyAssassin you are going to grow up to be a strong person I have faith

@honya9901

4 жыл бұрын

DarkBoyAssassin excuse you I am 17 😂

@min_nad

4 жыл бұрын

Have you tried going to therapy? It helped me a lot 💖

@haniabatool433

4 жыл бұрын

You are an amazing stong person i appreciate you haven't given up and wish you the best

@rikkecookgyve2052

4 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry ❤️🥀

“When I was raped for the first time...” Oh my God. That is so sad. My heart breaks for her.

@manager-nim2623

4 жыл бұрын

I don't think I can survive one let alone multiple, she's so so strong to be able to survive

@barshana6231

4 жыл бұрын

Mine too. I really don't get it how can a person do such thing and then blame the victims.

The woman that said she was married for 13 years had me *SHOOK* . I literally thought she was early 20s Thanks for all the likes!!

@KatE-yc6bn

5 жыл бұрын

Dane Weaver Thank you! This means a lot. 🖤

@kellymurtha4402

5 жыл бұрын

Kat E omg you are beautiful

@floralstripes8001

5 жыл бұрын

Asians

@Kimarleyj

5 жыл бұрын

Yooo me too! And Kat E, you’re beautiful 💛

@grades6831

5 жыл бұрын

She was reading someone elses

My 9th grade english teacher once told me, "No solace for the sympathetic." meaning, their is nobody to comfort the one giving comfort; which derives down to a sad truth: None are willing to help the helper when they only care about being helped, and not being the helper; to take, but never give.

@shehimaliyah3816

4 жыл бұрын

Amazing, I'm writing that down

@tee7423

3 жыл бұрын

@Soniya Kabdwal lol same

@Hamppariranskis

2 жыл бұрын

Which is why you really have to limit how much of yourself you give to others, you can't help everyone and you have to help yourself first.

When I was 14, I went to El Salvador with my mother. There, I met my family that I never seen before.. but when my mother was gone, I was molested multiple times by my own cousin and called me many things. I didn't know who to tell, or what to say. I was scared to even tell my mom because she loved him so much and respected him. Once we left, I had lost so much weight. I was 5'6 and weighed 110 lbs. I even began to self mutilate my entire body cause I hated what he had done to me. Once I actually told my mom and he confronted him, he denied it and said something was wrong with me. That I was crazy and making it up. Since then, I had a hard time living. I was depressed, had many panic attacks, and was suicidal cause in my entire life of 20 years I've been molested by many people. I had such a hard time making friends and I couldn't form a relationship. Thankfully, I'm alright now. I learned to move on, keep pushing forward no matter what happened. I'm now about to be married, I have one friend who is my everything, and working my way to getting my bio major. Even now though, I hesitated to even speak about what had happened.

@adyna8494

4 жыл бұрын

Hi, I wanna say that ur story really touched me and i'm happy to hear that it is getting better. Opening up and dealing with it takes a higher level of courage and is not to be taking lightly. You should reward yourself for stepping up for something so traumatic and being able to live a normal live after it. Hope ur still doing okay till this day!

@preszlyi907

4 жыл бұрын

im so sorry u had to experience this i could never imagine going through such a traumatic experience. just know that it wasnt ur fault and that u didn’t deserve it even though i dont know you i want to let u know thag im proud of you for speaking up about your story and staying strong i love you and hope god blesses you with good in your life ❤️

@Ocer.

4 жыл бұрын

this needs more likes this is so horrible *EDIT:* this needs more likes because it needs to be seen more, but the attention span of humanity have went down to a fork so sadly people can't be bothered to read it, this could be such a huge inspiration for people who are in the same situation and this needs to be seen

@sevendevilz205

3 жыл бұрын

i'm sorry you had to go through that. None of that was your fault. I'm happy for you for being able to overcome that. I hope you're still doing great now.

@roselife6744

3 жыл бұрын

I love u sis . I know u can and u will . I am supporting u. I am with u

Hold up... “The first time?” We gotta pray for this woman’s safety 🙏🏿

@Bekka_boo13

5 жыл бұрын

her 'friends' anit her real friends...you never blame the victim x

@leokw6987

5 жыл бұрын

Ορέστης why would somebody lie about something that brings them so much pain? Why would you choose not to believe someone who has gone through that? Imagine if that person was your sister, your mother, your friend, you. would you believe them?

@lillycamp8892

5 жыл бұрын

sadly this is the reality for many women

@lillycamp8892

5 жыл бұрын

@@Its_Maylay i hope men learn not to rape

@user-vs1uw1ws3v

5 жыл бұрын

FantaMag most women don’t get punished for falsely accusing but the falsely accused men suffer from their lives being destroyed

First Of All Sis, that poem was EVERYTHING.

@Nana-hb4os

4 жыл бұрын

What’s her insta?

@nefertirilsm3406

4 жыл бұрын

Is it on YT???

@bushra4827

4 жыл бұрын

Her name is Alyesha Wise. I listen to her spoken word a lot and was surprised to see her in this. She’s awesome ❤️

@yeuxdange6289

4 жыл бұрын

EVERYTHING

@acutepatootie2677

4 жыл бұрын

PERIODT.

I had to do something like this in a behavioral psychology class. The instructor told us to write something that happened to us that kind of traumatized us, and we put it in something, and everyone read something different. Thats when i realized how fucked up the world was and gave me a new perspective to life. The person sitting next to me could have been the one who wrote they were abused, neglected, molested, raped, etc... i didnt know. And yeah, the stranger sitting next to you in class, in a bus stop, coffee shop, whatever, they may be able to write a novel about all the messed up things in their life. Thats why we should never judge anyone without knowing their full story...

@nishtha1315

4 жыл бұрын

This is so true!

@sparksfly6149

4 жыл бұрын

I’ve noticed that the people with the least problems complain the most. The people that have gone through the most are the quietist, because they know they have more to worry about.

@microwave8931

3 жыл бұрын

Why is rape and molestation so common? I see people saying they were rape/molested. I was abused (mentally and sexually) by none other than my dad. It started when I was around 3. I am 15. Right now, my mom is fighting for her to have full custody of me. This might have been to personal, but I never got to tell anyone. I thought my abuse was normal, and now I can speak out about it.

@MyProGamer10

3 жыл бұрын

@@microwave8931 I saw this comment somewhere else on here, but I will still say it. As a 21-year-old male, I am absolutely disgusted by how some men act. Hopefully you have other positive males in your life. And hopefully they can make a bigger impact than your father.

@karenmitchell77

2 жыл бұрын

We did something similar in my high school Psychology class. We had to write about our life story and what happened in our lives. The teacher only read them. But there was one lady who's story stood out. The teacher asked if she could share her story. She was one of the preppy girls. She had told us how her dad physically, verbally, mentally abused her, her older sister and her mom. She talked about how her sister was raped by her dad and how she felt jealous how her dad and her sister were so close. She talked about how the mom resented her sister that was being raped. My heart broke that day. It's been 8+ years sense I was in the class and I still remember her face and her story to this day.

The beautiful woman with the orange hair and lepeord print shirt speaks so calmly and gave a wonderful speech. I thank her for making me feel better.

@fenecofeneco19

2 жыл бұрын

it wasn't her point,and it wasn't a poem.

@dfraurskhsyip9522

2 жыл бұрын

@@fenecofeneco19 why?

@aliquidgaming1068

2 жыл бұрын

Brah one of us in color blind cause her hair look red

I wanna cry cause my mom was raped by a police officer walking from the store nd she didnt get the proper justice.....he was just out of a job

@fmjjjjn7510

4 жыл бұрын

My friend got raped by her tutor she didn't tell her mum until a year later, she didnt tell her dad because she didn't want him to blame her mother because she was in the other room. She was 12-13 he was 27

@mrnolalife

4 жыл бұрын

Strong men too they also get abused a lot just don't show it

@fmjjjjn7510

4 жыл бұрын

Nvm she didn't tell her mum she sees her in the streets everyday chilling with his friends

@elafalkazzaz9755

4 жыл бұрын

AppleSas yes. it’s called the blue curtain :(

@hammydammy123

4 жыл бұрын

Mr Nolalife yep just as sad.

I feel like Jubilee is one of the most underrated KZread Channels. They've really allowed me to open up my eyes and see the world and I thank you guys for that. I really wish more people knew about your channel

@quickthanos9096

5 жыл бұрын

Its not underrated wdym

@bhavneet5305

5 жыл бұрын

NoFING No hate but what I'm trying to say is they deserve A LOT more attention. They're dong so much good to the world. They do have 3 MIL subs but I really wish they had a lot more. I'm not saying that they're unsuccessful just wish they were more popular.

@quickthanos9096

5 жыл бұрын

@@bhavneet5305 calm down..

@bhavneet5305

4 жыл бұрын

NoFING Ok?

@LyzAgnew

4 жыл бұрын

Bhavneet Ghumman you don't need to "calm down", i don't under that person's comment of saying that to you. i completely agree with you. this is my favorite youtube channel. it makes me feel all the feelings. it opens my eyes to all of the people around the world & their differing experiences. it helps an empath like me feel good about the amount of empathy i hold for others. this channel really is amazing. i'm so grateful it exists ☺️

When I was 14 I went to this high school party and I was raped. I woke up in the morning with my panties down and in some random room. I felt sore and I had bruises. I didn’t tell anyone in fear of being rejected. I was under the influence of alcohol. 3 years later I came foward to a teacher and I was interviewed. They told me it was my fault and that I shouldn’t have been drunk. I remember everything up until a point where I passed out. I remember saying no, despite being under the influence. I remember my dad telling me I was lying and that I was attention seeking. It broke me to pieces. Well I didn’t receive justice because of lack of evidence and I couldn’t provide a description of my rapist. I still get glimpses/flashbacks till this day and I just hope one day I can get over this and start to trust men again.

@alittlerobot1469

4 жыл бұрын

I just want to say that I dont know you, but i love you. You are strong, beautiful, and who ever eventually wins your heart will be very lucky. I say this not knowing what you look like, how you act, or how you live. I say this because you are a human who deserves to be loved properly, who has the bravery to say their story in front of so many people. Stay strong. Always remember that no matter what, you are beautiful and loved.

@toxicv3x

4 жыл бұрын

Not Here I love you so much. I’m in tears right now, I appreciate you very much❤️❤️

@RoderSTatsTV

4 жыл бұрын

We are out there, the good men, you will just have to notice us, go to places where good men are at, good men typically are not at parties

@TheGreatWoL

4 жыл бұрын

It's a shame that this has ever happened to anyone, I am so sorry you ever had to endure that kind of pain and turmoil. I see you're taking time to try and move past this and you are certainly stronger for it. As long as you continue to move forward with an even remotely positive outlook, I am sure you will find a good trusting man that will put your mind at ease, at least a little more. You are already worthy and deserving of that kind of good nature, proper care and love. No one should ever tell you otherwise. Please continue to do your best and stay the strong person you already are

@preszlyi907

4 жыл бұрын

i believe you and im so sorry you had to go through this no person should ever have to go through this. i just want to tell you that its NOT your fault and it doesn’t matter if you were under the influence you still said no. i also want to tell you how proud i am of you for finding the courage to share your story and to come forward to your parents even though it didnt go so well, i love you so so much even though i dont know you once again i believe you and im very proud of you❤️

When she said " When I was raped the first time" my heart fell

Now switch it. Have men read women's secrets, and vice versa.

@angeliparraguirre7329

5 жыл бұрын

Now that's a pretty good idea. Read and weep kids.

@coldmayorelish6466

5 жыл бұрын

Kbear2097 they already have that

@patrickhodson8715

5 жыл бұрын

Barque Obama where?

@wendoversss

3 жыл бұрын

@Melon Sauce Can't find it

I remember, when i was younger, i used to read statistics about the amount of women that were sexually assaulted and raped and I used to think "that would never happen to me, and if it did, i wouldn't be scared to tell someone or say no" until I was 13 and I was sexually assaulted by a family member as i slept. Multiple times. I would wake up as he was fondling me and I was too scared to move or tell anyone during the day. At the time i was too young to understand that it was sexual assault. I felt guilty that I couldn't tell anyone. I blamed myself because I was just too scared to move and tell him to stop. Now whenever someone touches me while I'm sleeping I jump up from my bed in fear. It's something that has stuck with me and wherever I hear other people's stories I get very emotional.

@katie-ll8hi

5 жыл бұрын

Lesly Rodriguez I’m so sorry that had to happen to you 💔i hope you’re okay now, u deserve only good things

@helbertrodriguez6449

4 жыл бұрын

Take the thorn out and let the wound heal . Don't blame yourself

@kippesolo8941

4 жыл бұрын

Did you tell your family about this person? If not, its time.

@pimpdadskies

4 жыл бұрын

Same thing happened to me and to this day I flinch when people touch me and get uncomfortable when they get too close to me. But I did tell my mother after so so many years. And it felt great. It allowed me to deal with it and not keep it inside. I'm still healing to this day but I'm in a loving relationship where I don't flinch, I don't distance myself, I don't put up walls. It takes time to heal and telling a loved one who won't judge you will help. ❣️

@miloisbaby7482

4 жыл бұрын

@@kippesolo8941 Its their decision to tell people, not yours.

I have been raped three times. All in separate instances, different ages, by different people. Rape isn’t a joke. Rape is real.

@breadsrights6824

3 жыл бұрын

Oh my god I’m so sorry

@manasprabhu8915

3 жыл бұрын

How are you doing?? Sending power to you!

@Kara-ch4nr

3 жыл бұрын

hey i love you. and i see you. and i’m so proud of you

Sometimes, it seems as though you can't even be nice to people anymore. A simple kind act of saying " bless you", can bring a stalker and potentially so much more, and that's the sad reality.

@boredshrimp9425

3 жыл бұрын

I stopped being nice to men a long time ago, if it's not necessary I won't interact with men

When she said “the first time I got raped,...” first time... that broke my heart. And those aren’t friends the ones that said those things to her.

My ex emotionally abused me I’m a guy but some people don’t understand that as a guy it’s hard to come out with this. I hope these women have a blessed life wish them the best 🙏🏽

@usernamenotfound1563

5 жыл бұрын

Ikr?? It's horrible, on one side women have to fight for their rights but the consequence is people not taking seriousely men who go through the same thing, it's endless.. Hope you feel okay now, I'm sorry you went through this 💕

@LordLazo

5 жыл бұрын

fuhjrvr Stop being a beta male

@saintjontel

5 жыл бұрын

King Lazo what..

@lilianawood9957

5 жыл бұрын

I, and hopefully many others, wish you the best too!

@christinaedmiston8790

5 жыл бұрын

I’m sorry you had to go through that my ex emotionally abused me too. Honestly,it’s something that is hurting them inside which gets projected onto you they take it out on you on the wrong people. ,But at the end of the day karma is real, and trust me they’ll get theirs!🙏🏽❤️stay strong 💪🏽

When I was like 12, I went to cinema with my friends for the first time and my brother was late to pick me up so everybody left and I was alone waiting for my brother. A man (probably 40-45 years old) tried to talk to me and to follow me. I was so scared and I couldn’t say anything. When I went to car I was so traumatised and cried in the car. When my brother found out he was so angry because I blamed myself and didn’t tell him what happened in the first place. And still, I’m so scared when I’m talking to men that are older than me.

@sophiamr4008

4 жыл бұрын

Oh my I do feel you. I mean there is my cousins uncle (not from my family tree) who like compliments me and stuff and sometimes I find it kind of "cute" but some other times I feel weird. I have this weird fuzzy memory of me at age 7? I guess, trying to kiss him on the cheek and then he turns his head and i kiss him on the mouth. Which doesnt mean anything to him, but I just remember it and feel.... weird. I don't know. He didn't do that you know... but doing something like that to another person CAN be traumatic Even when somebody follows you, sht I have been in this situation. And I remember going to different roads of my area, so that he wont know where I live...then he went away when I tried to talk to the baker... Sometimes you have to improvise doing simple yet important things.. Sometimes it's good to talk to the bakers or neighbors 😂

@jacksters19

4 жыл бұрын

I’m sorry this happened to you :/ but please know you are liked and loved 💗

@cityfantv-everythingmancit2946

3 жыл бұрын

h e y y y o u oh that happened to me with an older woman a supermarket but I know that most older ladies are nice

@heyyyou7052

3 жыл бұрын

CityFanTv -everything man city it’s scary af

@sevendevilz205

3 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry this happened to you. Please know that you are loved and none of that was your fault.

“You must hv wanted it” Bro rape is force, how could anyone want that, I know most wouldn’t

@aestheticyou.

3 жыл бұрын

*anyone wouldn't

@roderickfennell7385

3 жыл бұрын

@@aestheticyou. you’d be surprised..

@abdullahbinjahed6900

3 жыл бұрын

@@aestheticyou. you'd be surprised how many women have rape fetish

@user-me8hy8ew4o

3 жыл бұрын

@@abdullahbinjahed6900 how many? 1 in a million maybe. Never heard of anyone.

@abdullahbinjahed6900

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-me8hy8ew4o I've heard it ... especially from women

My cousin, who was a girl, sexually assulted me. She took off her clothes and made me do the same. I never told anyone. I was only 9 and i didnt know what it meant. I didnt even know what sex was. So i look back at it now and realize she took advantage of my childish mind. I was naive. That side of our family was messed up. Incest, paedophilia, and underage smoking, drinking, and doing drugs. We were the ones that stood out. We were clean. But they always tried to change us. We no longer see that side of the family.

@jasminebarnes4434

5 жыл бұрын

Awww poor thing 😔

@waterfallsdontsaymeow2917

5 жыл бұрын

Stay strong

@jazzv611

5 жыл бұрын

Same thing happend to me but i thought the guy was family which he wasnt .... but im just going to say this after the rape i was never right mentally i was maybe 8 or younger but i was sexually fustrated i didnt take it as fear it was pleasing i wasnt normal as a child i wanted to experience sex at a younge age ... sounds so disturbing but thats just how i felt i told my older sister and she told my parents.nothing was ever done.

@sethmorgan5767

5 жыл бұрын

My cousins and siblings have done the same to me I was really little so like you I was naive and I didn't really get it I'm not apart from them because I've never said anything I'm afraid that people will think it was my fault but I was only 10

@lalele9976

5 жыл бұрын

Sweet ol’ Alabama

ok but imma need that womans poetry page or whatever cuz poet to poet that was dope.

@phoenixwing5133

5 жыл бұрын

Right? Gave me chills.

@lilypotter8303

5 жыл бұрын

Alyesha wise is her name. I’m a poet too and I have to say I could tell she was a spoken word poet (like myself) from the way she spoke whilst reading the secret.

@user-lz3kr5pc7x

5 жыл бұрын

Lily Potter Thank you! ❤️❤️

@filmfilms9579

4 жыл бұрын

@@lilypotter8303 what's your @?

@kkomm9725

4 жыл бұрын

I loved it!

The women who had red curly hair made me cry as she spoke so softly and so nicely...

I’m mad af bc i can’t protect all the girls in the world

@procrastinartist2825

4 жыл бұрын

me too 💚 i wish all girls were strong enough to stand for themselves !

@avaa4122

4 жыл бұрын

Tanish Upreti of course guys as well, but this episode, being about how women are often treated poorly, sort of takes away the impact. It's not about inequality or treating women higher, it is about trying to seek justice.

@ivyaurelian4831

4 жыл бұрын

@Tanish Upreti stop being so mad that men aren't mentioned everytime everywhere. The whole thing was about women and their struggle to exist. So stop taking even the minimal right just speak about it. It ain't about you or "men" it is about women learn to accept that. It's not always you have to remind people that "men too" in a certain situation when you and I both know that women suffer way more in daily walks of life than any man plus men are always talked more about in any society. Not everything is about them learn to respect that.

@aetherananke

4 жыл бұрын

Why don't you go say that to everyone talking about women on the men video?

@diegorystadt4754

4 жыл бұрын

Simp

when i was in my 8th grade year, i got together with a guy. i *thought* i loved him. he came to my house one night and he gave me oral sex, and i told him. “hey we need to stop because i need to learn how to say no”. he just hushed me and laid me down and continued. i froze. i didn’t know what to do. after he went home. i cried. i didn’t know why. it was so uncomfortable. it hurt so much. rape isn’t always a situation where the guy or girl forces you down and you’re screaming and crying. it can also be a quite quite yell and scream for help nobody can hear.

@Eva-kq8no

5 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you. What a terrible thing to happen to you at such a young age. God bless you.

@skarlet_rue

5 жыл бұрын

Howdy Y'all Thank you so much for the support❤️

@HassanSharieff

5 жыл бұрын

That’s awful. Some people unfortunately just can’t take no for an answer. I hope you’ve told a trusted adult because you can’t just let this slide

@image_not_uploaded

5 жыл бұрын

i’m sorry that happened to you. That’s a horrible thing to go through and i sincerely hope you’re doing better now. stay strong ❤️

@craftshiftersgaming2800

5 жыл бұрын

@@kailioo2xwtf

0:49 I can relate to this. I feel so unsafe as a girl walking at night. I'm only 13 I shouldn't be scared of going home

@bun-e9361

5 жыл бұрын

Lol I'm a girl, 18, and go walking outside at night alone way past midnight, that's not to say you should too but good grief, this fear mongering is so debilitating, we deserve freedom too. In certain areas i know not to do it, but it's not applicable everywhere. Women need to just prioritize their safety and take extra precautions, but we don't deserve to live in fear. Screw that.

@algonzalez6853

5 жыл бұрын

You're sadly the product of feminist victimazation brainwashing

@JosephAliDeeb

5 жыл бұрын

A B carry weapons? That is going to make things worse. You can avoid many confrontations without weapons

@chocaren4602

5 жыл бұрын

@@algonzalez6853 yeah because having an actual concern, specially if you live in a unsafe country, is all blamed on the feminists. 🙄 I like how you go through every comment and you leave your feedback trying to cause some unneeded negativity and confrontation. I guess the only one with an actual agenda here is you, which is indeed ironic. 😂

@xqcpog7597

5 жыл бұрын

LJ ok? I’m a guy and I don’t feel safe going out at night either. Men are victims violence more than women

"I was raped.." No... "For the first time" NOO WHAT WHY

I grew up dealing with an abusive dad and knowing I was something he wanted to disappear, to have never been, or to die so he didn't have to deal with me, and it sucked away at me until I thought I was nothing. I treated myself like nothing. But then I got so desperate to be dead that I realized I had to promise myself- if he wanted me to die so badly I could not just lay down and let myself get buried. To live is the greatest protest. To live is to rebel. I have to live.

@yokedici6432

4 жыл бұрын

I may not be good at psychology or may not be able to fully analyze the situation but I think your father has some trouble. Maybe it was about his past or environment but this is not an excuse. I hope this doesn't affect you more. I had a friend and she did not see herself successful in anything. I convinced her to be more of herself, and now she has great social skills and a great leader who organises parties and events. I hope you find the area where your talents shine.

@greylarkspur

4 жыл бұрын

@@yokedici6432 thank you. I know it was emotional and physical abuse that happened to him that in turn caused him to do so to us. I don't hate him. I am sad for him, for who he was and what he shout have been able to be. But I also know I can never change him and that my goal is to never hurt anyone like I was hurt. I want to become something my kids will admire in some small way.

@T_Cup

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for making such an intelligent promise, even if it was out of desperation. I hope you keep rebelling and live long and happily.

@tee7423

3 жыл бұрын

i feel u

That poem was phenomenal.

@arielwoodham551

5 жыл бұрын

MadDilla ATCQstarr if you know anything about poetry, you know not all of it rhymes whatsoever.

@EmelyFavela

5 жыл бұрын

MadDilla ATCQstarr just become a poem doesn’t rhyme doesn’t mean it’s boring etc, or isn’t a poem . But I respect your opinion 😁

@charbrock6005

5 жыл бұрын

@MadDilla ATCQstarr not all poems need to rhyme? but okay, i understand if thats just not ur style

@tiagarner8923

5 жыл бұрын

I’m looking for the script!

@theharshtruth8563

5 жыл бұрын

Humpty Dumpty sat on a wall Then he ate corn on the cob All the kings horses and all the kings men Prefer BBQ ribs and collard greens instead Hmm... you're right. Poems that don't rhyme are lame.

1:06 "I'm maybe infertile , it breaks my heart." I'm in the same situation. My fiance wants to have a child of our own. But I couldn't give it to him. The next thing I know he impregnated my sister . that's the moment, I realize that I'm not worth it. I wish everyone will realize that if you can't have a child. Not make you less woman.

@djsweaty2890

4 жыл бұрын

If you cannot give birth, it does not change the potential you have on this earth. Everyone one of us has a gift we can give to the world. What separates us from the evil and unjust is how we use our gift. The past cannot be change, but it can be used to strengthen our drive to male the world a better place, and I have the feeling you are one of many who can do that😁

@thesteaksaignant

4 жыл бұрын

@Noname Garofano I know right? so many orphans who have nowhere to go

@miauxy_

4 жыл бұрын

No No, He's the one that's NOT WORTH IT. Holy---i swear. If he can't accept the fact that you can't carry a child, then he's not a keeper. You are still worth it, don't let his actions tell you otherwise.

@emiemi9105

4 жыл бұрын

He does not deserve you, thare are options, adoption, for example, y dont really know about that theme, but i know that he is not worhy of your love and time💟

@PatriciaSantos91

4 жыл бұрын

He's the one that don't deserve you. You have a "rock" in your path that's not a reason to leave you and also not a reason for you to feel unworthy. If you really want to have children you can search and find other ways to make that dream come true. If you're ok without kids then you're also perfect. You're no less woman and you're perfect the way you are. :)

When i was in 6th grade, we were doing a project outside our classroom. Our teacher wasnt there. Only my groupmates. Then a 10th grade past by and decided to touch me (lets call him Rain). No one saw what happened. Not even my classmates. I was so scared i didnt tell anybody. After like a week, i told it to my brother but he promised me not to tell anybody about it. But he told it to my mom. Then my mom told it to our guidance counselor. Rain and I was brought to the office. I felt my stomach on the floor cuz my lifetime i always try to do good at school. Rain said to the principal that he didnt even know who i am and i was just putting him in danger. And the principal believed him. The principal suspended me immediately. I was in tears. My whole body was shaking. Nobody believed me except my family. I am still not over that incident until now. A 6th grader shouldnt experience something like this.

@suju257

3 жыл бұрын

Oh I'm so sorry you had to go through this in 6th grade I hope you're doing better now.

@w3jd4n

3 жыл бұрын

be grateful for your family (this is not dismissing)

“my parents always wanted a son, but when they found out i was a girl they were very disappointed..” kinda sad that i can relate to that not with my mom but with my dad.. he left after finding out i was a girl,,💩..

@sandhyahari6995

3 жыл бұрын

Im so sorry that happened to you. I just want to give you a hug

@beepbeep670

2 жыл бұрын

hugssss, strong woman

@beepbeep670

2 жыл бұрын

@Future the Toxic Lord your username says it all

I love the concept of having the woman sitting in a room together, symbolizing the way we have to come together and support eachother. Woman, men, other and any and every human, we should never be separated but joined as one. Keep making videos like this because it shows the inner workings of the human mind and it gets us one step closer to loving eachother with every scar and every tear and every heart in us ❤️

@sprite8666

5 жыл бұрын

I eet cats

@sprite8666

5 жыл бұрын

Chiemerie Umezinne you are rarted

It's really sad how many women are sexually assaulted/ assaulted in ways. While I am very excited to move out and want to move to the city, I'm also scared to because of stuff like this.

@limeleafs3366

5 жыл бұрын

I’m extremely afraid to live alone in the future.

@legendary_tortoiseo5553

4 жыл бұрын

It would seem lots, But that’s just because there are billions of women. In reality, almost all women are never sexually abused. And in fact men are more likely to be raped.

@lemon2595

4 жыл бұрын

@@legendary_tortoiseo5553 man are you for real?? one out of six american women and one out of 33 american men is a victim of attempted or completed rape. that means that sexual assault is not only common, but mostly comitted on women

@legendary_tortoiseo5553

4 жыл бұрын

Lecca Lecca And the one out of 6 is completely false. It’s actually 1 in every 1,250. You could ask random girls on the street, and almost all of them will say they have never been raped.

@lemon2595

4 жыл бұрын

@@legendary_tortoiseo5553 First of all, completed rape is not the one and only kind of sexual assault, second of all, I assume you don't know how to use the internet, because statistics say only 2-10% of accusations are false and that is probably the highest percentage I could find. I do not know why your attitude is so dissenting but at least try to understand that you have to know the facts before you criticize.

I just want to say as a 15 year old girl who has gone through many of these things all of you women give me hope and inspire me so much as I'm sitting on my bed sobbing talking to each other about your traumas has made me feel not so alone and okay

@ms4058

4 жыл бұрын

I dont know you but you are very sweet. Sending a lot of love.

@senaaktas2977

3 жыл бұрын

I hope that you are doing well keep going.

@amygradess4063

2 жыл бұрын

Stay strong

I was sexually assaulted when I was 17. I told my dad a few days later and the first words out of his mouth were. What did you do to make him think you were up for it? You might have led him on without realising it. If that was the view from my own father why would anyone else care? So I swallowed it down and didn’t tell anyone else I saw the man who assaulted me several years later in a shopping centre and I had a panic attack

@jazzmineburns8214

3 жыл бұрын

I am sorry that happened to you. No one deserves that kind of treatment.

@rorymarcel228

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry that happened to you I wish you the best

To all the people who try to blame the person who was hurt for hurting... You need to take a long look in the mirror

“And you’re going to have to retrain your mind a bit to see the value, and the beauty in you.” I’ve been emotionally abused my entire life and let me tell you, it effects EVERYTHING and training yourself to see you and the world in a light you’ve never seen before is so hard- sometimes it feels impossible but I know I’ll get there one day. You can too ❤️

@tehmimbibi7887

5 жыл бұрын

I understand, I sincerely hope you do get there one day ❤️

@xX_Moonluster_Xx

5 жыл бұрын

Ditto. I am just now, at age 20, starting to feel and express my blooming sexuality after it was stunted by sexual abuse by my father from childhood. It takes a lifetime to heal.

@thelegacyofgaming2928

5 жыл бұрын

All females have to go through this horrible situations. It's best to avoid men at all costs.

I was a very clueless teen who saw the world through untainted eyes. When my classmate told me she was raped by her bf i didnt know how to react or what to say or do. It was the 1st time in my life i was exposed to something heavy like that. That was over a decade ago and obviously if she was to tell me that now, she would get a total different response and all my support. Im not sure why she confided in me as we werent close. It was random during lunch break at school, so i imagine she was probably really desparate to reach out for help, and unfortunately i was the wrong person. My point is if you try to reach out for help and not receive it from certain people, please dont let that stop you from continuing to seek the help and support that you need. Dont automatically assume that your issues are invalid and that people wont care. Sometimes, like in my case, they do care but just dont know what to do, or sometimes they may be struggling with their own issues and cant be strong enough to help you too.

@96iceshell

3 жыл бұрын

Oh my goodness I can't believe I read this comment. Almost the exact same thing happened to me when I was as school also just over 10 years ago. As children and teenagers we haven't necessarily started to come across issues like this yet so we can handle them really badly when we're confided in. We can't go back and change it, but it's one of those awful, stark lessons which forms us into adults. * I completely echo your sentiment about encouraging people to continue to seek help and speak up if it doesn't go the way that it should the first time, especially for teenagers because there will be people out there who understand and know what to say and do, even if your friends don't.Your friends likely still love you, they just don't know what to do.That was the case for me anyway at 15.

@potatohooman3190

2 жыл бұрын

i understand i went through the exact same thing and really did not know how to react to it. Somehow i made up my mind to tell it to another friend who's relative was an activist and involved with an ngo that helps women in the area to speak openly about such topics. As soon as i did my friend confessed that it was a false accusation she made because she just wanted to get back at the guy for breaking up with her. I cannot imagine what wouldve happened if we actually went through with the lie. Stay safe not everyone is honest.

For anyone who has been raped / sexually assaulted.. my heart goes out to you. You are strong buddy. It was never your fault.

WHERE CAN I FIND THESE PEOPLE WHERE CAN I HUG THEM TELL THEM THAT EVERYTHING'S OKAY THIS IS TOO MUCH EMOTION FOR ME

@ShaliniSingh-js6ch

5 жыл бұрын

They are all around you

@cyropower7808

5 жыл бұрын

@@ShaliniSingh-js6ch Damn fr? Everyone around me is dead inside.

@ShaliniSingh-js6ch

5 жыл бұрын

Maybe your compassion and understanding can help them a little

@taniabernal8087

5 жыл бұрын

Why does everyone have the profile pic?!

@cyropower7808

5 жыл бұрын

@@taniabernal8087 Oh well I have this profile pic because this account is supposed to be my producing account and my gimmick is "Cyro the demon"

For the men that have only but comforting, positive, honest comments about this. Thank you for supporting us!❤️

@TheKennyboy92

5 жыл бұрын

That's the way it should be, at the end of the day we're all in this together regardless of our gender.

@sickradrat1664

5 жыл бұрын

Kenneth Fox I completely agree with you but in today’s society, some people still try demean each other based on someone’s gender. Like if it was some sort of competition, but hopefully one day we’ll all learn that it’s no competition at all. We should all unite and strive forward together.

@TheKennyboy92

5 жыл бұрын

@@sickradrat1664 Yeah I can never understand why, we're all going through something and we're all human.

@sickradrat1664

5 жыл бұрын

Kenneth Fox yeah :/

@coolschmoool

5 жыл бұрын

Just doing the bare minimum instead of actually preventing rape. Men need to do better.

*reads secret* *pauses* "i remember when i too had this happen to me..."

@helbertrodriguez6449

4 жыл бұрын

Rip English

@magmadude_

4 жыл бұрын

DragonX Crack i see nothing wrong with that sentence

@ninis8572

4 жыл бұрын

- DragonXCrack - it’s not a video of grammar she can write how she wants

i was sexually coerced when i was 14 by my first boyfriend. i didn’t realize until like half a year later after we broke up that what he did, what he said was wrong. he always told me that it was my job because i was his gf & that i owed him bc he did something nice to me. i told one of our mutual friends what i realized and she didnt believe me because he wasnt “that type of guy”. another one of our mutual friends asked if it was okay to date him. i said hes a rapist but its ur choice and she asked “are you sure?” ive been very open to my experience & most people are understanding, but people like this are why so many people are afraid to come out about their assault. i already felt like it was way too long after to tell anyone in authority about it, but after 2(maybe more,, ive forced myself to forget these things) people have denied me, i felt it wasnt important anymore and that it didnt matter. i dealt with my own trauma for 2 years now and it hits me like a missile every time rape comes up.

@bleeziie

3 жыл бұрын

sending love to you

@sarkanaisluksofors

3 жыл бұрын

Can relate... It happened between 30 and 50 times for sure (idk, my memories of this 6 months are very bad). 4 months after he ended the relationship, I talked the first time about it. Now 4 friends and a social worker at my school know about it, but I still have to sit in one class with him. The whole toxic relationship really messed up my psyche...

@tombombadil1262

3 жыл бұрын

I have a friend who is in a very similar situation as you. I hope stuff gets better ❤️

I am literally like the guy in the male video that said he was emotional but always had to pretend to be strong. I will admit that I cried during this video, it hit me hard💔

@sickradrat1664

5 жыл бұрын

Andrew Michaels Thank you for being honest about it. I really hope our future generations dont shun men for showing deep emotions or expressing them. But I hope that you do take a stand for yourself and start to freely do it for you because once you start doing, who know you could help other men like you who feel the same and that can spread and over time it could become a natural thing for men and not have to feel embarrassed about it. All I know is that when I have sons I want then to express themselves freely, no matter what.❤️:)

@boredshrimp9425

4 жыл бұрын

I want my husband to be emotional

@matchaa121

4 жыл бұрын

Andrew we need more emotional, empathetic men in this world. Thank God you are one of them!

@kashaffatima3636

4 жыл бұрын

It’s okay to be emotional. Maybe most guys won’t get it but female friends will.

@Bella-ys9qi

4 жыл бұрын

A wise man once said “I think there is so much masculinity to being vulnerable” and I agree

To all those women AND men in the comments sharing your stories.. You're sososo strong and deserve compassion and love. Don't let the inhuman actions of horrible people let you forget that you are beautiful and have the will power of many. Stay strong. You'll get where you long to be one day, give yourself time.

I'm teaching my daughter to box on god. Ain't no man gon put hands on her😤😤

@shark-nf8uf

3 жыл бұрын

@Sadness i illegal to learn how to fight...?

@xrfy5653

3 жыл бұрын

@Sadness i nobody has to know :)

@adenferguson2647

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@multi__simp2391

3 жыл бұрын

Respect man. All people should know how to defend themselves, this is why I’m so glad my mom put me in karate instead of ballet

@star_of_munstr

3 жыл бұрын

I'm telling you now to add her into Jiu-jitsu

I was sexually assaulted by a security guard when I was 8 years old..I was too young to realise what was happening..now I cry every time I remember what happened.

@rorymarcel228

3 жыл бұрын

When I was 3 I was continously assaulted by these two boys at the the time all I knew is that it felt wrong I told my mom about it but she did nothing I think about it all the time now

@sarahalolaqi3099

3 жыл бұрын

@@rorymarcel228 I’m sorry 💔

*PLOT TWIST=* they read their own secrets.

@sophia0660

5 жыл бұрын

lil w bruh

@jenniferkomosa717

5 жыл бұрын

I was thinking that, too!

@naomilanney8908

5 жыл бұрын

I think that because they all relate to the cards their reading I doubt that’s a coin siren

@naomilanney8908

5 жыл бұрын

Coincidence **

@princesszainyy50

5 жыл бұрын

I feel like sometimes it's like that too

I was holding it together until that poet at the end. I’ve experienced rape, sexual assault and domestic violence. I’m only 22....feel like my life was taken from me...sigh this video made me feel less alone though.

@sickradrat1664

5 жыл бұрын

dominique Nelson You are strong and beautiful. Know that! God Bless you❤️

@eva_hl4469

5 жыл бұрын

I hope you get through it.

@Weiya-qm6jz

5 жыл бұрын

You are not alone, stay strong you are worthy of having control over your own life!

@theoutsider3309

4 жыл бұрын

It’s so crazy how in such a short period of time you can be left hurting. How all it takes is one experience to crumble. You shouldn’t have experienced any of this but know that your not alone and with every person who tells you that your feelings are worthless, there’s ten of us who know how you feel and just want to you too keep fighting and get better.

@AzyTheKitty

4 жыл бұрын

Same.... I'm only 22 too.. and been through the same.. god bless you sis.. u're Strong

"you are worthy of love and you will learn how to love again,It will just take time,you are gonna have to heal. And let that take how long its gonna take" Thats beatiful.

It makes me SO ANGRY how often women aren’t taken seriously when they share some trauma or open up to someone about a tragedy that happened to them and the person just blame them or tell them to not tell anyone. Because they don’t deserve that, and I just wish I could help them and show them how it’s not their fault but there’s always gonna be someone who gets there first just to tell them that it’s on them. I really hope one day women can live free of all the bad experiences that happen.

@cityfantv-everythingmancit2946

3 жыл бұрын

Diana Andrea Garza R it really happens to men a lot more getting told or man up

@dianaandreagarzar312

3 жыл бұрын

CityFanTv -everything man city oh yeah, how they’re told that “aren’t men enough”. People shouldn’t be told to hold their pain or feelings, no matter the gender. And it’s worrying because I’ve seen that even in my family, it’s frustrating!

@breadsrights6824

3 жыл бұрын

@@dianaandreagarzar312 preach

@The-rb4pv

2 жыл бұрын

I agree. It's skummy.

That woman with her poem 💓 "I see you sis". I see you too 💞

Idk my deepest secret as a women, I have a fear of men. I'm scared of being sexually abused and raped. I don't want to be hurt by them, by anyone. It's sad that most women feel scared when there alone at night and I'm included. I just don't wann be hurt. I don't want something that is mine taken. My body is my blessing, people should respect that boundary.

@djsweaty2890

4 жыл бұрын

I hope that if you ever decide to try to find that special someone for you, they will give you the respect that you, a living being, deserves. It is a right. No one should manipulate your body or abuse you. Stay strong, stranger💪

@sparksfly6149

4 жыл бұрын

💓

@et223

4 жыл бұрын

😭♥️

@lils.tipken

4 жыл бұрын

that’s exactly how i feel too. i was only in second grade when my own grandpa touched me inappropriately everyday. i didn’t know it was wrong until about fourth grade when he did the same thing to another one of my family members. me and my family member never got justice for what he did because he refused to take a lie detector test. i’m terrified of men now, even of my dad. it scares me. i’m afraid that if i turn my back, i’ll be touched again. i’m only fourteen now and those moments that he would touch me when i was only about 7.... they still haunt me. people saw it (except my parents) but decided to do nothing about it. he even called me sexy in front of my grandma and she said “she’s too young” but never discussed it again.

@steve-zk7kj

4 жыл бұрын

Not all men are bad

"You are worthy of love, and you deserve love"

God, that "raped for the first time" section was utterly heartbreaking. Stay strong, everyone and make sure to remember that it is N E V E R the victim´s fault.

I cried the whole video, I feel every woman I was touched, fondled and groped so many times in my life I can't count ، I really don't remember all of them but the first one was when I was only 10 years old 🤢 I grow up believing it's my fault bcz I have an attractive body, I hated it so much and always tried to cover it And I've never told anyone

@brosukeee687

5 жыл бұрын

TiaOfJordan Oh my god! Its so sad that young girls are getting raped and groped by that age!

@msx5354

5 жыл бұрын

same here groped/ abused from 4-11 then moved away, it is what it is, people are so ignorant in this world hm

@caitlinhothersall2685

5 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry

@samriddhichaturvedi9509

5 жыл бұрын

I hope u can recover from that and live an awesome life u deserve, although it might be tough. I really admire people like u so much coz you are so strong ,bearing all this pain alone

@elisaagarrado8128

5 жыл бұрын

What does fondled mean?

it’s heartbreaking that all of us have been through most of the things that these women have shared with us. it’s a scary world. 💔

@wathoni4891

5 жыл бұрын

It is very scary

@nu3182

5 жыл бұрын

@dev0n james That is not true. No one needs to go through these things. Man are human beings just like you any other women and want to live in harmony and peace. There are also women who abuse and rape. We shouldn't project our anger against a gender but instead against the actual abusers and helping the abused.

@annngggx

5 жыл бұрын

nunu nuki i highly agree with what you said. sometimes people think that violence is the solution to everything and that’s not how it should be. people forget who the victims are here and who the rapists are. rapists are the problem. rape has no gender.

@jayc342009

5 жыл бұрын

@dev0n james you are a sad person, i pity you.

@lukaskonecny9992

5 жыл бұрын

@dev0n james You are the most pathetic excuse of a human being i have ever seen. You are the monster here, not men. Do you really want to traumatize every little boy out there ? Beyond pathetic.

My older brother used to abuse me. It’s so hard too talk about, no one ever understands me and people get mad at me for bringing it up because it’s “negative”. If corners me sometimes and it’s caused major anxiety, I can barely walk by someone my size or bigger without flinching. People would always say man up too him, it’s kinda of hard to fight someone 6’3, 250 pounds, can bench press 350, and has biceps the size of my head, when I was a 5’9 13 year old that was skinny, 110 pounds, and could bench press 80. I can never get it out too anyone and it hurts too sit there and deal with it.

@eidem3363

4 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry no one took your side. I hope you are safe now and please seek help from school/police if possible

@ilovetoeatchristmastrees

3 жыл бұрын

Just know I will always listen to you

I never NEVER want to hear men calling women weak again You will NEVER understand what it's like to be a woman so don't tell us what its like

@TrapNoticiasArg

4 жыл бұрын

And you would never understand what Is being a men. So.. I'm not saing that you dont sufer. We all do. Look at the men video too. And every person has his story to. We all live life at best..

@jaysontatum5340

4 жыл бұрын

princess foofoo You dont think men are called weak

@sophieb3435

4 жыл бұрын

princess foofoo I never want to hear ANYONE call ANYONE weak, none of us will understand what that person is going through or what they have gone through, we are here to help each other, no matter nationality, gender or sexuality. We need to LISTEN to one another

@cityfantv-everythingmancit2946

3 жыл бұрын

princess foofoo I mean men are stronger, it’s biology

@hozza0411

3 жыл бұрын

Princess Foofoo. Your not a woman, your a 🤡

I was raped by my brother's best friend a week after my father passed away. He threatened me not to tell anyone. And me being the scared, little girl spoke no words about it. I recently told it to my "Friends" and what they said just broke me into pieces..."You might have shown some interest!", "Oh you b*tch! Why did you miss the chance?!", "I wouldve supported the guy." I know I know. It's disgusting. Well it's been years since it happened, and I realized that I had to move on and that hanging on to the past is not gonna bring me any benefit or happiness. I was insecure, antisocial, depressive and many more negative stuff. But some people around me helped me to get out of that depressive hole. They helped me to find myself, face myself and love myself. I cant thank them more. So anyone who is going through this, please talk about it to someone who UNDERSTANDS AND SUPPORTS YOU no matter what. You are strong! *Stand up for yourself*

@ckv954

4 жыл бұрын

LoveKookie4ever awful friends those were, Christ I don’t know why people even think that, much less say

@romakaushal3003

3 жыл бұрын

I hope that you are not frnds with your so-called "Friends" But i am happy that you spoke up

@sebaschan-uwu

3 жыл бұрын

You should have told your brother about it, not your clout chaser friends. Any brother I know (including me) would have beat the fuck out of their "best friend" if they did that. Clearly the "friends" yall have are not real and should not be so easily trusted.

Dear women, You are so beautiful and strong. I am you and you are me. I hear you.

@immabadbitch6148

5 жыл бұрын

tracy guerrero dear you you are so beautiful and strong. I am you and you are me, I hear you.

@corue

5 жыл бұрын

Also, to men too because they also deserve love :)

@legendary_tortoiseo5553

4 жыл бұрын

Corue Yeah in lots of countries more men than women are raped.

@irisenriquez9073

4 жыл бұрын

I'm screaming but nobody can hear me.

There were 2 instances in my life where I have felt violated by men without them even touching me. The first time I was 13 and I was sitting at a food court in a mall with my mom but for some reason our side of the food court was empty and there were 2 middle aged men sitting on a table across from me. When my mom left to go order some food the men kept staring at me. I looked up and thought if I looked at them they would look away but then one of them just gave me a smile/ smirk that made me sick and kept on staring. I was too scared to look up again. The second instance I was 15 years old and I was on a field trip to this convention and there were kids from other schools there, I was wearing my school uniform which consisted of a long sleeved button up shirt that I got a size bigger so that my figure doesn’t show and a long skirt that reached my ankles. After the field trip my friend told me that there were a group of guys talking about my chest. Saying that I was decorated for them or something messed up like that. I felt disgusted when she told me. I started shaking. I just didn’t understand. Now I wear and oversized jacket over my uniform because I don’t want to hear something like that again. I realize this might not be a big deal for most ppl but it really affected me. I think it’s because I was young and just didn’t want anyone talking about me in that way or staring at my body. I really hope this doesn’t happen to anyone else. Or to me again. :>

"when I was raped for the first time" That is the most heart wrenching thing i've probably ever heard. This is what is wrong with our society. There should not be a first nor a second or third time. This kills me...

It's painful how every girl, if not almost every girl, have history where they were abused, assaulted, threatened or molested and they could not scream for help even if they felt so defenceless. It remains a dark secret and something that they carry as they grow.

@legendary_tortoiseo5553

4 жыл бұрын

Jem Mercader No actually it’s not very girl. It’s that the Media only shows girls with these experiences. In fact men are more likely to be raped and sexually abused/assaulted. Women have lots of things well when compared to men. Also rape percentages of women are like 1 in every couple thousand or so.

@THESMOSHTIME

4 жыл бұрын

Do you have any idea how many women keep quiet about these stories? The numbers you read don’t add up when compared to what we know. Every girl I know has had an experience like this, or at least know someone close who has experienced it. I wish it wasn’t, i wish it was “just the media”, but it isn’t.

@fuckemoboylol1296

4 жыл бұрын

@@legendary_tortoiseo5553 Uh no? I study principles, and when I came across a peice of information in my notebook it says that MEN are more likely to be victims of murder and abuse. While WOMAN are most likely to be victims of rape. Please do not pull things out of your ass.

@AxisDens

4 жыл бұрын

@What Not To Do At a Stoplight is that story about rape? do all your male friends have assault/rape stories that they brush off? because that's what we're talking about here

@TheKatherina44

4 жыл бұрын

@@legendary_tortoiseo5553 dont make lies from your ass

So many people have adapted this idea of a woman’s hardships and struggle is in the past....please send those people this video as the biggest mic drop in the world.

@algonzalez6853

5 жыл бұрын

It is in the past, all of this happens to men in the same numbers

@cutienerdgirl

5 жыл бұрын

@@algonzalez6853 In America, 1 in 6 women are raped and only 1 in 33 men are raped, but with men it mostly happens when they're children with their family members. A lot of worse things happen to women in 3rd world countries. When women are assaulted they get victim-blamed.

@JarmalK

5 жыл бұрын

@@cutienerdgirl let's not argue whose life is harder

@algonzalez6853

5 жыл бұрын

@@cutienerdgirl its really close to 50/50 because they dont count prison cases. And about the third world thing, maybe bring the attention there just as people always tell you to?

@murdock6202

5 жыл бұрын

jerry an agenda that says that rape isn’t ok and is too common? What a terrible plan

I don’t get why we need to have feminism or masculinity. We should be lifting each other up to be who THEY are.

@ricetea4748

4 жыл бұрын

PERIODT.

@heyyyou7052

4 жыл бұрын

Micah Barnett it doesn’t matter who gets mistreated the most. we should help each other regardless what gender they are :/ because it’s not a competition

@sonyapari1219

4 жыл бұрын

feminism really does stand for equality, the term just throws people off. toxic masculinity really doesnt benefit anyone, however feminism literally just means wanting women to b treated equally to men

@heyyyou7052

4 жыл бұрын

sonya pari exactly

@simpsbelongtothegulags3702

4 жыл бұрын

@@sonyapari1219 feminism is woman empowerment Its only promotes equality if woman will benefit from it

Im 14 and there’s this kid that made fun of the size of my breasts that they were too big (keep in mind i was insecure about them) he made it as a joke that they were like moving balls.......that really hurt me

@MI-ej9tt

2 жыл бұрын

Damn, rlly sorry to hear that… whoever that kid is, will get their karma for hurting you.. or maybe already have. Keep on going forward and keep that head held high too. Just also don’t let certain people make you feel insecure, listen to yourself, not what others say. It doesn’t matter what others think. U are unbreakable, stay safe.

the girl at 3:50 spoke beautifully, she gave wonderful advice and didn’t even stutter, i can tell she’s an amazing human being from that.

@aybaybay5432

5 жыл бұрын

micheal and tootie, she made me cry.

"On the silent mornings when the mirror does NOT want your name, speak it anyway" 💪💗

“When I was raped for the first time” 😔 it’s so sad that this is “normal” in this world.

The woman who said 'I need you to know it's not your fault'. So many more women need to hear that x

It’s like sometimes.. I feel like I don’t want to be a woman anymore because of the amount of disrespect that we get and it breaks my heart

@sunnyc.612

4 жыл бұрын

@@deadgame2098 I mean..i'm a woman and i was almost about to say the same. I know it's not a compitition, but no matter what gender you are, you will go through hardships that the other gender can't exactly imagine. I'm grateful to be a woman. I'm grateful that i don't have to experience the things my boyfriend does and that i have had certain opportunities due to my gender. But that doesn't mean that women have it easy nor that the pain of a woman is to be taken less serious. As women our biggest strength is our weakness, but it's also our biggest enemy sometimes.

@kgrimes4934

4 жыл бұрын

@@sunnyc.612 You almost said the same thing and you're a woman? So what. It would have been just as wrong. You should have just left it as it's not a competition and that's all. Sure, you don't have to go through all the experiences your boyfriend do but you don't even know the OP's experience that she has had a woman. So why speak on it like it is a competition. Women are allowed to have reactions to their pain and hurt without someone minimizing it.

@heyyyou7052

4 жыл бұрын

Wet vegetables you missed the whole point..

@amenabushra6541

4 жыл бұрын

@Wet vegetables she never said they don't,Tyler

@tristanlj3409

4 жыл бұрын

@@amenabushra6541 oh, and if she wasn't a woman what else would she be? If we can agree on the fact that all genders and groups are neglected or judged in some way, then there is no better alternative, and so her feeling (which she are in her full right to have) to begin with wasn't sound.

It’s almost as if they’re reading their own secrets and finally being able to release it

@thatcowfarmer3062

5 жыл бұрын

They are reading their own secrets

My heart bleeds for these ladies and every woman and girl that has gone through any of this. You deserve so much better.

A little disappointed that we didn’t hear all the stories.

5:01 That was my breaking point, I broke down crying. Wow, that was just so powerful

“Women’s issues” are everyone’s issues. Creating a world together where everyone feels safe and respected is so important, and these women are so strong for telling their stories! 💓

@itstatilol4392

5 жыл бұрын

I think that men and women definitely have to come together for those issues that affect women and those issues that affect men. That’s what feminism is, fighting for the equality of the sexes by rectifying challenges that affect all genders. That being said, since men hold a privileged place in society as compared to women, more progress needs to be made on women’s behalf to give them the same opportunities, representation, and compensation that men receive from society. I think that saying that men’s issues are “all their own” is to ignore the support women throughout society give to men’s professional and personal ventures, even to their own detriment. From my understanding testicular cancer is one of the cancers that causes the least fatalities, which could be the reason for the discrepancy between awareness about testicular cancer and say, breast cancer. That being said, I have seen many women and men together at the forefront of issues like awareness of sexual abuse toward men and involuntary male circumcision.

@itstatilol4392

5 жыл бұрын

Matt McRae if you look at my above response to Tyler, you can see that I said that I do. We all need to come together to solve some of the worlds’ biggest issues

@NightLightSTDO

5 жыл бұрын

@MadDilla ATCQstarr When did she say that she doesn't care about children or poor people? Nice strawman right there, your argument is to personally attack her cause she's a feminist lmao. Your misogyny is showing.

@raven-ps9cr

5 жыл бұрын

@MadDilla ATCQstarr what a half assed troll. 2/10 try better next time bro.

@raven-ps9cr

5 жыл бұрын

MadDilla ATCQstarr what’s a internet rage?

04:22 he hurt me ( smiles ) I felt that 💔

At the end the black lady that gives that poem, its such a damn beautiful poem, she is so talented, i loved that and I respect her so much, i wish her the best of luck in her life.

i love these types of videos!

@mx-pb2yr

5 жыл бұрын

@A Formless nope. i dont even know who that is

My niece (who's older then me) took advantage of me when I was 7 while my mother was in the room next door. To this day I haven't told anyone because I'm afraid that no one will believe me because It happened at such a young age and that it will tare my family apart. I have to see her at birthday parties and holidays. I think she thinks I forgot about it. And me and my family go over to her house all the time and I have to act like everythings normal and happy. In reality I want nothing to do with her. I know that my story is nothing compared to some of the things that other people have to go through but please know that you are never alone.

@djsweaty2890

4 жыл бұрын

I really think you should tell someone in your family. No one should have to see the face of theor assaulter like you do. I wouldn't wish that upon a single soul

@emiemi9105

4 жыл бұрын

I really dont lnow why you dont have many responds, but i want you to know that your story is as important as the others. You are brave, and ypu deserve the best❤

@Panda-gn8qb

4 жыл бұрын

If you feel the need to let it out to someone I recommend some kind of psychologist who can give you advice. Please don't repress traumas to yourself, it's important to heal from them. Give yourself lots of love and gentleness too.

@aritrisamadder8506

4 жыл бұрын

I know I am a bit late here but please don't compare your pain with others. It's not a competition. It's pain and suffering for you... It's real for you. A person close to me had a similar experience to yours... I am the only person in the world who she told this too... When we again met the relative which had abused her I could hardly bear to look at his face... But she acted completely normal... I realised how strong she is and how strong you are. Keep fighting.

@liv2262

4 жыл бұрын

@@djsweaty2890 I know that you responded to this comment 5 months ago, but I just wanted to say thank you for replying. A few days ago I finally told someone (my bestfriend) Its nice to know that I can openly talk to someone about it who I know wont look at me any differently. It was extremely hard to tell someone but I'm so glad I did

that reading at the end was so powerfully delivered, while they showed the faces of all the women. truly beautiful

The woman at the end when she was saying a very beautiful " poem" really made me cry and just to know that anyone who has gone through these things are not alone I love you sis♥️

"For the first time" really caught me off guard. Such a strong women.

I feel like jubilee always lays out each card specifically for each person because they always seem to have a connection to the seceret

Random girl: waddup sis Me: *shed tears * sis?

Omg there's so much pain in the world, it's just so overwhelms me sometimes and I just burst out crying, i couldn't control it, happens every time when I see what ppl r going thru,as it resonates with my personal life. Love you all, stay strong. Sis, we hold each other's back. 🌺