I would lose my mind if I were her. Her reaction was so cool, calm & collected in my opinion.

@melonjuice7441

Жыл бұрын

She would lose a place to stay lmao thats the whole show

How amazingly disrespectful of him to not clean and organize his flat before they arrive.

@eagleeye2300

Жыл бұрын

Could have asked for help to get his flat and the child's room organized. He is possibly not firing on all pistons.

@denisiaadams7199

Жыл бұрын

I hope it wasn't because she's coming and he thought she will do it so he didn't have to.

Sean literally had 2 years to clean his flat in preparation for that one day..

@terhgasabeha9552

Жыл бұрын

He could have come Merry Maid.

@chellejespersen2863

Жыл бұрын

before everytime im visiting my danish bf he always cleaned his place... and throw the clothes that has holes cuz if he wait me to do it i will throw all to the garbage😂..

@sabrinaszabo9355

Жыл бұрын

I honestly think he might have difficulties with executive functioning. He had to get a less stressful job at work with less hours in order to accommodate “doing paperwork” for their visa I mean it shouldn’t impact that much.

Child’s room looked awful. This guy lives like he doesn’t care. He knew that his child and his partner are coming. Why didn’t he clean? It doesn’t reflect well on him

@Rosiecat677

Жыл бұрын

some guys r just like that, smh. When I moved in with my husband he didnt even have a trash can in his room!!!

@katella

Жыл бұрын

He is mentally ill. That poor woman and little boy!

@lolitaalmostgrown

Жыл бұрын

He’s probably depressed. It’s hard to explain if you’ve never experienced it.

@polishnorwegianandspanish9145

Жыл бұрын

@@lolitaalmostgrown I did experience it but his child is was coming and he knew for months so he should at least take a bed down from the top of the closet and make the room liveable

@jenniturtleburger3708

Жыл бұрын

He didn’t try one ounce. How was s child supposed to live or even stay his first night in what looked like a disorganized storage unit? Pathetic.

I’m not going to judge this man, i don’t know what this man has gone through behind the scenes. But morally speaking it’s not polite to welcome a person into an unkept home; I love cleaning bc it makes people feel safe. I hope he finds a solution to this issue. Only God knows.

@nnninsideneusaslyf6201

Жыл бұрын

Bruhhh i thought i was the only one who felt that visitors feel safer in a clean environment. I feel like they should literally feel at home.

@Msnanamac

Жыл бұрын

He could have just hired someone to clean and make the place look presentable

@bluebloodedsumo

Жыл бұрын

He's in charge of a cleaning team at a local supermarket 🤣

@z.fairyy6519

Жыл бұрын

Ya, now he gets full time "maid"

Ohhh seeing the lil boy run up to and hug his grandma made me tear up

@cedricliggins7528

Жыл бұрын

It was scripted. Put up your kleenex

@bobsmith5441

Жыл бұрын

@@cedricliggins7528 😄

@wildthang9355

Жыл бұрын

That’s not his grandma

@ceasarsalad2055

11 ай бұрын

@@cedricliggins7528yea well it ain’t that easy to direct a kid so kick rocks

Of all the rooms you think Shaun would want to impress with, it would be a room for his son. This is his own son, he should want to show what he can give him. His own space, own bed, some toys etc.

@Msnanamac

Жыл бұрын

Right? That room was a safety hazard for the boy.

@jenniturtleburger3708

Жыл бұрын

Yeah that was pathetic.

I can tell from her reaction to him that she genuinely loves him

@whatamachine89

Жыл бұрын

I’d like to think that’s true but all I saw was “I’m finally here to make money and live comfortably!” Lol

@bobbybos2170

Жыл бұрын

i would love him too if he sent me 400 pounds every month

@anonnymouz6826

Жыл бұрын

It's a dream come true for pinoy

@Junitunes

Жыл бұрын

@@whatamachine89 but she was crying. If what you said was the case she’d be just smiling intensely.

@whatamachine89

Жыл бұрын

@@Junitunes not really. It’s a very emotional thing to go from poverty to endless possibilities

Seeing the little grandbaby run to his grandmother and how she greeted and hugged him was everything! As a grandmother myself, I know the feeling!

@RickTheBoss98

11 ай бұрын

But that child is not mixed race and the parents are mixed couple very odd very odd indeed

I don't understand why he didn't sort everything out and tidy before they arrived especially as he has a son. Very odd.

@sabrinaszabo9355

Жыл бұрын

I get the impression he might have ADHD or some thing that may impair his executive functioning, judgment, planning, and organization skills.

Victoria: Did Sean tell you who I am. Sean: 知ってるよって言ってあげて (Say, "I know"). Sister: 知ってるよ (I know). Sean: Ah...she knows. That's pretty sketchy.

Sean's mom and the grandson was the most beautiful moment ❤️

@ravenfive3864

Жыл бұрын

that was his sister LMFAO

Victoria seems like a really kind person

The grandma and grandchild moment is absolutely precious.

South African Sean hasn't even tidied up or cleaned....he's had 8 years to do it

@unofficiallatinamericanist

Жыл бұрын

Lol I thought he is English?

@sinqobiledimema3308

Жыл бұрын

@@unofficiallatinamericanist his accent is very much south African. His mom even said "my boytjie" which means my little boy in afrikaans/English

@unofficiallatinamericanist

Жыл бұрын

@@sinqobiledimema3308 omg!!!

@elizabethrobertson4542

Жыл бұрын

@@unofficiallatinamericanist are you mad? He literally doesn't sound English at all

@elizabethrobertson4542

Жыл бұрын

@@unofficiallatinamericanist that went completely over your head. Its just a saying like 'are you crazy?'

Victoria inserting herself while Sean was talking to his sister makes me feel well uncomfortable ..^-^"

@xxxstronggirlxxx9532

Жыл бұрын

Why?

@itachiuchiha6876

Жыл бұрын

@@xxxstronggirlxxx9532 because it’s rude and annoying.

@jacquiandp-dog7755

Жыл бұрын

That was awkward. She forced the meeting.

It's like he stopped cleaning up after himself once he knew his maid was coming. He wants a maid not a wife.

@katella

Жыл бұрын

And a carer. Why don't any of you notice that he is mentally ill. Is this taken for normal in the UK?

@prettybarbie9273

Жыл бұрын

That's most men

@islandpersuasion4690

Жыл бұрын

@@prettybarbie9273 was just about to say that 🤣🤣

@OldFatherGaming

Жыл бұрын

@@prettybarbie9273 ridiculous comment. I'm a part time science teacher, primary carer for our two kids, do most of the chores around the house and my Mrs works a full time corporate job. It's generalisations like your comment that are holding us all down.

@fredelynmacanaya5281

Жыл бұрын

That's too sad to be true

It bothers me that in the first clip of this couple, they made it seem like he was sending her $$ all the time. But they did not mention it was because she is supporting their child. They did not even mention the kid actually.

@tara8257

Жыл бұрын

Yeah! Extremely shady build up

@yawfraser

Жыл бұрын

Yh. I thought same.

@letspartyallthetime

Ай бұрын

Their child is 3, they've been together for 8. That's 5 years of support with no child except if you count her children with other men.

As a Filipina when we have visitors coming we make sure that they will be comfortable while staying.

@lc1715

Жыл бұрын

It’s like that in every culture. This guy is just a bit…off.

@cc2016

Жыл бұрын

Not everyone though

When she was shaking n said "close the window" 🤣 it's always hilarious to see people from hot climates go somewhere cold lmao

The kids room was unacceptable

Why did he put his son's room as storage 😱

Did he try to finger paint on his tv screen after eating greasy chips? One of my biggest pet peeves is people touching screens that aren't touchscreens and his tv screen was triggering. I'm angry on her behalf, walking into that mess and knowing his child was going to sleep in that room.

@katella

Жыл бұрын

I would have been off to a hotel with my child!

The airport meeting made me cry then they got home and 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

@1BeautifullyBlessed

Жыл бұрын

Right! It was like, good feelings gone!

Lovely Shaun mother's reaction, lovely

@Confettifun

Жыл бұрын

Bruh, that’s his sister 😬

@R3DGaming

Жыл бұрын

Sister.

I never welcome anyone home even the repairman or probably even rescuers when my house is dirty. Never ever! 😅 that’s my greatest fear 😂

Sean was actually looking for a maid, then he met her, so he said this is hitting 2 birds with 1 stone.

@Idky813

Жыл бұрын

Tf?

@finn3102

Жыл бұрын

You were probably being cheeky, but all Filipinas are raised to cook and keep a clean household. That is one of many advantages of having a Filipina wife.

@sabrinaszabo9355

Жыл бұрын

@@finn3102 using women for manual labor and domestic house work you assume they want to take on. Regardless of their cultural upbringing I don’t think anybody genuinely enjoys cleaning or think it adds to the quality of their life. A clean environment adds to quality of the life but not the cleaning itself. Do you enjoy cleaning?

Shaun is such a sweet man but oblivious at times.

This uk version feels like a bad version of the show the undatebles

@elspethbrown8895

Жыл бұрын

It actually is!! 🤣😬

@chantelle556

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂Yes!!

@claireemily1983

Жыл бұрын

Spot on

@roojistanr5015

Жыл бұрын

Omg!i was saying the same thing to my friend

@katella

Жыл бұрын

Yes. They are all mentally slow or unbalanced. I wonder why no one has remarked on this. Surely, none of these people are considered normal in the UK?

My husband when i first time come in Europe he makes sure all pretty clean the house so that I can relax for long travel...because he know's me if the house is messy I can't relax I become stressed..I'm glad I have a super clean husband❤

Lol when Victoria asked the Japanese guy to translate if the sister knew her , he actually just said ‘say you know’

@kitkatkitten1338

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@roojistanr5015

Жыл бұрын

Did he actually?lmao

@yumiko0017

Жыл бұрын

I picked up on that too lol

@katella

Жыл бұрын

He is very sketchy

I adore how loving and accepting his mom is towards his kid.

Even as a young lad I knew to clean my place before first bringing a girl there. He couldn’t even do his dishes? You’d think he would have made it as comfy as possible.

He could have at least cleaned the place up. That is the basics when a guest comes to visit.

I appreciate that she doesn’t care that the flat is simple but dirty and unprepared for her and a child I would have a fit.

@GrandmaNZ

Жыл бұрын

Sorry I don't mean to be rude I would have run as fast as my feet can take me away from the dirty garage flat. No second thoughts!! Most asians are very clean and tidy ppl like really particularly clean OCD 😄. I don't know how I can sleep comfortably in his flat.

I know a South African accent when I hear one lol. I mean, like, he could have tried a little bit harder.

That place is a disaster 🤮

Wow, good for her...not sure if I could have held my composure

The Japanese fella he's a walking RED FLAG..😂😂

These couples are really cute. I do wish the one man would have prepared a room for his son. It doesn’t have to be extravagant, just remove your storage items, put the mattress on a bed frame, some sheets, a few toys. He obviously loves his kid but needs to realize environment is important for children to feel safe and comfortable. It doesn’t look good to the mom if he hasn’t put in the effort to prepare a space for the child.

@sabrinaszabo9355

Жыл бұрын

I wouldn’t be surprised if he has problems with executive functioning.

In Japan it is very uncommon to present your partners to your family, you only do it once someone proposes. Not the whole world does it your way Victoria.

@roojistanr5015

Жыл бұрын

He should explain it to her though

@hazar2354

Жыл бұрын

Arabs also do it like that.

@lolitaalmostgrown

Жыл бұрын

Here in the US, if you have moved in with someone and you haven’t met the family, it generally means you’re a short timer.

Wow he didn’t even set up the room for the kid at least

I wish them the very best, what a lovely couple. The house just needs a bit of cleaning

@katella

Жыл бұрын

Just needs a little bit of cleaning?! Then he should have done it. He must be mentally ill.

@dana4552

Жыл бұрын

More like a lot of cleaning and we all know it won’t be Sean cleaning

When I came to the US 33 years ago with our 4 year old daughter everything was clean and empty except for beds. My husband wanted me to choose everything including the pots and pans so we went shopping next day.

his sister literally said she missed him A LITTLE BIT subtitles: "she missed me alot"

He seems a very immature man. Almost like a child.

@shannonkelly2509

Ай бұрын

That’s what I said. He has an intellectual disability it’s just not stated. Or maybe he’s had a traumatic brain injury.

I would have booked myself in a hotel till he cleans ..so much disrespect

She should walk right out of there and go back home. This flat is absolutely awful and shows, this man has zero respect for this woman. She will be his maid as long as they are together

@XSemperIdem5

Жыл бұрын

I would have told him to pay for a hotel room until that place is in order. It's not her job to clean his mess.

@sophie2084

Жыл бұрын

@@XSemperIdem5 yes! It's not like he didn't know they were both coming. The room where his son is supposed to sleep, is absolutely awful

@stephanieclark1487

Жыл бұрын

He’s also been working hard to support her and her other children not just his own. He may not have time to clean up much. But he should have attempted.

@sophie2084

Жыл бұрын

@@stephanieclark1487 that is very admirable but it doesn't take much to clean these dishes and to empty his son's room from all the stuff in it

@bobsmith5441

Жыл бұрын

Sophie He's given her tens of thousands of pounds. She can clean a one bed flat ffs. She's been on easy street for 8 years thanks to his toil

It might be staged because in the 1st épisode, his flat was VERY clean

I would lose my mind. The disrespect of it all to not clean. C’mon man.

Victoria’s hair would be so pretty with a good purple shampoo wash to tone and brighten it up.

Some people don't have house training but that's okay because when she talked to him about it. He acknowledged and said yes to cleaning and organizing so it's a good start. I love how she acted about the whole thing and was loving.

The house should have been cleaned and prepared. Period. Yet, love conquers all👌🏾

8yrs. 8yrs (and 3 since his sons birth) to clean up and get his sons room ready. I don't even think I saw a bed for him. Nor toys. Other then the truck he got him for his bday. My god you would think he'd put in some effort. All he's shown her is how unorganised, dirty and lazy he is and how little effort or thought he put into their arrival. And how she's most likely realised she's about to become a house maid 😐

@sabrinaszabo9355

Жыл бұрын

You don’t know if he has some sort of developmental or neurological issues that may impair his executive functioning. You don’t know his full story and I feel people are too quick to judge, especially since we can all have something we can work on with ourselves. Until we are perfect, we mustn’t Judge too much

How can you live so dirty it’s disgusting

If he is too lazy and doesn't care enough to clean, it is not that expensive I hire a cleaner. Just doesn't care. I love how clean she is and very nice about it.

@jacquiandp-dog7755

Жыл бұрын

Yes! The question now is - is he cheap in addition to be messy?

I don't think it's possible to count how many times a cringed through this whole video

My eyes are pouring!!!how sweet

How ridiculous Shaun is working in a cleaning company and he doesn't clean his own house, why doesn't anyone found out this ugly fact?

Why didn’t he think to prepare, it’s a visible demonstration of his care and concern.

I would love for one day the partner would know the other person's language and not let them know so they can hear everything the other person is saying more accurately

He couldn’t bother to clean his house before she came ??? What were u waiting for a free maid service? Jerk . And how could u show that room as a room for the child??

He might be on spectrum disorder. Have been with a few people with that disorder and they are great but taking care of yourself and cleaning and what not is generally something that has to be taught and trained into them as routine. they don't see it as a necessity or interesting so it's slacked on.

@nicochan1537

Жыл бұрын

Trouble with executive tasks yes. Also things that are fairly easy for/come naturally to others can feel like a major burden, for example taking care of oneself, resulting in them avoiding it all together.

@jacquiandp-dog7755

Жыл бұрын

That's just an excuse. It wasn't untidy, it was unlivable. How can he care for a child if he thinks that is ok?

@xronann

Жыл бұрын

@@jacquiandp-dog7755 read above comment.

He saved this woman and her child from poverty. They should be thankful

She accepted him as having a simple flat but complained a lot. Obviously it's just for a show. Sooooo scripted 🙄

I wouldn’t date a guy who will be a hot mess! Ain’t marrying him to be his housemaid! 😖

Did I see a wedding ring on her finger. Hmmm

It’s really amazing story, ❤️

How are you a 40 year old man and you apartment looks gross like that???? Grow the hell up!

@katella

Жыл бұрын

He not only looks like a giant toddler, he acts like one. Is he mentally ill? This can't be considered normal in the UK.

He had time to prepare!! How on earth did he leave it like that??! I would be so embarrassed to welcome someone in my house with it like that! Was this some sort of producer shenanigans or is he like this? It would be reinforcing "fat slob" stereotypes which seems like producer shenanigans.

I have a lot of Filipino friends and they hate messy environment lol

Best to go back Philippines luv. Moving from UK to PHIL was the best move i made. No living crisis, no high cost of living, no insulate Britain problems, working remotely for several US and UK clients, apartments cheap as chips. Only problem is there is no Nandos, Walkers prawn cocktails or Jaffa Cakes.

It started off so well.

Omg she should have ran for the hills when she saw his mother their waiting and watching their first hug

I wanna know... are we really sure that the boy is his son? 😅

@Junitunes

Жыл бұрын

I know right

@onyx1654

Жыл бұрын

i think the child kinda looks like him

@DD-rg9po

Жыл бұрын

Doesn't look like his son lol

@jokbok995

Жыл бұрын

yeah , I think it's his son because the UK asks for proof like a paternity test to apply for the visa for the kid

@johnerickp

Жыл бұрын

He's a mixed kid.

Obviously his mums house is well looked after so he's seeking a maid for himself

@nursetinalouise

Жыл бұрын

The background are fake

I don’t think they’re very tidy in general.

Lol when i arrived in the house of my husband and he’s with other two teenagers…I cleaned on the first day of staying because I can’t or doesn’t want to see the house so messy and very very dirty….but now when teenagers gone and they go visit their dad house,they were shocked how their house change and they like it😅

Such a sweet little boy ❤️

I thought that was rose from 90 day fiance till she took her mask off wow they look alike

I thought he's a cleaner manager🤔

He probably didn't learn how to clean y'all. I would venture to say that his childhood home was probably as chaotic

What’s the name of the show ?

They’re my favourite couple

It's like he expected his wife to get there and do all the house-keeping, etc...

He finally got her here!!!

Man, how disappointing. You couldnt aleast prepare the childs room? I would be so disappointed

I like when the Japanese guy was like "don't dump me"

I think they actually love each other. Also, he could have cleaned it for her visit. They bucket like a king term couple too. I get it.

What a LAZY MAN ,he could have TRIED but he DIDNT !

Is that really his son? 😳

@katella

Жыл бұрын

Is that really his son's bedroom?

He needs to do DNA 🧬 testing on that kid.

How to join like this 90 day fiance

Oh well I guess people will do anything for the viza

I'm American who's done a bit of international traveling in my life (not as much as I'd like yet) but I swear to God people from other countries seem so much more sincere than Americans. Like the US version of this show is a bunch of doofuses with huge age gaps and questionable behavior. Goofballs. These people seem to actually love each other

Prob had windows open for smell

Is that his actual son? Idk who these people are

@cremebrulee4759

Жыл бұрын

Yes, it is his biological son, So he is not seen for over a year.

Am I the only one offended this dude didn't clean up. He probably waited for her to do so

I can’t imagine living like this

Everyone would freak out seeing that apartment Yes but what about her own Philippines house. Why she acting like she was living a lavish lifestyle. Shaun clearly deserves better

@ririimorales8897

Жыл бұрын

Filipino loves cleanliness so she's a bit shocked about how messy the place is. She didn't insult or said any hurtful words to Shaun for being messy, instead she said that they would need to fix the place and everything... What an understanding and sweet wife.