Why I Left America for Good

In this video, I share my story of why I left America for the Dominican Republic to become an expat. From the culture to the cost of living to the sense of community, there are many reasons why moving to the Dominican Republic was the best decision for me.
If you're considering becoming an expat, especially in the Dominican Republic, then this video is for you. I'll share my personal experiences and insights on living as an American expat in the Dominican Republic.
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  • @akemegbebu7807
    @akemegbebu78072 ай бұрын

    Born and raised in Chicago and left 10 years ago for good. Best decision of my life.

  • @youngneo2956

    @youngneo2956

    Ай бұрын

    Where did you go?

  • @Gunngirl

    @Gunngirl

    28 күн бұрын

    I’m in Chicago and I’m not mad at that. I’m researching too.

  • @valm.5243

    @valm.5243

    11 күн бұрын

    Which country did you end up in?

  • @ypcllc
    @ypcllcАй бұрын

    I moved to Mexico from Atlanta as a Black women and I say the exact same thing about Mexico! I reminds me of USA in 80s. the good old days when the US was family oriented, not stuck on too much technology, people were more close. I love Mexico. Cheers to your move!

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    29 күн бұрын

    Facts, the 80s in America especially in the South where I'm from was good times. Enjoy Mexico🙏🏾

  • @roamingmompreneur792
    @roamingmompreneur7922 ай бұрын

    “There’s no perfect place, just perfect place for the individual at a certain time.” Loved that quote! For me is the QUALITY OF LIFE every time.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    That too👍🏾

  • @iC4XCLEARLY
    @iC4XCLEARLY2 ай бұрын

    This is 100% facts!!! Most Americans will NEVER understand this video. I don’t know you from Adam and I feel the same way! There are a few more issues that you didn’t even mention that would blow the average American’s mind.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    I believe you homie more issues than we got time 😅

  • @crwnofenlightenment

    @crwnofenlightenment

    2 ай бұрын

    Preach. I second this. People, mainly Americans, and even some Europeans think this is the best place on earth. God is starting to open people's eyes to the wickedness.

  • @manuelvargas178

    @manuelvargas178

    2 ай бұрын

    Love this videos… I’m black Dominican living in New York City and I feel every day what is to be black in America,, as I said I’m Dominican but a dark skin Dominican, soo when white people sees me they see black, but when I open my mouth and they hear my Spanish accent they immediately said,ohh I thought you were black,,ohhh my god,that whole bull shi-- narrative drive my 😝 I go like ,what did you just said…can’t take the level of ignorance in USA,, it’s sooo 1800s…..

  • @roses4me451

    @roses4me451

    2 ай бұрын

    @@JayAbroad Jay, thank you for sharing your story. It's the "Wild, Wild, West" in Amerikkka. A BM has a "target" on his back, and need to walk on egg shells no matter where he goes. I've been all over the world and encouraged others to get a passport and travel. You have to access the future because inflation is out of control, jobs going overseas, immigrants coming here getting jobs in Chi-town over BM. A lot are considering Panama, Africa, DR, etc. There is definitely a "narrative & agenda" being pushed. You have peace now. GOD bless you & the family.

  • @robd7934

    @robd7934

    2 ай бұрын

    I was born and raised in the US, and the level of ignorance is real. The average American doesn't understand other cultures and are ignorant to the world outside the US. And they definitely don't understand Latinos including our diversity, the melting pot of races and sub cultures that make us who we are.

  • @ispeakmucho
    @ispeakmucho2 ай бұрын

    I left NYC at 25 years old and showed up in the DR in 2005 What would be a 90 day experiment to strengthen my Spanish learning became a 3 yr stay and my own biz teaching ESL and then Spanish to expats. Of course, I was one only few Black Americans at the time. Good to see its catching on! Suerte manito

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Thanks bro💪🏾

  • @ispeakmucho

    @ispeakmucho

    2 ай бұрын

    @JayAbroad claro que si! You ever need any DR language advice, you hit me up. I dove all the way in and came out fluent

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Yessiiirr. I'm going to need to dive into it. My wife is Dominican and she speaks to me in English most. I need to have her start speaking to me in Spanish more often.

  • @ispeakmucho

    @ispeakmucho

    2 ай бұрын

    @@JayAbroad you gotta refuse to reply in English. Remember those folks in your own city that be like "I dont speak" english, conveniently when they dont need to deal with someone's bs. You have to do that LOL. From now on "you no speak inglês"

  • @FG-yl3oj
    @FG-yl3oj2 ай бұрын

    Jay, you hit the nail on the head with the reasons you stated. I feel the same way. It just doesn't make sense anymore. I was born in D.R. but was raised in NYC. I never imagined in a million years that I would consider living in the D.R. and now I am considering any and all options because USA ain't it. I'm tired of the grind and the division. My parents came to the US in the 70s for a better life and I guess for awhile, it was better but I feel like we are going backwards now. Thanks for the video.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    You're welcome. I feel ya. Many people feel like you and me. Some don't want to accept the fact the US is spiraling out of control. If you have the opportunity to get out. Take the chance. I tell people if it doesn't work you can always go back.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    @@nakho3550 Bruh, I don't give a damn about David Ortiz or how he feels or who else is fleeing the island. I do what I want to do. If it's working for me. That's what matters. If you think it's going backwards you don't have to move here. No one is asking you to move to DR. And if you believe it is you don't know what you are talking about.

  • @moebetter3143
    @moebetter31432 ай бұрын

    Once the ice and the cognac hit the glass i knew this would be a good video😂. Great topic

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Yessiiirr, you know it 💪🏾

  • @jamesfneubauer884

    @jamesfneubauer884

    2 ай бұрын

    q

  • @TerriCarroll

    @TerriCarroll

    2 ай бұрын

    Me too, lol!

  • @Jonathan_Vlog

    @Jonathan_Vlog

    2 ай бұрын

    Same 😅

  • @LoverofLife863

    @LoverofLife863

    Ай бұрын

    😂😂

  • @maicolitox3417
    @maicolitox341711 күн бұрын

    As a Dominican myself I’m working my butt off to go back to my country. When I came 7 years ago, I was always surrounded by family and friends and out of nowhere I was here by my own. In this country I witnessed so many things I thought I would only see in movies, so much tension everywhere I go that would not let me live in peace, but when I visit my beautiful patio 🇩🇴it’s like a dream that I wished I’ll never wake up…

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    9 күн бұрын

    I've heard this before from a Dominican. That when you get to the US everyone is glad to see you then all of it wears off and everyone is back to their own lives. That's just US culture.

  • @flowerforsyte5671
    @flowerforsyte56712 ай бұрын

    Bingo! Like you said... the America we grew up with in the 80's no longer exist. The 1980's was the one of the best decades of America.

  • @theoracle6881

    @theoracle6881

    2 ай бұрын

    Minus the krack

  • @sczr1186

    @sczr1186

    Ай бұрын

    When times change, either we change wit it or get left behind and frustrated.

  • @Jay-jb2vr

    @Jay-jb2vr

    14 күн бұрын

    No, we just move to another country and forget Amerikkka

  • @Hunt9-qb1if

    @Hunt9-qb1if

    3 күн бұрын

    Are you on crack? The 80s was the worst time of America because of the crack epidemic.

  • @antoniothomas3862
    @antoniothomas38623 ай бұрын

    Bro you hit the nail on the head. One thing you forgot was the healthcare. Some many people have the slightest idea what life is outside America. I definitely appreciate the video.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    3 ай бұрын

    Yep, Healthcare is outrageous. I agree.

  • @standelasanantone2180

    @standelasanantone2180

    2 ай бұрын

    What would you if your wife only wants to live close to her family (same city) and does not want to leave the US? Would you still leave without her?

  • @antoniothomas3862

    @antoniothomas3862

    2 ай бұрын

    @@standelasanantone2180 I believe that things always play out the way they should be. In DR we live close to her family now and she wants to get another place and not live some close. So we can have our privacy and see what I go through in the US and her other family from DR goes through and she just wants to visit.

  • @elcubanito2442

    @elcubanito2442

    Ай бұрын

    "For better or for worse."@@standelasanantone2180

  • @PIMPSOVERSIMPS
    @PIMPSOVERSIMPS2 ай бұрын

    I’m right behind you! Hopefully by the end of 2024 I can relocate! 💯💪🏾 Great video!

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Yessiiirr, bet that💪🏾

  • @tito3624
    @tito36242 ай бұрын

    I have been living here in DR Since sept 2022 I lived in Nyc 21 years and 3 years in tennesse and I was done with US im so happy here back at my land and planning to get a piece a land in the mountains to just really chill. Great video much love, prosperity and life for you and your family.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    That's awesome! I know you're glad to be home.

  • @PolishBehemoth

    @PolishBehemoth

    19 күн бұрын

    Im trying to move to DR. Did you find a empty lot in the mountains? Do you mean the house is axtually up the mountain?

  • @ogigs
    @ogigs2 ай бұрын

    You got a great channel Jay. I’m moving my family of 5 to Bosnia next year. As an immigrant in America I have experienced xenophobia and racism many times. I had to work twice as hard to compete with people “who just had the right name”. I have tested with by using a name Anthony Jennings on my resume and would get calls immediately. Best of luck and keep it up.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Damn, it doesn't surprise me. And people try to convince us it doesn't exist. I agree it can't stop you but as you said you have to jump through hoops just to be successful. Why deal that when you don't have to.

  • @roses4me451

    @roses4me451

    2 ай бұрын

    You got a small taste of what the BM has been experiencing all their lives. Having a certain "accent" or "cultural sounding name" will get your application tossed in "File 13" (trash) regardless of your degree & qualifications. Best of luck to you & the family in Bosnia.

  • @PolishBehemoth

    @PolishBehemoth

    19 күн бұрын

    Dang! Ive heard about this in europe. Im shocked the european last name crazy stuff is happening in usa.

  • @jttalbertiii
    @jttalbertiii2 ай бұрын

    Really enjoyed your video, Jay and so happy to see us black Americans moving out of the US! My reasons in the future to relocating to South Africa is ALL of the reasons you mentioned. I'm so happy for you my brotha!

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank bro. I appreciate that. And congratulations on your upcoming move to South Africa. I love too seeing brother find their happy place.

  • @jonathanjmentor
    @jonathanjmentor3 ай бұрын

    You legit hit all of the reasons I’m moving. That’s wild. 🎉🇩🇴🇩🇴🇩🇴

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    3 ай бұрын

    Thanks fam, I appreciate it.

  • @jonathanjmentor

    @jonathanjmentor

    3 ай бұрын

    @@JayAbroad no doubt. I’ll be back in touch soon. We got work 🔥🔥🔥

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    3 ай бұрын

    Norberis brought you up the other day saying she hasn't heard back but we know you probably got busy. It's all good. We here.

  • @moebetter3143

    @moebetter3143

    2 ай бұрын

    First time checking out your channel brother. Great topic. Liked and subscribed. Keep grinding💪🏿

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    @@moebetter3143 yessiiirr...thanks💪🏾

  • @vicvic2081
    @vicvic20812 ай бұрын

    The hatred of the USA is unmatched. Like you said Dr can be racist in certain places but never at the level of the USA. Dominicans can't fathom that level of hatred at all.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    I try to tell people this all the time. You can't compare DR to the US when it comes to that...

  • @JordanR-tg3qp

    @JordanR-tg3qp

    Ай бұрын

    Us racism is like psychological warfare and constant oppression

  • @pedrohernandez-px6oz
    @pedrohernandez-px6oz2 ай бұрын

    No matter how black you are if you have money,you are the boss .

  • @TerriCarroll
    @TerriCarroll2 ай бұрын

    Totally agree. I have been living abroad for 3 1/2 years for these same reasons. And even the main reason that the U.S. is a great place to make money has become a moot point, because the cost of living takes everything you are busting your behind to make. Peace is priceless. I love the decison I made to move abroad.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    I feel ya. Congratulations 🎊. I'm glad you are enjoying your life abroad.

  • @TerriCarroll

    @TerriCarroll

    2 ай бұрын

    @@JayAbroad Gracias. Igual.

  • @GMacII
    @GMacII2 ай бұрын

    2021 is where I picked back up my traveling journey’s after spending a month in Europe in 2017. Living in Portugal, Spain and Brasil opened my eyes back up to the realization that the _New American Dream_ is to LEAVE.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    I 100% agree. It's nothing like getting a taste of living in another country and realizing you've been duped this whole time in America..lol

  • @VIPcleaningDR
    @VIPcleaningDR2 ай бұрын

    Oh God everything you say in this video is soo real! That is why I’m packing and leaving. I love New York yes, but is crazy here you can’t make it anymore. I don’t know why I feel so relaxed as soon as I land in the DR. Love my country!

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    I'm the same way when I'm here, relaxed. Trust me I feel ya.

  • @Revel214

    @Revel214

    29 күн бұрын

    Thank you for your video. To leave the U.S. do you have to give up your citizenship and apply for citizenship in the DR and do you still have to pay taxes to the IRS? Thank you

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    29 күн бұрын

    @Revel214 no siir you don't have to give up your citizens ship to live here. If you still making money from the US yes you still pay taxes

  • @Revel214

    @Revel214

    29 күн бұрын

    @@JayAbroadthank you very much

  • @NorberisR
    @NorberisR3 ай бұрын

    Finally you released this video. You've been holding it for so long 🤗❤

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    3 ай бұрын

    I know it's about time.

  • @yourdaddy3571

    @yourdaddy3571

    2 ай бұрын

    You’re the gf wife we are guessing?! My boy got his passport and got himself a beautiful woman! Congrats my dude 🎉🎉🎉

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Yesssirr this is my wife. Thanks fam.@@yourdaddy3571

  • @TheGeorgelobo
    @TheGeorgelobo2 ай бұрын

    In the Dominican Republic no matter how black you are If you got money you are the boss, the king, we don't care about skin color

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Facts!

  • @alexispichardo6090

    @alexispichardo6090

    2 ай бұрын

    @@JayAbroad I am orlando , florida . Looking to move to Dominican Republic any advice as far as decent employment . Thanks

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Bro, I don't recommend working over here because the salary is really low. But if that doesn't matter I would recommend a call center here in Santo Domingo. They usually pay somewhere around $700 to $1000 per month depending on the call center and the bonus structure. It's probably one of the highest paying unskilled job here. They are always looking for English speakers.

  • @ceruleanelectricthrone485

    @ceruleanelectricthrone485

    2 ай бұрын

    disturbing

  • @Jean-vp1yr

    @Jean-vp1yr

    2 ай бұрын

    @@alexispichardo6090salaries here are low, that’s mainly the reason why so many Dominicans migrate to wealthier countries like the US, moving to DR from the US mostly works for the retirees, cuz they get their paychecks in USD or unless you have some business venture that you think might be successful down here, otherwise, I don’t recommend moving over here.

  • @idkidk7985
    @idkidk79856 сағат бұрын

    Man your video has so much wisdom . Wish others see this point of view because you are correct and fair in your assessment

  • @GT60616
    @GT606162 ай бұрын

    Jay, I totally agree I grew up in the 70’s and these are some of the exact same reason (and more) I decided to move to the DR, I’ve been visiting the country since 2015 and on my first visit 3 days in I decided right then and there this is were I was going to retire to! Another excellent vid my brother!

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Yessiiir...Are you living here now? What city are you in?

  • @lilo4518
    @lilo45182 ай бұрын

    You are 100 percent correct about the classism part of DR, as a country we are not racist. We don’t call blacks, Afro dominicans, they are just dominicans. Is all about money and status, even if you come from Haiti, and people see you are a professional or business man/woman, they will treat you with respect

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    I agree. 💪🏾

  • @drfeelgood3073

    @drfeelgood3073

    2 ай бұрын

    I disagree with you. I work with many Dominicans in a huge organization. They are racist. They only take care of each other and they deal with blacks only if they have to. Other than that it’s all about them. They are extremely blatant about it. All races at my job complain about them. It’s bad. They are like the Jewish people. They stick together and only hook up each other. Don’t sleep. They are also called nationalists

  • @ceruleanelectricthrone485

    @ceruleanelectricthrone485

    2 ай бұрын

    🤔

  • @dexterspeights3484
    @dexterspeights34842 ай бұрын

    Cons outweigh Pros with America 100%

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Yep, it's going down hill fast.

  • @Jay-jb2vr

    @Jay-jb2vr

    14 күн бұрын

    True statement

  • @margaritagarzon8184
    @margaritagarzon81842 ай бұрын

    I totally agree with you. I respect everyone’s sexual identity but don’t push it in our faces so much and our kids as well. Well said.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Yep, that's all I'm saying. Do what you want but don't force it down my throat and please just leave the kids out of it...

  • @Jonathan_Vlog

    @Jonathan_Vlog

    2 ай бұрын

    Actually, this point is one of the worst in US right now.

  • @pagecurie5512

    @pagecurie5512

    2 ай бұрын

    Amen❤

  • @kiloRR1
    @kiloRR12 ай бұрын

    Brotha as a 70's male I couldn't agree with you more...good luck with your success. I'll be living there soon aswell, just getting my Spanish together and about to retire. Been traveling all my life and always had a void in my life when returning to the US.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Yessiiiir, thank you. And hope to see you here soon one day.

  • @gwene.9912
    @gwene.99122 ай бұрын

    you provided some great information. I have been talking to my husband about moving from the US. I'm looking for a slower paste, better quality of life. Low crime rate, friendly. I love small town and rural areas. I live in a small town now, I'm in the DMV area, and everyone I come across has Cancer, I lost my mother and sister to cancer. I think its in our food. I have been doing a lot of research on other countries and their quality of food is healthier. Thanks for the info.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank you. If finances isn't a concern and have a ways to make money while living abroad. I say go for it. Get him on board.

  • @gwene.9912

    @gwene.9912

    2 ай бұрын

    @@JayAbroad oh yeah he is ready! He watches these KZread video with me all the time. I never thought about the D.R but that’s on the list now. We have to take a trip out there. Thanks

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Definitely come check it out and see what you think. You might like it.🙌🏾

  • @PolishBehemoth

    @PolishBehemoth

    19 күн бұрын

    The DR has a lot of pricessed foods. I just came back yesterday from ounta cana and i was in higuey and santo domingo. Processed food everywhere. However if youre in the country or one of the bigger grocery stores its the exact opposite. Super freah food everywhere.

  • @karentbryant
    @karentbryant2 ай бұрын

    THANK YOU so much for sharing your story! These are some of the same reasons I want to leave.....and the DR has been my dream for years. Your videos are making the decision easy!!

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    You are so welcome! Glad they are helpful. Time to make that dream come true🙏🏾

  • @lorenahooper
    @lorenahooper8 күн бұрын

    My family and i loved the D.R. it reminded me of Mexico with the Vibes, street vendors and music. We danced in the Malecon til 2 am! I love exploring the world and S.D. became one of my favorite places, i been telling everyone about the DR ❤❤❤❤ i met some amazing people❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    8 күн бұрын

    DR is a great country with beautiful warm people. Glad you enjoyed yourself here.

  • @Cimero10
    @Cimero1012 күн бұрын

    Good afternoon Jay, I agreed 100% with you. Excellent point of view and for me all true

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    12 күн бұрын

    Thanks bro.

  • @showcaserome
    @showcaseromeАй бұрын

    "Be present and live your best life." It's great advice

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    Ай бұрын

    Absolutely! Best advice I was given had to return the favor.

  • @mommyonstrike2413
    @mommyonstrike24133 ай бұрын

    So many wonderful places to explore in this world. Everyone should take the opportunity to live abroad ❤

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    3 ай бұрын

    I agree.

  • @HicksMMAandFitness
    @HicksMMAandFitness2 ай бұрын

    I'm 26 (about to be 27) single, no kids. I went to Bangkok, Thailand solo, for my first international trip. The way of life is so much better outside of America. it's like you have peace of mind. Once I have everything set up here. I'm definitely moving out the country.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Yesssiiir, i try to tell some of my friends that you have to leave the country and you'll realize you've been hoodwinked. Life is much better outside the states.

  • @oh-lulu
    @oh-lulu2 ай бұрын

    I'm so agree with you in all of the reasons 100%, I'm a dominican living in FL and can't wait to leave.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    When are you planning to return?

  • @oh-lulu

    @oh-lulu

    2 ай бұрын

    @@JayAbroad Once my daughter finish her therapies, I'm certain by the end of the year.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    @@oh-lulu Awesome 👌

  • @laclife4331
    @laclife43312 ай бұрын

    Jay you're so on point about America. It's crazy here in the US. I working on a way to come live in DR.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    I don't blame you bro. Glad you're working to get out💪🏾

  • @Welltraveled8732
    @Welltraveled87322 ай бұрын

    The racism is not felt when you have a USD salary abroad. Good video sir. Leaving the states is def something i want to do.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Brother it's not always about the money. Some people are just not as racist as the people in the US.

  • @saywhat77777
    @saywhat777773 ай бұрын

    What you are saying is so true, i lived in D.R and South Africa and hands down, the D.R wins and i will be moving back to the D.R in May and i can not wait

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    3 ай бұрын

    That's interesting to know you think DR beats South Africa in your opinion. Very interesting.

  • @AfricanDominicanDance
    @AfricanDominicanDance3 ай бұрын

    I'm one of your first 18 subscribers! Thanks to your wife for posting a clip of this video on her channel. I wish you much success with this channel and look forward to more content 🙌

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    3 ай бұрын

    Thanks for subbing!

  • @jorgeduran7168
    @jorgeduran71682 ай бұрын

    God bless you and your family. I'm dominican residing jersey and i love the way you love my country and saying the truth. ❤😂 you're the best dominican ambassador.❤😂

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Oh wow, I appreciate that. I truly like the country.

  • @willycast80
    @willycast802 ай бұрын

    Bro! You make me think a lot everything you said is true my head hurt I got to get outta here that peace of mind is priceless

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    You can't put a value on a piece of mind.

  • @larryford8558

    @larryford8558

    Ай бұрын

    Yes, this is all true as I’ve experienced exactly what Jay is sharing..this is on point and I experienced that weight dropping off my first visit to DR at airport when the door opened

  • @RolandoGarcia1
    @RolandoGarcia12 ай бұрын

    Hi Jay found your video on KZread ! Thank you for sharing that great experience

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    My pleasure!

  • @checkthemikecrophone9050
    @checkthemikecrophone90506 күн бұрын

    Great video brother well said I totally relate

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    5 күн бұрын

    I appreciate that fam💪🏾

  • @a.a.sanders6448
    @a.a.sanders64482 ай бұрын

    Soon as I get my Spanish conversational I'm going to visit...I've never felt like I belonged in America though born here. I long for a place where I'm no longer prejudged/prejudice based on my melanin. This place was never awesome but now? It's a cesspool. I have two children who are with my ex till they're older. I need to establish myself in another country so that they can escape this sinking ship...thanks for your experiences, much appreciated

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Yessiiirr brother I feel ya pain. DR for me is that place where I'm not prejudged because the color of my skin. They look at me as a human being. It's a huge weight off my shoulder. Some people have different experiences but this is mine. There are many places that you can go where this is the case. I have a grade school daughter and there was no way I was going to send her to a public school in the US. I'm sure you'll figure it out. Any countries in particular you have on your list?

  • @a.a.sanders6448

    @a.a.sanders6448

    2 ай бұрын

    @@JayAbroad hmmm...DR, I have a friend with properties in Belize I want to visit, Philippines, and I want to see Rwanda...seems like great progress is happening there

  • @a.a.sanders6448

    @a.a.sanders6448

    2 ай бұрын

    ...but first I'm visiting a Spanish speaking country.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    All seem like great places. Either one would be a better choice than the US.

  • @roses4me451

    @roses4me451

    2 ай бұрын

    Over 40 years ago, i told BP to learn conversational Spanish, get a Latin friend to practice with, or I'll teach them. (Cussed me out, told me they wasn't learning s**t!) Now, can't get hired unless they speak Spanish, & now "hot as fish grease!" I will be traveling to CO, DR, Panama, etc. and considering moving as well. My advice: GO! Don't let anyone stop you. You deserve safety, happiness, and to live & walk the streets without fear of your life. Good luck! ✈🌍🏝🥭🥥

  • @anthonygiosi4201
    @anthonygiosi42013 ай бұрын

    🎯🎯🎯 I’m from Canada and I can say that 99% of what you said applies to Canada as well ! My country is nothing like the Canada I grew up in when I was a kid …. Your video is very refreshing and I can totally relate! After visiting the DR 5 times I can say with confidence that I will live there in the near future. On my last trip 3 weeks ago, I felt more at home in DR than in the last 5 years in Canada. Hope to see more of this type of video and thanks for your courage to talk about these subjects that go against the plan and the “narrative” 🇩🇴

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    3 ай бұрын

    I feel ya homie. It hard to describe to people who haven't been here how at home this place feels. And yes I got more vids coming.

  • @anthonygiosi4201

    @anthonygiosi4201

    3 ай бұрын

    @@JayAbroad 💪❤️🇩🇴

  • @amandydiaz4778

    @amandydiaz4778

    2 ай бұрын

    I love Canada 🇨🇦 but also like Dominican Republic 🇩🇴 both places are good to live, my husband is from Jamaica and grew up here in United States, I was born here in NYC and we travel all over the world but we always go every year to the Dominican Republic visiting different resorts Puerto Plata, Punta Cana, La terrena, jarabacoa, Santiago etc…Right now I am in Jamaica 🇯🇲 on vacation but next stop it’s Santiago..I invite everyone to visit Dominican Republic, it’s a beautiful city❤nyc

  • @noblegirl1991
    @noblegirl19912 ай бұрын

    So true. I am always watching my back in the supermarket

  • @stringbender31
    @stringbender313 ай бұрын

    Subscribed! I agree with all of your points. It’s an eye opening experience when the U.S is seen from an outside prospective. I believe many Americans never realize there’s a whole other world outside the states. Great video brother! Loved it. Keep the content coming.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    3 ай бұрын

    Bingo, when you look at it from the outside it looks like circus. Thanks for watching.

  • @KBK475
    @KBK4753 ай бұрын

    Great video brother. My wife is Dominican and I definitely intend on us making th transition out of the U.S and to the Dominican Republic. I was just there in December and have been there before. Definitely feel the freedom there more than the U.S. Thanks for the upload and continue living your best life 💪🏿💪🏿

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    3 ай бұрын

    That's not a feeling brother, that's a fact. You are more freer here than the US. Can't wait to hear you're moving here for good 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

  • @lovepurposeandpassports
    @lovepurposeandpassports3 ай бұрын

    You dropped some valuable insight in this vid bro 💯 Congrats on the channel, I know you’re going to do great things with it

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    3 ай бұрын

    Appreciate that bro. And you already know you and I got to do something together it's only right💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

  • @lovepurposeandpassports

    @lovepurposeandpassports

    3 ай бұрын

    @@JayAbroad Already 💯

  • @larryford8558
    @larryford8558Ай бұрын

    On point! 🎉 ❤ my sentiments exactly! I enjoy your contributions to enlightening others

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks bro, I appreciate it.

  • @JeanValljeann
    @JeanValljeann2 ай бұрын

    Welcome to the DR my friend, I hope you're doing great here in our imperfect but wonderful country.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Yes I am. Thank you💪🏾

  • @samueldejesusministrando1320
    @samueldejesusministrando132011 күн бұрын

    The most important thing in the life of a human being is to have Jesus Christ in your heart, serve God with all your heart and no matter where you are, if you have God with you, you will be fine, may God bless you.

  • @checkthemikecrophone9050

    @checkthemikecrophone9050

    6 күн бұрын

    People have faith in Christ and live in war torn countries for them it matters where you live. People have economic struggles or corrupt government that they seek refuge. While Christ in your life is important it does matter for some people in different walks of life where they physically live

  • @Tiffany-fp6fb
    @Tiffany-fp6fbАй бұрын

    Thank you so much for making this video. These are the daily struggles that I face every day in America. That’s why I’m considered leaving too.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    Ай бұрын

    You are so welcome! It's time to start looking for countries to fit your needs.

  • @ShannonToney
    @ShannonToneyАй бұрын

    Thank you for sharing. I feel exactly the same way and my plan is in motion to get there!

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    Ай бұрын

    You are so welcome! We waiting on you here🤗🙏🏾

  • @cynthiaccyn
    @cynthiaccyn3 ай бұрын

    100/100 agreed! I am glad I'm not on my own island in regard to seeing what's happening in the states.

  • @Realtalkog
    @Realtalkog3 ай бұрын

    Good job. Keep living your best life. Stay up!

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    3 ай бұрын

    Always!💪🏾💪🏾

  • @pipuriponpon
    @pipuriponponАй бұрын

    You nailed every single one of your points and argued positively on each one. I couldn’t agree with you more, I’m Dominican and I’ve been living in the US for the majority of my life. Something that many black American don’t know is that in the DR we never had segregation either. A few years back I saw a video talking about black American baseball players that went over to the DR to play back when those segregation laws were in place. I felt happy for them.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    Ай бұрын

    Facts, that why I try to tell people there is very little racism here. It's more classicism here.

  • @johnlajaraceo
    @johnlajaraceo2 ай бұрын

    Great choice. I applaud you. One of the best Caribbean country to live and raise a family.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    We agree!

  • @diabetes1.564
    @diabetes1.5642 ай бұрын

    “America in the 1980s. lol” My brother in law says the same thing about DR. America’s morals do suck

  • @leverdusoleil3914
    @leverdusoleil39142 ай бұрын

    Thank you brother for this video. I appreciate you!

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    You're welcome. I appreciate it.

  • @jamessierra4282
    @jamessierra42829 күн бұрын

    Great video bro. I like how you explained your reason to move to Dominican Republic. A lot of what you expressed is right. The USA is changing so much these days and becoming super expensive. There are so many opportunities in Latin America to do business and live a relaxed lifestyle. Especially now with remote jobs, you can work anywhere and get paid in us dollars. Best bet would be live in another country like Mexico, DR, Colombia or Costa Rica. Many countries are opening up doors to digital nomads and expatriates to live and acquire residency or citizenship. Thanks for your great content!

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    9 күн бұрын

    Brother this is all facts. It's a lot of opportunity in these Latin countries. People are sleeping on that. You're welcome.

  • @jazzo8466
    @jazzo84662 ай бұрын

    Everything u said is 100! I get a lil emotional leaving RD every time. My soul tells me to stay! 2 more years im retiring and moving.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    I feel ya. I use to be the same way before I moved here.

  • @Rafael_Cast
    @Rafael_Cast2 ай бұрын

    You found your place! Great vid…

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Yes! Thank you!🙏

  • @PaulProsperInvestments
    @PaulProsperInvestmentsАй бұрын

    Great video! I retired from the military and returned home to Jamaica in 2021. I agree with you on every point you made. I agree that the feeling of blending in with everyone and not being judged based on skin color is hard to explain but it feels so good!

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks fam. If only people can experience that one part would be a game changer in their lives.

  • @Macho_Beats
    @Macho_Beats9 күн бұрын

    Hello my kind brother. Sounds like I need to consult with you and your lady soon. Peace and blessing. 💪🏽

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    9 күн бұрын

    Let us know by sending us an email at iamjayabroad@gmail.com

  • @Macho_Beats

    @Macho_Beats

    9 күн бұрын

    @@JayAbroad Will do my brotha. Visiting DR for the first time in a few weeks but I plan to double back soon. Just getting my feet wet now but looking into to starting my exit strategy.

  • @bryanbingham3953
    @bryanbingham39533 ай бұрын

    Great video!! Thanks for sharing. Stay Blessed

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    3 ай бұрын

    Thank homie! You too!

  • @Gatomontex
    @Gatomontex2 ай бұрын

    IDK what is ur profession, but the analysis you do right here is a perfect one. Blessings

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    I appreciate that fam💪🏾

  • @phillybred8580
    @phillybred85802 ай бұрын

    Thank you OG needed to hear this

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Fa sho fam. I hope it was helpful 💪🏾💪🏾

  • @PrayShopCruise-fl3po
    @PrayShopCruise-fl3po2 ай бұрын

    This video is so good . Thank you for sharing .

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    You are so welcome

  • @WMartinez001
    @WMartinez0012 ай бұрын

    I visit Santo Domingo frequently and have family in Villa Mella I agree with everything that was said. I am treated very well a lot better than here in America. I understand spanish I am Puerto Rican/Dominican and not once have I heard the color silliness that I hear in America that a lot of people love to talk about and thats within all groups of people.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Exactly homie. I'll say for you, it's Black Americans who started that silly nonsense and continue to perpetuate it. No one here is thinking about that color nonsense. These people look at themselves as Dominicans period. They don't have to identify as anything else just to please Black Americans. I'm a Black American and I identify as such because that's the country I grew up in and that's how they identify you there. Dominican Republicisn't like that they don't divide their citizens up by race. Its simple to understand yet they continue this b.s.

  • @WMartinez001

    @WMartinez001

    2 ай бұрын

    @@JayAbroad respect my brother ✊🏽

  • @gking831gm
    @gking831gm2 ай бұрын

    Words of wisdom !! Respect wishing you the best still love your wing channel. Be free enjoy life !!

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    I appreciate that, homie. Thanks!

  • @whitneyc.3257
    @whitneyc.325715 күн бұрын

    I’m Colombian, living in the US since 6 years ago. One of the main reasons why I plan to raise my kids outside of the US is the racism. I want their foundational years to be healthy emotionally and socially.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    15 күн бұрын

    I understand that. One of the reasons I wanted to move from the US. Didn't want my daughter dealing with that. Here every little girl looks like her.

  • @ZionHernandez89
    @ZionHernandez8923 күн бұрын

    Man oh man you right about everything, I’m planning for next year I’ve been looking at houses and all I’m tired of the states

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    21 күн бұрын

    Fa sho. What countries is on your list?

  • @Cherrelle916
    @Cherrelle9162 ай бұрын

    I'm thinking Belize. Nice video brudda and congrats to you and your family>

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    I heard Belize was nice looking to visit there soon. At this point anywhere is better than the US😅

  • @GBU61
    @GBU6129 күн бұрын

    Born and raised in the Midwest, but spent most of my adult life in Dallas, Texas. I was raised in the 1960s and 70s and at that time life made sense. I began to see changes in the 90s and by the time social media invaded my space I knew I needed to leave. I chose Colombia for the weather, cost of living, the culture and the language. I feel a sense of peace here that no longer exists in America. And if a man wants a relationship in America…he has no chance. If a man can speak Spanish and keeps himself fit, his options for relationships here are way better than back home. I am an American by birth and culture, but I feel betrayed by what it has become. By the time a man reaches 50, he is invisible to most people and I learned real fast no one really cares about me anyway. I left 10 years ago and each year I am more convinced I did the right thing.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    29 күн бұрын

    Bro, thanks for sharing this. This is real. I appreciate. I know you are enjoying Colombia💪🏾

  • @raymondabraham678
    @raymondabraham6782 ай бұрын

    Hey My Brother, great presentation of the information. I agree with all your points. The important thing is you imposed a discipline on your decision. Well done, thank you.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Yessiiirr a decision like this is important and one needs to make sure everything is in place to ensure a smooth transition.

  • @luisangeltremolrivas1771
    @luisangeltremolrivas17712 ай бұрын

    I mma tell you something, you are brave for taking that big and impactfull decision to live here in my country. Only few people are brave enough to do what you did. Maybe some day we meet and share a Presidente...!

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Yessiiirr I love a Presidente tan fria😅

  • @AphrooneRichardson
    @AphrooneRichardsonАй бұрын

    Uncle Jay you are a natural as a podcaster! Viva Santo Domingo! ASE!

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    Ай бұрын

    💪🏾💪🏾

  • @Kelvin-H.
    @Kelvin-H.2 ай бұрын

    New subscriber here, and I agree with all of the reasons you listed about leaving this place, I've traveled all around the World and have been treated nothing but good, I'm seriously thinking about moving to South Africa, salute to you and enjoy your peace, freedom, tranquility...Keep up the great videos.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    America will having you thinking they treat us the same as we get treated int he US. That's far from the truth. If South Africa is your rest haven go enjoy it brother...💪💪

  • @BedouinBabeNomad
    @BedouinBabeNomad2 ай бұрын

    Thanks so much. I’m inspired.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    You are so welcome!

  • @MrReynoso562
    @MrReynoso5622 ай бұрын

    stress is killing Americans pressure income problems insecurity violence work payments etc

  • @mariangeldyson4079
    @mariangeldyson40793 ай бұрын

    ❤thank you for the video. We will be join you soon🎉🎉

  • @Alexpo346
    @Alexpo34629 күн бұрын

    I am happy for you to enjoy my country. Since 2023 I have been living in the Middle -USA looking for new opportunities. I probably will be back in the future. In the Dominican Republic doesn't exist racism but when I moved here I started to feel rejected by my color. I never experienced that before.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    29 күн бұрын

    That's how you know you're in America. At some point you will be made to feel that way. And yes I'm enjoying your country.

  • @robertjenkins8812
    @robertjenkins8812Ай бұрын

    Very valid points. I left America for the same reasons. I now live in Colombia

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    Ай бұрын

    Congrats! Go where you are treated best! #Salute

  • @mmafan3
    @mmafan33 ай бұрын

    You mentioned about not being comfortable in public and people on edge in the states..i agree. Im always looking over my shoulder and prefer to be home, honestly. I was in Santo Domingo one Sunday night last year walking around on the Malecon near the amusement park area and tons of people out until the wee hours, young and elderly just having a good time with no fighting, shooting etc. Try that in the US. Racism, i agree. In the DR i feel at home and relaxed when there versus the states where i never did. Material wise, we have so much wealth in the states yet miserable and while many Dominicans don't have a lot of things, they are happy and prioritize family and friendships. And yes I know that the DR has its flaws for sure. Please forgive the long post but had to respond and excellent video 👏🏾 keep enjoying.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    3 ай бұрын

    I tell Norberis this all the time when we pass by or hang out on the malecon. You see people of all ages and families and nothing goes down. That would not happen in many parts of the US.

  • @mmafan3

    @mmafan3

    3 ай бұрын

    @@JayAbroad true very true.

  • @KeithD786
    @KeithD7862 ай бұрын

    Yes I been thinking of it I’ve been there 5times throughout whole country except Santo Domingo it’s my last stop for the DR. You are 100 percent correct. The vibe and the cost of living are my main reasons.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Yep. Time to give Santo Domingo a try a now on your next trip.🙏🏾

  • @KeithD786

    @KeithD786

    2 ай бұрын

    @@JayAbroad yes I’ll be own there in October any places you can recommend send them my way. I’m hearing San Pedro, Downtown, or Don Julio

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Send me a message around the time you will be here so i can give you up to date info.

  • @KeithD786

    @KeithD786

    2 ай бұрын

    Ok you got an instagram

  • @Billzoepeawon
    @Billzoepeawon2 ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing, my friend. I agree with you 💯

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Yessiiirr thanks for watching 🙏🏾

  • @MAYKITHRT
    @MAYKITHRTАй бұрын

    Thank you, Jay. I retire in six years and I'm making it a plan to get there. Great video!

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    Ай бұрын

    Yessiiirr. You're on the right track?

  • @sisandaslife
    @sisandaslife3 ай бұрын

    I'm a South african married to a Haitian American I'm here and happy and we finally closed our apartment in America we living our best life here and same reasons for me I chose this Country over my own country I love it here

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    3 ай бұрын

    That's awesome. One person's trash is another person's treasure. Not saying the US is trash to me but you get the point. Congratulations 🎊

  • @Dee-pj7hh
    @Dee-pj7hh2 ай бұрын

    James those are some very very good reasons. I feel the same

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Thanks bro.

  • @autobahnmensch
    @autobahnmensch19 күн бұрын

    Army/Marine veteran here. I left when I retired and have lived and worked in some interesting places in the last 12 years. I can agree with and understand all the reasons you listed and glad you found your place in the sun. Peace!

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    18 күн бұрын

    Thanks bro, I appreciate it.

  • @alembebipelegrini5770
    @alembebipelegrini57702 ай бұрын

    Good job brother!! I hope you keep enjoying that little peace of heaven in earth!☀️☕️🌴🌊

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Yes, I hope so too🤗

  • @latorriesmith123
    @latorriesmith1232 ай бұрын

    Bro you and your wife touched my soul with that 20% decrease in pay video, so i had to come on over here!!!

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Yessiiirr, all we want people to do is the math. And most will be surprised that you don't need as much money as you need in the states in many countries.

  • @vonnpowell3844
    @vonnpowell38442 ай бұрын

    New to your channel. Love your view on the u.s. and moving abroad. I'm trying to do the same after I tackle some hurdles. Love the video.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Thanks, I appreciate that🙏🏾

  • @mustafaa3226
    @mustafaa322627 күн бұрын

    This was a very informative video my man you gave more reason to plan my escape to the D.R. shoutout to you big bro for leading by example

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    26 күн бұрын

    Yessiirr...appreciate that💪🏾

  • @kentayp3174
    @kentayp31742 ай бұрын

    Think about this every time I close my eyes…❤❤❤ Smart move

  • @TuPrimoFutureExpat
    @TuPrimoFutureExpat3 ай бұрын

    Hi Jay. That was on point. I’m a firstborn generation American. My mom is Dominican and my dad Puerto Rican. I’ve been watching Norberis’s videos, among others, to get a pulse of sentiment from expats. I’ve been going to the DR(Santiago) since I was 2, since we have family in that city. I retired from the Marine Corps in 2016, full pension. The wife retires in 2034, so we’re waiting on her pension. Also waiting for our son to graduate from college,we don’t want to take any kids. My wife is gringa, German-American . We’ve been debating becoming expats for ALL the reasons you stated(DR, Argentina or Colombia). Your video was straight to the point. If we move to the DR, it’ll be north coast, we’ll start looking in 2030. I was in PP and Santiago in March 2023. We’ll be in PP in May on a cruise stop, and I plan to give the wife a great tour for about 7 hours. However,we’ll have to make multiple trips lasting weeks after 2030,I’m sure things will be a little different with the new train systems in place. Jay,have a great life in the DR and thanks again. The US is unbearable.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    3 ай бұрын

    Thanks homie, I appreciate you sharing this. I know everything will work out for you in choosing the right place for you and your wife.

  • @TheUnbeliever
    @TheUnbeliever18 күн бұрын

    You are 1000% right.

  • @LivinginArizona
    @LivinginArizona2 ай бұрын

    Great presentation I agree with you.

  • @JayAbroad

    @JayAbroad

    2 ай бұрын

    Thanks i appreciate that.