How to play a player

How to play a player
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  • @askchazzellis
    @askchazzellis2 жыл бұрын

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  • @continuousself-improvement1879
    @continuousself-improvement18795 жыл бұрын

    The only game to play with a player is Hide and Seek. He seeks and you hide. Get gone from him and stay gone. Win.

  • @bethanystpaul5683

    @bethanystpaul5683

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes!

  • @HanahanRocketz23

    @HanahanRocketz23

    4 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @talentedgoddess101

    @talentedgoddess101

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂💀💀

  • @clare_jordin

    @clare_jordin

    3 жыл бұрын

    Facts!

  • @divinelove3334

    @divinelove3334

    3 жыл бұрын

    Period! FLAWESS VICTORY 🤣

  • @goldendyme8506
    @goldendyme85069 жыл бұрын

    This is good but the best revenge is truly moving on and improving yourself.

  • @patton1909

    @patton1909

    8 жыл бұрын

    real talk

  • @septube26

    @septube26

    8 жыл бұрын

    yes.

  • @tayebattle6894

    @tayebattle6894

    6 жыл бұрын

    Shari Craig Yes they are evil heartless devils

  • @sidehustletoceo

    @sidehustletoceo

    6 жыл бұрын

    Shari Craig exactly

  • @dianeslate4049

    @dianeslate4049

    5 жыл бұрын

    Shari Craig soo true

  • @secureconnection5245
    @secureconnection52458 жыл бұрын

    I tried this tactic and it worked. It gets the player so confused, they start to chase after you. But because you had moved on and don't really care, it drives them nuts at the same time. Brilliant!

  • @mrsquietmusic6413

    @mrsquietmusic6413

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤣 I love it, lol!

  • @zahraliang3897
    @zahraliang38978 жыл бұрын

    When you meet a Player, you move on, find someone who is serious. You dont stay to win over them, u have nothing to prove coz you are capable and attractive.

  • @mstea1866

    @mstea1866

    8 жыл бұрын

    You said girl.....no one has time these days to keep these games going ....if someone is not for you move on and find someone else who is truthful,positive,and worthy of you.

  • @TKTheHun

    @TKTheHun

    8 жыл бұрын

    That's just right.

  • @tayebattle6894

    @tayebattle6894

    6 жыл бұрын

    Zahra Liang There's too many of them, there's no good men out there.

  • @LadyofCleves65

    @LadyofCleves65

    6 жыл бұрын

    Right especially if you are young and want to get married and have a family, don't waste you time on a player.

  • @joeldwest

    @joeldwest

    5 жыл бұрын

    Taye Battle I got a better man from Croatia. American men are way too spoiled and greedy.

  • @bebecitan
    @bebecitan9 жыл бұрын

    I think that the best thing that a girl can do is show a player that she moved on and that she is happy.He will immediately want her back.

  • @1Skorpia

    @1Skorpia

    9 жыл бұрын

    but why do u want the guy back? if anything hes an idiot for not figuring it out sooner. use him or ditch him.

  • @luulips

    @luulips

    7 жыл бұрын

    You don't want him back but they don't go away until they finally realize they have no effect on you. They still hate that they are not winning so unless you don't have to come in contact with them you will almost have to deal with them and still not be moved by anything they do. I see my ex every week at church and it does nothing to me. I feel nothing for him so it's easy to deal with him.

  • @bettyboo3075

    @bettyboo3075

    6 жыл бұрын

    nancy b I agree but if he's a narcissist then no contact is vital to you're well being

  • @ms.fortune2957

    @ms.fortune2957

    6 жыл бұрын

    nancy b TRUE FACTS girl, it works like a CHARM🏆

  • @Hannah-pn2gs

    @Hannah-pn2gs

    6 жыл бұрын

    nancy b I totally agree and they always want you back when you moved on. They are sick!

  • @marilynbradley8487
    @marilynbradley84878 жыл бұрын

    Just being the one who got away would be sufficient satisfaction for me

  • @porschawilson4493

    @porschawilson4493

    7 жыл бұрын

    I agree

  • @lionelluva

    @lionelluva

    7 жыл бұрын

    Marilyn Bradley Agreed. What goes around comes around. It'll happen to them eventually.

  • @marilynbradley8487

    @marilynbradley8487

    7 жыл бұрын

    Alexandra Griffiths They are pretty much narcissistic.and very little hurts them other than losing their prey. Hurts their giant egos.

  • @lionelluva

    @lionelluva

    7 жыл бұрын

    Possibly, but whether they care or not, the hurt will come to them and/or affect them directly.

  • @soyoungbethea-bullock9798

    @soyoungbethea-bullock9798

    7 жыл бұрын

    Marilyn Bradley ...YES GIRL! YOU ARE MY KINDRED SISTER.....SOME FOLKS STILL CHASING ME AFTER 10YRS..LOL....NOPE..LOLOL NOT INTERESTED THEY HAD THEIR CHANCE LOLOL

  • @moniquemosher5237
    @moniquemosher52377 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes when u want something so bad and you finally get it, can be a real let down .

  • @MarshaMartinez
    @MarshaMartinez9 жыл бұрын

    You can never win playing with a narcissistic coward. There brain is in psycho mode.

  • @doristaylor9292

    @doristaylor9292

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Marsha Martinez Yes!!!

  • @pourladentelle

    @pourladentelle

    8 жыл бұрын

    I know, right!!!

  • @septube26

    @septube26

    8 жыл бұрын

    yes that is true.

  • @BBC4.0

    @BBC4.0

    8 жыл бұрын

    They don't sympathize with others why try 😂😂😂

  • @luulips

    @luulips

    7 жыл бұрын

    Its actually fun watching them be disgusted because they have no effect on you.

  • @youtubingbabs
    @youtubingbabs8 жыл бұрын

    You win when you see how truly pathetic a "player" is and you are safe and genuinely wish them the best.

  • @remitsktan4939
    @remitsktan49395 жыл бұрын

    “They already think little of you anyway” “Does not matter if you go low” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @pretty_d00med
    @pretty_d00med9 жыл бұрын

    Let's face it: Players never change. All you can control is the way you react to the whole situation. You playing him isn't going to get him to respect you. He cares more about how situations are in his favor as opposed to who you are and how you feel. You're a game piece to him. Even if you pull one over on them you might not get them. If they cared about you they wouldn't have pulled their tactics in the first place. Your best bet is permanent no contact. Oh, you can bet that when he sees he has no control over you it'll piss him off, being your best successful self and working towards your own happiness will make him upset because it shows not everything is in his favor and you'll be happy with a new man. During the no contact, start detaching yourself and take note of the process that way you'll know what to do when you find one of these boys again.

  • @AbigailChristineIsrael

    @AbigailChristineIsrael

    9 жыл бұрын

    Yeaah cutting contact is the best way. Plus a player/grown boy can change when he meets first woman to say "No" the woman who isnt like the women hes played.

  • @1Skorpia

    @1Skorpia

    9 жыл бұрын

    the thing is how u disconnect and cut your emotional ties.if u still want the guy of course your still in the rollercoaster.cut him out completely dont even play him.your heads not in the game.your a mess.fix yourself.BUT if you can do him,play the game and flip it.use him then ditch him. now hes emotional cuz his ego and rep are in jeopardy.

  • @doristaylor9292

    @doristaylor9292

    8 жыл бұрын

    +DazedNConfusedXD You are sooooo spot on. Best advice!!!!

  • @lisasalmon1675

    @lisasalmon1675

    5 жыл бұрын

    ApeshitBANANAS giiiirll u better PREACH👌👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @breklein3338
    @breklein33387 жыл бұрын

    I've played them. I always ended up with feelings seeing the good in them. not enough to fall for them but enough to care about them though they are selfish egomaniacs. I recommend just walking away. They'll get their karma and it's a waste of your good energy trying to give it to them.

  • @Captivatingndc

    @Captivatingndc

    5 жыл бұрын

    Bre Klein here here! You said it!

  • @joeldwest

    @joeldwest

    5 жыл бұрын

    But if they are going to hurt other women you should play them u til they break so they don’t hurt other women. If you can, you should break them down all the way.

  • @ghisellesimon162

    @ghisellesimon162

    4 жыл бұрын

    victoria ann zabaras look well said I have a best friend who is a player he likes me and I was like break his heart but he is different wirh me they just have to find the right women players are use to women throwing themselves when that cease to happen with one woman they are like wtf is happening

  • @incogb6696

    @incogb6696

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@ghisellesimon162 hm - how is it now

  • @thesheepinwolfsclothing6235
    @thesheepinwolfsclothing62357 жыл бұрын

    players are narcissists, and it's a sweet victory when you beat them at their game and their rules😊

  • @brendaalexander2119

    @brendaalexander2119

    6 жыл бұрын

    Yes Tiara they truly are Narcissistic smh.

  • @maryamkim1281

    @maryamkim1281

    6 жыл бұрын

    S T you can get played, cheated and lied to. Wait. İt's coming for you.

  • @LadyofCleves65

    @LadyofCleves65

    6 жыл бұрын

    Just curious why is that type of life style important to you? I suppose if meaningless sex is all you want out of life then that could be the reason. Or is it you just like the game of hunter. You will wind up alone and old sitting in a Nursing Home playing with yourself cause no one will give a rats ass. I don't understand people who like to deliberately break hearts and find that fun. Something is wrong with your heart and mind. Just saying. And yes karma does exist.

  • @sweetscent2622

    @sweetscent2622

    6 жыл бұрын

    LadyofCleves65 low self esteem is what drives players. Pity them only :(

  • @theSpiritofTamzin

    @theSpiritofTamzin

    6 жыл бұрын

    S T 😄😄😄😄

  • @anewloveofficial9137
    @anewloveofficial91376 жыл бұрын

    If you enter a relationship be sure that you know how to play the game or else you'll be the one to get played. Don't be carried away by too much emotion because you also need to use your brain for you to win the game.

  • @soniczforever5470
    @soniczforever54706 жыл бұрын

    Lol players don't like being ignored,

  • @SagRising19

    @SagRising19

    5 жыл бұрын

    nope, тнey don'т

  • @ak-47intelligence75

    @ak-47intelligence75

    5 жыл бұрын

    They hate it.

  • @Stephy_E

    @Stephy_E

    5 жыл бұрын

    Exactly 😂

  • @mstheballer1015

    @mstheballer1015

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Sonicz Forever #Facts

  • @jaedaharrington2554

    @jaedaharrington2554

    4 жыл бұрын

    Facts the guy called me seven times plus texted me I hit that ass with the see

  • @lizsanford7089
    @lizsanford70898 жыл бұрын

    For ten years I have thought my cheating (now) ex-husband was the victim of a bad childhood and in twelve minutes I learned that he is just a player

  • @tayebattle6894

    @tayebattle6894

    6 жыл бұрын

    Liz Sanford I'm sorry he wasted ten years of your precious life

  • @LadyofCleves65

    @LadyofCleves65

    6 жыл бұрын

    Find yourself a better man, that is what I did and was married to the new guy for 25 yrs till his death, he was wonderful.

  • @Karen-mb4bu
    @Karen-mb4bu8 жыл бұрын

    my player is the one that I fell in love with... As things progressed I realize that he was just playing me... "Not ready for a relationship" ... when I stopped trying to get his attention... He contacts me back with saying that he Loves me & I'm a beautiful, respectful, a wonderful person. it stopped me in my tracks for a moment, because I wanted to hear that from him. I thought he had really changed and wanted me to be a part of his life... But now I have to love him from a distance and keep my heart open for other men to step up that might really want to really be a part of my life. It is not something I want to do... It is something I have to do.

  • @greenjupiter

    @greenjupiter

    7 жыл бұрын

    Wow you are very wise, bravo!

  • @bettyboo3075

    @bettyboo3075

    6 жыл бұрын

    Karen Hicks he sounds like a narcissist just had that experience

  • @LadyofCleves65

    @LadyofCleves65

    6 жыл бұрын

    Oh that must have broken your heart dear lady. I feel for you, I should cause I am in that boat now. I see it has been a year since you posted your comment so hoping you have moved on and found happiness that you deserve.

  • @mamamarianovits9029

    @mamamarianovits9029

    6 жыл бұрын

    Karen Hicks Profound, insightful, heartbreaking and oh...so...true. Bless your dear heart.

  • @anatoria9742

    @anatoria9742

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hi

  • @JESUSREIGNSAmen
    @JESUSREIGNSAmen7 жыл бұрын

    They are narcissists! Leave them alone and RUN!

  • @bethanystpaul5683

    @bethanystpaul5683

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes!

  • @treejay818

    @treejay818

    4 жыл бұрын

    But why is your focus on players tho 😂

  • @natalielefebvre1628

    @natalielefebvre1628

    3 жыл бұрын

    Very truth it a headache

  • @missball404
    @missball4047 жыл бұрын

    when you encounter a player RUNNNNNNNN🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃 as fast as you can🏃🏃

  • @Rokinevythng14
    @Rokinevythng145 жыл бұрын

    Honestly, I feel like trying to play a player is a recipe for getting played all over again, for the simple fact that you are putting so much emotion and energy on them. And I'm certain that even if you did burn or get them back, it won't make them stop or change, hell it probably won't even really effect them all that much. They probably will still get over it fast.

  • @kimnguyen4958
    @kimnguyen49586 жыл бұрын

    Players are a waste of time period.

  • @treejay818

    @treejay818

    4 жыл бұрын

    Why is your focus on them tho that sub of yours really says alot

  • @symplypeechie6496
    @symplypeechie64965 жыл бұрын

    Life is to short to play a player. Just drop him and move on. No games, no drama. Be a grown mature person.

  • @neichathomas3539

    @neichathomas3539

    3 жыл бұрын

    🎯

  • @JC-ut7xg
    @JC-ut7xg5 жыл бұрын

    After dealing with players and playing them back, I’ve come to realize that its a waste of time realistically.

  • @AuthorJanaeMarie
    @AuthorJanaeMarie8 жыл бұрын

    You can't play someone who doesn't care. If the player doesn't give a damn about you. Why would any of this matter to them? They'll just move on to the next female.

  • @skewell55

    @skewell55

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Janae Marie Right! LOL

  • @BBC4.0

    @BBC4.0

    8 жыл бұрын

    The player isn't concerned about the person it's the game it's works because his ego is at hand

  • @luulips

    @luulips

    7 жыл бұрын

    Author Janae Marie It matters because these types can't stand to not win. Their egos make them keep trying so you sometimes have no choice but to play them the way Chazz is saying.

  • @AuthorJanaeMarie

    @AuthorJanaeMarie

    7 жыл бұрын

    luulips That still doesn't make sense. A player or narcissist won't care that you're talking to someone else because they are too. They would have to value you to some extent to have been played by you. I've dealt with someone like this. I'm quite sure if I decided to stop dealing with him he wouldn't care. I actually don't think I could play him. Because I honestly don't think he'd give a damn. Unless I'm missing something on what you're saying.

  • @AuthorJanaeMarie

    @AuthorJanaeMarie

    7 жыл бұрын

    Shantanell Wilder I don't understand why they would care or why it would bruise their ego if they don't care about the female. If one chick walks away they already have like five lined up. No harm. No foul on their part because they don't care about her anyway.

  • @Hawaiiansky11
    @Hawaiiansky113 жыл бұрын

    Step 1 - Accept the fact that you've been played. Step 2 - Go No Contact for a while; not to be petty or hurtful, but to get your own mind together, to regroup, to cool emotionally, so you can look at the situation logically. Step 3 - Start looking for other people to talk to. Step 4 - Reconnect with the player only to let them be your emotional dump. "Too bad things didn't work out for us." They will think that you still want them. They will believe that you want them back, and that they can keep the game going. Be aloof. Step 5 - Take little personal shots at them - about their appearance, or how they seem less than when you were together. Have fun with it. Step 6 - As you keep talking with others, just check in with the player from time, "Hey, what's up, player?" They will start realizing that they aren't gaining any ground with you.

  • @katharinevann7372
    @katharinevann73728 жыл бұрын

    Or why not just distance yourself- forever-move on- that works! lol

  • @shellidoll

    @shellidoll

    7 жыл бұрын

    Well I think this method is more for people who are extremely attached to the person , and struggle with moving on

  • @katharinevann7372

    @katharinevann7372

    7 жыл бұрын

    I wouldn't waste my energy....or my life!

  • @shellidoll

    @shellidoll

    7 жыл бұрын

    +katharine vann that's true. But right now I'm trying to get over a guy who played me and it's so hard I don't know what to do, but your right I don't see the point of trying to play him back

  • @katharinevann7372

    @katharinevann7372

    7 жыл бұрын

    ive been there and done it all....I just realise that it is a colossal waste of tine and energy....be kind to yourself and love yourself! There are wonderful things waiting for you if you would just distance yourself from it all and that guy x

  • @shellidoll

    @shellidoll

    7 жыл бұрын

    +katharine vann thanks for the lovely advice .. I'm doing my best to put distance from this guy, however we work at the same place so it makes it a bit challenging. But I just need to maintain my strength n not fall for him again

  • @1Skorpia
    @1Skorpia9 жыл бұрын

    love love love this video! women need to know is that once they been played- they have to emotionally disconnect but ACT like they hav feeling still. and flip it on the person that played them. use them. they are now your game piece.u dont want them anymore. ur the man chazz!:)

  • @brandyperez4656
    @brandyperez46568 жыл бұрын

    I Get played Chasing an answer and They get played chasing the win.. LMBO.. I love it...

  • @cjbrooklynrising5967
    @cjbrooklynrising59679 жыл бұрын

    This is your best video. I now fully understand this player/ target situation. I can now gauge whether I want to throw little shots or just dump on the player. I very recently had a situation where the player called me almost a year and a half later talking about "... I just wanted to say hi." He would not let me know who he was and I had completely forgotten about him. But, I was curious. He sent me little clues and I still didn't recognize who it was. I got fed up with game and told the person to stop texting me. When they wouldn't, I went into beast mode and text something horrible to him. I got a reaction and a heat filled text that jarred my memory to exactly who it was!!!!! I was so glad when I realized who it was , I was not sorry about what I had texted. He was a man that i had not dated because after several conversations i realized he was full of it and had the nerve to be condescending. I was playing a player and didn't even realize. I went to the extreme with him , after wards I felt a little guilty but when I realized ( by the words of his response.) Who it was, I was supremely happy. I dumped emotionally on him because he was being rude and that was how he had been in the past.

  • @feliciathomas9842
    @feliciathomas98429 жыл бұрын

    Throwing shade at the person? Yes, I'm here for it, lol!

  • @ronnietoni819
    @ronnietoni8198 жыл бұрын

    If I get tired of the cat and mouse game I erased the number and usually when they hit me I hit em wit da who this, usually they say Nevermind or I got the wrong number don't hear from them again or they start to explain theirselves. When they explain theirselves I lie and said you got the wrong number 😂😭 tired

  • @amandagarcia1885

    @amandagarcia1885

    7 жыл бұрын

    Ty Lioness this is me!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ronnietoni819

    @ronnietoni819

    6 жыл бұрын

    I just this the other day

  • @sunnatural1272

    @sunnatural1272

    6 жыл бұрын

    This is me too.

  • @Aquariuswonder86

    @Aquariuswonder86

    6 жыл бұрын

    I do the same thing lol 😂 just did that shit the other day lol

  • @mousemousehank9197

    @mousemousehank9197

    5 жыл бұрын

    Str8 mobbin🤣

  • @katherinapa428
    @katherinapa4288 жыл бұрын

    I loved it! Its a turning point in my life i guess, never could think of it myself, but the guy absolutely deserves this. Thank you

  • @ginajones9633
    @ginajones96336 жыл бұрын

    That was interesting and the best advice I think is the no contact. However, I can't play other people or use people. I'd rather just cut the cord, knowing that the person is just working to get me on the hook, but has no emotional connection.

  • @kemartini
    @kemartini7 жыл бұрын

    I played this game with my first love it felt good at the time to use him as bait but honestly it made me not trust anyone.

  • @Willow-iw4fp
    @Willow-iw4fp6 жыл бұрын

    This helped me find my strength today and feel better today.

  • @aqueenwaits
    @aqueenwaits7 жыл бұрын

    Two can play that game.........This is very SEXY advice.Thank you.

  • @g.h.7661
    @g.h.76616 жыл бұрын

    Just discovered your channel and I’m so happy.... you crack me up and thanks for everything you’re doing for us!

  • @memoryrinehart
    @memoryrinehart6 жыл бұрын

    So players don't have natural emotions, which kind of makes them psychopaths!?!

  • @summertime9963

    @summertime9963

    5 жыл бұрын

    Memory Rinehart YES, you are right.

  • @ghisellesimon162

    @ghisellesimon162

    4 жыл бұрын

    Y’all need to stop misleading people my best friend is a player yes he lacks common basic empathy but when he finds the right one he settle down I say this Cause my best friend is crazy about me but I when I met him I didn’t flaunt over him like the other woman I barely replied and I still ain’t give him anything I inspired him to connect with me purely without sex over his head and he has never felt that so with being said they have to find the right woman

  • @courtneysandy1609
    @courtneysandy16098 жыл бұрын

    this crazy as hell I'm tired just listening to all this lmao I can't.

  • @bunnydrop1438
    @bunnydrop14385 жыл бұрын

    This is very juvenile. The best way to deal with a "player" is to leave him in the sandbox to play with himself. The player is not worth your time or energy. Work on improving yourself and give your time to someone you like that is truly interested in you. Who has time to waste on a player who does not like you. The player is a non factor.

  • @jilchaz1200
    @jilchaz12006 жыл бұрын

    Your message well delivered. Precisely on the mark. Thank you so much for your words of encouragement. Just what I needed to lift my spirits.

  • @medizel98
    @medizel985 жыл бұрын

    Omg yes! This is totally accurate.. It works so well... I am so glad you make these videos!! Helps me so much 😁 thanks

  • @bonitami_amor56
    @bonitami_amor562 жыл бұрын

    Best way to play a player is to ignore them. Show no sign of emotion.

  • @thedustwillsettle
    @thedustwillsettle6 жыл бұрын

    "A player is eternal" damn when you said that I felt it lol

  • @jslack8973
    @jslack89737 жыл бұрын

    I love his disclaimer because this is too much energy for me to give someone who needs to be completely in my past aside from the lesson they taught me. I don't want anything to do with a player even if it means playing them....I rather heal quickly as possible and move on...time is everything

  • @lionelluva

    @lionelluva

    7 жыл бұрын

    joidice slack Agreed. They'll fail at their own game eventually.

  • @sukabletouch7819

    @sukabletouch7819

    7 жыл бұрын

    joidice slack

  • @sukabletouch7819

    @sukabletouch7819

    7 жыл бұрын

    joidice slack

  • @mommytheresa
    @mommytheresa6 жыл бұрын

    Game recognizes game

  • @simi6152

    @simi6152

    4 жыл бұрын

    Truth!

  • @veronicahamilton5513
    @veronicahamilton55136 жыл бұрын

    OMG ... I’ve been doing this without even knowing it and it works. Thanks for the validation Chazz!

  • @chynasshafritos
    @chynasshafritos7 жыл бұрын

    My thing is to cut them off and ignore them yes the player will wait it out. Psychology one has to reverse the game ignore and keep moving on. Ignore and delete their ass, get a restraining order let's see who's gonna win this immature foolish game

  • @gwadkarukera

    @gwadkarukera

    7 жыл бұрын

    c Sha . Thank you. Hell yeah.

  • @amandamagby3253

    @amandamagby3253

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly what i did!! Go away fool!! Game over!

  • @bambambi5918
    @bambambi5918 Жыл бұрын

    Youre an amazing coach! I LOVE sticking to being humble.....im gonna show the player to see that Im a person

  • @Stella-kx3lt
    @Stella-kx3lt9 жыл бұрын

    OMG!!!!! Chaz this was sooooo helpful....I appreciate you and these videos...You're the best....

  • @shaskins15
    @shaskins157 жыл бұрын

    The most insightful and informative take away from this video was regarding the true motive of the player.

  • @mmartinez7895
    @mmartinez78958 жыл бұрын

    This video is the only thing that has helped me get over my ex the player. Smart and secure as I am I always treated him as I wanted to be treated but never ever though of using him as an emotional dump to rid the frequency and move on.....very smart sir :)

  • @NikkiDLovely
    @NikkiDLovely8 жыл бұрын

    Dang. Crazy insightful how deep you went with that. You anaylzed the hell outta that! WOW. I agree that women really should just move on from a playa, but having been in the situation where feelings occurred, I also know it's important to gain yourself back from situations where you feel trapped into being someone's pawn. Luckily, I believe that the natural transition is just what CHaz spoke of. Eventually you move on, and the playa is once again attracted to winning. Best part though, is it doesn't matter to you - and YES, your confidence is restored...as petty as it may sound.

  • @chrisholland753
    @chrisholland7538 жыл бұрын

    Have listened to much advice but you are the best regarding people who play you all the best chris

  • @latindancedj
    @latindancedj9 жыл бұрын

    I won't do this but I really love how you still answer our questions!!!! Thank you

  • @wendystephens4327
    @wendystephens43276 ай бұрын

    I always remember this video and come back to it when I’m in my feelings.

  • @chiquitacyborg
    @chiquitacyborg6 жыл бұрын

    I've actually done all this stuff to an ex boyfriend over 5 years ago. I didn't learn it from anywhere. I just listen to and followed my intuition (my gutt). It came naturally.

  • @Laura70263
    @Laura702635 жыл бұрын

    This feels like reverse psychology :) I can’t imagine doing that to someone. It is a very good first person perspective on how a player sees the person that they are playing. Awesome 😎

  • @Captivatingndc
    @Captivatingndc5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the video, you always have great advice! In this case, the roles are swapped, but then you become the player. Which like you said, it’s a moral call that you’re not making, just giving people options! I respect it either way. As a woman, I think it would be hard not to catch feelings for the player again if you entertain their company at all. For me, I think ghosting them for real and not looking back was my best bet. Being happy and cutting off any and all energy really sparks the interest of these psychopaths. A psycho should be treated to the “smile, nod and run” treatment

  • @asiahobson6119
    @asiahobson61197 жыл бұрын

    I haven't tried this intentionally but I love this video! I've watched it like 12x's ATLEAST

  • @vickigaskill8238
    @vickigaskill82388 жыл бұрын

    wow just saw your post on HOW TO PLAY A PLAYER THANK -YOU SO MUCH i have been in tears and bed did't want to live OMG YOU HIT IT ON THE YES I HAVE BEEN PLAYED ! GOT OUT IF BED ON GOING THREW ON TABLET LOOKING FOR ANSWER and found you you hit it on the nose for EVERY THING YOU SAID WAS TRUE , I WILL DO EVERYTHING YOU SAID NOW I I A PLAN (FOR ME) ! HE LIVES IN ENGLAND ! ME ON A BUS TRIP TO CALIFORNIA RUSH ME FOR A DATE TO COME AND VISIT CAME 5 MONTHS LATER THAN HERE IT REALLY STARTED CAME MARCH 2015 2WKS LED ME ON NOE HE IS GETTING MARRIED BUT SAYS SHE DON'T MIND IF WE STILL KEEP IN TOUCH !!! WHAT! ! HE DOESN'T know i know who he is marrying , the girls real name he lied so now i will do like you said get myself back THANK YOU AGAIN GOD BE WITH YOU

  • @lucyjones955
    @lucyjones9558 жыл бұрын

    This is the best video ever! Do more on this subject. This was your only video on this.

  • @itsyinirodriguez
    @itsyinirodriguez7 жыл бұрын

    You are amazing! I will definitely try this right away

  • @Mila-hb1we
    @Mila-hb1we5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for your videos!

  • @mecca115able
    @mecca115able7 жыл бұрын

    oh i played my ex he cant stand it. its about his ego.

  • @whatnametoput6631

    @whatnametoput6631

    3 жыл бұрын

    Howw

  • @chaelde290
    @chaelde2909 жыл бұрын

    Thank you chaz this was right on time

  • @vilifyahuman
    @vilifyahuman7 ай бұрын

    Just got played from a woman whom I was emotionally connected to. When the flame was burning at its brightest. Bam, ghosted for 2 weeks. She comes back with I met someone else. Was emotionally KO'd. Even though I won't play the player, this has helped me gain a new understanding of what happens to me. So thank you.

  • @mariabenjamin8018
    @mariabenjamin80185 жыл бұрын

    I actually did this strategy once inadvertently and it really does work

  • @Ivianne-Marie
    @Ivianne-Marie9 жыл бұрын

    Just what i was thinking. Yes. am in this possion. So thanks i was worried but now i know that i do just fine. X Jade.

  • @askchazzellis

    @askchazzellis

    9 жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @beccanarratives
    @beccanarratives5 жыл бұрын

    Wow what you say its amazing!!!. My past player is my best friend giving me advice today😊

  • @lilybanana9610
    @lilybanana96109 жыл бұрын

    Oh the games people play

  • @piaerika4676
    @piaerika46765 жыл бұрын

    I have to say it's crazy that I found out about this video cause I experienced this exact situation last year and everything you said I did it intuitively and it did work i can tell cause I took my power back and now he a lost peace trying to be somebody even till this day.. but overall perfekt video literally its a holl powerback Strategie that definitely works and makes you stronger 💪🏾💯 keep up

  • @jelizabeth4646
    @jelizabeth46465 жыл бұрын

    LOVE THIS STRATEGY!!!! THANKS CHAZZ!

  • @gayle861
    @gayle8616 жыл бұрын

    I always won over the players, by what you said to do, they became my best guy friends, in a friend zone , they taught me how to notice players, charmers, narcissist men,and never let a man put his hands on ya ... players are good to have as guy friends .

  • @BooglesBuhle
    @BooglesBuhle8 жыл бұрын

    I have been already doing this without knowing that it is in fact a strategy! And it does work. I love your videos! Haha

  • @str5295
    @str52953 жыл бұрын

    Gahhh I love your advice and delivery. Best out there.

  • @HealingGiirlEra
    @HealingGiirlEra9 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the free game

  • @lilyjoyeux6392
    @lilyjoyeux63928 жыл бұрын

    Huh personally my time is precious i don't want to loose it by play a player

  • @dianamorataya505
    @dianamorataya5058 жыл бұрын

    wow! I have been already doing it without knowing it was an strategy to play the player!!! Thank you for your videos, they have been very helpful to me.

  • @luulips

    @luulips

    7 жыл бұрын

    Diana Morataya I have done it too without realizing it 😂 funny now that I think of it

  • @sweetcandysky1101
    @sweetcandysky11015 жыл бұрын

    1. Accept you've been played. 2. Go no contact for a while. 3. Start talking to some other dudes. 4. As you start liking someone else Start talking to the player again. 5. Emotionally dump your hurt feelings onto them. So that youll be more aloof when with the New Guy, which will make you more attractive. Because ur mind is still a little on the player. 6. Take small shots at the player. Little insults here and there. 7. As things move forward with you and the other people you are talking to, just stop calling thé player. Then use them as needed. When you are on breaks ect.

  • @Justme48813
    @Justme488135 жыл бұрын

    wow, you are awesome! i was smiling while watching this

  • @tbuss6944
    @tbuss69448 жыл бұрын

    smh...this is too funny. Thank you. I needed this cuz I landed in the driver seat and didnt even realize the control I had...now that I do...know I am gonna have fun wit it.

  • @The86Blueeyes
    @The86Blueeyes9 жыл бұрын

    Let the games begin! :P

  • @auroralaurel8091
    @auroralaurel80913 жыл бұрын

    Ace! Loving this!

  • @daijohnson8385
    @daijohnson83853 жыл бұрын

    I weak @ the player already think I’m pathetic 🤣

  • @wendydrummond2338
    @wendydrummond23386 жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much Chazz love this yours sincerely Wendy

  • @erekgamingberliner2
    @erekgamingberliner25 жыл бұрын

    Right trying to play a player is a waste of time .The best advice you can give ppl is to just leave them alone and be happy . ✌ Their so not worth it , bt i get what you saying aswell that if they just must play them back you know how to do it.

  • @junegrace508
    @junegrace5085 жыл бұрын

    The thing is ; a player, liar or cheater first has to play, lie or cheat themselves before it is imposed on anyone else - they play themselves first & foremost. The key is to Observe and vet better before picking anyone to engage with in the first place

  • @claribelnana5411
    @claribelnana54118 жыл бұрын

    You are awesome and honest

  • @mrsCollins4040
    @mrsCollins40408 жыл бұрын

    I'm a new viewer....I like the advice so far. Not to get off subject but u are extremely handsome. Keep up the good work!

  • @debbidee

    @debbidee

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Rena Lee yeah he is ; )

  • @tanitrarobinson7477

    @tanitrarobinson7477

    4 жыл бұрын

    Focus girl...he a man too...lol

  • @dorlagrant4079
    @dorlagrant40799 жыл бұрын

    You are right on point and smart too.

  • @JosephineBongani
    @JosephineBongani9 жыл бұрын

    Another great video, how long would you recommend the no contact ?

  • @echo8931
    @echo89318 жыл бұрын

    Chaz start doing seminars or a radio show. You would knock it out of the park!!!

  • @soulburning2000
    @soulburning20005 жыл бұрын

    I don't know if I like you or not but you are a bright guy.

  • @pinklimelight
    @pinklimelight8 жыл бұрын

    You are the MAN!

  • @LadyofCleves65
    @LadyofCleves656 жыл бұрын

    Love your advice.

  • @inquieteable
    @inquieteable9 жыл бұрын

    Fantastic ideas! congrats!!!

  • @sidehustletoceo
    @sidehustletoceo6 жыл бұрын

    I understand his logic in this however...playing games with a player is just as manipulative as them doing it to you. It's a waste of time and a distraction. Just let it go...give it to God...and move on.

  • @kingchosenone368

    @kingchosenone368

    6 жыл бұрын

    The smartest comment on this video. Thank you

  • @isabellamorgan7026

    @isabellamorgan7026

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@kingchosenone368 on point😉

  • @AEHudg

    @AEHudg

    5 жыл бұрын

    I mean u rite.. but I din like that.. I love God but he take too long sometimes.. I need instant gratification lol

  • @livelafnlove1545

    @livelafnlove1545

    5 жыл бұрын

    You are God. Dafuq??

  • @AEHudg

    @AEHudg

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@livelafnlove1545 it was a joke... u rite 2 give it 2 god.. its jus sometimes niggas b n they feelings and wanna c da person get got rite den... I talk hella shit but I ain't doun it.. cuz feelin guilty and not being able 2 look in the mirror is a real thing. FACTS.

  • @jordinstephens9355
    @jordinstephens93555 жыл бұрын

    I love how all of y'all are assuming we want stable relationships with these men... 😂 Like nah, I'm tryna play too, if I wanted someone with a head on their shoulders I would find one, but rn I want this loose one I found lmao it is what it is

  • @theenemisisshoww9025

    @theenemisisshoww9025

    3 жыл бұрын

    Facts they killing me like they just really moved on with no type of issue Chile boo we only human burn his house down sis 🥴🍌