Why You Can't Change (and What to Do About it) (Animation B&W)
Hey guys, in this video I give you my perspective on why changing oneself is so hard, and a technique of how you can fight the resistance your identity is giving you. Enjoy!
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0:00 Intro
0:42 1. Identity
1:53 2. Mind Jiu Jitsu
4:39 Outro
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And I'm confident that you're also going to make yourself an identity in this platform. I love this video editing format: nothing flashy, simple visual representations and well scripted information. You really know what you're talking about. My gratitude.
@OutperformMP
9 ай бұрын
Thank you!
most underrated channel on youtube i just discovered your channel yesterday and i absolutely love it.
@OutperformMP
9 ай бұрын
Appreciate it!
At first I was unfamilliar with it, but then I realized I had different names for my old and new identity.
1. Identify shapes Actions 2. Your Old Identify will fight back when you want to kill it. 3. It will throw some moves 4. But you got to identify those koves and fight back 5. And keep showing up and keep training 6. After a while, youild Identity will also develope counter moves to counter your new moves against old Identity. 7. But you have to keep showing up, keep training.
Hey, this is your 2nd video i am watching, & i just wanna say that... Congrats, You got a new Subscriber :) The videos are really really great...
I accidentally discovered your channel, i wanna thank you for your effort and expressing my amazement of your content and the way you simplify some important things we all deal with them in our lives. I hope you continue posting and providing more interesting topics.
Great video! Thanks for the tips!
Cool stuff dude.. subscribed.. keep making such content it's great and we all love you❤
Thank you! Keep posting. :)
@OutperformMP
9 ай бұрын
I will!
INSPIRATIONAL WORK thank you ....💜
Amazing content , well thought out and highly relatable , more so than the older Self help gurus
@OutperformMP
9 ай бұрын
Thanks, appreciate it
mad quality for such a small channel bro. i almost thought it was LEMMINO
thank you
Instead of fighting your old identity for your new indentity. It's better to accept your flaws and weakness of your old indentity and change into a new identity for greater goods. This way we can eliminate mental conflicts and helping your old identity to become a new identity or better version.
Man, I change my identities like several times in a week it's fully automatic
amazing video bro!!
@soumelee5661
9 ай бұрын
I'm trying to change my old identity as well. It's difficult but I think I can do it
Feels like detailed version of dan koe
Another comment thankful for this perspective
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I know every move from my opponent, and I "beat" him everytime. But that's not enough. I may be able to beat him, it still feel like that I am losing. Beating him doesn't satisfy me. Even if I beat him he keeps coming back endlessly. He is not giving up even after months of consecutive losses. Winning against this old identity doesn't satisfy me anymore. I just don't want to fight anymore. The only true way for me to win this fight is by not having a fight in the first place. What I realized, is that the real problem is that this opponent is none other than myself. I am that opponent in disguise. I am the one who cause him to appear in the first place. And yet it feels like that this opponent is an entire different person, despite being fully aware that this isn't the case. What I am saying is that fully successfully dissociating myself from my old identity has caused indirectly bad consequences. I explain the next paragraph. It almost feels like that I have DID. I can't properly feel that I caused my negative thoughts (aka my old identity) to appear despite fully taking responsibility for them. Everytime that I try to feel that I am the one who caused them to appear, I fail. Each time, I feel that it's a different person than me that has caused them to be there, as if there were a demon inside of me, as if there someone inside of me that want to hurt me. I know and fully believe that I am responsible for those thoughts and yet I can't really feel that this is the case. It's so painfully frustrating. I need to feel/realize that this opponent is none other than me. I need to feel/realize that his face is mine. I need to feel that his moves are being controlled none other than by myself. I need to feel that he is a puppet controlled by me. I need to remember properly when I have caused him to appear to fight me. If I can remember that, if I can become aware of when precisely and how exactly I make him appear, everything will change, this ability will be a true game-changer in my life. This will truly feel like a real win. Until then, I will keep losing.
Best videos for self-improvement. A video request- Why do we sometimes (and often for people like me) develop an inferiority complex when we see others achieving a lot in their lives, and what to do in order to stop that? Or is it fine to develop that inferiority to improve ourselves?
@OutperformMP
7 ай бұрын
Actually working on a video related to that. It will probably be out in the 3rd or 4th next video, so watch out!
@wantsomeorange
7 ай бұрын
@@OutperformMP Damn! Waiting✋
I am From India and would like to know how you are editing your videoes , i want to create videoes with similar editing
"identity shifting" lots of good material on this phrase that you can find
How are u making visual for video
Hey which software are you using to edit your vedios
How long you have been doing BJJ? What colour belt are you?
You have a lot of potential 100%. One thing to improve on: better mic
@OutperformMP
9 ай бұрын
Thanks! Just got a new mic actually. Should notice a difference after 2-3 videos
Fun fact: I live just a few minutes away from the Brazilian JiuJitsu meca aka Gracie Barra Headquarters. Where are you from?
What web do you use to edit your video ?
@xkaigo
6 ай бұрын
he won't answer you ,right? @OutperformMP.
Very well presentation. Keep going!
I need to talk to you about content and maybe if i could reach you out i would be a lot helpful
mano vc é br????
Instructions unclear , I have DID now
Repent and follow Jesus guys, because Jesus is coming back
@garciasymbiote3799
7 ай бұрын
When exactly?