What To Do When The Narcissist Turns People Against You

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  • @salauerman7082
    @salauerman7082Ай бұрын

    Act with Dignity, Respect, and Calm… There’s no point in defense or justifying anyway- they don’t care.

  • @nicholasnoble
    @nicholasnobleАй бұрын

    Keeping your cool can be so difficult. Especially when your child suffers.

  • @RebeccaZungEsq

    @RebeccaZungEsq

    Ай бұрын

    You got this! 💪 Join me in my free webinar - www.rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

  • @BigBrownCar

    @BigBrownCar

    Ай бұрын

    My God, yes. Going through this right now.

  • @a.b.2850
    @a.b.2850Ай бұрын

    It’s easy to say to get friends support.. when you end up alone, defamed, and rejected based on lies. I’m alone, but at least I’m safe.

  • @ReRe_642
    @ReRe_642Ай бұрын

    Ignore the nonsense. Keep going and stay focused on you and your new life. Wishing all of us well. We got this.

  • @RebeccaZungEsq

    @RebeccaZungEsq

    Ай бұрын

    Stay strong! 💪 Join me in my free webinar - www.rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

  • @123raven4
    @123raven4Ай бұрын

    Never JADE! JUSTIFY, ARGUE, DEFEND OR EXPLAIN! The more you do that, the more guilty you look! True! That brings you down into the mud!! I'm doing it! I needed to hear this today! Thank you!

  • @RebeccaZungEsq

    @RebeccaZungEsq

    Ай бұрын

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  • @theosilva7188
    @theosilva7188Ай бұрын

    Hi I am from NZ. I have been victim of a narcissist woman wish she was my partner. Thanks for helping so many people, its really hard when people avoiding you. I lost my job my friend my son 😪 but still have my dignity financial disaster. I got support but still hurting 💔 Thanks for helping. 😊

  • @sabianstringer2112

    @sabianstringer2112

    Ай бұрын

    YANA...I am currently still stuck on the USS NARC since 1997 and I need a lifeboat (Titanic reference)...God Bless and Good Journey's...Sabian...You Are Never Alone...

  • @rossanderson5243
    @rossanderson5243Ай бұрын

    Very good Rebecca and the more mature one is as well. Maturity goes with the experience of overcoming obstacles. I did a parenting course and one was to ignore bad behaviour and praise the good for the little ones.

  • @RebeccaZungEsq

    @RebeccaZungEsq

    Ай бұрын

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  • @user-uh1su5jk3g
    @user-uh1su5jk3gАй бұрын

    I have been writing everything down here lately and the biggest is my kids making sure I document thing's with them to ensure their safety and best interests ! I also write down things being said and done by my ex wife

  • @RebeccaZungEsq

    @RebeccaZungEsq

    Ай бұрын

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  • @MarySmith-ih3wy
    @MarySmith-ih3wyАй бұрын

    Let God handle them

  • @sabianstringer2112

    @sabianstringer2112

    Ай бұрын

    Hell Yeah!!! (pardon my French)...

  • @bevhills4877

    @bevhills4877

    Ай бұрын

    Oh plz. God isnt jumping in. Sounds like advice an N would give so they can continue on smearing with zero resistance.

  • @kekea1895

    @kekea1895

    Ай бұрын

    Exactly, that's all you can do because they will never stop.

  • @cdgross5480
    @cdgross5480Ай бұрын

    This is timely. I’m going through this now. Thank you for the reminder.

  • @RebeccaZungEsq

    @RebeccaZungEsq

    Ай бұрын

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  • @ms.finesse8203
    @ms.finesse8203Ай бұрын

    Well put, this are very helpful resources. Ladies, please please 🙏 follow this advice she says “ Document” it’s crucial. You can easily win a hard case by providing this!!! I wish I knew this 20 years back! A not a nice divorce with a narcissistic Military Napoleon complex wanna be! But God held me and I’m still standing but perhaps, with a second possible covert in the closet ! So pray for me!

  • @RebeccaZungEsq

    @RebeccaZungEsq

    Ай бұрын

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  • @michaeleckert5877
    @michaeleckert5877Ай бұрын

    Your wise words echo in my room ❤❤

  • @RebeccaZungEsq

    @RebeccaZungEsq

    Ай бұрын

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  • @russellj.s.257
    @russellj.s.257Ай бұрын

    Who cares? Anybody the narcissist has turned against you never was a friend to begin with,I used to lose sleep over these situations but not anymore.

  • @johannamenczer9455
    @johannamenczer9455Ай бұрын

    I’m doing it !!

  • @RebeccaZungEsq

    @RebeccaZungEsq

    Ай бұрын

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  • @benniecampbell3973
    @benniecampbell3973Ай бұрын

    I’m doing it!!!

  • @neilbuck8416
    @neilbuck8416Ай бұрын

    I cant get support in secret , I cant.

  • @danuwintersong22
    @danuwintersong2213 күн бұрын

    The POS would make sure his friends were around when he would call me on the phone and covertly emotionally abuse me, lie about what he did and say till the point I started yelling at him and then tell me afterwards that everyone was on his side and that they had told him that I was insane.

  • @Horizon25
    @Horizon25Ай бұрын

    Keep moving on and achieve your goals, you can do this

  • @RebeccaZungEsq

    @RebeccaZungEsq

    Ай бұрын

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  • @MrAnarchris
    @MrAnarchrisАй бұрын

    I was attacked like that in my local Alcoholics Annonymous groups. They know isolation is deadly for real Alcoholics. I stopped going but it does really suck.

  • @machtnichtsseimann

    @machtnichtsseimann

    Ай бұрын

    That does suck! Well, character flaws. Getting over alcohol doesn't prove overall maturity. People are complex, mature and maintaining discipline in certain areas of life, not in others. Find another small group, not necessarily only dealing with alcohol?

  • @Stardustpal25

    @Stardustpal25

    Ай бұрын

    You have learned well Grasshopper 🙏🏻

  • @cristalbeddeau3802
    @cristalbeddeau3802Ай бұрын

    Thank you Rebecca🙏🤍

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    @RebeccaZungEsq

    Ай бұрын

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  • @lizcuero9065
    @lizcuero9065Ай бұрын

    I've reached out, I'm doing it.

  • @RebeccaZungEsq

    @RebeccaZungEsq

    Ай бұрын

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  • @candicelondon-hessert8723
    @candicelondon-hessert8723Ай бұрын

    I’m doing it❤

  • @RebeccaZungEsq

    @RebeccaZungEsq

    Ай бұрын

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  • @louisemurray9510
    @louisemurray951016 күн бұрын

    I'm doing it.

  • @AmourofgodShinelight
    @AmourofgodShinelightАй бұрын

    Thank you so much for this Rebecca, You're absolutely beautiful, This was absolutely tremendous, Peace, love and respect to you and everyone, Thank you universe, All glory to the most high God 🌹😊❤😃💚💗💛🕆🕊🦁😘😇♱⚖📚👽🦄🍄💜💙🌌🌈

  • @RebeccaZungEsq

    @RebeccaZungEsq

    Ай бұрын

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  • @AmourofgodShinelight

    @AmourofgodShinelight

    Ай бұрын

    @@RebeccaZungEsq You're very welcome Rebecca, Keep shining light and speaking truth, Keep doing God's grace and work 😃😇🕆🕊🦁🌈🌌❤💛💜💙💗💚😃

  • @belenrodriguezz
    @belenrodriguezzАй бұрын

    I'm doing it

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    @RebeccaZungEsq

    Ай бұрын

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  • @myoung9345
    @myoung9345Ай бұрын

    I’m doing it

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    @RebeccaZungEsq

    Ай бұрын

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  • @whitneysawyer483
    @whitneysawyer483Ай бұрын

    "I'm doing it"

  • @RebeccaZungEsq

    @RebeccaZungEsq

    Ай бұрын

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  • @LiseBarrett
    @LiseBarrettАй бұрын

    We are suffering through our neighbors smear campaign. It is brutal.

  • @zayawayaclassicsonic6201
    @zayawayaclassicsonic6201Ай бұрын

    Also I keep getting KZread blocks as if I’m being inappropriate and then having me agree to be respectful which I am so that’s another indication of someone catfishing as me

  • @user-qq2rd2gp9b
    @user-qq2rd2gp9bАй бұрын

    I am not doing it. This woman is tearing me down little by little. My son is suffering the most through her behaviors. I need help and suggestions

  • @randycoolbaugh1408
    @randycoolbaugh1408Ай бұрын

    Lived with this woman for twelve years now. when I first moved in she asked (told) me to not interact with the neighbors in the little trailer park where she has lived for a long time. I was not to look at or even waive to. Over the years people moved out and new people moved in. I did get to know a few of them whereas I would help them if they needed it. Of course this led to the occasional "hi, how are you" in passing or just a simple wave. Then just like a switch was flipped all the neighbors stopped saying hi to me, stopped waiving in passing. Like the whole park went full on "ghosting" of me. should i inquire some neighbor about it or should i just let a sleeping dog lie?

  • @machtnichtsseimann

    @machtnichtsseimann

    Ай бұрын

    Depends on how important those connections with neighbors are to you. The direct way is worth a shot, i.e. asking a neighbor or two about it, if you did or said anything that offended them...probe a bit. Whether you did or did not do something that could be taken as wrong. You're on a fact-finding mission, if you choose to hear them out. Rumors, gossip, slander going around to tarnish a person's reputation in the community can be so VERY wrong, but...if someone took something you did as off or un-neighborly, whether you meant it in a bad or selfish way or not, then it's at least something to talk through and explain from your side of things. IF they are willing to do so. If they are the types to play Judge/Jury without getting your take, then is it worth it to you to connect any more with these people? If they ghost you so cheaply, then do the same and maintain your self and power.

  • @Stardustpal25

    @Stardustpal25

    Ай бұрын

    Great answer. That one guy against whole trailer park? Move 🤝🇺🇲

  • @theofficialnikkisnews

    @theofficialnikkisnews

    Ай бұрын

    It sounds like you are the victim of a smear campaign. You may want to cut your loses and seek a healthier relationship.

  • @kre8504

    @kre8504

    Ай бұрын

    I agree!! I too was caught up in an unknown smear campaign: I realized some things were being spoken behind my back, when I cut into a conversation that went silent. Later, I put the puzzle together after leaving Mr.x while he was out trucking. He turned the small town against me & I had wondered why so many people didn’t seem to want to get to know me. They didn’t even know me for the real me, & they cared not to bother to get to know the real me, for they were turned against me from the Beggining. Mr.x didn’t want me to have friends, I could turn to for support. He just wanted to be the center of their focus without question. Narcissists betray us on so many levels.

  • @AmosMantyla
    @AmosMantylaАй бұрын

    My ex was hardcore into the smear. She loved it. Some people claim that they don't realize they're doing it, and maybe some don't, but she absolutely knew what she was doing. She put real thought and work into it.

  • @bevhills4877

    @bevhills4877

    Ай бұрын

    They know darn well what they are doing, or the stories wouldn’t need to change in front of certain ppl. In my case, they started right after they meeting me … whispering sour nothings into your friends/family’s ears as feigned concern.

  • @user-dz7pi5wi6t
    @user-dz7pi5wi6tАй бұрын

    When people show you who they are, believe it. For months, the same people were behaving badly towards me. I tried to ignore them, but they didn't stop...until I started videoing them. Document their abuse/harassment so that you know you're not overreacting, imagining, or being too sensitive. Only confide with people you know and trust. DO NOT share your feelings with anyone else...they will use it against you.

  • @sigmaenigma5437
    @sigmaenigma5437Ай бұрын

    7:59 I'm doing it.😉💯

  • @carsonjohn8
    @carsonjohn8Ай бұрын

    I’m in a bad situation…. She has totally ruined my life my son and I are living out a hotel my credit is bad my family has abandoned me. Everything is going wrong

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    @RebeccaZungEsq

    Ай бұрын

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    @Horizon25Ай бұрын

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    Ай бұрын

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  • @weronikaasomsson2404
    @weronikaasomsson2404Ай бұрын

    He is going to pick up children first, then his true believers! Stay inside in times of darkness, make Jesus your Saviour! He is coming back!😍🌟😍🌟

  • @Stardustpal25

    @Stardustpal25

    Ай бұрын

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  • @salauerman7082

    @salauerman7082

    Ай бұрын

    @@Stardustpal25 why would you discourage encouragement? That’s what a narc would do.

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