I have also heard people tell me, "You're so strong." I had the same feeling. Like, "You have no idea how exhausted and depleted I feel. I do not feel strong. "

Thank you Nora for redefining many this for me. I follow your program regularly and repeat episodes when I am having Redefinition moments. ❤

Resilient. Another word our working society has deemed necessary to use when they don't know what else to say to a person who has had their heart shattered by losing their soul mate. People who cannot relate to the shoes you have been walking in just need to shut their pieholes!!! I am definitely not resilient, I gave everything I had to care for my wife during cancer and Caregiving. What little I have left is to try and put pieces of my life back together!!! There is a basic problem with our society and death. People who have not incurred great losses in their lives should probably just not say anything. Resilient my ass. A person has to live it in order to get it!!! Take care Nora, and thank you for your messages ❤🌹

@FeelingsandCo

28 күн бұрын

💔❤‍🩹❤

I appreciate your honesty about how you were helped by friends and strangers via social media. I do wish everybody had that advantage or at least the opportunity for that type of assistance. I also don’t feel very resilient at least not yet ? I get up every morning and go to work but it feels like I’m doing it mindlessly ( zombie apocalypse is becoming me ? ) Anyway, I can believe you don’t have a music career and I’m glad you don’t…..you’re doing just fine at your day job. Please don’t stop !

@FeelingsandCo

28 күн бұрын

You're doing a great job at a damn hard thing (life). And don't worry, I don't see myself pursuing a music career anytime soon seeing as how I'm still struggling to learn piano!

Thank you Thank you Thank you!

Loss of a soul mate breaks you. Then it is a process of picking up the pieces and still finding forward motion, somehow.

@FeelingsandCo

28 күн бұрын

Somehow, however slowly it happens, we do it. Our hearts are never the same, but they do keep working💔❤❤‍🩹

In illinois so love the midwest tune😅

People use the word as compliment, as though it’s a choice that is made. Resilience isn’t an option.

Yes!

I hate when people tell me that I’m “strong”. 🤬 I know people mean well, but what’s the opposite with that in the context of losing everything?

My father was also an English major❤

@FeelingsandCo

28 күн бұрын

My kinda guy!!!!

@harleyquinn6692

28 күн бұрын

@@FeelingsandCo ♥️

Not resiliant here either. I still cry for my husband after a year and a half.

@FeelingsandCo

28 күн бұрын

BABE THAT IS SO NORMAL!!!!!!