If you killed my pet, all hell is gonna break out

@Henry-bh2hs

4 жыл бұрын

anpxnmannn Stan twice periodt ✨

@anpxnmannn1733

4 жыл бұрын

ltalio periodt

@arilikesbread1218

4 жыл бұрын

You got back up sis.

@peppermint1349

4 жыл бұрын

@Niranjan Rajesh How does that have to do with anything?

@tedtheracoon

4 жыл бұрын

@@peppermint1349 because it's kinda fucked up to eat animals that were raised in small pens and then get mad when someone kills a cat

*If someone killed my pet I would do much more than a restraining order oml*

@fionafiona1146

4 жыл бұрын

That's not necessarily safe, but might very well have happened.

@NealD

4 жыл бұрын

Pretty easy to say, if the person killed your cats, they were about to attack you, and that’s why you emptied a 9mm into them. Not a good idea to hurt animals. Afterall, animals are better than people.

@fionafiona1146

4 жыл бұрын

@@NealD If they aren't the only people in your household with a fire arm.

@Cosmo_Samoyed

4 жыл бұрын

John Wick

@joeschmo9348

4 жыл бұрын

I agree entirely

Wow regret is truly the worst emotion

@cccorn835

4 жыл бұрын

yeah it really is 🥺🥺🥺

@alivegirl7830

4 жыл бұрын

Bcs the only solution is dealing with urself

@TheWinningNadz

4 жыл бұрын

Man!

@Manvir.

4 жыл бұрын

to me it's invalidation. but we all have different opinions.

@atahz006

4 жыл бұрын

Definitely. Just the thought of, "Oh I could've done this" or "I sould've done this instead" is sjckckeowmdnco.

Idk why but I wasn’t expecting this to be so depressing

@MA-bf6le

4 жыл бұрын

I mean they definitely said “wrong decisions” lol...I didn’t have much hope 😂

@EspritsFantomes

4 жыл бұрын

It’s always depressing

@evastood4539

4 жыл бұрын

You have to change the genre of it and make it comedic

@dakotac180

4 жыл бұрын

These are always depressing

@dantdt4693

4 жыл бұрын

Um looks like you’ve never watched these

“It’s okay to outgrow people.”

@akagrimreaper6702

4 жыл бұрын

/r im14andthatsdeep

@annonymous6827

4 жыл бұрын

A wise beet farmer once said: "Well, I outgrew all my friends in 3 hours."

@babyblue6960

4 жыл бұрын

that hits home

@sandyruitenberg2928

4 жыл бұрын

I read it just as he said it. And I have outgrown many people. It happened to me mainly with friendships, and most of them just bled out, there were no fights or anger. We just slowly stopped speaking with each other and lost interest in each others lives. And then you just stop hanging out and texting and that's it. Sometimes people get in another stage of life, they outgrow people or it does not feel comfortable talking anymore. Now I still have a few close friends and I like it that way!

@moodswing_whiskey

4 жыл бұрын

Source of Randomness 🤣🤣

I think animal cruelty warrants much greater punishment than a restraining order

@samanthaepps6365

4 жыл бұрын

Same. I'm surprised she didn't press for animal abuse

4 жыл бұрын

That guy needs his ass beat to a bloody pulp and I usually don’t condone violence but he’s the definition of pure evil

@therachellllcat4444

4 жыл бұрын

They called the cops, not much you can do if you're terrified of a person

@melissam597

4 жыл бұрын

Draedon Apotheosis cats are actually more intelligent than farm animals, and there’s a difference between a psycho murdering cats and someone eating a steak. Don’t be self-righteous.

@Cr0ssmyheart96

4 жыл бұрын

@@draedon_ I don't want to get too into this debate but I think there is a huge difference between killing an animal for food, and killing somebody's pets just to "punish" them. It is scary that his anger lead him to a senseless killing, and killing animals in the manner he did usually leads to crimes that are much more heinous. I hope that girl is safe. Even if those were pet cows and not cats, killing them for no reason and just out of frustration, to traumatize your partner, is scary.

Okay but can we just talk about how her boyfriend didn’t want her to go to an IVY LEAGUE!! Dark...

@user-kl9dq7um7k

4 жыл бұрын

People are bad it's sickening

@galaxybrain97

4 жыл бұрын

I think people are taking this at face value to easily. It wasn't that he wanted her to not go, he was afraid he was gonna lose her because he believed that she would become too good for him. And that sucks for him because it shows that he has low self esteem but also shows that he loves the girl and wants to continue to be with her. It's a very grey area, not black and white.

@hp6964

4 жыл бұрын

@GalaxyGaming to really love someone is to want the best for them and to see them be the best they can be so it doesn’t matter how that dude views himself. Fuck that guy cause he obviously cares more about his future happiness than hers and wants her to stay down on the ground with him and that isn’t love.

@nadine3419

4 жыл бұрын

@@galaxybrain97 No, I had an ex like that. It wasn't love. It was control. Probably a narcissist.

@stephi6792

4 жыл бұрын

Who is that guy, what? What? WHAT? She should have been gone sooo fast. Like Casper. Disappear.

The asian guy with the green coat speaks so much sense

@shreyashaji1066

4 жыл бұрын

I want him to be my therapist

@saraA-cx5gk

4 жыл бұрын

He is the CEO for jubilee

@bolugnese

4 жыл бұрын

sara A no he isn’t. The Asian guy in the black empathy sweatshirt is the ceo

@kimikokimi

4 жыл бұрын

I thought they’re both co-founder

@soarazak992

4 жыл бұрын

Riiiight? " it s okay to outgrow people" damn right it is!

“jealousy is the worst emotion” regret: you might want to rethink that

@sadafm764

4 жыл бұрын

Guilt : well hello

@sum_random_artist9542

4 жыл бұрын

I feel like guilt and regret are very close(at least in my mind)

@maria-mc9ey

4 жыл бұрын

I think the worst is remorse

@lenc99

4 жыл бұрын

Tbh I still think jealousy is worse emotional as its what push people to do sth that they may regret later

@blkbarbie2671

4 жыл бұрын

Jealousy can change who you are and what you act like (IMO) the things it does to people is crazy. But regret is so sad and can change the whole course of your life :(

she made love to her husband, while imagining he was her ex... nah the audacity to get married to someone and still be in *love* with someone else is messed up.

@aa-cx8nc

4 жыл бұрын

happens more often than you think

@bouteldjachamssedine798

4 жыл бұрын

Bruh thats so messed up, im disgusted. poor husband tho..

@alysbaah-danso5278

4 жыл бұрын

Tbh it's sad, cause shes wasting not only her time but someone else's which is what makes it harder. If she really loved him she wouldn't be loving someone else, she shouldn't of gotten married and really I do believe she might of gotten married cause she believed itll help her move on cause really the most intermate moments sometimes really show what they really mean to you and if he's expressing himself and being vulnerable to her by making love to her and allowing her to see all his faults and see him truly and is thinking about someone else it's not good. She wasting his time when he could be vulnerable with someone else who appreciates him and thinks of him in the moment. She probably does appreciate him, but clearly her heart is still in for her ex and really she shouldn't of gotten married if she had unresolved issues feelings with her ex. And plus, this is hurts not just her but him. It really will, itll build up insecurities within him when he enters another relationship and will have intimate moments such as making love, or sitting down in a restaurant or just having heart to heart moments and that's the most selfish decision anyone can make on their part by hurting and wasting another person's time when having unresolved feelings and issues. Tbh I dont rate her

@morganraymond828

4 жыл бұрын

While I understand where you are coming from, I am still in love with my first love but we broke up because our paths didn’t quite match (he was Mormon, I wasn’t and wasn’t interested and he wanted to get married and I didn’t want to right away). Now he’s married and it’s been 4 years and now I’m in another relationship. I love my current boyfriend but sometimes I spend time imagining what it would be like to have not broken up with my first boyfriend. Maybe her ex is married now too and it’s not so easy? She will get through it.

@imarockstarification

4 жыл бұрын

Don't be so quick to judge. Maybe she really do love their husband. Maybe she can't be with her first love. Maybe her husband knows this and still wants to be with her. Maybe they've discussed this together but she can't move past the remorse. Would you still judge her as much if she said her first love died young?

Ladies, changing a man is not your job. You are not his mum. Take care, be safe and God bless xx

@spiritblood1100

4 жыл бұрын

not mum’s job either, it’s the man’s job

@aj3706

4 жыл бұрын

Some people cannot be changed even though the parents were loving and did everything right.

@aj3706

4 жыл бұрын

@@spiritblood1100 It can either be both it depends

@elizabethschrader1600

4 жыл бұрын

It's not a man's job to change a woman either

@tashatoddman7492

4 жыл бұрын

Neither is it a man's job to change a woman. You are not their father.

Wtf kind of sociopath kills cats

@Opium474

4 жыл бұрын

Luka Magnotta

@mastermonke1177

4 жыл бұрын

Shane Dawson

@lukecortez3861

4 жыл бұрын

A dog person. (Not me)

@Luffy-Taro

4 жыл бұрын

Over an few monts logan paul i geass

@ThePegasiPony

4 жыл бұрын

@@lukecortez3861 bro wtf

Why would you deny your own kids? For a dude!

@Tina-jf3xf

4 жыл бұрын

Women are simps too

@BexMcInulty

4 жыл бұрын

Maybe she has had experienced being judged for having kids before. This world is not very welcoming to mothers, especially in the workspace and especially single mothers. It was probably due to bad experiences and her own insecurity and made her feel like a burden. My mom was a single mother and although she never had troubles getting into a relationship it often felt like I was a burden and unwanted.

@kurtd0naldc0bain

4 жыл бұрын

Rebecca M. Please stop making excuses for bad people. It’s one thing for you to feel like a burden through your point of view as a child, and another for a mother to lie about not having kids right in front of them. It’s disgusting and I pity the poor children.

@razone4317

4 жыл бұрын

@@kurtd0naldc0bain I'm not sure why you decided to assassinate her entire character based on a snippet of information. Yes, what she did was awful, but the point of this video is to try and empathize and offer support or encouragement to be better. We don't know these people.

@galaxybrain97

4 жыл бұрын

@@kurtd0naldc0bain jeez not everything is black and white. The problem with people today is they are basically witch hunting only looking for the bad! Analyze the damn situation and think about how a real human acts. Not every "bad" person is truly bad. Ever heard of the phrase "good people make bad decisions"?

So. My mom left my dad for killing our dog, he claimed it attacked the cat, the cat was also dead but had non-dog related wounds so my mom just nodded and said she was going back to the car because she forgot something, she grabbed me and my brother and hightailed it to the next town. She knew he was psycho, my uncle then went to our house (he's an officer) and found he was planning on killing me and my brother. So yeah, thank god for my mother. (I'm not looking for sympathy just thought this went with the theme of the video) Edit: I didn’t expect this to get seen by so many but thank you, I’ve read to my mom everything polite being said, she appreciates it! Thank you all!

@spring7643

4 жыл бұрын

That is insane. I'm so glad your mom trusted her instincts and acted fast. She probably saw many red flags and that was the final straw.

@hamousaa

4 жыл бұрын

Wow you're mom is so brave.

@user-ve5hr4pi7e

4 жыл бұрын

This sounds pretty sketchy.....

@memekookie8785

4 жыл бұрын

Tell your mom I said thank you for being a great mother:)

@ashtinwalker6102

4 жыл бұрын

She was smart with how she played it

He.... He.... He.... *KILLED....* three.... INNOCENT.... CATS.... because a girl... Was ... away.... Weekend... AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA *_internal screaming_*

@XQFangs

4 жыл бұрын

者衛央 【N e p t u n e】 aaaaaaaa

@HawkUnleashed

4 жыл бұрын

I find it funny when people are outraged about cats when there are tons of murders that go on every day *shrug* people are more vocal about animals

@lukecortez3861

4 жыл бұрын

True

@sleepysnorlax9384

4 жыл бұрын

That screaming was very external

@frostmusicofficial

4 жыл бұрын

Hawk Unleashed yeah it’s weird but that’s just how most people feel, mainly because the animals are helpless, ya know they couldn’t do anything about it, they just had to go through that pain, same thing with young children and babies. If you look it up you can find more info on that topic it’s interesting.

How did the guy that KILLED those cats not get in trouble at all?

@brooklyncurry1660

4 жыл бұрын

Sadly it’s not illegal

@calista8706

4 жыл бұрын

So you’re telling me animal abuse is not a crime in America ? (I’m assuming these confessions are from Americans)

@samanthaepps6365

4 жыл бұрын

@@brooklyncurry1660 that's animal abuse. She could've and should've pressed charges. Depending on the judge they could've gotten time and or fined

@parentpatrol2752

4 жыл бұрын

@@calista8706 No, it is a crime.

@parentpatrol2752

4 жыл бұрын

@@brooklyncurry1660 You're wrong.

*Once a decision is made,you know it's gonna have a huge impact even if it is wrong or right.*

@losjr5039

4 жыл бұрын

Mic dropped

@losjr5039

4 жыл бұрын

@@cookiecookie9072 but if u eat that mayo egg sandwich ur breath is going to smell like ass so that's a huge impact.

@hihihiyo12

4 жыл бұрын

I’m 11 and this is deep

@Luis-zc5ld

4 жыл бұрын

@Carlos j Otero that is the deepest most sadest and truest thing I’ve heard all day.

@britneyherrera6972

4 жыл бұрын

Well duh

The father-in-law's suicide is heartbreaking

@madalynnsantiago2900

2 жыл бұрын

Made me shed a few tears

The guy who killed the three cats is a textbook psycho

@davidphillips8564

4 жыл бұрын

He just got hungry animals are just natural hot pockets

@jen_sen8508

4 жыл бұрын

david phillips still a psycho

@t1m3l0rd

3 жыл бұрын

Damn, and Im here single with my amazing puppie.

@thatasiangirl0_039

2 жыл бұрын

@@davidphillips8564 Welp found the psycho!

"It's okay to outgrow people."

@okOKokOKok1111

4 жыл бұрын

DarthYuYevon deal with it . it’s life

@Ana-ty8sl

4 жыл бұрын

That should be on a shirt or a welcome mat in big bold fonts.

these are so personal it makes me think It might be me but then I realize I've never had a boyfriend or a pet so nvm

@evodevlo2500

4 жыл бұрын

HAHAHAH me

@dutchik5107

4 жыл бұрын

I've had one for 6 weeks. It sucks. Pets however. Get one!

@criticaltaba-nus1499

4 жыл бұрын

I'll be your boyfriend

@katk7505

4 жыл бұрын

@@dutchik5107 if it sucks you're with the wrong person, lol.

@dutchik5107

4 жыл бұрын

@@katk7505 that's why it lasted 6 weeks yes

Everybody listen up: YOU CANT CHANGE SOMEONE WHO ISN'T OPEN TO CHANGING

@khayil

4 жыл бұрын

You can’t change ppl at all tbh. They can only change themselves

@usermania340

4 жыл бұрын

@@khayil Would it help if they go to a Psychiartrist? Only, If they are comfortable with the Idea though. Just curious.

@victoriapowers576

4 жыл бұрын

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🙌🏻

@acsahkulasingham8017

4 жыл бұрын

@@khayil You sure on that?

@fakeaccount5433

4 жыл бұрын

@@usermania340 Therapy is the only solution. You can't love people's trauma away they need professional help.

The guy only dating the girl because he felt bad for her... PLEASE that just spiked my anxiety. I'm not gonna get into a relationship if something like this can happen

@Petrichorus-

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, the last thing an insecure person wants is pity kindness/love. If he'd left her alone then maybe her first experience could've been genuine 😔

@AK-ee6rf

4 жыл бұрын

It's so sad I can only Imagine how much more insecure the girl felt afterwards as if only guys would date her out of pity not for her true self.

@spring7643

4 жыл бұрын

You don't need to worry, just communicate well and you will see if they really like you or not. It's only a mystery if things are left unspoken.

@GiaTheSweetPotato

4 жыл бұрын

I have been on the receiving end of that several times and it sucks, but I think it's a stretch to say it's the guy's fault she hasn't dated for 9 years afterwards. At some point you have to take responsibility for your life and move on.

@mariadona5813

4 жыл бұрын

It's been five years since that situation also happened to me. How I wish it's easier to move on and to erase trust issues... I'm still trying even if it's hard.

The girl who didn’t date for 9 years after getting dumped imma say that it was as tenth grade we all make mistakes and the guy did the right thing breaking it off . I’ll be generous and say the first year was his “falut “ but the other 8 years thats on her and it’s her responsibility to work through that .

@wickedloonuh89

4 жыл бұрын

I agree, I also think it turned into 9 years because she probably had also self-esteem issues that collided with the trust issues and that probably sent her into some sort of depression, and once you're on this path for a few years it becomes harder and harder to change. I'm just speculating, of course...

@LiveConcertJunkie

4 жыл бұрын

Maxwell meida Inc. Exactly you can’t even put the blame on the guy. He broke it off because he saw what was wrong with the relationship but he can’t be blamed for her not dating for almost a whole decade.

@spring7643

4 жыл бұрын

Maybe she prefers to not date now, not everyone has to date.

@hyrunnisa997

4 жыл бұрын

She probably has an underlying mental health issue that she isnt getting help for. I dont think the relationship triggered it. It was probably always there

@Gloomysushiroll

4 жыл бұрын

Pablo Rivas Maybe heregrets datibg her at all

I just found out that i have a 4th sister, who is also my cousin. My mom and dad have been married for 18 years and for 9 years of that marriage my dad was cheating on my mom with her sister. Today my dad told me that he loved my aunt more than he has ever loved my mom, and that he loves his daughter with my aunt more than he loves me and my siblings. It hurts so much to know that I will never look at them the same and that i will never have a good relationship with my half sister. It really sucks but I am about to have really good nap.

@lacrossienne2708

4 жыл бұрын

I hope you are okay

@shitakichan4606

4 жыл бұрын

@@lacrossienne2708 thank you I'm ok❤

@namjoonluv539

4 жыл бұрын

Sending you love and hugs

@samihatasnim2684

4 жыл бұрын

I feel so sorry for you and your mother. The irony is that your father doesn’t feel any remorses. I'm really moved by your comment. Be strong!

@sindujalythy2001

4 жыл бұрын

You don't have to look at them the same. Enjoy your nap and life.

3:15 I just need to say to you Anon... “red flags just look like flags when you are wear rose tinted glasses”. Don’t beat yourself up for not leaving sooner, sometimes we choose not to see the bad in people... sometimes we ignore the signs. We are only human.

@itsanoformethanks6277

4 жыл бұрын

Bojack horseman

@ReginaPhelangee

4 жыл бұрын

From bojack ✌🏾😁

A three some for 7 hours no break??? Well damn

@wildoatling

4 жыл бұрын

Weird flex

@bangtwitterandtwicetagram830

4 жыл бұрын

m sharp that's not how that works dear :)

@justonetime6179

4 жыл бұрын

m sharp maybe physically, but not mentally.

@spring7643

4 жыл бұрын

@@justonetime6179 and maybe neither physically nor mentally, some people have a hard time saying no. I used to be a people pleaser to the point of not caring about my own needs and I still struggle with it occasionally.

@hyrunnisa997

4 жыл бұрын

@@spring7643 I have to agree with you there. As a person who used to do this a lot, I let myself be pressured into having sex when I didn't want to. Never felt good mentally or physically. At some point you just cut yourself off from your body because of how traumatic the whole thing can be. I'm definitely getting better at saying no now that I have a partner who doesn't pressure me...but it's still hard. And this is true for many many MANY women. More than you realize.

I have no sympathy or empathy for the woman who is married and still in love with her ex. I feel so sorry for he husband, and the worst part is that he will probably never know he is her 2nd place in her mind Edit: For those of you trying to defend her because ”we don't know the full story” knowing the full story is not necessary. Unless you can come up with a scenario where the definition of emotional cheating no longer falls onto her situation, cheating is cheating. How complex her feelings may be is irrelevant.

@spring7643

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah I don't understand that, like why marry them if they aren't your number 1? Makes no sense 🤦‍♀️

@alysbaah-danso5278

4 жыл бұрын

It's very sad cause shes wasting time and years of him not being married to someone else who will give them their all and their soul unconditionally. It's not right and its selfish, she should seriously divorce him or at least tell him and he can decide for himself. Give him the opportunity, if he moves on from her. It's no fault but her own. Its selfish to keep him there.

@sincord1

4 жыл бұрын

@@spring7643 Ex fawks, husband $$

@morganraymond828

4 жыл бұрын

While I understand where you are coming from, I am still in love with my first love but we broke up because our paths didn’t quite match (he was Mormon, I wasn’t and wasn’t interested and he wanted to get married and I didn’t want to right away). Now he’s married and it’s been 4 years and now I’m in another relationship. I love my current boyfriend but sometimes I spend time imagining what it would be like to have not broken up with my first boyfriend. Maybe her ex is married now too and it’s not so easy. She will probably get through it over time. She probably loved her current boyfriend enough to get married and maybe her ex was out of the picture and she thought it would be fine, then she still reminisces about it. If so then that is hard but she will get over him.

@aj3706

4 жыл бұрын

Dont marry someone if you still like other men PERIOD. Idk why these women try to get attached so fast and then fuck it up because they apparently found something better. Some women are just like that and it is disgusting how they think it is okay to keep doing it and continue the cycle.

The last one, the girl with the college reminds me of me. I was in an abusive relationship & I missed out ON SSOOOOO MUCH, my biggest regrets are not going to Germany and Paris on separate occasions because I was scared he’d think I would cheat on him or something. Another one, I wanted to apply at my local library, it was one of my dream jobs at the time, I was younger, and he said “you wont get the job” so I didn’t even bother looking it up. I regret that so much.

@lo-ym8cr

4 жыл бұрын

@Miguel Hernandez rude

@drniravkumar9891

4 жыл бұрын

@Say my Name how can you assume shes from USA. Plus stating your sorrows doesn't cut off hers

@dayllily

2 жыл бұрын

@M U I’m so glad you didn’t go through what I did (:

@lovebite4486

2 жыл бұрын

@M U It's not fair that he said those things, though. He should have been encouraging her/him/them/xir to take all these opportunities. But since he was "afraid" they/she/he/xe felt like they/she/he/xe had to stay.

If you have a parent that goes through a divorce, don’t wait for them to call you first and reach out to them. Your parents are people too and after divorce is some of the darkest times for them. Don’t wait around for them to call you because “it’s their job”

@kenziewilson1413

4 жыл бұрын

Well I mean they are the parent they are supposed to be the bigger person. Think of what their kid is going through also.

@katherinefrd

4 жыл бұрын

@@kenziewilson1413 that applies when their kid is literally still a kid. when their "kid" is an adult already it's kinda immature to wait for the parent to contact you first when you know they're going through something tough. divorce can affect kids but if you're grown already AND even have your own family I'm pretty sure it's gonna affect your parents more than it's gonna affect you

@LiveConcertJunkie

4 жыл бұрын

Kenzie Wilson There’s no “bigger person” when there isn’t an argument between the kid and parent. Them being a parent doesn’t lessen the pain of losing someone that you thought you were gonna be with your whole life. I would argue as their child, you should definitely check up on them and see how they’re doing. Divorce isn’t an easy thing to go through and led that person to suicide.

@akabaneaki

4 жыл бұрын

That story makes me wonder how his mother side is holding on... like does she blame herself too? Or? :(

@alayra007

4 жыл бұрын

that story broke my heart

guys, stop saying "plot twist: they read their own secrets". it's disrespectful, even insulting to those who shared them

@mitzymoomoo6658

4 жыл бұрын

disagree. If the people submitted their secrets then they're obviously gonna be okay with it. Like I'm sure they were told before hand about it

@Toinkity

4 жыл бұрын

I guess humor isn't a thing now

@naylisyazwina6836

3 жыл бұрын

@@Toinkity it is but why would you joke about something serious that already happened. Would you really be fine if someone joked about your girlfriend's suicide?

@milkbread394

2 жыл бұрын

@@Toinkity you mean like dark humor kind of thing? humor are supposed to be funny and this is not funny btw

@Toinkity

2 жыл бұрын

@@milkbread394 You can personally find something funny or not but you have no say in whether if something is objectively funny or not because humor is subjective, you're not the arbiter of comedy, you're just an individual with a different taste and the same goes for all of us.

Imagine killing sentient beings to punish a person.

@JasonWilliams89

4 жыл бұрын

@m sharp Yes...yes they are

@ellenriggs8117

4 жыл бұрын

m sharp the definition of sentience is the ability to perceive and feel things... you’re telling me cats can’t do those things?

@JasonWilliams89

4 жыл бұрын

@m sharp It's objective fact, look up the definition of sentience, or even better, look at the definition provided to you by Ellen. There's no vegan conspiracy theory here, these things aren't even debatable.

@ellenriggs8117

4 жыл бұрын

m sharp bro, your definition was from Wikipedia 🥴

@ellenriggs8117

4 жыл бұрын

Animals* not only cats

If someone killed my pet, I’d go full on John Wick

I DESPISE that cat story. I have a HUGE love for my 2 cats, any cats actually. Killing innocent creatures, because somebody left for 2 days.. They are a phychopath. I hope they get punished properly. Imagine how scared you would be to come home and see your pets murdered by somebody you trusted. Absolutely DISGUSTING human.

@phoebeeliza3855

4 жыл бұрын

you can’t get punished sadly. it’s not illegal which is disgusting

The one about the father committing suicide really hit hard for me. In October 2018 my father and I had a huge fight. I was only 16 and I lived with my grandparents so I decided I wouldn’t talk to him or see him for a while because I was so upset at him and wanted him to know that his alcohol problem affected us. In February of 2019 I reached out to him and we talked for a little while but then not even a week later I got a call from my Nana that he had shot himself and when I got to the hospital he was already gone... I started to blame myself and regret not seeing him. It’s a very hard thing to deal with.

@CELERITAS-BONITAS

4 жыл бұрын

This was not your fault. I hope you can find peace and can move forward without guilt or regret.

@von6413

4 жыл бұрын

sorry to hear. This is why we have to try to see things from other’s perspective especially in an argument.

@pangkoulee7648

4 жыл бұрын

It's not your fault. And I know that your father will understand. *hugs* and *kiss*

@user-tx4mc4pz3s

4 жыл бұрын

you got this sweetheart

@schrutefarmzz7950

3 жыл бұрын

The last words I told my father was f*ck you before he died unexpectedly at 45. We were very close until about a year before his death. It haunts me till this day, time helps I guess.

I had an old friend I moved in with, and she kinda did the same. Purposely killed my Iguana (my baby, such a gentle giant) after I was gone for 3 days longer than we agreed upon. I was visiting my mother out of state, and wasn’t able to control the situation. But she didn’t care. I didn’t realize just how toxic she was until that moment. In our 6 yrs of friendship she was always extremely possessive. Every friend is made she’d either disapprove of immediately or slowly draw a wedge in between. We lived together 3 years. In that time I didn’t have any relationships, and rarely left the house. If I did she was with me. I didn’t go to college bc of her. She spent all my savings. Sure she was nice sober & bought me a lot of things, and housed me.....but it came at a price. And I wish I allowed myself to outgrow her sooner. I wish it wasn’t my baby’s death that finally allowed to to see.

@katieseverson3744

4 жыл бұрын

i'm really sorry you went through that. i think sometimes we forget that friendships can be as toxic or harming as romantic relationships

1:52 That's a whole lot of emotional cheating 👀 People, if you're still in love with someone else, do people a favor and just not get into a relationship

@greennumberthree

4 жыл бұрын

Or get over them. How can you still be in love with a person who doesn’t think of you at all?! Come on! This annoys me so much.

@bangtwitterandtwicetagram830

4 жыл бұрын

greennumberthree yo facts

@daniala1703

4 жыл бұрын

greennumberthree can’t control ur feelings man

@LaCrownedGamer

4 жыл бұрын

I think it is an infatuation about the idea of "what if" My first love died very young in high school. We went out for a year beforehand. 8 years later I have a fiance now, and I told him about my past love life to start off on a clean slate. We worked it out and realized my feelings are not of still being in love but rather guilt and regret over not being there in his last moments. When we leave relationships we tend to hold onto the positives versus when we are in a relationship we can tend to harp on the negatives, so I think a lot of people go through a sense of rose colored glasses when thinking about their firsts loves especially. I know for a fact that my first love and I would not have worked out because we had major trust issues due to myself being insecure about my weight and him being unsupportive emotionally. Once I realized that it became so much easier to let go and move on with a person who wants to grow with me and I am deeply in love with.

@oksanarose6879

Жыл бұрын

@@greennumberthree exactly! especially if so much time has passed! it’s like the person you were in love with is probably EXTREMELY different now! people grow and change you can’t get stuck on a version of someone that no longer exists

With some of these I'm surprised that humanity hasn't gone extinct.

@bangtwitterandtwicetagram830

4 жыл бұрын

XMckingwillX same

@Brucelee89896

4 жыл бұрын

that's why corona is coming hard

@annonymous6827

4 жыл бұрын

Well these sort of episodes usually only consist of people who didn't do well... The Silent Majority is ok

@picklepie5127

4 жыл бұрын

Covid-19: say no more :)

@fvs666

3 жыл бұрын

we will , just some red buttons to press

It's sad how useless restraining orders can be cops take 30mins or more to show up in the mean time that person can be outside your door inside your house. It's a step

I was in a verbal and emotionally abusive relationship. It was the first time I've ever been manipulated. To defend myself, I mirrored it back to my partner at the time. It turned me into the same manipulative person as they were. Since then I have found therapy. I have grown. And I won't incite the same abuse that was imposed upon me ever. Love doesn't justify abuse.

@thatasiangirl0_039

2 жыл бұрын

That's not love. If he actually loves you, he wouldn't abuse you. In this case, he probably likes you, but its not love.

4:17 hit home hard for me. I understand the guilt around “what if’s” a little too well. Although I can’t seem to believe this myself, I tell people all the time that we’re not responsible for anyone else’s choices. His death is not yours to feel guilt over.

@abduljabbar-ex3zr

4 жыл бұрын

@I'MDEprEssEdaNDqUIrkY YOU CAN'T TELL, there could be thousand other reasons that father killed himself for

@spring7643

4 жыл бұрын

@I'MDEprEssEdaNDqUIrkY that's not true at all, even if the son did stay in contact with his dad the same outcome could have happened.

@kathybear5818

4 жыл бұрын

I'MDEprEssEdaNDqUIrkY you know some parents block off their children at times because they are suffering so much that they don’t want their kids to worry over them. So who’s to say what really happened no one is at fault she made a suggestion and he took it she never forced him to do it. Life happens and things happen for a reason.

@sethwood1676

4 жыл бұрын

It’s no ones fault except for the dads at the end of the day it was his decision. No matter what was done if it was in his mind to do it he was going to do it. I’ve talked several of my Marines out of suicide and a few still committed it. You can’t stop the ones that want to do it no matter how close or how much you talk to them.

the fact that she chose a local college over an Ivy League that could've promised her a brighter future proves just how much control abusive boyfriends have over everything in your life

My ex boyfriend said he hate his dad for leaving them. He grew up just with his mom. He promised me that he will never be like him.. But now after having our first child, he left me with another woman. I should have listened to my guts.

When your partner gets accepted into their dream college, you should be happy for them. You shouldn't manipulate them into choosing a different college just so they can be close to you

I love this series, it really shows that everyone is going through something and we should never judge people when we don’t know their situation

These sound and feel like reddit submissions

@ken-yo2hz

4 жыл бұрын

Miguel Hernandez lmaooo. Feels like AskReddit and OffMyChest

@Msptomb

4 жыл бұрын

"AITA for getting a restraining order on my ex after he killed our three cats?"

@jeep..

4 жыл бұрын

true

@breadsrights6824

3 жыл бұрын

Right

The last guy has such a kind heart and he is so humble, I wish the best for him

It breaks my heart to see that at least 3 of these stories are about a relationship with a malignant narcissist (the abusive and controling husbands/boyfriends). What an accomplishment it is to be able to escape such a relationship in one piece.

"It's ok to outgrow people" love it, Advice that needs to be plastered everywhere!

That mom story gave me chills

@tereasdownes9793

4 жыл бұрын

One regret i have When i was thirteen i had my first crush in 2 year his name was Bryce Everytime he tried to talk to me i was too shy then hurried away I had to sit beside him in class once GOD HE WAS SO GOOD LOOKING But i was too shy to hang out with him or ask him out I was the School out cast he was popular

@tereasdownes9793

4 жыл бұрын

Oh by the way my class mates and most of the people in the school tried to get me to talk to him Even the girl who was doing a romeo and juliet play with him wanted me to talk to him but i chickened out

The lady that’s in love with her first boyfriend when she’s married to someone else is a big fear I have. Entering a relationship with another guy when I know I’m not over my ex but also not wanting to wait around for my ex either.

@alysbaah-danso5278

4 жыл бұрын

I get you, just wanna say I appreciate you not getting into a relationship with someone before you're not over your ex. You really saved yourself and someone else the heart break and the emotional turmoil! But maybe, for you to move on from your ex, you need to address things. I dont know your situation at all but if you have unfinished business, you really should address that to them and say to them how you really feel and then leave them to their life. Block em if you have to. Cause you shouldn't let that eat away at you and shouldn't stop you from getting into a relationship with someone who will bring you better things than your ex but also allows you to go into your next relationship with an open heart. You'll probably will love your ex, they'll always be apart of your past but you'll learn and begin to love your next boyfriend or husband more than you did your ex and well you deserve that, 100%

@caitlynmartin4020

4 жыл бұрын

Alys Baah-danso I really needed to hear that, thank you!

these are so weirdly intimate. freaky.

@marisabel5500

4 жыл бұрын

It's about relationships..

To anyone who needs to hear this. You have a purpose in life, you’re loved and if you’re going through something right now just know that eventually this storm will pass and you will see the rainbow on the other side.

@irinawaldo9872

4 жыл бұрын

Tysm kind stranger! *hugs tightly *

@khalesi9469

3 жыл бұрын

Why is the storm taking so long to pass

@exspencivve

3 жыл бұрын

Amen periodt...Come to Christ today...he'll ease all the pain the world has ever given you and he'll make you new

“The most loving thing u can do to them is actually being honest with them”

If someone killed my pets, I would have to be restrained or sedated because I would break someone in half for that. If they got away, they would be looking over their shoulder for the rest of their life.

@von6413

4 жыл бұрын

You’re against a psycho by being a psycho? Relax.

*looks at thumbnail* *immediately thinks of Dwight and Angela from The Office*

If Jubilee made a 20 or 30 minute long video like this I would definitely watch it

If a partner killed my cat they’d disappear...

@loveswintertrees

4 жыл бұрын

I'd plan the end of their life in a horrible way

@von6413

4 жыл бұрын

You call them psycho but you’re also sounding like one too. Chill.

@loveswintertrees

4 жыл бұрын

@@von6413 exacting revenge and removing an abuser from society doesnt make you a psycho. Saying they're even close to equal shows your own psychological issues or inability to defend and value innocent victims..

@von6413

4 жыл бұрын

Vansh_K then that literally make you no different from them

@twoshakesofaratsass4748

2 жыл бұрын

@@von6413 It does. Its like a cleaning a virus

my ex boyfriend was cheating on me with my bestfriend for the 2 years we were together. it’s been 3-4 years and it still affects me everyday and my current relationship.

Trying to grow away from my old party days and alot of my friends at this moment are walking away. It honestly feels empowering to make this choice just knowing that better intentions are out there waiting.

@von6413

4 жыл бұрын

Dam. And here I am trying to get into those party days 🤣

@tizbit_vrc

4 жыл бұрын

@@von6413 I started early when I was 17 ran with a scene til I was 23. 3 years for recovery.

All I can say is to be nice. Compliments go a long way. Especially from someone you wouldn't expect. You can say the same for insults. What you say can make or break someone's entire week. You never know what they're going through so be nice ALWAYS. Even if it has no impact because it will make you feel better at least. Being silent is better than being mean but being nice is so so much better than being silent. Compliment something they may be insecure about randomly. You'll get a better reputation and people can trust you to lean on during tough times. This can prevent bad thoughts or at least help. Like I said, a single compliment can go so far

@von6413

4 жыл бұрын

I used to be like this. But I soon realized people take advantage of your kindness and then you end up being left with nothing after being used. This world is fucked up

@Butterfly-mk9pj

4 жыл бұрын

@@von6413 ikr!

I wonder how many videos Jubilee has stored

It’s amazing to me...the world is so different and filled with such beautiful people but we all share the same problems with love...everyone deserves someone that makes them feel like a king/queen

this made me cry, also the strangers comments on the secrets were so precious and heartwarming

Worst mistake I ever made was messaging someone when they clearly didn’t want me to. I was always supportive. Never said a bad word. But I was naive and looking back I just should have left it alone a few of months and waited for a good time. Sounds like something pretty little, but that on top of other things, ruined my mental health. I’m not over her yet. I still love her. But fortunately, I’m starting to get a little bit better recently.

@justonetime6179

4 жыл бұрын

Good for you. There’s someone else out there who’ll actually care about you.

@LiveConcertJunkie

4 жыл бұрын

Rowan Brearley As someone that’s been there, you don’t love her. You love a version of her that loves you back but that isn’t the reality of it. Don’t try to chase and go after her, just focus on you and a loving relationship will find you. There’s no rush to date, learn to appreciate yourself and get yourself in order first

@rowanbrearley4483

4 жыл бұрын

Pablo Rivas obviously I love the version of her that I knew, but even if she’s changed, I still love her. It’s completely unconditional and should I be in contact at any point in the future, I’d care and support her, whoever she was.

@spring7643

4 жыл бұрын

@@rowanbrearley4483 put yourself first though, it will help you more and everyone else as well. You might be incompatible with her in some way/s, so it's no guarantee that caring for and supporting her unconditionally would be in anyone's favor. Also all healthy romantic relationships have conditions and boundaries.

@rowanbrearley4483

4 жыл бұрын

gremlins 347 yeah I get what you’re saying. But it’s been so long that I understand the situation I’m in and want to make decisions that make sense to me. Because at the end of the day, no one else knows how I feel or is inside my mind. It’s a really complicated and unusual situation though, and under different circumstances, it does still have potential to work. And until that time, I’m not going to dwell on it too much.

"- but I stayed with him for six years because I was sure I could change him." Girl, NO! The only thing that can change him is himself. I see this too damn often when someone thinks they can change the other person. If you want to change, you have to start with yourself 'cause if you're not willing to make a change, then no one else will be able to help you too.

That last dude gave the most direct and relatable advice. You are awesome!

I would never change anyone just like I wouldn’t want anyone to change me, so I drop them from my life. There’s not point in being in a relationship or friendship if you can’t be who you are. At the end people should change for themselves not for others.

The lady who stayed to try and help her ex really hits home to me. The huge relief I feel now that I’ve left my ex is unreal. I am a single mother now to a 6 year old and life is hard but when I go to sleep I am free. I am so free!

wtf is wrong with the guy who kills cats

@melissam597

4 жыл бұрын

He’s batshit crazy and needs to be sectioned

@andie_912

2 жыл бұрын

I know y’all are saying his crazy, but imagine if he were so anxious for her and stresses, angry and the cats were right there. They were right there, the anger and anxiety building up he felt like he needed to hurt something and there they were an easy release. IM NOT SAYING ITS OKAY BECAUSE ITS DEFINITELY NOT! but we only got one side of the story, everyone’s a villain in someone else’s book 🤪

@ahm.774

2 жыл бұрын

@@andie_912 dude- dont even

they’re all so well-spoken. I very much enjoyed watching this!

I found this really interesting! The people's responses seemed so kind and thoughtful. Keep up the great work!

I never thought that these kind of things happened. I thought everyone was doing alright because I haven't met anyone nor took the time to hear these stories. It makes me sad that this happens to people. I saw these situations in movies. I trust a lot of people. This just makes me think about what my life could have been or how someone close to me could just ruin me. I wish that I could do something but I know I would just sit on my bed and ignore it. I know that makes me look bad. But I thought that it wasn't serious and never understood depression or anxiety since I was confident and considered myself brave. So I expected those traits in others. Now I know that people are not like me and they do not live the same life. I'll try

"Sometimes the most loving thing we can do to someone else , is be honest with them"

these responses were so thoughtfully constructed. i have huge respect for both the people who came forward and the ones who comforted them with their reactions

The advice everyone shared was beautiful, thoughtful and generous 💜

HER : My boyfriend killed my cats when I was away ME : DWIGHT???

@CejaTV

4 жыл бұрын

Yessid

@kingagondek6024

4 жыл бұрын

SAME

@dominiquepitts9125

4 жыл бұрын

I knew I wasn't the only one who was thinking that

Mine is I regret staying in contact after my old friend/ex told me she was asexual bc she ripped my heart open again after I started to heal knowing we could never be. I wish I said I accept you but I need to get out for my own well being, she did a lot of messed up things. Who knew you could regret doing something you thought was right and nice.

@georgiaoliviia

4 жыл бұрын

Dexter I mean that makes sense she ripped my heart twice so after the first time I shoulda put myself first

The empathy from all these readers is so humbling and inspiring

Wow, that was deep. A few of these scenarios hit close to home. I love and truly appreciate the insight from those guys reading the cards.

What the dude said at 5:35 made me burst out crying because I’m currently in a relationship where I realized that I don’t love this person as much as they love me and it makes me feel so guilty and when he said that he phrased it so beautifully that I made me realize he said what I’ve been trying to say for the last few weeks

"The best way to show someone you love them is to be honest with them"

“ when people stop you from being your best self, it’s okay to outgrow them”. I needed to hear this

The most loving thing you can do to someone is to be honest .. love that

Y’all, stop all the negativity. People tell these secrets out of free will. This is a place for positivity to help people with their regrets. Just because they did something bad, doesn’t mean they are a bad person, they just made a bad decision. :(

@rainbow9987

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah but your actions when there really bad hurting others that makes you not so good person. We are control our actions and thoughts.

@nyixxo8139

4 жыл бұрын

Rainbow99 yes but you can come back from that. most of the time, people need help controlling themselves because a lot of people can’t. they might have mental illnesses or a condition.

The Asian guy (don't know his name) is sooooo good at giving advice 👌🏽👌🏽

The compassionate and understanding responses from these people is honestly refreshing

I want to just take the time to acknowledge the readers. They not only read other people’s dark truths but also reciprocated their feelings and made those anonymous people feel heard and seen. Kudos to them and gratitude for those who shared. Videos like these can really help people.

7 hours!!!!! how's that even possible?

@sistersnapped9974

4 жыл бұрын

m sharp yeah no 😜😁😋😋🧚‍♂️🧚‍♂️

@DrArthurCGarp

4 жыл бұрын

It's possible but you've gotta use a lot of lubricants and probably switch out every once in a while. She didn't say whether it was MMF or FFM.

@qwertyasf

4 жыл бұрын

Chill'n Krillian good point also they could have been drugs involved 🤷‍♀️

In a non-creepy way, the girl has a really calming voice.

A lot of these things hit close to home for me... This video is both heartbreaking and wholesome! ❤️

just because you're dying doesn't mean you're forgiven, means that you are too late to become better and now have to face the aftermath of what's done

Doesn't anyone find it weird that they read the secrets and then they're like instantly "lmao relatable"

@angel.zay333

4 жыл бұрын

They are probably the ones that wrote them and was like "omg sAmE"

@spring7643

4 жыл бұрын

Not really, since people in the comments can relate to this also. It's common stuff.

@rayraygaleva9493

4 жыл бұрын

Only so many things can be unique

For the person who’s in love with their first boyfriend, I completely relate where you’re coming from. The love you experience when you’re innocent is something.. We broke up because he was shifting to a new city and it broke my heart and I cried for a year. I loved him. I really did. It’s been 2 years now. Sometimes I wish it would have ended badly. When I’m at my worst, I think of him and it feels so good but it hurts. I can’t talk to him about it, nor my family.

I really like the last sentence that was said about how she was amazing and it's okay to outgrow people.

We definitely experience different types of love throughout our life. Often, our first love is quite intense and fast paced. Sometimes we look back and think that we didn't know what love was, or that we'll never have another one like it. To be honest I believe that we never truly fall out of it, there will always be a small mustard grain of love for somebody in our hearts, whether it's for them, who they used to be or even a memory we shared. Regardless of that, the love that this person has for their ex is not a small grain. You're still consumed by a past relationship and it's clear you've never moved on. Although i understand a vulnerability in decision making that some exes have with us, it's extremely selfish and unfair to have married somebody and imagine another. I understand you may feel like you're in too deep now, but the longer you wait, the more time of your husband's you waste. Maybe you posted this to get it off your chest, or maybe in hopes that somebody reading it would tell you what's going on is okay. It's not. Please either talk to somebody to move on, or respect your partner enough to tell them the truth and decide what to do from there.

The Asian man was so profound and eloquent in his words

Violence in a relationship, physical, emotional or spiritual, should not be tolerated. Human instances of anger or mistakes can be forgiven, but _Anything_ that *a.* causing lasting damage, *b.* comes from a place of cruelty, *c.* shows a possibility of habitual repeat.... those are not things which should be ignored. Trust someone who has been there.

For that last one: anyone willing to hold you back should not be a part of your life. My ex best friend was genuinely upset when I told her I planned to leave the state after college graduation. Apparently, a girl she loved planned to do the same. My friend’s career path allowed her to work anywhere, but she tried to convince us to stay and even change majors. Despite the recognition and praise from our respective professors, she tried to guilt us.

That poor girl, I hope she still reaches her full potential despite refusing an IVY LEAGUE SCHOOL! It's obviously something she worked very hard towards, and I hope that it still pays off.