I'm serious. Be nicer to you guy friends. Get them flower, buy them tea and listen to them. To all the men in my life: Thank you for everything and for being who you are. Remember, it’s always okay to ask for help. I’m here for you. 💌 Big thanks to Saddam Miya for helping me write this and providing male's perspective on the topic. Hugs to: Aayush Shrestha, Apoorwa Kshitiz Singh, Mayur Goyal and Sajan Shrestha for being always open and honest about your mental health and well being and helping me understand men's mental health issues. Love you all. 🤍

@shirishdhungel5098

22 күн бұрын

I just tried that HomeWork... and the first thing he said was.... xyaa yaar lambu, I am straight🫣🫣

@Sameer-qp2lz

21 күн бұрын

Eaa orra Dhanyabad hjrlai

@OpenBook-journey

21 күн бұрын

❤❤❤

@saileshtandukar6453

20 күн бұрын

❤😢

"We play games and love to avoid that depression "

@medhruba5920

11 күн бұрын

* "We play games alot to avoid the depression"

@Tribalchief69690

11 күн бұрын

@@medhruba5920 never looked the lyrics but vibe is same🙃

Guys please support her we need this type of women in KZread community 😢

It is ok to be weak but not ok to remain weak Remember

@saugat_27

8 күн бұрын

yes

I have not seen this much of positivity in comment section as in her videos. She really will rise high and voice for a lot of people.

So happy you raised this!

yo chai mero prospective bata ho.. kta huru euta certain age paxi aama bata ali tadinu parxa.. they don't get the physical touch wala kind of love (I mean hugs and sleeping laying head on the lap type), kti huru le 30+ huda ni they are allowed to have physical touch wala kind of mom's love. Boys ma praya allowed hunna because of society ko males parti ko norms. (yetro thulo vayera ni aama sanga tasexa yo kta kind of) dad sanga ko relation ta thanai xa.. most of the boys ko relation dad sanga dherai close wala hudaina.. Ani they are so desperate for love, they seek it from girls as a form of romantic relationship. But boys lai girls lai approach garna aaudaina.. approach garera relationship ma base ni they kind of behave insecure and possessive which girls don't like. Because boys have Fear of abandonment. They have feeling of losing only source of love for them. Hamro society is patriarchal. So, ghar ko sab jimmewari kta ko tauko ma hunxa mostly. They have to struggle for money and run their homes without getting love. The work pressure. According to an article in the internet, people are in depression because of these reasons: bullying, harassments, trolling, loneliness, death of a member and stress. Ani according to me, yo sab reasons ma common factor ho, lack of love. Most people will say "Boys should not cry in front of people" wala statement le garda.. I don't think sab ko agadi royera or eklai kotha ma royera mental health improve huni kura; Boys can add more points or their opinion below:

@punjra3878

21 күн бұрын

I so agree with the Lack of love ko kura ani I relate to it so much. I've started to hug my mom a bit more cause I knew I started feeling touch deprived. I've also started feeling lonely cause all of my friends have gone abroad ani the lack of someone you can just hangout with and talk to casually brings more loneliness. It's also kinda hard to make friends when you have no connection to them. Yo trend of going bidesh is also a cause for depression for men jasto lagchha malai The people abroad lai ni tei ho kaam garnu parchha padhnu parchha ajha ali middle/low class ko ghar bata ho vaney ta paisa ghar ni pathaunu parchha, the pressure is insane.

@shivabaruwal1035

21 күн бұрын

I don't hate patriarchal society, I am ready to take on the role but I do agree that the solution is we need someone who loves us, support us. Mainly it's gf, but we are leveled based on our looks, height, being 5'4" myself, As soon as I mention my height, I get blocked, I have to face the reality tho, yo problem height ko ni haina k feri, just lack of someone who loves you just the way you are, As per other things as crying, I don't think we should do that, as I believe it makes us more weak and dependent on others, being soft as a man is not an option, as we have to fulfill responsibilities, let's leave the society norms. I am on struggling phase, and Foreign land maa xu, looking for stable job, I try to keep in touch with boys, so that I don't feel alone, kt lai effort launa ni xodisakey, as I have no hope left, And I don't want to waste my time as I have to focus on my career, Reach out to friends, aba sathi haru sanga love language vanekai xada bolni ho, career updates vanni sodhni, hlkbar sodhni, ani remember when wala conversation is the best. Lack of love is real thing, specially from spouse/gf/wife. Men get lost in their life and all they need is a woman who holds his hands and say you can do it. Mero ta height nai sano xa women standard ko lagi, I don't look good either, but I don't care about it, I am just focusing on my career, land my dream job and save enough, make parents proud and travel for making myself proud.

@Bishal737

21 күн бұрын

​@@shivabaruwal1035All the very very best bro 😊. We are with you 🙏❤️

@lokiodinson9281

21 күн бұрын

okay. so we live in a patriarchal society. but she is your mom, why just stop having affection in any form for that society. I am not saying go hug your mom randomly or lay your head on her lap. But your can still maintain your emotional relation by sharing things with her. talk to her. is it that hard? and if it is then you are the one making it. And for that possesive part, why be overly possesive, your love language is locking her inside four walls and say it is for her protection. But is she really protected? You mentioned that after a time boys lose their form of affection with their mother so its kind of depressing for them. So dont you think over possesiveness affetcs your girl's mental health too. Don't you think that she might want to do something without you intervening and being overly posessive about it. I am not saying you are wrong. You are not actually. The society we live in has made us this. You cannot cry because of this society. And girls feel that they have no value because of the society. So dont feel threatned to cry at least infront of your loved ones. Trust me it makes so many things easier. Hope you understand.

@lokiodinson9281

21 күн бұрын

@@punjra3878 The pressure regarding 'the provider' of the house is real for men. Again because of the patriarchal society. And who makes this pressure? those same people living around who have nothing to do with you but wont stop meddeling in your personal life. you know those unemployed chhimeki antys. So if you can try not to listen to them, do it. you will be happy. and i am so happy to know that you started hugging your mom. so much of your deprivation can get reduced just by doing that. and about making friends, you can find a friend in anything or anyone. If you are feeling depressed, have a pet. The pressure about bidesh, you can try again and again, all while doing something in the country too. create options for your self. I know it is not as easier as a stranger on the internet suggests to be. your life is lived by you and not anyone else. So get inspired by yourself. donot let those miniatures to overcome your confidence. trust yourself and try to have a good life for yourself. never limit your potential to bidesh or any other things that this society apparently tells you. BE HAPPY!!

Being a girl when i see my father,friends,brothers down i could really feel that pain even society has designated an environment where men with feelings are not allowed .This topic really needed to be discussed.

@Sameer-qp2lz

21 күн бұрын

Eaa orra

Valentine’s Day, women’s day or any other event related to women sabai lai yaad hunch’s but unfortunately less people care to remember men’s mental health day. It’s too hard for us men these days Please understand and I’m happy to see this video and looking forward to more! Love from India

Thank you for this. Respect for you. Great content ❤️✨️

Thank you for this. ⭐️✨

Finally someone starts to talk about this topic!!!

Kudos yozana well said... Aile samma nauthya subject ma video banyaeu

You are only girl who is making quality contant in nepal ❤ - love from DHANGADHI

24M open up huna khasai aaudainathiyo malai ani testo rune orne ni garna xodeko thiye sanai dekhi ho vanau ani testo tension haru ta hudainathiyo tesaile testo feelings nai hudainathiyo ani in my 20's mero dd ko bihey vayo ani i cried for the first time and that felt so good and i was pround of it because me crying ment that i was capable of loving someone and i do have feelings. dd ko bihey paxi i started becoming lonely ani crying every 6 months became normal and also having a close girl friend (not girlfriend) helped. ani aarko kura malai mom dad haru sanga open up huna man nalagnu ra kunai kura le ali mental health bigrirako xa vane i talk to them i pour everything from my heart ani khasai aaudaina jasto lagxa esto kura handle garna lai hamro parents harulai ni ani after few days they just act like nothing happened and back to regular drinking or smoking habits. so, tetro roi karai garera samjhaunu ko k aauchitya vayo ta.

@AayushWho

20 күн бұрын

I'm proud of you too dude. 🩵🩵🩵

@user-gw6pq6cm1d

20 күн бұрын

@@AayushWho thanks for the compliment daju💙💙💙

Yes, Didi . Keep the content going on. Loved this video

A quality content..❣️💯

Thankyou for this video. Atleast someone have talk about it.

Finally someone speaking about mens’s mental health. ❤❤

wish your hardwork & dedication payoffs soon 🙏

Interesting analogy about how tall men in Nepal all come from privileged families. Maybe it’s because they grew up eating nutritious foods like avocados and such. Great as always baini. 💯

I'm very short. We don't have a home. I have the weakest brain. But I'm trying something. At the same time I'm very tired. Happy being nepali

This is what I pay my internet bills for.

@YozanaThapaMagar

22 күн бұрын

This and Vicky Kaushal's dance 🕺🕺

@editz4803

21 күн бұрын

Your parents pay ok

@nihsyub1039

21 күн бұрын

@@editz4803😂😂

Thank you!

Made my day. ❤

Yo kura nauthnu ko main reason vaneko nai "mard ko dard nahi hota" vanne sochai ho🤐

@YozanaThapaMagar

22 күн бұрын

We need to end that.

@Sameer-qp2lz

21 күн бұрын

Sabai kta kaha mard hunxa tani sathi😂

@Natsu88246

16 күн бұрын

I always saw inspector chingum saying "mard ko vi dard hota hey" as just a comedic dialogue but maybe he wanted to send us a deeper message all this time lol

I prefer having my feelings concealed. No drama .just peace 🕊️.

Dammi topic.

sundar video

Love it❤

Amazing

Made my evening

Good job yojana❤

dhanna hamro barema bolidinae nih koi raixan. Dhanya xau devi😀🙏

Well, thanks. You need to hear a few things sometimes and this video couldn’t have come out at any more perfect time

You are the perfect example for beauty with brains😍

The man who makes a beast out of himself won't have to suffer the pain of becoming a man- A7X. All we need is copium.

Yup, somebody talked about it, so thank you. I want to say to everyone: "Don't believe everything you read, listen to, or see.'"

Only women, who is concerned about mens mental health that i have ever seen in my life tbh

Keep it up❤

Video ta herina but this shit is fucking true hai I am not proud to say that i am depressed but ya one day life will be easier❤ Dont quit mfs keep hustling

Wow, that's a really moving topic. I was lost in self-reflection for about half an hour. I feel the worst fucking thing in the world is, "'the weight of expectation''. We have seen even the best players getting crushed under pressure very often. You are expected to achieve certain things at a certain age, with no room for failure. Yet, you fail. You give everything you can, no-nonsense but still nothing. You get belittled and branded as a loser. Your efforts are all in vain. Sympathy? Support? Who gives it? Even worse, you are compared with the achievers and proven that you are worthless. When you reach a certain age, you are not surrounded by many or any who get you. The close ones are very far away minding their own battles. You feel empty. What's wrong with giving the world to the ones who gave up the world for you? Nothing? Or, Everything? Clueless, you pick yourself up, try to calm the wildfire inside you, and fight to achieve what you are expected to achieve. I hope and pray that the coming generations are rid of such experiences. We have to make sure of it. I know I will.

How to send this to my friends without sending them

@YozanaThapaMagar

22 күн бұрын

Just send them. You can't do something without doing it. 💖

@bipeshmagrati2587

21 күн бұрын

Ask them to search or just leave a like. Hopefully it will get boosted to reach them

@Sameer-qp2lz

21 күн бұрын

Create fake account and dm them ¯⁠\⁠_⁠༼⁠ᴼ⁠ل͜⁠ᴼ⁠༽⁠_⁠/⁠¯

@nirajansingh8853

21 күн бұрын

Just a guy listening from Karnali province lol😅

@aayushgamernp6901

16 күн бұрын

@@nirajansingh8853 😂😂😂😂

You are such a mood, in love with your contents keep on growing sissss🥹🫶🏻.

Mam, yo why nepali men are depressed bhanu bhandani how a boy becomes a men bhani bugnus; Dhandyabad♥

I found authentic and valuable information in Nepali KZreadber, where's aroundside of cringe and blind date time❤❤❤

Sahi ho

❤

This goes out to all my comedian friends.

@YozanaThapaMagar

22 күн бұрын

🤗🤗

Thaha rahecha j hos

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That is why there are some guys writing a bad comment on a girls video or any videos because of mental health issues even they don’t have to.

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Inspired by binayak kuikel ho??😂 Anyway nice video, keep up the work

Men are tough until they see this

write for girls as well - we will see all kind of comments immidately ! 😊

koi ta xa who talk about kta ko mental health.

Petition to give flower to Aayush❤❤

I am shocked to see women like you also exist in this world.

I wish every girl were like you

Fancy coffee dates vanda ni mental health , career , family , friends etc etc ko kura garney manxey kaha vetinxa aile 🥲

2.30 mnt to 3.05 samma audio ko channel left matra bhako xa !!!!!!!!!!!! nest time dhyan dinu hola

😢

10:28 naah didi, i will be labelled as 'xakka' if i do that☠️

10:04 ma katro sound aako tarsera , abha kta bhayera k tarseko nabhannum , content heriyo , good cha yestai content banaudai gara

👍️👍️👍️

I'm the only man alive in this universe rn

I am depressed because I was busy in ninth grade in 2009 while I should be investing in land. 😂

You didn't mentioned corn and faps. This is the most worst thing to f up your mind if you are male. Also Khali dimag shaitan ko Ghar west start working from 16 while us halline khane at 25 blaming each other.

Shout out to make up artist : Nars ko 2 shade lighter foundation.

All the problem lies in.. men (we) dont express whats in our mind.. we just watch out for whats going on do accordingly act accordingly and that even buries whats there within urself.. ani men lai sterotypical banai skyo social media le .. they should be masculine, well spoken, handling things on their own and blah blah.. so mostly not to look inferioir men bury what they really are!!!😢

I'm your big fan Dii 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

The fact is we Men only got flowers on our funeral......sad life💔

@nihsyub1039

21 күн бұрын

Koi kta lai flower manpareko cha ra? Manparne kura po paucha, manparcha bhane kun fool manparcha bhannu ni ❤

@user-ps1tf4hc5v

21 күн бұрын

@@nihsyub1039 ?????🙄

@kritikakunwar7107

3 күн бұрын

We women wouldn't have gotten as well but we are vocal about it. if ur a guy and want flowers just vocalize it to your partner.

#Kalikdidi

Please try to say everything in English....I don't understand nepali 😢😢

You look beautiful

6:11 Cricket 🤣🤣 Sneaky!

Content chai majja aayo tara male ko issue share gareu vane jhan depression mai gayeenxa hola hau yestai thik xau 😂

This is just because of lack of self awareness.

😢🍷

Reddit lai mainstream nabanau na baini.

Really. I mean hypocrisy of some people is wild. Like when a feamle says that my guy should be this and that and have this and that, then it is their preference.And when a guy says or does the same thing, then he is being unreasonable and judgy??? whyy??

@kingring-qd1nr

21 күн бұрын

Bro men can't have standards like if I say I want a virgin wife they say you are a misogynist. But the same girl shame me for being 5,6.💀

भात खानु भयो sister ?❤

If you do all that you said in 10:30, I am telling you you're gonna get purposed in next 6 months. 😂😂

you are nepali dhurv rathee

r/ nepal ma halna didaina

दिदि अलिक नेपालिमा बाेले हुने

@starlord7526

18 күн бұрын

english sika, no one gonna bend to your will

prepare for a lot of backlash.

Toph besi sewan garna vayena

10:28 nahh didi, i will be labelled GAY if i do that☠️

Didi paisa napayerw hun 20 rupaya dinnu khusi vaihalxan ni navaya Malai afno number dinnu

timi chasma mai ramro dekhthyo!

Depressed I dont know But someone is coming in my life and I'm last son of my parents so I don't have proper income source to give them happy life.mero rahar haru ko kura haina aru ko family desires pura garna saku as son And I'm searching opportunities ❤❤ and I ll do it I can do it❤❤❤ Certain age paxi afno rahar haru jhola bokera jadai gareko dekhda majja ta aaudaina yozana g😂😂😂😂

@PG-mi4pi

21 күн бұрын

If u prioritise ur life and sustain ur life ,u will be able to fulfil others too ! The whole idea : Aba chora ley palcha is wrong and what is ruining nepali society ! First be happy ,because then only ,u can truly spread that same happiness to ur parents ! Timro dimag ma kich kich cha bhaney ,jatti kamaue pani,timley lietrally in the end of life -kei paudaina. I can already feel the guilt in your sentence and how bad i feel.

@OriCruSE

21 күн бұрын

@@PG-mi4pi thank you for your kind word mate🩷❤️

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@YozanaThapaMagar

22 күн бұрын

..

taita yr

Chasma lagau

@YozanaThapaMagar

22 күн бұрын

Spent a lot of money not to 🙈

@yogainyogen9163

21 күн бұрын

ZERO POWER BHAYENI LAGAUNA​@@YozanaThapaMagar

ghanta bajau vhagwan ma biswas gara

boys who think , their fellow guys doesn't support them you are in wrong friendship😂, bro yes we do bully friends and also support them

6:00 the main reason for Rejection from my Crush was my height was small for the girl that i loved very much 🥹 i think i was 5-5 sth and she was liike 5-9 ft at that time in grade 8th 😂😂 now iam 5.8+ i got to know later few years after 8th class why she rejected me that time

it's not okay muji gayerw pushup hann jhat💁