No-one should ever ask ANY woman why she ain't had a baby yet. That's bloody rude!

@ainamarie1474

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed!!

@melaniefulginiti8426

3 жыл бұрын

I agree ☝️

@MrsAlea-re5rm

3 жыл бұрын

And no one should ever ask when will the woman marry because of her age🙂🙂

@CcHeung24

3 жыл бұрын

Yes and there could be underlying health reasons why she hasn’t... maybe she is having trouble getting pregnant. So many ppl don’t recognize this.

@hittingtax2670

3 жыл бұрын

I don't even think it's right to ask if she wants one or ever wanted one either. None of your business.

Respect to any woman that talks about these things in public.

@serrakroll

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! Love that these topics are getting normalized because it’s okay to talk about it!!

When i met my husband, we had talked about having kids, we had names picked out and everything. May 2015, a year after dating, we got news that he was unable to have children. It weighs heavy on me sometimes. people always ask us if we are going to have kids and how cute our kids would be. they don’t realize the depth of everything and our situation. so please, don’t ask people when they are going to have a baby. it’s very personal and you don’t know what people are going through.

@mansura5409

3 жыл бұрын

but u could have a sperm donor

@nakitabrooks2273

3 жыл бұрын

@@mansura5409 i have a child from a previous relationship who we both love very much, but having a sperm donor isn’t the same and conceiving one with your husband. plus a lot of extra cost. just not in the books for us.

@Kayla-fm2ie

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! I never thought of this. Thanks for bringing it to my attention

@zandraf9104

3 жыл бұрын

I'm in a similar situation. I took the pill for 4 years and I got my period back the month after. I got pregnant after 3 months and was so happy, but miscarriaged. The same thing happened twice, I could never go in to the second trimester without miscarriage. So I decided to go on the pill again as I didn't want to feel the pain of miscarriage. We took tests at the doctor and apparently I have "hostile uterus". So I think I did a good choice, however I get so jealous when people around me have babies like they breath air

@WrittenFromTheHeart.

3 жыл бұрын

Or when people are going to get married cuz they may be sturggling to find a spousr

I, as a 23 year old, appreciate the birth control conversation. It's important

My husband and I have been trying for 4 years now. We have decided that if we don’t get pregnant this year it’s time to adopt. We know we were meant to be parents and we will one day. 🥰

@tiffanyrojas2738

3 жыл бұрын

You are going to be an amazing mom, and you can change a kid's life

@ferly10

3 жыл бұрын

@@tiffanyrojas2738 aw you’re so sweet. Thank you so much! 🥰

@zozoeliza

3 жыл бұрын

best of luck ❤️🥳

@Barbied0llfashion

3 жыл бұрын

I recommend the book It starts with the egg, if you haven’t read it yet! It really helped me and my partner

@ferly10

3 жыл бұрын

@@Barbied0llfashion I will have to check that out thank you!

I love the girl chats. As a young girl who doesn't have an older sister these are really helpful. They answer questions I didn't even know I had. Thank you and please do more if you can .

@melaniefulginiti8426

3 жыл бұрын

I agree ☝️ 100%. I am a young woman who doesn’t have an older sister as well

@Mary-ir8ct

3 жыл бұрын

I completely agree!

@jodiansley8932

3 жыл бұрын

i agree, you should definitely do more of these!!🤍 love the vlog!❤️

@fienlinthout7821

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah same

@heleliawakalala3563

3 жыл бұрын

So true

It’s crazy how when a woman is in her 20’s people always ask about marriage then once she gets married all they ask about is babies 😩 People need to stop pushing people to make huge life decisions when they’re not ready

@christellerock7508

3 жыл бұрын

Yes it is you can hear it in the tone of their voice when they ask.

@account10558

3 жыл бұрын

@Athena Procyk It doesn't matter it's rude and it bothers others so don't do it.

@account10558

3 жыл бұрын

@Athena Procyk Did you even watch the video? Whether you think it is or not, it is very clear that lots of people do. It is so disrespectful to completely disregard someone else's feelings just because YOU personally don't have a problem with it. If you don't mind if people ask you then great, but a lot of people do so you need to respect that boundary for others. Just read the comments and you'll see how many people it bothers.

@account10558

3 жыл бұрын

@Athena Procyk You are COMPLETELY missing the point. I know that you think it's overly sensitive. You don't have to agree with her. But it's a problem when you disregard other people's feelings because they don't match yours. Have some decency. You can disagree but you should still respect it and act accordingly. I'm sure you wouldn't like it if someone knew something bothered you but continued to do it anyway because they didn't care about your feelings.

@account10558

3 жыл бұрын

@Athena Procyk You can't be serious?? People on KZread are humans too. You should treat them the same way you would anyone irl. Once again, just because you're curious doesn't give you the right to ask. It's quite literally none of your business. Yes people put their lives out there but not all of it and that doesn't mean they should be treated any differently or respected any less.

just listening to Jess say that she’s talking to us like she’s our friend makes so happy because i haven’t made any new friends in my school year this year and it’s been hard for me

@hilaryhernandezcespedes6180

3 жыл бұрын

the right friends will come at the right time, trust your timing ❤️

@giselleariel

3 жыл бұрын

@@hilaryhernandezcespedes6180 Thanks 🥺

@hannahjohnson7777

3 жыл бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@andreeab2948

3 жыл бұрын

I hear you... 😔 Its hard

@sdalloz698

3 жыл бұрын

learn to appreciate your own presence and to enjoy life only with you. Pray also it will help you and it will get better . xoxo love

The whole pregnancy thing is a “problem” as soon as a woman is 20+. It gets worse if you are in a long term relationship or even married. It’s super insensitive to ask! Not everyone WANTS or is ABLE TO HAVE kids. Life isn’t a check list where you need to do certain things at a certain age. It’s a whole mindset within our society. As soon as you have a kid they will ask about the next one. Because EVERYONE should have at least 2 kids, right!? NO ... I understand that the topic is annoying .. but you might have to be harsher about it. Some people are just ignorant.

@ainamarie1474

3 жыл бұрын

It’s super annoying how people expect everyone to follow the same life timeline, and ask personal questions like this so much. Your frustration is totally justified. 😅

@ferielfifi1297

3 жыл бұрын

@@ainamarie1474 👏👏👏

@jizzadimayuga2728

3 жыл бұрын

Louder for the people in the back

@aricarly

3 жыл бұрын

And even after you have 2 kids people still bother... My mom had my sister and me in her early to mid-30s, but I remember being a tween/teen of 11 to 15, and people asked my mom out of the blue if she was planning to have another baby, and if she wanted to have a boy. She said she was more than happy with 2 girls and that she was already 43-47, but so many people are so invested in other's family planning as if it was their own.

@Grace-rh4em

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed! And when you have 3+ kids, and express that you aren't done, people turn around and tell you you're crazy. I haven't personally experienced that, but I grew up in a Christian home school community and it was common to be around families that had way more than 3 kids. When I was younger, I used to think having more than a few was crazy, but now as an adult it's really about whatever the parents decide. Ps, this response is from a woman who is perfectly fine without ever having kids.

Um, Milo is Baby Conte. Respect the little man 🥺 Also, not everyone wants or needs kids. Jess was right. It is incredibly insensitive to ask things like that. Yes their lives are public because they’re influencers, but there still needs to be some boundaries and respect.

Just an FYI for young people here who doesn’t know: there are a lot of different types of birth control, so If one didn’t work for you there might be one that will. That’s why it’s extremely important to consult your gyno before taking any or if you’re planning to change it.

@AnaKarinna

3 жыл бұрын

I felt it was important to say this here because I saw a lot of girls thinking they only had the choice to either leave it or keep suffering the consequences. And even though it should be common knowledge not everyone knows that not every contraceptive pill is the same. They vary in components and quantities. If you want to leave it completely is ok! But if you don’t, just know that you shouldn’t have to keep suffering “side effects”, just keep searching for the one right for you.

@gabrielam2795

3 жыл бұрын

@@AnaKarinna 👏👏👏👏👏 I feel like many young people will think jess suggests getting off ALL contraceptives, (don't think that). Contraceptives are so important and helpful to many people. So go consult with a medical professional. :)

@CK-jm7sq

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! There are so so many versions. If you need to be on a BC pill, try diff versions. The myth that the more you switch the worse it is is false :)

I wish I could go off birth control as it's making my hair fall out and I'm gaining weight bc I'm hungry all the time, but if I did my hormonal acne would come back and that's just too scary :(

@AnaKarinna

3 жыл бұрын

It’s not the right pill for your body. If you don’t want to go off it, go with your gyno and ask him/her. They’ll recommend one with other components.

@mariannabenedetto2049

3 жыл бұрын

Same girl. But I got off anyways. There are natural options to balance your bdy. After 110 says without my period (because of going off the pill) I finally got it. I'm taking a combo of some badass natural pills that my med recommended. :)

@hannahjohnson7777

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you can find a solution for that in the future and be able to slowly come off the birth control. Much love! ❤❤❤

@deviparahita752

3 жыл бұрын

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@sierraslater281

3 жыл бұрын

Try progessence plus!!!!

your transparency is so appreciated and that’s one of many reasons why we love you❤️

@Auroranna

3 жыл бұрын

true

@graddyessabe1775

3 жыл бұрын

So True

I 100% understand the whole pregnancy thing, I personally will struggle due to having pcos & endo, being asked when you’re gonna have a child can really hurt, but I think most people don’t realise this Birth control doesn’t work for everyone, it made my cycle way more painful, but I will eventually have to take it again to manage my pcos & endo

@mathildeflury8975

3 жыл бұрын

Please watch the "Physicians committee" here on KZread and also Dr. Neal Barnard's videos about this subject especially endometriosis! They are literally life changing since he explains really well how to reverse these kind of diseases and how we're all so misinformed on the subject!! 🙏🏼💗🌟

@aboundinggrace7029

3 жыл бұрын

Please read Humanae Vitae and Donum Vitae for this topic.

3 жыл бұрын

Totally get your way. I have hypothyroidism and PCOS. I was on birth control and decided to stop. I went to see a naturopath to help me ans we tried everything and nothing worked. My acne was so bad and doctors told me to go on accutane but I didn’t want to so I decided to go back to birth control and try a new one. Was really hard at first to adapt but now my skin is smooth and I feel way better. Sometimes it’s hard to find alternatives

@jizzadimayuga2728

3 жыл бұрын

I also have endometriosis and im getting married this May. Im praying God will bless me with kids.

@pavneet7732

3 жыл бұрын

So do i I’m still confused on what pcos is and especially as a young girl with no one older to look up to this video is very helpful as many doctors have told me to go onto the pill

So important for girls and women to be making informed decisions about their body, and I think this video will help so many! 💞

@nataliejk27

3 жыл бұрын

YES!

@anne-kathrinhilscher5911

3 жыл бұрын

YES, definitely

i love that you’re talking about serious women topics! and also love how open & transparent you are

I so appreciate you approaching birth control and pregnancy with such grace and caution for those of us who struggle with infertility. I gave birth to a stillborn daughter a year ago in January, and we have not been able to get pregnant since. Although I am so happy for those who share their journey with pregnancy, I would be lying if I said it didn’t hurt a little. I appreciate you so very much for sharing your heart.

@Barbied0llfashion

3 жыл бұрын

I read the book It starts with the egg, and it really helped me with my fertility journey. I hope it can help you too if you haven’t read it already. I also had a pregnancy loss, it will get better and I hope you don’t give up 💕

@nosurrender5987

3 жыл бұрын

You are so strong. Thankyou for existing😊💛

@nosurrender5987

3 жыл бұрын

You are so strong. Thankyou for existing😊💛

I know she probably felt silly being too happy when she got her period, but I get it, especially if your period is very irregular u get kinda nervous about your chances of being fertile so I feel relieved when I get it... I don't even think about having kids, I'm not married or anything, but it's still a relief when I get it:)

@EL-ksvkv

3 жыл бұрын

wait so if you don't get your period for a long time it has something to do with your infertility? cause i have friends who don't get period for months and don't take any birth control pill

@isabelleedwards1815

3 жыл бұрын

@@EL-ksvkv That could be a due to a number of different factors, including stress. When I was doing my exams, I didn’t get mine for nearly 4 months.

@joycenakka8292

3 жыл бұрын

@@EL-ksvkv or it could be an underlying problem, my friend had irregular periods for 4 yrs and when she finally got it checked turns out she had a cyst on her right ovary, now she is taking pills to rectify the situation (it's not always infertility it can be anything, just get it checked and be safe❤️)

@justanotherclipschannel

3 жыл бұрын

​@@EL-ksvkv not necessarily but some girls find out they're infertile after struggling with their period... it's best to see a gynecologist and find out what the issue is tho just in case

@sophiaB270

3 жыл бұрын

I had irregular periods for a few years, but as I grew up more they became more and more regular and at the minute I'm pretty sure its all normal! I definitely used to be stressed about it and when I got my period after a longer break, the first emotion was "yesss!" - like it meant I was healthy and it was okay? Idk, but I get the feeling.

It’s so so heartbreaking when people ask about babies when you literally can not ! I took birth control for 9 years (for PCOS). I stopped once I got married with the intention of getting pregnant and I cannot. It’s devastating.

@butdoyouknowjesus4121

3 жыл бұрын

Not trying to be insensitive in any way, I’m very sorry that you can’t have children of your own, not meant to diminish your situation, but have you considered adoption?

@sheemadaniel6454

3 жыл бұрын

Im so sorry :( I didn't even know that could happen

@Lee-sg2id

3 жыл бұрын

I actually have pcos and it’s very hard. But I’d love to share a page that has helped me a lot with pcos. Specially cause I’m really young. Her page is pcos.weightloss although she does talk about weight loss she mostly talks about healing your pcos. And fortunately I have healed my symptoms! I just really am passionate about sharing pcos and sharing about possibly healing pcos.

@ameliagray1618

3 жыл бұрын

@@butdoyouknowjesus4121 girl the sad truth is a lot of people would rather love children that come from them than someone else.

@butdoyouknowjesus4121

3 жыл бұрын

@@ameliagray1618 yeah... I think you are right.

I'm 43...I'm not even falling into your typical viewer age group. You guys are so soo lovely , giving me hope for the next generation. The youths could learn a lot from you guys. 😘

I hadn’t noticed you being a “more polished version” before like you said, but I do feel like you seemed more natural, or more laid back this video 😁 I enjoyed it!

i would've loved if you'd talked more about your experiences on birth control, what effects you've experienced. ive been on the pill since august and still have no clue if i experience negative effect because i dont know what those are lol. i don't know what is normal.

@denisse1485

3 жыл бұрын

Been on the pill for 4 years now and I really like it. If you have any bad mood swings, bad acne, pain, or just feel off overall, then you should consider changing it. If not, you should be fine ☺️

@kinguss_lol

3 жыл бұрын

@Paulina But how do I know that they are side effect? For example I am an emotional person anyways, how do I know if the pill makes it worse?

@kennuhhhh

3 жыл бұрын

you could google what side effects are normal for your type of birth control. most common side effects are depression, anxiety, some people feel sick, get headaches, mood swings, really bad acne, etc

@valeriehoward6482

3 жыл бұрын

Migraines can also be a side effect, feeling depressed etc that happened to me and I had to switch!

@devanshae4051

3 жыл бұрын

I was on it for a little over a year before I realized it was big part of making me feel mildly depressed and anxious. I was dealing with the pandemic like everyone else so naturally I was more emotional already, but I was at the point where I was pretty much crying every day and was not acting like myself. I stopped like 2 months ago and it's amazing how much better I've been feeling! It could have definitely been the brand, so when I have to go back on it one day I'm hoping a different one won't have the same effects. Some people don't get any side effects though, so you might just be fine!

I can definitely tell a difference with your chill, talking-to-a-friend-on-Facetime vibe this video! It was a refreshing break from the KZread "performativeness" you were talking about. My husband and I think you and Gabe are such special people; we value your content!

I agree with the whole “ oh is she pregnant” . I once’s typed on a pregnant comment you had ( she has a fur baby leave her be ) x Live ur life babe 👑

i literally love your transparency, thank you for speaking up to ur audience 🤍

@cosmica522

3 жыл бұрын

Hey I’m starting out on KZread and it would mean the world if you could check my KZread video out and let me know your thoughts! 💖

Those scenes where you stumble over your words or almost drop the hair mask, make you even more likeable. You are awesome!☺️💛

I didn't even realize the sweater shrunk until you said something! it's so cute!!

I watched Kyla Beland’s coming off birth control journey and she has a crazy (good) transformation as well. Thank you Jess for talking about this!!

I really appreciate Jess wanting to make her videos more personal like keeping in parts where she stumbles over her words 🥺 it makes it all seem so much more genuine I love it

I love that you're always so honest with us. Honestly, I get that whole youtube persona thing but it's never truly felt like you weren't being yourself. You're a great inspiration, I love the work you're doing

I love how she spoke about brith control and wasn't trying to force anyone to do what she did, a very thoughtful thing to do.

Thank you so much for posting this! Literally yesterday I was at the doctor trying to decide what was best for my body, it is just comforting to know that I’m not the only person going through this and that there are resources to help!

Yes I totally get this! I just had a baby 7 months ago and it's always "When are you having another baby!" "You can't have just one!" "Don't you want to try for a girl?" And it's frustrating!!! I'm off of hormonal birth control now and it feels so much better after being on it for a year and a half and then immediately getting pregnant! Congrats on listening to your body and taking control of your life!

@keertichand6757

3 жыл бұрын

I get this all the time too. Even friends who I have told countless times that I don’t want another kid and know of all reasons why I don’t want another keeping pushing the idea that I must have more than one kid. I used to get very worked up and upset in the beggining but now I’m slowly just learning to say no and not having to explain why.

Jess always has this light around her that brings some peace when she’s talking. Thank you for sharing your life with us. ❤️may God continue blessing you 🙏

Jess: putting on her wedding dress on a random afternoon, sends Gabe a quick snap and takes it off again Also Jess: getting ready, curling her hair, doing her makeup to put on bridesmaid's dress 👌🏼

“Milo, you’re really ruining the moment rn.” 😂

The fact that Jess keeps us so updated that some of us already knew what was in the box from Australia is just 🙌🏻

so interesting hearing others' opinions on this topic. i've been taking birth control since I was 16 and it's never bothered me!! however recently been thinking about going off for a while just to see what it is like. thanks for opening up about this :)

I went off the pill after being on it consistently for 8 years and it’s the best decision I’ve ever made for myself! I also struggle with extremely painful periods but I feel so much better mentally not being on the pill. Birth control definitely affected my mental health in a negative way.

@vanerico4925

3 жыл бұрын

The same as me. I am so much happier than before. The pill affect mentally, always sad and crying a lot. I have 3 months free obviously taking care because I don’t want kids soon but much happier

@mariannabenedetto2049

3 жыл бұрын

SAME.

@sarah2576

3 жыл бұрын

Me too! I was never depressed until I started birth control. I stopped it after 5 years and feel like myself again

Thank you so much for sharing your story Jess, it’s such a nice change to have someone be so honest about where they’re at and the journey they’re on. I really appreciate you talking so openly. Also, it’s so important to talk about the pregnancy subject, keep sharing it!

Would love an update on going off the pill! I think having these “girl talks” can be helpful because a lot of us are going through similar situations and we can relate to each other!

Jess all your vlogs feel like we are your friends having a conversation with you! I really love that so much. 💛

The clips at the beginning of this video are so a esthetically filmed and pleasing to the eye, I just wanna pause the whole time and take screenshots.. The way the room looks with Milo on the bed, Gabe and Jess hugging in the kitchen, even the bathroom clip. EVERYTHING is so aesthetic

I absolutely loved your transparency and authenticity and all the clips you would normally cut out. Thank you for making the effort to keeping them in

I love the girl chats Jess! Especially during right now during quarantine because I can’t visit my friends right now cause of Covid . They live in different states. I’m actually on my period right now lol so these girl chats do help. I do get really moody and emotional on my period. I start crying at the most random times. And about every other month the cramps hurt so bad to the point where I can’t go to work cause it hurts so bad. I was on birth control but I had to stop taking it when I got hit by a car 7 years ago and I was on other medication so I had to stop taking it to prevent blood clots but I haven’t gotten back on it since. And I do agree that it does feel good to be off it. I even asked my boyfriend if he wanted me to be on it. But, he expressed to me that it’s my choice, but he’d rather me not be on it cause of the negative side effects. But all in all this was refreshing! I can’t wait for more girl chats. Thank you Jess!

Girly chat starts at 7:32 🖤

@anupammathur8618

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks

I appreciated this talk because I think a lot of women struggle with should I get on the pill should I not?? And it feels like such an obligation either way. I’m so happy you feel a weight has been lifted and I pray you get it raise your baby around your family like you dream of. God is with you xx

Nooo the sweater looks super cute like that I never would have noticed it shrunk ! Also omg Jess’s book looks so cute! ✨ and as for opening up about this, thank you so much for being so vulnerable and sharing with us! You have inspired me to open up about this topic now. My husband and I have been together since I was 15, got married when I was 22, and now I’m 27. We have been getting the baby questions since I was like 18... in college I was diagnosed with endo and was told I had a 50/50 chance of having a baby and I was crushed. The question destroyed me every time I got asked. I got off birth control 3 years ago (not to get prego but because I was over putting chemicals in my body) we were scared of getting pregnant before being ready, but my husband was super supportive of me getting off of it. I feel sooooooo good now being off and just really learning how to listen to my body. It’s a really special thing and I truly believe I will be able to have a baby one day by when the time is right. Or in God’s time lol 🙈 anyways wow this was long... again just want to say thank you for opening up 💛✨

really love how you kept in when you struggled with talking instead of cutting it out. does feel like i’m talking to a friend on the phone. ❤️

The fact that you have more mature content doesn't mean that your content it's not "clean", based on values or done with integrity! As time goes by you're growing up so it makes sense that your content changes along with you. I personally love it and if you're fine with it then everyone should. This goes from someone that has experienced something similar with growing up. ❤️ God bless! 🙏

@sunflowergarden9794

3 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY

Wow I’m so proud of you for talking about this. It’s nice for me(25 years old) to see someone going through something similar to me and knowing I’m not alone. Thank you for being candid on such a sensitive topic💕

Jess, I have to comment this! I rarely comment but I felt like you deserve to know what your audience love about you. I loved the raw, casual talk... So much has developed over the years, there's already a lot of perfection out there, and I get it that as influencers, you try to portray the best to us which is awesome! But sometimes just random conversations, be it tripping over your words, or looking lost in a video, even the sound of the pool, trust me it felt therapeutic, and basically just sharing what your heart wants to convey atm just feels like a facetime call w my mom which is so refreshing 😍 Love you sm and I hope you get to read this:)

I absolutely loved getting to hear about what's been going on in your life and your decision regarding birth control, Jess. You have a beautiful perspective on life and I'm excited to see how your intentional vulnerability encourages others :)

@zarahshabs7936

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed

Jess: *talking about how her sweater’s arms are awkward length now* Me: *sitting here being like “whaaaat? All my shirts and sweaters’ are that length because of how long my arms are”* 😂😂

You an gabe are one of the few people i know who are genuinely themselves and utterly good people. So seeing u talk about things which are helpful to others and just knowing that it is an advice or information coming from a genuine and honest person like you, i have no doubts. This vlog was so calm i loved it! ♥️

1000000000% I felt so much more “human” being off the pill. It made me this version of myself I had never felt or seen before and I hated it. Going off the pill was one of the best decisions I have ever made hands down!!!

I love how Jess is being more natural on camera and I’ve noticed that you are becoming more confident and it’s so refreshing to see especially because of my age as I’m 18 so it’s nice to see ❤️

@serrakroll

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! I love watching confident young women because their confidence definitely catches my eye and it makes you strive to become a more confident person everyday!

I’m 21 and I love your vlogs!!! You’re so satisfying to watch on KZread, such genuine people! Your growth & accomplishments always make me so happy to watch! May god continue to bless the two of you in your marriage 💕

wow, jess! you are such an inspiration. thank you for talking about hard and personal things! you use your platform in such an encouraging way and we appreciate it!!!

So glad you brought this up!! I’ve been off it for about 3 years and it’s felt (health wise) so much better knowing what’s going into my body!

I'm so sorry everyone tells u all the time about pregnancy, that must be a lil overwhelming :( we love u!!! I'm so happy u got ur period back!!! And you feeling better!!! Kisssessssss

I love how cute and funny Milo is! 😂 he kinda just roams around sniffing for new trails and boxes to see if there’re any new toys for him! 😂

Omgsh yes👏 I love that you shared this! I went through the same thing last year- I got off the pill because it was affecting so much of my life and my mood and I read the same exact book and loved listening to interviews by her and KZread videos by girls who were struggling with the same thing and it felt so so good to not be alone! And I felt that weight lifted, and a year later I can easily say it was the best thing I did for my body🤍 just know that this will help other girls who have been wondering what to do and you’re so amazing for sharing your journey!

Ive literally just found you and Gabriel and im full obsessed. You guys are so real and kind hearted and I love how you include your faith

I love how you talk to us like we are your real, true friends 💛

@hendreackermann9389

3 жыл бұрын

Yes I totally agree. It feels like she is just a friend/sister having a conversation with us. 💛

@silvia135

3 жыл бұрын

@@hendreackermann9389 I’m just sad that we can’t talk to her too 🥺

@hendreackermann9389

3 жыл бұрын

@@silvia135 yes me too!

best timing, done with the jess&gabe vlog and i can just go on and watch this one 🤩 love you Jess, i hope you have a good day ☺️

I’m so glad you had this girl chat and I hope you include more of these girl chat segments in the future! I’m so glad you were transparent about what you were going through. I can’t relate since I’m on the pill for hormonal acne and it’s saved me, but I know you talking about this has helped some women in the comments! Sending you lots of love x

Jess! I don’t know if I missed it or overlooked it, but we need a house tour on the Jess and Gabe channel! Love you guys! ❤️

@estephanieg3587

3 жыл бұрын

no “ need “ a house tour . it’s also their privacy &’ if THEY want to share their home &’ how it looks like they can do so . yes they do share their life , yes they have a beautiful home but also it’s just up to them if they don’t then they don’t &’ if they do cool it’s a beautiful home that they made themselves give them time to enjoy it. ♥️

@QuestioningLifeDecisions

3 жыл бұрын

You don’t ‘need’ a house tour you want a house tour and they owe you nothing, if they want to show their house off they will, they probably won’t do a house tour till they leave that house like they’ve done with ALL their apartments/condos before

I really like these kinds of girly chats! It really feels like you are talking to a friend. Would love to see more of them 💓💓

Absolutely loved this vlog Jess... it really does feel like I'm just chilling with my bestie 💕

loved this vlog so much! The girl chat, the interacting camera shots and graphics on the screen, the range of content. So good! 🦋🤍

28 year old mom of three here! I really enjoy this style of vlog as well. As for the babies and birth control stuff, I’m so glad you are experiencing such positive benefits from being off it. The natural and more holistic living approach is really a journey. I remember when I first started going down that route, I felt so overwhelmed with all the things that I needed to change. Or things I didn’t even think about! Now I look back 6 years ago and just think “wow, I can’t believe how different we live now!”. Looking forward to hearing more about how things go for you, as you are off it longer. 💛

love that you're being more real and open. I feel like you hold back and I feel like we mainly know you as Jess and Gabe but not as Jess Conte, I would love to see more videos of you being more genuine and raw from just you alone :)

i’m 14 and i agree i am one of the younger viewers but i understand a lot of things she talks about.

Thank you so much Jess for opening up with us and being yourself in the video❤️🥺 ily

I can’t begin to explain how I feel watching this video and reading all the comments about this subject that a lot of women deal with , I’m actually tearing up , it’s like you’re not alone ... thank you Jess for your transparency and I would really love it if you continue talking about this and keeping us updated so we keep all try to fight it together !!

birth control is honestly super annoying. I gained a lot of weight and I was super emotional when I was on it!!

@eg4767

3 жыл бұрын

It made me sooo flat, i didnt feel any emotions! It works different for everyone, though i do feel like it works negative for a loooot of people :(

@aboundinggrace7029

3 жыл бұрын

Please read Humanae Vitae and Donum Vitae for this topic

@ainamarie1474

3 жыл бұрын

There are so many side effects!

@KawaiiStudioO

3 жыл бұрын

what do u use then? i'm just curious

@Elle-savedandloved

3 жыл бұрын

I guess it depends on each person, my gynecologist just changed my prescription when i complained about my pill giving me acne and it became kinda better ,not like the first time i took a pill but.. Honestly can’t with hormones😅

Pcos is a topic that needs more attention. Doctors just give the birth control as a blanket treatment. Thanks for taking about this

@xosummerdaysxo

3 жыл бұрын

Totally agree!

@LouiseGayo

3 жыл бұрын

Yes I hate it!!

@itsgreyy

2 жыл бұрын

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Oh my goodness Jess THANK YOU for adding captions to that serious chat party of your video!!! As a person learning to become as ASL interpreter you have no idea how awesome that is to see. I understand captions can be a long, taxing addition to make in editing but girl it is so worth it. I can’t speak for the community but I can’t even imagine what someone who is Deaf feels seeing that you added your own! Please consider continuing to add captions to your videos! Accessibility is easily forgotten about but incredibly important! 🤍

love these kind of chats thank you for being so transparent!! I know a lot of people that have had bad experiences with birth control and have stopped taking it as well, I don’t know if I’ll ever take it based off of what I hear about it

“milo, you’re really ruining the moment rn”😂😂

Im so scared of birth control as well, personally I don’t like putting things in my body that are not necessary. I know many girls that don’t have good experiences with BC

@AnaKarinna

3 жыл бұрын

Your body knows what it needs. There are a a lot of types of pills some stronger than others so ask your gyno which one she/he recommends for you. When I started mine (because I had really bad periods), my gyno asked me to track any symptom in case my body had any reaction so we could change it for one with other components, thankfully I didn’t. If you have any symptom it’s because it wasn’t the right pill for your body, but don’t be scared to find out.

@leylarose6599

3 жыл бұрын

@@AnaKarinna if she doesn't need it for cramps or other biological issues she shoudln't have to take it lol. There are many other safer contraceptives like condoms, contraceptive cups, diaphrams, etc. that are less invasive and won't cause long term damage.

@AnaKarinna

3 жыл бұрын

@@leylarose6599 of course she doesn’t HAVE to, but if she wants to there are less invasive pills. That’s why it’s important to consult a gyno for any contraceptive method. You can’t just go around taking anything without medical recommendations.

@georgakely158

3 жыл бұрын

What most women aren't told is that BC pills does long term damage to your hormones/metabolism. Part of the reason why women find it hard to lose the weight they put on while on the pill

@leylarose6599

3 жыл бұрын

@@AnaKarinna She doesn't have to take a pill is my point. It can cause hormonal damage is proven in multiple studies and not to mention side effects. Just because you do it doesn't mean everyone else should. I'm all for safety and if women go through so much already why add more to give your body stress and potential long term damage? Not WORTH IT.

I would love an entire video about how the pill affected you and how it feels once you’re off, maybe even the supplements you used as well. This has been a huge part of my journey the past year or two and has been so so hard. Thanks for being so genuine 🤍🤍

Jess you are so down to earth and wholesome. Always find it relaxing to watch your videos. Thank you for your dedication and loving-kindness.

I was so hypnotized by the mirror in her bathroom that I laughed so hard when she pointed it out ahah

Woohooo.....A Jess and Gabriel and a Jess vlog🥳🥳

Thank you for being so vulnerable with your audience. You and Gab both help so many people and change their lives for the better!!!💛

Thank you so much for sharing! I felt so much better mentally and physically after getting off of birth control! Doing what’s right for you around subjects that aren’t always discussed is such a helpful reminder. Hope each month feels better- and for less painful symptoms!

Thankyou Jess, for everything, literally, you are so loved I hope you know that (btw just finished the jess and gab vlog)

@cosmica522

3 жыл бұрын

Hey I’m starting out on KZread and it would mean the world if you could check my KZread video out and let me know your thoughts! 💖

whenever i watch jess’s vlogs i feel like we’re on facetime together and it’s so fun ☺️💖

Love these honest sit down chats. I had heard about the possible negative effects, doctors suggested going on the pill to me because of bad periods, but I'm glad now I stuck to my gut feeling and avoided it. It has actually pretty much regulated itself and is not as painful once I stick to a good diet and exercise regularly. And it was so sweet how you're so excited to have youe period back!xx

You totally were making since for sure! And I’m glad you spoke about the pregnancy comment FOR YOU and for your heart. It’s hard to defend our feelings and what we need and want sometimes but it’s totally okay! And you did it gracefully. Love you sis! I want you to be happy.

I always find it so interesting when other people talk about their birth control. I would love another update on how you are getting on.

Lots of ❤ to Jess and Gabriel. 2nd vlog on the trot for us fans.

Firstly Jess fellow Aussie here and I’m in my nearly 40’s and I have watched you pre engagement and I love how true and honest you are. I myself have experienced problems for many years with bad periods and it’s so helpful having someone be open and explain their side. Love your vlogs (and gabs) and sending virtual hugs from Australia stay safe

You’re so pure and sweet Jess. Thank you.

I was experiencing really bad periods as well and started taking the pill when I was 16. Due to some unrelated issues I had to take a break for 3 month and it was worse then ever before. So no one should tell anybody to take the pill or not take the pill. You need to figure out what is right for you and your body.

Could u one day do a video on your entire house process. Buying, building, decorating etc. Love you guys❤❤❤

Woohoo I am so happy about this. I could really sense that you were trying to be very polished. I am the same with my instagram so i made a new account where i don't allow myself to edit or filter anything and to just be more me and it is such a great feeling. Hearing and seeing you be more real was really content that made me feel content. I hope you continue like this, its hard with so many haters but it's important to see flaws otherwise girls compare themselves to polished versions of people that's impossible to obtain. I was one of those girls and felt disappointed in myself a lot because of this. Thank Jess and please feel free to be more raw and honest.

I was diagnosed with PCOS last year at 20 yo and I’ve been on birth control since I was 17 and I want to see a hormone/naturalist about correcting my hormones instead of taking the pill. This is a really important conversation to have, so thank you! You’re awesome!