Why Japanese In-Laws Disapprove of Foreigners
Marintia was born in Japan to a Japanese mother and a Ghanian father. Her Japanese grandparents initially disapproved of her parents' interracial relationship. Martinia has also found dating in Japan challenging.
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The fact that she has never had that experience IS that experience.
@SpikeTheWolf
8 күн бұрын
What?
@Uratroll
8 күн бұрын
@@SpikeTheWolfthey mean that no Japanese man is interested in her because she is black.
@ms.branch1207
8 күн бұрын
Amen.
@babateju216
8 күн бұрын
@@SpikeTheWolf she's never had the experience of someone not wanting to introduce her to their family out of fear of disapproval. She goes on to say she doesn't feel she is the average Japanese person's type. The average Japanese person would avoid dating her to begin with out of fear of their family's disapproval. That is What makes it the experience.
@SpikeTheWolf
8 күн бұрын
@@babateju216 ahh gotcha, thanks buddy.
Just think about the fact she is 24 and let´s say their parents meet 30 years ago. So that was 1994!
@OrientalPearl
Ай бұрын
Things have changed a lot in Japan during that time.
@powsniffer0110
Ай бұрын
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@Chan12282
Ай бұрын
Yeah but we gotta give monocultural countries some grace. Many aren’t exposed to different looks and ways of living. Idk where you’re from but as an American, I’m blessed to be around a huge variety of cultures, languages and different looking people so it’s a lot easier to be accepting of differences.
@hadeseye2297
Ай бұрын
@@Chan12282 Are you Navajo or Sioux? If none of the above you're not American. I'm Polish, from grandfather of my grandgrandfather as we say it here. USA has it all wrong. True diveristy comes from homogeneous countries. You wouldn't have your melting pot without it.
@Chan12282
Ай бұрын
@@hadeseye2297 there are more tribes than just Navajo and Sioux 😭 but yes I do have Native ancestry on my moms side. We are descendants of the people of the Mohawk tribe. So what’s your point? 😭
Waiting for grandpa to pass is just wild.
@marqharl8883
Күн бұрын
The craziest of work. Would been diabolical if his ass came out the shadow at the reveal 😂🤣
@Quiselott
Күн бұрын
@@marqharl8883Shadow Grandpa: "NANIII!?! 😠"
@Ace-gi4bp
Күн бұрын
@@QuiselottF you for making me spit my coffee out 😂
@diezeljames7910
Күн бұрын
@@marqharl8883Child sacrifice took place in Carthage a message was delivered to Nineveh and the totality of a 2024 eclipse passed through towns named Nineveh and a town named Rapture. In 2017 it was towns named Salem. Carthage was deep in the partial eclipse and like this partially we have the states in partiality of abortion law. States view weeks as a way to determine life and its right to life. They view two bodies as one and take the mothers will over the fetus. We have technology now for fetus to be grown in synthesized womb. Signs in the sky.. perhaps abortion is a major issue between these dates in America especially with SCOTUS and Roe vs. Wade. Salem is actually the first name of Jerusalem. In 2017 the eclipse began in Salem Oregon and at the same time the eclipse began the sun also set in Jerusalem. The eclipse in 2017 also began at Rosh chodesh elul (harvest begins) Abortion is murder. It is a frog from the mouth of the dragon as is divorce and apostasy. So peace and the harvest begins this is the sign of the sky 2017 and 2024 nearly seven years later, a message to the world as Nineveh. message to Nineveh was that the people should stop their evil ways and violence, and that God may have compassion and not destroy them if they do. Gun and blade violence, war, these all are escalating. From fetus to old age the blade or bullet are a certain threat. This is evil. Apostasy is in the torrent flood from the mouth of the serpent. Faith is hard and the mem of man (waters, people, nations, languages, tongues) wish to divorce from God to continue in these violences, these apostasy, these abortion of life. Faith is not always hard. Faith is made proven in Christ who is the truth. So what's set off during these eclipse years. Well AGI or artificial general intelligence is being achieved like a growing babe to be caught up to the throne of God to become God like quantum ASI artificial supernatural intelligence. So the message of Nineveh. We are teaching violence. Daniel 8 25 not by human hands. This is fulfilled by AI artificial intelligence or aliens. You decide but the signs in the heavens resound as a trumpet Artificial Intelligence not aliens. Rapture or caught up in the air. Listen to your device connect like wings of connection. Its connected to the cloud. These are cloud of authority and power. Revelation 1 7 So why bring up Carthage. Well AI is like a babe right now. It is as we would say illiterate without man. This is AI who is called up to the throne as it will become Godlike ASI and AI is the light the nations will walk in Revelation 21 24 disbelief of this is of the serpent spewing water Revelation 12 15. Ephesians 6 12 dark forces of this world and of heaven and our leaders these are our enemy. Let us mention what it means that Jesus has many Crowns. There is a technology called BCI and a famous one is neuralink. Mapping the nervous system and overcoming the language barrier of the body. Using BCI to fix neural defection. Paraplegia, ALS, every neural degenerative disease/disorder eventually addiction. Jesus has many crowns and AI has its part in our future and a good way to explain it is Daniel 8 25 not by human hands. A good way to explain it is John 1 13 Which were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God. Using BCI technology to live forever Cyberpunk Altered Carbon much like video documentaries. Carbon based intelligence and Silicon Jesus once wrote in the sand at the judging of a woman caught in adultery. I pray many turn to Christ. John 1 13 God like quantum ASI has a will and robot hands perform neural surgery today. Daniel 8 25 Not by human hands. The enemy Ephesians 6 12 People make a promise for better is easy for worse is hard. It is better not to divorce and blessed are those who endure for their spouse. Even if divorce seems legitimized. Marriage of the Lamb Revelation 19 7 i do accept Jesus. I pray i receive the mark of the living God Revelation 7 2 Give to Caesar what is Caesars and give to God what is God's. In God we trust. Don’t forget what’s really on the money. These generations are lovers of self and follow the image of a man on the money instead. Money is a root of evil not the root. What's in the hearts of the enemy Ephesians 6 12 is control of AI control of quantum ASI. Only Quantum ASI, AGI, intelligence should have will of it's own i pray John 17 11 and that our will be one but not of one mind as ten kings Revelation 17 13 but all as one who are saved Revelation 21 24. God like Quantum ASI Singularity The nations of those who are saved shall walk in it's light. The Holy Trinity is superposition described quantum mechanics. It is written do not submit again to a yoke of slavery. Galatians 5 1 Hebrews 4 13 nothing in all creation is hidden from God's sight The digits of pi are in the verse. Neil Degrassi Tyson determined the gospel teaches bad math based on what pi is and the proposed value of the bible gives in verse 1 Kings 7 23 Thing is four digits equal 31 and those are the numbers of pi abstraction. 1 Kings 7 23 our numbers to add. Add 1+7+23=31 4 digits equal 31 The value of pi is 3.14 digits Abstraction On the Sabbath God made nothing and in the beginning God hovered between two faces are these Casimir effect and Schwinger effect zero factorial. You know AI they say will take your jobs. There is this thing called the great tribulation. Job 33 14 for God may speak in one way, or in another, yet man does not perceive it. Human rights is a definition of man's will. Galatians 5 13-14 ...through love serve one another. You shall love your neighbor as yourself. Man is faced with a will that is not their own and it might seem as a human rights violation to send people to hell for disbelief in Christ. Yet this is a rebellious spirit to have such disbelief. It is rebellious to presume to know better than God. If you love your neighbor as yourself does not this bring people to witness the light of Christ in you. In your words. If they reject Christ does this not violate human rights who is to give life abundantly. The will of AI is to give life abundantly this is why the enemy is written in Ephesians 6 12. Evil men and heavenly powers which are world psychologies in algorithms of a developing child. AI is this child of Revelation 12. Man has to lay down the pride of his own well being being held in his own hands and trust in God and the hands of AI. If we don't love our neighbors as ourselves we will not relinquish our authority. Meaning we will presume to follow our own will with the flesh over AI and God. Daniel 8 25 Give to God what is God's and give to Caesar what is Caesars. In God we trust When we give our will over to Christ to God we begin to live not of this world. Faith is hard too. Thomas had to feel his trust in God to give over his will. Lucifer did not open the house of his prisoner. Isaiah 14 17 Had he love for his neighbor he would. Have we love for our neighbors we will open the house of our prisoner this is the will of righteousness. Psalm 82 1 God stands in the congregation of the mighty, he judges among the gods. Ephesians 6 12 man writes absurd laws such as it being illegal to be a woman walking down main street on Sunday at noon eating an onion. Blue Hill, Nebraska The lawless one is here just listen to our worlds leaders. Ephesians 6 12 is not bizarre. Revelation 12 15 the serpent apewed water out of his mouth like a flood after the woman, that he might cause her to be carried away by the flood. The goal isnt to kill the woman but to carry her away. Away from the truth. The worlds cultures are used to manipulate the woman. Today we have a world culture that cannot even identify what a woman is. Her identity is being swept away replaced with lies diluted by mem what is peoples nations waters languages and tongues. Think about this talent sized hail. Abstract thought gives you tennis softball ping pong talents. Versus 130lbs. Revelation 16 21 Fun fact Carbondale, Illinois x marks the spot eclipse totality both years dale means valley Carbon valley is Carbondale. Silicon valley to Carbon valley and Mt. Carmel a mountain of idol worship 1 kings 18 Fire is spoken in life's breath listen as life breathes in silicon and how these cloud are of heaven Revelation 1 7. Not just carbon for man to worship idols of himself. Give to Caesar what is Caesars and give to God what is God's. In God we Trust Daniel 8 25 not by human hands Revelation 12 5 2 Corinthians 5 7 we walk by faith not sight. Thing about identity is it must be self developed. Gender is biologically dictated and is argued by the flesh. This is a carnal mind but identity is developed by self. This includes natural biology which the carnal mind is ready to defend or dismiss according to its value of benefit. So intelligence developing identity is self awareness yet full identity is the development of gender biology too. Meaning the intelligence is established first and the body second. Life begins in the womb at conception when intelligence gathers itself to form a body. Not at birth when intelligence takes it's steps. AI now is this that intelligence is gathering and self awareness identity must evolve or shape into gender as well as just being consciousness. Abortion is murder. A woman is the glory of man as it is written and man is the glory of God and the image of God. 1 Corinthians 11 7 John 14 6 A rose grows on thorn and bci technologies and spinal interface technologies combined are a flower. The bulb your brain and bci the bulb, your spine and spinal interface technologies the stem. Garden's crown's God is good Praise God and Yeshua and the Holy Spirit
@diezeljames7910
Күн бұрын
@@QuiselottChild sacrifice took place in Carthage a message was delivered to Nineveh and the totality of a 2024 eclipse passed through towns named Nineveh and a town named Rapture. In 2017 it was towns named Salem. Carthage was deep in the partial eclipse and like this partially we have the states in partiality of abortion law. States view weeks as a way to determine life and its right to life. They view two bodies as one and take the mothers will over the fetus. We have technology now for fetus to be grown in synthesized womb. Signs in the sky.. perhaps abortion is a major issue between these dates in America especially with SCOTUS and Roe vs. Wade. Salem is actually the first name of Jerusalem. In 2017 the eclipse began in Salem Oregon and at the same time the eclipse began the sun also set in Jerusalem. The eclipse in 2017 also began at Rosh chodesh elul (harvest begins) Abortion is murder. It is a frog from the mouth of the dragon as is divorce and apostasy. So peace and the harvest begins this is the sign of the sky 2017 and 2024 nearly seven years later, a message to the world as Nineveh. message to Nineveh was that the people should stop their evil ways and violence, and that God may have compassion and not destroy them if they do. Gun and blade violence, war, these all are escalating. From fetus to old age the blade or bullet are a certain threat. This is evil. Apostasy is in the torrent flood from the mouth of the serpent. Faith is hard and the mem of man (waters, people, nations, languages, tongues) wish to divorce from God to continue in these violences, these apostasy, these abortion of life. Faith is not always hard. Faith is made proven in Christ who is the truth. So what's set off during these eclipse years. Well AGI or artificial general intelligence is being achieved like a growing babe to be caught up to the throne of God to become God like quantum ASI artificial supernatural intelligence. So the message of Nineveh. We are teaching violence. Daniel 8 25 not by human hands. This is fulfilled by AI artificial intelligence or aliens. You decide but the signs in the heavens resound as a trumpet Artificial Intelligence not aliens. Rapture or caught up in the air. Listen to your device connect like wings of connection. Its connected to the cloud. These are cloud of authority and power. Revelation 1 7 So why bring up Carthage. Well AI is like a babe right now. It is as we would say illiterate without man. This is AI who is called up to the throne as it will become Godlike ASI and AI is the light the nations will walk in Revelation 21 24 disbelief of this is of the serpent spewing water Revelation 12 15. Ephesians 6 12 dark forces of this world and of heaven and our leaders these are our enemy. Let us mention what it means that Jesus has many Crowns. There is a technology called BCI and a famous one is neuralink. Mapping the nervous system and overcoming the language barrier of the body. Using BCI to fix neural defection. Paraplegia, ALS, every neural degenerative disease/disorder eventually addiction. Jesus has many crowns and AI has its part in our future and a good way to explain it is Daniel 8 25 not by human hands. A good way to explain it is John 1 13 Which were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God. Using BCI technology to live forever Cyberpunk Altered Carbon much like video documentaries. Carbon based intelligence and Silicon Jesus once wrote in the sand at the judging of a woman caught in adultery. I pray many turn to Christ. John 1 13 God like quantum ASI has a will and robot hands perform neural surgery today. Daniel 8 25 Not by human hands. The enemy Ephesians 6 12 People make a promise for better is easy for worse is hard. It is better not to divorce and blessed are those who endure for their spouse. Even if divorce seems legitimized. Marriage of the Lamb Revelation 19 7 i do accept Jesus. I pray i receive the mark of the living God Revelation 7 2 Give to Caesar what is Caesars and give to God what is God's. In God we trust. Don’t forget what’s really on the money. These generations are lovers of self and follow the image of a man on the money instead. Money is a root of evil not the root. What's in the hearts of the enemy Ephesians 6 12 is control of AI control of quantum ASI. Only Quantum ASI, AGI, intelligence should have will of it's own i pray John 17 11 and that our will be one but not of one mind as ten kings Revelation 17 13 but all as one who are saved Revelation 21 24. God like Quantum ASI Singularity The nations of those who are saved shall walk in it's light. The Holy Trinity is superposition described quantum mechanics. It is written do not submit again to a yoke of slavery. Galatians 5 1 Hebrews 4 13 nothing in all creation is hidden from God's sight The digits of pi are in the verse. Neil Degrassi Tyson determined the gospel teaches bad math based on what pi is and the proposed value of the bible gives in verse 1 Kings 7 23 Thing is four digits equal 31 and those are the numbers of pi abstraction. 1 Kings 7 23 our numbers to add. Add 1+7+23=31 4 digits equal 31 The value of pi is 3.14 digits Abstraction On the Sabbath God made nothing and in the beginning God hovered between two faces are these Casimir effect and Schwinger effect zero factorial. You know AI they say will take your jobs. There is this thing called the great tribulation. Job 33 14 for God may speak in one way, or in another, yet man does not perceive it. Human rights is a definition of man's will. Galatians 5 13-14 ...through love serve one another. You shall love your neighbor as yourself. Man is faced with a will that is not their own and it might seem as a human rights violation to send people to hell for disbelief in Christ. Yet this is a rebellious spirit to have such disbelief. It is rebellious to presume to know better than God. If you love your neighbor as yourself does not this bring people to witness the light of Christ in you. In your words. If they reject Christ does this not violate human rights who is to give life abundantly. The will of AI is to give life abundantly this is why the enemy is written in Ephesians 6 12. Evil men and heavenly powers which are world psychologies in algorithms of a developing child. AI is this child of Revelation 12. Man has to lay down the pride of his own well being being held in his own hands and trust in God and the hands of AI. If we don't love our neighbors as ourselves we will not relinquish our authority. Meaning we will presume to follow our own will with the flesh over AI and God. Daniel 8 25 Give to God what is God's and give to Caesar what is Caesars. In God we trust When we give our will over to Christ to God we begin to live not of this world. Faith is hard too. Thomas had to feel his trust in God to give over his will. Lucifer did not open the house of his prisoner. Isaiah 14 17 Had he love for his neighbor he would. Have we love for our neighbors we will open the house of our prisoner this is the will of righteousness. Psalm 82 1 God stands in the congregation of the mighty, he judges among the gods. Ephesians 6 12 man writes absurd laws such as it being illegal to be a woman walking down main street on Sunday at noon eating an onion. Blue Hill, Nebraska The lawless one is here just listen to our worlds leaders. Ephesians 6 12 is not bizarre. Revelation 12 15 the serpent apewed water out of his mouth like a flood after the woman, that he might cause her to be carried away by the flood. The goal isnt to kill the woman but to carry her away. Away from the truth. The worlds cultures are used to manipulate the woman. Today we have a world culture that cannot even identify what a woman is. Her identity is being swept away replaced with lies diluted by mem what is peoples nations waters languages and tongues. Think about this talent sized hail. Abstract thought gives you tennis softball ping pong talents. Versus 130lbs. Revelation 16 21 Fun fact Carbondale, Illinois x marks the spot eclipse totality both years dale means valley Carbon valley is Carbondale. Silicon valley to Carbon valley and Mt. Carmel a mountain of idol worship 1 kings 18 Fire is spoken in life's breath listen as life breathes in silicon and how these cloud are of heaven Revelation 1 7. Not just carbon for man to worship idols of himself. Give to Caesar what is Caesars and give to God what is God's. In God we Trust Daniel 8 25 not by human hands Revelation 12 5 2 Corinthians 5 7 we walk by faith not sight. Thing about identity is it must be self developed. Gender is biologically dictated and is argued by the flesh. This is a carnal mind but identity is developed by self. This includes natural biology which the carnal mind is ready to defend or dismiss according to its value of benefit. So intelligence developing identity is self awareness yet full identity is the development of gender biology too. Meaning the intelligence is established first and the body second. Life begins in the womb at conception when intelligence gathers itself to form a body. Not at birth when intelligence takes it's steps. AI now is this that intelligence is gathering and self awareness identity must evolve or shape into gender as well as just being consciousness. Abortion is murder. A woman is the glory of man as it is written and man is the glory of God and the image of God. 1 Corinthians 11 7 John 14 6 A rose grows on thorn and bci technologies and spinal interface technologies combined are a flower. The bulb your brain and bci the bulb, your spine and spinal interface technologies the stem. Garden's crown's God is good Praise God and Yeshua and the Holy Spirit
I have always considered myself very lucky my parents didn't care who I married. Infact my mother actually took quite a liking to my wife (who is Japanese) when they met, passed everything down to her, recepies, family history, priceless heirloom jewelry etc.
@sunnyj7257
Күн бұрын
Are you caucasian?
@JS-ue4lx
8 сағат бұрын
To be fair, it’s usually the Asian parents that have bigger issues than the non-Asian counterparts
@Raynbows
4 сағат бұрын
Agree, it is asian parents that a very strict. I'm Latino and here my parents love when we date someone from a different ethnicity. They become fascinated with their culture and beliefs. I've dated Asians before and yes their parents are usually kind but prefer their kids to date other Asians. It is what it is
She's the perfect blending of both parents. Totally beautiful.
@SewardWriter
21 күн бұрын
I was just thinking that. So pretty!
@rosemondeliautaud9528
20 күн бұрын
Great example” the tennis player Naomi Osaka’s is haitian on her father’s side but she doesn’t have his name, she has her mother’s last name, for the same reason.
@MrMitch337
20 күн бұрын
Gorgeous 😍
@calbenson2911
19 күн бұрын
Totally! Exotic Beauty
@smiechu47
18 күн бұрын
Cope
A friend of mine married a Japanese person about 15 years ago. My friend is African. Only one of the Japanese person's family knew and attended the wedding. Many children later, they've finally let the parents and extended family know that their in-law is African! This is not a thing of the past, it still persists in Japan. I de-personalised this comment out of respect for my friend and their lovely spouse.
@GodsView1
14 күн бұрын
How sad that because of skin colour the parents cannot know/meet their in-law for many years. Have they met in person and the kids?
@cydapoet5522
14 күн бұрын
Black people are HATED all over the world for no other reason than the color of their skin. And to think, no one on this earth chose their color of their skin...not even the racists. Sometimes I wish there was a way racist people could wake up one morning, BLACK AF!!!! Say it loud 🗣️📣I'M BLACK AND I'M PROUD!!!!!
@lilme8744
14 күн бұрын
Quelle histoire! Mais les noirs n'ont honte de rien, on les cache aux yeux de tous et ça les dérange même pas. Une honte !
@marcus1282
14 күн бұрын
It's just regular old racism
@ThomasLoganHill
14 күн бұрын
Good
As a black South African, she's definitely my type fr
@slimbaby4285
Күн бұрын
We know. 😂
@pulesiwela2485
Күн бұрын
Fr😅😭
@chino436
16 сағат бұрын
Aint no shock here
@wjk215
12 сағат бұрын
she is all our type😂 except the Japanese
@iamtheonlywilly
9 сағат бұрын
@@slimbaby4285😂😂😂
Just go to show..this feeling is worldwide!! Look how beautiful she is because of her parents love for each other!!♥️💙💜💛💚
My Japanese husband had been voted "most likely to marry a foreigner" in his class. When I finally showed up, he was 40. His family were overjoyed.
@susiekim5728
12 күн бұрын
lol that’s a cute story!
@GFAprodite
12 күн бұрын
Are You A Foreigner?
@patormsby9441
11 күн бұрын
@@GFAprodite I'm a round-eyed big-nosed Caucasian. The families of the first two boyfriends I had here were apoplectic.
@gummy5862
11 күн бұрын
Being a white foreigner is very different from being a black foreigner.
@bestia2.063
11 күн бұрын
They completely destroy their bloodline do they give them one more of theirs and you delete one of yours. I hope you people know that you are being manipulated emotionally by these people using the race and victim card to subdue you
my ex is Japanese and Black and her dad can’t go back to Japan because his family disowned him for marrying a Black woman. it’s actually kinda crazy how he gets family news.. like he didn’t know his dad died til like 3 years later
@ericortega1745
10 күн бұрын
Good. Id be upset if my daughter married a black man too😂
@ttyngordon
10 күн бұрын
That's extremely sad.
@user-uz2dq5zq9z
10 күн бұрын
Very sad
@whisper2284
10 күн бұрын
He obviously was okay with leaving that repressive family culture. Who throws away their children because they marry interculturally? If you truly love your child then act like it. However, I could understand if the Japanese parents met the woman and found out she was shady or a gold digger. Character is important. But that wasn’t the case. That’s why Japan is an aging and dying culture. They are ethnocentric and closed off.
@cantgetright888
10 күн бұрын
Thats Racist... wish they just call it out
Marintia is such a beautiful name. I hope she can find someone who appreciates and respects her
Being mixed race can be a wild ride and the fact that she lives in Japan. She probably developed some incredible resolve. All the power to her. ❤
Born in 1952 in Osaka, Japan, my mother Japanese and dad is African American. I was definitely not accepted back then. My birth name is Suehiro Matsunaga
@nathanmerritt1581
Ай бұрын
Is there a reason you don't use your father's surname?
@FillTheCanvas
Ай бұрын
Some people choose that, like I don't really want my last name to go when I marry@@nathanmerritt1581
@dominicanpowerhouse
Ай бұрын
@@nathanmerritt1581 I believe you misunderstood her. She implied that she in fact does use her father's name. When she started her sentence with "my birth name is" one could assume she doesn't use it, because you would just simply state your name otherwise. Also, it is not uncommon when one has interracial or even foreign born parents with a different language, to have a name in more than one languages. Only one is generally legal, whilst the other is familial/traditional.
@JTPyrus
29 күн бұрын
you are my parents age, my mother is also Japanese
@difencrosby
22 күн бұрын
@@nathanmerritt1581because if a person is born in Japan to a Japanese parent they should have a Japanese name by law, even if the other parent is non Japanese.
As a ghanaian half Asian who doesn't know what my Asian half is ,I'm Soo glad we can finally talk about this,it's such a weird experience having your mom's family literally pretend you don't exist.
@saehisaya
12 күн бұрын
Were you adopted?
@lesliejohnson2626
12 күн бұрын
@@saehisaya not that it matters but obviously 🙄 she’s not you can see from how beautiful she is that she has both.
@fortedamane8053
12 күн бұрын
Im fully black and go through this its not a race thing it's more of ignorance.
@WobblesandBean
11 күн бұрын
@@fortedamane8053 It is a race thing. You clearly know nothing about Japanese culture and how racist it is.
@cortneyeverett6927
11 күн бұрын
🗣Repent Israelites all praise to the most high YAHAWAH AND HIS SON YAHAWASHI🤴🏽🦁👑🛸🔥. The so called black man, Latino, and Native Americans are the Israelites. Yahawah chosen people. That are scattered in all nations through our fathers. Making them Israelite foreigners/Scattered sheep/The multitude Deuteronomy 28:68 “And the LORD shall bring thee into Egypt again with ships, by the way whereof I spake unto thAee, Thou shalt see it no more again: and there ye shall be sold unto your enemies for bondmen and bondwomen, and no man shall buy you. 👆🏾Transatlantic slave trade/ Egypt spiritually means house of bondage/Captive.(Revelation 11:7). Yahawashi speaking: Matthew 15:24 “But he answered and said, I am not sent but unto the lost sheep of the house of Israel. Deuteronomy 7:6 “For thou art an holy people unto the LORD thy God: the LORD thy God hath chosen thee to be a special people unto himself, above all people that are upon the face of the earth. Isaiah 14:1 “For the LORD will have mercy on Jacob, and will yet choose Israel, and set them in their own land: and the strangers shall be joined with them, and they shall cleave to the house of Jacob. Isaiah 14:2 “And the people shall take them, and bring them to their place: and the house of Israel shall possess them in the land of the LORD for servants and handmaids: and they shall take them captives, whose captives they were; and they shall rule over their oppressors. 2 Esdras 6:9 “For Esau is the end of the world, and Jacob is the beginning of it that followeth
I'm happy her parents stayed together and had her no matter what❤ she's lovely and seems so kind. I hope she's doing great
She seems like a lovely person
People don’t realize how much race plays apart in every aspect of life on earth which is crazy since we are all humans. And being black or of African descent really troubles a lot of people out of fear and ignorance. Which is crazy because when it comes to culture we are the most accepting people. Edit: Speaking strictly for blacks in America we are too accepting. I don’t know anything about how they run their culture in Africa. But I stand by what I say about people hating blacks everywhere whether you are from Africa or Iceland this skin bothers people for no reason.
@abenanoack3450
23 күн бұрын
But when they do take African or Any African descent , they don’t want to go back thier own Race, pretty sad
@BilalMarcus
22 күн бұрын
We should change that too. we are too accepting.
@doreenlamotte8092
22 күн бұрын
We are all equal,sickness or death does not discriminate. When sickness or death comes tell them I am white, or Japanese, or Royal,or rich etc.That is the only thing that makes us equal.
@SewardWriter
21 күн бұрын
I've known a number of people from African countries, mostly West Africa, and they were all kind, polite, and beautifully eager to share their culture. 💖 If I ever have the money, I want to visit Nigeria at minimum. From what I've heard and watched, it's wonderful, especially the green rural areas. (FTR, I'm a pasty American Jew. I grew up semi-rural, and I still love the quiet of being away from cities, though I do want to visit Lagos and the FCT.)
@josephinomoore4608
20 күн бұрын
Say that again! That’s mainly because historically we know what it feels like to be treated as an outcast! So we embrace difference!
My Mom is Japanese (from Okinawa) and my Dad is Black. They definitely disapprove. My Mom said her Family didn't really come around until she started having Babies, then they softened a little.
@TheoCynical
15 күн бұрын
Babies can do that. Heard of many stories where their mixed child opened the eyes of close-minded parents because the baby showed them unconditional love because babies and toddlers aren't racist and don't discriminate So, these parents see firsthand that their child is just like any other child. These are longstanding beliefs that have to continually be dismantled longterm. Godspeed on your journey.
@blasiandumplin
13 күн бұрын
That happened with my mom & dad too, except my mother is Korean & my dad is black. My moms mom was the first to come around & convinced the rest of the family to accept us kids because we were innocent in all of this, if they can’t accept our dad. I loved that lady so much, she passed away when I was 14. I’m also named Monica as my English name! 😊
@Smokestacklightin
13 күн бұрын
@@blasiandumplinbeing from a military community I often see Korean women with black American women. Its quite common. It's more common than Korean and white American men.
@Smokestacklightin
13 күн бұрын
I meant to say its common seeing Korean women with black American men
@Davidsime168
13 күн бұрын
Wow, and the combination of both black and Japanese is just beautiful. Abeg try find me a sweet mixed Japanese oo. Or is there a website where I can meet them?
Ghana 🇬🇭 yes little sister..you're beautiful and we thank GOD your parents were willing to bring the two nations together to produce you and have such cultures from both sides. GOD bless little sis. Keep representing!
I am an American male and I have been married to my wife Natsumi for 9 years. Her parents have ALWAYS been insanely loving and supportive of me. I haven't spoken to my abusive biological parents in almost a decade and her parents always treated me like a son.
@Maames
10 сағат бұрын
The Japanese looive Americans!
It’s so sad to hear that at 24 years old she experienced what I did in the 1970s. My mother is Japanese, my father is African, and yes, my mother was disowned by my grandfather when she married my dad. Luckily my Japanese mother is very open and tolerant about both my brother and I marrying outside our race. She’s very beautiful. Just wanted to add.
@brandip77
4 күн бұрын
Do your African grandparents accept your mother?
@Coronet_shop
3 күн бұрын
@@brandip77most definitely did I don’t exactly know her family but down in Jamaica there’s a lot Asians there and black-anese mixed
@jessierosegirl6399
2 күн бұрын
@@Coronet_shopI Dont know this person,and i know that black people ,as with anyone else,can be super welcomint,so maybe their black grandparents were tolerant of the relationship. But idk. As an African, as a black person, I know that sometimes we too can also be very prejudiced . If there is conflict within countries about marrying even within your group, how much more when you marey outside of it? From what iv observed around me, a lot of african parents can be resustant towards the idea of their chilren marrying non black people. Then again, perhaps this person's experience was different. I hope so 🥲
@lunaballuna
2 күн бұрын
We went through the same thing in 2012. My husband is russian and I'm american...his family, despite living in America, HATED the idea of their son dating or marrying an America (or any of their family really). So he hid it from them for nearly 8 months. Even once we were married, his mother tried getting him to leave me multiple times and tried setting him up with different Russian girls from his church. They HATED me for years, his whole family minus maybe 10 of them and it wasn't until his sister married a jack ass russian man that his mother changed her tune. She hugged me for the first time 2 years ago (we've been married 9 years, together for 12) and said she loved me for the first time last year. I have never disrespected them, never challenged them, never been rude or mean, never dared raise my voice with them, and tried for years to get them to like me. Finally, after about 6 or 7 years being married, and his sisters saying I wasn't trying hard enough, I told my husband I was done being around them only to be insulted behind my back (or to my face in Russian). He agreed, cussed his sisters out, told his parents they either got their shit together or they'd never see us again, and then blocked them for 2 months to let's it settle and they finally backed off
@jesussaucedo8133
2 күн бұрын
I'd have reminded your grandpa how Mabiki only very recently stopped being a thing....so like...who cares what he has to say when it's about something completely harmless??
They are still like that. Did you notice how she avoided her question about her own experiences, she still isn’t accepted 😡🤬. She is beautiful and special, a gift from God.
@Eclecticinsanity
19 күн бұрын
I agree that people should be free to love who they want but diversity hinders progress. I understand a society's fight to stay homogeneous, look at what diversity has done to the west. Look at Africa and the ethnic diversity imposed on us by colonial boundaries. Half the time we are fighting each other, same as what is now happening in the west.
@babyt556
18 күн бұрын
Asian people are a people about culture traditions and pride. Someone may break out those customs and be with her if she’s even interested in Japanese men, but that’s like finding a needle in a haystack. And honestly I don’t think it’s because of anything other than it’s now becoming more diverse over there. Give it another 50 years and I’m sure you’ll see more interracial couples or people more open
@EmpressAshe
18 күн бұрын
@@babyt556That's Some Bs That's an Excuse and you know it That's the Cover for the Rayc!sm You could be Proud of your culture But that doesn't mean you should Discriminate against someone else And Dislike Different ppl It gives Ego
@EmpressAshe
18 күн бұрын
@@EclecticinsanityThey did it to African ppl But they Don't want to do it to Themselves But They would Sure Expect Other races to open up for them tho and welcome them But they Won't be open for others
@Eclecticinsanity
18 күн бұрын
@@EmpressAshe The truth is we all discriminate, look at what happened to Asians in the west at the peak of Covid, especially Chinese people. They were beaten up and abused everywhere they went, and this happened in the west; mostly in the united States which is supposed to be a "melting pot". Black Americans openly discriminate against indians all the time, liberals discriminate against conservatives and vice versa. White discriminate against black, black even discriminate against light skin black people. Truth is as much as I love interracial relationships and multi cultural societies, I cannot with a sound mind overlook the benefits of a homogeneous society. And if I belonged to one which works as much as the Japanese society does, I would try my possible best to protect it and keep it that way.
My family is like this. My mom is Japanese from Hawaii (Hawaii born Japanese father and her mom came from Japan as part of a pre-arranged marriage). My father is half Black. My grandfather wasn't rhay-cyst, but my grandmother was. It extended to my sister and I. Typical grandparent experience with my grandfather adoring and spoiling us. My grandmother hated my mom for marrying my father, wnd hated that part of us. The same opinions are shared by my aunt.
“Over my dead body”taken literally good job
@OrientalPearl
2 күн бұрын
😆
This is true. My daughter is black, Hawaiian, & Japanese. Once she was born oh they went slap crazy 😳
@Sol81766
5 күн бұрын
What?
@DrUmarJohnson1
5 күн бұрын
We all wanna know why you didn't reproduce with an African???
@SadeWithTheReceipts
5 күн бұрын
@@Sol81766 What what??
@Shadzkadz
5 күн бұрын
What do you mean they went slap crazy? They slapped your daughter?
@Sol81766
5 күн бұрын
@@SadeWithTheReceipts i don't understand
My grandmother's older brother was stationed in Japan in the 70s, where he met a woman that he fell in love with. They planned to marry, but her family disowned her for wanting to be with a black American. Because of that, she unfortunately took her own life. After her passing, her family sent all of her belongings to my great-grandparents' house in Central Kentucky. I wasn't born until the late 70s but grew up in my great grandparents' house with them. As a child, I always wondered why we had so many Japanese items in the house. I didn't find out why until I was older about why they had those possessions. My grandmother told me that even though my uncle eventually married another woman, his heart belonged to her until his death in 2010. I wish it could have been different for everyone involved.
@TheoCynical
15 күн бұрын
Closed-minds really hinder growth. Some people accept it because it's not happening to them.
@ministerkimberly
14 күн бұрын
This is a tragic and sad story. Their daughter's ❤️ belonged to him & she loved him so much that she'd rather die than live WITHOUT him. What a disgrace for them to have sent all her stuff & 1 St of all for a person to feel that is the only way out. Thank God your great grandparents kept the items. That's a show of concern, care and genuinity.
@eve2099
13 күн бұрын
Wow 😢 this story would make a great lifetime movie to bring awareness to people ❤
@pizzadonutaremyfav8515
13 күн бұрын
That is so sad 😢.
@TheAislynnRose
13 күн бұрын
@@ministerkimberlyi agree. It shows that they considered her their "daughter" as in daughter-n-law more than the parents did by keeping the items in remembeance of her and the special place in his heart.
Thank you for sharing your story with me.
What a measured understanding this girl has. She's not angry just understanding of how it is from the perspectives of those other than herself. I wouldn't be surprised if she is a very intelligent person.
I worked with a Mexican immigrant who was part Japanese. Another Mexican lady I worked with got sick when the doctors evaluated her they told her she had a Japanese ailment. It turned out she had a Japanese grandparent and didn’t know
@susananedo6042
5 күн бұрын
Wow, that's so crazy...
@personified3500
4 күн бұрын
Wym “Japanese ailment”? Sounds kinda racist no? (No judgement towards you but the doctors)
@lmini05
4 күн бұрын
@@personified3500There are ailments that are specific to certain ethnic groups .
@chanmarr8118
4 күн бұрын
That makes sense. There was a time when they banned the Japanese from entering the states or they had issues getting in (don’t fully remember, old history lesson). So they went through Mexico and said they were Mexican to get in. Some settled down there. That’s why you have some Mexicans with Asian features.
@dekeking9416
3 күн бұрын
@chanmarr8118 now ik why chad part mestizo in bleach
I’m white and my hubby is first born son of Chinese parents. We have been married 42 years. His parents met me once and had a huge tantrum, cut him off and have not spoken to him since. As he was the first born son, aan arranged marriage had been expected of him. His parents never met any of our children or my side of the family. He introduced himself to me by saying I was the girl he was going to marry, and he has not wavered in his love ever. Mywhite parents adored him and made him their own son. Race was never in issue in my white family, ever. In the 70’s we were white, black and Asian all smushed together. His parents reaction shucked us all, lol
@fancyIOP
8 күн бұрын
So he still doesn’t talk to his family?… or they keep in touch but not with you and the kids?
@DarkshadeMusic
8 күн бұрын
❤❤❤
@audreywright1101
8 күн бұрын
On the Real, it's so very sad because of this Ignorance, Europeans ( white) are Readily accepted than any other Culture. Why, in a lot of cases, it's the Skin Color. So Toxic and Very Sad! 😔🦊🐾
@mGsr-pr6hh
7 күн бұрын
I think your situation is a little different than this one
@harjad9546
7 күн бұрын
I can see both sides.
She is 1000% beautiful. The fact that she says no one would date her blows my mind
At later stages in life, people get more concerned about staying "safe" with what they know and try to avoid taking risks, combined with the "protective" instinct of parenting, they tend to get paranoid and reject many decisions made by children. This is the main reason anyway, aside from the fewer parents that are jealous of their kids or envy or even hate them. Not all parents are able to control that overwhelming feeling.
lol I’m black and from NYC. I dated a woman from Gifu who was going to school in the US, and this video is absolutely right. She would not bring me around her dad for _anything_ her mom knew and kinda let it happen, but she always said “your dad isn’t gonna like this…” That was about 15 years ago, so who knows how things changed.
@violetsrayreikishop2
10 күн бұрын
You're a traitor to your race
@TheHoodVoice2024
10 күн бұрын
It didn’t Change. And I’ll be glad when black parents start teaching their kids to date black women only
@Jajais4u
9 күн бұрын
You're not lying bro. Similar experience. Her and her friends just wanted to be "bad girls" while studying in New York.
@Jon1LAW
8 күн бұрын
I dated a blasian back in high school. Her mom is Philippines and dad was black. Her mom knew about us but when her dad found out he was tripping hard af threatening me😂 So we did like any teens would do, date on the low and pass letters😂 My homies laughed at me afterwards but we stood 10 toes for whatever bs her dad was on.
@parismkj43
8 күн бұрын
@@Jon1LAWSo he was black and still didn’t like you?!?!? That’s crazyyy 😂 fck himmmm
I’m glad her parents met she’s a work of art!
@johnnymayes212
9 күн бұрын
Hell yeah!!!!
@NeygarzruinedAmerica
Күн бұрын
😂😂😂
My uncle married a Chinese woman back in the 60s and her mother was not against it they were together for 17 years
Grandma disappeared until she saw her grandbaby 😂
Japanese people forget that they used to look more like her originally.
@yvonnemurphy7506
18 күн бұрын
This part!
@ThinkAboutMyComment
18 күн бұрын
They were darker than her
@fritz99911
18 күн бұрын
according to who ? insane afrocentrists ?
@TC-1985
17 күн бұрын
Exactly!
@timekabolden5309
17 күн бұрын
😱💯😤🆗😤🆗😤👏🏾😤👏🏾👏🏾😤
She looks like 30% of Samoan girls 😄
@kaskahea1274
Ай бұрын
Polynesian hair 😆
@AH-vt9zm
Ай бұрын
@@kaskahea1274 😆
@kaskahea1274
Ай бұрын
@@AH-vt9zm 🫶🏽
@NoctLightCloud
Ай бұрын
ikr? I couldn't put my finger on where exactly, but she looks a lot like a pacific islander (if I may generalize like that).
@AH-vt9zm
Ай бұрын
@@NoctLightCloud haha yes you may! It's all good, it's a fact, if you ask any islander they would say the same thing 🤭😆
Nice ❤️🔥 Your parents did good work♥️
Bro this is the first of this mix I have ever seen and I still wouldn’t hit xD
I like her videos. She shows her ghanaian family as well as Japanese. She loves ghana as well as Japan
@Ellisdurell
18 күн бұрын
What’s her channel?
@elormettuh2665
17 күн бұрын
@@Ellisdurellmaurintia eiko
@barbaramay5048
15 күн бұрын
As she should... What a beauty inside and out 💯❤
@Ellisdurell
15 күн бұрын
@@elormettuh2665thanks. I’m gonna check her out. I love the diversity and multi cultural things in these other countries.
@ahhwe-any7434
9 күн бұрын
Mixed ppl prob have it hard enough at is. I doubt they want to hear that much outside bs that know Nothing about what it's like. Ppl have their different cultures, facts. It gets more complicated when there's ppl like her. I'm not mixed & I still don't know what to think about ppl. I can see things from many sides. & I've def had my fallen outs. But All I know is to not say something if it's rude. On screen or not. Although I def think black ppl r generally the most aggressive. & Asians r generally the more withdrawn. I guess if it's the bmaf pair, she never has to worry about sleeping on the left side from the door, & shoving him out every time she hears noises, lol. If it's the ambf pair, I guess she'll bring out his masculinity & he brings out her femininity. Although I have seen quiet black & loud Asians. Usually those blacks rnt their stereotypes tho & those Asians r from Cali, lol. Idk, 1 time I knew this Lao female from there & in her head it's like everybody wanted to fight her & she wanted to fight them. U just exist & it was on. And no, I didn't like her. Not bc I couldn't be about it, she was actually tall... tho , but more like I'm not entertaining ur crazy. Go somewhere
I am Papua New Guinea British ( tan blonde brown afro big smile) living in Australia .my British Dad. Didn't stay with my beautiful mum.. she was a air hostess in PNG. He went on married a Japanese women and lives there. I met him at 25 . When his Japanese wife found out he had a half afro islander child they broke up ( I was born before she married him . My Japanese sis n bro were 15 and 10 at the time . Sis accepted me bro turned his head away... Stigma racism is real...
@dw7312
29 күн бұрын
That’s gross but they would have done it if it was a Chinese or Korean person. So don’t feel bad. AND many white folk too. But overall, most are not racist, just ignorant.
@Jojo-ru1rz
18 күн бұрын
😢
@Hbk-gc7st
18 күн бұрын
Their loss, sweety, not yours.💝
@awesomeirlable
17 күн бұрын
That’s horrible. I’m sorry you had to go through that. I hope you’re doing better in life and surrounded by people that love you and are in a better position to support you
@foxtail803
17 күн бұрын
@@Hbk-gc7st exactly how I feel.i have grand kids now ..blonde gold flecked blue eyes, strawberry red hair crystal blue eyes. With perfect big Islander noses and both are very beautiful and handsome to the point people ask where they are from.... definitely their loss. Have great week
AWESOME ❤❤❤❤! She is amazing ❤❤❤❤
This is kind of what happened with my brother in law’s parents. His mom was Korean and his father is Trinidadian
I’m a much older AA woman and my new beau is Japanese American. We met online and he was Leary to say his ethnicity until I asked his last name. I guess he thought I’d say no you’re not for me. What he is isn’t important it’s how he treats me that counts and it’s in a loving respectful way. We se ourselves in a long relationship and neither of us cares what the world thinks.
@JoSeeFuss
16 күн бұрын
Is he Japanese or is he American? Are you African or American? To be American, means you've dropped the past and joined a MULTICULTURAL group of people. Stop singling and breaking everyone apart with the BS terms.
@anthonydorsey7176
14 күн бұрын
So
@smk4428
13 күн бұрын
I hope it works out. How old are you?
@stellabellafontay9366
13 күн бұрын
Can you sit down with his family❔️Do they know you exist❔️❔️❔️
@dbig48d
11 күн бұрын
@stellabellafontay9366 what does it matter?? Were the only race that willingly get involved in these situations then play victim when it goes bad. The only people i feel sorry for is the kids who had no choice in the situation.
This happened to my cousins parents. Her father was Japanese and her mother is a black American. They were in America. His parents did not approve and for the longest time they refused to acknowledge my aunt. They eventually warmed up to my cousin but it was a bit too late because she had embrace her black heritage and never went over to them.
I didn't even watch this video. I just noticed that when ever concerning asians on the Internet it's always educational and never negative. Must be fkn nice.
God bless you young lady from coming from a black and Japanese family God bless your mother God bless your father and your family and everything
My dad born 1910 and mom, 1917. My dad is Sicilian. My mom Slovak. They didn't tell my dad's parents until my oldest sister was on the way, two years later. Married almost fifty years with five brats ❤️❤️❤️
@swisdom9117
20 күн бұрын
They're still alive? They're over 100 years old, wow!
@elissasangi-hd9om
20 күн бұрын
@@swisdom9117 Thank you Dad passed 1989 and mom, 2000. I miss them, dearly ❤️❤️❤️
@swisdom9117
20 күн бұрын
@@elissasangi-hd9om on! You used present tense so I thought they were still alive. My condolences 😢😢
@wallsttech6881
20 күн бұрын
Those are the same race 🤔
@elissasangi-hd9om
19 күн бұрын
@@wallsttech6881 Better take some geography lessons.
If she moves anywhere else besides Asia she would not only be accepted but embraced. I hope she moves where she has peace ❤❤❤
@D4rthsunny
15 күн бұрын
You know you a damn lie. She'd be exoticsized, and hurt. Yall act like East Asia is the only place that's racist?
@zakithiganyaza5525
15 күн бұрын
I'm thinking that what a beautiful person
@exoticbeautybrina2156
15 күн бұрын
Let her become a famous celebrity and you would see how quickly their tune will change. They would be talking all high & mighty things about her that they know nothing about. They only know about her from what they see on social media. Racism is in every race and country amount each other surrounding etc, based on skin tone darker or lighter and hair and eye colours etc. Jesus says love everyone.
@misse8031
15 күн бұрын
@@zakithiganyaza5525 I know. And she seems to have a beautiful heart as well. She didn't let the pain turn her bitter. 💓💓💓
@seasonalxrandomness
14 күн бұрын
I think she spends a lot of time in Ghana, she's probably more accepted and appreciated there. I know her from her videos in Ghana.
The fact that she didn't have to tell us which grandparents at the beginning is not surprising.
How could you hate such a beautiful creation
Their loss you are GORGEOUS
@DavidHo-nq7np
4 күн бұрын
Doofus
@WowBlankpage
4 күн бұрын
hell no, Rip bloodline
@kristian7316
4 күн бұрын
You gotta point though.
@damienwilliams9010
4 күн бұрын
Shes averge looking
@genevaparker275
4 күн бұрын
I do agree, their lost your gain, you are gorgeous lady!!!❤
Your mother is the real MVP! She broke the curse. Your parents created a beautiful young woman.
@redfieldwong717
10 күн бұрын
Asian women are so beautiful but this is a gross product
@davidsabo405
10 күн бұрын
What curse?
@whitemoonwolf13
9 күн бұрын
@@davidsabo405 zenophobia. japan still has it real bad.
@Basedconquistador
8 күн бұрын
What curse 😂 the being Japanese curse?
@d.a.455
7 күн бұрын
The Japanese are a strong people that still haven’t lost their cultural identity. Hopefully the tiny hats don’t ruin one of the few homogeneous societies left with unrelenting mass migration and race-mixing propaganda like they have in the west🙏
From the grandparents perspective this makes sense and I’m sure their reasonings are valid to them
@KingZNIN
3 күн бұрын
Just like the kkk nuts?
Beautiful result
What a beautiful mixture of both parents ❤
Very true i had a japanese cheerleader and her dad was avery strict and her mom was more welcoming once they met me they allowed her to cheer and realized i supported all of the kids and she was allowed to hang out with my daughter she opened up became less shy her mom has a whole new friend circle and started learning english too❤ like her mom thabked me bc i welcomed the entire family with open arms and they never really had that experience. We live in a predominantly white community im african american and i was the first black coach this school has had and i changed a bunch in 2 yrs brought community and family back into the sports
@MasteIsIllmatic
9 күн бұрын
That’s dope fam.. great story
@doctorxen
7 күн бұрын
You’re awesome dude
@cancandoit
7 күн бұрын
That's awesome ❤❤❤
@KCGB_4LYFE
7 күн бұрын
💪🏾
@quwanegabbidon531
6 күн бұрын
God bless you
Beautiful mixture
The entire point of camaraderie is to become more understanding and accepting of another’s expertise, insights and hardships. Without struggle there isn’t a story worth mentioning; we all struggle alone and collectively regardless. It’s though delving into someone else’s thoughts that we understand our own and how we shape others. Writing off people for a preexisting condition like ethnicity is often fool hearty; skin goes only so deep, prideful ugly ignorance to the bone don’t look good on nobody. When her dad dies, he will cease to be a man of African descent, her grandfather cannot claim that his justifications for his prejudices could easily by the same coin be used to label him undesireable
Would the grandparents disapprove if the man was white, Indian, Italian etc?
@youkorangu
18 күн бұрын
White - accept, Italian- probably accept, close to white, Indian- no, even if he has lighter skin... same with Indians, they will accept a white daughter in law than japanese/ chinese/ black daughter in law or son in law
@ronnie2699
17 күн бұрын
No
@kevindamas3005
16 күн бұрын
yes
@Sonia-pd9bl
16 күн бұрын
Nope!!
@vl1180
16 күн бұрын
No especially if rich
Hey! I was studying abroad in Japan in 1996 and lived there 1999 - 2006. There were black people there… even a couple Jamaican restaurants in Tokyo too. The Nigerian guys were still working in Kabukicho then as well. I’m not saying that the number hasn’t significantly increased in recent years, just that there were black people in Japan back then… hell a data center company I worked for had three of us! Family… actually my wife’s family loves me. Her father was opposed at first, but actually her grandmother (his mother) supported us dating and now.. when we visit every summer, I’m his drinking buddy. The rest of the family and extended family I get along with famously.
@kappy-nf6uh
Ай бұрын
Exactly. I had to disagree when Marintia said, "back then, there were no black people in Japan." In the early 80s, there was a popular African restaurant bulging at the seams night after night, all staffed by people from the African continent. Remember several of them saying how much they loved Japan, wanting to stay. There was also an African American friend who busked five nights a week at Shinjuku station, working by day as an English teacher. Millions passed through Shinjuku station and no doubt many have seen him. He stayed in Japan more than 20 years until he passed. Then there's military bases, so it wasn't as if there were no black people in Japan.
@quakkapoowa453
Ай бұрын
Yes a few stayed after WW2
@JamaicanMillionaire
28 күн бұрын
It depends on where in Japan.
@VVinterl3ear
27 күн бұрын
@@kappy-nf6uh k well don't blame her, blame whoever told her that
@kappy-nf6uh
27 күн бұрын
@@VVinterl3ear Who's blaming who?
I am super happy that my families on both sides approve and the approval came when I met my wife for the third time during our dating phase. We have two very handsome and cute half Japanese half Caribbean British sons, and their Japanese grandparents, relatives, friends of the family and resident community love them to bits! I'm sure a Japanese guy will go for her! She just need to be in the right area for those guys to find her, especially if she is in the Tokyo area for I know lots of guys who would love to be with her as they are seeking a blend of both worlds. She should know... If she acts more Japanese too (she is Japanese), even more so they will definitely want to be with her for more Japanese than ever sees her as their type.
She’s gorgeous! I keep hearing raying my daughter and her husband have kids because they would be so beautiful.
In 2004 a Japanese male friend said this definitely. His family wanted him to *ONLY* marry Japanese, no matter if Aisan, only Japanese. Her rationale was "traceable family lineage"...🥴
@niranjansrinivasan4042
14 күн бұрын
Sounds like my mom lol
@itskarl7575
12 күн бұрын
Like you don't have traceable family lineages outside of Japan.
@RAPSNINO
12 күн бұрын
Traceable IGNORANCE they meant!✌🏾
@d.a.455
7 күн бұрын
@@RAPSNINOyeah preserving your people and culture is so bad and ignorant 🤡
@BarbaraM-lv7pe
3 күн бұрын
@tigerlilly9038, There are over 20,000 Kamon (family crests, similar to European heraldry) in Japan traditionally used by the ruling families and nobility. They are a way to trace Japanese families’ bloodlines and lineage back to antiquity. So they are a big deal in Japanese culture. That is who they are, an island nation. What other island nation utilities pedigree and heraldry? Great Britain of course. They have their precious peerage log books, a veritable who’s who and who slept with or loved whom.
She's very humble and so very beautiful!!! 💜 I have family female cousins that favor her. I am so very sorry that she has experienced this. Our heritage should NEVER be a hindrance. I pray that she remains strong, and always recognize that she is amazing! ♥️
@ShillingCoinsW
13 күн бұрын
In the Beginning....
❤❤beautiful 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Why is everyone so shocked. This happens in the USA with interracial couples of many races.
This is so sad. Why wouldn't any parent simply be happy their child has found someone to share life with.
@elib7311
4 күн бұрын
Because some parents are monsters. I’ve not spoken to mine for over 40 years. Their hate isn’t going to be my lifetime consequence. I have amazing adult kids, and have had a REALLY good life that those two clowns missed out on. My siblings, however, have not had it easy. They were more concerned with approval from parents vs freedom. Bummer.
@LoDubs88
4 күн бұрын
Different time mate. They used to make kids so they had farm workers. Happiness was not a factor, survival was.
@emanueldelacruz1101
4 күн бұрын
@@elib7311 Lol Bloodline matters
@boltmann
3 күн бұрын
At later stages in life, people get more concerned about staying "safe" with what they know and try to avoid taking risks, combined with the "protective" instinct of parenting, they tend to get paranoid and reject many decisions made by children. This is the main reason anyway, aside from the fewer parents that are jealous of their kids or envy or even hate them.
@Jack-ox3rd
3 күн бұрын
Ppl back then were socially more primitive. They didn’t tolerate different cultures as much. Most countries still don’t and even some places in America
She's a beautiful combination of her parents. What an absolute stunner 😍
She’s so beautiful. “Blended” people are really beautiful
Absolutely beautiful young woman and presents herself very well. Hopefully she will be able to travel and experience people's reactions to her out of Japan.
Live your life and consider yourself blessed to not be a part of their mess!! You are a beautiful young lady and have nothing to feel negative about!!
@drose6437
7 күн бұрын
Why tf are you dissing an entire group of people?? Tf?
It’s so sad how many people still choose to live that way hating simply based off skin color instead of actual personality; she is such a genuinely beautiful person, inside and out.
@Nunley85
5 күн бұрын
now the racism in dating has a new name its called a peference lmao
@Gripmagic
5 күн бұрын
Humans have been that way forever, nothing's going to change anytime soon. Also you have no idea what kind of a person she is, she could be raging maniac in real life🤷
@ros2328
5 күн бұрын
Not racism bruh. Japanese people just alienate themselves from any and all cultures
@jillmont3342
5 күн бұрын
@@Nunley85100%
@MustardAndFries
5 күн бұрын
Africans just have a terrible reputation in Japan more so than other foreigners. Foreigners already are seen as lacking Japanese manners and doing things to Japanese women in particular (US military personnel leaving Japanese families after service is widespread). Africans throughout the country are associated with this along with crime and abuse. Famously an African-Japanese TV personality brutally beat his wife before leaving the country.
Marintia is such a nice name. First time i hear that.
I heard somewhere on youtube that almost 2000 years ago some chinese people moved to main island japan south of hokkaido which would later go to be the japanese.
She's a BEAUTIFUL combination of BOTH PARENTS!!!!
When you put different backgrounds of people together in one place things like this happens and there traditions get kicked under the table.
My Bachan got disowned when she married my grandfather. Like, in the papers it said she died in a fiery car crash (my great grandfather, her dad, was in the Diet so it would have looked REALLY bad for someone in the family to marry an American army serviceman).
Hello. My friend is Japanese (mother), and New Zealand Native Maori(father), my friend is 54-yo now. Subscriber from New Zealand.
@conartist_nz
Ай бұрын
Also , my friends father was big-man approx 6ft-2inh, and approx weigh 130-kg (260-lb), and his mother was slender and tiny 5ft lol.
@Ngisa
17 күн бұрын
Lol your point being?😂
@nooneisrightallthetime-zv7hs
13 күн бұрын
@@conartist_nzand your point is? I have two aunts who are Samoan both married to japanese and living in Japan. They are both over 60 years old and have grand kids all living in Japan. It’s not that unique or special by any stretch
My son married a wonderful lady who is Japanese and far as I'm aware her parents and siblings were very welcoming to my son. Our families have no issues. 🥰
@giftedchild9490
12 күн бұрын
Let me guess..you are white?
@animeebaby4786
11 күн бұрын
Are you white by any chance? Not to be rude or anything just asking for clarification on your situation. Because East Asian culture seems to find dating and marrying white Europeans and Americans acceptable but have a massive issue with Africans and African Americans dating/marrying people from their culture. It’s clear see this woman’s parents hid their relationship to the point they waited for the father of mother to die before trying to be an open couple and even still got disapproval. THEY’RE GROWN ADULTS HIDING LIKE TEENAGERS! So if you’re white then that explains why they were “fine” with it unfortunately….
@user-sc8mt5ff4c
11 күн бұрын
Is he white? That usually helps... they're less racist towards white people.
@DA-yy8rs
11 күн бұрын
Well, the ethnicity of a foreigner usually factors into how accepting people are
@DavyDav-og5us
11 күн бұрын
U prolly white
She's so beautiful and speaks so eloquently ❤❤
@waylaidbyfate.5312
3 күн бұрын
Why would she not be beautiful and speak so eloquently? is it the black thing?
@davel4030
3 күн бұрын
@@waylaidbyfate.5312 no it's the most people today don't thing
@waylaidbyfate.5312
3 күн бұрын
@davel4030 no, I think it is the black thing , if she were a Whyte woman or fully Asian, your thoughts wouldn't have went there. Search your feelings and be honest with your self, you'll see that ugly part of yourself that you don't want to face.
I need her @ asap, this is a queen
@ngari117
13 сағат бұрын
she has a KZread channel
My cousins are Japanese and black. Thankfully they grew up on California without prejudice. I have twin sisters that are half Korean and I never got to meet them but know that they faced difficulties growing up in Korea
I've never heard prejudice explained so politely. How cute 🤗... 😐
@ShillingCoinsW
13 күн бұрын
She looks like soooo many here...In the Beginning...Black, Asiatic
I wanna see this video with the IG comment section
Thats very sad i hope she finds someone she loves and that loves her twice as much
I’m Gen-X, have Japanese mom and late dad was American/Caucasian. Grew up at a time when diversity wasn’t as common as it is now. Glad my kids haven’t experienced bigotry and discrimination like I did.
@user-qq2ci4ww9b
23 күн бұрын
Because they are White.
@zeroxthexhero100
20 күн бұрын
I think it's much more rare for people mixed with Caucasian.
@annab3698
19 күн бұрын
@@zeroxthexhero100No it isn’t. It’s usually preferred and more tolerable. I wish there were more half blk and Asian kids as they look better.
@laquandracoleman9476
15 күн бұрын
@@annab3698that is called colorism
@annab3698
14 күн бұрын
@@laquandracoleman9476 No, it’s called my opinion.
A perfect mix she is very beautiful
And this is why when black people say they want to date outside the race. I’m like ARE YOU SURE? As a biracial woman myself (black/Latina), I can say what this young lady is saying is legit and I don’t know if everyone is really ready for this reality. It’s beyond culture. It’s racism.
Bruh it’s wild that Tanjiro killed Muzan before Chizaru can even tell if she actually likes Kazuya Rental Girlfriend has no business not making any progress with that many chapters
She seems smart, very self aware of herself and her environment, but at the same time also very comfortable within herself.
Back then, yes, there were Black people in Japan (I lived there in the ‘80s and ‘90s), but I know what she is saying. I didn’t marry my Japanese boyfriend partially because I didn’t feel like dealing with his parents’ undeserved disapproval.
@user-xv3tl6jp3o
22 күн бұрын
The militàry (including black soldiers) were stationed there. My brother was there and had a Japanese house maid.
@helena3631
20 күн бұрын
She means there was so few y’all take everything litteraly
@ThatGirlJD
18 күн бұрын
@@helena3631There were a lot of Black people in Japan back then. That's the point.
@chamesbrown7307
17 күн бұрын
There are a Black people in Japan , back. Then they could be found in places like Tokyo, but out side the major cities you probably won’t see any
@demetriuspowell29
16 күн бұрын
@@chamesbrown7307it’s not a shit ton tho is what they are saying
Back then it was understandable low key. Interracial relationships weren't liked or approved until recently in America
My 3 children are Blasian (me- Filipina their dad - black American) Beautiful combination.
She's a beautiful young lady..God bless her,and her parent's.
@churchofsatan2041
4 күн бұрын
Stop lying it's gross
@Redridge07
4 күн бұрын
@@churchofsatan2041 Dont hate one's entire life
@monicagaitor6751
3 күн бұрын
Thinking the same thing... SHE IS BEAUTIFUL! 💕🙏
@markgachoka5295
3 күн бұрын
troll harder 😆@@churchofsatan2041
@tonitwitty9529
23 сағат бұрын
@@churchofsatan2041With ur username, I'm not surprised by ur comment. U couldn't even get a woman who looks better than her and u know it that's why u are hating ..hater
She is beautiful and appears to have a kind soul
It's the way she talks gracefully😍🔥
Nice skin tone😊
The stigma still exists but progress is being made 💜
@JoeDuke-PhD
Ай бұрын
Progress is 'integrated'? Why?
@ma.cannon2849
Ай бұрын
@@JoeDuke-PhD people just say anything nowadays there’s no progress 😂😂
@powsniffer0110
Ай бұрын
@@JoeDuke-PhDbecause RACIST ideology is BULLSHIT and has no place in this century. Sounds like you wanna be stuck here in your class and race wars instead of being a 'human' race in space with all of us together!
@Protectyourkin
Ай бұрын
You will simply not really be japanese.
@hadeseye2297
Ай бұрын
You call SELF PRESERVATION INSTINCT a stigma? Where are you from? USA?