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I will never understand how a narc who KNOWS they did someone wrong can have the audacity to be mad that the person no longer wants anything to do with them. The lack of logic and common sense is so incredibly strange.

@TruthSeeking81

Ай бұрын

That’s because they’re willingly delusional and there’s no one they actually lie to more then themselves

@clintlandrum9498

Ай бұрын

I'm going thru it right now. She even wore a t-shirt reading, "I'm over it." It was directed at me. Her attitude was that she gave me every chance to come to her, talk to her, let her know that we need to be together. But I never did, so she's OVER IT. I gave you a chance to make it right, but now I'm OVER IT! Its truly unreal.

@sandibass5895

Ай бұрын

A NARC CAN'T OWN THEIR OWN BAD BEHAVIOR

@OptimisticMaya

Ай бұрын

💯 I think it goes to their mental instability

@lindaallotey6257

Ай бұрын

I told my ex narc the same thing even with examples but he could not process it because he thinks we are foolish, how did you wake up, why did you all of a sudden go, what did you see, I’ve been abus*ing you the whole time and it made sense , we took it before so they expect it to be forever, we made them pompous so they saw us to be forever stu**pid

They may think they can get you back again...be strong stay away

@RebeccaZungEsq

Ай бұрын

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My soon to-be-ex husband hurt me so badly, I had to go to the ER. The ER doctor prescribed me something. I thought he was sorry when he offered to pick up the script for me, which he did, dropping them off, then took off to his brothers place. The doctor had prescribed 10 pain pills, when I opened them there were only 9. He had STOLEN 1! The mentality of someone who steals the medication needed for the injury THEY caused, is truly incomprehensible. Absolutely reprehensible. No conscience whatsoever. Sick, sick, SICK! Good riddance! I am a poet. I wrote this haiku after the police took him away. Freedom is without You, peace is without you too. Life sings without you. This is true! GET AWAY NOW!

My X left me for a rebound guy after a few years together. She will soon realize after using or dating other men that I was the prize that she will never find again.

@mavjimbo

Ай бұрын

Nicely stated

Once i realised that I never neeeded the narc my healing came on in leaps and bounds. They made me think I needed them,but the truth is they came crashing into my life was happy in my life before they made an appearance. Life couldve been different,but I needed to learn this lesson for a reason

Truly great advice. Spot on. I've left the family and friends of the NPD's I've had the displeasure to meet- behind me. Some of those people were great, but I avoided the expected battle after the break-up. I felt that it would interfere with life goals. My first experience was after years of no contact- an NPD- wrote me a letter, asking me to return. NO WAY. Having already moved forward, with responsibilities, there was no way I would disrupt my life to "spend some time" (and see what might happen with someone? LOL) I had learned not to expect change. I learned as a child not to expect change. I also have experience with the harem concept, and learned that NPD's use previous romances, to inspire others in their harem. That's a game I don't want to be involved with.

50 days ago I left South Georgia I left her behind I have been homeless but I also left my rent was paid because of me all the bills are paid I chose to leave!! I now have a beautiful camper on Smith mountain lake Virginia I miss the good yes but the bad outweigh the good specially toward the!!

@irenamagdalena9604

Ай бұрын

Good luck to you

@Agheel963

Ай бұрын

Stay strong 💪

To them of course, I am dealing with a whole cult of them

@RebeccaZungEsq

Ай бұрын

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Just say No! I’m currently seeking a protective order against my narcissistic. He followed me to another state after I broke up with him for the second time and officially it off!! He will not go away.

JUST SAY NO!

@RebeccaZungEsq

Ай бұрын

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My narcissist family member still attempts to hoover me around pivotal points of the year like even on my own birthday and during the wintertime. It’s really hard when they have no regard for your day, your feelings- or lack thereof because I’ve moved on but apparently I still live rent-free in some people’s heads. The narcissist even ignored letters from my lawyer we sent to get the narc to cease any all contact. The narcissist wrote back to my lawyer after we sent the letters (yes, multiple ones) to cease and desist communication. Said the narc would respect my wishes… also said that, although my intentions were good” aka not taking accountability “I will not attempt to contact-“ but then went back to it after 2020. So the narcissist left me high and dry during a pandemic, but will only reach out to me on my own birthday just to ruin my mood.. they respect NO ONE’s boundaries, they definitely crave control, and they can’t take accountability or make their wrongs right.

@Stardustpal25

Ай бұрын

Sorry youve had this fun ride in life. Good for you for educating yourself and putting it into practice. Boundaries are not understood to narcs. Your birthday is a pivot to contact while appearing upbeat and benevolent! Except, you Know the backstory. Other times of contact, winter? Might have same meaning. It's a trap for you, respond honestly, you r holding up communication. React as they want, oh thanks you're so great to remember me!, makes you sick. So just stay the course Be Yourself, Life is not Disney, and it's not that you didn't want a nice relationship, just that isn't really what they're offering, and! They r using your PERSONAL SPECIAL DAY OR DAYS OR TIME OR PLACE!! Twisted! so, just keep those types out of your life. Love this channel. 🤝

I feel sick to my stomach, can’t shake the feeling , numb, hopeless. He told a family member that he will be there as soon as he gets his guns.

@pico174

Ай бұрын

I was threatened so many times by my ex narc. I don't know how the system works where you are, I could eventually get an order so he couldn't come near me. Don't give up and don't give him the power of you being scared ❤

@Stardustpal25

Ай бұрын

Hope your first thought was to CALL THE POLICE. Then tild yourself, F THIS. 🤬☠️🕳️ You did? Good, now YOU GOT THIS, GE IS TOAST FOR THE SHERIFF. 🤝🇺🇲🫂

I have been diagnosed with complex -post traumatic stress disorder.

@annconforti9294

Ай бұрын

Same!

@Mike_Cosentino

Ай бұрын

I was too after a NDE back in 2018. Broke my back and was having trouble breathing in the ambulance. Then the emt had the gall to laugh because my blood pressure was so high.. making light of my pain and suffering in the immediate aftermath, I will never forget that.. that day scarred for me for life both literally and figuratively. The event has had a long lasting impact on quality of my life, I still suffer from back flare ups and I don’t pass the area in which it happened. I just take things day-by-day. But that day in particular really showed me who my real friends, family, close ones were and who were not.

9:00! A lot of better people! Like you!

@RebeccaZungEsq

Ай бұрын

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Sometimes force is necessary.

Been together from 1998-2024, living together now, he said you can stay here as much as one year with bills paid. Last time he took off it was for two months. I figured he was getting his ducks in a row. I wish I could have hired a PI

Thank you, Rebecca. I think they only want certain things from me .Just like you have said❤❤

Exactly

@RebeccaZungEsq

Ай бұрын

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Thanks!

Rebecca a lot easier said then done.

@RebeccaZungEsq

Ай бұрын

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Thank you very much! ✨🌻🎈☯

Just say No! ☺️💯👍👍👍💪

@RebeccaZungEsq

Ай бұрын

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Great video :) "Just say no"

She, aka my 83 year old abusive mother is going to be so pissed off when I don't contact her for Mother's day... She hung up on me and stopped talking to me once again! just because I decided to tell her she hurt me by something she said. She told me "I don't have time for this" then click...I'm tired of it! I'm 60 and she is so controlling as long as I do her will, serve her and let her hurt me without sticking up for myself all is well... I keep trying and it always ends up the same... I stopped flying out to visit her 5 years ago because every time I'm down there I am her Cinderella... her maid! She works me until the day I leave... I am a people pleaser, not proud of it! and I guess I'm still afraid of her... Her love is conditional! she gives it and takes it away to punish me... I need to let her go... I still love her...

@favianalatorre1836

Ай бұрын

O my I was my mom's Cinderella. I did so much for her. I felt afraid of her and loved her more than anyone. I knew she wasn't treating totally well. I wanted her validation and I never got it. She died. She curse me out in the morning before the ambulance took her to the hospital. After telling her several times in different conversations that I love her. That night she said goodnight last words I heard her voice.

Hi I am watching from papua new guinea 🇵🇬. Thank you for all your information.

why is it they find someone else to be with when they don’t wanna be with you why can’t they love the first person they be with why do they have to play the nice people and be so evil for?

I say no!

You need to cover Micah Miller!!!!

✌️💜🌟☯️💪🔮👊👿🙏 Never again! I've come a long way and I'm aware of the stalking my social media. I've moved on a long time ago and WILL NEVER EVER go back. He's playing the court system just to try and gain access to me again. I've learned so much from you and I thank you for that because you're the first one who helped me on my healing journey. 💪💪💪 #justsayno

These types are strange.

@RebeccaZungEsq

Ай бұрын

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Just Say No !!!

Hi

Just say No

@RebeccaZungEsq

Ай бұрын

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I have a problem. My Narc doesn‘t hoover me for almost one year. What did I do wrong?

@RebeccaZungEsq

Ай бұрын

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@SteuerOhneBerater

Ай бұрын

@@RebeccaZungEsq I was just kidding. I am glad my narc does not hoover me anymore. And your videos were of good help. Thank you.

Just say no

👏👏👏👏👍🥰🙏

@RebeccaZungEsq

Ай бұрын

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Then why has he blocked me 😢😢😢😢

Just say no