I listened and I did it. I walked away. And I feel incredible. Never putting up with shit from any man ever again

@kimberlymay9497

7 ай бұрын

That’s exactly where I’m at. Gone at the first red flag! Not tolerating nothing!

@beautyskin8696

7 ай бұрын

@@kimberlymay9497 1000% agree. We teach people how to treat us. It’s time we got treated like queens 👸

@kimberlymay9497

7 ай бұрын

@@beautyskin8696 yessss! They gotta come grown and mature! I’ll stay single before I be unhappy again that mess is for the birds! Hang in there🫶🏽

@jeanettemena1286

6 ай бұрын

Amazing! Wish I was strong enough 😅

@beautyskin8696

6 ай бұрын

@@jeanettemena1286 you are strong enough I promise you. Just take it one day at a time because the longer you stay the worse he will treat you. Your a queen 👸

The reason why he’s gone and back is because he is leading on multiple people, and so he can only give you so much time between the people he’s juggling.

@soleilantillean30

6 ай бұрын

Best answer 💯, That is facts❗️❗️❗️

@mysteriesuntold3393

6 ай бұрын

Yes yes yes you got it rite mama👌👏👍😉

@Poodle_Gun

5 ай бұрын

Beautiful men have harems. Beautiful women are overlooked because people assume they're vain. 😂😂 If you ever meet an alpha or hot guy, they're doing this.

@christineribone9351

2 ай бұрын

​@@mysteriesuntold3393 Thanks. I always wondered about this beautiful guy I knew.

@Shesdleslie

Ай бұрын

Yup.

Ghosting after talking to you for months is like emotional abuse & u can't be in love with any person who abused u emotionally. You have to protect yourself from that kind of hurt and the only feelings u can hold for a abuser is anger or hate.. not affection for sure

@queen_vic3111

7 ай бұрын

Absolutely! It’s Emotionally Draining. 😔

@scarlett1767

7 ай бұрын

This is great answer, just no hate... Hate sucks a lot if your energy too.. Indifference is what we should aim for with healing

women don't realize it but the first time a guy does something majorly disrespectful.. it is over in his mind.. any scope of relationship with u is over bcoz he knows he has to put efforts for it right now he may be dealing with a ugly and mentally weak woman but u lower ur value by going back he knows he lost u when he decided to do something disrespectful the very first time.. after that its just exploitation of ur feelings

@wilted_rose510

6 ай бұрын

What kinda disrespectful

@jskyler7

5 ай бұрын

She’s the only person in the “relationship.”

Treating people so poorly has to end up in some kind of karma.

15:25 accept that he doesnt like you (and probably doesnt even like himself) 17:25 walk away, he doesnt respect you. dont care about people who dont like you.

@melpita92

25 күн бұрын

😮👏👌

He doesn’t give you a reason why it’s over is because he wants to leave that door open!

It was the hardest thing I ever had to do but it was the best thing I needed to do.❤

@CrystalClear9

7 ай бұрын

I’m pulling Thur now🤲🏾❤️‍🩹💐

@kekedoyouloveme6201

6 ай бұрын

Don’t go weary of doing good, If walking away is for your good!

@jeanettemena1286

6 ай бұрын

✊🏽

Yes 💯 that MF dont like me, in fact I don't doubt he hate my ass! Walking away is the best choice, in fact I moved out of state with mountains between us. Im tired of feeling stuck in limbo. Its not our fault for their inadequacy. Thank you Father Alex this is the year of healing ❤

@xoxobutterfly

6 ай бұрын

I wish I could walk away he is my coworker 😩

@xan8185

3 ай бұрын

@@xoxobutterflyyou can. Stick to professional only.

I walked away! I listened!

@questiona7

4 ай бұрын

Me too

I always remember Bill Bur's advice 'before you text them rub one off', I'm a woman and people it works, it kills that itch and urge to text or reply to someone 😂

@karagraham9764

7 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🔥

@stayce751

7 ай бұрын

Lmfao😂😂😂

@sunshineshower809

7 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@jessy4464

7 ай бұрын

Yo 😂

@vanessac1965

7 ай бұрын

That's actually really good advice!

I love it when Father Alex becomes serious and starts threatening us with the stick....

@lh6784

7 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@candicerochard3200

6 ай бұрын

😂😂

I’ve been meditating almost daily for the last 6 months. Some of us listen :)

@nmania3

7 ай бұрын

Do you notice or feel a difference,

@AD-hh6dd

7 ай бұрын

My depression is not cured but I have more of a handle over my emotions. My anxiety has also decreased. I’m also on antidepressants though so keep that in mind.

@Thisismeofcourse

7 ай бұрын

@@AD-hh6dd that's wonderful! which particular meditation method do you use?

@AD-hh6dd

7 ай бұрын

I do a variety. Some I learned from Alex’s meditation course and others I’ve learned from other books. I like Alex’s “what’s next” technique and also noticing the way emotional pain feels and reducing it to just a physical sensation. I also use Insight Timer and look up various meditations depending on what topic I want. I do gratitude meditations, loving kindness, body scan, and visualizations (I love guided imagery). Others too but those are my most common ones. Sometimes just breathing. Longer out breaths than in breaths affect the vagus nerve and calm down anxiety. I’m also in grad school for Psychology and have learned about meditation there too.

It’s ok if he doesn’t like you, we don’t like every one either, so just go find your self someone who adores you and be happy again.

There's worse than this. There are narcissists that ghost you , then try to come back, claiming you were right, or whatever other BS story might work. They try to come back for a year, behaving like nothing happened. They litterally get off of playing games, and seeing how many times you're going to give them a chance. And they don't care if this way slowly but surelY they destroy your life.

@_ladiosanegra

7 ай бұрын

You should never take anyone back who could be away from you for a year hes not a narcissist you might just be desperate. Bc you shouldn't even be single after a whole year😂😊

@Nono38-jj1tk

7 ай бұрын

​@@_ladiosanegraWho said she was single for a year? She could have dated a dozen people in that time. You sound like a narcissist.

@MsMorenaTv

7 ай бұрын

@@_ladiosanegrayou misread her comment, she said they come back acting like nothing happened FOR A YEAR not they leave for a year then pop back up…

@melpita92

25 күн бұрын

👌👌💯💯💯

"Say you're rolling around the street"😂😂😂😂

I love your advice and responses to questions. If there is no contact on his part, he doesn't give a damn about you. Let it go. I worked as a paralegal for 49 years. We worked so hard for a lady and her children, getting a restraining order and hiding her. Damn I'd she didn't call the guy as soon as Court was closed from her safe house and he beat her badly and took the kids. It was really hard for everyone to undo what she did. When we say, no contact, there is a darn good reason. Thank you for helping so many ladies.

I bet it’s hard to work with clients who are not taking the advice. Personally, I don’t have money to waste. I got ghosted recently and after hours of your content and purchasing the Nice Girl Course that guy got the same energy he gave me and will never hear from me again.

Walking away is EVERYTHING

Watching story and not talking on personal chat means that person doesn't want to commit to you. It's not that complicated

Let’s normalize texing back fast. You are not needy, you have a need for connection and that is perfectly natural.

@COSMICCFREQUENCY144

4 ай бұрын

Umm no

@chatcs137

4 ай бұрын

Nope. Fast reply = priority. Secure woman doesn’t make a man her #1 priority

@SirenSpectator

29 күн бұрын

​@@chatcs137 Yes, and the same time, secure women don't have time for games but rather engage in mature conversations.

@user-yl4rh8vn8c

9 күн бұрын

@@COSMICCFREQUENCY144Grow up.

@user-yl4rh8vn8c

9 күн бұрын

@@chatcs137It shows mental illness to purposely time your texts.

Use the block button, it's there for a reason!

I told this fool, "alright you wanna act like a ghost, imma treat youl like one" 👻 you're dead to me!!!

@FC-ku4ez

7 ай бұрын

😅😂❤

If A men Don’t like you Just walk away & Delete his Number

@nameless7550

6 ай бұрын

Exactly

You are so real, I agree completely with your advice. This dude doesn’t like her and is being passive aggressive and looking for another opportunity to disrespect her.

The wheelchair story 😂😂😂 I can’t with you!

@ksref

7 ай бұрын

Rolling around the streets😂

@xoxobutterfly

6 ай бұрын

😂 made me laugh

@jennifers1489

Ай бұрын

Lmaooo he’s wild for this! But I get it, they should put that info on their profile 🤦🏽‍♀️

@user-yl4rh8vn8c

9 күн бұрын

It’s not that funny.

Thank you so much for the anger expressed over a person who stops contacting you but remains in your stories and continues to follow you. That is exactly how I feel and it hurts me so much

I laughed so much 😂 These are getting better and better 😂😂😂😂😂

Yes. Walking away is the only option to be safe.

This video was pure gold. Thank you

Alex is is truly dropping so many gems lately, and always has. So thankful for Father Alex dropping these gems, always protecting us women. God bless you! 🙏🏾❤️

Besides all the valuable info you provide, your sense of humor is genuinely very funny ❤

lol yes your right just walk away, just walk away. There are times I wish I would have read in between the lines that he didn’t care, I should have just walked away. But hey we all learn…

I love you, Padre Alex. You’re hysterical. This is some of your best work.

Dude you are so amazing!! Nobody has ever been able to explain " feel your emotions " it completely makes sense now! Actually feel it in your physical body and observe each sensation. 😮❤❤ im really glad you popped up on my for you page.

Always the best advice.

Father Alex is preaching and I will be taking notes

Don’t work on narcs. I promise you they’ll just find new supply

@basicinfo2022

7 ай бұрын

why would you want a narc? they want to destroy you and are your enemy.

@pazyamor1313

6 ай бұрын

It does trust me 😅, yes they'll get new supply but that good one they never forget! When you walk away they hoover for years!😅😂

@LOASUBS

5 ай бұрын

@@pazyamor1313 When a narc hoovers, it’s to gain access to your supply again, aka whatever they benefited from in the relationship. Hovering is considered an insult. No matter how great you think you were, narcs don’t think that way bc they don’t feel remorse

@melpita92

25 күн бұрын

😮💯💯

Las cosas como son, existen psicópatas y narcisistas que maltratan a la gente con toda la intención del mundo, no son personas normales, no se puede generalizar y es necesario que se hablen así las cosas: NO LE GUSTAS O TE ESTÁ MANIPULANDO, CUALQUIERA DE LAS 2 NO TE CONVIENEN

Love hearing chopin in the background. Thanks for all the great advice.

When you're disrespected, why are you going back for more? Enough of the crumbs and "out of town" as if?! Self esteem cures all this BS. Raise it and you'll never get stuck with these clowns. I've done it too when I was younger. No mas.

Lol Do not close your channel your info is invaluable! And I have levelled myself up so much on the back of it! Recently ghosted by a man I am paying close attention to your words and he has been met with frosty responses and no responses since trying to initiate contact with me again. Still watching my IG stories like his life depends on it. He has gone to the back of the queue lol in terms of what I will allow in my life. 🎉

Orange color suits you so good 😊

I just hate the fact that it seemed promising at first, the texting felt genuine, how can people just fake that for months? I keep learning the same lesson which is never give too much time

I adore his bed hair!! So cute!! 😍

Loving the music D ❤

I feel so bad but you had me screaming laughing about the wheel chair incident!

@paolanamuncura8879

7 ай бұрын

Are You serious??? You laughing at a handy cap? You are trippin

@louisetaylor6952

6 ай бұрын

If you think that is funny, you are a sociopath...that means you cannot empathize with someone else

@ash00001

4 ай бұрын

@@louisetaylor6952crazy thing is most females are like this

You're a blessing Alex ❤

Your outfit colored on your skin tone 🤩😻

😂😂😂 I love it!!! You break it down soooo raw🫶 You're amazing!!! God bless you

WTF Alex! You ghosted a person in a wheelchair? I will forgive you because you’re hilarious and give wonderful advice 😅❤

@TransactionalAccountant

7 ай бұрын

Wtf Father Alex I'm strolling through your comments as your video starts. And I run into this comment LOL 😂 FATHER at least you prayed for the girl. I love you so much Alex 💋

@latufakaosi8917

7 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@jelizabethpetrie6656

7 ай бұрын

As someone that experienced using a wheelchair for months. I feel you were unfairly set up. She needed to be upfront. Not making you feel guilty/nor need to be extra observant->looking for Easter eggs she laid out but failed to mention, and then you feel guilt. She first needs to meditate on her situation, come to terms her life and realize she will meet someone suited for her if she is open and honest from the get go. Not in an almost bait and switch manner.

@SpaQueenRocks

5 ай бұрын

Personality isn't always enough to overlook physical limitations or disabilities, especially when someone hasn't had the time to develop a deeper connection yet. She brought this on herself, by already failing to be transparent. It's a giant red flag.

Just found your channel, you are so wise and funny. You remains me of my son ❤ same vibe ❤ blessings

it is real Alex!! when you love someone you do all sorts!!!

Thanks!

This isn’t an idea that should give people hope. Like, walking away won’t change their minds, they won’t have a change of heart. If it’s for you and your well being that’s one thing, but people who don’t care DONT CARE.

This man 😂😂 bless you, keep up the great content fr

Good mindset to remember: if I’m not of interest to you, why are you looking at my stories (or calling/texting/commenting). I’m going to adopt it bc it’s empowering.

Love this.

This channel is hilarious. Thank you.

Loving the thumbnail

Pls dnt close the channel !! Lol we love you!!

Writing down and being conscious of the way your body feels during emotions is very Buddhist, and a major aspect of therevada meditation. When you become aware of the physical side effects of feelings, they tend to disappear.

Love your thumb! 💯😍

Thank you Alexis you’re definitely the best coach out there. I’m just tired being stuck in this limbo if he really wants to be with me or not (knowing this guy is actually engaged now, will you believe this) and he still wanted to see me. I know my answers im just emotionally dumb with everything I’ve let it pass because I thought I was doing myself a favor to have some fun but now it’s causing me to emotional stress coz he doesn’t respect my time and is not consistent. Why can’t people just be honest. I hate it.

@danilaroche1156

7 ай бұрын

He sounds quite grimy. Why can't people be honest or forthcoming? Because they serve Satan, unawares.

@Frugal637

6 ай бұрын

He is engaged so that is your answer

@danilaroche1156

6 ай бұрын

​@@Frugal637That's her answer but she can't let go because of sexual soul ties. The Bible talks about this. Sex is extremely powerful and can ruin your life if not handled properly. Kind of like fire.

@jskyler7

5 ай бұрын

You are emotionally dumb.

Thank youuuuuu❤

Rolling around the streets. OMFG!!!!🤣💀💀

Awesome comments so helpfull

He said I'll delete my channel and I'll blame you🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

The pen and paper omg I’ve been wanting to write lately.,😮😊

Father Alex in the building 🙌

Where's Waldo? I admire your raw honesty, I think I would too be that way about a person in a wheelchair, It seems superficial, but it's real! Walking away is the shortest route to find out if they really like you. If they don't then you know and no longer waste your precious time!

That orange color looks great on you

Omg how did I get here😂 my stomach hurts and I laid my phone down and this man's voice just starting speaking 😂

Alex you make me laugh so much with the palo santo and alll😂😂😂😂

I prayed for her. Omg Father Alex……may God show mercy on your soul😂😂

@denisselee6544

7 ай бұрын

😂😂

“Omg Father Alex is frozen!” “I’m not frozen”. You’re hilarious!!!

You looking to the camera with your blank expressions crack me up

@user-go6vt5ew7z

7 ай бұрын

btw 20:52 I need that in a gif 🤣

Lol you're so funny😂. I like the way you sermon😅

I love the reactions 😂😂😂

You actually want to say to "feel" the emotion, by connect to it, instead of "thinking" about the emotion and labeling it.

"Rolling around the streets" "secretary from Devil Wears Prada" oh Alex, we love you lol

I like the thumbnail photo father Alex🔥

I love the video)))) LMAO)) Father Alex is frozen))) Thank you, Alex)))

I dif tooo🎉🎉🎉 and feel empowered with it

I can’t with you! (Rolling in the streets) Hey at least you’re keeping it real with us!! 😂

The long pause 😂😂😂😂

I’d watch YOUR CONTENT over matthew hussey anyday !

@FC-ku4ez

7 ай бұрын

Yes! Hussey always encourages women to keep trying to contact ghosts again and again, i.e., begging for more attention and abuse.

Rolling around these streets you too much 😂😂

Im getting guru vibes. Please do it in a full lotus position❤

Your so beautiful Alex..as in truly a beautiful soul

I Love ghosting and blocking people.

This is too funny 😂

SHINEY LIL WHEEL!!Bahahahaa! you said it yourself CURSED MY G

this was hilarious 😂😂

@FC-ku4ez

7 ай бұрын

The music 😂

Yes, they don’t care if you text or not. If you only think of me when I initiate, why even text. Just move on block and delete for men and women both.

Love you Father ALEX YOUR ,#1

😂😂😂 he calls himself father Allen 😅😅😅😅 I can't... lord, I live it ❤❤❤❤

I respect the fact that you have a conscience & no God is not going to smite you. She should have told you she was in a wheelchair. God DOES have a divine plan for you, Dalexis and it's glorious .

3:00 aww, you could've treated her to a nice dinner. She probably just wanted a friend.

@MindfulAttraction2.0

7 ай бұрын

Yea I felt horrible

Thank you Alex. It’ll be hard. But we will do it