Why don't guys approach pretty women

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Why guys don't approach pretty women. Why don't men approach pretty women.
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  • @Ari-ih5un
    @Ari-ih5un6 жыл бұрын

    It's even harder if you're attractive but an introvert/ have social anxiety of some sort.

  • @kukunuta9047

    @kukunuta9047

    6 жыл бұрын

    U know what is even harder then that when you're ugly and introvert and have social anxiety.

  • @maripalm2930

    @maripalm2930

    6 жыл бұрын

    Omg same 😂😂

  • @theworldisimmense

    @theworldisimmense

    5 жыл бұрын

    Aria Carlson that be me plus I have stuttering imagine that

  • @theworldisimmense

    @theworldisimmense

    5 жыл бұрын

    Kuku Nuta you know what’s harder than that ? Having social anxiety , anxiety and a stutter

  • @kaylam835

    @kaylam835

    5 жыл бұрын

    Aria Carlson yes. I hate it when people try to talk to me in public. I literally freak out and do this twitch thing. I wish I had a resting bitch face because having a friendly face, being an introvert, and having social anxiety is so tiring. That’s why I barely live the house. Social interaction for the most part freaks me out. Specially when it’s small talk or if the conversation has no purpose at all. I barely can make friends so idk how I’m going to be able to be in a relationship 😫

  • @lindseys6052
    @lindseys60526 жыл бұрын

    What God has for you is for you...period

  • @thomasgrabowski2202

    @thomasgrabowski2202

    3 жыл бұрын

    Looks like it. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

  • @Mae-rr5ye

    @Mae-rr5ye

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aw thankyou. ♥️

  • @destinixshakur

    @destinixshakur

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @teap.9045

    @teap.9045

    Жыл бұрын

    Preeeeaaaaaccccchhhhhh!!!!

  • @Ant-speakingfacts

    @Ant-speakingfacts

    Жыл бұрын

    Gimme a break smh 🙄

  • @Juju-tx3bb
    @Juju-tx3bb7 жыл бұрын

    Ive heard a man say that a pretty woman may be harder to be with and more work needs to be put in so they just dont bother.....then they say if she is pretty then she MUST have a man.

  • @luulips

    @luulips

    7 жыл бұрын

    juju Dee Same thing I always hear. And if she doesn't have a man then something else is wrong with her. All assumptions.

  • @icycici

    @icycici

    7 жыл бұрын

    juju Dee Omg yess!!! men look at me confused as to why im single, then in the same breath say what there's no way a guy could not be insecure if im their gf!!?? Its soooo irritating!!

  • @ricorogers9319

    @ricorogers9319

    7 жыл бұрын

    9 times out of 10 pretty women have a sense of entitlement...Most guys arent trying to deal with that

  • @lccanimations

    @lccanimations

    7 жыл бұрын

    rico dynamite truth!

  • @icycici

    @icycici

    7 жыл бұрын

    rico dynamite Sense of entitlement? Please expound...

  • @angierubyprice999
    @angierubyprice9996 жыл бұрын

    My dad used to say. "Pretty women will always be lonely" Goes for handsome chaps too.😎🌷 .

  • @sarahneels4331

    @sarahneels4331

    4 жыл бұрын

    So why can't they be together? 😏

  • @averagecitizen863

    @averagecitizen863

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sarahneels4331 cause the fandom doesn't chip them lmao

  • @angellekriedt

    @angellekriedt

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wow this explains a lot ... LOLL🖤🥺

  • @crystalmason829

    @crystalmason829

    3 жыл бұрын

    And theres absolutely nothing wrong with that

  • @unapologeticallyme4428

    @unapologeticallyme4428

    3 жыл бұрын

    Now I see. Your dad was 100% right.

  • @bravebirdie
    @bravebirdie6 жыл бұрын

    Men don’t talk to beautiful women because they are too scared.They don’t want to get rejected and make a whole lot of assumptions about “her” attitude or expectations. Period. I don’t know what this video is about.

  • @kristysmith4990

    @kristysmith4990

    4 жыл бұрын

    Repent and Believe yes that’s true the ones that always get beautiful women

  • @davise26
    @davise267 жыл бұрын

    so basically i need to start approaching men. cause if i wait on men ill never get a date. smh

  • @giggles1219

    @giggles1219

    7 жыл бұрын

    But then they'll turn around and imply you're thirsty or desperate. Can't win for losing.

  • @josiahblackstock484

    @josiahblackstock484

    6 жыл бұрын

    Giggles its the same for women though too

  • @Pussinbootszzz

    @Pussinbootszzz

    6 жыл бұрын

    To me this video made no sense

  • @millymilly8264

    @millymilly8264

    6 жыл бұрын

    You should never chase men

  • @GoldenGraham25

    @GoldenGraham25

    6 жыл бұрын

    Someone made a great point above. If you don't understand what Chazz is saying in this video, go back and study Hilary vs. Trump lol. It is the perfect explanation lol.

  • @DesiLu4Life
    @DesiLu4Life7 жыл бұрын

    talents are a double edged sword-wow, so true! As Halle Berry said, beauty is a blessing and a curse

  • @justmyopinion1409

    @justmyopinion1409

    6 жыл бұрын

    true

  • @vizunip8773

    @vizunip8773

    6 жыл бұрын

    well your both

  • @liongirl4321

    @liongirl4321

    6 жыл бұрын

    preach!!!

  • @wheretheheckismykummerspec7218

    @wheretheheckismykummerspec7218

    6 жыл бұрын

    more blessing than a curse

  • @andrealester1126

    @andrealester1126

    6 жыл бұрын

    It’s true

  • @unapologeticallyme4428
    @unapologeticallyme44283 жыл бұрын

    It's crazy when they leave a beautiful, intelligent, caring, non petty independent, woman. For a narcissistic, cold hearted, entitled, petty unattractive women.

  • @kaafirgupta8397

    @kaafirgupta8397

    2 жыл бұрын

    Only fat women are unattractive others are fine

  • @biggooeyyy

    @biggooeyyy

    11 ай бұрын

    what’d i do

  • @lanelle.delina
    @lanelle.delina7 жыл бұрын

    Explains my love life in a nutshell. I never learned the game. I guess I wasted my life away being a genuine. My question is how do you even start competing with these odds?

  • @askchazzellis

    @askchazzellis

    7 жыл бұрын

    You can be genuine and use strategy. You genuinely want to win and there is nothing wrong with setting yourself up to do so. You can turn it around by learning the strategies to stacking the odds in your favor.

  • @belleamourphed1111

    @belleamourphed1111

    7 жыл бұрын

    askchazzellis can u make a video & share strategies with us who r sweet/shy & have none 😩

  • @essenceedits1063

    @essenceedits1063

    7 жыл бұрын

    Danielle Sullivan You can say. Hayyy, I'm single lol.

  • @rogers5622

    @rogers5622

    6 жыл бұрын

    Danielle Sullivan so true . I think that was my error too. Over 40,no kids or any serious relationship . Game might be over 😂

  • @rryphill4408

    @rryphill4408

    6 жыл бұрын

    Danielle Sullivan ...Stay genuine or honest or fair.My experience over 45yrs keep living.Know your worth keep your worth it will be best later in life.Plans backfire,manipulation play manipulation we weep what we soe.Don't be a fool keep your worth it will show up in its time then you will shine...peace.

  • @LaPorshe
    @LaPorshe7 жыл бұрын

    Everyone should have standards for themselves. Not too high and not too low. Ask yourself: why do i want to date? Remember: Dating is a step towards marriage. Otherwise, you have no business being in ANY kind of relationship with anybody lol, stay single.

  • @Mollykiss2

    @Mollykiss2

    6 жыл бұрын

    LaPorshe' totally agree

  • @tovarisch3039

    @tovarisch3039

    6 жыл бұрын

    some one's got it figured out.

  • @thomasgrabowski2202

    @thomasgrabowski2202

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's bull shit.

  • @gruka333

    @gruka333

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hahahahaha !!! Never say that to outside world..Some dude like me gonna spit the true on you on public and your gonna be very very sad at this shitty moment...maybe latter too !!

  • @isabellalora6533

    @isabellalora6533

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re so pretty... stunning.. 🌹❤️😧

  • @Dashboard901
    @Dashboard9016 жыл бұрын

    Omg this is my exact problem. So many missed opportunities because of thinking my natural attributes would carry me. One problem I have with this is the lack of integrity people have when going about getting what they want. I've had "friends" not as attractive as me get the man, by being scandalous and me just being oblivious of it all.

  • @honeyjazz4147
    @honeyjazz41473 жыл бұрын

    I believe many men are intimidated by pretty women. I been told I'm very attractive, my problem is the ugly men and the losers have no problem approaching me, I think it's because they feel they don't have anything to lose. Men on my callabur seem afraid of me. I tried online dating sent this one guy my photo he said I was too pretty for him. I wish guys would loosen up and be brave get too know someone first.

  • @rashid6437

    @rashid6437

    Жыл бұрын

    Feminism has made men to think like that.

  • @abangman8942

    @abangman8942

    Жыл бұрын

    pretty women often times have high ego when a lot of conventionally average/ugly guys help stroking that ego. you might be diff but 9/10 times it is. ask any male friends, they would agree

  • @jaydrich8115

    @jaydrich8115

    Жыл бұрын

    Ugly or not a man is supposed to be a man that's why I laugh at hos like you who get seed used by the pretty niggas you want commitment from

  • @davidmckinley8378

    @davidmckinley8378

    Жыл бұрын

    a lot of guys, that you claim are your caliber, used to be losers. and so they look at how you act towards the men who haven't made it yet, or probably never will make it in your book, and say that you would never appreciate the struggles they went through to get to the level they're at, and when things don't go your way, you'll find some type of way to plunder their resources through divorce, or let another man capitalize of his hard work by betraying him while using his stuff, money, and sleeping around him. and while it maybe possible to retire and flip everything i just said, 🤷🏾‍♂️ there are youtube videos with women (possibly like yourself) clowning a "loser" till he drive off in a lamborghini. then y'all try to holla. now i (somewhat obviously) don't have an expensive sports car, but we don't need one to be completely turned off by this brand of bs, and don't even bother trying to approach, anymore. 👨🏾‍🦯 and just remember, that top 20% of men you strive to be with, has, like, an 80% fail rate....🤔 which might explain the divorce initiation rate of women... to mirror the dissatisfaction of not getting a man capable of the top 20%...👨🏾‍🦯meh, hope you not over 30...

  • @squali1930

    @squali1930

    9 ай бұрын

    Cat tell you how many times I thought a girl was just to pretty for me. Honestly we are so dumbfounded by the idea that she might be interested in us that we just dismiss the though as us being delusional.

  • @LittleMissDeeDee
    @LittleMissDeeDee7 жыл бұрын

    Apparently, well-kempt pretty women have attitude problems and a sense of entitlement. So some dudes rather date average looking women with a decent personality. Also, some men feel threatened by women they find super attractive. Either they think they'll get rejected or they don't feel comfortable being with a woman they know will get a lot of attention from other dudes.

  • @andreajones2700

    @andreajones2700

    6 жыл бұрын

    I agree but they also approach average looking women because they think they will be easy to get. sometimes also easy to sleep with because they often times think they are lonely.

  • @rodwilliams7457

    @rodwilliams7457

    6 жыл бұрын

    Don't blame pretty women its not there fault for being pretty

  • @andreajones2700

    @andreajones2700

    6 жыл бұрын

    who's doing that?

  • @amadeus5403

    @amadeus5403

    6 жыл бұрын

    I don’t care about getting rejected I’ll ask and ask and ask; I don’t care. But if she’s a top notch with a big butt then it’s gonna be a hassle keeping her because of her options; plus she aging and she’s always weighing the opportunities she getting every single day from men . It’s better to get a plain Jane who has less options so you have more control. No control In a relationship is a miserable relationship.

  • @rodwilliams7457

    @rodwilliams7457

    6 жыл бұрын

    Avner Chaim I think is desperate to keep bothering a woman that turned you down,.. And its better to look for someone in your league and lane... Pretty girl stick with handsome dudes and plain Janes and johns stick with each other.

  • @onemorecatplease710
    @onemorecatplease7107 жыл бұрын

    So true:( my exhusband left me for an unattractive fat girl. She was manipulative big time. Never underestimate anyone.

  • @dezerismith7529

    @dezerismith7529

    6 жыл бұрын

    Baneful Things maybe he was just not good enough for you.

  • @sarahgivens7182

    @sarahgivens7182

    4 жыл бұрын

    Maybe he a chubby chaser

  • @thomasgrabowski2202

    @thomasgrabowski2202

    3 жыл бұрын

    easy to trick people who are afraid! Don't let fear consume you! Face your fears!!!!!!!!!

  • @beac8238

    @beac8238

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@khadijahbamadhaj8618 I haven’t heard that word in so long, I laughed much harder than I should have 😂

  • @KingComp67_-io3iz

    @KingComp67_-io3iz

    2 жыл бұрын

    Are you really sure or are you just saying because he left you?

  • @rtlad3066
    @rtlad30666 жыл бұрын

    It is a myth most pretty women are boring or shallow. Many have several skills or can develop them like anyone else, but there are tons of people who work each day to feed lies to men about women they see as competition..then it gets deeper (certain races of women working to discredit other races of women). I've seen it all throughout my life, but a part of me feels that if someone can fool someone about me, maybe the person fooled wasn't worth my time. I remember this girl would do so many things behind scenes to get the favor of many, including flattery. She gained so many friends that way, that by the time I knew what she was up to, it was too late. No one would ever believe me because she gained their friendship & who knows what lies she may have told or "implied." Your advice is spot on. It's sad, but I refuse to manipulate in this way. Network fine. Avoid cheaters, ok. But, I won't put people down to get ahead. I want honest, pure relationships and status.

  • @kerrinewton5074
    @kerrinewton50747 жыл бұрын

    This is so true, this happened to me within my business and it was so frustrating seeing another company offering a similar product for money and a poor quality product. All based on how they presented and the things they did with my client that I wasn't doing because I got comfortable. Great video keep up the great content.

  • @askchazzellis

    @askchazzellis

    7 жыл бұрын

    Don't feel like the lone ranger, I have been through that same thing myself.

  • @naturallyimani
    @naturallyimani3 жыл бұрын

    “Hard work beats talent when talent doesn’t work hard.” This video really gave a great representation of how that quote works in real-life situations.

  • @dr3armer
    @dr3armer6 жыл бұрын

    I'm guilty of doing this but for a different reason. The reason why I don't approach gorgeous women is cause I either A. Assume they're taken. B. Not confident enough to approach them C. Too much effort to keep them interested (too much competition). I want to change this but this is just how I am and how some other guys are.

  • @tandrinebray8194

    @tandrinebray8194

    4 жыл бұрын

    AJ Truss please change it because all of y’all think like this and we barely get approached by anyone so it never hurt to try.

  • @averagecitizen863

    @averagecitizen863

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@tandrinebray8194 kinda does tho

  • @kadyh

    @kadyh

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@tandrinebray8194 well guess your gonna have to make the first move most of the time.

  • @mamajedijaws4938

    @mamajedijaws4938

    2 жыл бұрын

    There's not that much competition. Why hot women are with guys that make you ask "why?"....there's not much competition.

  • @Hazelangel70

    @Hazelangel70

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh man !!! Just approach me if you're interested

  • @tharealboobie
    @tharealboobie7 жыл бұрын

    So basically, I should start acting like an ugly chick. Lol

  • @SkyandQuill

    @SkyandQuill

    7 жыл бұрын

    tharealboobie you don't have to be ugly just tone down the glamour and glitz, a lot of plain women are catching husbands these days.

  • @askchazzellis

    @askchazzellis

    7 жыл бұрын

    LOL

  • @victoriawilliams338

    @victoriawilliams338

    7 жыл бұрын

    Skys life

  • @jenniferlewis4209

    @jenniferlewis4209

    7 жыл бұрын

    be very careful with this one...because ugly chicks are more approachable they have better self esteem ....

  • @sugarbum99

    @sugarbum99

    7 жыл бұрын

    Jennifer Lewis there's a saying that rhymes in Spanish: "la suerte de la fea, la bonita la desea!" translation: "the luck of the ugly one, the pretty one only wishes she had!" haha and it's true! I've seen it

  • @theresamischeski71
    @theresamischeski715 жыл бұрын

    My sister is drop dead gorgeous and has a beautiful heart also,So men do not let looks intimidate you because not all pretty chicks are muts 😍

  • @helenadair32
    @helenadair326 жыл бұрын

    You couldn't be more wrong, because I never use beauty or intelligence to get ahead people tell me I'm beautiful I never feel I'm better than anyone, sometimes I think people are intimated by me before they even get to know me I'm mostly prejudged, by my looks I hate that!

  • @barbarellabravin6156
    @barbarellabravin61566 жыл бұрын

    I guess I must be pretty then because I never get asked out. Men always tell me I'm pretty but they never make the effort. They just want to string me along. I find they are lazy. I even get women telling me I'm pretty but only want to know what make-up I use, etc. How can I keep a man interested?

  • @grandoldsoul4691

    @grandoldsoul4691

    6 жыл бұрын

    i read in a book about body langauge that MEN myself included are attracted to pretty women of course. BUT a more interesting finding was that MEN are MORE attracted to a women who shows SIGNS of being AVALIBLE. which exlplains why a girl doesn't have to be the prettiest but will still have plenty of suitors. i fell in that trap before. so strange how different the male and female brains are. i remember i worked with this girl once who was a 5 lol. we flirted around no big deal. then she started showing more interest/signs. i started to become mroe attracted. LIKE SHE LOOKED BETTER TO ME. weird.

  • @theworldisimmense

    @theworldisimmense

    5 жыл бұрын

    Barbarella Bravin they never make the effort? And why don’t you make some effort as well

  • @beac8238

    @beac8238

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@grandoldsoul4691 what book was that?

  • @Memomommy

    @Memomommy

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@grandoldsoul4691 I’m dead

  • @banderas2000

    @banderas2000

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@beac8238 there is a good book i can't remember the name i think "the house of the WOMEN"- awakening the master feminine, but the touch BRIEFLY on this in "the definite book of BL". but it's alot about OWNING your sensuality / sexuality. and letting that be expressed with no judgement in your own skin.

  • @nubiancutie5972
    @nubiancutie59726 жыл бұрын

    Ok that was great! Since I was a little girl I have been doted on for being PRETTY & smart (more attention on my physical). I believed it & invested in it(shopping, make-up, hair, playing the field) until now having many issues in my career and romantic relationships. While my not-so- pretty friends have become very successful black women in both areas. So THANK U for this video because what does being pretty and smart mean when you don't know how to use it to your advantage! And your right relationships is KEY in which I purposely have a very small circle of friends that can be adversely affecting my career as well as love life...Again THANK U for this AHA moment♡

  • @therealdeal5896
    @therealdeal58966 жыл бұрын

    men are crazy! because I could be looking like crap walking to the store and that's when guys try to talk to me. but when I'm looking nice and everything is did up. that's when guys get shy and act like they don't want to speak. then when I'm dressed up the guys that I wouldn't consider be the ones that's trying to talk to me... but then when I'm looking like crap the guys that got something going for their selves or have nice cars or look decent them be the ones that be trying to talk to me but only when I look like crap!. that's crazy!😊 getting talk to the most but when I'm dressed up looking nice hair everything did. that's when guys act like they're scared to talk. smh 😏

  • @TheLuxeTraveler702

    @TheLuxeTraveler702

    6 жыл бұрын

    Happens to me as well. 😣😣

  • @TheLuxeTraveler702

    @TheLuxeTraveler702

    6 жыл бұрын

    Josiah Blackstock why cant guys assume i am dressing up to get attention and possibly a phone number from the attractive guys. Not when im looking 'regulAr' lol

  • @omegawicked1

    @omegawicked1

    6 жыл бұрын

    The real deal! Maybe it's ur vibe

  • @khariscadogan7619

    @khariscadogan7619

    6 жыл бұрын

    The real deal! thats crazy as hell you must be naturally reallllly pretty because that dont really happen to me

  • @MyronsBaldspotLovesKevSamuels

    @MyronsBaldspotLovesKevSamuels

    6 жыл бұрын

    The real deal! Same

  • @anikasmith8361
    @anikasmith83615 жыл бұрын

    He's right. The flip side is that if you are a girl and someone does approach you, its usually the players that get to girls first. 5 guys might like you but if only 3 are brave enough to try, as far as you are concerned only 3 are interested and its usually the ones with not much to offer beyond flash and dash. They know it it and push past the guys who are playing it cool.

  • @ImWORTHITINC
    @ImWORTHITINC3 жыл бұрын

    If you fail to plan, you're planning to fail!!! GREAT ADVICE CHAZZ! I'm not even looking to date, I JUST LOVE to hear you and @kevhickstalks about relationships! YALL BLOW MY MIND with your wisdom!!

  • @rrayeclart7716
    @rrayeclart77167 жыл бұрын

    Chazz doesn't this border on the act of just plain old using someone to get a come up?? from my experience I've been on the shit end of the stick and I've learnt now to keep my plans to myself until you see them in action. Too many want to see you not be successful to make themselves feel better for their own shit comings lol

  • @rryphill4408

    @rryphill4408

    6 жыл бұрын

    RR aye Clart ...Never let your left hand know what your right hand doing...peace.

  • @stephaniebabcock852
    @stephaniebabcock8526 жыл бұрын

    Chaz.....you are really onto something here. I've watched the video twice now, and I'm going to take your advice and apply it both personally & professionally. Thanks!

  • @HealthWithHilary
    @HealthWithHilary7 жыл бұрын

    so let me make sure that I understand...? if you an ugly girl builds relationships and formulates a plan, she will always come out winning? Whereas the more attractive and intelligent person who just shows up and just be who they are runs the risk of missing out?

  • @luulips

    @luulips

    7 жыл бұрын

    PowPow Sounds like what he said.

  • @whoswhowho4872

    @whoswhowho4872

    7 жыл бұрын

    PowPow .......Thanks for explaining the video. I got all kinds of confused.

  • @LiveWithDes

    @LiveWithDes

    7 жыл бұрын

    Nubian By Nature 😂😂😂😂

  • @jennifertalkstodeer4928

    @jennifertalkstodeer4928

    7 жыл бұрын

    super confused when it came to the club and the dj set up deal . . . uhm Ha?

  • @LadyCharity

    @LadyCharity

    7 жыл бұрын

    PowPow yes exactly, he's right!...this is the game of life basically as it has happened to me and I really wish it was something I knew to do when I was younger....used to be shy tho lol

  • @cherishdeb
    @cherishdeb6 жыл бұрын

    This is one of the best explanations I have ever heard!!!! Good stuff!!!

  • @Pussinbootszzz
    @Pussinbootszzz6 жыл бұрын

    This video made no sense to me. You spent the entire video saying to make a plan, because the other women did, then turn around at the end and say don't compete. Huh??

  • @elfhighmage8240
    @elfhighmage82406 жыл бұрын

    For the past thirty years, women have made it clear that approaching them risks being sued for sexual harassment. The risks outweigh the rewards.

  • @KiKiCarr
    @KiKiCarr7 жыл бұрын

    Very tru .. you snapped on this one .. lesson I had to learn .. thanks!

  • @1Skorpia
    @1Skorpia7 жыл бұрын

    please do a video on planning and strategy. what do these "unattractive people " do.

  • @biggieshorty
    @biggieshorty7 жыл бұрын

    1000x times better and less bitter than many black men on KZread who claim to be giving women advice. Thumbs Up.

  • @victoriawilliams338

    @victoriawilliams338

    7 жыл бұрын

    4The L0veofBeauty b

  • @justagirl5040

    @justagirl5040

    6 жыл бұрын

    4The L0veofBeauty yes. His advice is really sincere.

  • @newschoolsuburbanrulez4446

    @newschoolsuburbanrulez4446

    4 жыл бұрын

    Henning Malland they don’t care about men, only about themselves bro.

  • @Zoza15

    @Zoza15

    3 жыл бұрын

    You sound bitter yourself.

  • @xxkissmeketutxx
    @xxkissmeketutxx7 жыл бұрын

    hey Chazz, really eye opening way of thinking that you have, thanks for posting! could you make a video on books/movies/brainy people you'd recommend your subs to, that might further help us to 'act right' in life?

  • @dclarke1896
    @dclarke18966 жыл бұрын

    I've never heard anyone explain it this way. Thank you for sharing a different perspective.

  • @rhondaevans692
    @rhondaevans6926 жыл бұрын

    Wow, great perspective! Very helpful!

  • @Jakishaaaaaa
    @Jakishaaaaaa2 жыл бұрын

    Dude…this opened my eyes. I cant believe I never realised this before. Thanks man.

  • @rinarinarina100
    @rinarinarina1006 жыл бұрын

    What he's saying reality. No matter how high IQed or skilled you are, you can never win the person who's always liked by the people... I'm a medical expert who's young and somewhat good looking, but my colleague who was older, had a plain degree and was plain looking was promoted. I was not. What was the difference? My colleague won people's heart; always humble and hard working, and being nice to everyone.

  • @rodwilliams7457

    @rodwilliams7457

    6 жыл бұрын

    リナ oh well

  • @grandoldsoul4691

    @grandoldsoul4691

    6 жыл бұрын

    i agree. TREAT EVEYONE THE SAME. be FRIENDLY TO ALL PEOPLE. ask questions get to know them. dale carnige's " how to influence people/ win them over"

  • @italyvii
    @italyvii5 жыл бұрын

    I think this might be my answer finally. I always tended to prefer being and working by myself. Just now realizing how important it is to network and make connections . Making plans like that sounds a bit scary since I’m a lil shy but real fun I’m gonna try it out

  • @shanybb3918
    @shanybb39187 жыл бұрын

    I go through this exact same situations with guys. I've always wonder why they would do that to me. I'm a very attractive, humble, comedic, and much more type of person but lately they seemed to overlook me. lol this video answered my question.. thx!

  • @janaycakes723

    @janaycakes723

    6 жыл бұрын

    Shanta Jordan girl same

  • @Aimstrikez

    @Aimstrikez

    6 жыл бұрын

    Shanta Jordan it's simple. Us guys go through a lot of rejection and you wonder why. A girl at work told me guys don't approach as much lately.

  • @msdltv
    @msdltv7 жыл бұрын

    This was so informative!

  • @AJweathersby
    @AJweathersby4 жыл бұрын

    My favorite quote in the Bible: “Victory isn’t promised to the swift, nor strong, but he endureth to the very end.” In other words, never approach anything in life with the mentality that any kind of natural talent or attributes you have will be enough to get you what you want.

  • @mamajedijaws4938

    @mamajedijaws4938

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing that.

  • @brittneygillings4111
    @brittneygillings41116 жыл бұрын

    I like how you present this topic not just for relationships, but life in general. .... thank you

  • @sweetscent2622
    @sweetscent26226 жыл бұрын

    True... Its who you know not what you know. Talking on the employment perspective.

  • @lindazeisky3845
    @lindazeisky3845 Жыл бұрын

    Makes a lot of sense...Thanks! Gave me something to think about. 👍🏻💚

  • @MsLmJones94
    @MsLmJones946 жыл бұрын

    Wow! You are on the money. Makes total sense. Glad I found your channel today!

  • @cherylturner6511
    @cherylturner65116 жыл бұрын

    So true. I appreciate your input. I ‘m beginning to get it, now. Thanks!

  • @lovelyshay7775
    @lovelyshay77757 жыл бұрын

    Wow, this is an eye opener. I see it differently now. Thanks Chazz.

  • @ryanbailey8588
    @ryanbailey85883 жыл бұрын

    Bro, this is good stuff. I’m no woman, but just life advice, how raw skill and talent can make you too comfortable. Good stuff.

  • @cafeparlay4907
    @cafeparlay49077 жыл бұрын

    This makes so much sense!!! Dope video

  • @chailatte7926
    @chailatte79267 жыл бұрын

    As much I love the funny skits, I've missed *this* Chazz!!

  • @txxxtxx
    @txxxtxx7 жыл бұрын

    THIS IS SUCH A REFRESHING PERSPECTIVE, thank you for this 'game' :)

  • @globalgoddess1648
    @globalgoddess16487 жыл бұрын

    You're a genius. Thank you for explaining this!

  • @serenityserenity9829
    @serenityserenity98296 жыл бұрын

    great video!!!! you have to be on your hustle for what you want and also you have to know how the game works and play accordingly

  • @omneya106
    @omneya1066 жыл бұрын

    So insightful, thank you.

  • @amzytalks2903
    @amzytalks29036 жыл бұрын

    this was so needed! thank you so much 👏🏽

  • @Natalia-hf3et
    @Natalia-hf3et6 жыл бұрын

    Great video! You've gained a new subscriber

  • @Akw-xs4ps
    @Akw-xs4ps7 жыл бұрын

    " U are absolutely correct , the two situations do work out the same ; You knocked this topic out the park !! 😎👌👏👏

  • @candycamus
    @candycamus7 жыл бұрын

    TRUE af Chazz!!

  • @TreasureForeverOfficial
    @TreasureForeverOfficial6 жыл бұрын

    Idk why it took me so long to watch this one I was avoiding it for some reason. This video is golden.

  • @positivemindspositivelives2270
    @positivemindspositivelives22707 жыл бұрын

    Wow Chazz looking good!

  • @askchazzellis

    @askchazzellis

    7 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @dariandavis8664
    @dariandavis86646 жыл бұрын

    Good stuff Chazz

  • @1creativeview748
    @1creativeview7487 жыл бұрын

    Very interest perspective. I hadn't thought about this applying to the dating realm. Thanks for the video.

  • @cherylmcleod7357
    @cherylmcleod73577 жыл бұрын

    Ur right...Sumtimes relocating if u can...helps to because ur a new face in the place...strategies....it always work from past experiences and friends past experiences

  • @jasminej6281
    @jasminej62816 жыл бұрын

    All is true what you said but not all pretty girls have the same personality. Some men assume they will never have the chance with you while some get intimidated and blv every other man and his dog would be wanting you and checking you out if he's with you so he can't handle that or don't have the guts to cope with it. Also men always assume you are taken. Story of my life. Same goes for the good looking men, I have seen girls say wow he's gorgeous but I'll never have a chance with him not even gonna go there so she rather watch from the sidelines.

  • @jasminej6281

    @jasminej6281

    6 жыл бұрын

    Repent and Believe I appreciate your courage and motivation mate. Thank you. I can never approach a man out of the blue cz I'm very shy when comes to that. But I'm very easy going person, very humble. I was raised with good morals and values, I don't go clubbing, I don't drink or smoke and I'm not Christian lol but all good I have the similar believes. I do have a resting b**** face when I'm not smiling or in public lol that's just my face lol but I'm a nice person and friendly and sure don't think I'm better than anyone else but I know what I want and what I like in a guy nothing superficial but we have to be attracted to one another.

  • @compensatory21st42

    @compensatory21st42

    6 жыл бұрын

    Most Big Booty chicks with small waist & a pretty face are taken. Trust me I know because I approached many of them.

  • @compensatory21st42

    @compensatory21st42

    6 жыл бұрын

    Tyrone jacobs jr Especially out in public, at bars, night clubs etc. They come up with the same knee jerk response which is I have a boyfriend or I don't give out my number to strangers. This is the sole fact I don't believe these statistics about single women, especially sisters. It's just not the reality of the world. Don't get wrong, I know a lot of chicks lie because they're not interested.

  • @kaylam835

    @kaylam835

    5 жыл бұрын

    Tyrone jacobs jr You’re so mean wtf is wrong with you

  • @2345ronaldinho

    @2345ronaldinho

    4 жыл бұрын

    oh pls. do you know how you sound. "woe is me". "im too pretty, so men don't have the guts to approach me". You shame men for being too cowardly, as you put it, to approach you. And then when advised to approach men your self, you claim "you are too shy". You are clearly scared of rejection, but you want men to take the risk and stick their neck out and do something you are too scared to do yourself. and if they dont, they "dont have the guts". typical. women are rarely accountable. always pointing fingers instead of acknowledging the role they play in their problems.

  • @myworldisfake
    @myworldisfake7 жыл бұрын

    I can't stop looking at your muscles. Lol

  • @Blahblahblah-w5g

    @Blahblahblah-w5g

    4 жыл бұрын

    What muscles?😂😂😂😂

  • @agfromdai.e3806

    @agfromdai.e3806

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Blahblahblah-w5g the man do got muscles tho. Ain’t y’all the ones who always bitch about body shaming lol?

  • @totf6359
    @totf63596 жыл бұрын

    Great video!

  • @stephenmains7370
    @stephenmains73703 жыл бұрын

    Because pretty women are constantly being hit on, they become numb to it!

  • @nisha1983fyi
    @nisha1983fyi7 жыл бұрын

    I kinda heard what you said. I was distracted by the gun show. All I could think about was baby oil :)

  • @YahsLoveisEnough
    @YahsLoveisEnough7 жыл бұрын

    This is exactly how Trump won.Hillary had the talent. Trump connected and networked his base of allies. Pound for pound Hillary was more qualified, but trump had the connections and loyalty because of it. Obama won the same way. He wasn't as experienced as McCain but had the loyalty from his base. Game was peeped from this video.

  • @luulips

    @luulips

    7 жыл бұрын

    Nsaa Freedom School Good analogy and point.

  • @askchazzellis

    @askchazzellis

    7 жыл бұрын

    Nice!!!

  • @1Skorpia

    @1Skorpia

    7 жыл бұрын

    Nsaa Freedom School nailed it.

  • @katyisgone

    @katyisgone

    6 жыл бұрын

    You mean a pound for pound (of flesh) hillary was more qualified. Just research the Clinton body count to see how many people they killed to climb that ladder. Disgusting! Professional politician = believable lier

  • @mrs.kittylarou4970

    @mrs.kittylarou4970

    6 жыл бұрын

    Nsaa Freedom School Exactly

  • @RazorShalom
    @RazorShalom Жыл бұрын

    Recently I've been going up to beautiful amazingly gorgeous women and telling them you know you'd be a lot better looking if you got your teeth fixed or your hair doesn't look good up or down so I pick out something I try not to be too disgusting about it or horrible but you know it works you chop them down then they you know then they end up coming back and trying to stalk me it's pretty crazy.

  • @willvrtist

    @willvrtist

    Жыл бұрын

    Lol what😂

  • @Justgo_with_flow_

    @Justgo_with_flow_

    Жыл бұрын

    Wtf

  • @Asiacaligirl89
    @Asiacaligirl897 жыл бұрын

    I am so happy I clicked on your video!

  • @rayali9854
    @rayali98543 жыл бұрын

    You got to understand approaching a pretty woman for some men is like walking in traffic on green...

  • @winddragon63
    @winddragon635 жыл бұрын

    Very good advice!

  • @SeasonedWoman1900
    @SeasonedWoman19006 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, explained so much!!

  • @ImWORTHITINC
    @ImWORTHITINC3 жыл бұрын

    I give you like before watching (I KNOW IT WILL BE GOOD, all your stuff is AMAZING CHAZZ) because you support my team! ha

  • @MsSecretbitch
    @MsSecretbitch6 жыл бұрын

    Now this s a real eye opener!

  • @prettycarmencurls
    @prettycarmencurls6 жыл бұрын

    Another great video... hugs

  • @kristysmith4990
    @kristysmith49904 жыл бұрын

    You’re smart I never thought of it like that. Some people just have more strategy and the workplace has always been about politics.An attractive can practice what you said at work and won’t necessarily work for her because people are hating on her so that’s another point.

  • @msqueenlyminded7579
    @msqueenlyminded75797 жыл бұрын

    thanks chazz. much love

  • @antoniodelafuentemccauley5867
    @antoniodelafuentemccauley58676 жыл бұрын

    This is surprisingly true... I've watched some Ted Talks about this and none of them where as precise and seemingly right as this

  • @prince223681
    @prince2236816 жыл бұрын

    Pretty women often are not worth it So many guys drooling over them often alters their perception of reality I’ve had unpleasant experiences w pretty women in general Better off going for 7s than 10s Hot girl: “why doesn’t anyone approach me? 😔” *average guy approaches* Hot girl: Sorry I have a boyfriend

  • @seondeon6204

    @seondeon6204

    6 жыл бұрын

    LOL

  • @keepcalm1224

    @keepcalm1224

    3 жыл бұрын

    Have to agree. We have to stop looking at guys and saying THEY are the problem because they no longer want to approach women nowadays. What can a guy say to a pretty woman that she hasn’t already heard? There is nothing that is going to set a guy apart from the other guys trying to get with her unless you are famous ,wealthy or good looking to her. No woman is going to tell you how many guys are interested in her because women like being pursued by multiple men because it keeps THEIR options open. Every man worth his salt knows this. And the sad part about it is that she will be after some guy thats not giving her ANY attention at all like all of the other guys after her. Fellas, leave well enough alone. Advance yourself. Approach and chase success, not women.

  • @ahneimnaudia

    @ahneimnaudia

    3 жыл бұрын

    Not everyone pretty female is the Same

  • @kadyh

    @kadyh

    3 жыл бұрын

    A quick suggestion, observe the one you like and determine weather their behaviors are good for you before diving in balls deep and getting your panties in a bunch, it’s worked for me.

  • @averagecitizen863

    @averagecitizen863

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ahneimnaudia lmao you look exactly like a girl that rejected me with a nasty comment a couple of weeks ago

  • @GiiftiHair
    @GiiftiHair6 жыл бұрын

    does this apply to teenager boys as well ? We are both high schools seniors. I would like a consultation, can someone please comment his email ?

  • @gwenlee9562
    @gwenlee95626 жыл бұрын

    Great information

  • @mfriedrich2012
    @mfriedrich20127 жыл бұрын

    It really depends on so many things. I think pretty girls tend to be aloof and wait for men to approach, silently praying to themselves whoever does won't be "creepy", i.e. have a lower sexual market value than her. This inevitably happens to her. A lot. You can imagine how she copes with this. Usually at a party there really are lots of beautiful 9's and 10's around. I mean beautiful and sexy. Long hair, miniskirts. The works. But if it's the 7's and 8's who have a personality, are fun, smiling, laughing, touching, having a good time, teasing and wanting to be chased, then I would naturally gravitate toward those girls instead. It's more fun, and that's why men go to parties. Usually when you get in good with those girls, then you are considered safe, qualified and "not creepy" and you can then make moves on the prettier girls who are there. You can also decide to skip all that and zero in on your target immediately. Regardless it requires fearlessness, effort, timing and game, which I think most dudes don't have sufficient patience for, or they have way better options. I will say this. Most men don't know shit about picking up girls. What to do. What to say. Which almost makes it too easy from a competition standpoint.

  • @chloeagape4853
    @chloeagape48536 жыл бұрын

    Amazing unexpected career advice LOL. Thank you

  • @ec1358
    @ec13586 жыл бұрын

    Well, thanks for the help this video explained a lot 👏👏

  • @lotyloty2
    @lotyloty23 жыл бұрын

    Awesome advices

  • @nicolchristopher6756
    @nicolchristopher67566 жыл бұрын

    Talk about breaking it all the way down. Dang Chazz!

  • @essenceedits1063
    @essenceedits10637 жыл бұрын

    4.00, forget dating...he's teaching me how to conquer LIFE😂

  • @vbrown7530
    @vbrown75307 жыл бұрын

    good info as usual handsome

  • @askchazzellis

    @askchazzellis

    7 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, I appreciate that.

  • @victoriawilliams338

    @victoriawilliams338

    7 жыл бұрын

    VAY ERVIN b

  • @victoriawilliams338

    @victoriawilliams338

    7 жыл бұрын

    askchazzellis why men begs women for monies even if u do not know them n ever seen or meet them on fb dite some r lies dcammerstheives

  • @victoriawilliams338

    @victoriawilliams338

    7 жыл бұрын

    last night one ask for money ask he is abt to get throw out of his residence n then change syory about hs need milk for his baby baby mom lefy jim with next i help him n he will help me next he is a tasta last he isa construction worker

  • @sarahbrennan1342
    @sarahbrennan13426 жыл бұрын

    Hi I’m happily married now... but always wandered when fellers I knew liked me years ago never approached me. Now I’m watching as when my daughter or son asks ‘dating’ advice I will be able to answer them... 🌹

  • @charlenebuyshouses
    @charlenebuyshouses7 жыл бұрын

    wow. chazz I reAlly liked this cool advice..do more of these ...."life thoughts"

  • @tscott3319
    @tscott33196 жыл бұрын

    what is being said may be helpful to some, however this isnt a true releciton of the topic at hand. if a person for whatever reason doesnt approach another person they are attracted to, its typically beacuse of an interanl complex. could be beacuse the person is not wanting to experience the pain of being rejected, it could be that they feel inadequate within themselves and dont think that they are worthy of love, It could be a number of different things not discussed here. i appreciate the thought behind this video but i know a better discussion can be had

  • @omegawicked1
    @omegawicked16 жыл бұрын

    Good stuff

  • @kimoanamusic8533
    @kimoanamusic85335 жыл бұрын

    I always groove to the intro...nice!!!

  • @Shirl292
    @Shirl2927 жыл бұрын

    Wow, eye opening video. I really do always feel that talent should speak for itself, even though I do develop the relationships specially at work, I don't use them in a way to help me move forward. Need to work on that although I'm not sure that I know how

  • @conniecakes06
    @conniecakes067 жыл бұрын

    very interesting perspective! I never thought of that, this may apply to certain pretty people! some guys are just shy, but is something to look into!

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