If Couples Were 100% Honest | Split Decision
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0:00 intro
0:31 I've faked an orgasm with my partner
1:38 I would eat the booty if my partner asked me to
2:26 I wish my partner were more kinky and would take more risks in bed
4:51 I'm better at sex than my partner
8:36 I think my partner needs to lose weight or exercise more
10:20 My partner us the most confident person I've ever dated
12:40 My family approves of my partner
15:10 There is a political issue that my partner and I will never agree on
Пікірлер: 3 900
3:43 they’ve done a lot of WHAT…WHERE?!
@buffFrank195
10 ай бұрын
Did anyone notice how they had every race in the video black white Hispanic and asain
@dsp4392
10 ай бұрын
Sex. In public. You should try it.
@hunterhuie1550
10 ай бұрын
yeah bc it’s 2023 and you have to be “equal” it’s dumb asf
@buffFrank195
10 ай бұрын
@@dsp4392what if u get caught
@Vivaan24
10 ай бұрын
@@buffFrank195 not mine...helicopters
I feel like Shadi is passive aggressive and Anthony is defensive so they are making this so awkward
@Happypotato917
10 ай бұрын
I don’t understand why I subjected my into watching this video
@icry9606
10 ай бұрын
I do understand her. She’s clearly frustrated with his lack of initiative in sex and even outside of it. She says in her relationship they don’t adopt traditional values or roles but I think that plays a part to why she’s frustrated with him… because he doesn’t lead. You can see how he’s expecting and wanting her to lead in bed and even on the bases of income. Her being the breadwinner…. Idk. It’s just obvious that she’s expecting more from him and he’s not meeting those expectations
@con_el_maestro3544
10 ай бұрын
😂
@melaniechristinee
10 ай бұрын
I think they’re not meant for each other. And that’s okay!
@sselemaNrM
10 ай бұрын
I don't think they will last..
Shadi and Anthony aren't making it, I've gotta be honest
@asuryan
10 ай бұрын
Fr, they're a bad day away from breaking up
@itzhen7032
10 ай бұрын
@@asuryanI think that day was the day they filmed this video
@MorganinJapan
10 ай бұрын
I came here to say the same thing. They were not clicking at all 😭
@Alyssa684
10 ай бұрын
Shadi was being shady 😂 but for real her communication is NOT good. Very passive aggressive and he clearly needs someone who can have open and accepting conversations
@soop3r872
10 ай бұрын
She started off dating his friend it was doomed from the start
The way Antony said “Then they... Kinda broke up” reveals everything one needs to know about this relationship.
@ethanormax3477
9 ай бұрын
That’s exactly what I thought!! Lmao1
@abigailyalew1304
9 ай бұрын
What u mean ?
@VictoriaHatzson
9 ай бұрын
@@abigailyalew1304 that she clearly hadn’t officially broken up with her ex boyfriend when she started dating Antony.
@dannyjohnson5393
9 ай бұрын
@@abigailyalew1304 ....he slept with his best friend's girl
@parulpatel9179
8 ай бұрын
IKR- I was kinda surprised by how they just said it so casually
the audacity of shadi telling anthony to lose weight is crazy
@marcusmoore5526
7 ай бұрын
THANK YOU!
@plamenasiniye
7 ай бұрын
well, she said that they've both gained relationship weight and that Anthony had complained about gaining it, so that's why she said yes. Anthony could've said yes as well but didn't.
@zionwassie2372
7 ай бұрын
he probably didn't want to hurt her feelings.@@plamenasiniye
@blasiankiki7831
7 ай бұрын
Yes … she’s chunky herself
@plmot6476
7 ай бұрын
Haha she’s like twice his weight!! 🤦
I don’t understand how Anthony and Shadi are compatible 😭
@TheFINNHERO
10 ай бұрын
Honestly why are you dating a friends ex ? Like why would you be okay with being a back up like ?
@nadineh4767
10 ай бұрын
It was so awkward to watch
@akhnatenpage4854
10 ай бұрын
I'm not all the way through but she seems terrible. Lmao
@poejavelski148
10 ай бұрын
Ya idk what happened there. Anthony needs to gain some respect for himself and end things.
@br6735
10 ай бұрын
@@akhnatenpage4854RIGHT?!?! 😭😭😭😭
Ezequiel tearing up while complementing Alondra is the highlight of this video❤🥺🥺🥺
@marcusvlin
10 ай бұрын
Ugh honestly it felt cringy + cute to me, ngl... he's too passive
@Someone-uf6nu
10 ай бұрын
they’re so cutee
@55CINCO55
10 ай бұрын
Favorite couple in the lineup
@rewipe
10 ай бұрын
ayeeee dats me! It was the first question they asked and I was super nervous and I always get emotional talking about her lol. There were soooo many more questions they asked that were funny and lots of funny answers given by everyone(including your boy) but I guess they tried to set the tone here as more serious
@stremendous73
10 ай бұрын
Ezequiel is the person I would most like to talk to after watching this.
Anthony is so valid. All he wants is for Shadi to express her boundaries so he doesnt end up hurting her and shes like 'just make a move' like what move 💀
@zs9652
10 ай бұрын
Yeah thats the problem with that. Every dom says they need a complete breakdown of whats allowed and not allowed. Shadi just seems like the type that has a fantasy in her head that she wants him to magically know. Without telling him what that would be. That is not exactly having someone lead you and take control. Thats just being a lazy leader that wants their followers to do everything on their own perfectly with no help lol.
@HfdguuUesv
7 ай бұрын
Like any move? Is it that hard. How much hate does she get for being honest?
@user-zm9hm7tk5i
7 ай бұрын
boundaries and consent to things are very much needed when it comes to power dynamics/bdsm/kink. its fine that she wants it to happen spontaneuonsly however it clear her partner is new to this realm and isnt natrually a sexually dominant person so in that case they should talk about her wants and what she doesnt want so that he doesnt cross the line (which can ruin the relationship altogether) OR she can simply find someone else who is more experienced and can meet her needs, which to be honest, im sure she will lol@@HfdguuUesv
@Abhishek-bg5xd
7 ай бұрын
Agreed. She’s just a classic toxic woman
@loki350
7 ай бұрын
@@HfdguuUesv and what happens if he fucks up because she refused to state boundaries before hand?
Vernice and Chun are a prime example of an honest and loyal relationship between 2 genuine people
@HiddenThoracle
9 ай бұрын
100% they were the healthiest and balanced couple there. opposite of Devon and the asian girl, complete imbalance in dynamics (and he sets off my fetishizer radar)
@hashbrownmcds
8 ай бұрын
they’re such cuties
@HeidyCardoso-xo1mq
8 ай бұрын
Exactly I loved them the most they were able to communicate well with each other but knowing how and what to say at the same time
@Njoofene
8 ай бұрын
What I saw there was Blacks (as usual) accepting others who don't accept them. Always begging for acceptance.
@polakuran204
7 ай бұрын
yes hope everything goes well for them
why was shadi so passive aggressive with her answers 😭
@snicholson8884
10 ай бұрын
She's shady...
@CaptainBuggyDClown
10 ай бұрын
Ong
@shazam1334
10 ай бұрын
I was kinda surprised to see she said Anthony needed more gymtime rather than her lol . She demands so much lol
@unicornflausch
10 ай бұрын
i was so scared of her arghhh
@thebarefoothobbit
10 ай бұрын
I mean her name says it all.
Shadi is going to be disappointed when she finds out all countries have governments.
@keys2467
10 ай бұрын
@R.E.Dizzle ikr? surviving on her own skills....yeah ok so you're just gonna live in the wilderness and survive off of rabbits and plants? build your house out of fallen tree branches? the list goes on
@Ceerads
10 ай бұрын
@@keys2467She’s in a survivalist dreamland (will she have many guns, too?).
@maybe.salena
10 ай бұрын
Many governments waaaay worse than USA!!!
@Miguel-ym3bu
10 ай бұрын
LMFAOOOO
@roybatty9663
10 ай бұрын
Despite all the complaints Americans have against governments, the US government is by far one of the least interventionist governments. Let these people into India, Brazil or South Africa and let’s see how they like the govt there
I'm rooting for Vernice and Chun. They're probably the most honest and compatible out of any of the couples.
@bubba94290
8 ай бұрын
That’s probably because they’ve been together for 4 years, and married for 2. The other couples haven’t been together for even a year. Most here probably won’t last passed a year and a half
@Sul516
6 ай бұрын
That bar is a little low
@gertrudesatekge2635
3 ай бұрын
I screamed internally when I saw them here, they have a yt channel, they re really cute
@murcianity
2 ай бұрын
I like them too. Vernice is a very beautyfull choclate woman. Chun got to hold on to that.. she seems to be a great woman
@Lineproof
Ай бұрын
@@murcianity don’t be weird about it now
when anthony covered his stomach my heart actually broke
@Raidan97
2 ай бұрын
Felt that for him🥺😩🙏🏽
@Altorac
2 ай бұрын
She was so mean to him honestly. But also, they seem so incompatible
@Gizzy7837
Ай бұрын
lluv1punch: Same 😢, he looks great imo! He's perfect this way he is.
@GRAYgauss
12 күн бұрын
Especially given she's a Michelin person, she's so passive aggressive it's wild.
Title: ruining Shadi and Anthony's relationship
@sirrparker47
10 ай бұрын
Shadi’s a bit too different for my man lol
@necroarmorinyuaru12
10 ай бұрын
If communication ruin their relationship, then it's a good things they split because they weren't meant to be together
@Juastem
10 ай бұрын
I was looking for this comment😂
@Johan590
10 ай бұрын
How is this ruining if you don't talk to ur partner about this kind of stuff? Don't be surprised
@btdtpro
10 ай бұрын
She wanted to move to a forest to get away from the diversity, but it turned out the diversity was already in the house.
This would be great if you did this for couples married for 40 years or more. We’d see what REALLY matters in a successful marriage…
@Facesofthepeople
10 ай бұрын
THIS!!!
@sola_a
10 ай бұрын
Being married a long time doesn't not mean it is a good relationship
@Cozette420
10 ай бұрын
My exact comment on this video was the fact that these guys are too young to know anything
@amywallander8143
10 ай бұрын
My husband and I have been married 21 years and I know we would be at different places on some of these questions. But we have learned and loved how to weather these differences. Marriage is work but work that yields so much love, respect, and fulfillment.
@stremendous73
10 ай бұрын
@amywallander8143 Yeah... I think the important parts are not what line you step on but instead the narrative or explanations provided for how the two function together, compromise, sacrifice, prioritize, etc. Some couples could be on the exact same answers each time and not have as healthy relationships as some who differ in various ways.
I haven't seen much commentary on Ezequiel, but I just want to say I adore his shyness and really appreciate how vulnerable he was when expressing how confident Alondra is and how we inspire us to be like her. It was the most touching thing ever and you can really tell she brings him out of his shell!!
@Nina-hz9vv
8 ай бұрын
He's an angel
@RacingPepe
7 ай бұрын
Unfortunately he doesn't seem resistent enough to exist in this world. He will get stepped on.
@way9883
7 ай бұрын
@@RacingPepeok toxic masculinity enjoyer
@flohwalzer
7 ай бұрын
@@RacingPepe he can do this, theres always room for improvement and he will only get stronger and stronger with time, like all of us. i wish the best for him
@inarita222
6 ай бұрын
ikr!!
Curious to know why Shadi believes diversity has ruined our government. Lol
@AnxChan
9 ай бұрын
THISS i needdd her to expand on that, if it is what we think it is, I dislike her even more now lol
@Chiyembekezo
9 ай бұрын
I thought she said diversity was a plus but the diverse people themselves cause more and more problem that the government is struggling to fix. I dno what I was hearing 😂
@mynameis.9443
9 ай бұрын
in america of all places
@h3llboyyy407
9 ай бұрын
She literally sounds like she got boxed into a corner and then randomly said "i just wish i was out of america" as so to hide from her true answer 💀
@liltunturi1251
9 ай бұрын
Dont think too much about it I would say. She doesnt like people in general.
Anthony is asking her to tell him her boundaries so he can do what she wants and feel confident. You cannot just say "I want to be dominated" without talking about what "dominated" means to you. It seems like they have a communication problem. Shadi throws some serious digs that make no sense. It makes me wonder if she got with him to get back at the friend she broke up with.
@IcE-_-Kidd
10 ай бұрын
She 100% Did She's Using Him As A Get Back Attack So The Ex/Best Friend Does Something To Get Her Back
@leechXBL
10 ай бұрын
she is and it’s obvious
@WCUmetalhead
10 ай бұрын
💯 💯 💯
@JezzaN1
10 ай бұрын
100% - she’s straight up toxic.
@Tenseiken_
10 ай бұрын
It's a stupid line nobody should ever walk on. He wants answers, she doesn't want questions. She can't expect him to be rougher and rougher until she says stop. He clearly doesn't have that in him and that's NOT a bad thing. She's just oozing passive-aggressiveness. Almost seems like a majority of her personality instead of just a small trait in certain aspects.
"the diversity is great but..." standing next to a black, asian, and hispanic person lmao.
@55CINCO55
10 ай бұрын
I wouldn't necessarily say she's right or wrong though... diversity at the very least does seem to introduce complexity, diversity of thought and culture that is, which sometimes goes hand in hand with race.
@thehomie7121
10 ай бұрын
Right??! I was lookin at sis like 👀 waiting to see what she was gonna follow up with
@ethandougherty6971
10 ай бұрын
When she said that I gasped if I was there I was bouta throw hands💀
@FIREcrochethairstyles
10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@allofhayley708
10 ай бұрын
can you give me a time stamp please??
im definitley rooting for Alondra and Ezequiel. First of all they are both so physically stunning and look great together. but it was also heart warming to see how highly they both think of each other. I can tell they really care about each other and I can see them lasting long term. I feel the same about Chun and Vernice. They have healthy communication and look great together physically and look at each other with so much love
@prinnycupcakes4992
3 ай бұрын
how though.. she literally said that the abortion thing was a deal breaker for her but apparently not enough to break the deal..
It’s so weird to talk about your life so personally and detailed like this on KZread
@meghanwylie151
3 ай бұрын
I don't think so, it's life 🤷♀️
@user-wp2tf5dd9g
2 ай бұрын
almost as if they signed up for 😱
@kamivenus753
2 ай бұрын
Everything is online now, we just watch other humans all day every day it's strange agree
@Reedfender
Ай бұрын
100% agree. It's so funny because when they start talking about money in similar videos they instantly clam up. Weird to be so open about their personal lives like this
@xSaphiredust
Ай бұрын
Agreed. I would never want to share with the public any of this information. Imagine how awkward this would be if your coworkers interviewers find it. Wild. But to each their own.
Shadi commenting on Anthony’s weight is crazy 💀 There’s no way they lasted after this. 😭
@lunamartinezzz
10 ай бұрын
Since the beginning their way of communicating was uncomfortable, kinda passive aggressive
@WaifuDaCherry
10 ай бұрын
@@lunamartinezzz honesty. I don’t know how they were even compatible in the first place.
@lounajushpe4906
10 ай бұрын
If he complained about his own weight then I don't see the problem, she wants what's best for him, and being uncomfortable in your body isn't healthy, no matter how fat/skinny you are
@baeoshi
10 ай бұрын
I don’t see the issue? She said they both gained relationship weight & he complains about his, so why not get to the gym?
@NuggetDaChicken
10 ай бұрын
at 7mins he also said like equally bad to her with the lasting shorter q
Why is no one talking about Ezekiel and Alondra? His response to the confidence prompt was so heart warming
@sexywerkfitness
10 ай бұрын
He’s so sweet 🥹
@Lifeisfun84
9 ай бұрын
It was soooo beautiful ❤
@powhonkwhoosh
8 ай бұрын
i was tearing up 😭
@marie1961
7 ай бұрын
i literally cried
@garnaxaqueen
7 ай бұрын
He's a gem
Vernice and Chun have by far the best relationship here ever. I just feel like their both so wholesome and honest with one another without biting each others heads off 😅
Venice and Chun, I pray your marriage is blessed and your families become 1 big unit. You guys look so sweet.
@darkglobe406
5 ай бұрын
yeah by far the best couple - also the one dealing with very real issues with their families . i also like the asian girl , she has too low of a self esteem , she is a solid 8 at least .
this is so messy do it again
@tnago916
10 ай бұрын
with lgbt couples
@bbywiz
10 ай бұрын
@@tnago916no!
@r.y.l.e.e_mochi
10 ай бұрын
@@bbywiz why?
@michaelregis1015
10 ай бұрын
It's like softcore Jerry Spring.
@tnago916
10 ай бұрын
@@bbywiz ye!
I felt so sorry for Vernice that Chun's family doesn't approve of her :( You could feel the sadness... it's absurd to me that there are still so many people who look at someone's culture, race, upbringing instead of someone's heart. Vernice seems like a wonderful person sweet
@southeastasiandude
10 ай бұрын
They are also already married. Crazy they still disapprove.
@user-ff9mb1ts4u
10 ай бұрын
Asian people are very racist except towards whites which is super embarrassing (coming from an Asian)
@Neighbor8773
10 ай бұрын
Yea, and for two years😟
@GoldenBoyDims
10 ай бұрын
If she was white they would love her, it’s really sad
@tylerd8609
10 ай бұрын
@@southeastasiandude racism is strong and generational
Ezequiel getting shy and nervous when talking about Alondra was so cute 😭😭😭 11:26
10:05 that’s crazy she said her bf needs to exercise. I know he wanted to say it, but he held back.
Anthony and Shadi didn’t even do an end interview 😂. I think the relationship has run it’s course and they’ll both be happier with other people.
@planetveenus1
10 ай бұрын
they did it didn’t make the cut unfortunately, she’s my friend that i recommended for the show
@trinityruelas3171
10 ай бұрын
@@planetveenus1tell shadi to stop being shady and move on from Anthony so she can be happy in a forest lol
@michellitaa
10 ай бұрын
@@trinityruelas3171 frrrr
@michellitaa
10 ай бұрын
@@planetveenus1 why would she say minorities cause issues 😭 she needs to stop watching vids on the unabomber and think critically herself
@roberttahlmann7316
10 ай бұрын
@@planetveenus1 Shadi don't pretend like this isn't you 🤣
I think for Anthony and Shadi, the initial lust/excitement has worn off.
@kilaa0007
10 ай бұрын
yeah, both failed
@GammaRayBill
10 ай бұрын
In most relationships, the excitement always wears off but that’s normal, it’s all about moving the relationship forward without having to rely on that “excitement” all though this principle isn’t a one size fits all so correct me if I’m wrong, I’m sure there are relationships of all sorts including ones that entirely rely on that excitement but from what I’ve seen those relationships can end quite awful but again I could be wrong, this is just what I know and how my relationship is
@kilaa0007
10 ай бұрын
i agree but they don't seem willin to do it that's why they failed@@GammaRayBill
@modelo4504
10 ай бұрын
Shadi wants to be told what to do and Anthony also want to be told what to do they both females
@_rune
10 ай бұрын
@@modelo4504what does that have to do with being a woman??
11:21 aww🥹i wanna cry that was sad but sweet
@oranjebeer6637
8 ай бұрын
Yes
Ezequiel and Alondra are a genuinely bright couple, so caring and sweet with each other. You can see they have different personalities but they fit with each other so well Edit: kinda bummed that she's so anti abortion, it probably comes from her upbringing that she can't even see the nuance in the topic. Ezequiel confirms he is a sweetheart tho
This definitely was some of these couples therapy that they needed
@zacherylewis3726
10 ай бұрын
Yea definitely either make em or break em!
@arashf6094
10 ай бұрын
Plus they have to be careful what they say since others are watching
@christophernoble76
10 ай бұрын
and a wake up call for shadi and anthony to break up lmao, they are so incompatible
@nashe_outofcontext
10 ай бұрын
@@christophernoble76 exactly! 😂
@ntombimadu8437
10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂I see it now
I like the host. He led the conversation but let them do the talking.
@jazmynemapstone8549
10 ай бұрын
Agreed, definitely one of the better hosts I’ve seen from their new video series.
@you_are_welcome97
10 ай бұрын
and is hella fine
@miau7896
10 ай бұрын
@@you_are_welcome97LMFAOOO but legit
@jubilee
10 ай бұрын
Should we bring him back for more eps? 👀
@Tenseiken_
10 ай бұрын
@@jubilee He was pretty chill, let the partners have the spotlight and was polite about asking them to expand on some replies they gave. I think for these type of videos it's very good qualities to have.
It made me sad Vernice wasn't accepted by Chun's family. She's so lovely and seems so nice.
@AngadGrewal-df2tx
3 ай бұрын
She is not she is hypocrite
@kamivenus753
2 ай бұрын
Agree n I love he went against his culture
@kamivenus753
2 ай бұрын
@@AngadGrewal-df2txstop hating
8:48 the way Vernice and Chun both did the same hand thing is cute ngl😭
can we talk about what a beautiful couple vernice and chun are! so cute!
@rewipe
10 ай бұрын
Yeah they were super cool people! I added em after we were done filming
@JamilaS84
10 ай бұрын
Yeah we can definitely talk about that 😍
@olugboyeopeyemi2428
10 ай бұрын
@@rewipeaww you're so sweet Ezekiel
@LM.312
10 ай бұрын
I love them, they seem like they have great chemistry too and just overall seem open to healthy communication.
@greciamendez7375
10 ай бұрын
My favorite by far!
I feel so bad for Anthony, shadi makes it seem like everything he does is wrong, and like he’s stepping on eggshells every time he says something to her. I’ve had a relationship like that and it sucks. I don’t know if they can fix it or not, but if they do then I’d be suprised
@SusMaBite456
10 ай бұрын
He's weak its he's fault men tf up.
@jamelbunny5732
9 ай бұрын
@@SusMaBite456😐
@Emperorerror
9 ай бұрын
@@SusMaBite456 either trolling or irredeemable
@Abhishek-bg5xd
7 ай бұрын
She’s just a classic toxic woman
@kidbrown2010
7 ай бұрын
@@Emperorerror He slept with his "best friend's" girlfriend. He is weak and has no honor. This is why she doesn't respect him, because he is the type of guy who commands no respect.
I like Chun and Vernice. They have great vibes and communicate with each other super well
the thought of not knowing my partner was anti-abortion is terrifying! watching this made me realize that there are a lot of dealbreakers for me lol
Chun and Vernice were unexpectedly my favorite couple. They definitely love each other and I hope they’re able to create a safe space in their relationship to have difficult conversations (especially with BLM for Vernice and Chun’s family not being supportive). Pleasantly surprised to see that they’re married ❤
@Nikki-lh1tu
10 ай бұрын
Same, I love them. They seem to have alot of chemistry 💞 you can feel the love they share with each other from through the screen
@az1infin268
10 ай бұрын
I disagree, I think Vernice shrinks herself, dims her light for the sake of that "relationship", in a way that I don't see Chun doing for her (Chun's energy just seems blah compared to hers in general). And from his racist family not accepting her and him not even calling it what it really is (dread to think if they have children, would the Asian grandparents reject the children too because they are Black?), Down to him saying she should be more "active" on a public platform, when he himself isn't active, without regard for her feelings as a woman. Then there is the fact that Chun isn't fully understanding of the racism Black people face (echoes back to how he is handling the situation of his racist parents), so much so that when it came to protesting for the human rights of Vernice and other Black people, instead of him understanding and supporting her 100% he is questioning her motives and her "head space" like she is crazy for protesting for her rights as a human. She can do better, I think in some ways she's like Ezequiel (though not to the extent of Vernice, ps Ezequiel kind of has similar mannerism as Prince the singer lol), He and Vernice can do better than the people they are with but they have such low self esteem that they've chosen relationships less what they are worthy of. They both deserve to be in relationships where they are fully accepted and get to show up as their whole authentic selves, without fear they are not enough or can't even advocate for their human rights without being questioned because they really are beautiful and I think have more to offer than who they've chosen to partner with and because of that she's shrinking to match Chun's energy.
@az1infin268
10 ай бұрын
To sum it up, I think he is irrational when it comes to understanding and supporting her wants and needs, even the most basic ones like her needing to show up and be her full self without him treating her or allowing others to be treated like an alien. He even sometimes twists it so that she feels like she's the one who is being irrational for wanting and deserving those fundament needs met.
@EstherDwomoh
10 ай бұрын
@@LA-cm9uo what do you mean by this?
@LA-cm9uo
10 ай бұрын
I don't see what you see@@az1infin268
The lack of communication & honesty in people's relationships is absurd!
@ceceliaellis863
10 ай бұрын
Ikr like my partner and I communicate a lot when it comes on to these things. Like we are so open and comfortable
@dsp4392
10 ай бұрын
They're super young couples. Gotta give em some time.
@haiIeyy
10 ай бұрын
@@dsp4392One of the couples have been together for five years😭
@salmaabdullahgb
10 ай бұрын
@@haiIeyyyeah still young
@michaelbarletta1024
10 ай бұрын
@@dsp4392the younger you start that habit the better. Unfortunately most people who lack good communication maintain that through the rest of their life. That’s one reason why divorce rates are so high. Most relationships that I have witnessed around me have awful at commutation and the age range of that sample size is extensive.
We love you Ezequiel! You deserve to be confident!
Honestly whoever thought of this gold segment needs a bonus! I get that @Jubilee often hits the needle on the head most of the time but I just returned to watch this specifically and have been reminded why @Jubilee is a great channel overall. It must be hard to get couples willing to be completely honest (to a point) on KZread regardless of the incentives they receive. I honestly hope there will be more conversations specifically centred around couples especially this type of content. honestly really enjoyed the conservations that were had, very rare, especially in a period where there was a lack of realistic situations/conversations being had online. Therefore, @Jubilee has an Amazing Team, a Great Host and a Phenomenal Channel! Continue to do the great work :)
If this was another non-host show I don't think this would work out so well. The host definitely made the contestants comfortable enough to answer way more honestly
Shadi is like "I want HIM to do this without ME telling HIM that I want that" Girl, he isn't a fortune teller, take the initiative and COMMUNICATE all that Hope you figure it out
@tnago916
10 ай бұрын
nah that kinda makes sense. you want someone to put forth effort without you asking them too. She probably gives hints. Not like she's thinking take me to cabo tomorrow without saying nothing
@Ray03595
10 ай бұрын
@@tnago916this why so many relationships fail tho. Stop dropping “hints” and just say what you want. When it comes to differences between the sexes, men are more literal. If you don’t say what you want we’re not going to guess.
@icry9606
10 ай бұрын
@@Ray03595but she expressed that she wants him to explore more and do other positions with her but he’s kind of set in his ways. He also replied to her by saying that she should take the initiative… lead. A lot of women want to feel like they are being taught in bed or man handled, not her giving him directions on what they should next. He needs to take some initiative too and be willing to try new things without always being told too.
@tnago916
10 ай бұрын
@@Ray03595 Guess that's why I date women. Nobody is out here expecting you to read their mind but instead put forth effort if they said certain things they'd like or want for the relationship without saying 'DO THIS DO THAT." Pretty simple to understand.
@IcE-_-Kidd
10 ай бұрын
@eeesss23 Soooo Basically Read Their Minds Lmao Edit: "put fourth more effort if they say certain things they'd like or want for the relationship without saying 'DO THIS DO THAT'" So Yes Read Their Minds If They Didn't Say It You Have To Guess And Im Not On A Game Show
Whenever a couple answers a question while looking at each other, I feel there's more of a connection. Whenever someone answered and looked at the host, it was so awkward. It's important for your partner to know that what you're saying is meant for them and it's important for you to acknowledge their reaction to that information to see that they have heard you and are understanding where you're coming from.
The way Shadi admitted she was low-key racist with the hating diversity thing had me 💀💀💀
The host is a top tier instigator 😂
@unnderneath
10 ай бұрын
He was kinda turning me on
@dennisddt1146
8 ай бұрын
Absolute menace to relationships.
@DiaryofKrissy
4 ай бұрын
"Do u wanna live in a forest?"🤣🤣
Jubilee out here trying to end relationships
@HostileTakeover555
10 ай бұрын
If you actually have a good relationship, this wouldn’t break you up.
@Cozette420
10 ай бұрын
Only the ones that aren't gonna last anyway...Anthony
@rewipe
10 ай бұрын
Yeah they were like "our goal is to make at least one couple break up" before we started recording lol
@tnago916
10 ай бұрын
straight couples
@kasper2917
10 ай бұрын
the host was a massive instigator😂
shadi and anthony made me cringe so hard and physically recoil. i will never leave my streaming dungeon again.
@buio445
9 ай бұрын
Hilarious comment, g00nstar!😂
I like Chun and Vernice and they seem communicative. Especially Vernice is so cute. Alondra and Ezequiel and Jennie and Devon are really lovely too. Overall amazing choise with guests. Hope Shadi and Anthony work on their comunication problems too.
When Vernice was saying how going to the gym is nerve wracking, I felt that. That's why I work out at home lol
@55CINCO55
10 ай бұрын
Same, got a mini home gym and everything.
@vilecandy
10 ай бұрын
Home gyms are expensive though
@roberttahlmann7316
10 ай бұрын
The world doesn't revolve around you bro
@55CINCO55
10 ай бұрын
@@vilecandy Not really, all you really need is a squat rack, a weight bench, a barbell, and weights. I spent less than $500 for everything. Of course it also depends on your goal, if you want to be a bodybuilder you'll probably want to spend on more.
@_Gabyo_
10 ай бұрын
As a guy I sometimes feel like girls are acting suspicious of me when I go near them to use a machine. No sweetie I'm gay and I don't care about your fat ass. I won't jump you and undress you in front of everyone so please chill. But I cannot say that and I understand why they feel that way. I just dislike the fact I'm considered a potential threat when really I'm barely aware they're even here.
Anthony: “I want to respect you and what you’re comfortable with and I also need a little direction” Shadi: “oh so you’re scared to make that move?” Anthony: “yes” Shadi: “well I’ve been waiting for you to make that move” How about….. we communicate with our partners what we want from them 😱😱 like bro is not a psychic, he can’t just know everything you want him to do without communicating it ??
@keys2467
10 ай бұрын
also that bit about her wanting to be dominated....he needs to know what her actual boundaries are in that context, he can't just assume. like how hard is it to just say what you want?
@JessieP07
10 ай бұрын
@@keys2467because then you are being dominated, you’re holding someone’s hand teaching them everything. That’s an ick. Like it’s the complete opposite of being dominated.
@LIMERAGE
7 ай бұрын
@@JessieP07 What if he does something she doesn't want and shuts down because of it? Doesn't she have a mouth to speak? She didn't even tell him she wanted to be dominated, that's not something all couples do and not at the same level, there are so many other types of domination. Speak and make yourself clear, people can't read minds.
@user-zm9hm7tk5i
7 ай бұрын
THIS!!! if she doesnt wanna "hold his hand" then find someone else OR accept that there may be a time the domination goes too far and at that point it will be nobody elses fault but her own. DOmination looks very different to different people. @@LIMERAGE
@Abhishek-bg5xd
7 ай бұрын
She’s just a classic toxic woman
Devon and Jammie were my favorite couple followed by Chun and Vernice. And big respect to Devon and Chun for being so smart and matured in their response and how they protected their partners. Social and situational awareness they showed was 🔝🔝 They all was entertaining. Lovely episode
@way9883
7 ай бұрын
It's Jennie actually but I agreed on the couple rank
Can this be a weekly series please? With the same host, I love it!! I keep coming back to check for a new episode, but it isn't there 😭😭
Ezequiel & Alondra are a beautiful couple.
@rewipe
10 ай бұрын
aww thanks bestie c: We dont hate each other yet lol
@crishernandez5828
10 ай бұрын
@@rewipe Ezequiel was so shy but theyre a good couple
@c0smicchelsea
10 ай бұрын
Frrr I was looking for more comments about them
@AlzMarioWolfe
10 ай бұрын
Very wholesome
@Dee-xu6vr
10 ай бұрын
I love that Alondra stands her ground on the abortion topic and is not scared to voice her opinion even is honest with her partner about breaking up because that is also her child! Wow! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I love Vernice and Chun. Something about their vibe and communication reminds me of my husband and I's dynamic. They seem like they'd be fun to go on a double date with.
@josiekoch7589
10 ай бұрын
ikr they're by far the cutest couple here
@Ceerads
10 ай бұрын
“…my husband and *I’s*”????
@lechatnocternal4817
10 ай бұрын
I was literally thinking the same thing my husband and I are just like them too
@HiddenThoracle
9 ай бұрын
It’s because they have the vibe where they can talk to each other about anything and be properly heard. The rest of the couples were all so passive aggressive
@Jearrow
8 ай бұрын
she basically my@@Ceerads
I LOVE the questions asked, those outside the intimacy ones though. They were proper questions that one could learn from and know more about their partner
This is a relationship ender and I LOVE IT! More chaos regarding relationships!
not me pretending to answer the questions with my deluluship
@cabbage3025
10 ай бұрын
😂😂
@itsmj3103
10 ай бұрын
and what he say 😭
@thando1200
10 ай бұрын
being delulu is the solulu
@jubilee
10 ай бұрын
Hey! Anyone can participate - we don’t judge!
@gordanegunz3431
10 ай бұрын
LMFAOOO felt this to my core 💀🤣🤣
These questions are spicy. I hope everyone goes home with their partners the same way they came in😭😭😭
@kehlanijohnson8870
10 ай бұрын
They started out swinging. At least one of these couples definitely went home angry and arguing. 😂
@dollz2200
10 ай бұрын
definitely not shani and anthony 😆😆
@infinitetranquilo
10 ай бұрын
nah, you already know Anthony and Shadi did not walk out the same way they walked in
@natorieaiko9110
10 ай бұрын
@kehlanijohnson8870 I think most did but I'm hoping they at least stay together
@natorieaiko9110
10 ай бұрын
@@dollz2200 they might survive 😭
This format is revealing and exciting. The cadence of the answers, switching between each group and on to the next one is maximal content 🐐
I’d really like to see more of this series, very interesting watch
Anthony just needs to let Shadi go into the woods of some random place in Russia and find someone else.
@Raja-fv1cr
10 ай бұрын
He’s the issue
@AlexFandino-xi3oo
10 ай бұрын
@Raja-fv1cr apparently it's diversity 😂
@Abhishek-bg5xd
7 ай бұрын
She’s just a classic toxic woman
@mishterkhalid3117
4 ай бұрын
Russia also has government. and she's not gonna like it when she learns there are many non-white ethnic groups in Russia as well.
@britneymybeloved2979
Ай бұрын
lol Shadi would fight the US gov to be able to enter Russia and then start complaining once there
I can easily see shadi cheating on Anthony.
@fresh_peche9366
10 ай бұрын
It sounded like she cheated on his friend to get with him
@selfmaderalex3293
10 ай бұрын
@fresh_peche9366 is true, but if they cheated on a friend, they will also cheat on you.
@selfmaderalex3293
10 ай бұрын
@@tnago916 bro look at the video. Saying he needs to work out, implying he is not good enough in bed or adventurous
@Materialgworl514
10 ай бұрын
@@fresh_peche9366yeah peep how she quickly cut Anthony off when he was talking about how they met
@raiden5386
10 ай бұрын
Oh fuckin absolutely, she's not ready for a committed relationship right now, she wants novelty not security
Chun don’t know how lucky he is
this felt like an awkward group therapy session 😭
@pooman9159
8 ай бұрын
It was a hard watch fs
Chun and Vernice are couple goals! I love their connection, communication and honest support for each other
the lose weight question was too funny, those who said no were the ones who should've said yes
Anthony! Run bro RUN!
The girl commenting on his partners weight should also be aware that she has the same problem
@nightwish2507
10 ай бұрын
She is the only one who has that problem....
@tnago916
10 ай бұрын
She can still talk about it. They were both talking about their weight gain or past weight gain. Kinda the topic
@brianna9606
10 ай бұрын
Literally like she’s bigger than him😭
@nonkululekotembo1652
10 ай бұрын
I think he's been complaining about weight gain whereas she's comfortable with her body. I think she meant " well do it then"
@bryanasimpson365
10 ай бұрын
She admitted that they have both gained relationship weight but he vocalizes his insecurities about it . She’s comfortable with herself. So the issue is the insecurity not his actual weight … there was nothing hypocritical about what she said … she’s just not likable so there’s an issue with everything she says
Shadi lives in denial. She rants about the government and sounds like a mad prepper yet she doesn’t realize that no other government would welcome her passive aggressive mentality.
@kezi_yup
10 ай бұрын
thinking USA is the most democratic country
@CME-4575
10 ай бұрын
Not just that, but once she moves out of the us, her situation will not get better
@Ray03595
10 ай бұрын
@@CME-4575I’m just curious where this magical forest is where she can do whatever she wants. I don’t think she’s ready to lose all of the conviences of living in a first world country. Does she realize running water, plumbing, electricity, access to food etc. is much more difficult in many countries? Don’t take functioning governments for granted.
@marvin2678
10 ай бұрын
nah she has apoint
@TryingtoTellYou
10 ай бұрын
Apply some sub-par interpretation skills and you would understand that she was commenting on leadership styles, not whether she thinks less or more of people due to their race. She is more than entitled to criticize participative leadership due to diversity because it is absolutely true that it is slow and full of bureaucracy.
I really loved this episode. Everyone was really vulnerable. Those are some difficult things to be honest about with your partner even more so when it's broadcast to the entire world. It's really refreshing to see more than the surface of what people think and feel and want from a relation.
I’m amazed how shadi and Anthony been together to this day
this is so fun bc its extremely awkward please don't stop this series
@kenny851117
8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
Shadi is lowkey delusional. Living off the grid like she wants does not suit with her personality at all.
@tnago916
10 ай бұрын
Anyone and everyone can live off the grid and do their own thing 💀. What does personality have to do with anything
@casmithh
10 ай бұрын
@@tnago916 because she thinks it's all la di da fantasy away from government when it really isn't. Living off the grid takes a lot of adjusting to, and especially in a forest??
@billbelicheat4499
10 ай бұрын
She said that like she aint 25 lbs overweight with zero survival skkills@@casmithh
@asophiez5265
10 ай бұрын
exactly, living in a forest isn't the same as being against the government
@atherisprimerid7978
10 ай бұрын
@@casmithh Exactly. And living like that requires some form of inner peace. And from what I’ve seen in this vid, she is has way too many demons inside to work through.
This is so vulnerable omg
A great job from the host, tough vibes were handled so well. And even better conversation-encouraging questions.
Chun and vernice are literally perfect
@10Th1ngs
10 ай бұрын
True
@warreng5394
10 ай бұрын
I love this couple, but Chun's family probably would like for Vernice to be more modest in her dressing. Although culture plays a big issue, I hate seeing women exposing themselves this way.
@Be1smaht
10 ай бұрын
i dont think so
@dsp4392
10 ай бұрын
@@warreng5394 Good thing most women don't really care what traditionalist Asians think about what they wear.
@scrimbo5319
10 ай бұрын
@@warreng5394No one cares what you hate, she doesn’t even know you
Vernice seems like such a positive person! Both Chun and Vernice express themselves so well even with difficult topics
@9:08 " I don't find joy". Same. Same. They should try playing a sport together!
It looked like Vernice was about to cry when they discussed Chun's family not being accepting of her...
Wtf “diversity is causing more problems” even mean!? Girl, my blood boiled!
@masterchiefiii
10 ай бұрын
Must be the rainbow you're holding
@hiig2667
10 ай бұрын
I hope i misunderstood her and she didnt say what I think shes saying lol
@JessieR2023
10 ай бұрын
Same and she said it in a very diverse room too. Like wtf
@Chawaniii
10 ай бұрын
And The girl said that in a room with black,asians and latinos…😅
@planetveenus1
10 ай бұрын
Shadi is my best friend, she explained further on it it wasn't shown, but i agree she worded it improperly, that with more diversity comes more complexities and we are opening the world up to new conversations new perspectives and people are talking about it but not doing anything to actually change how the world deals with the new dynamics and challenges that come with trying to get people to see a new mindset.
The moment Anthony walks away from his partner, his confidence will shine.
@bobbykite8705
9 ай бұрын
I don't think it will, if im being honest. He seems very weak and fragile. If he does somehow manage to get into another relationship after this one fails, he will be taken advantage of again. His only hope is to take a dose of reality and level up in all areas.
the question about family approval and venice's answer made me tear up bc i felt that
thanks for subtitles! amazing
I worry for Shadi and Anthony's relationship after this. I literally had to do a double take when they said she dated his best friend in highschool 🤣
@Ceerads
10 ай бұрын
Don’t worry. She’ll go into her woods somewhere and he’ll find a far more suitable partner.
@blighticus
10 ай бұрын
@@Ceerads For about 3 hours till her iPhone battery runs out
@safiyahmurray3600
10 ай бұрын
Also when she said all the "diversity" was the problem...I was like "uh, oh! She may be a closeted racist/Karen"
@hellogiygas
10 ай бұрын
She definitely did give off the sense of an overly paranoid white woman lol@@safiyahmurray3600
@franst3909
8 ай бұрын
Yea sounds like she took him as rebound 😬
I felt so seen when all the women nodded in agreement with Vernice about feeling uncomfortable going to the gym alone. I hate being perceived by men
@bobankefer828
10 ай бұрын
I go to the gym almost every day. I'm from EU so I guess people are different here. There are many men and women in my gym that I go to, and trust me on this: most men, including myself, don't care about you. I just want to get my workout in and dip, I'm not perceiving anyone. I couldn't care less tbh
@mrblackbond
10 ай бұрын
@@bobankefer828these girls out here act like all men are creeps. It’s so annoying… but then many of these same women show up to the gym wearing practically nothing. Not only are men gonna look at you when you do this, but everyone else too.. bc it’s a gym. High key, majority of men are there to work out. we ain’t studying you.
@pinkpantherettes
10 ай бұрын
@@mrblackbondthey never said that.. they just said they dont feel comfortable going to the gym alone
@NatashaVincent
10 ай бұрын
Women never seem to assume other women may check them out too, which has always been an odd leap of logic to me. Make it make sense. Like an all women's gym wouldn't have the same potential issue ➡️ in any social and public space you may be seen and viewed as attractive. But, most importantly, it behooves us all to humbly assume ➡️ no one GAF 🤷🏿♀️
@mrblackbond
10 ай бұрын
@@NatashaVincent this ! 🫡💯
SO much respect for these people in this video that were honest, wow! I couldn’t do this to my gf 🤣. The host is hilarious 💀
5:50 who gon tell her she’s the problem😂
shadi n anthony definitely didn’t last after ts😭
@rapdied2023
10 ай бұрын
Her bf is gay
@justchillin9320
10 ай бұрын
@@rapdied2023 💀
@divine6745
10 ай бұрын
@@rapdied2023for sure
@Ceerads
10 ай бұрын
@@rapdied2023You know this HOW?
@AlexFandino-xi3oo
10 ай бұрын
@@rapdied2023shell probably leave him then. Cause diversity 😂
this video is gold, there needs to be more
Chun and Vernice I relate to you about parents approving. My parents don't approve and his parents are chill with me and invite me places. It's been two years and it sucks, but I hope things begin to work out.
The way Shadi brought up diversity and then said “…but” GIRLIE WHAT??? Also good luck living in the woods when mid life hits and you end up with aches pains and health issues. Lmao
@Ceerads
10 ай бұрын
Or when she menstruates….Methinks she hadn’t fully thought out this fantasy.
Chun and Vernice seemed to really fit like puzzle pieces and you can tell they have done a lot of work over the years. Both gorgeous as well Alondra and Ezekiel are both so beautiful. But I don’t think they have the kind of compatibility to go the distance. I think Ezekiel puts her on too much of a pedestal. There’s a fine line between admiration and worship. Jennie and Devon are adorable. They just remind me of like little Jack and Jill dolls. I feel so bad for Anthony. Shadi seems like a difficult person to be with.
@nightmarestar9192
8 ай бұрын
Agreed I feel bad for Anthony too
Need more of these omg
This episode felt like relationship counseling that we’re just present for..some better some worse..
anthony and shadi are in need of relationship counselling
@FishOfTheSea
10 ай бұрын
Honestly they should just break up
@mirayoon1992
10 ай бұрын
yeah..
@zaynsprmcy6421
10 ай бұрын
nah they’re unfixable
@mackataz1605
10 ай бұрын
Nah.
@Crocro900
10 ай бұрын
It’s no point just break up