The biggest red flag was why would you give your money investment fund to someone who been in prison for fraud ?

@SamStone1964

Жыл бұрын

The biggest red flag was he told her he was still married but she went ahead with him anyway.

@lifespanwellnessbeauty-60i64

Жыл бұрын

Duh? right?

@lindaname9413

Жыл бұрын

Can't make this stuff up.

@Bulletguy07

Жыл бұрын

@@SamStone1964 He told her he was going through a divorce and it was "only a matter of time for it to be finalised".

@SamStone1964

Жыл бұрын

@@Bulletguy07 Yes, he told her he was still married.

I have one rule. We start dating. If you ask me for money I'm blocking you. No way I'm giving away my hard earned money

@hulklikesnutella7236

Жыл бұрын

But u would ask him money for nails,hair,shopping yea?

@lauraleehenry5657

Жыл бұрын

You sound like a very smart person, damn, can't believe I'm talking about myself again....LOL that's my rule. I work too hard for my money to take it and give it away to a man.

@TheKim369

Жыл бұрын

@@hulklikesnutella7236 While dating? Most women wouldn't. The only exception might be very young women with older men.

@marciathehooligan9967

Жыл бұрын

Why are you "blocking" him?! Good Lord, doesn't anybody date in person anymore?! Where tf is people's self worth?!?!

@marciathehooligan9967

Жыл бұрын

@@hulklikesnutella7236 not every woman would

“He was nice, he was charming, he defrauded a bank, been in jail, married 4 times, yeah I like this one!😂

@HaramXL

9 ай бұрын

I'm swooning here, he sounds an absolute dream 😂❤

@dubinatub1

8 ай бұрын

Yer a true CAD

@hydrangeas_lover

2 ай бұрын

​@@HaramXLyeah, an LSD induced dream! 😂😂😂

@lindakagota7543

2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@marknewton6984

2 ай бұрын

Are you kidding?😮

My late Mum always told me 'never give a man your money'. Thanks Ma. Your advice has served me well.😘

@childrensorg856

Жыл бұрын

Good mom 👌

@goaldrivendatingstrategy

Жыл бұрын

So true!

@dianakidd4219

Жыл бұрын

Same here. Common sense isn’t common,

@bambinaforever1402

Жыл бұрын

Why would anyone need a mom to tell that. The woman in the video was quite not smart to give her money to a man she was not even married to

@dianakidd4219

Жыл бұрын

@@bambinaforever1402 Because she was that desperate for love.

Im 51,been single for 4 years after a 18 year relationship with the father of my last born.i DO NOT plan on getting involved with anyone ever again.ive had enough of men to last me a lifetime.im single and happy.i put all my energy on myself,my children and grand children.i do things to keep me busy,you dont need a man to keep you occupied.at my age i dont want to deal with a moody difficult man.make yourself happy ladies.we are all responsible for our own happiness🤗

@Venus-gn5oi

Жыл бұрын

You don't need a man who is a lying cheating manipulative AH at any age. I too prefer to be on my own and to enjoy my freedom and have a peaceful life ❤

@auntyharry

Жыл бұрын

Amen, ladies, Amen.

@rozdoyle8872

Жыл бұрын

Oh Yes , the peace and power of being alone is truly Beautiful , no more Parasites in my life , I believe loneliness is really for oneself, the real self and we jump the gun to fill the void with a Man and those Men are doing exactly the same but they and their egos need Money to fill their Void , easy peasy , get a woman with Money.

@christinawahlmuller1142

Жыл бұрын

♥️

@theinsightfulvisionary0197

Жыл бұрын

Amen!!!

Getting married after 3 months is crazy, even if that person isn't a scammer.

@sarahproctor9924

Жыл бұрын

Mine wasn’t an online romance, but I married after 4 months and am happily married for 14 years now. It doesn’t always end in craziness! 😅

@Xandra101-xj8ef

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely right!!!

@aishadavina4426

Жыл бұрын

​@@African.Diaspora.InLondonUK you brain washed him

@paulastorm3923

Жыл бұрын

Married after 4 months and was very happily married for 36 years until he passed.

@gardensofthegods

11 ай бұрын

A friend of mine married her husband after about 3 weeks and had a happy successful marriage for over 40 yrs right up until he died .

Who in their right mind sells their house and give proceeds to a man she knew a wet day. The height of stupidity. He didn't take it , you gave it to him, there's a difference 😬

@sabrinawang6267

Жыл бұрын

@rose Jacob. What do you mean “gave”? Pulling his gun aim her head? So unless robbing anything are “giving” special being cheated, lying, set-up, dupping,scam… are all GIVING? Your law of criminal are too wide. Under you there is NO CRIMINAL everything are giving I hate your boundless of criminal vs justice. NAL everything are giving I hate your boundless of criminal vs justice.

@ds8290

11 ай бұрын

A person who was conned by a scumbag.

@vaska1999

11 ай бұрын

Rubbish. He stole the money she had entrusted him with. The guy's a professional conman just like some people are professional burglars.

@kevinmalone3210

11 ай бұрын

It was done under a pretense, he falsely misrepresented himself, so it's fraud.

@tashamorriss8997

4 ай бұрын

what does 'she knew a wet day' mean?

Been in prison, still married but getting divorced, owes loan to bank, business going under, defaulted......run....too many red flags...

@dinacap2660

Жыл бұрын

WHAT A CATCH!!!

@elliotoliver8679

3 ай бұрын

Why don't you sell your house and put the money in MY account??????????????????????????????/

Devastating for her, but she ignored so many red flags! Firstly don't sell your property until you have been together for years and secondly never ever put the money into his sole name!

@aussiemouth747

Жыл бұрын

Be buggered if I ever opened a joint bank account! Stupid and unnecessary these days.

@ann-mariepaliukenas19

Жыл бұрын

Don’t give him money.Let him give it to you!

@davisholman8149

Жыл бұрын

@@ann-mariepaliukenas19 ikr? I would never in a million years do what these women did! LOL - men give it to ME, not the other way around. I have never been desperate either - love yourself first. Lonely - understandable. But do NOT lower your standards to simply have a man in your life. And ladies, most desirable men in their 50s are going to date women 10 years younger. If you are in your 50s - the men you usually get are late 60s. If that doesn’t appeal to you, meet men in person during social opportunities. Dating sites are rife with liars. 95% are NOT trustworthy. Sorry - but it is the truth. If you are very attractive ,- slender & accomplished - you will meet the right man in person & have better luck that way.

@theinsightfulvisionary0197

Жыл бұрын

@@ann-mariepaliukenas19 Right on!!! She's a damn fool!!!

@Nortongroove

Жыл бұрын

You are soo right, fools abound

He didn’t take her kids money, she gave it all away 🙄

@sabrinawang6267

Жыл бұрын

I constantly heard victim got cheated & scammed, reader comment they “gave money away”! Vice versa who would “gave money away” without any verbal cheating? So law enforcement should concentrate arrest those scammers for crimes action instead guibbling With “giving away” it directly support criminal actions.

@sabrinawang6267

Жыл бұрын

Who would give money away except to church or charity organization! I hate those outsider pretentious as lawful quote victim “giving $$ away “

@og6920

Жыл бұрын

@@sabrinawang6267 Churches are scammers, too. Save your money. Donate your time instead because your hard-earned cash always ends up in the wrong hands.

@snooganslestat2030

Жыл бұрын

​@@sabrinawang6267 No she GAVE it away. He told her he had been in jail for fraud! She chose to give money to a convicted fraudster ffs.

@sabrinawang6267

Жыл бұрын

@@snooganslestat2030 there is no proof he said such words, he still cheat her or those women as many times he can. Who would have money away ? Scammer duped & robbery

This is quite fascinating because the man confessed (truthfully or not) that he was a) still married and b) had been in prison for financial crimes. So this lady very quickly decides to a) marry him and b) give him all of her money. I just don’t understand, why the rush into all of this? 🤦‍♂️

@goaldrivendatingstrategy

Жыл бұрын

Desperation.

@julieannesimms6236

Жыл бұрын

Exactly and 3 marriages is a red flag straight off

@Venus-gn5oi

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!! Trusting him with so much money although he confessed that his crime was about money 🤦‍♀

@rubbersoul4469

Жыл бұрын

"Confessing" to being married & being in prison would have been part of the scam. Portraying himself as being transparent and reformed. Flattering her that he was sincere about being with her.

@rubbersoul4469

Жыл бұрын

PS he only admitted to one marriage. And bring in prison just one time. Very manipulative move.

These folks are brave to talk about what they went through. We are listening to useful cautionary tales.

@carolflower8015

Жыл бұрын

You mean what suckers they were

@dennispagan7078

Жыл бұрын

These women need a reality check,they go in blind with out thinking

@raphaellavictoria01

Жыл бұрын

At their age, this is unforgivable. I'm sorry. When I was 28, a guy told me all the right things in order to quickly marry me, bc his student visa had expired. Obviously, he only told me this when he broke up with me. I did fall in love w him, and the red flags such as falling on his knee and talking about marriage on the FIRST date, were there. BUT, I was 28. Now, at 41, HA HA HA, is what I would say if a man started to talk about marriage or love at first sight. At whatever age these ladies are at? What is wrong w them, sorry. Grow up.

@billmiller3425

11 ай бұрын

What? Does that mean that YOU would have ever fallen for this scam? Come on!

@guinealove3744

9 ай бұрын

Yes! They are very brave. I would say to poor Carole, GURL!!! you've got Harvey Nicks, boom fish and chips, and the Buddha Bar, no need to be lonely. Cheers

What on earth in this day and age women want to get married asap?? We can live happily without any obligations and marriage is the last thing I would personally consider. This lady is way beyond her teenage years, what was she thinking, marrying a person in two weeks of knowing him. Shocking.

She moved him into the family home after three months, and then proceeded to hand that house over to a virtual stranger? She was a willing participant in his manipulation. Wanting a partner, someone to love is one thing, handing over your entire financial security is something entirely different. Too much, far too soon.

@fionagregory9147

Жыл бұрын

Should have seen a solicitor.

@jeng8401

Жыл бұрын

the thought of being loved will make people do insane things, he banked on that

@jeanmyers1787

11 ай бұрын

I agrée but these conmen are so clever. In fact I’ve been married twice, adored my second husband who sadly died of cancer but have always had separate bank accounts.

@alsmith9853

11 ай бұрын

Agreed but the first woman was sad and vulnerable, her first husband obviously did a real number on her self esteem

@juanitamayers8889

10 ай бұрын

They was an excellent programme o the BBC about a woman who had lost her life savings and her home. Despite the presenters proving to her it was all a scam. She would not accept the help she was given. Thos woman is able to say she is lonely and want a relationship. She will be scammed again unfortunately. Women must learn to be comfortable with thembselvesanbd not be so desperate for a man. That is why scammers succeed.

I've chosen to be single since the age of 32. I'm now 68. I chose to be single because every relationship I had been in made a fool of me. These years of being single have been the best in my life. I've raised a daughter who has gone on to give me 4 grandchildren who love me very much. I have gotten a master's degree that gave me good earning power. I have met all kinds of interesting people. I help lonely people on a daily basis. I have gotten to know and love God. I couldn't ask for more. As a single person, I have peace. I have wonderful friends and family and none of the strife and stress I had when I was in relationships with men. Being single was difficult and lonely and terribly sexless at first, but I got used to it and now enjoy my peaceful single life very much. It was one of the best decisions I ever made.

@fionagregory9147

Жыл бұрын

God is just a man made myth like Santa. Atheists are more logical.

@sabrinawang6267

Жыл бұрын

With a pleasant relationship with married is much safe

@dinacap2660

Жыл бұрын

you are awesome and fully adult

@barefootincactus

7 ай бұрын

Congratulations, enjoy!

So thankful this horrible man was caught!

I’ve worked since the age of 16 and always been good with my finances. I can’t imagine a situation where I would hand over financial control to another person whether we’re married or not. Look how much money was involved in this story- the daughter and son’s investment, the sale of the woman’s home. Why would anyone allow a stranger who you’ve just met to control everything? It’s a very sad case of what not to do.

@goaldrivendatingstrategy

Жыл бұрын

A convicted white collar criminal for fraud should have been a red flag. So many women just handover their finance to strange men.

@mariancounsellor

Жыл бұрын

@@goaldrivendatingstrategy yes, that was definitely a major red flag. I suppose looking from the outside, I believe it would never happen to me but I can also understand how manipulative some men are and how powerful love is as an emotion.

@belindascott2747

Жыл бұрын

They don't love themselves before a stranger. Very odd and very desperate

@MsEvie15

Жыл бұрын

It is shocking to give all your money and to sell your own home to give even more money. There is another video of a woman who gave the man she never met over $1 million.

@bambinaforever1402

Жыл бұрын

Well, actually, children were also to blame - why did they agree to let the man handle the money mom gave to them? They were all of legal age

What is worse, is to feel lonely when your partner is in the same home❗️

@carolinesmith8024

Жыл бұрын

Right yes that happened with me when I was with this guy

@dubinatub1

8 ай бұрын

Yer to wake up every morning and the person next to you has become a stranger

She sold her house and put the money in his name before he gave her the run around about marriage. She's surprised about him lying. You trusted him with your children's future.

@goaldrivendatingstrategy

Жыл бұрын

All why knowing he was a convicted white collar criminal.

@pam164

Жыл бұрын

Same here I've met loads of men on dating sites and none asked me for money, and if they did I would have blocked them.

@snooganslestat2030

Жыл бұрын

​@@goaldrivendatingstrategy Insanity!

@debbielove9102

8 ай бұрын

Such a sad story.the lady was too trusting. I'm glad she told her story.

Most of the time we ignore red flags trying to avoid being alone. If you choose to ignore them and stick around you get hurt and feel like crap. If choose to be alone you feel like crap. I'd rather feel like crap with my money in my pocket.

Don't give them your money your home your bank cards ever.

@carolecochrane8173

Жыл бұрын

Don't meet idiots on line . Don't ever marry them and give them money, and most of all don't move in with them . If you do meet someone never give up your home in case it goes wrong. 😁😁😁😁😁

A man that asks a woman for money, is either a SCAMMER, LOSER, TOSSER, or all of the above. I find it repugnant that any man should ask a woman for money, no matter what his reason or excuse is, it's unacceptable and disgusting. If a man ever asks a woman for money, she should refuse and then see how long he stays around for. I bet she won't see him for dust, that should give her a good idea of his real intentions!

@Peekaboo-Kitty

Жыл бұрын

Well said!

@foxonfoxy1

10 ай бұрын

Exactly!

@ralphmaver1489

9 ай бұрын

Ladies, if a guy asks you for money drop him straightaway. Likewise if you offer a man your money and he accepts it get rid of him.

@christharris3655

9 ай бұрын

What about a woman asking a man for money? Is that acceptable? Woman are the biggest scammers lol

@rachelmora6227

9 ай бұрын

As young women stating to work, we were told never to give a man money. If a man asks for money from a woman, he is a loser.

I would advise women not to get serious with any man now a days. Scammers are everywhere. Take up a hobby instead.

@carolecochrane8173

Жыл бұрын

Yeah get a dog 😂😂

@eternalwanderer1

Жыл бұрын

Agreed.

@enohp660

2 ай бұрын

Or…maybe don’t marry a guy after 3 months. And maybe don’t give him your money after he’s made you aware that he served time for fraud. I know it sounds tempting but definitely don’t do those things.

My children and grandchildren are they only ones I would spend my money on. I get great joy from that. I don’t understand how you could give everything away to strangers.

@dinacap2660

Жыл бұрын

my sentiments exactly!!!!

I'm surprised the court couldn't freeze his bank account and make an order for the ladies he'd defrauded to get their money back. It's disgusting.

@julia190

10 ай бұрын

I was wondering what happened to the money. Seems there should be monetary compensation.

@normanpearson8753

9 ай бұрын

It's not been proven in court .

@kolohe2790

9 ай бұрын

Im sure he was spending alot of $ wining and dining his new victims and for sure bought expensive clothes, watches, maybe boats for HIMSELF!

@petrajamnik3430

8 ай бұрын

@@normanpearson8753how come?

@voyaristika5673

7 ай бұрын

I think they said it took a year to find him? The money was probably gone by then. I was also wondering about that.

This lady was not only desperate and naive, but she basically put him first over her own children, by accepting that her daughter move out because of him. I don't feel sorry for her, just for her family

@goaldrivendatingstrategy

Жыл бұрын

and don't forget selling her house and allowing this scammer to invest their money. She was desperate she said so herself her ex emotional abusive ex husband said: You will never find someone better then me. This was a huge trigger for her so she thought he was her prince charming.

@sy_dianne5224

Жыл бұрын

@@goaldrivendatingstrategy So she is now paying for her choices, too bad the kids had to suffer as well..

@lisaballantyne8539

Жыл бұрын

Totally agree with you.... I wouldn't have picked a man over my child..... definitely wouldn't have had all of my money from the sale of my hous put into his bank account.... would be interested to know what he actually spent all of that money on 🤔... another red flag for me would have been immediately moving into her house.

@lmusima3275

Жыл бұрын

What annoyed me as that she got her children to invest 60k in his ponzi investment scheme. He stole their money. Craziness

@Nortongroove

Жыл бұрын

No sympathy for this person, I feel bad for her daughter,,,mothers actions were shameful, no question of it

My grandmother's and mom had no interest in dating when they lost their partners. They found other things to do.

@eveoakley6270

Жыл бұрын

Same. My nana lost my grandad at the age of only 42. She was left with 5 children aged from 2 to 20 and she dedicated her life to them until they all left home and afterwards had her hands full with grand children and great grand children, her voluntary work and social clubs. She passed away aged 80. She always used to say to me I will always stay on my own coz there was only ever one man for me.

@arfriedman4577

Жыл бұрын

@@eveoakley6270 sorry for the loss of your grandma. One of my grandmother stated to me she didn't want to cater to another man.

@viviennepastor3188

Жыл бұрын

@@arfriedman4577 I agree with them. There is only my husband for me.

@arfriedman4577

Жыл бұрын

@@viviennepastor3188 I'm glad you found a wonderful partner.

@christinevillanueva54

11 ай бұрын

​@@eveoakley6270wow, I admire your grandma!

She says she is lonely. Those women are mostly bad friends. When they meet a man, they forget friends and even their whole familiy. This is desperation! You should never ever date because of lonelyness! You first must be able to be alone! She should built herself a social network and have hobbies to fill that huge void she tried to fill with a fraudster! Woman, you are a mother, you have to learn to be responsible!

@jusdeorange

Жыл бұрын

Very true!

@dimitrageorgiadi5087

Жыл бұрын

Lay off. Everyone makes mistakes. It could happen to anyone.

@chrischallis4348

Жыл бұрын

there is so much a woman can do, join a volunteer group, social group and make friends in real life.

@julia190

10 ай бұрын

He included her children at first. Gave a solid impression as a caring person to her daughter. Then flipped.

@normanpearson8753

9 ай бұрын

A lot of women shun their mates when men come on the scene .

“ Never a borrower nor a lender be”

@carolecochrane8173

Жыл бұрын

Totally agree with you, I would not lend him 50p. 😂😂😂😂

@novaricos

Жыл бұрын

"...for loan oft loses both itself and friend"!

@robw2486

Жыл бұрын

Amen,

A perfect gentleman does not ask a woman for money.

At 47 I have made the decision sanity and safety over sex

@starcatcher3691

Жыл бұрын

You are very wise

@alexxx7066

Жыл бұрын

@@starcatcher3691 and horny

@marknewton6984

2 ай бұрын

I learned the hard way.

@Veronica.A.

Ай бұрын

I'm 48, but I already made that decision long time ago.

Loneliness is killing us and those scammers know it!

@rebeccayoung6344

Жыл бұрын

I’m buying myself a teddy bear that’s all I need after this!

@ann-mariepaliukenas19

Жыл бұрын

No the scammers are more likely to kill

@ladywindrush5464

Жыл бұрын

I do not use the word LONELINESS it as a negative connotation it makes one sound vulnerable....I have replaced it with PEACE...

@ann-mariepaliukenas19

Жыл бұрын

@@ladywindrush5464 well glad you feel peaceful,being alone can be peaceful.Loneliness is very different

@jugurthanumidian4738

Жыл бұрын

French proverb Il vaut mieux être seul que d'être mal accompagné. Better to be alone than to be in bad company.

She didn’t loose it , she knew exactly where it went , she paid for the dream ,

@marknewton6984

2 ай бұрын

She paid for a fantasy. 😮

@christinecatt8039

26 күн бұрын

She essentially paid for attention and sex.. Isn't there a nasty name for that.🤔

He did not take it ,he was given it.

So a guy you’ve known for 2 weeks tells you he’s been convicted of fraud.. and then he rips you off?

@goaldrivendatingstrategy

Жыл бұрын

You can't make it up.

@charlesjames1464

Жыл бұрын

Madness, I tell ya!!

@SamStone1964

Жыл бұрын

And he tells her he is still married and then doesn't marry her.

@viviennepastor3188

Жыл бұрын

Plus he is a very unattractive man both inside and out. I don’t understand the desperation of these ladies to tie themselves to a man like this.

@kdeloris2225

Жыл бұрын

When she was all right with the fact that he been to prison for fraud he knew he had her hook line and sinker. She bought all of his red flags straight out The gate 🫣

If you find a man VERY charming, (especially quickly), watch out. He's most likely using your feelings to get past your brain, so he can get into your wallet or your pants! Back off fast and watch his "interest' dry up or gets angry or accuses you of 'not trusting him'! Darned right, trust is earned on a daily basis, and easily broken like all 'piecrust promises' - easily made and easily broken!!

@carolecochrane8173

Жыл бұрын

Totally agree, start asking him for money because your skint, he will soon back off. 😂😂😂

@ZetaCancri

Жыл бұрын

Also known as "love bombing"

@novaricos

Жыл бұрын

@@ZetaCancri right on! Wish I had known about this stuff YEARS ago! found out the HARD way, emotionally and financially, but good now!

@chrischallis4348

Жыл бұрын

not all of us have commonsense, emotional intelligence or a high IQ and wishful thinking will overrule the most blatant of red flags waving.

@gardensofthegods

11 ай бұрын

I never heard that saying before : pie crust promises .

Some women can’t live alone . And they need a man . I understand that . But unfortunately we must learn to live alone . There’s no man left anymore.

@darcywagoner3614

Ай бұрын

Ive been alone 19 years and im happy

@darcywagoner3614

Ай бұрын

Some people think im weird, but i dont care

So sorry that this happened, it is hard to tell your story when somebody has scammed you. I respect this woman for speaking out.....and wish her happiness and courage going forward.

Trust nobody ever.

Being lonely is thousand times better than being on the roller-coaster with a man. Charming men are always a disaster, waiting to happen because they are narcissistic and selfish.

I admire this lady for telling her story

@brendarigotti843

Жыл бұрын

I admire the female police officer for her relentless work, & investigation 👍

@heavenlymajesticking

11 ай бұрын

God bless her! We must be warned the need for love and affections can cloud ones judgment of the truth! 😟🔆👀

@wlhansen2068

8 ай бұрын

I had no idea a scammer would go this far.Unbelievable.

I’m almost 60 if anything were to happen to my husband I don’t think I’d ever want another man. I’ve had the best so how would I ever be able to trust that I’d ever get that again. With all the scams going around probably not!

@sabrinawang6267

Жыл бұрын

Known someone gonna takes long long time & trial test. So it is hard to find another partner just stay no money involve.

@sabrinawang6267

Жыл бұрын

I will never give away my precious money I was duped and promised I will soon be paid back because he said he is much richer then me! Ha I pray this scumbag get vegetables quick! for his big liar cheater thief killer….

@sabrinawang6267

Жыл бұрын

These are my life time sweats hard working money how can you say I gave away not even a penny. I hate scammers so much I wish them all get serious punished. We never gave money we were duped & cheated, at the end I was panic attacking + committed suicide for how can I be such fool & stupid being cheated forced lying … if I can not get my $$$ back he+they will be punished severe very soon.

@dinacap2660

Жыл бұрын

100% agree with you--my late husband was wonderful and i'm smart enough to know that i'd never find anyone else like him

It's okay to give someone your love and all that good stuff, but never ever give them your money to hold or invest! Never ever sell your house. Him moving in with her, was the first sign, she was going to be parted from her money. Lets hope she is doing okay.

The first red flag I saw was that Gary said he had been married 3 times....and was still married.

How was he imprisoned for defaulting on a loan? That isn't a crime. There's more to that story.

One must know one’s limitations. If you are older and not good looking, ain’t no good looking young man wants you unless you’re an ATM machine. If it’s an older man you’re either a nurse or a purse. Nothings wrong with being single when you’re older. It’s quite freeing.

@meganhuggins7494

Жыл бұрын

Does that also apply to younger women who are not good looking? Do they need to know their limitations? 🤓🤓🤓

@dinacap2660

Жыл бұрын

"nurse or a purse" i love it--and it's so true

@dianakidd4219

Жыл бұрын

@@dinacap2660 I lived in Florida for 20 years. I saw it over and over. Women and men both taken advantage of for the love they wanted so badly. People will do anything for love. Loving one’s self makes one see more clearly when a con person is nipping at your heels.

@christinevillanueva54

11 ай бұрын

​@@meganhuggins7494yes for all of us, if it seems too good to be true...

@seriouslyscrapping

9 ай бұрын

Lucky I got no homes under my belt just a car not worth more them 5k Australian dollars or 2.5 k pounds

Plenty of fish? Plenty of fraud

once a man ask youfor money block and Delete.

@goaldrivendatingstrategy

Жыл бұрын

Yes, it's that simple I don't understand why a lot of women refuse to understand this.

@ramaat2731

Жыл бұрын

That's my philosophy. As a matter of fact start giving me a sob story about money and I block and delete

@rt66vintage16

Жыл бұрын

Who wants to date a broke man? No one should want to fix a man's problems either. Just saying.

@goaldrivendatingstrategy

Жыл бұрын

@@rt66vintage16 He can solve his own problems. These men know exactly what they are doing. They profile these women they smell the desperation from a mile away.

@dionjaba4975

Жыл бұрын

Yes, same for men, when a woman asks for money, know that nothing good will ever come from that.

All these comments pointing out the bleeding obvious don't change the fact that love scams are reaching epidemic proportions. Some people need protecting from themselves sadly.

@sidstovell2177

9 ай бұрын

It seems almost a sickness. It's like how we can't understand women who allow themselves to be abused and beaten and who stay with their abuser

Don't ever think you know these people ,takes a lifetime to know yourself

This is why I,m staying single

@marknewton6984

2 ай бұрын

Smart move. 😎

If he asks for money or favors, he doesn't care about you. NEVER help a man. Let him ask his family or friends - not you. Lies about preposterous situations. NEVER help a man. And online dating isn't dating. NEVER help a man. RUN.

After 3 failed relationships, I no longer trust anyone. If they ask me for a McDonald’s hamburger I’m kicking them to the curb.

Hiring a private investigator would have cost her less..I've read some women who won't date anyone unless they get a background check and a health check too...

@HoneyQuint

Жыл бұрын

@Donnell Okafor yes to see what runs thru the family n whether there are any psychiatric issues

@Nortongroove

Жыл бұрын

More like STD’s, HIV. Checking for those disease conditions😃

She’ll most likely be a victim again given the statement she made at the end of “being lonely”. Being single is being alone and that peace should be appreciated until someone who is fit to ADD to your peace cones along.

@marknewton6984

2 ай бұрын

She is online now. 😮

scammers come in any age and nationality, i really feel for these women they haven‘t done anything to deserve any of that

Selling her house to give the money to a scammer online is beyond me. There is only so much stupidity I can watch.

@marknewton6984

2 ай бұрын

Low Intelligence.😮

I never give money to a man. They give me money

Wow, real, in person scamming ! How horrid ! Probably even more hurtful than on line.

@goaldrivendatingstrategy

Жыл бұрын

A lot of people get scammed in person on a daily basis it's unbelievable. Watch out for men wanting to move in with you or ask you to sell your house to buy a new house together.

I have completely and totally been done with dating and men for 5 years. It seems in my area all the good ones are taken or too young lol. I'm happy with myself and keep busy working and spending time with friends..Learn to love yourself first and choose YOU ❤️💯

@goaldrivendatingstrategy

Жыл бұрын

Well said!

@Swiss_Girl

Жыл бұрын

there are good men out there♥️

@dianakidd4219

Жыл бұрын

@@Swiss_Girl Yes, they are married or gay. Once you’re older finding a good man is like finding a unicorn,

@chrischallis4348

Жыл бұрын

you are talking as a sane sensible women with a life....

@elizabethkuchta5097

Жыл бұрын

@@Swiss_Girl agree 👍

Rule #1…very early in the relationship you do a background check. If there are any red flags you drop him and move on and consider yourself lucky to have dodged a bullet.

1st massive red flag..prison for stealing money aka fraud..!!!!!!!!!!

@SamStone1964

Жыл бұрын

1st massive red flag - he tells you he's still married.

People are this desperate to find someone. Some people don't want to be alone. Get a hobby, join a gym, find an art class, get a dog! You could meet someone genuine without searching them out. Why the rush to get married asap. What's wrong with just seeing someone to get to know them.

@blondecat666

Жыл бұрын

I would never give up my freedom for a dick. Ever.

@christinerewell9954

Жыл бұрын

@@blondecat666 me too

@Nortongroove

Жыл бұрын

It’s called desperation, really pathetic

@user-xw1sz8hu8r

Жыл бұрын

I'd say, get a brain and responsibility for your life first before indulging into an affair with someone🙌

A big red flag is when the daughter had to move out because he was being difficult with her. The mum should have woken up then. I had a sister who didn’t recognise the signs . Her partner started being nasty early on to me for no reason. My sister blamed me and said I must have done something to upset him. He turned out to be an abuser . She ended having to divorce him. She was so blinded by love when she met him.

Men know that a lot of women are desperate for companionship. They'll take advantage of you if they sense this desperation

@sabrinawang6267

Жыл бұрын

Grace Victoria @ Is vice versa the same or not!? Man cheat for money, not many man can be cheated by women?

What a bizarre way to make a living. These poor women were not even wealthy. I think he got a kick out of humiliating his victims, as much as taking their money. Vile, vile man.

@goaldrivendatingstrategy

Жыл бұрын

You have small time scammers and you have the big time scammers. There are stories galore how women have been swindled out of millions. This man was to un attractive to pull that one of because to swindle women out of millions via an offline romance scam you have to be able to look and dress the part to a certain extend.

Personally..I would never have a joint bank account,it spells " trouble"!

Everyone, regardless of age has a need to be loved and to give love. But when that love costs you $$ it's time to step back and distance yourself from the situation. Take a breather. Pause for the cause. In other words, STOP. if dude is in it for love he will understand and work with you . If he throws a fit ? Well then, better heartbroken then heartbroken and broke!

@goaldrivendatingstrategy

Жыл бұрын

Yes because what a lot of women refuse to understand is that a real man will never ask you for money it is that simple. If he starts asking for money he is broke, a loser or a scammer. Real men are ashamed to even ask for cent let alone a pound, euro or dollar.

@whateverchannel22

9 ай бұрын

False. I could give a fig less about giving or receiving romantic love. I love my friends and family. Please stop speaking on others' behalf wholesale.

@avrilbenjamin6261

9 ай бұрын

Best Advice ever! 😊😊😊

@michelle_m4446

9 ай бұрын

@@whateverchannel22 I totally agree with you. The love I have for my freinds has been more fulfilling and enduring than some of my romantic relationships. Not to mention I'd pick the love of my pup over most humans any day. Im sorry if what I said read otherwise because love is love. It comes in many different forms and isxa blessing

I married at 22. Put our money together rt away. He was a manager at BK back then. Now he's a college graduate working on servers for 100k a year. Basically I got lucky. And it's sad that you literally have to be lucky just to find a decent guy.

@dionjaba4975

Жыл бұрын

It is neither simple for majority of guys to find a wife nowadays.

@gorgeous.akosua

Жыл бұрын

What do you do?

@minimaxmiaandme.4971

Жыл бұрын

Not lucky at all, just common sense. Many women have lovely husbands.

@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

Жыл бұрын

I play the lottery with way better odds and win fairly often.

@dionjaba4975

Жыл бұрын

@@gorgeous.akosua lets just say I have a great.

Even if someone you seem to be connecting with sounds legitimate, always do a background check. I think it's wise to hire a PI if things get serious because you never know who you're dealing with. Actually, whenever there's talk about financial situations (inordinate or not), if things are moving too fast like there was with this one, it's a sign things are looking bad so time to bail out. In this case, this man never went into depth about speaking about himself, and all the lovely-dovey stuff coming from him was too overpowering for it to be real. Too bad she ignored that. What's wrong with winging it alone anyway? You might be better off.

This is proof that women will rather prefer to have a wedding than a marriage. The wedding was more important than the marriage to her.

@user-ye2ge4zo5lhennypenny

2 ай бұрын

Rubbish...Thankgod I never married you are assuming

@libusebuckova7603

6 күн бұрын

Since childhood I have been thinking (and even asking my parents) - in the fairytales, all the struggle happens before the wedding, then there is the wedding and the narratios has it “and they have lived happily ever after”. So my courious question has always been “how did they do it, that happily ever after”. Because from the fairytales it looks like that just naturally happens without any effort needed. 😮

@blacksilverchair3315

6 күн бұрын

@@libusebuckova7603 the fairy tales were feel good stories about heros and damsels in distress. They weren't supposed to expose us to the everyday hassles that we have to encounter after the wedding

@washcaps71

4 күн бұрын

That’s oversimplifying. Social engineering is a big issue.

Why would you marry someone you met online after only two months? You haven’t had enough time to investigate or really get to know them. You can’t be that desperate.😕

@RK-su4hs

Жыл бұрын

Self righteous. We all make bad decisions, including you

@goaldrivendatingstrategy

Жыл бұрын

Well I have seen a story where woman with 2 kids moved a man into her house straight after he got of the train on their first date. He left her with a mount of debt and moved on to the next woman to scam. He also pretended to be rich and waiting on a big pay out 🤣 and the other women were smart not to move him in because the reporter tracked him down living in a homeless shelter 🤣

@SanFranDentist94301

Жыл бұрын

@ymarrero23 It's desperation.

@SanFranDentist94301

Жыл бұрын

@ymarrero23 Finding a husband isn't about grabbing the first man who stumbles into your path. It's about finding the right man to be your husband. Even love won't sustain a marriage. (Dedication, patience, hope, good-will, resilience)

@SanFranDentist94301

Жыл бұрын

@ymarrero23 No she grabbed this guy from online after 90 days!

What I’m curious to know is, why aren’t they able to get their money back? Couldn’t they investigate where the funds went and follow the paper trail to get some of it back? If he had any properties, sell them to give these people their money back? There should be a rule that if they scam you, you have a right to go after their assets. Freeze their accounts, if they had any.

@princebuster93

11 ай бұрын

@ ds8290, they said Gary had accumulated a lot of money from scamming women, so where did the money go, they should have got it back. The British Police have been going down hill for years. The Police woman tried to take the credit for finding Gary, but it was the phone call from the woman who gave all the information they needed, and this after they had already let him out on bail 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being single and independent

He’s not even nice looking poor lady

@hulklikesnutella7236

Жыл бұрын

Yea like she is so beautifull 😂😂😂😂😂

@PompeyGirl747

Жыл бұрын

She's no oil painting c'mon

The victim blaming here is unbelievable…..she wasn’t desperate, she just wanted to find a partner. Most of us are hard wired to want a mate. He was an expert manipulator and liar, she was trusting and loving. It doesn’t make her stupid or desperate, she just had no experience in dealing with this level of deception, stop blaming her

@pussygalore731

Жыл бұрын

She moved a stranger in too early and chose him over her daughter , so yea she's a fool , sounds like you've been one too

@goaldrivendatingstrategy

Жыл бұрын

No she was desperate and she still is unfortunately.

@Liverpoolboy01

Жыл бұрын

@@goaldrivendatingstrategy 👈yet you put a heart ❤️ on Sarah’s comment!

@jayneharris3888

Жыл бұрын

It's always the woman's fault. The problem is never the grifting male, the problem is always the woman not avoiding him.

@w.urlitzer1869

Жыл бұрын

she confused solving loneliness with giving away her financial power

These women are desperate for attention and love. They want to and need to believe the lies……

@sabrinawang6267

Жыл бұрын

Who are willing to take lie? Just she had bad luck got Voodoo met this evil.

My heart absolutely breaks for this lady ..... he should have been given 20 year's in prison... what a disgusting man .

@SamStone1964

Жыл бұрын

These women willingly handed over their money and wanted to marry a married man.

@vaska1999

11 ай бұрын

​@@SamStone1964 How did you manage to miss his repeated claims that he was divorced and the problem with his papers was purely bureaucratic?! Or the fact that she even called the registry office, who confirmed this to her?!

@christinecatt8039

10 ай бұрын

20 years in prison..what crime did he commit. ? Sorry..but she gave her money willingly...to a dishonest, manipulative slime ball. Pathetic 😣 You reap what you sow..!!

Am now 60 years!! Am glad that I am not interested in a man woman relationship anymore, my husband died 5 years ago, we had a wonderful marriage!!! Iam now used to being alone...I am enjoying single life so much , I don't wanna jeopardize my happiness in pursuit of a partner no never!!! Thank you God for the peace and joy that am enjoying in my old age🎉

They know something is not right and too good to be true from the very start but are so lonely and desperate that they choose to ignore it.

When you value and love yourself you never feel lonely. Even if you live alone and never date again.

She has amazing children, and that’s something to celebrate❤

Why would she trust a felon who basically robbed a bank to have her children’s money in his bank account? She can’t say “he took her children’s money”. She blatantly gave it to him despite knowing he’s a felon and also “marrying him” couple of months after she met him. That’s so dumb and irresponsible. And she needs a psychiatrist ASAP.

@videorocketzmillar007milla5

9 ай бұрын

Plus he looks glum in the limo. Like he is hiding something. Bad.

@rehanabeebeehassan8499

6 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

It seems the people the scammers pick on is the photos of people who are not very attractive or overweight because they know their dying for love and attention

It’s sad that she told herself that she’d probably never be married again & she “wasn’t good enough” -- doesn’t she realize ANYONE can get married??? Whether Rich or poor, skinny or fat, young or old - many people “settle” & don’t look or choose quality. Look for quality only. I’ve only done that & had exceptional relationships.

@kdeloris2225

Жыл бұрын

He knew how desperate she was I'm pretty sure she told him how alone and lonely she was and he capitalized on that.

The minute a man brings up money RUN

A man you barely know moves into your house and wants to then sell your house and you think that’s okay?

They said he didn't have a job. I disagree!

@goaldrivendatingstrategy

Жыл бұрын

His job is scamming women and it might sound strange but it really is.

Why did she not get any money back, he obviously had almost a million and it has to be somewhere….I hope they did a forensic accounting of this crook’s bank accounts under the 30 odd names he went by

@jblue705

Жыл бұрын

I have the same question!

@dinacap2660

Жыл бұрын

he didn't rob her with a gun--she willingly gave her money to him

She still spoke of him fondly during their times together… how he opened the door for her etc. she likes being treated this way….

Men mess up your lives. They take your emotional and sometimes physical energy. Learn to cultivate a life around your family, friends, interests and set personal goals. Life will be more fulfilling and safe.

@rubbersoul4469

Жыл бұрын

Women con men and cause a lot of damage too. Bad people come in many guises.

I can begin to say how badly I feel for this good woman. May life find other blessings to send her way : /

What a nice lady, I hope she finds love.

The 'Two hearts beating as one must be the usual line '... Geez

I have been on my own for 16 years, because I lost my husband because of colon cancer. I am 66 yrs old and I am still on my own. I do not need a man in my life - EVER!

Thats why it’s really important to love yourself and be happy by your own. She was desperately looking for partner as she was lonely. Sad.

That Nigerian accent though should always warn you when the smarminess two hearts beat as one bs starts.

@ashl8804

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@mcjs8640

Жыл бұрын

That doesn't apply to this story at all.

@kazleslie6334

Жыл бұрын

Wake up !This one is not a Nigerian .Unlike most lol

@kuroneko7022

Жыл бұрын

@@kazleslie6334 I guess she didn’t see the man on this story. 😂

@rubyparchment5523

Жыл бұрын

We’re all experts in African dialects now. Alaye!

She did not have a problem with him being married>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> end of story.

@SamStone1964

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. Rule 1 Don't date married people.

One of the most unattractive and immediate turn off in a man is when he asks for money from a woman….it’s one thing if you have been married , and he has been providing for you for years and maybe lost his job and temporarily needs help, then yes ofcourse help him since now he is family and demonstrated his commitment to you….BUT to give a man money in the beginning of a relationship and even worse not having met them in person yet!!..well that’s just insanity

I was always told to put other people first but not any longer. Too many scammers and rip off con artists out there looking for people who put others needs/wants first.