Wife's Survival: Truth on 'Down Low' Living - CBN.com

LaJoyce Brookshire thought she was married to her Prince Charming, but then discovered a veiled side of him... The Christian Broadcasting Network CBN www.cbn.com

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  • @curtistinemiller1560
    @curtistinemiller15606 жыл бұрын

    IM SO HAPPY TO BE CELIBATE...HAPPY ......

  • @jefferyjones970

    @jefferyjones970

    6 жыл бұрын

    Curtistine Miller Amen

  • @curtistinemiller1560

    @curtistinemiller1560

    6 жыл бұрын

    Jeffery Jones YES....

  • @leekeene5889

    @leekeene5889

    5 жыл бұрын

    Good for you! It's not worth it now days to NEED sex.

  • @butterflylovenj7300

    @butterflylovenj7300

    4 жыл бұрын

    AMEN!

  • @gypseenomad3956

    @gypseenomad3956

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @miamiluv3056
    @miamiluv30566 жыл бұрын

    This makes me never want to get married or be in a relationship!! I’m just saying....

  • @madaboutcicixoxo1819

    @madaboutcicixoxo1819

    6 жыл бұрын

    Miamiluv 305 so true

  • @leekeene5889

    @leekeene5889

    5 жыл бұрын

    As a young girl I told myself I never wanted marriage or a REAL relationship. I just wanted my family around and to be successful. It worked out soo well for me. Of course I had friends. When I got into a serious relationship at 30, my life spiraled. And I changed many of my player ways for this man. Worse mistake of my life.

  • @sweetazzpiew8490

    @sweetazzpiew8490

    5 жыл бұрын

    Miamiluv 305 Ikr!! I have been single, and celibate since my divorce five years ago!! I'm not gonna lie and say I don't miss being in a relationship sometimes, however I truly appreciate being single and unattached..Living this way definitely has its pros and cons..But for me the pros out weigh the cons..Also I'm not the type of person who is afraid of being alone, or the type that just has to be with somebody, anybody!! #SingleAndLovingIt!! #TrueStory!! 😀 💅🏾💁🏾🙋🏾🏡🛀🙆🏾🛋️📺🍕🍿🍫👉🏾💤💤🛌 If you're happy and you know it 👏🏾 Lol!!

  • @sweetazzpiew8490

    @sweetazzpiew8490

    5 жыл бұрын

    Cee Kay Wow!! he didn't turn out to be on the DL did he??

  • @butterflylovenj7300

    @butterflylovenj7300

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's mainly why I am celibate and single.

  • @soulocz
    @soulocz6 жыл бұрын

    No matter if a person is on the DL or straight as we are individually responsible for protecting our personal health.

  • @deidrafrazier278

    @deidrafrazier278

    3 жыл бұрын

    Uhhh - she was married to him. If you gotta have your husband wear a magnum...smh. Stop it.

  • @Burstillo

    @Burstillo

    2 жыл бұрын

    🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @cynthiawalker1179
    @cynthiawalker11796 жыл бұрын

    I will never believe this type of behaviour ONLY happens in the black community.

  • @user-zx5xw4yw2e

    @user-zx5xw4yw2e

    6 жыл бұрын

    Cynthia Walker Uuh Not at all. This is not a 'race' thing AT ALL. Many 'non-black' men are on the down low .. MANY ( many bave come out n admitted to it).

  • @septiawoman7687

    @septiawoman7687

    6 жыл бұрын

    I agree as well. Between the mass Media and "other agencies" out there...hmm?

  • @Rosedaleb1

    @Rosedaleb1

    6 жыл бұрын

    Cynthia Walker Why would anything think this? Sin transcends color and tribe. But walking upright will save your life.

  • @chooseylover1422

    @chooseylover1422

    6 жыл бұрын

    James Nuxoll Lolz!!!!

  • @halimacandy

    @halimacandy

    6 жыл бұрын

    Look at the history of this chanel it's white supremacist

  • @719kai719
    @719kai71913 жыл бұрын

    Thank God that she tested negative! That had to have been a scary time in her life! Very sad statistics!

  • @septiawoman7687
    @septiawoman76876 жыл бұрын

    I feel for her and THANK GOD FOR GIVING HER THE GIFT OF LIFE. AMEN!

  • @05Godschild
    @05Godschild13 жыл бұрын

    JESUS!!! Is all i can say right now!!

  • @jollysincere
    @jollysincere12 жыл бұрын

    i will pray for you, the very same thing happened to my niece. she was shattered, but finally she was able to go on with her life. it wasn't easy,but she did it, and so can you.

  • @LolitaDavidovich934
    @LolitaDavidovich9346 жыл бұрын

    They struggle with the stigma associated with being gay. Why should anyone be something they are not to please someone else? Live your truth and the truth will set you free.

  • @mmarie294
    @mmarie29412 жыл бұрын

    I am happy for you girl. I did not have the happy ending. It has been tough but I'm dealing. I try to explain to others about the down low. bringing that home to me and the children, you remove the kids from having a father. this was an educated man. I found out too late. I wish others the best thank God I have been living for 20 years but it has not always been easy.

  • @kimberlywilson8956

    @kimberlywilson8956

    6 жыл бұрын

    mmarie294 YOU BE ENCOURAGED SWEETHEART, YOU ARE NOT, I REPEATE YOU ARE NOT WHAT THE DISEASE SAYS YOU ARE " YOUR A BLESSING ❤

  • @valariemohammed4273

    @valariemohammed4273

    6 жыл бұрын

    mmarie294 xx

  • @silviaavilaparks6826

    @silviaavilaparks6826

    6 жыл бұрын

    mmarie294 Please just continue to relay in God and HIS love. You need to rest assured that HE will never forsake nor abandoned you. You are HIS precious jewel. Love you sis. Remain encouraged in Jesus's name.

  • @a.george9155

    @a.george9155

    6 жыл бұрын

    mmarie294 God bless you for being so bold and strong.

  • @tippybeebassey2649

    @tippybeebassey2649

    6 жыл бұрын

    mmarie294 we love you pray pray pray n never stop please and I will pray for all my sisters stay strong

  • @christinalandry9653
    @christinalandry96536 жыл бұрын

    god is good

  • @JustAThought155
    @JustAThought1556 жыл бұрын

    This is sooo prevalent in many church circles!!! MLK's relative, Alveda King, nailed it in this clip!!! The louder the music can often mean the more it hides what REALLY must be addressed!!! Sad.

  • @cozmiqueme9918

    @cozmiqueme9918

    5 жыл бұрын

    It's not just in the church -- it's all over and it's nothing new! I knew of these dl types before a name was given to them when I was a child... AIDS/HIV and people opting to live in their truth is just forcing it into the light.

  • @annettescroggins3905
    @annettescroggins39054 жыл бұрын

    What a powerful testimony...and sad at the same time for black women....

  • @ajaruffin6108
    @ajaruffin61086 жыл бұрын

    ONLY by the grace of God!!! Hallelujah! Glory be to God!

  • @akeybrasevier1988
    @akeybrasevier19885 жыл бұрын

    God bless u love god is good all time

  • @jenrobinson7883
    @jenrobinson78836 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Lord for your GRACE

  • @elaineanderson4891
    @elaineanderson48916 жыл бұрын

    Rejoice. Stories like this lets me know to continue on my path. I feel like the church is keeping me out of trouble. Giving me assignments to do and this takes up so much time.

  • @TerriBeyondBlessed
    @TerriBeyondBlessed6 жыл бұрын

    HALLELUJAH!!!!!! GOD IS GREAT ALL THE TIME!!!!!

  • @finally0726
    @finally072612 жыл бұрын

    @ 2:43 a third of the men who are on the DL still see themselves as straight. Isn't it strange that Lucifer carried 1/3 of the angels w/ him from heaven. Hmm.......

  • @1obedience

    @1obedience

    6 жыл бұрын

    finally0726 oh wow!

  • @elaineanderson4891

    @elaineanderson4891

    6 жыл бұрын

    finally0726 Thanks for that food for thought. 👍

  • @adriennedouke1880

    @adriennedouke1880

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's it! They actually believe they are straight. Just crazy.

  • @tracyclark573
    @tracyclark5736 жыл бұрын

    amazing story..... beautiful ending......

  • @dezerismith7529
    @dezerismith75296 жыл бұрын

    Wow what a testimony...

  • @aliciabaker1542
    @aliciabaker15426 жыл бұрын

    Hello Pastor Stevens, good interview you all!

  • @mattw4496
    @mattw44966 жыл бұрын

    Pastor Stevens look like he might be on the DL

  • @xhibit.6986

    @xhibit.6986

    6 жыл бұрын

    Matt W Lol! Let's hope not.

  • @oreldean

    @oreldean

    6 жыл бұрын

    Exactly.

  • @thewrongshoes

    @thewrongshoes

    6 жыл бұрын

    Lol

  • @patiencebright

    @patiencebright

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thinking the same thing

  • @jaslyn5501

    @jaslyn5501

    6 жыл бұрын

    Matt W sholl do

  • @olivia2285
    @olivia228514 жыл бұрын

    Incredible

  • @meeka2702
    @meeka27026 жыл бұрын

    Amen....Grace of God

  • @jerseytaylor8174
    @jerseytaylor81746 жыл бұрын

    ummm, when did it say her husband got AIDS from being on the DL? did I miss that part of the segment?

  • @waterfalls2724

    @waterfalls2724

    5 жыл бұрын

    Most gay dl men have HIV or Aids . straight people too but more gays catch it then straight people.

  • @deidrafrazier278
    @deidrafrazier2783 жыл бұрын

    And they wanna call us homophobic or unfairly judging them. Do better. Be honest. Stay in your lane.

  • @DailyDoseofLGBTea

    @DailyDoseofLGBTea

    9 ай бұрын

    So you can judge us better right?

  • @Betcaligarcia
    @Betcaligarcia6 жыл бұрын

    Wow this is a miracle !

  • @MarlonDGandy
    @MarlonDGandy9 жыл бұрын

    So deep....🌈

  • @jamespickett2687
    @jamespickett26876 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Jesus!!!

  • @droid264
    @droid2646 жыл бұрын

    Thank you JESUS...

  • @wandapearson4723
    @wandapearson47236 жыл бұрын

    I will get her book..

  • @aquillasteele8977
    @aquillasteele89774 жыл бұрын

    Praise god is good

  • @jamessneed5669
    @jamessneed56696 жыл бұрын

    I feel like this is from black men being in prison and get out then a women gets with him and he still likes men and its sad because the women is left with no choice.

  • @Harley08

    @Harley08

    5 жыл бұрын

    james sneed no, males married and single are DL. It’s not because they’ve been in jail. Most have never been incarcerated.

  • @amorxlntwa8

    @amorxlntwa8

    5 жыл бұрын

    Wrong

  • @reahleneroberts3312

    @reahleneroberts3312

    5 жыл бұрын

    WTH most these men never been jail

  • @gypseenomad3956

    @gypseenomad3956

    4 жыл бұрын

    Women always have a choice. Condoms, celibacy, getting him and herself checked and still use condoms. What do you mean she has no choice?

  • @tracycoley-smith4318
    @tracycoley-smith43186 жыл бұрын

    This type of behavior is happening in every community. It may be more prevalent in the African American community.

  • @alexjones28

    @alexjones28

    5 жыл бұрын

    White men like to crossdress

  • @weireffie29
    @weireffie295 ай бұрын

    Truth

  • @christinalandry9653
    @christinalandry96536 жыл бұрын

    people need to watch

  • @jerseytaylor8174
    @jerseytaylor81746 жыл бұрын

    soooo, I'm confused because I didn't hearing about her husband contracting from being on the "DL", so how did they all assume this?

  • @Harley08

    @Harley08

    5 жыл бұрын

    J Lankford Patterson males sleeping around without using protection. Not just DL men. It’s so stupid when black males use the excuse we’re programmed to replenish the earth. He said, be fruitful and multiply. Our bodies are made different from females they can’t do what we do. I don’t think you’re confused.

  • @thewrongshoes

    @thewrongshoes

    3 жыл бұрын

    They don’t think any straight men have AIDS I guess

  • @anastasiamillzz9963
    @anastasiamillzz99632 жыл бұрын

    So much in Memphis 🥲🥲

  • @callmemr.thomasreagan1157
    @callmemr.thomasreagan11575 жыл бұрын

    So sad 😭😭😭 !!!!

  • @simpleme5719
    @simpleme57196 жыл бұрын

    When ever it's BAD, blacks, blacks,blacks. I guess we are the only race.

  • @hiphopson
    @hiphopson14 жыл бұрын

    @Maticallo that's true, but some people choose not to see it that way

  • @hiphopson
    @hiphopson13 жыл бұрын

    @brobbethel no its not you will always be into the same sex i dont care how you choose to live your life its going to be there you can have baby moms a wife kids and still be into men at the end of the day only God knows your true feelings and heart

  • @patrickwilcox4420
    @patrickwilcox44206 жыл бұрын

    Let's get the tithe and offering up...let's get the popularity up......mannnnnn

  • @amorxlntwa8
    @amorxlntwa85 жыл бұрын

    Struggling? WRONG WORD.

  • @zacharycoltrane3128

    @zacharycoltrane3128

    4 жыл бұрын

    As if it's bad to be gay. It's bad to use people to cover up that you're gay

  • @eveaugustine8197
    @eveaugustine81977 жыл бұрын

    help us

  • @zacharylavender1568
    @zacharylavender15687 жыл бұрын

    My God!

  • @luzfigueroa1550
    @luzfigueroa15506 жыл бұрын

    This is a disgusting, despicable behavior

  • @joycehunter1869
    @joycehunter18696 жыл бұрын

    🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @intentionalspirit3254
    @intentionalspirit32545 жыл бұрын

    Wait...did she say that this can be traced to tge African American community?👀 .....Wow!!!! I had to stop the video.

  • @Chocolatecarma
    @Chocolatecarma6 жыл бұрын

    God is not the father of us all...

  • @Kat_Beezy

    @Kat_Beezy

    6 жыл бұрын

    Jessie BEE I feel very sorry for those that refuse to allow Him to be their Father!!

  • @thetruthshallstand1504
    @thetruthshallstand15046 жыл бұрын

    That’s where she went wrong - she married the man of HER dreams and NOT the man God had in HIS perfect will for her.

  • @fookyu1691

    @fookyu1691

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jesus is The ONLY way to God so a person should basically live in misery with someone b/c “God” wants them to?

  • @zacharycoltrane3128

    @zacharycoltrane3128

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@fookyu1691 riiiight

  • @Melisblessed
    @Melisblessed6 жыл бұрын

    So he had full blown aids and didn’t know it. 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @Harley08

    @Harley08

    5 жыл бұрын

    beautyfool some are carriers and it may take 10 years for it to show up. They spread it to their partners who’s intimately involved with them. There was a T.V. special on this years ago. When it attacks them its full blown and take them out quickly.

  • @ertfgghhhh
    @ertfgghhhh6 жыл бұрын

    ONE THIRD?!!!!!

  • @brucevann7129
    @brucevann71296 жыл бұрын

    A third!!!??? A third of all black men?!? No way it's that high a percentage of gay dudes.

  • @williamadams5695
    @williamadams56956 жыл бұрын

    This pastor is a fool!

  • @daisicooper2
    @daisicooper212 жыл бұрын

    Please any woman who cought her boyfriend being on downlow and live with it but couldnt talk to him about it yet please contact with me.Iam scared,so sad and cant believe because our relitionship is being so strong..just tell me how you dealing with it day by day..

  • @madaboutcicixoxo1819

    @madaboutcicixoxo1819

    6 жыл бұрын

    This never happened to me but please whatever you do leave him even if you have HIV tell the police as well okay so he won’t put anyone else in danger ms.. and pray for him

  • @daisicooper2
    @daisicooper212 жыл бұрын

    @ThePj5678 If you like we can create a facebook sight...where women who find out this about their man can share and give advice and support to each other.