Hello you savages. Get access to every episode 10 hours before KZread by subscribing for free on Spotify - spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - apple.co/2MNqIgw Here's the timestamps: 00:00 Believe Your Needs Are Important 08:40 How to Make Your Needs a Priority 18:22 Rewriting Deeply-Set Patterns 26:05 Preventing a Critical Inner Voice 35:43 Believing the Story You Tell Yourself 45:13 Men Need to Step Outside of the Cycle 55:25 Having a Puritan View of Hard Work 1:03:10 The Cause of Nice Guy Syndrome 1:09:07 What it Really Means to Be an Alpha 1:21:29 Do Women Need to Be More Receptive? 1:36:41 How to Successfully Use Online Dating 1:47:55 Dating After Breaking Up or Divorcing 1:54:40 The Downsides of a Casual Sex Culture 1:58:17 Where to Find Dr Glover

@rahatali365

2 ай бұрын

hiiiiiiiii

I get here because the thumbnail says "stop dating your mum" I stay because of a guy that looks like the villain of 'cloudy with a chance of meatballs 2'

@hasanygarcia2562

2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@YtSu-no7bt

2 ай бұрын

lmfao

@oxydoxxo

2 ай бұрын

Villain guy was slangin them meatballs behind the scenes

@zingking0132

2 ай бұрын

That "villain" is the goat of men

@TheMightyMidget

2 ай бұрын

@@zingking0132bearded like a goat too

I was a client of Dr. Glover in the late 2000’s. I met my wife a year after working with him.

@raphaelantoine7331

2 ай бұрын

That's great to hear

@BGFitnessNY

2 ай бұрын

@@raphaelantoine7331 thank you.

@nstopology

2 ай бұрын

Whats your life like today

@BGFitnessNY

2 ай бұрын

@@nstopology married with two kids.

@fletchergull4825

24 күн бұрын

​@@BGFitnessNY Pls tell us how. I read his book but not sure how to apply it to meeting new people

The quote is: "How long are you going to wait before you demand the best for yourself and in no instance bypass the discriminations of reason? - Epictetus Great podcast.

I have loved iyanla vanzant's quote for years. "My cup runneth over. What's in the cup is for me, and what runs over I have to give to everyone else."

As a man I've always attracted more women minding my own business. I don't even approach women anymore. Advice I have for younger guys. Don't watch porn or look at hot women on twitch/youtube. Life changing advice

@wojiaobill

2 ай бұрын

Nobody should ever stop watching porn

@darint9686

2 ай бұрын

@@wojiaobill why do you believe that?

@chiquinho_do_progresso

2 ай бұрын

​@@wojiaobill who let bro cook?

@syressx9098

2 ай бұрын

@@wojiaobill Get him out of the kitchen

@mrbritisher9748

Ай бұрын

Women don't approach men though in 90% of cases so if you don't do anything as a guy won't get anything pretty simple equation, don't care how attractive a guy is he still has to make the moves most women will do is smile & make themselves available rest is up to guys, & let's be honest any woman that's making herself super available for a guy isn't the most sought after women most guys want it's 5's 6's or worse.

As a former nice guy. You gotta be direct as possible. Do not beat around the bush. Be clear with what you desire. The more clear you are, the more likely you are to attract what you're looking for. Self-fulfilling prophecies can be both positive and negative. Edit: You have to tell people what you want. If they give it to you, great. If they don't, that's also great. You just have to move on. Be direct, if they don't respond how you'd like, be respectful, and move on. It's not a bad thing to move on from someone when they cannot give what you want.

@DD-xw6uw

2 ай бұрын

I’ve found this to be true. It filters out the people who are not compatible with yourself. Essentially dating wise, if you’re upfront and say “I want this”

@Savvynomad225

2 ай бұрын

I want freedom from work and bills and problems. Who can I tell that to and make it be?

@papertiger9845

2 ай бұрын

Exactly. And if they say theyre one way and act another, just tell them and break it off and move on. As a man, theyll always respect that over being their doormat

@janosd4nuke

2 ай бұрын

​@@Savvynomad225the guy in the mirror. Then you figure out better problems that offer more lasting solutions than the wageslave rat race. Then with your actionable steps you scale up and start looking for running mates, be it a romantic or a business partner. You can never escape problems, besides life would be boring and meaningless without challenges. But you can figure out how to pivot to have better problems.

@Savvynomad225

2 ай бұрын

@@janosd4nuke are taxes part of the “better problems” list?

This man has changed so many lives and is on point. If you get triggered, it highlights what you need to work on.

@norbucso

Ай бұрын

A father should have done this for each child. We wouldnt need men like him to teach us if it would work naturally.

This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

@RoyJ.Tillison-tq5ed

2 ай бұрын

I am sorry about what you have been through. I have been through something similar and was almost depressed, till I contacted a spiritual counsellor who helped me get my ex back and hence my life back.

@SantiagoA.Wright

2 ай бұрын

Interesting. Who is this counsellor, and how do I meet the person?

@RoyJ.Tillison-tq5ed

2 ай бұрын

Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counsellor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being.

@SantiagoA.Wright

2 ай бұрын

Thanks a lot. I just did. Impressive.

@grannyannie2948

2 ай бұрын

You may not want advice from women. But I was in your place when I was 21. There was no internet then. I wrote down why I loved him. And what was wrong, why we didn't stay together. And I kid you not within a month I met the perfect man, and we have both been happy together (except when we were sad. Happy ever after is a joke. Friends and family still die) for nearly 40 years.

100% train yourself to be good at reading social cues and then you'll know how to observe the signs that a woman is interested in you. Don't give attention to women who don't value you or people in general. Actually this shouldn't just be about dating, it's about life. Obviously this doesn't mean get upset at people who show you signs that they dislike you, it just helps you to know who values you and ultimately who you want in your life.

Love this guest - he comes across as so authentic- a breath of fresh air.

Coming straight out with it. This episode is WAY better than I was expecting. Hugely information dense. Talking about how to think. This is the kind of content that I find useful. Will be rewatching this. Probably a lot of times.

One my favourite guests ever, his book changed my life

@Lynx_Mercury

2 ай бұрын

You should check out integration Nation. It's a life changer

@unconventional_health

2 ай бұрын

calming voice

@Stilo95

2 ай бұрын

How did his book changed your life?

@alexheise110

2 ай бұрын

he wrote a book?

@roc-88

2 ай бұрын

No more mr nice guy. You can listen to it on KZread

His book “no more mr nice guy” changed my life. Should be required reading for any man. That and “when I say no I feel guilty” although this one is harder to get through. I reread his book every few years and get something new out of it each time.

This might be the best guest so far! Dr. Glover doesn't play ideological favorites, and he's a very genuinely based man. :D His two books are exceptionally valuable.

Mr. Glover has helped me in soo many ways along with Coach Corey Wayne. I’m a stronger, clearer man because of their work. Thank you!

Loved what he said about starting to give to yourself - the examples of buying something for himself once he bought for someone else was great because it's a conscious pattern he set up for himself. Love that.

The mindsets glover presents have legit changed my life. Great insight and podcast

What a fun guest, i enjoyed all his stories and lessons.I could listen for hours. Again, Communication is key for any relationship.

Dr Glover is the best. Glad you had him in again Chris, love this episode

About habits change: I recall reading that rather than just 21 days, there is a range: more like 21 to 200 days. It makes sense if you think about it as they are discussing habits and comfort levels and homeostasis even if you take a new action to override the Old if you’ve had the old actions a long time it could take more time with the new action to fully overwrite it. I am reading Dr. Glover’s book a second time and joined a men’s group. Like him I had family and religious pressures and conditioning to just be nice, put others ahead of you, disregard your needs and wants, etc. I am digging out, learning and growing, rising towards my best self, but it takes time, intention, new actions, mindset change, and you need a good support system. Have an awesome day and week. Take new steps to rise to greatness. 💪

Smart work is working on what really matters , on improving yourself everyday , even if just by 1%. Kudos to you 👏.

They get the Biblical maxim wrong too. It's not put yourself last, its 'love your neighbor as yourself ' if you don't love yourself, it will manifest as using other people as a surrogate for loving yourself a la the woman at the well. This ends well for no one.

When we approach women without being focused on our goal of securing a particular outcome, it's easier to build a connection with them. Even if the outcome wasn't what we hoped for, we built a connection with them and that's the joy of life.

In situations where I've dated men who openly tell me from the beginning that they just want "casual" Deep down I'm always telling myself or rather hoping... that although I heard him my brain say..."but once he gets to know me maybe that will change if we are great together" "He might fall in love with me if im amazing". My head and heart ALWAYS over rides the fact that he said... "I just want casual" With this last situationship that I kept saying yes to. It carried on and off for 3 and a half years. It's was a total waste of my time and heart and I've learned a HUGE leason from it. And I own big time that I kept saying "yes" to basically alot of sex with a small friendship and nothing deeper... it left me empty. I will, WILL NOT do that to me again.

@kimdavis5403

2 ай бұрын

Decenter men and develop self. You will bring peace and contentment into your life.

@grannyannie2948

2 ай бұрын

Long ago I knew a man like that. He was ten years older than I, and quite wealthy. He wined and dined me. He made me feel like a princess. And then he wouldn't phone for two days. He broke my heart. It was the 80s and we believed in listening to audio tapes. I bought one called Find Your Perfect Partner. It involved writing down what you wanted in a man and the type of relationship you wanted, I wanted marriage, a house and children. I kid you not within weeks I met my perfect man. And we've been married for nearly forty years. PS. This perfect partner stuff is so childish. No matter how wonderful your partner. Friends and family will die, economic times will change, children will fight with each other, etc etc

@polysaturated

2 ай бұрын

It also seems sort of ass-backwards to have sex first and then attempt to connect on another level. Dating is really an odd artifice.

@trigcat3107

2 ай бұрын

Females discovering traditional rules in modern times be like-

@ClaireGreen-wd2gm

Ай бұрын

I was about done with the idea of love so I did something casual with a man. I felt like I got attached but I was actually going through alot. (Being moms caregiver, her slowly dying, trying to figure out what to do with a too big run down house) and he was a distraction. Anyway he lied to me a lot and now years later he's calling me wanting me to give something real a chance and I'm so thoroughly done with men I haven't let one touch me in 3 years. I say all that to say he will likely regret treating you like you were one of many. They play with good women and then they end up with a bad woman who plays the game better than they do and they get beaten and wanna crawl back to you. Never let them

This is a really great interview, loved every minute of it ❤️

One of the OG’s of the OG’s! I appreciate your work Dr Glover!

One of my favourite episodes from this show. No More Mr Nice Guy is a really good book from Robert

Your insights about women's experiences were spot on. Couldn't have loved this episode more, unless you gave specific examples of modern handkerchief dropping. Spell it out. What do I need to do?

This is the kind of video I've been looking for, this actually makes my issues make sense

So, who are the “brothers” having sex with? 🙄 Is everyone having sex with the same woman so that when you finally grow up and get married, YOU can get a virgin? Yes, the hook-up culture is awful, but is awful for both sides, NOT just the women. It damages both men and women.

@billusher2265

2 ай бұрын

These comments are funny because they imply all these women would remain chaste if a guy didn’t sleep around and that women see, virgin partners rather than what they actually do, avoid them.

@carolallison9685

2 ай бұрын

​@randalldraco3822 haha what? Oh sweetie no. Actually, according to anthropologists, both men and women should sleep around when young, then settle down when older. Perhistoric humans slept around so much that none of the men knew whose child was whose. This led to everyone caring for all of the children. Thats that village. Monogamy didnt come around until agriculture became widespread. Men no longer had the village, so they were now farming and only had their own resources. This meant he had to make damn sure those kids were his because if not, no one is coming to help him. The fact is we are primates, and now im only an ecologist, so what would i know, but last time i was studying other great ape species, i didnt notice any monogamy. Now maybe im just a crackpot scientist, but im pretty sure no species of prinate is monogamous.

@albertlevins9191

2 ай бұрын

I didn't understand a single one of these comments. Honestly. What are you people saying? Is this some kind of code?

@Zmt2021

Ай бұрын

@@carolallison9685 please name these “anthropologists” who claim this.

@aforabe1197

14 күн бұрын

They may be referring to a controversial book by the name “Sex at Dawn” which makes some claims similar to what they commented: Promiscuity was the norm among early humans; as a result of men not knowing which children were theirs everyone chipped in to parent; agriculture was the beginning of the end for free-sex communes, I mean, hunter-gatherer villages. Some professors used the book in class, legitimizing it, when the authors were wholly incompetent in their research and heavily biased in their findings. Google “Sex at Dusk”, it’s a critic of the first book that details how far off it is from the truth, and how it’s just pushing an agenda.

Wow. This conversation landed somewhere between a throat punch and a hug! Mr. Williamson you are rocking the podcast world. Mr. Glover you are pushing the limits of the human condition. Thank-you both.

Thank you Chris! As always amazing! I love Dr. Glover ❤

This was full of little quotes that would make great possible episode titles. I really enjoyed this one 👌🏽

One of my favorites ever -- awesome chat

I love how Dc GLover put finally the real deal with hardwork and frame it for what really is not like all pseudos entrpreneurs.

@valentynkhaman7688

2 ай бұрын

Yes, not just blindly work hard which sounds like bash your head of the wall

Being detached to the world’s any fathomable form makes you insurmountably powerful man.

this episode was SOO freacking helpful and digestable. thank you Chris for having the Dr. Glover

This guy said something g I resonate with a lot. Going back and ruminating on previous mistakes does you no good. That’s basically my opinion on 90% of psycho therapy…. Flat out, not good for you, makes the problems worse, and inhibits moving forward.

We needed another episode with him, thanks Chris!

Great Podcast! Terrrible ending point. It was getting so gooood, why end it thereee brother!!?? hahahaha Legends anyway

Thank you Chris, its so wonderful to listen to your deep, interesting discussions.

Wise, Insightful!! Good Show 👍

16:51 had to pause and reflect after that one 30:36 yuuuuup. 1:10:08-1:20:24 great segment

This is a really mature take on dating life.

Such a great episode - thank you both for taking the time to put this out.

Hey Chris, long time listener of the podcast. I just finished listening to this episode on Apple Podcasts, and I thought I’d recommend some guests who I think you’d enjoy discussing ideas with. List of potential interviewees on the podcast: Sisyphus 55, FD Signifier, Gerbert Johnson (all KZreadrs)

I feel like self loathing is a double edge sword. It ruins a lot but it’s also the only thing that’s ever made me improve parts of myself.

@Walkerxy

Ай бұрын

@@brianmeen2158 well yeah, there’s a right way and wrong way. Like I’ve done both, was stuck wallowing from 4-25 before I figured out to use it to create a better man. If all your self hate makes you crumble then it’s terrible; but if you learn to use it as a motivator then it’s not as bad.

Thank you so much Chris for bringing him back in person. His book was very helpful to me at a challenging time of my life.

Someone I'm visiting: "Do you want some water or tea?" Me, every single time: "No, thank you"

Chasing the hot woman = approval seeking., pounding on closed doors, making her the Alpha. In this case men exploit the beauty of that woman to signal to other men their „status“. Which is the status of a approval seeking guy. I think he is spot on with the mother analogy. Choose a woman who chooses you! Go through the open door. And learn to live alone before you enter a relationship. If you can’t stand hearing your own heartbeat you can’t be in a relationship.

Chris is back on the dating scene? Watch out for that black pill!

Robert is fantastic !

@Shaggytheking

Ай бұрын

You are fantastic

Always good to see Dr. Robert Glover!

Thank you both

I have never met my father, my mother told me that my father passed her when she was very pregnant, when I was 20, that I was never wanted, she ruined my teenage years, I have an extra 3 to 5 years I've always had to behave like a gentleman, but that didn't do anything for me

Thank you Master Roshi

I’m enjoying your recent arc!

Doing a great job with your interviews thanks

Glover's book is one of the best books on the matter. He goes beyond the superficial RP talking points.

It’s all about enlightened self interest ! Doesn’t mean don’t help people but that I can better help others when I take care of myself first . When the airplane ✈️ loses cabin pressure you’re supposed to put on your oxygen mask on before your child .

Yesss another one Dr Glover!! Everybody should read his book! Changed my life

Another great episode with him, thank you Chris! I find the title awkward though. It is maybe just my impression but the title makes it seem as if there would be a surplus of high quality women that lack their high quality male counterpart. This idea or notion is apparent in a lot of content these days and it puts the blame on men. So if all men would just level up, the bidirectional supply would meet the demand. Looking at my social circle and the people I know/knew from uni and work, I feel like both genders are both equally changelled to be quality partners and I wouldn't say that either side is in a nicer position then the other. Everybody likes to point at the cavedweller with cheetodust on his chest who watches porn and plays games all day. Nobody seems to admit that a neurotic, avoidant and manipulative 30yo female lawyer who is emotionally immature, has her mother do the cleaning and laundry, who has an alcoholproblem and who is deep into astrology and tarot-cards is equally undateable. "Adult-Failure-ism" has a female archetype just aswell.

@Kate-rv6kx

2 ай бұрын

I think because Chris and most of his guests are men, they tend to give advice to men, not women. I agree that women have just as many issues, and I'd like some advice too, but it seems like the whole genre of philosophy and self-improvement podcasts is by men for men. Or maybe it's just that women's podcasts seem so extreme to me.

@dahliaherrod4301

Ай бұрын

@@Kate-rv6kx There are some good podcasts marketed to women but they do terrible numbers which is probably why they don't hit your feed.

_Unwin also stated "In the past, too, the greatest energy has been displayed only by those societies which have reduced their sexual opportunity to a minimum by the adoption of absolute monogamy (para. 168). _*_In every case the women and children were reduced to the level of legal nonentities, sometimes also to the level of chattels, always to the level of mere appendages of the male estate._*_ Eventually they were freed from their disadvantages, but at the same time the sexual opportunity of the society was extended. Sexual desires could then be satisfied in a direct or perverted manner... _*_So the energy of the society decreased, and then disappeared."_*_ He points out that "No society has yet to succeeded in regulating the relations between the sexes in such a Way as to enable sexual opportunity to remain at a minimum for an extended period." - _*_and thus all societies have collapsed._* - J. D. Unwin, _Sex and Culture_ circa 1930s 💊

@amuroray9115

2 ай бұрын

What is your solution to the men who cheat on their wives?

@matthewnorris203

Ай бұрын

I agree with him.

@matthewnorris203

Ай бұрын

@@amuroray9115You can accept that men want sexual variety and that’s simple male nature or divorce them. Do you see another option from your point of view?

@amuroray9115

Ай бұрын

@@matthewnorris203 then they shouldn’t get married. That way, they’re free to sleep around. Divorces are common though, so it looks like that’s already taken care of.

@bbeaup

22 күн бұрын

@@matthewnorris203then dont commit to marriage. Drop the andrew tate shit bro. If you dont wanna be with a woman don’t be with her. If you cheat and reduce that to “men want variety” you’re acting like a child not a man.

Advice to women if you're looking for a partner, take your damn earphones out in public! It's a red light in the heads of men if they're thinking about approaching. They may have to raise their voice or just get in your line of vision which is - quoting even further from the podcast - scary, or mostly awkward. 😂

@Jhawk_2k

Ай бұрын

They have their headphones in so they don't have to talk to guys (presumably) like you

Hey Chris i love your Videos they helped so much during my life, they changed my perspective how i should pursuit life. I would like to thank you for your dedicated work to make people like me my life better. For the next Podcast i would love to hear from Mohnish Pabrai. He is in the greatest Investors during our time, who has a kind interesting perspective about life and investing and he lives in Austin Texas.

I'll admit that the ''walking through open doors'' approach does work better because I've never taken the risk to do a cold approach, the few girls I've dated had all given me a sign that they were interested beforehand and, looking back on it, I don't really feel good about it because it made me feel like a predator choosing the easiest prey, I'd get into her just because I knew that she was into me first. Also, the girls/women that will too easily give you strong signs of interest might not be the healthiest, I've learned that at my own expense, there has to be some elegance to it.

Love all his perspectives on being outcome-agnostic, and just exercising healthy openness. I've seen this in a female friend of mine, she will talk to AAAAAAAANYONE, and I was always very envious of how she did that because, talkative as I am, I'm also awkward as fuck, but I eventually realised the only way to not be envious was to exercise this approach myself. It's been a mixed bag, and I certainly haven't been as consistent as I like, but hearing this makes me wanna give it that little bit more effort

Amazing talk!

Another solid episode…… wow 💙

20:05 - “We like the ghetto we know.” Love that.

Great interview 👍

watched it all, refreshing if you are ruminating :D

Chris: "I'm now back to the dating scene, which is scary and the whole new world for me". An athletic looking Brit with 2 million subscribers that has just moved to US is trying to sound humble :D

@stevecooper7883

2 ай бұрын

Honestly if he fails then we know society is done for 😅

@Gaspar40

2 ай бұрын

Having lots of options is paradoxically harder than having few. If you can be with anyone then how do you choose to be with any one person in particular. Look at the dumpster fire celebrity marriages. Cheating, divorce, bitter legal battles - it’s nowhere near as cool as people think.

@dahliaherrod4301

Ай бұрын

Different kind of hard. He's doing well for himself and has set a certain standard for his life. I can't imagine there are too many women who can come close to matching it and being a good complement for him. Plus he's gotta worry about gold diggers and groupies. Never fun.

@bbeaup

22 күн бұрын

@@Gaspar40disagree completely. This is only true if you’re not self reflective nor have wisdom or value systems you’re grounded in. And no surprise most fleeting celebrities are shallow and usually lack wisdom and discernment.

Read his book last month. It gives you a lot to think about.

Yes!

Big love to Chris

I realize this episode is geared for men, but most of it is good "human" advice for men, women, and anyone in between ... interesting to watch as a single mom raising two young men and wanting them to grow up to be great partners as well as secure men who do a bit of good in the world.

M. Scott Peck Genius.

59:20 yeah poor people do hard work however they have the richest souls and most wholeheartedly living that includes family and community too. Now at 38 I do have patterns I haven’t grown out of when it comes to money however the things I miss the most and I’m consciously creating for myself are the ones of lesser material things and more connections with others, bcuz when I was poor that is what made my life so FULL

Great Conversation

I hate glover’s delivery but his message is spot on.

what a good geezer, great guest

1:19:00

A good woman should respond to a man’s needs as well as the other way around. It’s called a relationship and especially in a marriage. Women with drama stay in drama. They probably meet physical needs but not emotional needs, and wear them down. I have been married twice, one for 17 years, and then my high school boyfriend later for 23 years. They cheated in both cases and I was there for their needs, physically and emotionally. I’m still friends with my first husband who remarried someone wonderful, and is the father of my daughter. I’m in a different age bracket that a lot doesn’t apply. I don’t really have hopes of meeting someone that has the characteristics that they are looking for, as well as myself, but that’s okay. BTW, at 64 I’m still fit and attractive, especially for my age.

@debbiebartolo

2 ай бұрын

And I don’t think I’m perfect in any way. But I have always been respectful of my husband’s interests, and issues. I find that they were more interested in themselves, than me, but not as bad in my 1st marriage.

Single ? You ? 😮 that is such a beautiful coincidence and now here is my handkerchief 🎉

3:40 Holy crap, Dude nailed it.

No more Mr Nice Guy is a great book

"I was able to get it better, therefore anyone can be as lucky as I am!!"

6:28 uhhh no.. maybe in the early 2000’s but the last few school shooters have have been mixed race and a trans person.. idk if this bodes well for the ep but inaccurate broad strokes doesn’t seem like the best thing to use when your trying to preach.

@zimzob

2 ай бұрын

There’s been three trans-identifying school shooters in recent years, Aurora CO, Moscow ID , Nashville TN

@senpai_dolph7873

2 ай бұрын

🙄

@lukemacon1

2 ай бұрын

He was clearly speaking in general terms. Don’t nit pick like that it’s a friggin 2h pod cast

@TheDanielLivingston

2 ай бұрын

@@lukemacon1Exactly. It's making a mountain out of a molehill

Just more validation of your own solipsism.

I’m a little confused, is being an outcome agnostic about spiritually being OK with any and every possible outcome that could happen to you, if you say yes to most things in life?

I'm a little confused, as it seems to me that Dr. Glover is calling men hypergamous (I can't be with this one bc. another, hotter one might turn up). This in my experience is not the way men (outside the infamous 5 % top guys) behave in relationships.

bro chriss has a sponsor every 10 minutes

Try salsa dancing with a random lady in South Africa & you're basically setting a PK timer.

First opening quote said it all...

I recognize that I'm a incel, but I also recognize that it is by choice. I blame no one but myself, and I'll likely be doing so until I die.

@THX-C

Ай бұрын

If you choose to be celibate, wouldn’t that mean you aren’t an incel? I’m doing work on myself and am avoiding women at the moment. Part of my work is not being so harsh with myself. You can figure this out. I don’t know you if you can type an entire paragraph without a single typo, you can do this. Good luck!

I really loved the book and all. I also appreciate all the content he’s given for free . On the other end the guy has a PHD ofcourse that will impress women . The guy is in a transactional relationship with a much younger woman which he allowed her to sleep around & he is basically paying for everything. Once he will stop paying for everything he won’t have a wife. Not much different from passport bros mentality. Not really practicing what he preaches. Just took the shortcut. Picking up a woman from the slums when you are a “billioner” in her book is basically renting a girlfriend.

Chris I wish you let the guest talk

My guy has been married like a half dozen times and he's here to give relationship advice. Got it. I'll tune in after I get back from my financial advising meeting with a guy who lives in a cardboard box.

@JinglesPfeff

2 ай бұрын

Yes dude 100% you are right, this guy mangled his relationships until he was 50 and then married a gal he met at a resort spa. I'll listen to him if I want tips on how to completely fuck up my life until I become a seedy old man who gals dig because of their daddy complex.

@revkallisto

2 ай бұрын

​@@thecordialistapparently not

@15fear18

Ай бұрын

he's much older than you are and sharing his own experiences. he didnt fuck up his life because at the end hes exactly where he's want to be. he realized his errors too late and youre young, if you listen to what he has to tell you after living a life of 50 years, you can easily avoid all the "fuck-ups" he went through.

@bbeaup

22 күн бұрын

So only listen and consider points of views and lessons learned by perfect people. Got it. Perfect.