Why Is My Ex Stalking My Social Media?

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After a breakup sometimes you might notice that your ex is spying on & stalking your social media. But why would they do this after breaking-up with you?
In this Attraction Tips video I'm going to be discussing the most common reasons why your ex would be stalking your social media & what it means, if anything.
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  • @SkillofAttraction
    @SkillofAttraction Жыл бұрын

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  • @DPhasely
    @DPhasely Жыл бұрын

    My ex would block me and unblock me on Facebook, until I finally deleted my social media accounts except for KZread. It's been a relief for the past 2 years because I've focused on my finances and hobbies. I have no idea what she's doing, but my gut tells me I'm doing better than her. 👍

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    Жыл бұрын

    You probably are doing better. Most women don't work on improving themselves after a breakup, because they tend to have so many options that don't find it necessary.

  • @evanspeprah1996
    @evanspeprah1996 Жыл бұрын

    Love your content...From Ghana west Africa

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much!

  • @Swiss_Girl
    @Swiss_Girl3 ай бұрын

    amazing!!

  • @roberthutchison9904
    @roberthutchison9904 Жыл бұрын

    Not to get all woo-woo but my social media timeline is full of Venus retrograde stuffs right now. If you put any kind of faith in astrology, they say this is a time where exes may come back into the picture. It's good to see you back with another full video!

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    Жыл бұрын

    I've heard that about retrograde too. Thanks man!

  • @sandrewmukhim108
    @sandrewmukhim1084 ай бұрын

    Great video bro 👍👌

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    4 ай бұрын

    Thanks, man!

  • @tdkage
    @tdkage10 ай бұрын

    I just blocked her(and her mom who watched all my posts) from social media. Not being mean, I just don't want to think "what will she think of this" whenever I post something.

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    10 ай бұрын

    You definitely want to break your habit of posting for a woman's reaction or approval, whether it be your ex or any new girls.

  • @tdkage

    @tdkage

    10 ай бұрын

    @@SkillofAttraction Yeah! I hope to control that completely in the future. In the meanwhile, blocking them on social media works for me, but I'll work on just not giving a crap! Thanks coach!

  • @SolitarySoldier
    @SolitarySoldier11 ай бұрын

    I have a hunch my ex made some burner accounts on ig and snapchat to try and get info on me. Reason being her closest girlfriend had 3 mutual friends with me on snap and both of them are not even from my area. What does it mean?

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    11 ай бұрын

    You're probably right...it happens quite often. It's even more common if you're not chasing her, or if you started dating someone else, or if she dated someone else & it didn't work out.

  • @SolitarySoldier

    @SolitarySoldier

    11 ай бұрын

    @@SkillofAttraction i noticed my exes friend didnt have 3 mutual friends on snap after a week too. That happened like 2 months ago. Should i Just wait?

  • @arianamontenegro5528
    @arianamontenegro55283 ай бұрын

    Hi again! This guy I went out and he decided to end things for “now” its just checking my stories. Never reached. And one time he even ignored me.. whats happening?

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    3 ай бұрын

    I couldn't say exactly what's happening. It's very strange that he wanted to end things "for now". It makes me wonder if there is another woman, because when people do something similar to that, & this general behavior, it's often because an ex came back or there's someone else in the picture. However, it's clear that he has at least some feelings for you or he wouldn't be checking your social media.

  • @arianamontenegro5528

    @arianamontenegro5528

    3 ай бұрын

    @@SkillofAttraction oh thank you for answering. So what can I do now?

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    3 ай бұрын

    @@arianamontenegro5528 Without knowing exactly what his motivation is, it's difficult to say for sure where to go from here. If it IS another woman he's putting you on-hold for, then I wouldn't recommend that you wait around & be his second choice. Some people will try to reserve you while they explore their options while you're waiting for them. You always have to see yourself as the prize. So If I were you I would start meeting & dating new men again. If/when he begins reaching out again, you can give him an opportunity, but I would also find out why he wanted to end things "for now". If he was treating you as a second choice, or back-up option, then I would never give him your time again. But in the meantime, if you're dating, you'll be much less anxious. If you wait for him & he's treating you as an back-up option, it will only lower your self esteem.

  • @juliaa.2524
    @juliaa.25247 ай бұрын

    A guy who rejected me 10 years ago suddenly started liking my stories (funny thing is he only likes pictures with my face on it, like mirror selfies), which makes me think he is trying somehow to get my attention.

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    7 ай бұрын

    Sounds like it.

  • @Bearahz
    @Bearahz7 ай бұрын

    Recently a few months ago my ex unblocked me and said he is moving on so why couldn’t i? I never responded however i found out he recently followed my spotify out of nowhere does that means anything

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    7 ай бұрын

    Doesn't necessarily mean anything, but it could. The real sign is wanting to see you & take you out. Most people have difficulty moving on until they meet someone who is equal or better in quality. So getting back out there will really help in this department.

  • @Bearahz

    @Bearahz

    7 ай бұрын

    @@SkillofAttraction if he really loved me he could have been more truthful; but why spend time stalking me?

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    7 ай бұрын

    @@Bearahz I couldn't say for sure without knowing the details, but perhaps there were some things going on in his life you didn't know about...or perhaps you were moving quicker than he was ready for. For most people, when they're not being truthful about those things, it's usually because they're afraid of the confrontation or your reaction to the truth. Weak? Yes. But you can't control what he does...you can only control what you do.

  • @Bearahz

    @Bearahz

    7 ай бұрын

    @@SkillofAttraction well I never responded to him anyways, idk what more he wants but hes not getting anything from me.

  • @XVNRX
    @XVNRX Жыл бұрын

    I don’t even have an ex but I keep doing this with the girl I want 😔 Idk where we stand or she doesn’t know what she wants it seems , wish I could redo last weekend at the beach with her(was a good time) , haven’t talked since last Sunday (when we got back)

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    Жыл бұрын

    Well, it's been a week...ask her if everything is okay. I have a bunch of videos about women pulling away & how to handle it.

  • @XVNRX

    @XVNRX

    Жыл бұрын

    @@SkillofAttraction I don’t want to I thought giving space was the best thing. You told me that last week and the videos say to give space plus I sent the last text message anyways after she asked me a question , I’d be double texting at this point and probably suffocating her at this point , I don’t want to lose her at all but the patience I have sucks and it’s killing me realllllll bad, but I’m not going to give in and just hope she comes to me Just in my thoughts like crazy and it sucks

  • @XVNRX

    @XVNRX

    Жыл бұрын

    @@SkillofAttraction any other advice?

  • @XVNRX

    @XVNRX

    Жыл бұрын

    @@SkillofAttraction I’m going through it man It’s not like anything went wrong when we were there either I just wish things were how they were before

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    Жыл бұрын

    @@XVNRX See the pinned comment.

  • @Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387
    @Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387Ай бұрын

    Mines blocked me on ig but stalks me on Snapchat tiktok and WhatsApp’s not as much as she use to but she sees my stories and screen shots some of my posts and pics

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    Ай бұрын

    Indifference is the opposite of love...& she's certainly not indifferent about you, at least to some extent.

  • @Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387

    @Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387

    Ай бұрын

    @@SkillofAttraction I’ve stayed in no contact it’s almost a month of nc, we’ve been broken up since the end of April what do you recommend?

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    Ай бұрын

    @@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387 I have a playlist full of No Contact videos, explaining every angle of it & what to do: kzread.info/head/PL7GMy6_VPa3IYxZtqP1oQITf4MszqUWES

  • @lmart16
    @lmart16 Жыл бұрын

    Cover alt accounts

  • @SkillofAttraction

    @SkillofAttraction

    Жыл бұрын

    What about them? They don't change what I said here.

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