I spent a lot of time thinking about an example set by a family member. He had commented his interest in my hair and noted that he himself had had long hair in the past, but as he got older he'd looked to simplify - to distill things down to the essentials. He had a weeks worth of the same, durable white t-shirts and black pants, and he buzzed his hair. To him these elements were not essential to achieving what he looked to get done in the day, and so he simplified it down. Whenever I found myself wrestling with complexities in my life, or whenever I felt there to be too much on my plate, I tried to relate to this view. I began to feel that time spent waiting for my hair to dry, or opportunities avoided because complexity introduced by my hair were taking away from me achieving the best me. At the time I didn't connect with it, but I have found myself understanding it more and more in the years that followed. I try to say yes to all opportunities that present themselves and I look to remove all potential obstacles between me and the things that may further shape me. I'm not quite at the point where I'm going to buzz my own hair - but I do have a repeating wardrobe.

@MarianoBulaBlackOrpheus

4 жыл бұрын

But that doesn't you gotta cut it

@RobynMelendez

3 жыл бұрын

Today’s day 5 since I T&R’ed my head (except undercut.) When defining my why and considering them, THIS is a part of my journey. I’m hopeful I honor them and myself with patience and love as they develop and change. And when it’s “time” I’m hopeful I can “let them go” the same way as a minimalist I let go of other “things” in my life. Your videos are a favorite resource for me and as I’ve developed my ideas and plans for creating and maintaining your last self and I line up. Thank you for all you’ve done. And thank you for this video too.

@KirstenRosin

5 ай бұрын

When I decided to get dreads 4½ years ago, I did a lot of research about the pros and cons of having them. Your videos helped me a lot 🤗 My biggest reason for getting dreads (besides loving the look of it) was the maintenance. I was so tired of maintaining my long loose hair, brushing it, putting it up, dealing with hair ties and hairpins. So for me it has been very liberating to get dreads 😀 I find it much easier to have long hair and maintain it now 😁 And I love the look of it and how easy it is to twirl it up in a bun, or tie a ponytail with my dreads 😛

Truth: his dreadlocks cheated on him and he couldn't forgive them so they broke up.

@LazyDreads

4 жыл бұрын

It was fortunately more amicable than that.

@gooncoon8819

4 жыл бұрын

No at that point it was a devorce to the marriage

@adrianlast195

2 жыл бұрын

@@LazyDreads What are you up to these days and have you re dreaded? I came to your channel just under 3 years ago when I first ripped and twist. I do get impatient with mine. I use cotton to sew loose hairs and then sew the sewn hairs into the dreads. After a month or so other hair has grown around the cotton making it unseen. I first had dread about 31 years ago. They were rip and twist but I just left them alone and split them every so often. At 56 years old I might soon be dead lol so that's why I am impatient. I have been interlocking but keep meaning to freeform. It's difficult though as I am diagnosed ocd. Hope you are well and enjoying life. Merry Chrimbo.

You're still my loc brother even without em

new channel name: lazy waves

I removed my 5 year dreads last year in February. Yeah the first 2hours were amazing, but then. I instantly regretted it. And i have been regretting it ever since. I have pretty thin hair and i need to put so much effort and care into making it look acceptable (for work)... so much money for products, getting up 30min early in the morning to wash and condition and treat and blow dry my hair, not being able to leave the house without "doing" my hair (anxiety, body dysmorphia). I wanted to see who i was as and adult without dreads and turns out: a stressed adult constantly anxious about how i look. So I'm getting new dreads started right now and I'm extending them with my old dreads. I've got hair down to my butt again and I'm loving it!

@tellitlikeitisfresh6541

2 жыл бұрын

Omg I just went through same thing 😥

@piixiequeen7835

21 күн бұрын

This is why I got locs ! My hair is so fine and it only ever looks good when it’s freshly washed I can’t wear it up it looks horrible and skinny 😭 the locs have made me much happier. Obvs there’s downsides to everything but I love big hair !

Change is the only constant! Glad you are embracing it, we honestly dont need an explanation, but greatful for it. Hope you will stick around on YT, and allow your channel to evolve with you.

Im not even gonna lie, this sounds like a divorce lol. Like you're explaining to the kids why ma and dad won't be living together anymore.

@breathing7238

4 жыл бұрын

Your don’t have to say if your gonna lie or not, u wasted both of our 5 seconds

@alliemiranda8801

4 жыл бұрын

@@breathing7238 yeah, you wasted mine and your time typing that...but okay lol

@breathing7238

4 жыл бұрын

Allie Miranda I didn’t waste you time, you wanna comment back that’s your fault

@alliemiranda8801

4 жыл бұрын

@@breathing7238 literally the same thing with you reading my comment, but alright troll try again 😂

@breathing7238

4 жыл бұрын

Allie Miranda it’s hard to talk on KZread you tryna add my snap

Korn was inspiring for me. You have me the confidence to have these locks. 3 and a half years with them. The journey isn't easy.

@VenomDreadz

4 жыл бұрын

Omg yes! I've had mine for around the same time too!

@LilDroidBlue

4 жыл бұрын

Christian's (LazyDreads) videos really helped me when I first had a friend start mine. 29 April, 2016. Pretty much the same amount of time as you ✌️

Im still staying around even if u don't upload anymore. U give me motivation to grow out my dreads

@dravenpetroski9109

4 жыл бұрын

Typo gave*

@2kdev23

4 жыл бұрын

Draven Petroski you can edit the comment bro

Your reason for removing your dreads really is an eye opener and it makes me revisit the reason why I started my own. You're very humble and genuine.

Just removed mine after 3 years, totally get everything you are saying. It came to a point where my hair was genuinely hindering my life. I don't think people understand how much of a break up it is unless they have dreads themselves!

I just wanna thank you for what you've done for the community and for me. I watched your videos everyday for 6 months to prepare myself for getting my dreads and I've learned so much from you.

So good to see you again! Can’t believe you couldn’t get London to be quiet. You are a true artist and I enjoy your photography page too. You look great and I wish you well. Will always “follow” your pages. So much love

Man I'm happy for you. You have to do what's best for you stay positive and best of luck with everything coming up in life

You bring up so many points in this video. I really respect you going into such depth about this for everyone. I cut my dreads off after 5 years and struggled with a lot of the things you talk about in this video for years before I cut them off. Thanks for being open and honest. I've always enjoyed your videos.

Relate! It took me so long to brush them out, i couldnt remember why i started to, BUT... you put it so eloquently, over such a long time it does change.. however the experience still stays with you, that mentality of the freedoms. Its like full circle too, peoples reactions when you put them in and then the reactions when you remove them, and you feel like you owe this explanation.. its amazing how the experience of dreds gives new insight. Also, glad to see you back, would be great to see more of your travels or photography 👌... general shenanigans🤔

Glad you're doing good man, your hair is still awesome! Your videos helped me decide to get locks in the first place and I'll always refer back to them anytime I have questions 😁 Keep being you dude, regardless of how the outside looks (which is still pretty dope btw)

I just spent last summer gradually locking up my head, and finally finshed in September. I love my baby twist and rips now. I didn't discover your channel until shortly before you took your dreads out. I've learned so much from you, and I just wanna say thanks, Mr. Lazy Dreads.

This video is actually helping me deal with my breakup

@shalaallgeier

2 жыл бұрын

Same

I love the way that you came to this decision. I started my dreadlocks journey a year and 3 months ago, but I have been watching your videos for about 4 years. I was sad initially seeing that you cut them, but I really enjoyed hearing your reasoning, and I think that it makes complete sense! I thabk you for sharing all your knowledge on dreadlocks, you've helped me a lot on my dreadlock journey.

Dude,I’ve watched plenty of your videos,and you are very smart and articulated. Any dread type of knowledge I’ve got half of those from your videos. All love,all love no judgment. Thank you.

As I’ve just found this channel, I very much so look forward to watching all of your material and enjoying my journey. Thank you for sharing yours. 💚

Sometimes I think about chopping them but then I have a dream that I actually do it and I don't like it

@neverlackin4242

4 жыл бұрын

I relate

@RENEGADO_FANTASMA

4 жыл бұрын

X3

@elisirmelody4697

5 ай бұрын

Loooooool waking up crying After dreaming of hair cut, not even dreads, Just very long hair.

I love my dreads, always wanted to have dreads and love every single day I have them. Only hate the drying but everything else makes my life easier. But only dreaded for 2 yrs so I'm still pretty new to dreads

@tomtwinky

4 жыл бұрын

BoringCanadian big fact only annoying thing about them

@southernpaganprincess7739

4 жыл бұрын

2 words: hood dryer

@SoulDelSol

4 жыл бұрын

@@southernpaganprincess7739 that's 3 words. Oh wait you're right, 2 words

Hey! Just wanted to say that I admire your power to do what you want, and to not be bogged down by something you don't find happiness in anymore! Your videos are/always will be some of the most helpful advice I've ever had for dreadlocks. So I guess I'm saying thanks for everything you've done! Peace and love x

You inspired me to take the plunge and go through with getting dreads in 2015. I get that love/hate feeling every so often, but then I find new ways and reasons to love my dreadlocks. Thank you for your videos. They helped a ton during the early stages.

Your hair looks amazing! I recently cut my dreads after 5 years and was definitely the right decision.. am loving growing out my new natural hair, it feels alot more comfy. Change is good and to know when it's time to. Your hair looks great

I wish I could love videos on KZread. I just started my journey about a month ago using the crochet method (which I know you don't recommend) but it was by someone very experienced and I trust her. I've watched several of your videos and so far after a month my only regret is not finding your channel years ago. Then again, years ago my life didn't allow for the journey so this is my right time to start at 35. I really appreciate you, the way that you approach the videos that you make and the way that you speak. You're not only a pleasure to listen to but you provide an education that's non-bias. Though I want to I won't leave comments on every video I watch but trust I take a lot from each one. Just thank you dude. 👊

KZread was missing this big Dread related video. Thank you for making it brother. 🙏🏽

I've had my dreads for almost 5 years now partially thanks to you and your helpful videos! I have been contemplating combing them out, and I can relate to all of your reasons! You really do start to make decisions for the hair and you start to realize that isn't freedom. I'm still not ready to cut them, but I am definitely reaching a point where I can understand ending the journey.

Your hair was beautiful in dreads and it's beautiful now without them. Thank you for your videos. I have been watching and learning over the last couple of years and just started my journey on Friday. It's all about being true to yourself, and it sounds as though you are. 💖✌

Very happy for you!!! Thanks for all yoir help over the years and I hope u make videos on other things because you are such a rad dude! I enjoy hearing you speak you are a wonderful human

your very young and I dont think you need no explanation to anyone. I am one year into my dread journey,I'm 46 yrs old. I feel so free now with my hair locked. I had really curly,dry frizzy hair .it was way.more fuss to control my hair everyday vs what little I have to do to them now to maintain them. I have 2grown kids,3 grandchildren,I'm a tattoo artist. I have way more time now with dreadlocks than my usual everyday hair routine. we all get them or decide not to for different reasons.I have greatly enjoyed your videos and they are very helpful. your videos will always be there to help anyone starting out and so forth. I appreciate all that you have contributed to dread community. I also enjoy following you on IG, you live a very interesting life,very talented. Continue to be great,and your hair does not define you. If our hair begins to define who we are,or I habits us from enjoying life ,then it's time for a change. I bet that big chop felt amazing,and you have beautiful hair. whenever i have had some very trying times, you videos inspired me to not freak out and to relax and let them do their thing etc. alottt if great advise and i thank you!. ..ps.profile pic is an old photo of faux locks, not a posser,just haven't updated it nor care too.lol. you look just as handsome with or without them for sure.

I have to tell you...I am SOOOO thankful you made this video. Here's the deal: I am a wife/mom/nurse in my *ahem* 30's. And I have wanted dreadlocks for YEARS, but was always afraid of the feedback from others. I have been watching your channel (and others) for quite a long time. Over the past few months, all of those channels (about dreadlocks) are covering removing their dreads. It really forces me to sit down and consider WHY I want them, if I am REALLY prepared for life with them, and all that goes with them... Anyway, long story-short, I'm grateful for your channel and I'm grateful for your insight - regardless if I dread my hair or not. You're a gem. You do you, broseph. 😊👍🏼👍🏼

I cut and brushed my dreads out in July. I had them for over 9 years. It was just time. I totally get it.

I’ve had freeform locks for almost 5 years. I even have a huge beaver tail Congo on the bottom ones on the back. It’s literally 7 locks that Congoed (I have my reasons and I’m okay with it). I still can’t see myself without them. I miss being able to wash my hair without drying for hours but other than that they fit my lifestyle pretty well. I may go your route one day but likely no time soon. I do respect you for all you’ve done to help us and I’ll keep watching future videos. Much love man

I’ve watched your videos for a good six years (or more?) I missed my previous locs so much that I started new dreadlocks again this year (after not having them for years) The points you bring up are more than accurate, why you choose your hair for self expression and why you choose to revert it has good reason. Thanks for another great video!

I've had dreads for 25 years. Shaved them off twice in that time missed then and grew them again. I'm so lazy with my dreads these days that I get someone else to do them for me for 25euros an hour. Change is always good.

Wou this is really strange, I just took out my dreads and then I saw your videos. When I was looking into getting dreads I watched a ton of your videos and also during my journey. But for the last year I noticed excactly what you mention in the video. Also this is part of the journey. Everything has a beginning and a end. And this end is the start of a new beginning. Thank you so much for the advice during my dreadlock journey.

6 years and I don’t miss anything about “normal” hair. Nothing.

@shadpierre7416

4 жыл бұрын

So u had dreadlock?

😳😩🤦🏾‍♀️ I’m still staying around 💜

I've been wanting dreads for about 5 years now, but was never ready to commit until 4 months ago today! I've decided to go with semi-freeform with the towel rubbing method. I've always hated my hair and would always shave it all off. Always feeling that it wasn't the right decision while doing so, feeling like a failure that I could never grow my hair out long. So it's definitely understandable why you no longer had a good relationship with your hair. Your videos helped me understand what I could come to expect and how I should care for them though. Truly an inspiration for me to grow out my hair and start dreadlocks at the same time without waiting for my hair to be long. I've now gone 1 whole year a week ago without cutting my hair along with 4 months of starter semi-freeforms today. I feel so much more liberated and confident than what I did before and I hope it stays that way for many years. Maybe there will become a day where my hair and I no longer get along again, but for now I'm enjoying it.

Basically the video: in Soviet Russia, the dreadlocks have you

@LazyDreads

4 жыл бұрын

Yea, I'll go with that.

@byrdieprey2590

4 жыл бұрын

Yakoff Smirnoff!! Excellent reference!!

Dreadlocks looked amazing on you but definitely it's your journey and it's also about being comfortable, so changes are always good. Keep making videos.

I’ve never made a comment on a video before but I just have to say thank you for this video!! I looked to your videos when I first started my dreads almost 6 years ago and I coincidentally chopped mine around the same time as you. This video perfectly sums up the feelings and rationale I’ve had floating around in my head since then. Just through watching this video I feel I have better closure of my own. Thank you💚

Although ive enjoyed your videos and dread head videos in general , i cant help but feel that making a channel dedicated to ones hair in particular dreads has the unfortunate effect that you define your whole persona as that of a person who is who they are because of their hair and that can take over your perception of yourself in that " i must have them otherwise im not the person people see me as" . Ive had dreads for 8 years more of less ive never kept track of the time coz who cares, i agree they can get in the way but ive never felt anything more than its my hair and this is how i feel to be. Im glad youre happy with the change youve made and i wish you all the best with your future endeavours. Peace

Thank you for finally getting to this topic. I got from this, what I think anyway and what I've always said to people about my dreads. It is a journey, granted a visual one. And it is maybe symbolic about our own personal journey in life. And YOUR journey with the visual dreads, was over and it was time to move on without them. My first set I had for just over 5 years. And as you said, it just was a love hate relationship. I cut them off and after about 8 months went back with a new set. I'm on a new journey now. Not sure how long. For now it feels right.

im just starting my dreadlocks. and you are my guide!!

So glad to see you again, Christian! Oddly enough you had a HUGE influence on how I were MY locs ... freeform. You helped me to embrace the freedom of the freeform method. That being said, when you combed out your dreadlocks I have to admit my 1st thought was "The young folks always do." At the time you were in in a regular trend of folks getting rid of their dreadlocks in one way or another. Younger folks have more to worry about than older folks do. I will be 51 this weekend .. I'm literally twice your age. I am not angry that you removed your locs, its your hair, hun. Anyway, at my age I am not as much worried about my looks or possibly losing out on employment and the like because of my hair. I am basically retired and doing what I wanna do. Anyhow ... I am not angry with you for taking care of yourself. I would have been angry with you is you HAD kept your dreads for ANYONE but Christian. Know what I mean? I certainly hope so. Take care Christian. I still follow you .. for you .. not for your lazy dreads.

@Breath_of_the_Thunder

4 жыл бұрын

freeform is the only way to truly grow dreadlocks. ive tried back comb and twist n rip and all those artificial methods just results in man made locks that dont have the same vibration as not combing your hair and years later you develop locs

Your hair looks great. I was frustrated with my dreads because of backcombing and wax so I removed them. After watching a lot of your videos I feel confident to try again with twist and rip and sea salt spray. Thank you for sharing your hair journey.

Well said bro... I learned a lot from you and your information to have my Dreads now and glad to see this video! Will this channel Still stay around and keep answering Dready questions? 🤔 Hopefully you do and I respect your decision, it's your hair and Lazy Dreads helped me out more than any other videos! 👌 Peace

I love this, really. During the video I thought that even without the dreadlocks, you're a person, whose spirit belongs to the group of ppl who have dreadlocks (i dont know if it even makes sense) and then you just said the same (that you remained the same person). I always thought that this something is kinda like a community, and there are ppl who have dreads and dont belong, and ppl who dont have dreads and still belong to this 'world'. I'm happy for you and hope that your youtube channel stays alive :)

Good on you bro! I had dreads shortly and had considered restarting them but I find it hard to say I’d feel 100% committed. So I just stay halfway between lol scraggly half neglected hair. Our hair does say a lot about who we are and what we value. Good on you for staying true to yourself.

Do your Thing brother! Bring out your higher self. You had a good run! Change is good. It just means you're growing

Hey, you look great either way. I personally experienced that sort of “awakening” when I combed/cut them off in the past, because I too was younger and was in search of “who I was “ at the time; and it’s left me with this sentiment… We go through phases. Some come and go, while others last our entire lives. When you stop enjoying something, you should listen to yourself. And just you. If you’re constantly having to convince yourself that you have to first serve something ornamental, however deep the meaning, sometimes it’s good to let it/them go. Hair grows back. Sometimes it doesn’t! So enjoy the journey while you can.

you are actually the person i looked to when i was starting my dreads and the following months on how to take care of them. I am now battling the decition to cut my dreads after 3-4 years. They are becoming a bit annoying and headache-inducing, but I love them so much and I dont want to cut them but I want to change my hair so bad. So I get where you're coming from and it is indeed just hair, for most people it will grow back. When my love-hate relationship to my dreads will become mostly hate I will cut them, but now there is still to much love.

@gingermonster82

4 жыл бұрын

Maybe trim them? That may help them be less annoying and headache-inducing but without having to cut them completely off.

@mrslucifer92

4 жыл бұрын

@@gingermonster82 I already shaved my head so, to late now (:

not a day has gone by in the last 5 years where i didn't have at least one moment when i just wanted to rip these babies out of my head, but as long as i keep finding more of those other moments when i absolutely love them, they're staying... that being said, the day that changes, they're gone! it's just hair, if things change again later i can start them over, i'm definitely staying, whether you upload or not, this channel has been a great source of information, in my case, everything i needed to get comfortable in this journey 💖💖💖

❤️ you aged like a set of Dreadlocks...lol following you for 8 years.... You're just as cute as we're then. It's crazy to have a total stranger be significant in your life, but your videos have helped me the whole way. Thank you brother. It was an honor to be included your collage ;) my bright pink baby dreads were awesome and frizzy! But my locs today are lovely. Lol , take it easy man.

IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU! SOUNDS LIKE YOUVE LEARNED MANY THINGS. IM JUST GET STARTED AND LOVE YOUR VIDEOS SO I HAD TO WATCH THIS ONE INCASE I'd learn anything. Sounds like I'm gonna learn a lot about myself. ✌

4 yrs into locs and although I'm not quite ready to let mine go I deeply get your reasoning in this vid as to the whys of moving on without them. I hope you'll enjoy your lighter head, may the "spirit of dreadlocks" be at your back in all you do 😄🙏✌

I completely get it. My locks are only 3.5 years old and I am still learning from them, but I don't have a time line set in keeping them. When they are more work than joy or more of a hindrance to my life than what they add, I will remove them. Be that 2 years or 15 years from now. You put a lot of thought into it and have gained a lot from them and it sounds like you did what is best for you. You can always grow them again if you ever feel the need to walk that path again. Thanks for all the information and incite you have given and the resources that are still there for people taking the dreadlocks journey.

All things have to end someday. And everything changes, even our perspective on things we value.

@YoDirk

3 жыл бұрын

Very well put.

I was told I'd wouldn't see my 40th Birthday due to health reasons. When I turned 40, I promised I would finally get dreads, after wanting them most my life. It was a spiritual gift to myself. I've had them 13 years now. Trimmed them a year ago, they were past my knees. The pain they cause my neck, head were just too much. They are now in middle of my back. A lot lighter. There are so many points you made which I've been contemplating myself, the itchy scalp, super dry scalp. Shampooing and drying them for hours and hours....upto 12 or more! I so miss having water hit my scalp in the shower and just massaging my head! I sometimes think that's it! I'm cutting them! But when I trimmed them it was sooo hard I don't think I could completely remove them. Maybe one day. But just not ready yet! BTW, I'm a photographer and when I would go shoot gigs sometime the look on clients faces when a dreadhead shows up is hysterical. lol

I've had my dreads for 25 years and I'm 49 now, I think that like most things, fashion, hair style, music, relationships change as you get older. Your dreads did their job I guess you could say. I was older when I decided on dreads and haven't regretted it ever (except the drying after washing, we will all agree on that). But I agree , once you start living life according to whats best for your hair, it is time for a change. Interesting & honest video, thanks!

Props, 11yrs is along time! I've had mine a year and couple months and with working 2 jobs I'm really learning how hard they are to maintain!

I've had my dreads for 7 days now, previously before I grew my hair for 2 years to get the dreads I shaved my head with a complete 0 buzz cut for 15 years. Your reason for removing your dreads and me for growing my hair are actually pretty similar, so I can understand your reasoning. Do what you do for you man it really doesn't matter what others think or say as long as you're happy.

good vid. personally (as a guy), i think you look just as good with your long hair how it is now vs. your locs. i thought the locs were cool too, but tbh i kinda prefer the long hair. you're voicing the exact same concerns everyone does...friends with locs i've known said all the same things, especially about exercise and swimming. the freedom became a cage. they started out wanting to have a wild, carefree hairstyle...and it ended up being more work and worry than any other hairstyle they'd ever had. good vids dude. keep up the great work.

Thanks for this, I'm currently in the process of thinking about removing my 15 year locs, but I've been identified for so long with them, it's a difficult process to get my head around. Will I still feel like me after? Will people treat me differently?

Edit: Sorry I didn't realize you addressed this in the video :\ you have to live your life for yourself though not anyone else! I think it's just as well to leave your youtube channel as an archive :) Peace and love I started dreads 45ish days ago and have been religiously watching your channel so happy to see a new video from you! You should do vlogs or Q and A's doesn't have to be dreadlock related just would be cool to see you still active and giving out advice where needed as you are still pretty much THE authority on straight hair dreads as far as i can tell

Good to see you back. Your hair looks great without the dreadlocks as well as it did with the dreadlocks. Daryl. 😃

I'm actually starting my third set. I love them, but after so long, they become heavy, especially when they're wet. I'm just glad I have hair that can tolerate my decisions lol. I totally understand where you're coming from. It's a great journey, but change is great too.

Omg I can't believe it! I loved your dreads much love and blessings

You do you Christian! You have done more than your hair share of knowledge sharing for the dreadlock community online. Your videos REALLY helped me when I was starting out. I understand what you mean about having them for convenience and then having them become inconvenient. Luckily, for me that is not the case. If I had my hair this length and it wasn't locked up I would spend way more time washing and conditioning all the time, brushing everyday etc... Compared too a little oil on my scalp twice a week and washing my hair every 2 ½ weeks or so. I also understand your take on how society has changed. It's different for everyone, I'm sure. For me, I grew up in a very multicultural area and this whole idea of cultural appropriation a lot of people here feel is overblown. Everyone's hair will lock up, that has been said. Everyone is also aware (or should be, anyways) that 'dreadlocks', along with any natural style worn by POC have been looked at as dirty and gross traditionally and then when worn by say, a white Marc Jacobs model is all of a sudden 'edgy, hip, trendy'. And it's true that if you're lacking strong levels of melanin you can get rid of that style and go back to being "normal", whereas if you're black, that's not really an option. Get rid of the hair sure, but your skin is the same. I myself have a weird relationship with race/ethnicity because I grew up knowing my dad was Puerto Rican and darker skinned and yet I was raised as white because of the shade of skin I came out with. It's only been within the last 5 years or so I've been doing my best to reclaim and reassert my Boricua identity of sorts. I say of sorts because I've been connecting with a lot with what I've been learning about the Taíno, not just modern PR culture. I also adhere to some Buddhist principles, but I love having hair... One of the reasons for me getting dreadlocks was I could have long hair, but not have to spend as much time looking after it or worrying about it, less ego/vanity. I know I'm going on and on here and it's a damn KZread comment! Like I said, your videos really helped me when I first started. They will always be there to help people in the future. I don't want to sound blunt or mean but, it's not really your problem if people are upset that they are just now starting their journey and yours has ended. You started a whole online community, we can be there to help them! I'm in the Facebook group. Same name as on here, just with my middle name Allan. Like I said, you do you! Your journey is your own. ✌️

I miss you lol!!! Prayers up and much love always❤

I combed mine out slowly, it took a couple months. I also did it because I felt that whatever life stage I was in while they were growing, I learned the lesson and it was time to move on. It wasn’t emotional, and it wasn’t because I didn’t want them or didn’t like them. I just wasn’t the same person spiritually, and I do believe they were holding the energy of the past I had graduated from. I’d hear people say that locs hold energy and memories, and I would kinda roll my eyes because I’m a logical person and that stuff was too abstract to hold any weight. Until I felt it. So I totally get it. I have nothing but warm memories of them, and I don’t feel any type of way about having them or not. I’m just at peace with myself in whatever package I happen to be in at any moment. ❤️

If you ever go back, you could document freeforming step by step. You’re living life on your own terms and that’s great. Thank you for the dread info. I’m 3 months into my second dread journey.

3 and a half years I miss the feeling of water running directly on my head every shower

@DirtBikes_MathGarden

4 жыл бұрын

This is the thing I miss most about short hair. When I shave my head, the first thing I’ll do is shower.

@coollary1

4 жыл бұрын

It's a nice feeling. Having the wind brush your scalp, the warm your head(and not sweat as much), etc. I got over it within a week. Now I'm growing my hair again and having hair imo is better than having none. (buzz cut)

@RoflsaurousRex09

4 жыл бұрын

How are you not getting water directly on your hear? Cuz I get it directly on my head even though I have them.

@jeremiahg.6569

4 жыл бұрын

Ctreefort With dreads it hits the hair, then trickles down to your scalp. With short hair, you feel every drop. I never realized I missed it until now😥

@FederalEmployee

4 жыл бұрын

@@RoflsaurousRex09 I put them up in a tamb

hey maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan, i was checking for weeks if you have done some videos, i'm very happy that there is a new video, man keep on going, i was loving your videos, not only because of dreadlocks

Much respect and let me start with I've loved and greatly appreciated the info and insight you have given to myself and the rest of your viewer's about your knowledge of locks through your own experience. Having said that, I've had my dreadlocks for 8 or 9 years now, and my death hawk (and later dread hawk) cut for about 13 years and I've loved my locks everyday with no regrets or desire for anything else except maybe occasional hair dying lol. For me this is my hair style pinnacle and anything that is too change with it will have to occur by natural means (such as hair loss). But life's everyone's own personal experience. You took on the full experience possible with your locks, after 10 years there's nothing much left you could potentially have enjoyable to try with them lol. And if they were a nuisance at any point and you're happier now that your lock free, then that's what matters in my opinion. As a fan and thankful viewer, my full on support to you being happy in your choices. And hopefully people will one day stop needing to over examine the reason why others choose their personal aesthetic. Much love.

I have watched all your videos and absolutely love you with or without locs. Be well

You introduced me to the idea of dreadlocks for myself and your twist and rip video helped me install my first set I’ve had three since then now I’m using synthetic braid ins to try it again and still have my straight hair but might let my hair dread with the extensions soon

Glad to see you back, still subscribed

I started my dreadlocks bc of you, Gunther da great and great locks. I started in November of last year. The same time when you and Gunther were taking them off :(

@kajgoethals4448

4 жыл бұрын

ElJudas25 i started in november to when they took them out

@MARYANNE269

4 жыл бұрын

Bummer.. X I've watch vids by a girl who had great dreads then to finds she has none now.. lol it's a little disconcerting but hey, that's there journey and I'm great full for there journey shared as many of thes 'hiw too how not todo' vids are fascinating I'm loving finding out what I can about Having Dreads.. appart from the negative crap.. but that's the internet eh! I'm 2 weeks in to washing and not brushing my hair and it feels great 😜✌️

@Jonas.Frazier

4 жыл бұрын

Gunther is starting dreads again.

Just found you. Dude… you’re awesome. With and without your dreads 😉 Thank you for sharing your knowledge as well as your honesty and vulnerability.

@LazyDreads

3 жыл бұрын

I appreciate that!

I'm 4-1/2 years in, and I'm ready to say goodbye to mine. They seem to dictate the things I do, hats I can or can't wear, activities, etc. I am NOT my hair. I needed them for a specific period in my life, and now I'm ready to change that. It's not because of any judgement, and I hear a lot of people saying that I shouldn't cut them. But I'm just ready to change. You were saying EXACTLY what I was feeling. You verbalized what points I feel are why I'm leaving the dread life.

I really enjoyed this video. I have often thought of these ideas before as well. I too have a channel derived 80% around dreadlocks. I have had mine for 3.5 years and feel VERY similar to you on many levels. The way you explain how your hair begins to control you or keeps one from being fully "living" is very accurate and spot on! Thank you for sharing this. I'm sure it will be helpful to many 😊✌🕉

You're amazing what's there without them and it's your life. You have made my journey easier and I'm glad that you have continued To progress on your own journey.

I cut my dreads after 5 years this year. You've been with me along this entire journey back to middle school. Crazy we both cut our dreads around the same time. Couldnt agree with this video anymore

You strike me as a very intelligent and enlightened person, who also has great taste in music. You do you! It is YOUR JOURNEY. Love it dude

I just discovered your channel a couple weeks ago. I gave myself dreads about a month ago. I love your channel!!

Thank you for your videos over the years 🙌🏼 sounds like an amicable break up 😂 you is still great with or without the dreads. 👌🏼

MY LOOVVEEE YOU'RE BACK

I just recently cut my dreadlocks of 6 years. While I'm about 12 years older than you, I really do innerstand how you broke it down. For me I started mine in my early thirties... it is absolutely a love/ hate relationship. I loved certain parts of the freedoms it gave me and also despised other parts of the freedoms it lacked. So one day I woke up, decided to do it took the scissors & cut. I had wanted to for some time but would put it off and 6 months would go by and the same would happen. I'm still getting used to how chilly it is without my locks but at the end is hair & if I ever do it again I'll know what mistakes to watch for... Thanks for your videos, they helped me a lot. It has been 6 days without my locks. PS- did you save your locks?

Your hair and You look kool either way my Brotha...thanks for all You have shared...Your videos have helped me on my hair journey...

I cut my dreads about a year ago and although I think it was a good decision I'm a bit frustrated by the necessity to cut them regularly and having to decide how to wear them. With dreads it was just 'This is how they are, maybe tie them, have beads in them, but that's it.' Normal hair is more complicated. Also I miss the beads.

I've been in love with locks since I was a kid now it is my every day job to make, extend, naturally lock others. I have changed mine to ever color imaginable and with this freedom to change them I believe it's kept it interesting. I have heard from it of my customers, I'm not sure if I want locks for much longer. I think we definitely have a love hate relationship. Change can be freeing as well 🌼🌼 love you with or without locks🙏🙏 thanks for the video

I cut my dreads and it was a mistake I loved my dress working on getting them back now

@tellitlikeitisfresh6541

2 жыл бұрын

Me too I wanna cry everytime I think of em

My hair has always been thick and super tangled. I remember when I was little the first person I saw with dreads and wanted to do them ever since. Like a lot of people, I lost my job because of Covid, so I thought what a perfect time to start my journey. Time to be free!! I’m doing neglect dreads and I wish more people would be more open about it. I’ve heard it’s a love hate relationship, but I didn’t expect to feel totally powerful one day and absolutely ugly the next. I didn’t expect to be triggered by old men in grocery stores and be made to feel like I’m back in jr high being made fun of. I didn’t expect to have such joy over one and such hatred over another. I DID NOT EXPECT THE SHRINKAGE OMG THE SHRINKAGE. I started them because I’ve always wanted them and I’ve always had anxieties over cutting my hair (thanks again, jr high), so I wanted to let go and see what happened. It’s been a great experience (the part where you said you knew not to look in the mirror…LOL relatable!). I appreciate your honesty because I didn’t expect the negativity and felt like I was doing something “wrong”. Still, excited to see where the journey goes.

I just cut my 3rd crop. I'll always have dreads in my heart. I always find others are more attatched than I was. Change is good and so ia having new experiences . ive watched your videos for years and I'm proud of you.

Hey Chris, I get what you are saying. You helped me with my dreads that I had for four years. I cut mine because I didn't want a judge to make a decision on the way I look. I am about to start my dreads again and you can do the same when and if you want. You look great and thank you again for all your knowledge.