Summary: men actually have real friendships

If he secretly loves you he is not your friend. And your willingness to engage in that fake relationship is worrying. Men are correct to feel uncomfortable or even completely against their girlfriends/wife’s having male friends.

My wife is my best friend and my only true female friend. I am friendly to women and talk with them. But there is a line I absolutely will not cross. I do not text other women. I don't call them on the phone. I don't put myself in situations where I am alone with women. Not because I don't think I can resist temptation, but because it feels like the most respectable way to treat my spouse, especially when she isn't around.

That is the sweetest description of hypergamy i have ever heard...i am gonna tell my girl that i am only going to hang out with women that secretly love me to avoid the toxic males that hate me...that shit is genius 😂😂😂

Imagine thinking that men gravitate towards you because of the topics you can talk about lmaooo

Literally everything she said was about how a male friend can benefit her in some way without her having to give anything to him in return for the friendship

😂 Babe, don’t worry about him, we’ve just friends 😂

This woman has done a great job convincing me that steering clear of women is a very good idea.

no girlie, I'm sorry life had treated you so bad with female friendships but i can assure 100% good female friendships are PURE GOLD

She is on the right track, the difference is a woman of value in a committed relationship doesn't want a bunch of guys who are in love with her around. Not only because of the issues in her relationship but because if she is a woman of value she would care about those men and want them to move on to other people who can fulfill their desire for a relationship in a way that she can't. So women can have male friends and men can have female friends and longs as they are good at making, communicating, and respecting other boundaries.

all shes really saying is a lot of women are terrible friends for both men and women

What she means is:

She just said it, “I’d rather have a male friend who secretly loves me…” enough said. That’s why men are protective, and don’t want our female partner hanging out with these dipshit guys that are in her “friend zone”.

I can 100% understand what she’s saying. However as a woman if you know a man is romantically interested in you and you know that you have no romantic interest in him yet you keep him around for the reason she describes you are 100% pure evil.

What men heard her say...

"Having a friend that secretly loves us"

Petty is the word she is looking for

Women in a relationship who also have male friends are keeping security reserves and esteem validations through those other men.

Men,if you love yourself,dont take this advice.

She just totally, unintentionally revealed the typical intention of infidelity running rampant in women of today. 😂