Men never used to ask that question because women actually offered something in a relationship. A defensive woman is a brokie for the streets.

@airthrowDBT

Жыл бұрын

There are so many how to wife videos from prior decades, it was a legitimate vocation and modern feminists are the least respectful of it...we're supposed to respect their student and consumer debt and terrible attitudes more than home makers? Nah, I'm good.

She just proved his point in the first few seconds of this clip.

@goldenduck854

Жыл бұрын

Haha Instantly defensive

@theusu7178

Жыл бұрын

Dude I couldn't believe how easy she self destructed

Because they only bring drama to the table!😂😂

Any female who gets angry when asked what they bring to the table or replies that she is the table, is actually telling you that they bring nothing to the table. Women who have something to offer a man will welcome the question because she will want to let you know what value(s) she will bring to you and the relationship.

@skipg73

Жыл бұрын

Exactly why they torpedo the possible relationship because at that point they know they've just been exposed.

@gregscrabshack2307

Жыл бұрын

not nothing, problems

@dimeweld

Жыл бұрын

When they don’t have an answer and say “coochie” RUN

The guy in the white shirt and glasses is very intelligent and well spoken. He knows what he’s talking about. You should invite him more often 🙌🏾

They get defensive/triggered only because they know they cannot give a good answer and they become shamed and angered because they do not want to take that L

I would sacrifice a 10 for a 6 if the 6 was peaceful

Here is a list of what the modern female brings to the table: .

@DominikSlamDunk

Жыл бұрын

💯😜

@TheMegatron673

Жыл бұрын

their presence and second hand box. 😁

@doublepromo8240

Жыл бұрын

They don't even bring DINNER to the table.

@tonyross101

Жыл бұрын

What do you bring to the table? Every modern women: I AM THE TABLE! Translation: I don't know what to say because i don't bring anything to the table other than sex and you're exposing me.

@beyondthesacrosanctbreeze

Жыл бұрын

Iam the table... AKA I heard this on the internet and I think it's a sick burn but in reality it shows how useless, gullible, and stupid I am.

What do you get the man who has everything? A woman to take it away

Woman in white says a stupid opinion and when someone simply says "No, no ,no" ... she gets triggered and and cries that "everyone is jumping on me" .... classic victim mentality 🤦‍♀

@MVP_MAGAZINE

Жыл бұрын

That was me saying “no no no” 😂

"I am the table" "Oh, so you bring a table to the table, could you be more useless?"

I would rephrase the question in a manner of why should I choose you over someone else?

Instead of asking a women what she brings to the table, ask them, what can I get off you that i cant get off another women?

@coltonsmith3724

Жыл бұрын

A woman*

Because there is nothing to bring!

Any man who asks that question just shows how immature, uncreative, and simple they are.

Simple: they’re defensive cuz they CANT ANSWER. They bring nothing unique to the table

And I'm sure most of the women who can't answer the table question somehow answer tricky questions in job interviews and don't get offended.

Because they have nothing to bring to the table

@nataliemorgan8742

Жыл бұрын

Yeah I agree. Men should just date men then, simples.

When they say their the table just respond with bye cause I'm not in the market for furnitures.

They get get upset at the question because it exposes the a few things. That most relationships are transactional. That many women may not have the ability to love a man but are still conditioned to depend on one. The con of chivalry and how it is exploited etc…..

What do you bring to the table? Every modern women: I AM THE TABLE! Translation: I don't know what to say because i don't bring anything to the table other than sex and you're exposing me.

@dontstalkmedeltoro8816

Жыл бұрын

This is why women need educating and careers. So they can bring it.

@markball7028

Жыл бұрын

@@dontstalkmedeltoro8816 most men want a women that is nurturing, loyal, honest, and knows how to cook. I personally don’t give a darn about your income. Not a hot headed, highly opinionated, nag like most western women are these days.

@serenadesilhout

Жыл бұрын

​@@dontstalkmedeltoro8816 Education doesn't bring anything to the relationship table if a woman looks down at a man, is combative, and if it comes at a higher risk of divorce. A career is irrelevant to me as a man if I'm paying all the bills. Money doesn't tell me anything about a woman's empathy, nurturing, communication, fitness, or temperament which are all qualities that I'd want my kids to know.

@tonyross101

Жыл бұрын

@@dontstalkmedeltoro8816 no when they are asking what they bring to the table they are talking about in a relationship. Men don't care about your education or careers

@josephsteele8107

Жыл бұрын

@@dontstalkmedeltoro8816 we don’t care about your education or your career! It’s doesn’t benefit men. It benefits you! Nice try though!

Yes PEACE it's very simple, and look how hard that's been

"Women in this generation get defensive, that's just how it is" .. doesn't justify it

to be clear, the table isnt what you bring..the table is where you go to negotiate the value you can add and lay out all the qualities that would make you a good man/woman to pick..so it cracks me up when a womans answer to that question is "I am the table"...

They don’t like answering because they don’t bring anything OR they haven’t thought about it.

So many women 'identify' as tables these days!

Maybe because they have something to be defensive about ?

You think Bill Gates or Warren Buffet get defensive when then conversation of broke men comes up? No...why? They have money.

Deflection at its finest. She is really insecure which is sad. A blanket statement without any real substantial core intimate revelation show's a lot of insecurities. I hope she is getting therapy and working on herself to change attitude

Why she keep touching that hair she purchased?

Saying "I can cook food" is like saying ... "I can go toilet all by myself" or "I can change my own bed" How utterly empty as a person do you have to be where that's a flex of a thing you will do in your relationship?? You can cook dinner can you? Ok good... But what about washing and dressing yourself? Can you do that? Oh you can!!! Wow you're like the dream girl .... It's so pathetic what they think counts as a flex of ANY kind at all. Imagine what you have to act like in every day life to list cooking as something special you will do for the right man??? If that's special.... What is baseline norm???

@dontstalkmedeltoro8816

Жыл бұрын

Well.. the women bring the womb you would need to have if you wanted kids. So... she doesn't even need to cook too be valuable to society.

@makaisonn7030

Жыл бұрын

Being able to cook and wanting to cook is two different tings

@rdkirk3834

Жыл бұрын

"I can prepare a gourmet meal." "I can prepare and host an executive-level dinner party." Both are high value, far beyond being able to warm up wieners in the microwave.

@Danielle-et6fc

Жыл бұрын

@@makaisonn7030 exactly some men rely on fast food and hardly ever eat a cooked good meal

@deadtoy5360

Жыл бұрын

Cooking 2-3 meals a day is actually impressive. Men appreciate that because it frees them to do other things that are important to them, but it is also necessary because a cooked meal is healthier than frozen or instant foods.

Personality ?????? 😆 🤣 😂 okay

Such a good conversation, I didn’t want it to end.

The same way when a woman wants to know how much money I make

@dontstalkmedeltoro8816

Жыл бұрын

Women ask that?

@HKST51R

Жыл бұрын

@@dontstalkmedeltoro8816 gold diggers do

@coltonsmith3724

Жыл бұрын

@@HKST51R all women do

@AmyMohamed355

Жыл бұрын

Do you answer tho. I doubt you do

The problem is that people think there is a “right” answer to the question. There isn’t, there’s just your answer. If the person doesn’t want you because of what you have at the moment then that’s a red flag right there.

@Tblack1115

Жыл бұрын

That may not be a red flag, it could be a sign there may be incompatibility.

@coltonsmith3724

Жыл бұрын

There is a right answer. Fit, feminine, friendly, submissive.

@kerryparsley9962

Жыл бұрын

@@coltonsmith3724 Educated? Articulate? Kind? Don’t parrot bro you better than that.

@coltonsmith3724

Жыл бұрын

@@kerryparsley9962 educated? Nah. I don’t care about a woman’s degrees. Articulate? About what? Kind? I already said friendly. You can call it “parroting” all you want but thats not what it is. Its what i demand from my women.

@airthrowDBT

Жыл бұрын

@@kerryparsley9962 Why would I care if a woman is educated? I'm not against a woman with an education but please break down how her education will benefit ME in any way, directly. And no "good conversation" is not part of it because girls with GEDs can have great conversation and girls with masters degrees can be terrible.

No man wants a pushover we just don't want someone who's attitude is ridiculous and a difficult person

No...we won't "let u live" AKA try to justify ur bad way of thinking. The woman said women don't like to be asked wut they bring to a relationship with a man becuz they're defensive...then said WE all our defensive as a way of saying "men do it too" which is straight out of the modern woman playbook.

@airthrowDBT

Жыл бұрын

"But what about the MEN" is all they have, deflection and false equivalence. They never own up to their wrongdoing.

I don't think questions should be considered offensive or rude. Anyone that believes a question is offensive, they don't like the answer they have. Also the question "what do you bring to the table?" And her is I am the table. That means she's replaceable. I can always can a better table that is more supportive, reliable, loyal and gives less lip service.

Is it just me but whenever I see a girl being pressured to use there logic instead a feelings to answer a question they tend to play with their hair a lot or make sneak comments and laugh this girl is talking about being defensive to a question that isn't offensive at all it's a basic question that shows me a sign of a maturity and also the fact that you're trying to defend women that have nothing to bring to the table

@doublepromo8240

Жыл бұрын

You mean their FAKE hair.

@butterflymage5623

Жыл бұрын

Sure but she was asked why do women get offended and she answered. I’ve learned to not try and apply my logic to other people’s logic. You ask them questions to get their perspective and if it don’t match up you say thanks but no thanks.

@coltonsmith3724

Жыл бұрын

Their* logic. Use punctuation to separate sentences.

All MAD!!!

What do women bring to the table that men built is the better question.

The real issue is that female nature is to look upon men as though they are environments to be lived in, and to be used. And you don't bring resources and benefits to your environment... You use the environments resources and benefits. I mean, why would you give the land and offering of money, water, or anything else? It's land... It's not like it does already have what it needs and offer you those things. 🤷 This is the real reason that women who take offense to the question. Because in their mind, men aren't actually human, and it's just a bizarre thought to bring something to a nonhuman... "I mean, it's not like they are women and need anything." Is the thought. 🤷

@rdkirk3834

Жыл бұрын

Whew. But your're not wrong.

@airthrowDBT

Жыл бұрын

The whole part about "waking up" to RP is realizing that the sisterhood reigns supreme for them and they don't see us as people, only other women and very small children. Then their ability to heartlessly exploit men for money and destroy them and deny them their kids and all the horrible stuff they do makes sense. They never feel guilt for what they've done to a man, and they will excuse ANYTHING another woman DOES to a man. It's basically like trying to get a slavemaster to feel guilty for whipping what he thinks is his legal property and not a human being.

@tygon13

Жыл бұрын

@@airthrowDBT I mean.... Yup.

All this shows is that women are generally disingenuous at best. All they can do is play with their hair and talk nonsense.

Women get upset because most don’t bring much to the table besides intimacy…if you don’t believe me ask yourself if you would deal with your woman if you weren’t intimate…

Any woman that gets defensive when u ask what she brings to The table, walk away and leave her alone.. she's showing u she's not bringing anything.. she the type to expect men to bring what she wants but how Dare u request anything From her.. Leave those girls alone..

@airthrowDBT

Жыл бұрын

People are always like "You can rephrase the question so that..." NO, you need to find out early on if she's remotely logical and a rebel who cannot get along with a man and believes your entire existence is to simp for her. The table question is a GREAT litmus test. If she gets mad, say goodbye and be glad some other chump will have to deal with her bad attitude.

@cjempire1188

Жыл бұрын

@@airthrowDBT 1🎯🎯

Much wisdom from these guys.

Allow wardah man she’s cool! Thanks for having us on the show

Fully grown women talking like street hustlers

Ting ting ting it's thing

Men want peace, women want drama? Static? Stimulation? Like men are weed and women are meth? Thats an uncomfortable activity to be part of.

It's not rocket science.. if the default response is combatitivness/defensiveness. They probably don't bring anything or very little to the table. Something inside them somewhere, is acknowledging this.

A man wants a woman to bring three things into his life: Peace, grace, and legacy. Men who already have children won't care about the lagacy, and older men won't care about the legacy, but peace and grace are ultimately non-negotiable. Peace and grace are lifelong. Young men may not realize this yet, but mature men know it. If you look at Hugh Jackman's wife and wonder what the hell that superstar sees in that #4, the answer is "Peace and grace."

This is exactly what feminism teach modern women...when it’s came to take a accountability and responsibility for their actions of their choice always turn it into played victim minds set....when you get triggered with questions or argument always “ How dare you asking that” “ I don’t like the way you asking “ “ you shouldn’t say that “

"willy-ism" omg I'm dying hahaha

We are just defensive? Bullsheezt! Y’all are just combative! We don’t want that! Passport please!

@siya9Karib

Жыл бұрын

I see a passport bro lols

You should only be defensive if you bring nothing to the table. Which many of these women don't.

The problem is what most Women think they bring to the table is valuable, but turns out it's not valued by men at all, its the complete opposite.

Women can either beca career women or a stay at home mom. What do you want to be and what do you bring to the table. Common

@coltonsmith3724

Жыл бұрын

Do you mean “come on”?

Peace, Femininity, Mindset 🤭

@siya9Karib

Жыл бұрын

P.F.M

This lady got defensive while explaining how women get defensive…. SMH

It's a weird question to be honest. What does anyone bring another person?

@goodmanj1941

Жыл бұрын

The question of “what do you bring to the table“ has everything to do with what comes after. What does this woman have to offer a man in exchange for a man taking the risk of being turned into a pay pig slave by this woman using the gun of the government. What does she bring to the table, that offsets the risk of losing access to his children, what does she bring to the table to risk the loss of contact to friends and family, what does she bring to the table that is worth him putting in the extra effort and hours at work. What does she bring to the table for a man to risk the loss of all past and future laborers. Women seriously underestimate men or our reasoning. This is not some kind of psych question, this is not some kind of hustle question, this is straight up asking a woman what does she bring to the table for a man to take the risk of enslaving himself…

@darwinLee81283

Жыл бұрын

As a Man if asked I could Verbalize a List of things that I individually would provide for the Relationship. It's easy for a Confident man

@vegito123456

Жыл бұрын

Women will have a list of things they expect men to do in a relationship. Men are simply asking what are we getting in exchange for providing you with this. No woman is not gonna expect her man to not defend her if a confrontation happens. Men are asking okay what are you bringing in return for me putting my life on the line for you.

@mikaeltsimbidakis6980

Жыл бұрын

Nothing

@airthrowDBT

Жыл бұрын

It's not at all a weird question if you're not a selfish woman. Nobody but selfish women finds it weird.

always

Like every woman, you have drama to offer!

Good content bro.. I don't get why women are mad about that

Widest forehead ever

Mg the one in the white must be wonderful to see when you go home. Single forever

Guys just stop! Tell these chicks what you want and if it's not something they are mentally capable of being then find it elsewhere and stop going back and forth about it. They are really in the room with these guys advertising, don't miss that point in the confusion they are skilled in causing.

Please fill the space inside, before you go looking for another to complete you..... kind regards Legends

..."for ME" 🤦🏾 B.S. soon coming

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Wow the one lady answered the question like an idiot and it was supposed to mean something. Why do you dye your hair red? BECAUSE it is red thats why!? ... What the hell does that mean? Why are you defensive? BECAUSE we are defensive thats why!?

This is from generations of women being told they they have value just being a woman. They were told this by their fathers. So let's really think about why these women don't have an answer.

@steelesharpensteele6252

Жыл бұрын

Nah wench yall to blame stop deflecting

@dontstalkmedeltoro8816

Жыл бұрын

@@steelesharpensteele6252 well... if women were told to get educations and careers, like I did and like my daughters have. They would know their value. But go ahead. Prove me wrong. Women were protected throughout history for a reason. You might want to start to realize why as less and less women decide to have children. Society can't survive without women. Men have donated enough to banks to ensure they aren't needed for 1000s of years. Women. Not so much.

@dontstalkmedeltoro8816

Жыл бұрын

@@steelesharpensteele6252 oh.. and calling women names online must be why you're single and lonely. As pearl says. Be better. Maybe you will attract a good woman.

@rdkirk3834

Жыл бұрын

I taught my daughter (and she did learn this lesson), that the three things a mature and responsible husband will want his wife to bring into his home are peace, grace, and legacy. And maybe not even the legacy. But the peace and grace, one way or another, are non-negotiable.

@Sentinel82

Жыл бұрын

Not from father's. These women are the casualties of single motherhood.

I am the table: Do I look like a chair? These ladies are actually quite balanced and honest. Took me a while to adjust.. One lady simply said "we're defensive, its a new question".. Just said the truth, she never said it was correct to be like that and the convo developed..

well bro you don't know what anyone brings to the table unless you ask. that's just keepin it real because we can't assume nothing.😁

@coltonsmith3724

Жыл бұрын

Can’t assume anything*

Any woman who includes in her list of what she brings that she can move her uvula at will is a keeper.

Anybody asking or being asked this question is for the streets. 🤣

@coltonsmith3724

Жыл бұрын

Nothing wrong with asking this question, and you can’t control if someone else asks you. Your comment is completely ridiculous

@MrSuperPsymon

Жыл бұрын

@@coltonsmith3724 I don't debate women.

You guys are asking the wrong questions instead of what do you being to the table. Ask explain to me what your mom did to raise you right and there lies your woman she can either lie and shell expose her self when you see nothing about her resembles that or she can be honest and you don't have to play the games.

@coltonsmith3724

Жыл бұрын

Its a valid question

@nataliemorgan8742

Жыл бұрын

@@coltonsmith3724 Don't you mean 'it's a' 😁

lady with the white top changed up real quick

"Women are entitled" there fixed it for you

Women brings nothing absolutely nothing

Is not the relationship the table?

@coltonsmith3724

Жыл бұрын

Yes the table is the relationship. Hence why guys ask what women bring to the table

"What? You ARE the table? So you're useless... because I already have a table."