Don't let a man tell you he doesn't want you more than once. She's given this man so much power over her

@Sheya404

Жыл бұрын

Facts

@platedbycee8966

Жыл бұрын

THIS!!!

@isabellesantos7186

Жыл бұрын

THAT PART THIS WAS EMBARASSING

@SataaDaDoll

Жыл бұрын

THISSSSSSSSSSS

@luwamalem9537

7 ай бұрын

Literally! It's embarrassing at this point. She is going to learn the hard way I guess 🤷🏽‍♀️

Girl he won’t commit to you cuz you got 3 kids and he want his own family his own kids. You the friend with benefits . She is not listening .

@brittanyhunter3331

Жыл бұрын

He was very honest and very clear…

@taureanbelle9769

Жыл бұрын

Very honest and clear. I think he was put on the spot and I do not think he chose from the heart. This happens often and some women get mad when they don’t listen to hear. I wish them well though.

@oldheads773

Жыл бұрын

Facts

@janaelachelle7481

Жыл бұрын

She wasn't listening at all!!

@Leelang931

Жыл бұрын

Not listening at all!! Karamo was gas lighting the issue. Disappointed he didn’t counsel them appropriately

As painful as this may be for her, it’s clear he doesn’t want a serious relationship with her.

@Cwest1990

Жыл бұрын

It’s so obvious and it’s sad.

@CALLABERT

Жыл бұрын

@@Cwest1990it is not sad she is dodging a bullet more then she knows.

@nicolewarren2284

Жыл бұрын

Girl let that nigga go he doesn’t want to pay for extra kids

@brenda1934

Жыл бұрын

I don't believe he is serious about being in a committed relationship with her. I believe he is still sleeping with the ex.

@bigk2198

Жыл бұрын

She is average to below average looking, overweight, baby mama, with tattoos. He thinks he can do better. He is only with her for easy sex.

Girl he don’t want you … move on

@melissawebster2445

Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@jamesgibson3716

Жыл бұрын

She's sprung. Why is the question..

@m.c9190

Жыл бұрын

BINGO!

@LaSweetdremz

Жыл бұрын

Period !!

@Octaviamorris77

Жыл бұрын

Don’t think he doesn’t want her but she has a few kids…just my opinion but he seems kinda cool.

The moment he would’ve told me he doesn’t want a women with kids. I would’ve friend zoned him immediately. We can be friends but nothing sexual.

@taggmein8

Жыл бұрын

Immediately 💯

@nynikki7188

Жыл бұрын

💯🤷🏾‍♀️

@Toriab

Жыл бұрын

Exactly.

@crystalwilliams3694

Жыл бұрын

Right that would’ve been enough for me to say ok then friends we are

@kush7138

Жыл бұрын

You friendzoning him won't hurt his feelings considering he's just gonna go after another chick lmao.

He didn’t send mixed messages , he literally told her what it was ! She agreed to it , she caught feelings and want to change the narrative . That’s manipulative. Him making her his gf was so forced 😭 He doesn’t want her… he only asked that because although he doesn’t want a relationship, he’s attached to her…

@dbafutu

Жыл бұрын

Okay, I thought that I was the only one who heard that too. He seems to be very clear about what he’s looking for and unfortunately, it’s not her. She needs to move on to greener pastures.

@capturedmemories4917

Жыл бұрын

Thank You!

@reginaflemming4390

Жыл бұрын

Miss Lady run!🏃‍♀️I know this is too late to say, but I wish that you never slept with him especially if you 2 decided from the gate that there was not going to be a relationship bcz it only make it so hard to break away.

@EtheVirgo

Жыл бұрын

And that’s exactly why people have to learn to let people go after a certain amount of time of no commitment, because you can’t wait around for people to change

@beryl804

Жыл бұрын

She thought he would change his mind, people don't change

This makes me so sad that a woman so beautiful is hanging on to someone who doesn't want her.

She is wasting her time. She can’t say he’s wasting her time. He clearly said he doesn’t want someone with kids. Two years and still no commitment. He’s not playing games he’s single, and she’s allowing him to move how it pleases. A man knows what he wants within three months. As a woman we need to learn to walk away in the beginning

@dokoyajacqueline6690

Жыл бұрын

Walk away in the beginning

GIRL move on! He can't even verbally express himself! Being indecisive is a huge red flag!

@taggmein8

Жыл бұрын

Facts 💯

@DBrown-vg1fi

Жыл бұрын

He was not indecisive tho she was he never changed his mind she did…that’s literally the definition of indecisive

@photogenic305

Жыл бұрын

Facts!! 😢

@1cosmicdebris

Жыл бұрын

He seems to be very clear to me. He doesn't want a woman with kids...

@neisci

Жыл бұрын

I don't think he's indecisive, he said what he wanted and has been moving accordingly. She's the one who keeps hoping he'll change his mind. Sometimes we have only ourselves to blame; should he leave her? Of course but he won't because she fulfills certain parts of his life so he keeps her around. As an adult, we need to take charge of our lives that's why she should kick him to the curb. Is he being selfish? Of course, but she could be self too and put herself and her children first before this man.

I don’t understand how do you want to unlock his phone if y’all not in a relationship I’m confused.

@MrsDymples76

Жыл бұрын

I was highly perplexed

@barachel6469

Жыл бұрын

Yeah that’s weird af

@Phoenixishot

Жыл бұрын

That part

@LONDONESQUE.

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! Wasn’t surprised he denied them acces

@janaelachelle7481

Жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same thing

He wants his freedom to continue to explore his options and if someone else comes 99% closer to what he wants that's where he's gonna go. Period!!

@carolinamota1536

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@Kendallslovejoy

Жыл бұрын

But she knew that and she chose to catch feelings. I don’t think he did nothing wrong.

@leafrazer8440

Жыл бұрын

Your comment is right on! He's waiting for that women who's single with no kids! That is what he really wants deep down inside his heart.

@JasmineCrump

Жыл бұрын

🎯🎯🎯

@paolaree8004

3 ай бұрын

Nothing wrong with that

THIS IS WHY YOU DON'T ALLOW MEN TO MEET YOUR KIDS IF YOU DONT WANT A RELATIONSHIP. SMH

@FreshBandz811

Ай бұрын

A relationship 😂 😂 uh. Woman. The best con artist on the planet. Yall give 🍑 to anyone who smile at u.

Move on baby, you can’t make no man want you. ❤ She looks so sad like she be crying for him when she’s alone. That is not happiness and his perspective on women with children will not change. And that’s ok. He seems like a nice guy so I understand both sides.

@ItsUrGirlAR

Жыл бұрын

Facts, at this point she's holding on to a dream 💯 Never let a man tell you or show you twice that he doesn't want you.

@barbaracarley3601

Жыл бұрын

YES!!!!!

@d.cooley1819

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. He’s a good guy and doesn’t want to hurt any feelings. It seemed very forced.

@d.cooley1819

Жыл бұрын

And him not opening his phone shows that he’s dating other people. Girl please move on. That man was put on the spot to be your boyfriend.

@leafrazer8440

Жыл бұрын

I totally agree. He's struggling to tell her how he really feels, his body language says a lot.

He said he don’t wanna date anyone kids. The conversation should’ve ended there. This was weird.

@LifeofDestinyB

11 ай бұрын

They be thinking they can change them Man mine after the starting “dating” anyway and sleep with them😂 it never works but somehow women don’t seem to get that

@nampijjanazifah6358

6 ай бұрын

Why he did continue to go there.

@Kiara6896

4 ай бұрын

@@nampijjanazifah6358because she was good enough to have sex with but not a relationship. Crazy to me. He set a boundary but continued to engage but she should’ve went ahead and cut him off.

@shenisenicole103

3 ай бұрын

Yes

@paolaree8004

3 ай бұрын

@@nampijjanazifah6358because men will sleep with anything willing

He is being totally honest about wanting his own family, most men are that way.

@datkiddjophat4290

9 ай бұрын

Yup like me. I’m single no kids and I want a woman with no kids also. It’s to much being with a woman with kids

@sarahsam3603

8 ай бұрын

@@datkiddjophat4290 Not to invalidate him but he already has 2 kids

@datkiddjophat4290

8 ай бұрын

@@sarahsam3603 ooo

@honeyblunt4201

8 ай бұрын

@@sarahsam3603 Right, He doesn't want to date a woman with kids. Plus she's a whole red flag 🚩it's not her business what's in his phone.

@misssugah2355

6 ай бұрын

Yes and many of these guys create single baby mamas

This is why you don’t give your body, time and effort to just anyone!

I literally just left a situation like this . Baby girl he doesn't want to commit to you , leave .

Never twist a man's arm. He's not going to want to look like the bad guy on TV to a desperate woman. She needs a therapist for why she wants someone who doesn't choose her and then a life coach to move forward in power, love.

@Hollygdorsey1

Жыл бұрын

Exactly ! He saved face for the sake of his image. No one wants to be a bad guy.

Men are not stupid. They will pursue and commit to the woman they want. He did not want this woman. She thought playing the role of cool friend would make him elevate and deepen their relationship. Cut your losses and move on. It's not that he does not want a relationship; he just doesn't want one WITH HER.

@sharieglenn344

Жыл бұрын

Well said!!!

I’m confused. He literally doesn’t want a serious relationship with this woman. That doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with her. But she’s not what he’s looking for. Still she’s giving him access to her heart, mind, body, and family. She has put herself and her children on the discount rack and is down that he won’t pick them. This is the exact opposite of what makes a man choose you for a serious commitment. This shows a lack of value in yourself. A woman that values herself would never behave this way. If you don’t value yourself why would a man. He can literally get everything he wants or needs from you without much effort because you are laying down as a sacrifice on his alter like he’s a God. She’s actually lucky that he isn’t a bad person. He’s taking what she’s offering. But there are men out here who would use her low self esteem to use and abuse her. He has no obligation to show her his phone. Why demand that? She doesn’t need to see his phone to know she should move on. If a man values you, you’ll know it. When he wants the benefits without the responsibilities you’ll be confused. This man wants the benefits.

@emmebee1168

Жыл бұрын

Facts.

@BrokeTruckerGyal

Жыл бұрын

God bless you and your strong mind cz sisters like the one in this video scare me.

He doesn’t have fear ….he just doesn’t want her…

@carolinamota1536

Жыл бұрын

Thats the real truth!

He needs to find his own woman and make his own family.

When someone shows you who they are, Believe them🤷🏾‍♀️

I completely understand not wanting to date a woman with kids. I was the same way. My husband had no kids when I met him and we started our own family.

@shanny0971

Жыл бұрын

Me too. I did not want a man with kids.

definitely need an updated video with them because i feel like he committed due to being on the spot in front of an audience..

He hesitated so much girl RUN you deserve a man that can express how he feel voluntarily

@DBrown-vg1fi

Жыл бұрын

Yes he’s deserving of a woman with no kids

@wandumazgabu7252

Жыл бұрын

He doesn’t want her!

@taaay

Жыл бұрын

@@wandumazgabu7252 like not one but and she just so desperate and missing the whole self love thing

Not Karamo pressuring that man at the end to ask her to be his girlfriend 💀 this ain't it

She's trying to force him to be on a relationship. It's not going to last. The feelings he expressed today, are still there.

Us as women ask for a man to be upfront about what they want. But when they do we still try to fit something in our minds to think otherwise. He not only states he doesn’t want a RELATIONSHIP, he shows it sis 🥴

Men know who they want to commit to and even spoil. You can never force a man to see your value. If it's not you then it's not you unfortunately 💔 - Keep it moving.

They have good chemistry. But when another woman enters their relationship with no kids he will leave her. She is nothing more than a Miss. Right now!

He’s not sending mixed messages. He clearly communicated his expectations and she caught feelings. Why would she want to deal with someone who has not only told her but the world that he doesn’t want a ready made family. She should move on. She’s so in love, she’s going to continue this toxic journey. He’s as faithful as his options. This won’t end well. As soon as he meets a woman that he likes with no kids… he’s out.

@DBrown-vg1fi

Жыл бұрын

Factss

Never let a man tell your more than once that he doesn't want you . Move on lady and find your person for you.

I don’t think he sent her mixed messages if from the the start he told her he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with a woman with kids. If you are just in a sexual relationship with someone there is no need to introduce that person to your kids. That was her fault! He didn’t mislead her. She wanted him so bad she kept looking at the possibility of a relationship despite the fact he already told her he didn’t want a relationship. If I didn’t have kids I wouldn’t want to date someone with kids either. I agree with him! She needs to just move on and find someone who wants and accepts her and her kids

@truthhurts7045

Жыл бұрын

All of this

@Vdub481

Жыл бұрын

U nailed it yup

@starloced

Жыл бұрын

how can you say he didn’t send mixed messages when he mentions not wanting to be with a women with kids then proceeds to have a relationship with said women? that’s a mixed message.

@AlexusMusic

Жыл бұрын

@@starloced what relationship ? Sex ? Oh okay 🥴

@richards22

Жыл бұрын

He sent mixed messages by spending everyday with her, having fun with her on a daily basis that doesn't involve sex. He sent mixed messages by getting involved with her kids. . And prolonging it for yearssss. She said that they both agreed to be friends with benefits at first but then she caught feelings.... If he was a real man and he knew he didn't want a relationship with a woman with kids the minute he saw her catching feelings he should've jumped ship... But he didn't. .. instead he rallied on her said feelings, grew a closer bond with her and her kids. If that ain't sending mixed messages then I don't know what is.

I never dated men who made it clear (like he did) that they don’t want a relationship with a woman with kids. I have ONE so it was never an issue but she has THREE and some men, understandably, don’t want all that responsibility . And why did she stick around after he told her he was thinking of making someone ELSE his girlfriend? Sad. This was very manipulative of her and him asking her on stage wasn’t genuine. He was put on the spot and I wouldn’t want to be asked like that. Smh

He Wants His Own Seeds! Nothing Wrong With That!😏

@LashayMW

Жыл бұрын

It's not but why pursue or entertain a woman with children knowing you don't wanna make the obligation to take care of someone else's kids

@robertmiles1132

Жыл бұрын

​@@LashayMWbut he never said that he never came from the stance i dont want to support the kids he said he doesnt want the other people in his unit as in baby daddies

@LashayMW

Жыл бұрын

@robertmiles1132 the first part of my question still stands either way. Why pursue or entertain a woman with children?

@toxinfreev

3 ай бұрын

@@LashayMWbecause some men are just predatory and take advantage of women they know are desperate. He's not man enough to go after what he really wants because he has nothing to offer them (childless women).

If you fear commitment, you need to be alone!!!!!!!!!!

Women, start LISTENING when a man tells you about himself from the beginning so you don’t make the mistake to look like a fool. Move on, the man for you is out there ❤

He's a nice guy, so true from the beginning. He's not for you. There was alot of pressure, he didn't want to disappoint you on tv

He's just not that into you girl.

He needs to leave & stop dragging her alone then

@gelleh.5456

Жыл бұрын

She needs to stop giving him access ….

@DBrown-vg1fi

Жыл бұрын

@@gelleh.5456 Period!

@wandumazgabu7252

Жыл бұрын

She needs to let him go… he already told her what’s up… so don’t blame the guy

@tylerwavy8324

2 ай бұрын

He didn’t drag her along he told her wassup and now she caught feeling and now he somehow is being accused of dragging her along when he’s been real

This man doesn't want her. He meant that "a woman without children is a plus to him". Although Karamo called him out for leading her own for his selfish benefit, he then agree to give their relationship a try for camera purposes only. He was placed on the spot. She needs to protect her heart and her children from the damage he will cause trying to convince him to stay. Show your children you have dignity as their mother.

He did not send mixed messages, he told her whats up. He doesn't want to get involved with a woman with kids, wants his own. Its his choice, so move on.

He’s a good guy, he just fear’s a relationship. At least he’s honest!

@angelacarlisle1708

10 ай бұрын

Hes not been honest with the girl..hes led her on

If he can't except my kids , he can't have my heart cause they are my heart.

@wandumazgabu7252

Жыл бұрын

That’s your problem… lol.

@Arron413

Жыл бұрын

You should have stayed in a relationship with your baby daddies. He isn't obligated to love your kids by other men and love you. You sound crazy.

@ritajit4730

Жыл бұрын

"Lady Dee Tarot" is correct- always put your children 1st.

@nick_fury6120

Жыл бұрын

@@Arron413 yup fr

@crazymusicgrlcheesecake

Жыл бұрын

​@Arron413 her baby daddy is probably abusive. Yall would be sitting up here blaming her for staying with him. She has standards and not everyone is going to kiss your behind

In the words of the late great Maya Angelou: "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. People know themselves much better than you do. That's why it's important to stop expecting them to be something other than who they are!" And that's all I've got to say....

I absolutely agree with his honesty and understand..You can't do nothing but respect that..I am at a point in my life where I don't want to date someone with kids..or either smaller children.. Coming out a relationship after 7years myself and dated my ex who has 3 children I developed a undeniable bond with what I call our children even though I didn't birth them..My one and only daughter is 28 and when we broke up it was extremely hard on the children..So I'm still and always will be apart of there lives.. But I really can't take that mentally nor emotionally dating someone else with children..So I agree with him It's a personal choice and nothing wrong with not wanting to date someone with children or small children..

He can feel the way he feels

If they get into a relationship all he will do is cheat he clearly doesn't want her and has told her in so many different ways. I hope she moves on and finds someone to accept her and her children.

Dealt with a guy like this. Girl save yourself the Effn trouble and just move on. It will have you stressed & depressed eventually.. he don’t know what he wants and him enjoying you without a title is enough for him. He doesn’t see the need to commit because he’s scared and why would he feels “ why would I ?”. Move on girl. Plenty of men out here 💯✨

@shimmergangfitness5880

Жыл бұрын

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@DBrown-vg1fi

Жыл бұрын

He wants to commit not to her tho she has 3 kids that’s a lot

@brieyszn

Жыл бұрын

@@DBrown-vg1fi if it’s a lot why string her along period? If that’s not what you signed up for or signing up for why entertain it. That’s dumb and immature. He needs to grow up

@DBrown-vg1fi

Жыл бұрын

@@brieyszn she was giving it away for free responsibility needs to be taken any man would seize the opportunity

@brieyszn

Жыл бұрын

@@DBrown-vg1fi that’s a loser move && quite frankly that’s bum behavior don’t waste my time if you ain’t gone be honest and upfront.

Eventually she needs to woman up and leave him alone. He is very obviously not going to commit to her and I hate that it seems like he's just saying what she wants to hear/what will keep her in arms length. He has shown her numerous times he does not want to be with her. He is not innocent either and needs to man up and be straight up with her. They need to be friends. These situationships are painful and need to be let go.

I'm not even upset with him. Sis, he told you that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you from the beginning. I understand you caught feelings but that didn't change the original agreement he had with you. You should NEVER want to be with a man who feels like that way about dating a woman with kids. At this point you're not even putting your kids first to understand he will not treat them like his own bc he wants to start his own family. Let that man go! He's not the one for you and your kids.

I went threw this. Now I’m married to a man with no children and He loves my son like his own. The ex…. Yet has been able to find happiness with one woman and 8 years later still single regrets not sticking by my side seeing how good life has been for me and my husband over the 5 years (we are social media friends and he DM me recently). My husband and I are now planning a second baby happily married. Let men like this go lady so the right man can come into your life and rock your world ❤ like mine - good luck!!!

You can tell he felt put on the spot. He doesn't want to be with her but she was looking so sad & desperate he caved in. She's a good looking girl she can find someone who truly wants her.

HE STILL NOT GOING TO STOP MESSING WITH HER, AND SHE'S GOING TO KEEP DEALING WITH HIM.

She is probably a good catch so he actually DON'T WANT HER BUT HE DON'T WANT ANYONE ELSE TO HAVE HER SMH

@death24314

Жыл бұрын

Bingo

When he said "It's a plus" I would have checked out completely. Especially that he already has a relationship with my kids. If I can't protect my heart, let me protect theirs.

Basically he doesn't want a woman with kids. I don't blame him. She caught feeling and now she wants him to commit.

@dashawnalong6144

Жыл бұрын

@eshia janell nobody forced him to stay at the end of the day man wasn't complaining when they date women that has children I heard a man said a lot of stuff before about women having children but at the end of the day they did not sign up for that they did not make a person say when a woman has children they wasn't even saying nothing about it when they date someone that has sugar or not having children I don't get it I don't understand why he's complaining you know what I'm saying it got me lost right now like why you said that complaining about a woman that has children I don't understand

He is just not THAT INTO HER and he has probably told her and showed her but she refuses to accept it and he keeps stringing her along because she is his fall back girl for whenever things don't work out with other girls he can always come right back to her smh some dudes use the YOU HAVE KIDS LOL as a excuse because they just don't wanna tell them the truth

@death24314

Жыл бұрын

Orrrrr.... he hear me out...he just doesn't want to be with a woman with kids lol

I felt him too. I literally feel like I get therapy sessions out of all of these episodes I’ve been binge watching for a week now. Just writing down every advice on my note pad just like you 😂❤

I don’t like how she cuts him off. You both in the beginning stated you didn’t want anything more then friendship. He was open and honest you SHOULD NEVER GUILT someone into being with you. Been there done that and I realized my heartbreak was something I caused for myself and did not ply victim I just ate the situation up and moved on and learned to listen to peoples intentions etc and respect it.

This girl obviously in love and she's not thinking because she's in love of course but he's telling you who he is and what he want clear as day come on girl open your eyes 💯

I just love, how KAMARO helps this Young Man. KAMAROS really helps lots of people, amazing.

He did not do anything wrong. He was honest and told her what he wanted and she continued to stay around hoping that one day he would choose her. she hurt her own feelings smh

Once he say he don't want to be with a woman that has kids... why even have your kids around him He might enjoy her but doesn't want to settle down and make a family with a woman that already has children... I don't think there is anything wrong with that if it's really how he feels... he can't waste time that she doesn't give him But then there are certain types of manipulators that will hold something over your head that isn't in your power to control... she can't change the fact that she has kids... but it will fk with her head... almost make her obsess over proving her worth "despite" having children... nothing wrong with having children... you just have to date someone who doesn't have an issue with it...

Let’s do an update on this couple in 6 mos. What y’all think? I’m always rooting for love, but more so healthy relationships.

@Weda40

Жыл бұрын

Try 3 months They won't be together

As a woman with 1 teenager it’s hard out here for me. Gurl he don’t want an already made family. Cut your loss and move on.

He doesn't want her. He's told her 6 million ways from Sunday (as my dear late grandmother would say) that he's not interested in anything more than what they have, in words and actions. To bring him on the show to "force" him into committing won't work - he just didn't want to look like a heel on national TV and embarrass her further. I don't think he's wrong for saying that he doesn't want a serious relationship with a woman who already has children, that's his preference. She just needs to accept that she isn't the one for him and vice versa.

He's told her clearly that he didn't want a relationship with her before they went on the show. Believe his words. She didn't need Karamo to tell her anything. If he can't willingly and emphatically call her girlfriend, move on from him. I don't want to twist a man's arm to be boyfriend.

As women today we r too quick to open our legs and then cry wolf when we know what it is!!! U wanted friends with benefits. U were irresponsible with ur body and with the lives of ur children. Now u want someone to admit what u knew they were doing all along... end of!!! And, its not over. She gonna continue in her foolishness despite or maybe in spite of his ridiculousness.

He’s most definitely sending mixed signals. Yes, he told her from the start that he didn’t want a relationship with a woman who has kids. At the same time both of them admitted that he’s doing for the kids and that the kids have a relationship with him. She’s so beautiful, she deserves more! I don’t think he’s a bad guy, I just don’t think he’s ready to commit to her and her children. Move on mama!

@keylacmckemp1309

Жыл бұрын

I agree with you.

I love how he always comment and up lifts his guest 😊

🗣THATS YOUR BOYFRIENDDDDDDD😂😂😂😂😂 I love karamo

it's so sad to see a man struggle to come right out and tell a woman he doesn't want a serious relationship with her. My heart goes out to him because he afraid to hurt her. The only thing he can't give her mix messages, just move on and be with the woman you really want to be with.

@antwainbrown4602

Жыл бұрын

He told her from the start she ain't listening though

@leafrazer8440

Жыл бұрын

You're right.

He doesn't want a woman with kids! That's his prerogative. He wants to create his own family & he has the right to want WTF he wants!

I kinda feel like he was put on the spot with asking her to be his girl

@myrasmith174

Жыл бұрын

He definitely was and didn't want to hurt her feelings on national TV like that..

Hands up if anyone else feels he gave her a girlfriend title only because he was on Karamo Show. DUH woman, your emotionally unavailable man is having his free cookie and milk, why would he want to buy the ‘cow’? That man has a LOT to hide and he is lining up his next gullible victim. The problem with many women they can’t be content to be alone and always want to be saddled up to a man or title. Even when it hurts the kids or they ring more kids to tie a man down. NO human has ever died from being single & celibate.

Girl move on he ain't want u like that..he just don't want u feel bad on the show.

RUN she need to RUN. He do not want her, he gone continue to do him 😂

I love this show I’m glad I can catch up on the shows I missed I love his understanding and he always know what to say without hurting anyone

Some people are really delusional 🙄

If you're giving a person everything without a commitment, why would they need to commit to you? Why buy milk when you have a cow and you can get it for free? I was dealing with a man for over 10 years. He wanted a relationship in the beginning and I didn't. I had just got out a bad relationship, and was afraid of getting hurt again. So eventually I fell in love, maybe it was lust, or both. Anyways when I came to him, and told him that I wanted to be with him, he didn't want to commit. Well we were doing everything without a commitment so why would he? I had him around my children, family, and some friends. I did learned a valuable lesson, and I won't make that same mistake again. Till this day, I still love him, but I had to move on. LADIES! HEAL YOURSELF FIRST BEFORE DEALING WITH SOMEONE AGAIN. THEN YOU'LL THINK LOGICALLY INSTEAD OF MOVING OFF YOUR EMOTIONS AND TRAUMA.

@DBrown-vg1fi

Жыл бұрын

I appreciate this message so much…it’s so many people In these comments trying to make her look like the victim when she’s literally giving the milk away free of charge and then forcing commitment on him instead of walking away. When they heal they will understand exactly what you are saying

@justlola11

Жыл бұрын

@@DBrown-vg1fi it's easy to blame someone else, instead of taking accountability. He was honest in the beginning, but she fell in love. Hopefully it works He finally gave her the title she was looking for lol

@justlola11

Жыл бұрын

@@DBrown-vg1fi Thank you btw

@DBrown-vg1fi

Жыл бұрын

@@justlola11 It’s nice to see someone who went thru it see it from a healed perspective instead of just blaming others, seeing what you could have learned from it and how to improve yourself moving forward

@justlola11

Жыл бұрын

@@DBrown-vg1fi awww thank you. You just made my day🥺

Dudes like this are pathetic. Clearly he's wasting her time. As a man I can say that this has become a norm in today's society.

@gelleh.5456

Жыл бұрын

How is he pathetic?

@jeneandavis5219

Жыл бұрын

Yes James Gibson and it’s so sad. Society is so messed up I don’t understand why many men do everything like a boyfriend but have such a hard time giving women the title of a girlfriend. What’s the big deal of being someone boyfriend if you are playing that role anyway. Why waste someone’s time if you are not serious.

@antwainbrown4602

Жыл бұрын

Nope he told her what it was from the start she is the one who doesn't get it and isn't listening

i like this young woman a lot. she is very chill and very real.

He keeping it a Bean! Good bad or indifferent! You have to listen not just hear! God bless yall! 💜🦄

They both knew what it was from the very beginning so I won't say that he is wrong for anything nor is he stringing her on. She needs to move on. He really doesn't owe her an apology, just my opinion!

Idk about this 1 y’all…seem to me he just told her what they “her and karmo” wanted to hear because he was put on the spot. And probably help spare her feelings in public. This man do not want you hunniie. He hesitated to many times when asked does he want a relationship with you. The fact that he took a break from you, entertained the thought of another women being his girlfriend, and didn’t not want to unlock his phone should show you what you needed to know about y’all status. Ijs 🤷🏽‍♀️

This is an example of how you tell somebody you don't want them without telling them that you don't want them....... Giiiirl he's just not that into You!!!

Never let a man tell u more than once that he doesn't want u...

He has a right to want to date someone with no kids if he wants too...and not be made to feel bad about it.

Karamo is so weird for thinking he did the right thing for these people... Someone needs to fire this man

He’s still trash, but it seems like she pushed him to be in a relationship with her. She introduced him to her kids & purposely put him in their lives so she could “change his mind” & it backfired. She needs to be single for a while & so does he.

Never let a man tell you he doesn’t want you more than once. He doesn’t want you. A man who wants you will make every effort to have you

What is wrong with some women ! Stop begging a man to be with you . He being honest HE DOESN'T WANT TO BE WITH A WOMAN WITH KIDS! What part don't you understand !!! He has a right to plan out his life !!! Girl pick up your feelings and move on !!!!!

@antwainbrown4602

Жыл бұрын

Thank you

idk sometimes I feel like karamo doesn't speak in reality . That man made it clear that he didn't want a women with kids and it was also mentioned that he was thinking about making a relationship with someone else, instead of trying to talk that man into giving the relationship a chance, he should've expressed to the girl that the guy made himself clear and if she's not willing to except what he's offering, then to move on, because clearly he doesn't want to offer more. Sometimes certain people and things are not for us, and that's okay

These Prime and Walmart grocery ads every 2 minutes are killin me omfg

I need a follow up on this, cause ain’t no way they still together 😂

Girl you’re begging 😂😂 STAND UP!!! He don’t want youuuu !!

This shows reminds me of a man who told me that his grandma left a "curse" that no man in their family should marry a woman with kids. I was okay with it since, well, curses are curses, even if its a lie (it has a meaning behind it). We decided to be friends and he was a good friend, just like i was a good friend to him. But i ensured that i friend zoned him completely. Days, weeks, months and years later, he realized i take curses seriously too. After trying so much to seduce me with an epic fail, one day he asked me " Dont you like me? Am i not handsome or your type?" I reminded him that i still have kids and how important it was not to break family curse. Well, our 5 years friendship ended because he forgot his grandma left a curse. Anyway, the man already told you he doesn't want to date a woman with kids. Believe him. He doesn't want commitment, he only wants the benefits that comes with your relationship but not commitment. She was only trying to be nice over the show by claiming you as a girlfriend, but he will leave the show the same person girl.

It's reasonable for a man with no kids to want a woman with no kids to build a family with. He seems to be a good guy, and that means he has options. I am unsure how secure Vanessa is going to feel moving forward..