Why setting boundaries makes you attractive (life changing)

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When it comes to boundaries, most people know what external boundaries are however, internal boundaries are even more powerful and make it to where you don't even need to set external boundaries with other people. When you learn the power of energetic boundaries, you will find yourself in your own frame of reality influencing people and situations in a much more powerful way. Join the High Vibe Tribe: aarondoughty.com/highvibetribe
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  • @AaronDoughty44
    @AaronDoughty44Ай бұрын

    Hey! have you joined the High Vibe Tribe yet? its my new free community! I go live and do free workshops and meditations in there, join here! aarondoughty.com/highvibetribe

  • @lizielita

    @lizielita

    Ай бұрын

    Please read my comment below

  • @AlexMoraru25
    @AlexMoraru25Ай бұрын

    You have to prove yourself as worthy of the abundance by adopting it mentally, before experiencing it physically

  • @Zenaida112
    @Zenaida112Ай бұрын

    The most important thing is your dignity. Don't let anyone make you feel bad for not agreeing to do something you don't want to do. You have every right in the world to set boundaries and defend your own space. Anyone who is unable to accept it does not deserve to be in your life.🖤

  • @giancarlomariagentile

    @giancarlomariagentile

    Ай бұрын

    Wise words

  • @magueysunset
    @magueysunsetАй бұрын

    I used to feel incredibly guilty for setting boundaries, like I was doing something to hurt the other person. This was my nice person syndrome. But as I started to set them more and more, slowly, then my confidence became a lot better. That book called 30 Days to Overcome Guilt by Harper Daniels also helped, and the Tao Te Ching. Everyone is self centered, so it's important to set boundaries, it's ok.

  • @ZhiyingHarp
    @ZhiyingHarpАй бұрын

    ooh this may explain why when i consciously told myself, that i'm not responsible for my parents' pain, nor their life, the relationship dynamic changed.

  • @FuchsiaFire444
    @FuchsiaFire444Ай бұрын

    Attractive is internal first. You cant perceive what you arent the vibration of. Knowing who you really are, beautiful wise talented powerful in the energies of love and light which carries beneficial and exciting information, you flow with high frequencies and become a boundary which unwanted can't cross. Knowing who you really are frees you from all programming. Embody what you affirm. Feel it. Become it. New person new world.

  • @wynterwillow3153

    @wynterwillow3153

    Ай бұрын

    Well said❤

  • @FuchsiaFire444

    @FuchsiaFire444

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@wynterwillow3153❤

  • @adriananeri3288
    @adriananeri3288Ай бұрын

    The reality is that I don't give a penny for people who respect me but not the others. I don't want this kind of person in my life. There's plenty of people like this in the world, but I like good and loving hearts.

  • @SwallowedByTheThicket
    @SwallowedByTheThicketАй бұрын

    “Pop spiritual” or not…this is such helpful content ❤

  • @PeachyKins
    @PeachyKinsАй бұрын

    External boundaries are like a signal to "Energy Vampires" 🙏👁✨ This video is insanely true & brilliantly describes *you don't need external boundaries, when you operate the way this concept is presented by Aaron Doughty.*

  • @PeachyKins

    @PeachyKins

    Ай бұрын

    20:52 ❤

  • @PeachyKins

    @PeachyKins

    Ай бұрын

    23:30 ❤

  • @PeachyKins

    @PeachyKins

    Ай бұрын

  • @GoingSane
    @GoingSaneАй бұрын

    I always struggle with what boundaries are reasonable to set and what ones aren’t. Doing it internally by working out your personal vibe makes a lot more sense.

  • @laurabahena1175
    @laurabahena1175Ай бұрын

    I am doing this. Only picking the people on my life I want

  • @alisonfriedman5288
    @alisonfriedman5288Ай бұрын

    This was beyond helpful as always! My internal boundary is letting go of everybody else’s anxiety. It’s not mine, yet I’ve been carrying it for so many friends, family members, a few acquaintances, and even my therapist (who I just ditched for being insanely unhelpful). I adopted this mentally and suddenly opportunities started coming my way!

  • @taniluna3469
    @taniluna3469Ай бұрын

    When I started to set boundaries with a guy I started dating who I really liked, he started little by little to walk away from me. I’m so glad he did, he was not in tune with my energy so I’m grateful that I didn’t let another narcissist into my life again, he sometimes said little things about me to about me as in criticizing my actions and way of being and felt like he wanted me to feel ashamed of myself so I’m definitely grateful that I’m not seeing him anymore. Since I started watching your videos literally every single day I feel my energy shifting little by little and I started to attract people who have similar energy. I’ve got two exciting job offers in less than 3 weeks which I thought was amazing. Energy is magnetic, I started to believe 💖 Thank you Aaron, honestly you are a gift 🎁

  • @ael6707
    @ael6707Ай бұрын

    Funny before I saw the title I thought he looks so handsome :)

  • @sarahckuhnen2412

    @sarahckuhnen2412

    Ай бұрын

    That’s cos he is lol

  • @sayisfying26

    @sayisfying26

    Ай бұрын

    It's because he sets boundaries

  • @2024olivia
    @2024oliviaАй бұрын

    This is such valuable info. I love learning about how energy works ❤

  • @JeremyBec
    @JeremyBecАй бұрын

    Totally unrelated to this video topic, but I just wanted to share that I deeply respect you for staying true to yourself. A lot of content creators based in spirituality tend to change and let success get to their head. They trade their integrity for views and forsake who they are. You've grown so much as a person and yet you remain humble, charismatic and give relevant advice instead of merely repeating what you've read or watch somewhere else. I sincerely hope you'll keep growing ! Thank you for being you :)

  • @snakedagr2377
    @snakedagr2377Ай бұрын

    Once I understood boundaries I became even more powerful!!!

  • @brightlinebetty1258
    @brightlinebetty1258Ай бұрын

    Not my circus, not my monkeys ❤😄

  • @angelinaesposito3058
    @angelinaesposito3058Ай бұрын

    I wish you were my son. You are a very intelligent & kind young man. Thankyou for Everything You do for people All over the World 🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅⚔👼👑

  • @baldwinhillsspacemen8229
    @baldwinhillsspacemen8229Ай бұрын

    This video really resonated with me, everything in it was so obvious yet so profound. Ever since I came upon your videos I've gotten a good genuine feeling from you and the quality and value of your content but when you dropped the Mac Dre reference in this one I realized this this dude really is my tribe lol. Keep on doing what you do because it truly does have a positive effect on peoples lives. 🙏

  • @user-hq7ju4xd1m
    @user-hq7ju4xd1mАй бұрын

    Firssssstttt I hope you have the best life ever Aaron

  • @Yellow-oc4sl
    @Yellow-oc4slАй бұрын

    Having health boundaries for yourself is healthy and it takes time to get it together while you heal from tocic behaviors

  • @EcomCarl
    @EcomCarlАй бұрын

    Intriguing perspective on the power of internal boundaries! 🌟 Strengthening our energetic boundaries not only enhances personal resilience but also transforms how we interact with the world, influencing our external experiences profoundly.

  • @petrovskyaj
    @petrovskyajАй бұрын

    I am so thankful for finding videos like yours. They help me so much when I feel like I am stuck in old patterns.

  • @badichigo
    @badichigoАй бұрын

    Wow! You really posted this at the exact moment I needed to hear it! Thank you!

  • @veronicamahonv745
    @veronicamahonv745Ай бұрын

    Thank you Aaron 💜🙌🏻💫✨️

  • @noorhina9899
    @noorhina9899Ай бұрын

    Much needed😇Thnx Mr happy Soul💓

  • @gagga77
    @gagga77Ай бұрын

    Ok... I watched this, and I am thinking how complex and complete is everything on this channel and from you, Aaron... My God... From dealing with inner child, through relationships, traumas, core beliefs, personal frame and dealing with inner feelings, inner energy to the human soul... You literally speak about everything... And... That situation in your life with your step mom woke you spiritually and you woke me through your videos and lot of people. Thanks man, this channel is treasure.

  • @lakritzz2397
    @lakritzz2397Ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for your work!!!

  • @smokingcrab2290
    @smokingcrab2290Ай бұрын

    Dude i was walking around yesterday doing my job (retail vendor) visiting all kinds of stores. And I was keeping my perspective and consciousness elevated and as high as I possibly could. And everyone around me was just miserable. All the employees, all the customers, everyone. Just nothing positive there. Everyone's vibe was so low and I felt it. I could see nothing but a ton of people who hate their loves and aren't living their purpose. And it made me think of how I need to start living mine. But I don't know how.

  • @michellehayer7616
    @michellehayer7616Ай бұрын

    Thank you Aaron ❤

  • @DumbowiddaDream
    @DumbowiddaDreamАй бұрын

    Yes 🙏🏽💚✨ No need to fear or struggle with putting up real boundaries as your assured and lovingly detached presence will naturally do that. Thank you this is what I need to practice. This is similar with dealing with familiar spirits

  • @dysaffiliate
    @dysaffiliateАй бұрын

    Yes. The inner wellspring can be self-sustaining, and if it is or is becoming self-sustaining, it is also rather infinite in its quality. To be dependent upon the validation of others is distinct from respecting another's validation of oneself and one's living; to be dependent on the validation of others is also, and this is very true, capable of guiding behavior without one being aware of it. The wellspring is extrinsic, catapulted into outer space where it can be caught and manipulated (for better or worse) by others on a whim. So basically, yes :)

  • @jeveuxetrelibre
    @jeveuxetrelibreАй бұрын

    You are changing my life. Thank you Aaron ❤

  • @mindtomuscle9983
    @mindtomuscle9983Ай бұрын

    I am always attracting the narcissist (female) in an authoriative position from me all the time. Now she is my boss whom is under investigation from 30 prior employees for being toxic to work for. I have chosen to NOT see her in this light and she does not behave in a dominate way with me...but it has taken alot of meditation and energetic boundaries up before I head into work

  • @susiedalon8263
    @susiedalon8263Ай бұрын

    Aaron l can't express enough how much l appreciate you and your teachings on this subject!! You have helped me more than l can express! Sending oceans of love and gratitude ❣❣❤❤❤❤

  • @askfirestarter
    @askfirestarterАй бұрын

    Thank you for this! Hope you are having a great day - this is am amazing topic 💯💯💯💯

  • @tatinson8712
    @tatinson8712Ай бұрын

    This video is Essential, thank you from the bottom of my heart Aaron . With gratitude, Tati

  • @Sagittarius_1978
    @Sagittarius_1978Ай бұрын

    Thanks again Aaron for your time making these videos! hope your doing well!

  • @Sagittarius_1978
    @Sagittarius_1978Ай бұрын

    Totally blessed to have seen with my own eyes all the planatary movements & beauty in the sky to pass time away from all the noise.this past year has been a trip.

  • @kmenikdiwela
    @kmenikdiwelaАй бұрын

    Thank you Aaron ..❤

  • @Mindfuljourneywithme111
    @Mindfuljourneywithme111Ай бұрын

    Really enjoyed this one, thanks Aaron

  • @AprilVanderHeyden
    @AprilVanderHeydenАй бұрын

    So fantastic Aaron!! This is exactly what I've been practicing. ❤❤

  • @isabellatufaro9234
    @isabellatufaro9234Ай бұрын

    I would like to thank you 🙏 because you're helping me more than my therapist! You're great! 🤗

  • @drouhoogossske
    @drouhoogossskeАй бұрын

    Watching it for the 4th time, guessing it's the video I need now, the most. Since I discovered your channel your are in my "INNER PEACE" case in favorites bar

  • @nikolasovilj6169
    @nikolasovilj6169Ай бұрын

    thanks for all of those videos

  • @mayhtoo3576
    @mayhtoo3576Ай бұрын

    Very interesting to view this self vs others,Super talk A4,!!💜🌹👍🎈🎈🎈🎈🌄

  • @kendra1122
    @kendra1122Ай бұрын

    Amazing video!!! Great teaching! Makes it harder as a parent and having these boundaries but yet parenting.. it’s a dynamic where you are involved in their feelings and their choices. But yet still need boundaries Thanks Aaron🤩✨✨✨✨

  • @annab3062
    @annab3062Ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for this wisdom

  • @Strongernurse
    @StrongernurseАй бұрын

    Wow. You’re freeing!!!

  • @andrelopez4134
    @andrelopez4134Ай бұрын

    This is value !

  • @christinehart8018
    @christinehart8018Ай бұрын

    You speak to me No one else does Thank you I ♥️U

  • @Iamexposingtruth
    @Iamexposingtruth28 күн бұрын

    This is helping me refine myself. ❤

  • @KristinKStar
    @KristinKStarАй бұрын

    I was the first to like❤❤❤❤

  • @ifty369
    @ifty369Ай бұрын

    Great video brother!!

  • @judymahudy
    @judymahudyАй бұрын

    Top G of Energy

  • @indominion
    @indominion14 күн бұрын

    Man this is some deep psychology. You are bright my friend 💪

  • @HazelGuestOfficial888
    @HazelGuestOfficial888Ай бұрын

    Most powerful video of all! Thank you! This is my favourite ❤️ Most helpful video of all time so far. This is WHAT I need to embody and this is what I need to practice doing. This will be my next breakthrough. Thank you so much 🦢

  • @kirstendrews8619
    @kirstendrews8619Ай бұрын

    Thank you for this great explanation of setting boundaries! Didn't hear this before so clear and real! Greetings from Germany 😊

  • @alyzachangco
    @alyzachangcoАй бұрын

    Thank you for this 🤍

  • @tresaS58
    @tresaS58Ай бұрын

    That's a great perspective tysm

  • @flying_like_a_heroine
    @flying_like_a_heroineАй бұрын

    Brilliant! You nailed it 🎉

  • @practice_Chinese_yoga
    @practice_Chinese_yogaАй бұрын

    Fabulous message!

  • @amyrobinson1749
    @amyrobinson1749Ай бұрын

    Listening to this a third time so it sticks!

  • @LaciJaimes
    @LaciJaimesАй бұрын

    So good!

  • @matthewbisso8852
    @matthewbisso885220 күн бұрын

    I thought this was very interesting. Thank you for posting!

  • @laurabahena1175
    @laurabahena1175Ай бұрын

    Very bueno Aaton! Me love this video! Thanks ! 🙏🎉

  • @ahbyahdmohammed7694
    @ahbyahdmohammed7694Ай бұрын

    The problem with healers and energy givers or motivation givers is that they know exactly who they are and have their egos in check. It's the other person who doesn't understand what is going on. When you constantly give someone praise and energy it gets to their head and they begin to feel like they are in 7th heaven. They get a wrong kinda ego boost. I feel people like us need to learn subtle ways to give an ego death to them everytime they start acting God. All in all. I loved my baby gurl, she brought out the best in me and never felt soo abundantly loved. I witnessed her downfall right in front of my eyes. I lost my self respect and mind in the process. And most important, I lost the love I had for myself. I wish her all the best and the other jealous haters who are giving me the evil eye atm. Everyone deserves to be happy. I deserve to be happy as well without you if it must be

  • @txmvz
    @txmvzАй бұрын

    Totally.

  • @thesabrinarice
    @thesabrinariceАй бұрын

    Loved this!! Soo good.

  • @yourfutureisnow6480
    @yourfutureisnow6480Ай бұрын

    Thank you. Very good 👍🏻

  • @vanessaoliveira9165
    @vanessaoliveira9165Ай бұрын

    Agora eu entendi! Thank you!

  • @laurabahena1175
    @laurabahena1175Ай бұрын

    I like this now! Thanks

  • @marylouholden7275
    @marylouholden7275Ай бұрын

    Great video ✨👏🏻♥️

  • @pattis25
    @pattis25Ай бұрын

    Wie schön wäre es, all die wunderbaren Erklärungen auf deutsch zu hören! Es würde sicherlich viele Menschen interessieren.

  • @dolphet
    @dolphetАй бұрын

    Thanks 🙏

  • @felicialohnes7836
    @felicialohnes7836Ай бұрын

    Aaron, love your lessons😊 That's not my job🥰🙏🕉💃💜💖✨️💖 Resonate and most Def going to share your meditation 😊 In gratitude and harmony💜💜💜

  • @TornadoOfSouls777
    @TornadoOfSouls777Ай бұрын

    I am sorry Please forgive me Thank you I love you ❤

  • @DumbowiddaDream
    @DumbowiddaDreamАй бұрын

    Yes that’s it I have to let go even if I feel guilty it’s been a hard practice that must be continued and resisting need for reassurance from authority figures🙏🏽

  • @bigboyzden
    @bigboyzdenАй бұрын

    I love this, on a deeper spiritual level can you talk about being attracted to a narcissist before birth (like having a mom or dad who is a narcissist ). I hope that makes sense.

  • @wannaspeakbyveroniq
    @wannaspeakbyveroniqАй бұрын

    This is genius

  • @charlenebrown816
    @charlenebrown816Ай бұрын

    To give love to give love

  • @AngelaCasselman
    @AngelaCasselmanАй бұрын

    I’ve been listening to your videos for about an hour and I just make the decision to let go and said that making daily pay with my program is normal and guess what 🎉 I got a payment ❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @papayagirl777
    @papayagirl777Ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @CAPRONRICO
    @CAPRONRICOАй бұрын

    🔥

  • @GoldenPearl58
    @GoldenPearl58Ай бұрын

    Thank you very much Aaron. Can you please also develop some meditations for kids? In order to unlock their inner child’s issues. First developing their self confidence

  • @sarithorsen7177
    @sarithorsen7177Ай бұрын

  • @ReikiMasterCarlie
    @ReikiMasterCarlieАй бұрын

    Thank you Aaron for always addressing many important issues that we often encounter in everyday life. 🙏🏻🌟

  • @theophila214
    @theophila214Ай бұрын

    18:09 - 19:29 - the certainty, holding the vision, confident in your own frame, ... "knowing, feeling, and behaving ... [and] holding the frame"

  • @DistortedIlusion
    @DistortedIlusionАй бұрын

    I already am

  • @marjorieheartshifter4446
    @marjorieheartshifter4446Ай бұрын

    111 👏

  • @Geekprinzessin
    @GeekprinzessinАй бұрын

    Your content is getting better and better… or i am just resonating more with it :) thank you 🌈🩷

  • @flyandshy00
    @flyandshy00Ай бұрын

    Narcissist ghosted me after I didn;t let him to step on my boundaries early on.

  • @seanmiller598
    @seanmiller598Ай бұрын

    Youv'e gotta let go of the ego mind, The wants of. Control, Approval and security. .

  • @DistortedIlusion
    @DistortedIlusionАй бұрын

    God level 8888

  • @tresaS58
    @tresaS58Ай бұрын

    This is way over my head and generally I get it. Ugh 😢😅seriously feeling inadequate to myself 😢😮😂

  • @TinaDougherty

    @TinaDougherty

    Ай бұрын

    It takes some time to begin making sense (for me, nearly a year), but stick with it and you'll likely begin having epiphanies (a ha moments) when you least expect it. Much Love 🙏🏻💕

  • @prabjotkaur4770
    @prabjotkaur4770Ай бұрын

    I love your channel. But the constant commercials are very distracting. Love you Aaron 😊

  • @Tara_Seehofer
    @Tara_SeehoferАй бұрын

    true power lies within.

  • @konstantinapsyrra4292
    @konstantinapsyrra4292Ай бұрын

    What is the background music ?

  • @sandunsudusinghe5799
    @sandunsudusinghe5799Ай бұрын

    Aaron what is the duration for doing mediatation or affirmation and the let go and forget about it

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