Why healthy relationships are hard in 2020 | Esther Perel | Google Zeitgeist
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Psychotherapist Esther Perel explains how the nature of relationships have dramatically evolved in the modern world.
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Mind blowing....
The median length for a marriage in the US today is 11 years with 90% of all divorces being settled out of court.
Too short!
So let me get this straight: 1. Relationships used to be so much healthier with a more patriarchal society because people knew what was expected of them in relationships and people tended to obey some common rules of courtship. 2. Our modern, technology-addicted, socially-disconnected, unhealthy society severely harms the health and well-being of people's relationships.
@funkediscofreak
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah...so she didn't say patriarchal societies were healthier, she said it was easier in the sense that people understood their roles. If you listen to her podcast she is definitely not a proponent of patriarchal values.
@darklightprojector2688
4 жыл бұрын
Yes
@michellewilson7412
3 жыл бұрын
No, if you watch many other TED talks of hers you will hear her say a lot more about this. She states that feminism, not the crazy over the top feminism, is not the problem. The issue is that women must bring the men along with them. We have forgotten to include men on this journey.
@patrikpass2962
2 жыл бұрын
@@funkediscofreak shes says that someone else should force your love life and medicine on you because you have to be a good member of society. Shes an insane dictator.
So in a nutshell... people are afraid to make decisions.
She lost me at the robot part
This is the future of relathionship Just deal with it Most of the relathionship will fail , just the fact You can talk bulshit for hours and hours but you can't changes this reality
@sanjeevkushwaha4043
2 жыл бұрын
True 👍😎 ground reality is completely different from what she is preaching on the stage 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Feminism. Family court. No fault divorce. This is why.
@LSSYLondon
3 жыл бұрын
Ronald Reagan was the creator of no fault divorce!
@kingsargonii6939
3 жыл бұрын
@@LSSYLondon and American women were the beneficiaries.
@yearofthegarden
3 жыл бұрын
Tinder made it into a shopping game too.
@louishoebel8252
2 жыл бұрын
bitter denial is not a good look. See if you can change.
@louishoebel8252
2 жыл бұрын
@@kingsargonii6939 misogyny is Really not a good look....and it will get in your way as you struggle for what it is you seek.
Shes indirectly telling you that you are too stupid to know how you want to live. And that she and her friends, who think they are all knowing, will force your love life and your medicine so that you will be productive. For who? Shes insane.