Yes, Rage, Contempt, Anger, Threats, Blame, MOODY . Exhausting for us who live with them. Thankfully divorced.

@Encornelious

Ай бұрын

I needed to see this !!! Thank you

@skaziblu

Ай бұрын

Was it the 4 horsemen though?

@kateyjrosalia4464

Ай бұрын

I went through yrs of this angry man It got intolerable

Yes! Rage every day over the simplest things. It exhausts me!!

@ishitabhardwaj1797

Ай бұрын

How you dealing it's rage both mentally and physically by my sister to my mom...

@kathyfast6399

Ай бұрын

@ishitabhardwaj1797 Every time the rage begins, I remove myself from the situation. If the rage is focused at me, I start mentally saying affirmations that reinforce it isn't about me and that I deserve good treatment. I'm not always successful at short circuiting my anger, but it's better than it used to be.

Some of them are wrongly convinced they have high empathy

They addicted to anger 1. Fragile self-esteem: emptiness 2. Control & Manipulation 3. Fear of exposure and vulnerability: keep losing image 4. Lack of empathy and self-regulation 5.Unmet expectation and unrealistic demands

No communication skills, no empathy for those they abuse verbally , no acknowledgenent when they belittle you, always angry, moody, controlling, stamping on your freedom all the time, everything you have to road per their likings & instructions. Very dysfunctional & difficult human beings. May GOD reveal to them who they are, expose them & also pray that only GOD can heal them, deliver them provided they are willing. No other solution.

NO CONTACT ! That is the only way to effectively deal with them.

@kateyjrosalia4464

Ай бұрын

Agree I have never bothered with my ex-husband and am happier

They are unable to establish meaningful rela5ionships.The narcissistic attitudes become full of rage.They are weaker without attention.Turn it around and have secure boundaries ❤❤

@Encornelious

Ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤

Yes I've always wondered why every day is a new rage fit

@gandypillay9703

Ай бұрын

Yes ,exactly ,l second what you said

@gandypillay9703

Ай бұрын

We must go according to their rage

Having to experience a true narcissist is a wild and humbling experience… one year of my life just scratching my head as to what happened to this amazing person I thought I fell in love with… so glad that’s over and I now know what to really look out for… biggest life lesson on relationships I’ve had yet… to anyone having to deal with the manipulations of a narcissistic partner, trust your instincts, they’ll never change… just close that chapter and move on… They know exactly what they’re doing…

YES! managing no-contact for the moment...

@Encornelious

Ай бұрын

Me also!!!

@RebeccaZungEsq

Ай бұрын

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You're spot on Rebecca they are toxic at least my ex was kid in an adult body on top of that an abusive alcoholic narcissist that made it even worse I discarded him 17 months ago and my life is peaceful thank God I filed for divorce hopefully it comes through next month he'll probably will have the biggest tantrum than or maybe not he's got a new supply since November last year so he can marry her I've got no contact with him any more so the divorce might be a bit of a shock he never wanted a divorce bad luck it's my life now and can do what I want no more controlling by him any more 😊

Think my Narc (not hubs thank goodness ) is covert? Not so much anger but constant criticism and telling others about how "scruffy" everything is around me and how I have "aged horribly"... When those people meet me in real life and visit me they are invariably shocked... The Narc *always "Ps on their own chips" eventually.

Who cares why, just run.

@wildhorses6817

Ай бұрын

It is necessary for everyone to understand this to protect ourselves from these dangerous psychopaths.

Hell yes they leave us suffocated

Intelligent, AND Beautiful. How scary is that for a Narcissist:?

They are just pure evil and souless soul. Everything to me irritates the hell out of them. They hate being asked and u cant ask them even the most basic questions. To them all questions are attempted to either find a fight with them or belittle them. Its just crazy and exhausting. U are not sure anymore how to approach them because they will go on full rage.

Thanks for the little gem you sprinkled in...empowerment starts with understanding. Wow! 100% toxic (their brooding anger)!

Yes...how did u know...

Narcs are the true vampires

Yes! I know all about narcissists, but I often learn from you the essence and the clear picture. Thank you very much. In this way I do not have to write a book myself 🤭🤷‍♀️💜

@RebeccaZungEsq

Ай бұрын

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This makes so much sense

Yes

Thank you Mrs.Smartie Pants

Yes!

Yes All of this describes my ex Narc to a T.

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Ай бұрын

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YES, easily slighted. So 100% right.

Yes! All of the above!

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Yes, 100% Thanks for furthering understanding. I needed to hear this tonight❤

Great jacket, Rebecca!

Yes, indeed😑

100% yes !! Always always always looking for the slight … so much perceived criticism he loves to tell me how I should be responding to him. How my voice should sound like I’m talking to a toddler and Will often even correct me or try to correct me like I’m at telling me how I should have responded to him .. Tell you how hard it is not to respond or react to that nonsense .

Yes, so so true

Yes i get angry at someone else

Yes, I have used your phases , they do help.

Yes I agree

@RebeccaZungEsq

Ай бұрын

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Yes.

YES!! SPOT ON!!

I was happy for my friend when he won a contest on the radio today. Yay Bones!

My ex has many of these traits, I endured her controlling behaviour for years until one situation finally was the “straw that broke the camel’s back” and I left. She hates me something fierce and has told the world all kinds of mistruths about me, but I really don’t care and I am happier now than I was with her, and that’s what matters…

What is worse is they only like that with us ,they put an act in front of others ,as soon as they alone with you it's like a whole different person ,when my husband screams it does something to me ,but he says he never talk loud ,also his tone is different with others ,everyone has a totally different impression of him

Agree...so true

Yes ❤ Thank you!

@RebeccaZungEsq

Ай бұрын

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YEP!!!

Narc mother, narc husband who did all sorts of illegal not to mention immoral, complete with a judge who asked about adopting my 13 year old. I'm perpetually pissed and I'm like that. I want justice....I love my isolation, I have no patience for people any longer.

@kathyfast6399

Ай бұрын

Hope your narc husband did not/does not get custody of your child.

No matter what you do it is wrong and when I got back in the house I had to listen to what I said wrong and I have no control over of myself

"Yes"

YES,YES, AND YES

Rebecca I want to thank you sooo much for your AMAZING video's you are helping me soooo much I'm dealing with a ex narcissist atm he lives next door and is always pushing his knew supply day he lives next door to me how do I deal with this 😢😢😢😢

YES!

@RebeccaZungEsq

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This explains my mother, even on the school holidays she was angry and it was always about her. I just let her do what she did, its not like I could stop her anyway.

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YES! My whole life!

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Yes but I have learned to turn it around so her true self comes out and sometimes that makes it worse

Help my family member is textbook what you are explaining .. blew up in my face. Nothing will stop it. I am taking tai chi to reduce the negativity

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Yes,yes,yes my brother is just as this behaviour. He is controlling. If l don't do things his way then all he'll breaks loose. I am so tired of the name calling and derogatory comments. I am moving out. Soon. Take care everyone and stay strong. S.B.

I can’t take it anymore, he is so sneaky, mean and has threatened my life on many occasions. I don’t know what to do you just can’t converse with them about anything😢

Absolutely tremendous Rebecca, Thank you so much for this and your kindness and understanding, Peace, love and respect to you and everyone, Thank you universe, All glory to the most high God 🍄🦄👽📚⚖♱😇😘🦁🕊🕆💛💗💚😃❤😊🌹

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Ай бұрын

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@AmourofgodShinelight

Ай бұрын

@@RebeccaZungEsq Thank you Rebecca for everything, You're an inspiration to me 😃💚💗💙💜💛❤🌈🦁🕊🕆😃

I’m finally out but, he won’t give me ANY of my belongings. Trying to figure out how to start over. There’s really no help when you finally do get out. It seems like I just put myself in more danger.😢

YES!!

YES

Yes story of my life 😮

Yes 👍

Yes. ❤ ❤

Narcissist don’t get angry….Narcissists are cold empty individuals…..PS: How can they rage when they’re cold, indifferent towards people feelings when they don’t care at all? Did you even met one? The rage part is more related to sociopathic, borderline individuals…The narcissist I met was cold, uncaring, empty vessel, he was diagnosed one….Similar to an psychopath…They’re all individuals by the way. You can’t say all narcissists are toxic, short tempered….They’re all in different spectrum….

YEASSSSS!!!

@RebeccaZungEsq

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We'res moy lunch We'res moy dinner 😂

Well I feel better and confused. Did you see my ex and myself in our relationship? If not then we where textbook narcissist relationship.

Suffocating yes and demanding yes and anger yes and they want a slave not a friend or family

O'h HELL YES😇

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The diluision also fades for them wtith time, they will start hating themselves, for the bad choices made in life. Because the result of their influence on others is a disaster, and they know it. My sister use to victimize herself... She still is an expert, after ruin her childrens lives, one in jail for murder, and the daughter in a institution... When i use to call her out, she would start defending herself... One day i told her... Whatever the result is, it was because of your choices... who chose your way? You did... No one chose for you, you never rang me, asking " shal 8 go and take drugs?' Did you??? But u took them, your choice... 😂 She was estupid... 😂❤🎉 U will be Free... trust me! Listen to Rebeca too ok 😂❤

@e.conboy4286

Ай бұрын

60 years married to him! OMG! I’m trying to remember a happy time… blank.

Not anymore

@RebeccaZungEsq

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Yeees

@RebeccaZungEsq

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Just a note :Wearing that black motorcycle type leather jacket just doesn't fit into the setting surrounding you. A lovely dress or blouse and skirt would really be much more impressive. love Paul

You know what the problem with this is? It's labeling. You gave a perfect example, but if I went to show it to her to bring awareness, that would be judgment because it has the tag "narcissist" on it. What if you just said bad, going to hell person. 😆😆😆 As soon as you say that people shut down. Especially the narcissist. If we can just remove the word, show the traits, it would be perfect. Then once you show the traits, CC this is that bad going to hell person. That's how it was pretty much done back in the day. It's why we have a big explosion now after the falling away. It's both funny and sad. I'm sorry. I don't know what that CC was all about. Sorry I'm using speech to text. Sorry for the out of context misspelling, but I hope everybody understands what I'm saying. I am not going to take the post re-edit it and put it back up. I had such a bad day dealing with a narcissist, I mean bad going to hell kind of person 😆😆😆 At least I have my humor. Not much but that's all I have. I have been stripped for decades.

My narc is getting even worse.

Yes !!!

Yes

YES!

@RebeccaZungEsq

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Yes!!!

Yes!

Yes!

Yes

@RebeccaZungEsq

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Yes!

Yes!

Yes!

Yes!!!

@RebeccaZungEsq

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Yes!!!

@RebeccaZungEsq

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Yes

Yes

Yes!

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Yes

Yes

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Yes!

@RebeccaZungEsq

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Yes!!!!

YES !

@RebeccaZungEsq

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Yes!

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Yes

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