WINE WEDNESDAY WITH XO: DATING AS A CHRISTIAN + DATING YOUR FRIENDS EX ? + MORE // XOLIGCABASHEVLOGS

Пікірлер: 263

  • @monde_ntsundwane
    @monde_ntsundwane3 ай бұрын

    I hope you know how we the OGs/ your big sisters are so proud of your growth. ❤❤❤ it has been such a pleasure to watch you experience different phases of your life, you're doing well Xoli.

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much!! ❤️

  • @ladyqngomane

    @ladyqngomane

    3 ай бұрын

    Literally it's beautiful to watch when someone joins our club🤗❤️

  • @user-sy9rq4sq8t
    @user-sy9rq4sq8t3 ай бұрын

    "YOU KNOW HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF, YOU ARE SELFISH WITH YOUR TIME" Thank you Mama Darlin' for this bar!!! I love you

  • @user-sy9rq4sq8t

    @user-sy9rq4sq8t

    2 ай бұрын

    mama,am i able to dm you on this platform?

  • @zintlelungile7035
    @zintlelungile70353 ай бұрын

    Am praying for a bible studies for darlins 🙏🏾..Always gorgeous.God bless you for Darlins Auntie ❤️🌸

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much

  • @MbaliMahlangu-ve1su

    @MbaliMahlangu-ve1su

    3 ай бұрын

    Oh baby that will be nice 😭🤍

  • @buhlekazimanciya4015

    @buhlekazimanciya4015

    3 ай бұрын

    That would actually slap😭yes!

  • @LoveYaka
    @LoveYaka3 ай бұрын

    Wine Wednesdays should honestly become a podcast. I could listen to your voice all day❤

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    Maybe one day! ❤️

  • @shanydossantos7404
    @shanydossantos74042 ай бұрын

    I’m currently job hunting cos I hate where I work, the environment is so toxic and it drains the life out of me. Hearing you mention that God removes you from such places and places you in a space that he has created for you was comforting because I’ve had this fear of taking that leap of faith and pushing my channel so that I can do that full time.

  • @FaithN_Jiyane
    @FaithN_Jiyane3 ай бұрын

    Hey auntie❤ , I'd like to add something. Having a discerning spirit is very important it's not every time that when something doesn't give you peace thn it's not meant for you. The devil will definitely interfere with things ordained by God because he doesn't want us to thrive and when you have a discerning spirit you'll be able to pick up that this is from God and the noise is the devil trying to make you to let go of those blessings. In such situations you should pray for strength and wisdom to overcome this. If you're confused thn pray for strength, trust and believe that God will give you the strength to fight for whatever only if it has been ordained by God. When I say fight I'm referring to praying and faith

  • @ThapiMaphari
    @ThapiMaphari3 ай бұрын

    It is how you deliver the advise, the message, the wisdom that makes us get it. It’s the uniqueness of the approach that makes think, that makes us make certain changes in our lives. I bumped into your channel in December 2023, when I was going through so much and it has been my saving grace ever since. Again, I’m eternally grateful ❤

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    Thank you for your kind words my love ❤

  • @dintlemasentle5232
    @dintlemasentle52323 ай бұрын

    If a girl is in her twenties (20s) and is not a DARLING then angazi yazi😂😂 like what exactly are you doing….. Xoli is literally the big sister we all need YOU WILL FOREVER BE FAMOUS ❤❤

  • @lwandisiwenjokweni5846

    @lwandisiwenjokweni5846

    2 ай бұрын

    Honestly!!❤

  • @Minentlr
    @Minentlr3 ай бұрын

    Here to mark the reg Aunty!❤😂

  • @thandabengu3636
    @thandabengu36363 ай бұрын

    Her name is Xoli Gcabashe❤❤❤❤I stand a queen❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @bulelwabolani2120
    @bulelwabolani21203 ай бұрын

    "...dead, gone, boom ghost buster..." 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @luciandwakule7648

    @luciandwakule7648

    3 ай бұрын

    I died 😂😂😂

  • @yandie_z

    @yandie_z

    3 ай бұрын

    Please, that was hilarious!! 😂😂😂

  • @missvee6850

    @missvee6850

    Ай бұрын

    I got that and it was hilarious 😂😂😂

  • @mbalenhlemathwebula9099
    @mbalenhlemathwebula90993 ай бұрын

    How I like watching her while I’m studying 📑. Your voice is so soothing.

  • @karabodikobe
    @karabodikobe3 ай бұрын

    Hey Aunty, you're so right about your 20s being for yourself. I am 27 and struggling with that, it's so hard because I am the first born and as a first born I have been through so much and had to grow up so much more rapidly than even my elder cousin. So for a while I felt like I didn't have choices. I had to do what's is right so my brother has a different upbringing. Only for me to resent him a bit, because he doesn't see or understand the sacrifices. But that's the thing, I'm learning if you want to sacrifice do it, the other person has nothing to do with it.

  • @lungiswamjikelo4672
    @lungiswamjikelo46723 ай бұрын

    Favourite day of the week with my favourite person ❤

  • @kgothatsommiss-ottie6671
    @kgothatsommiss-ottie66713 ай бұрын

    The first advice??oh I needed to hear that! Thank you so much 😭👏❤

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    You're so welcome!

  • @msthabii
    @msthabii3 ай бұрын

    Love the wine Wednesday’s. Love the advice ❤

  • @user-khutso23
    @user-khutso232 ай бұрын

    Gurl the new background dopest❤❤❤❤

  • @wendymagagula
    @wendymagagula3 ай бұрын

    The XO effect!!!

  • @gcebilemagagula3106
    @gcebilemagagula31063 ай бұрын

    I needed to watch this.. it has validated what I'm going thru..❤

  • @Sino88_
    @Sino88_2 ай бұрын

    Love this community so much ! I make sure I show up even when I'm late on this channel ❤ We love you mama so much don't ever give up on us.

  • @lonahmolo7945
    @lonahmolo79453 ай бұрын

    I needed to hear this🙏

  • @lungilezikhali9587
    @lungilezikhali95873 ай бұрын

    Sit downs with you makes perfect sense 👌❤

  • @nhlanhlacherrolskosana3162
    @nhlanhlacherrolskosana31623 ай бұрын

    Love love these girl talks ❤ thanks Miss XO

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @KamoM.03
    @KamoM.033 ай бұрын

    THE FIRST ONE YESSSSSS🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉Gonna have a great night for sure❤😂🎉🎉

  • @Mwaii_Lisa
    @Mwaii_Lisa3 ай бұрын

    Wednesdays are for the darlings ❤🥳🥹

  • @ayandamakata4742
    @ayandamakata47423 ай бұрын

    love the first advice you gave us ❤️

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    Glad it was helpful! ❤️

  • @Dumisani_pearls
    @Dumisani_pearls3 ай бұрын

    We’re spoilt rotten 🥺🥺 love this for the darlins😩❤️

  • @usanele_k
    @usanele_k3 ай бұрын

    Oooh she’s back for real😍😍😍

  • @mimiemodisenyane
    @mimiemodisenyane3 ай бұрын

    Right on darlins ❤

  • @Mduduzisiwela
    @Mduduzisiwela3 ай бұрын

    I love Miss XO please!!!❤️🧘🏾‍♂️

  • @LesediMagotlhwo
    @LesediMagotlhwo3 ай бұрын

    we need longer videos darling 😮‍💨🥰

  • @ThaboDibakoane-xj6he
    @ThaboDibakoane-xj6he3 ай бұрын

    Queen of consistency ❤

  • @LifeAsMarygold
    @LifeAsMarygold3 ай бұрын

    It's always good to listen and watch you giving us advice❤

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    I'm so glad!

  • @aviwengevayo785
    @aviwengevayo7853 ай бұрын

    Please keep on standing on business we love it here🤞🏻😍

  • @nikiwemavi
    @nikiwemavi3 ай бұрын

    Thank God for Xoli😇 thank you for that decision you made for starting your own youtube channel❤and thank you for for being that big sister I wish I had❤

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @peezy739
    @peezy7393 ай бұрын

    Love this for you XO! Love love !

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @sinokuhlekhumalo3806
    @sinokuhlekhumalo38062 ай бұрын

    I enjoyed watching this video ❤️😊 as for "this is my stranger's bag, I'll guard it with my life" 😂😂❤️ they can never make me hate you

  • @NoluthandoM09
    @NoluthandoM093 ай бұрын

    Marking the register🫡❤

  • @naledipetuniamaruping5741
    @naledipetuniamaruping57413 ай бұрын

    Aagghh man I love Xoli❤❤

  • @Angelomethc
    @Angelomethc3 ай бұрын

    Love you loads keep it up we here for you through and through 😌❤️❤️

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much!!

  • @Lucia_Motona
    @Lucia_Motona3 ай бұрын

    Having my glass of great wine influenced by Miss XO ❤

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @MbaliMahlangu-ve1su
    @MbaliMahlangu-ve1su3 ай бұрын

    Okay mami!!!🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹❤

  • @simz_nxumalo.
    @simz_nxumalo.3 ай бұрын

    -what a beautiful way to end my day.❤

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @thabangrayrahi1898
    @thabangrayrahi18983 ай бұрын

    You are enough and you are loved Xoli ❤ I am super proud of your growth. Everything has its time and phase. I will continue loving you ❤🎉🎉🎊 and thank you for the upload ❤🥂🧃

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much!!

  • @bulelwabolani2120
    @bulelwabolani21203 ай бұрын

    PREACH Aunty darling! Enkosi ntombi "Ndizozixelela!"

  • @lwandoroloti754
    @lwandoroloti7543 ай бұрын

    Honestly being introduced to you during covid was the best thing my sister could have done for my mental health... Thank you for choosing to share your life with us. I hope and pray that God does for you what you do for our mental health❤❤❤

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @_siledlamini
    @_siledlamini3 ай бұрын

    Get well soon, thank you for creating content for us even though you're not well❤❤❤

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much! 😊

  • @nosiphontokozo
    @nosiphontokozo3 ай бұрын

    I love wine Wednesday conversations, praying for everything is top tier😊😊😊❤and one thing I love about God is that he will reply, there will always be signs. Lots of love

  • @gugubuthelezi781
    @gugubuthelezi7813 ай бұрын

    Miiiii Thatha...Miii bamba😂..oooh darling just yesterday I was thinking about the exact same topic on dating as a christian. Thank you❤🎉

  • @ladyqngomane
    @ladyqngomane3 ай бұрын

    It's beautiful to watch you grow Xoli welcome to our Club❤️🤗

  • @nosihledlamini3814
    @nosihledlamini38143 ай бұрын

    been watching you since first year I'm now a postgrad and you keep elevating puuurrrr.

  • @silindokuhlelindiwe7907

    @silindokuhlelindiwe7907

    3 ай бұрын

    I started at second year and I’m a postgrad now 🥹 she brings light when academics are dark 😂😂 after my tests I catch up always

  • @Ndzoe
    @Ndzoe3 ай бұрын

    Road to 170k darlins 🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @Mballykay95
    @Mballykay953 ай бұрын

    Love you always gorgeous praying girl. May that throat get better soon❤️

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much!!

  • @clauradenemarumo9343
    @clauradenemarumo93433 ай бұрын

    Another important one. "Tell yourself... Focus and know the end goal"... Thank you Miss Xo❤

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @nolwazimbalenhle1906
    @nolwazimbalenhle19063 ай бұрын

    The most consistent and reliable youtuber😊❤

  • @Coco_phiri
    @Coco_phiri3 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much Aunty Darlin’ for always keeping it real and just being you ❤

  • @mihlesoldaka
    @mihlesoldaka3 ай бұрын

    Checking in❤❤

  • @Lesego-seepe99
    @Lesego-seepe993 ай бұрын

    “This is my stranger’s bag” 😩 sent me 😂😂😂 Love it here. I learn so much whenever I’m here❤️

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @usanele_k
    @usanele_k3 ай бұрын

    You look so gorgeous bestie😍😍😍😍

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    Thank you my love ❤️

  • @nosiphomkhabela5413
    @nosiphomkhabela54133 ай бұрын

    Love this for you ❤

  • @thembelihlegema123
    @thembelihlegema1233 ай бұрын

    Another one thank you ❤🎉

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    You're welcome 😊

  • @vuyisekamgolombane5656
    @vuyisekamgolombane56563 ай бұрын

    I love it here❤️❤️❤️😊

  • @fikilemakoba8885
    @fikilemakoba88853 ай бұрын

    Thank you mama 😍

  • @anathianathi9678
    @anathianathi96783 ай бұрын

    Oh yes doll🥳♥️

  • @kealebogawanitah4244
    @kealebogawanitah42443 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ YOU DESERVE THEM ALL...GET WELL SOON QUEEN🥺🥺

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @lesegomaodii
    @lesegomaodii3 ай бұрын

    DARLINS , GRAB YOURSELVES A GLASS OF WINE CAUSE ITS WINE WEDNESDAY WITH AUNTY DARLIN , YASSSSSSSSSSSSS ❤😮‍💨🍷

  • @Mwaii_Lisa
    @Mwaii_Lisa3 ай бұрын

    You are effortlessly funny please 🤣🤣😭😭

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    🥺❤️

  • @mapuleconstance6731
    @mapuleconstance67313 ай бұрын

    am here to mark the register #PRESENT🙋‍♀🙋‍♀

  • @florencesellane4630
    @florencesellane46303 ай бұрын

    Aunti Darling u give out such good advice. Today is even better, all of the answers nje.🙌🏽❤ thank you so much.☺️

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    You are so welcome 🤗

  • @Lady_Nceba
    @Lady_Nceba3 ай бұрын

    Thank you for loving us Aunty darlin❤

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    🤗

  • @Mamgcina30
    @Mamgcina303 ай бұрын

    Its good 2 be here❤Its nice to be here

  • @lebotsotetsi5859
    @lebotsotetsi58593 ай бұрын

    Darling , your becoming is so beautiful to witness. I pray that God blesses you with everything that you desire. Continue staying true to yourself❤️❤️.

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @Tshegofatso23
    @Tshegofatso233 ай бұрын

    My fav❤

  • @lornabooysen
    @lornabooysen3 ай бұрын

    What a time to be alive😅 Not me having wine and I’m watching wine Wednesday,love love love it here. 😊🫠

  • @Sive_Nyanda
    @Sive_Nyanda3 ай бұрын

    Uye ubamhle more and more ke sana Aunty Darling 💐🩷😍

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    Thank you love ❤

  • @nonhlemhlongo5581
    @nonhlemhlongo55813 ай бұрын

    wow! You're truly God sent!😍❤❤

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    Wow, thank you love ❤️

  • @baatile_b
    @baatile_b3 ай бұрын

    We're so spoilt and l've been MIA. I can't wait to catch up on all the videos that I haven’t watched this weekend.

  • @clemmy8702
    @clemmy87023 ай бұрын

    Only the OGs know that we are lovers in this house we love love and we definitely going to get our uncle Darlin and we going to get married it's only a matter of God's timing.,, socialize Wena bbe❤❤❤

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    🤭❤️

  • @aziziphonicole1137
    @aziziphonicole11373 ай бұрын

    You definitely still a teenager mama🤭🤭❤️Thanks for your constant wise words.

  • @user-jy3ou4ng9g
    @user-jy3ou4ng9g3 ай бұрын

    Notification ereng ko mogirl❤

  • @nkulieyngakane
    @nkulieyngakane3 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much missXO for the lovely conversation I resonate so much with it. Love marriage and toxic work environment. ❤ the day I centered God in my life. Everything changed for the better and I found peace 😊.

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @sphokazingcongo2950
    @sphokazingcongo29503 ай бұрын

    🎉❤❤❤❤❤wine Wednesday Darling ❤

  • @suenettematras7589
    @suenettematras75893 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤ YES YES

  • @phililebiyela2811
    @phililebiyela28113 ай бұрын

    I can't wait🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @neotsamai9892
    @neotsamai98923 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ this one was made for me, # I don't like judgemental Christians you never know someone's journey. You never ever know God's journey for someone's life , it's never been or will ever be their business. ❤

  • @thandekamthethwa4641
    @thandekamthethwa46413 ай бұрын

    Notification gang❤

  • @valentefredericks4118
    @valentefredericks41183 ай бұрын

    Where did you buy ur outfit???😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @nonhlemhlongo5581
    @nonhlemhlongo55813 ай бұрын

    Ngaze ngalate😆🥴😍🥰❣ohhh yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!❤Thanks aunty!

  • @knowledgekhoza8618
    @knowledgekhoza86183 ай бұрын

    We are spoiled in this house and we appreciate it ❤️🥹😌 the best of the best ❤️

  • @Dimpho213
    @Dimpho2133 ай бұрын

    Wise words darlins bath lone ndlebe uzwile ke sana 🤗🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @LifestyleWithSewa
    @LifestyleWithSewa3 ай бұрын

    Beautiful ❤ zitshele vele ngoba abantu abanaqiniso

  • @nothandojoyce2946
    @nothandojoyce29462 ай бұрын

    XO baby gal... i'm inspired darling

  • @VeryBerry481
    @VeryBerry4813 ай бұрын

    Please also include your mommy duties diaries in the vlogs( motivation)/ sit downs.

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    Mommy duties ?

  • @vandaisabel590
    @vandaisabel5903 ай бұрын

    You are gorgeous ❤ we are gorgeous ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @simphiwezwane5554
    @simphiwezwane55543 ай бұрын

    Nkosyam I love this woman somuch❤

  • @zanelegumede2119
    @zanelegumede21193 ай бұрын

    Drip check ngquuuuu❤️❤️

  • @Boitumelo_Makinta
    @Boitumelo_Makinta3 ай бұрын

    You gorgeous ❤

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    You are gorgeous too love ❤️

  • @Buhle_M019
    @Buhle_M0193 ай бұрын

    I am sooo happy nkos’yam 🙌🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾 I love you so much Auntie 🥰🥰

  • @Xolile_Gcabashe

    @Xolile_Gcabashe

    3 ай бұрын

    🤗

  • @user-hs3xl9fm2z
    @user-hs3xl9fm2z3 ай бұрын

    God knows I love you❤️❤️❤️😍

  • @nontofloran.7934
    @nontofloran.79343 ай бұрын

    I am busy watching your videos back to back, coz I have been away.. ❤️ I now think you should also have a podcast ntonton.

Келесі