God Fearing Man!!!!!! That's a top tier man...let's go on our knees and pray, lets go to church, blast praise & worship👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

❤❤

The spiritual growth I see in Xoli 🙌🏾😮‍💨 it’s inspiring me to be intentional about mine. I needed this ❤, thank you.

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

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Let talk about how gorgeous Miss XO is❤❤❤ i mean she is a 10/10

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

🥺❤️

@snqohpearl1793

2 ай бұрын

Muhle mfethu 😢

@samukelisiwengxongo134

2 ай бұрын

Akamhle akamhle yerrrrrrr. Its bordering on illegal

the boyz too are in the buildzing Aunty Darlin. 😍😍❤️

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

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You touched me deep when you said we pray to God and expect things to happen now, I can relate to the lady who said that she's been praying but nothing happens, I always have conversations with God I feel like I can talk to him more than I pray because when I pray I feel like there's something that distract and disturb me, but when I talk to Him I feel light and that He is listening to my cries, even though He doesn't answer now but I always thank Him for my life, my kids, my parents, my siblings and our health, so I'm always grateful for having my family especially my parents at my age. Thank you so much for this Xoli ❤️🥰much appreciated 🙏

I think I am really falling inlove with the WineWednesday segment it has so much wisdom . Love and light xoxo

@sphokazingcongo2950

2 ай бұрын

Me too❤❤

@suzettenshigwedha

2 ай бұрын

I agree ❤

@ThandiLeche

2 ай бұрын

Sana I’m definitely with you there 🥹😍😍 love her zoooooo much ❤

@marthamvulam7326

2 ай бұрын

I love her too❤️

It's so true that when we pray and seek God that is when things get hard. The enemy is losing you so they will fight the hardest to keep you, they know we as mere mortals will blame God when we don't get our answer now. Wait on God and while you're waiting don't stop praying and praising Him. It annoys the devil everytime we pray. ❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

Exactly !!

I was on a point of giving up on God because wow it really Paws😂😂but i had a dream of a voice saying "be quiet, stand still and know that i am God" at that time tintfo atihlangani mbamba but i woke up with peace that i cant even explain God is good

The part about wanting a man of God is sooooo real!! Physical type is a wavering thing but to have the spiritual alignment with your partner I imagine is a different feeling and feels SO much deeper than the physical and surface level connections. Being on a journey of self discovery you realise how important it is to surround yourself with people who love you at the level that you love yourself and draw you closer to your spiritual anchor 🤍 … also, Xoli sana you look amazing 🤭 the lighting and quality of the video!!

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

Thank you love ❤️

I love how you responded to the mustubation question and all the questions 🥺♥️thank you sis Xoli

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

I'm so glad!

I think my problem with prayer is me feeling like i'm missing out of all the these things that I thought at my big age of 30 would be experiencing, so seeing my peers living their best lives and experiencing life when He doesn't respond to my prayers. But i'll continue strengthening my faith and keep on praying.

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

Please mama ❤

This is the real "I love the woman you are becoming "❤

I just love how honest you are and the advice you give are really building and changing other people's lives. You beautiful in and out san🎉❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! 😊

It poured and continues to pows aunty. I had to say in every prayer God silence the noise in my mind and fix my heart simply because i prayed with the feeling of agony and anxiety. Once that was done wow God is doing his thing with my life and my faith is on another level even when things are bad. ❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

So happy for you aunty 🥺❤️

@suzettenshigwedha

2 ай бұрын

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I'm so glad you posted the video even with it being out of focus cos yep ,gems❤

Thank you for all this wisdom you've been giving us since 2020😍🔥✨

this segment is very important. I just love it. We need to protect Aunty Darlin at all cost🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞

thank you for posting it... the people pleasing portion i needed to hear that💔

I get the "trying not to react too quickly" on situations cause wow I feel guilty soon as I make that mistake but God is faithful we learn everyday in our walk with Him

I felt it when you mentioned you praying more then the car breaks down.. I’m currently going through that. Got baptised on Sunday got so excited then Monday my car breaks down.. The cost to fix it is abit high.. I’m like Lord I prayed for this car and now this.. but I believe if the Lord gave it to me He will make a Way for me. Thank you aunt Darling ❤❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

Exactly Aunty ❤

Aunty D 😢❤dropping nuggets all the time. I’m Inlove I’m obsessed with your advices they are so personal and relavant.

Love love this segment ❤️❤️

Me seeing the tumb nail “ You gorgeous “ because you truly are gorgeous.. one thing about it and two things for sure your advise are too good and you are honest about things ,spiritually l think aunty has grown so much n I’m here for it all 🫶🫶love love love this ❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

Thank you my baby ❤

I love this version of you even more. Please continue to do these videos. It's always so encouraging & there's always something to learn.💕💕

When you pray, over and over again but things seem to get worse - when you said that, it hit home. I’m currently going through that at the moment but I have just learnt to give it all to God. I live by Philippians 4:6 - for I will not be anxious and with prayer and thanksgiving, I’ll always present my requests, my hardships unto the Lord. Thank you for this segment, this is healing ❤

❤❤❤❤❤you truly dropping jams I loved it so much

True when you pray it gets worse😭

Your advice is most definitely worth listening to and being practiced. Thanks a million for sharing such amazing words!!❤

Braids on you sickening❤❤❤❤

I genuinely want to say this video has spoken to me and your advice has validated so much to me as a young independent lady when it comes to knowing your boundaries, standard, and preference when it comes to love or being in a relationship. I always questioned if it’s normal or I’m the problem…Thanks auntie D❤️🫶🏽.

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

You are so welcome! 🤗

No you were covered through out this video 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾so grateful you listened to your spirit and not start it over

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

🥺❤️

You NEVER need to explain yourself with us, we'll always watch it all from start to finish and the ads too!😘

Good one Xoli, keep it up. You were indeed dropping Gems 😇

The way you talk it's so powerful you can tell that you are a woman of GOD❤❤ I kept on saying " Mmmmmmh true " i love Wine Wednesday. I am sorry for your camera not focusing. I look up to you Aunty💞

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

Wow, thank you ☺️

Ow sana i needed this session🥺❤️❤️

Beautiful wine Wednesday, enjoyed a lot. Good night to all Darlins ❤❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

Good night darlin ❤️

I agree with you Aunty darling, people always talk whether you do good or bad, they always have something to say.The only thing to do is to focus on yourself and live your life to the fullest. Blessings to you Aunty darling ❤❤❤ love you lots 💕

❤❤❤ Notification gang waaasup...wena FOCUS when I catch uuuu hmmmm... either way twas a lovely session loved it❤❤

So understood, thank you for the video aunty.❤️

This touched me so much, looking forward to your next video. May God keep on guiding you on this beautiful journey,

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! 😊

Words of wisdom, Thank you Miss XO👏👏

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

You are so welcome 🤗

The more we pray it sometimes get harder/ worse trust me after that darkness there’s always a light 🙏, thank you Xoliswa we love ❤️ you babes and you so beautiful 😍 🔥🔥🔥🔥.

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

Xolile* ❤

The big sister that I've always wanted shem ❤❤❤❤❤❤ukhuluma nami mosi😭😭you're literally helping me with my journey with God, I love and appreciate you ❤❤❤

i am so happy you uploaded the vlog again😘😘😘😘i love everything about you😘😘😘

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

You're the best!

Finally got the chance to watch this video , I absolutely enjoyed this . The Holy Spirit was within you throughout this segment, we thank Jesus. Also, BRAIDS ON YOU!!!!!????? DARLING!

Ohhhh the growth Aunty ?i loveeeeee it !🥺

Ugh man I love you so much whattt😭❤️thank you for this video

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

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Ohh our gorgeous, gorgeous virtual therapist!!❤❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

😂❤

Thank you for this aunty darling. Love you lots ❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

You are most welcome 🤗

Definition of consistency ❤

The best vision of young women you bring out of us is amusing ❤❤❤May God continues blessing you for us and blessing us through you❤❤❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

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OMG you’re so beautiful🥹😻 What you think might not be stellar content is perfect to some of us.❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!!

when you said it Pows yho I just got it, @ the beginning of the year I started with my journey to build my relationship with God. love you so much darling.♥♥

The GLOW😱 you so beautiful mama❤❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

Thank you love ❤

The growth between your the old you (because I binge the old videos since I recently subscribed) and the new you is satisfying.

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

❤❤

As somebody that still watches all your old Vlogs , it’s so fulfilling to see the growth and the gap in how much your insight and opinion/advice has shifted, ♥️🤭 God is soo Good

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

🥺❤️

@gorgeous_renay13

2 ай бұрын

True to dhat babe😍😍✨🤭

Inlove with the wine Wednesdays🥰 I'm learning a lot thank you Miss XO

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

You are so welcome!

This was such a beautiful and informative video Aunty Darlin, Thank you❤️❤️

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

You are so welcome 🤗

Hey Miss XO, thank you for saying yes to what God had put in your heart to speak. I am so inspired, in my Christian journey now I´ve been strugling to pray, and when you shared that in a simple thing you give thanks to the Lord, I see that clearly now. Thank you. May God continue to bless and pour more in to your life.

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

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So heavy on being a people’s pleaser😭😭😭 I used to always want to be liked and never be in anyone’s bad books, now? People can call me a villian in their story and that’s fine.

Powerful and thanks for sharing. This is very informative and learning process. God is faithful❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

Yes! Thank you! ❤️❤️

Thank you for sharing I learn a lot from your talks ❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

You are so welcome 🤗

You’re in braids!😍😍You look stunning!Time to make a wish!✨

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

😂❤❤❤

My natural hair was as short as yours and I’ve been thinking I can’t get braid sana I’m going to the salon this weekend. Looking gorgeous ❤

Hi Aunt Darling , ever since you been on this new journey I watch and download all your videos. I love you ❤

They can NEVER make me hate you…. So many gems dropped here

Finally got time to watch. I would watch you even if you were in contrast ke sana❤.

I hv fallen in love with this Xoli may God continue using u❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

Thank you love

Enjoyed this❤

Best thing I had to do was to leave my moms house now mind can think properly there my mind was blocked 🚫 lol wasn’t versatile now I focus on my self I was scared to leave because I’m a bread winner but I spoke to my mom and surprisingly she understood yaz shame❤i would advice ppl to move out at home while they can for your own growth it’s not a fight 😉growth

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

Honestly it’s growth !!

@Nelafyed

Ай бұрын

I agree with this🥺

@Nelafyed

Ай бұрын

I totally agree with this 😭👏🏾😯

Basic instructions before leaving earth🙌🏽

Powerful 🙏🏾❤️

Thank you so much XO it is very powerful

That overwhelming moment when you realize that you just had an encounter with the Lord☺️❤️ I won't lie, I was happy to see how you reacted and realizing that I'm not crazy 😂

Urgh man GOD!!! 🥰😩 GOD, that’s all you need!!! I wish people knew.

One thing ive learnt in this life journey is "Ukuzikhipha Ebantwini"...... People are alot xam 😅

This segment has been more of a podcast for me, the videography part of it, not much of a problem 🥺

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

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Even at 6 in the morning we still tuned in🥳🎉❤️❤️❤️

Jhioo Sana when you praying it really "paws" fr... You just feel so defeated but you just have to move even if you don't know where to start but just move and pray because when time comes it's unbelievable. It's like somebody turned a page ....it gets Rosey and everything happens so smoothly...keep the faith ❤❤❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

Exactly aunty ❤

damnn, I loved this😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

My fav segment🤭,I'm 15 minutes in Mam is dropping bars😂,love it.❤

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

🤗

I love it here ❤

you look so good aunty darrrllliiinnnggg. we glad you didn't forget us

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

Oh thank you love

Yhoo Camera yakho inomona! You look gorgeous😮‍💨 ayibo those braids look soo good on you.❤️

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

😊 thank you

Aunty Darlin looking gorgeous ke sana😍😍😍 enjoying these wine wednesdays so much, so refreshing and good advice always👌🏻

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 😊

I loveeeee seeing this transformation ❤❤❤❤❤🙌🙌🙌🙌God is faithful, hold on to Christ babe it’s the BEST DECISION EVER 🥰🥰🥰 #JesusIsTheWayTheTruth&TheLife

I am obsessed with Wine Wednesday ey Auntie makes so much sense in my life 🥰🥰♥️

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

❤️❤️

❤❤❤❤❤❤ I enjoyed this

I just love you, mam i am soo glad i found your channel i just feel so close to god now and it's all you spreading the love of god❤️❤️

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 🙂

The present is a gift thats why its called present wow wow wow❤loved that

Love you sis XO❤

Am I the only one that thinks this is a sign that miss xoli should start a podcast ❤🌝🕯️

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

🤭🤭🤭

@Xiomarazitha

2 ай бұрын

I agree with you 🕯️❤️

Hey young gorgeous mom hve ur slf a happy happy mother's day filled wth lot of luv n blessed Sunday ❤❤❣️❣️💯

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

Thank you love ❤️

Xoli Gcabashe....thank you ❤

Wait Aunty you're always GORGEOUS now!🥺😍

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

😊 thank you love

Ereng notification 😂🔥❤️

Cling cling bazalwane!🥂❤

@Nelafyed

Ай бұрын

Puurrrz

Ma’am😁😁😁😁So Excited Let Me Watch

You are loved❤

One of my close friends told me that not forgiving is like putting rotten food in the fridge and you complain about the smell every time you open the fridge.

@Xolile_Gcabashe

2 ай бұрын

Washa !!