She's proof that wearing expensive brands can easily make you look cheap and tacky. The price-tag is one thing, having a fashion sense another

@sleepynatali4675

3 жыл бұрын

Hey my name is Natali tooo

@connied2451

3 жыл бұрын

Jay looks just as bad!

@dreasmom2789

3 жыл бұрын

Agree

@Chelbasaur

3 жыл бұрын

Hopefully we'll all be able to forget about mid-2000s fashion one day 😖😖😖

@karlatarango2376

3 жыл бұрын

I mean good taste it’s hereditary

why did none of them suggest that she sell some of that clothing?

@vizefusion4895

4 жыл бұрын

It's because with these shows they actually teach people nothing and offer to pay off there dept or some depends on the amount and then these people make them money it's a endless cycle and nobody gets better and it's all about money

@sagwa_jo_eighty_fo

4 жыл бұрын

@@vizefusion4895 well THAT'S depressing

@savannahm5529

4 жыл бұрын

No. It isn't.

@matthewgreski4060

4 жыл бұрын

Lol

@Miss_ESL

3 жыл бұрын

@@vizefusion4895 I agree completely. It would teach a much better lesson if they just got her proper debt counselling, got her on a fixed repayment scheme and taught her how to cook on a budget. The food she's cooking "cheaply" is unnutrious garbage when she could be eating much more healthily.. especially given she could stand to lose a few pounds herself. At 21 if she doesn't start learning adult responsibility soon, she's going to be homeless by the time she's 25.

£52,000 debt with an £800 monthly salary.... Goodness that is horrendous 😭

@D.von.N

4 ай бұрын

Banks are equally responsible allowing her to mount this debt. I can imagine them rubbing their hands and salivating over her struggle, until she defaults on her payments and goes bankrupt. Then we all pay for it.

@Gerrie_de_B.

2 ай бұрын

@@D.von.N Banks are pure criminal organizations. You cannot live without them as your salary needs to go to a bank. They know this and squeeze you out as much as they can...

@janetwestwood9194

Ай бұрын

🚬💅🫦💨🍷✌️❣️🇬🇧

Back then having a below average salary could make you a homeowner. They probably didn’t realise how lucky they were.

@ladyofthecreek279

9 ай бұрын

Those are the people that worked, scrimped, saved and sacrificed. No immediate gratification there.

@GeoffreyBronson

8 ай бұрын

They'll be removing heads in the streets in 15 years don't worry. I'm not joking.

@ratqueen3809

8 ай бұрын

@@ladyofthecreek279 depends..my parents went on holidays every year and owned a house with a mortgage and several cars. sorry but the boomers lived in the golden era monetary wise

@katie8325

8 ай бұрын

@@ladyofthecreek279er no they’re not! Credit was ridiculously cheap then. There were 100% mortgages 🤦🏻‍♀️

@IamPINKIEDaniels

7 ай бұрын

​@ratqueen3809 do you think everyone had as much money as your parents? My parents couldn't even afford to take us 4 hours away to the city, let alone have multiple holidays 🤷🏼‍♀️

BROOO! Did they really just release all those balloons right over the ocean where there are seagulls and aquatic life?

@seawright64

4 жыл бұрын

Alex Phillips I don’t agree with what they did, but this is at least 10 years old

@Huimangi

4 жыл бұрын

@@seawright64 14 years old even, still a shitty thing to do

@Andreabay90

4 жыл бұрын

@@seawright64 they had brains 10 years ago too just not those on the show. :D

@paulb1716

3 жыл бұрын

Agree! It's horrible!

@honestlyitwassobigiwantedt4046

3 жыл бұрын

This is lowkey hilarious

Please don't demonstrate debt using helium balloons if you plan to release them -- as they usually land in the ocean and cause tortuous death to some sea creatures.

@michaelcap9550

4 жыл бұрын

It was a good demonstration. The video is about debt, not on how to be an Eco Avenger.

@sidharthchand8072

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah that was stupid

@2eleven48

4 жыл бұрын

@@michaelcap9550 ....an 'Evo Avenger'? What a plonker. And, yes, the two are connected, as with everything else. How come you don't understand that?

@katnoto8993

4 жыл бұрын

This show is at least 10 years old, probably older. I do t think they'd do th ast sort of stunt these days because people are a (tiny bit) more aware

@megaudc

4 жыл бұрын

I think the balloons is how you know this was filmed in 2007. And the Girls Aloud b-side.

I love programmes like this, they make me feel like a put-together adult

@PetitePrincesEve

7 ай бұрын

I know 😂😂❤😂

@ArtingFromScratch

7 ай бұрын

Legit I don't understand how people get in this much debt unless it's school debt. Still easier than buying a house now though😅😂😢

@hollythecrossstitchaddict83

6 ай бұрын

Lol, me too 😂

@thecarnivorept

6 ай бұрын

A mortgage and 52k debt on £10k salary... this is why the financial crash happened.

@KimW-er6og

6 ай бұрын

I had a friend like this and she in one night was telling me how horrible her credit card debt was already at 23 and she was considering bankruptcy but that same night she ordered over $500 of clothes from an online shop. She did get it all under control but it took a lot of willpower and work and time.

I was brought up being told by my parents if you can’t afford it you can’t have it. It has always worked for me and my kids.

@bevanbuckwheatshea5520

11 ай бұрын

Bloody good advice.

@miaomiaou_

4 ай бұрын

What’s even better advice- if you can’t afford it, you have to figure out how to! 🤭

“She’s only 21 but already she’s double her age in debt” Oh, she’s £42 in debt, that’s not too bad. “That’s a staggering £42000” ...pretty sure that’s not how “double” works 🤔

@blargmcfarg

3 жыл бұрын

Alina McPherson what does that have to do with the comment? lmao

@friedfurby6712

3 жыл бұрын

@Alina McPherson okay boomer

@johannas.l.brushane2518

3 жыл бұрын

They might refer to some general debtlevel. That a 40+ with a higher salary, teenage kids and what not typically have higher debt than the someone at 21 yrs?

@cillianclarke8987

3 жыл бұрын

You would think the people who are gonna be helping her out with how to spend her money would know maths

@conour1387

3 жыл бұрын

Literally 😭

“ Oh I bought them because they were 59.99, reduced to 29.99.” As the saying goes “Going broke saving money.”

Who doesn't eat their leftover pizza?? That's one if the best things about pizza -- cold leftovers for breakfast the next morning.

@behave7583

2 ай бұрын

Exactly

Next time you get a 1000 pound debt, remember a balloon will choke a dolphin.

@sarahissersohn5495

10 ай бұрын

Or a sea turtle

this is soo early 2000s i cannot

@StarlaBizarre

4 жыл бұрын

sooo much tacky gucci and so little eyebrow

@emmmaa16ilovemm

4 жыл бұрын

The girls aloud photo shoot 😳😂❤️

@missk7001

4 жыл бұрын

Yes the eyebrow fashion. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

@cassiopeiaAlbascot

3 жыл бұрын

LOL my thoughts exactly

@almira.shakur.lawyer

3 жыл бұрын

Lola ++

I am sorry really I'm not but she doesn't even look good spending it! She's all decked out in designer this and that but they look horrible put together that way and it doesn't make her look any better than if she had on jeans and a t-shirt.

@Rosebloom11

4 жыл бұрын

I was thinking the samething!!!! It's like all she sees is labels, but completely clueless how to put it together. And all this makeup? Her makeup is awful. It looks like she's not wearing any. I really hope she grows up quick. I personally wouldn't get in a relationship with someone with so much credit card debt.

@MariaTorres-hc5uq

4 жыл бұрын

Too much bad taste, and too much fat. The stuff she buys look like they're fakes. Best wishes from Lisbon Portugal. Stay safe!

@tinahinkle1956

4 жыл бұрын

I've watched many episodes of rich kids go skint. I'd say(my opinion only)they are not the most attractive of people's. No matter what they try to spend...they just don't cut it. Just saying...

@estherb822

3 жыл бұрын

You should see her now.. Wow.. She's half the size and very pretty.. Sadly gavin is not who she's with now. I looked her up.. There's only one person on fb with her name.. She too works for the council and lives in Blackpool.. So it's definitely her. Someone commented how she looks great these days... Commenting on the weight lose I assume.

@AK-47-yall

3 жыл бұрын

i justooked up her facebook and her husbands name is Gavin. i doubt she found another man. named Gavin to marry.

It’s absolutely ridiculous that she bought a car but she hasn’t learn how to drive yet. Feel sorry for her fiancé and clearly he is not utterly happy.

@kt1pl2

9 ай бұрын

He should just go.

@AshleySpeaks4U

7 ай бұрын

Don't think the fiancee part is his idea. Most men are not thrilled by heavy women, so add nearly $50,000 debt, I hope he refuses to marry her.

@PeaceOfMake

5 ай бұрын

​@@AshleySpeaks4U You're gross

@timpearce3314

4 ай бұрын

I had a wife just like this ,now an "ex wife" if her fiance has a brain, he ,d better run, and soon!!

She basically has no self control, whether it's buying what she wants, eating what she wants or drinking as much as she wants. No concept of consequences. Bit like a teenager

@miaomiaou_

4 ай бұрын

She’s only 21! I feel bad for her tbh, she likely had no clue what credit is and how to use it properly.

Shame on the show for the balloon release! Wtf were you thinking?! Those balloons not only pollute, but kill wild life.

@rw6391

4 жыл бұрын

This is so old

@mutoidliz2320

4 жыл бұрын

Zzz

@LemonSoulz

4 жыл бұрын

@@mufasaiam7794 what a dumb fucking comment

@monnikhan1000

4 жыл бұрын

Mustafa Supas how is the snowflake era relevant be smart when you comment bud

@HannahCharlesworth98

3 жыл бұрын

Environmental issues have been round for a while, obviously, but it just wasn't as prevalent when this was filmed over a decade ago

Her partner should be sure to keep his own bank account without her name on it.

@possumfriend2335

3 жыл бұрын

He's still marrying all the debt she accrues even if he does that. He should give her a year to get herself together and pay off debt if he really wants to marry her.

@GrammarSplaining

3 жыл бұрын

@@possumfriend2335 The codependence of the partners in these shows always gob-smacks me.

@thomasmulligan546

3 жыл бұрын

They’re not married

@valeriejean6507

3 жыл бұрын

He needs to run.

@valeriejean6507

2 жыл бұрын

@@kr3642 I wouldn't either

me, an american, astonished they can own a house with a 15k salary

@Hazzar595

3 жыл бұрын

You can't anymore

@hannahroyle2886

3 жыл бұрын

This program is quite old (early 2000s). You wouldn't be able to do that now!

@TheDeekay64

3 жыл бұрын

Blackpool is the pits... 5 years ago there was a10 bedroomed hotel for sale for just over £100,000. Couldn’t buy a flat anywhere else for that

@deborahstone1296

2 жыл бұрын

In Canada the more debt you have isn't the problem it's whether you are paying off your debts on a monthly basis

@ArielASMR

10 ай бұрын

Unless you were very fortunate and inherited it or owned it outright though whatever means. But that's rare. Yes I agree it's near to impossible to run a house, own a house especially with today's rising costs. Getting on the property ladder is tough.

My mom was like this to a degree. It was all paranoia and class anxiety. Very sad. She failed to realize that no strangers looked on her and thought to themselves she was rich like she wanted. They usually weren't thinking about her much at all. She wasn't hiding very well.

She looks so cheap. And spending 42.000 pound.

@t_mandry

4 жыл бұрын

Tine Seinen she gets £800 a month but I can get £750 for two days work in the supermarket. She does look very cheap for someone who even spend 10k a year let alone 21k

@mparthur144

3 жыл бұрын

Tacky

@MarchionessDarby62

3 жыл бұрын

That ratty fur jacket is ratchet.

@royalkingdomcommando6379

3 жыл бұрын

SHE'S IN DEBT!

@gilouxlefrenchbgrpzbla3776

3 жыл бұрын

Pigs would always be pigs

If she thinks debt is a joke than she clearly hasn’t met Tom Nook.

@dieuluong2972

4 жыл бұрын

New Horizons flashbacks

@retardedthomasthetank1059

4 жыл бұрын

She really hasn’t

@jessicles23

4 жыл бұрын

That damn tanoki likes giving big ass loans out and expects them paid off before more stuff happens

@abramdavidson988

4 жыл бұрын

At least he’s not rushing you to pay it. There’s no interest or down payment. He expects the money, sure. But he lets you take your time to pay it off.

@jessicles23

4 жыл бұрын

Abram Davidson very true 😂

I will never understand buying designer gear, drinking out loads but living off cheap pasta/ noodles. IMO eating well is the one of the best investments you can make. You can still maintain a budget, while eating well. Fresh produce, good quality meat, fruit, a good set of herbs for from scratch sauces, etc. It is worth every penny for your long term health.

@samantha4130

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah she is completely ruining herself.. from the inside out

@adammitry3543

3 жыл бұрын

You see that here in the US, especially in the inner cities. Plenty of bodegas, mini marts but no supermarkets.

@bigb853

3 жыл бұрын

@@adammitry3543 Logistics is a whole other issues. I could not agree more. If you do not own a vehicle and cannot easily access a supermarket with reasonable priced produce, it makes it that much harder.

@Noone-co9pj

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly, if you can afford it, buy good quality groceries! Best investment

@zenlife321

6 ай бұрын

I don’t think i saw her eat a vegetable I the whole show

She's not just a spender but also a hoarder. The number of clothes she had was insane

@Sinsteel

Жыл бұрын

It's because the buying of clothes isn't because she needs a new x, it's because buying something makes her feel satisfied, like a drug, but it doesn't last so she has to keep doing it.

@MH-en9qc

9 ай бұрын

She probably had all the clothes she ever bought, as she gained weight she bought a whole new wardrobe, gained more weight bought more clothes. In her mind she says I’ll lose weight, but doesn’t. She will end up in my 600 lb life.

@oliviaperrin1146

6 ай бұрын

The boyfriend needs to dump her and run.

@jmb9701

5 ай бұрын

@@MH-en9qc this for sure - deeper emotional issues going on here

She needs real, sustained, long-term therapy, not a freaking journal.

@exantiuse497

3 жыл бұрын

Good luck affording it on a 800£ salary

@steelethescene

3 жыл бұрын

a journal can be part of therapy. numbers on paper talk uf u listen.

@kamilareeder1493

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed, itd be great to see an update on her

@KCIsMe

3 жыл бұрын

@@exantiuse497 she might be able to get therapy for free

@erinangel9452

3 жыл бұрын

@@kamilareeder1493 They're married now and look great too.

she's gonna marry?? oh that poor soul

@team3383

4 жыл бұрын

Its HIS choice also ... but I don't see what he see's in her!

@kevinford6420

4 жыл бұрын

Don't do it mate... Run like hell 🏃🏃🏃

@lessehead

4 жыл бұрын

Kevin Ford He must be the world’s biggest idiot. They’d better not have a joint bank account!

@jessiequinton9974

4 жыл бұрын

@@team3383 Probably see's a nice insurance payout in the near future when she turns over XD

@soffiebaby8631

4 жыл бұрын

Team33 something to grab on @ night 🤭😅

She’s married to the guy now paid off all her debts lost a lot of weight owns another home and volunteers at homeless shelter now so she’s done well for herself xx

@JR-md9rz

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for that update. People are so judgy, quick to criticism and making horrible remarks about her looks and weight. And you wonder what propels this behavior? Insecurities! And while she is responsible, I also think society has its foot in the door too. She was spending to look better, live better etc so as not to judged so harshly. And at 21, she was very brave to put her life out there like that, and want to make changes for the better. Look how people judged her. And honestly if you think your life is perfect, your probably living in a fairy-tale land also. Check yourself before you judge. Its easy when your behind the keyboard and no one is looking at you. Thought!

@RussellaMcdowell-pw8ci

3 жыл бұрын

Good

@lindaridlon3675

3 жыл бұрын

Proof?

@winterbloom8706

3 жыл бұрын

@@lindaridlon3675 I saw it on the same vid on a different channel on you tube written by her cousin so just sharing the info

@AnnaCN78456

3 жыл бұрын

@@JR-md9rz the remarks about the weight and appearance are shocking. She was so young here... im glad she is doing great!

I’m addicted to these programmes! Did Gavin actually say ‘Christine’ Dior? 😂

How? How do people get to this point? My stomach gets all tied up in knots when I buy something I *NEED* even though I saved up for it and can afford it. I can't even fathom how people can buy things they clearly can't afford.

@sussannerandall85

4 жыл бұрын

How did you reach that point.....you also have a problem

@warriorbard

4 жыл бұрын

@@sussannerandall85 It comes from growing up in a family that lived paycheck to paycheck and money was tight. Not everyone grew up financially secure.

@raven_bard

3 жыл бұрын

@Alina McPherson well considering the current situation i am glad that I have always been frugal with my finances. My anxiety stems from thinking about future situations exactly like the one we're in right now so... Also, when I say things I need I'm not talking about essentials such as groceries and household items. I have no issues with that. It's things like perhaps a new computer for work, upgrading my wifi or headphones that gives me pause.

@johndoe-wv3nu

3 жыл бұрын

I own my home, cars, etc. I have no debt. I'm always cautious when I spend money...that would be why I'm financially secure. My problem is called being responsible.

@maddiemadness0

3 жыл бұрын

This is a form of addiction. That’s how

anyone who shops to make themselves feel better needs to address the underlying issues, and good on you guys, letting go of 300 balloons... all those balloons will end up in our waterways.

@sidharthchand8072

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah that was dumb,

@katnoto8993

4 жыл бұрын

The shows like 15 years old, dont think anyone would do that these days

@ohhhjadeee

4 жыл бұрын

i’d hope not but we live in a world where people literally throw their household rubbish in the water... 🤦🏼‍♀️

@doyourworseneatme

4 жыл бұрын

People still do it especially when releasing them in remembrance to someone. Just stop it really

@ohhhjadeee

4 жыл бұрын

Steady Bettie yeah i’m not surprised at all. so silly

The psychologist looks and acts like his basement is full of unspeakable horrors.

@florencedebear1576

3 жыл бұрын

LMAO

@brittneyharmon6647

3 жыл бұрын

😭😂

@justinopinion1455

2 жыл бұрын

There might be a well in his basement with someone inside right now ....

@zenlife321

6 ай бұрын

You put into words all of our thoughts 😂

She’s proof that just because someone is an adult age wise, doesn’t mean that they are mature enough to responsible smh

@Sinsteel

Жыл бұрын

If anyone needed proof.

Two books on bedside table: Ben: she must have childhood issues

@exantiuse497

3 жыл бұрын

I think the psychologist is completely pointless in this show. He gets her to "open up" in these obviously scripted conversations and makes her do all these silly excercises that are more interesting for the audience than just talking but don't actually serve any purpose. The financial advisor is doing all the work, while the psychologist either does nothing or does his actual thing off-camera. I always feel like skipping his bits, they'rebso fake it hurts

@angeladenton8765

3 жыл бұрын

Lol, what would he say about my bedside table. I’m reading a six part series about a zombie apocalypse.

@carlieverhagen4908

3 жыл бұрын

Right! That was so weird! 😂

@JudithMolamo

3 жыл бұрын

Right? I am so tired of him now 🙄

@jollyolly34

2 жыл бұрын

@@JudithMolamo Then don't watch

You will also marry her debts!!

@exantiuse497

3 жыл бұрын

If they have a prenup, then he won't

@HollieMoodie

3 жыл бұрын

Yes and then they become his debts. She will ruin his credit score. I know! I married someone that was bad with money.

@BeckBeckGo

3 жыл бұрын

@@exantiuse497 Sure he will. They're still getting married, and there is no guarantee they'll get divorced, regardless of her spending. During the time they're married, she'll use his money to amass her own personal property - and that belongs to her the second she buys it.

@exantiuse497

3 жыл бұрын

@@BeckBeckGo Ever heard of NOT sharing your accounts with your spuse?

@ijustdidahugeshit

3 жыл бұрын

@@exantiuse497 Are you constipated?

The girls name is crumblehome??? Really??? And she’s destroying her home life with debt? It couldn’t get anymore ironic than this!!!

My ex wanted a designer bag - A Louis Vuitton suitcase. It cost the same amount as the motorbike I wanted. I saved for a few months and bought the motorbike with cash.

@rickyli0n568

2 жыл бұрын

The motorbike will 1000% get more use

Benjamin the Psychologist is confusing the hell out of me. Balloons, Dark Forests and concert hall drums are supposed to make her stop spending?

@MsWaggydog

4 жыл бұрын

@a lol yes

@MsWaggydog

3 жыл бұрын

@Alina McPherson it's called HUMOUR. Lighten up.

@MsWaggydog

3 жыл бұрын

@Alina McPherson lol ok Karen

@lorabetht9206

3 жыл бұрын

Alina McPherson you are the definition of a “Karen”... actually you wrote “deffinition” 😏

@lorabetht9206

3 жыл бұрын

Alina McPherson and you were talking down to her (which IS rude) “because you didn’t like what she said” and didn’t agree with her. She was obviously pointing out that his tactics were odd to say the least. Your opinion is no more valid than hers so... if the “shoe” fits 👠 🤷🏼‍♀️ Edit- and I doubt his “tactics” did any good at all. But releasing balloons potentially harmed wildlife and the environment.

I couldn’t be with someone that allowed me to be the one to pay all the bills. Plus that poor man will share her debt. Don’t get what he sees in her. She’s incredibly selfish.

@becgould3772

2 жыл бұрын

Been there done that and its as bad as what you think! Still trying to pay off some stuff.

@anonymousgirl4969

2 жыл бұрын

I know! Poor, poor man.

@cherylvergin1757

2 жыл бұрын

Ahhhhhh, love.

@sneakerfreak2002

2 жыл бұрын

Young man’s disease

pretty gross that the show producers allowed all those balloons into the air.

@Odd-Vegan-Singing-TFOL

Жыл бұрын

Why?

@nrqed

18 сағат бұрын

@@Odd-Vegan-Singing-TFOL Ballloons pollute and kill wildlife

When my husband and I first moved in together 18 years ago, I found out very quickly that he was a brand snob- food, clothes, vehicles, everything had to be name brand. I was raised by my grandparents and we were always on a budget, so I learned early on how to bargain shop. Well out agreement was that I would buy the groceries for the home and pay the power bill while he paid rent and everything else (I didn’t make as much money as he did, and I was 19 years old). He started complaining about the store brand foods I was buying. I know not everything store brand tastes good, but for the most part there is no real difference. Well I decided to teach him a lesson after he complained about the bread I bought 2 weeks in a row. I bought the bread he wanted and let him eat that loaf. Then I kept the package and put a loaf of store brand bread into it (Walmart brand bread in a Sara Lee package) and let him eat it. I did this for 2 weeks in a row before I told him what he had been eating! When he realized he couldn’t actually tell there was much of a difference at all, he shut up about it and let me buy whatever groceries I wanted to buy 😂😂😂 I will admit I buy Sara Lee bread these days, but we aren’t as broke as we were back then either 😂

@onti__veros

Жыл бұрын

LOL genius!

@sarahissersohn5495

10 ай бұрын

Yeah, that was brilliant!

This girl is an advertiser's dream! Gavin says she is "An independent woman" No she isn't! He is paying the bulk of the bills, she mooches off her friends, leans on credit up the wazoo, how is that being 'Independent'? More like she is stubborn and childish, and he is uncomfortable confronting her, because it likely ends in a fight, so he stuffs his emotions as well!

@samantha4130

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah she isn’t independent at all. She’s an immature idiot who isn’t living in the real world. I hope she managed to change her ways.

@elizabethhayward570

2 жыл бұрын

I have to live on Universal Credit which is not a lot. I always pay my bills (direct debit) and then do my monthly shop. Whatever is left I can have a treat. Felt guilty for buying a box of chocolates and I could afford it.

@Sinsteel

Жыл бұрын

@@elizabethhayward570 This girl has emotional issues that involve wasting money she doesn't have on things she doesn't need. Whatever any of our individual problems may be, let's be thankful we don't have that one, eh?

A bargain is not a bargain if you don't need it!

She could literally sell all that she doesn't wear and make some of that money back

It honestly warms my heart to see all the comments about the balloons. Great to see how much has changed in the last 15 years. Also, her purchasing habit is what will really add up to a hella ton of oceanic pollution and waste.

@cherylvergin1757

2 жыл бұрын

Was there a comment section on you tube 15 years ago?

@pogo9876

Жыл бұрын

@@cherylvergin1757 Seriously? Lmfao×2. You don't need to compare how people felt then to how they do now through a measure of KZread comments. You can compare the difference through other ways. Smh. The opinions of how we treat the environment HAS changed in the last 15 years. The comments now reflect that, that's the point. And yes, it's been a little over 15 years since there's been a comment section....

@Odd-Vegan-Singing-TFOL

Жыл бұрын

​​@@pogo9876 Practically no one actually cares about the environment. The best thing you can do for the environment is go plant based, and almost no one is willing to do that. Even if we do everything else right for the environment, if we don't change our diets, the rest will be useless.

@lvega5606

8 ай бұрын

​​@@cherylvergin1757 there were literally helium balloons being released in this old video, so that shows public perception didn't involve outrage at the time, else they wouldn't have done it.

He needs to find another partner.

@kevinharkness2108

3 жыл бұрын

Another gullible victim of capitalist driven consumer/media culture.

@liztrainer895

3 жыл бұрын

If I were him I would tell her control ur spending or we can’t get married.

@chrishar110

3 жыл бұрын

@@liztrainer895 I would take all of her money and cards. If even this wouldn't wake her up she would wake up one morning and I would have gone.

@user-pp9df6ml6i

3 жыл бұрын

I know he could do better he’s good looking

@BeckBeckGo

3 жыл бұрын

Preferably one with a large paycheck and a decent savings account. He's gonna need it

She doesn’t drive and bought a car. Who sold her a car with that record of dept?

@SundaysChild1966

4 жыл бұрын

yeah .. young and stupid .. I bought a motorbike without even knowing how to drive one .. because the boyfriend had one .. sigh ..

@no_evogel2631

4 жыл бұрын

SundaysChild1966 haha oh no😂

@a.melanoleuca2247

4 жыл бұрын

{SundaysChild1966} I can understand buying things because of others, but a motorbike because of a simple boyfriend (and not even a husband)? WTF?

@lessehead

4 жыл бұрын

Noemi Vogel Yes, what bank would give her a loan with her credit rating???

@no_evogel2631

4 жыл бұрын

Cherry Tree yeah i mean that is a mistake of their side!

This is why organizing your things is important. It helps you control your spending. It gives you a clear idea of what all things you already own and prevents you from buying similar things again and again.

Benjamin is as much in denial about his skills as a psychologist, as Samantha is about her debt. His degree probably came from ASOS.

So basically, her boyfriend paid her debt, because he was paying for a mortgage only by himself.

@StarlaBizarre

4 жыл бұрын

lol right?! why did they start with saying "she owns her own home"?!

Do you realize how much sea life you've killed by releasing those balloons????😡

@1588chrissy

4 жыл бұрын

Brenda Jones indeed but 15yrs ago it wasn’t really thought about

@brendajones9377

4 жыл бұрын

@@1588chrissy didn't realize the video was that old!🙃

@matthewlemon4208

4 жыл бұрын

3

@Picklecicle

4 жыл бұрын

Littering became a punishable offense in the U.K. in 1990. People still do these stupid balloon and Chinese lantern releases today and never get a littering fine for it.

Now days with online shopping, ill add items to my cart. If I still really want the item after keeping it in there for a few days, then I know its not an impulse buy. Most of the time I end up deleting it. If I buy something from the shops, if I'm not excited to wear it right away, I know it will sit in my closet, so I'll return it. This has helped me a lot

@Llilac2481

3 жыл бұрын

I do the same thing.

@deborahstone1296

2 жыл бұрын

I go shopping for what I think I need.put items in my cart and walk around the store for awhile. If I still need and can't live without it I will check out

@emma-victoria933

Ай бұрын

This is what I do..

I actually feel sorry for Gavin. She’s got a good one there, putting his security at risk and talking of clearing ‘our’ debts. I’m sad to say that I don’t think she took it on board, she was just saying what the cameras wanted to hear. She seems... emotionless? Would be interesting to know if they made it...

@Sinsteel

Жыл бұрын

I think this is a case where they could both benefit if he took a stronger role.

@paultown6572

11 ай бұрын

@@Sinsteel Like leaving her

@cassieoz1702

10 ай бұрын

I dont feel sorry for him. We don't chose who we fall for, but we do chose who we settle down with. Adult lesson: the characteristics that attract you to someone, aren't necessarily the characteristics that make a good life partner

@independentpuppy7520

10 ай бұрын

@@paultown6572 He's a simp. He will lose everything if he leaves her anyway and end up homeless. She would have him for everything he owns. He has no option. He's stuck with her.

@nAuGhTyKiTti666

10 ай бұрын

Highly doubt it, It's so easy to make debts and then clear them without doing very at all. Until she's ready to face what ever problem emotionally she has going on this is probably the tip of the iceberg.

No. Don’t marry someone like that! That’s your credit! That’s your future. They will come after you. It is seriously a huge deal. I filed bankruptcy at 24 because of medical debt and it was a life saver for me and I have fixed my credit way more than people thought I could so fast. I could never imagine being in that amount of debt over just things. I almost died so I at least had my life to show for it.

@durapider5046

2 жыл бұрын

Haven't you read the comments? This lady is doing well.

@kha7705

Жыл бұрын

@@durapider5046 yeah, right.

@MH-en9qc

9 ай бұрын

Sorry you suffered medical conditions that maxed your budget, hope you are doing well.

@augustalexander2647

7 ай бұрын

​@@MH-en9qcmore like sorry you were forced to pay extortionate medical bills when a lot of the world already has free healthcare covered by their taxes. Yikes.

I love how these vids are early 2000s and all the designer items in them are HIDEOUS to look at! Makes you question before you buy anything designer now x

I think a hold on marriage is the best idea. One person piling up debt leads to resentment.

I was in £4000 a few years a go and thought my world was ending, i couldn't even imagine owing £42000 and still being able to make a joke of it

my god most of the cloths im sure isnt even her size. Whats with the balloon tatic anyways? besides harming the environment only i doubt it got to her at all.

@klaus1148

3 жыл бұрын

Aki Akabane putting the environmental assets aside, I’m pretty sure to show how much money she could be saving, and that she’s letting a lot of money go to waste.

Entertaining but the number of balloons that were just realized for that little bit hurt my soul. So much unnecessary plastic waste that birds can eat and starve on.

I'm 60 years old and still haven't the faintest desire to buy ANYTHING 'designer'. I've never bought anything 'designer' for that matter, unless you include 'George' as a designer brand, lol!

@CAL-zq3dk

3 жыл бұрын

Me too . Never ever.

@loannaxxx8845

3 жыл бұрын

Me to I am 51 not even tempted either ! I am that person who can walk in a shop and buy nothing and walk out😁

@katelyngille8541

3 жыл бұрын

I’m 30 and same!

@susanleitch8649

3 жыл бұрын

Neither have I.

@cherylvergin1757

2 жыл бұрын

They sell ALL the brands at Goodwill!

She doesn't know the difference between a want and a need. An important life lesson.

It’s a sad addiction. Like someone doing drugs, buying things make her feel better. She’s trying to overcome her insecurities which could be her looks, her weight, her unhappiness etc. She even admits it makes her feel good. Before I got married to my husband of 25 years he made me pay off my $5,000 credit card debt. It’s a horrible way to start a marriage. Hope she gets the help she needs.

@phoenixalbastru3706

4 жыл бұрын

KS do not worry. I had 15k € to pay as soon as we got married and I managed to do so with sacrifice and his help

@MyNameIsUnavailable

2 жыл бұрын

Good for u. I'm dumping my financial burden who is 49 and EXTREMELY HARDHEADED

When I was 21 I spent my money on a good psychologist, because I didn't deny the problems I got by my parents behaviour. That's what all spendaholics should do, cause an addiction only covers your psychological and emotional problems. Learning and healing and thinking healthily is far more important than stuff.

@D-me-dream-smp

3 жыл бұрын

Good advice. This is a symptom of an underlying emotional/psychological issue that is never going to be fixed by indiscriminate spending and, like any other type of addiction, simply exacerbates the situation.

@tapsars7911

3 жыл бұрын

How very sensible you are really . Wish other people could think your way . I hope the psychologist was able to help you with your problems .

@ANDJELINA

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah but people that have problems do not think that clearly. They have a clouded mind. Probably over their heads where to start to solve the issues to begin with. They need an outsider and objective person like in this show. But unless you participate in these shows that is unlikely to happen....

Can we all just appreciate how they were able to afford a mortgage on one small salary? It's just not possible now.

@23STEVO23

2 жыл бұрын

yeah this was about 2006 - 2007 just before the financial crash of 2008, this was when there was irresposible lending going on before the FCA tightened up regulations ( and rightly so) i would imagine that with their debt and low income, they probably unfortunately lost the house as many did.

I’m curious how the heck she got approved for a mortgage with debt like hers

This budget coach is mad, do not sell your house to pay a consumer debt!

@jenjones90

4 жыл бұрын

It was the only way cause she was 52k in debt...

@Salsagirl66

4 жыл бұрын

If selling the house would help with the debt it means there is some equity there. They could have worked with the bank to use the house as collateral to restructure her debt. To be able to do that, she would need to make more money, which should have been do-able as she only worked a few hours a week, she could have gotten more hours or a 2nd job - also way less time for shopping :-). By selling and then renting their own house, they will end up paying a lot more to live there, plus any capital gains on the house go to the rental company instead of them.

@patricialevi3190

4 жыл бұрын

Salsagirl66 yes, they will be buying the house for somebody else!

@TheScamMonger

3 жыл бұрын

@Salsagirl66 ... THE WORST ADVICE EVER!

@michellerenee5028

3 жыл бұрын

Put a Lien on her property. She would figure it out quickly

21? More like 21 minutes from 40

@yonaavraham9594

4 жыл бұрын

You can't fill what's wrong with things.

@MVF0RLYFE

4 жыл бұрын

@CottonCandy ASMR cooed?

@senoritaaurora5123

4 жыл бұрын

Why the need to make personal comments?

@tapsars7911

3 жыл бұрын

45 more like it actually ; she is bloody obese too .

@erinangel9452

3 жыл бұрын

@@tapsars7911 you should see her now, she and her husband look amazing.

OK, I’m going to say this - the banks & credit card companies need to look at themselves a bit here - lending that much to someone on such a small salary. They need to be ashamed. I’m hoping their ‘responsible lending’ criteria is a bit stricter now, but I wouldn’t bet on it.

she's got such a bubbly personality but such immense pain and financial issues... worries me how prevalent this could be

If I were her fiance, I would have noped out of there a long time ago. Her spending was a huge red flag that she would bankrupt them both. If she really changed from this help, good. But I have to think that her fiance will be in constant fear that she will relapse and take them both down, which often happens with addictions of any kind.

@anniespencer7879

4 жыл бұрын

What on earth does noped mean? So sick of these silly words

@robotboyawesome8375

4 жыл бұрын

To be honest I don’t even know but I think it means to get out

@AK-47-yall

3 жыл бұрын

not a typo. onlineslangdictionary.com/meaning-definition-of/nope-out#:~:text=verb,I%20noped%20out%20of%20there

@roseannsanders2778

3 жыл бұрын

@@AK-47-yall You got it!

@blacksheep9772

3 жыл бұрын

Nope.

Wow...and I felt guilty because I bought myself two candles yesterday.

You would think a cup of soup for lunchtime every day would look a little different... she’s a liar.

Her maturity level is like .........zilch !!!

He assumed she's angry... She's upset about her weight... She buys shoes, jewellery and makeup coz they will always fit.. He has no idea what he's doing.. Bizarre drums and fairy castles. Just ask better questions and listen to her answers?!?

@leanda1971

3 жыл бұрын

I Agree..💯

Those balloons end up in the stomachs of sea creatures and that kills them.

@cerpujfilms7338

4 жыл бұрын

Sandra Nelson honestly, especially that close to the pier

@team3383

4 жыл бұрын

My thoughts also. So disrespectful and unasked for.

@kristinebrazele1348

4 жыл бұрын

Awful action :/

@vanessalackford4425

4 жыл бұрын

I was horrified to see the balloons being released.

@team3383

4 жыл бұрын

@@vanessalackford4425 hopefully this show was ten years ago but still. Its good to see so many people not happy with this. Well done.

There is a happy ending. I found her on Facebook.She has shed the weight, married her beloved and had lovely children. Under the extra poundage a very pretty woman was hiding. She has a career and must have addressed the debt. Banks should never lend to the young and vulnerable.

@aliamacintyre483

3 жыл бұрын

Thats nice to hear actually :)

@lilmizzije

3 жыл бұрын

Oh lovely 🙌🏽

@jenjones90

2 жыл бұрын

But maybe selfish people don't deserve happy endings...

@theskeptic2798

2 жыл бұрын

Did any of your get the punch line , you will own nothing and be happy . This is the plan for the world when the housing market, all the markets collapse . May 2022 , sure you'll stay in the house for a while before they start hiking the rent . No ownership of private property , what does that sound like ?

@darrenbudgen966

2 жыл бұрын

She contracted soggy, saggy vaginal flap syndrome

I’m bipolar and in my manic episodes I put myself into some bad financial situations, but even during those times I was actively focused on trying to repair it. I can’t imagine how someone can not care at all about spending so far above their means.

@colleenpeck6347

6 ай бұрын

You should keep your credit cards in a block of ice. This prevents impulse purchases. However, you can melt it in a day for an emergency.

@torreybonington2270

5 ай бұрын

This is brilliant

But she looks so 'Walmart' ....

@LawOfAttraction-ed2mx

8 ай бұрын

Walmart alcoholic exact

Why is the principle of "don't spend what you don't have" so incredibly hard to understand? Even if this was before the 2008 crisis? All my leggings have holes in them. I can't buy new ones because It's that or groceries. So I fix them. Ofcourse making sure they still look good😉. And most of the time I don't mind because it is what it is. The utmost important thing for me is staying out of debt. In which ever way possible. And so far I've managed😊..... I think this child, cause that's what she is, has a lot to learn about life and how to deal with it.

@Lulu-ut9pv

3 жыл бұрын

I get most of my clothes from charity shops or in the reduce section, maybe a few times a year I will buy something full price

@AnxiousAlien...

3 жыл бұрын

I don't buy clothes at all...I use the ones I have.

@JoJo-zx9sc

3 жыл бұрын

@@AnxiousAlien... I don’t buy clothes either, I just walk around naked.

@UltimatelyEverything

2 жыл бұрын

@@JoJo-zx9sc There's nothing wrong with wearing your birthday suit

@rebeccaclark2614

2 жыл бұрын

@@JoJo-zx9sc I don't use clothes, I use fabric that is sewn together

Saw her up-to-date social media, she lost a lot of weight, they got married, and they look happy. I'm so glad for them that they turned things around. I don't know how bankruptcy court works in the UK, but they may or may not have had to use it. What ever they had to do, it worked. Good for them.

@MH-en9qc

9 ай бұрын

Do you have a link?

@jdranetz

9 ай бұрын

@@MH-en9qc search for Samantha Crombleholme-Cross

@jdranetz

9 ай бұрын

@@MH-en9qc at first I doubted it was her until I recognized the boyfriend turned husband.

That poor guy needs to run as fast as he can away from her. She will spend him into bankruptcy , and not even think twice about it.

21. Imagine completely torpedoing your life before it even begins. SMH

I would never marry someone with so much debt because once we're married I will have to help them pay it. And why would I marry someone irresponsible with money?!

Perhaps she could write down the price of every item she sees and wants and goes home without buying. Add up the money she’s “saved” by not buying and start to see that sum increase and get a kick out of saving. A thought.

Well, that was a nice environmental disaster----balloons on the loose.

@cinnamoninit6028

4 жыл бұрын

Yes! Thank you! What the heck were they doing? She doesn't care about debt but they clearly and egregiously don't care about the marine life that has to deal with their dramatization.

@1588chrissy

4 жыл бұрын

And 15yrs ago, did anyone think about the implications of releasing balloons?

I’m confused about how she managed to buy a house - we’ve been saving madly to even try and do that. I would be devastated if I ended up having to sell my home because of debt from buying useless clothes and makeup. Wow a monthly budget for clothes and shoes? I probably shop a few times a year as necessary when my clothes get too raggedy and worn. I’m married with two kids so try to have a few good quality items combined with cheaper basics.

@MCLamb1984

Жыл бұрын

Probably was given the deposit by a family member.

@marylagrange5584

10 ай бұрын

I brought this up as well. Had to have been a family member passed down the house or loaned them the money. Honestly I don't think they should have done that she needs to learn how to save herself. She would be living in council housing for sure if she was living on her own. She can get out of it though if she works at it hopefully. Having a really small place would be good for her because she won't be able to fit all the clothes.

@alanjohnston1199

10 ай бұрын

This was filmed a while ago, and Blackpool is a very affordable part of the country.

Tons of money in make up and (debatable) design clothing, but she doesn't take care at herself in terms of health :( that is super sad

Spending another's money and not having the money or means to ever pay it back is literally theft.

@Alji3dom

6 ай бұрын

Tell that to the banks n loan sharks.

She is so blessed to have so much help. I hope she really has learned her lesson and will move forward

@paulosullivan3472

3 жыл бұрын

No chance, there were no repercussions for her behaviour so why would she change? She literally had 27k handed too her on a silver platter and didnt see a single change in her lifestyle.

@jamnbryan1

2 жыл бұрын

@@paulosullivan3472 we don't even know if she accepted the 25k in exchange for selling the house to settle 52k of debt. she said she was "still thinking about it" at the end...

@jenjones90

2 жыл бұрын

@@jamnbryan1 hopefully she did cause there's no way she had 25k equity

@judyp.

Жыл бұрын

Heartbreaking to see these prices

I have always enjoyed this show but on this occasion I find it astonishing that a 'financial whizz' would give this girl a £40 per month budget for clothes/shoes (which she certainly didn't need !) rather than allocate some money towards her debt. The mind boggles. 🤔. I don't see the need to be mean about her personal appearance. This is a very old show and it's about her finances, not her shape/size.

@a.n4031

4 жыл бұрын

Yes can't you wear the clothes you already have ? Do you *need* new clothes EVERY month ???

@justcommenting241

3 жыл бұрын

@@a.n4031 she had 300+ clothes in her attic she shouldn't buy more

@TomikaKelly

3 жыл бұрын

Giving her nothing to spend wouldn't be realistic or doable for her given where shes starting from.

@MH-en9qc

9 ай бұрын

@@a.n4031She does as she gains weight she needs bigger sizes.

Tiffany Ferg (youtuber) has made amazing videos showcasing how she has paid off her severe debt from college, and credit cards. She has put a massive dent in her debt and I believe she has almost paid it off. She gives way better advice and breakdown then this show ever will.

Shes a classic example of the everything is ok effect , being able to laugh it off.when everything is crumbling around her

I'm also 21 and have over £42,000 in debt in just 3 years UniVeRSiTy

@whatifschrodingersboxwasacofin

3 жыл бұрын

You invested your money. She wasted hers. I definitely hear you, but remember you’re playing the long-term game. I graduated in the middle of a recession twice. 😣 You should be well ahead of her by 30. Unless you’re studying English lit. “Poetry is best born of poverty.” - Me, 2021

@jessicasarahliddell8883

3 жыл бұрын

🤣

@goofygoofymf

3 жыл бұрын

ONLY 42000 in 3 years??

@shinjid3705

3 жыл бұрын

well sucks for studying in the uk, america or australia. I dont know whats up with these english speaking countries charging ridiculous amount of study fees....I live in germany and our study fee is like 600 per semester. I got my degree from the netherlands because i wanted to study international business and it still wasnt that expensive. 2k per year. Only the none europeans have to pay 800 per month just for the study fees :P Im making 44k euros a year and there is more room for growth in that billion dollar company i work for. No masters degree tho cause that is a waste of time.

@brucecolemancfo5087

3 жыл бұрын

Should have done the OU. They paid for everything for me. Got my qualification without spending a penny.

If that guy marries her he is asking for what he gets. He needs to run away fast and never look back. She is never going to be happy nor change her ways.

I would have loved it if they had discussed the long-term financial consequences of selling the house. It's not obvious to me that selling the house and then renting it back is a good financial decision. The 25k wouldn't even clear her whole debt under normal circumstances. And how much is the rent going to be compared to the mortgage? This seems really dumb.

imagine being 21 and owning a house :O

@deborahstone1296

2 жыл бұрын

But she doesn't. Own. It anymore if her creditors come for their money

@Preservestlandry

Жыл бұрын

I did but it was before the 2008 mortgage crisis and I could get a mortgage for 100% no down payment. Maybe that's what they did?

That's why they always say don't spend what you don't have...

@a.melanoleuca2247

4 жыл бұрын

{Felicity Mahlatse} The bigger problem is people refusing to listen...

@thescrutineer7022

2 ай бұрын

My Nan used to say ‘You cut your coat according to your cloth’. I never really understood and thought it was a stupid old saying. I guess I took it literally back then 🙄

She looks 45

@hansklok3564

3 жыл бұрын

45 stone

@sohyangworld1544

3 жыл бұрын

@Heilige 34

@iram5192

3 жыл бұрын

Now when she's 40 she actually looks younger and she lost weight. She looks stunning btw.

@BeckBeckGo

3 жыл бұрын

@@iram5192 Good, that implies to me that this show had an impact on her. She likely overate for the same reason she overspent.

@sorayah248

3 жыл бұрын

Well, that's mean & there are 216 people who are mean right along with you. She's a person, not just for your critique.

Jay: "Cuddly toys." Benjamin: "Maybe she had some childhood issues." What's the correlation here? Can adults not have stuffed toys?

@kellymcphaul2793

3 жыл бұрын

I still love them. So. They can suck it.

Where does she find the money to do that? I mean, here in France, you can't do that, no bank will give you a loan unless you present a solid plan and give garanties for payment.

These advisors are too nice, she needs some Dave Ramsey tough love!! she should be spending zero on clothes, makeup, restaurants etc. I am half way through this show and they have only babied her about her spending!!! No plan yet on how to pay it back!!

@Angeebabee

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@exantiuse497

3 жыл бұрын

A strategy like that, all expenses to zero, doesn't work, people can manage that for a month, then they look ahead, realise they still have 5 years or something left, despair and go on a spending binge ruining their progress and more. It's the same with obese people trying one of those extreme diets where you literally eat almost nothing, they manage for a while, then relapse and end up fatter than ever. What these people, both obese and indebted people, need is a long term lifestyle change, and the only way for most people is to ease their way into it, going in too strong kills motivation quickly Also she isn't going to be earning 800£ for the rest of her life, if she increases her earnings to 2000£ but keeps the 800£ budget she will pay off the debt quickly

@JehanineMelmoth

3 жыл бұрын

In the second half they sort out the new budget, including how to pay off the debts.

@dapperjazz3669

3 жыл бұрын

Beans and rice

@JW-bh2ud

3 жыл бұрын

I just finished BS2, 100% debt free ..it feels Great! Thank you, Dave Ramsey!